The moms first mistake was just going and buying clothes vs bringing the girl with her. She seemed semi willing to compromise but wanted to pick her own stuff which is fair.
I know, right? It's like the mom didn't understand that there are modest clothing that come in different styles. Just let her come with and find clothes in her style that are still modest.
So your scared that your sons and HUSBAND would prey on your daughter if her shirt isn’t high or her skirt isn’t long.. that basically what she’s saying
I refuse to teach my future daughters (or any kid that wants to dress that way) that it’s their fault if they’re being attacked. It’s not. It’s the other person’s!
yes i totally relate to your comment, it's happening in my household as well, my mom believes men will always be men therefore i am not allowed to wear shorts or tanktops or anything of that nature at home because "dad" might get aroused. Me personally if i know my husband gets aroused seeing my own daughter in shorts then it's HIM i should get rid of, not my daughter's shorts!!!!
It doesn't make it okay especially since his family supports him etc. However. It is him hitting his mother that is unforgivable in my opinion at least. I can't stand that. It's so evil.
"The purpose of this show is to change your behavior it isn't supposed to to be about changing YOU!!!" ~Anastasia Probably one of the truest statements I've ever heard spoken on this show. 😔
Laura Grimes I think it’s because you said “could’ve have” and instead of “took” taken... not trying to be rude like the other comment but that’s what they mean
Dad: assigns chores to everyone but himself and repeatedly says “sometimes you have to do things you don’t want to do and finish the job” Me: oh so that applies to your wife and your kids but not you ok that makes perfect sense buddy
@@AC-qz3tv ik right like the WHOLE family makes money by modeling. Makes the most perfect sense the that the dad us the one who buys and earns stuff. It should have been more obvious 🙄
I feel he was grooming the boy. He couldn't keep his hands off him and the way his eyes light up while looking at him or talking to him is disgusting. It was completely different than the way he spoke to or looked at the girl. However, the girl lost her spark at some point and looks totally broken by the end so something happened to her there. I can almost guarantee it. #breakingcodesilence
Tbh I don’t understand the modest thing maybe we should teach men/boys not to perv instead of teaching girls to dress differently to what they like because male gender can’t control themselves
I think both things need to be considered. It's important to dress decently but men should also be taught to have respect for women and not treat them like sexual objects
Dad writes the "chore list" for all the kids AND his wife? She should be running the household and he should be working with her to include the "additional household maintenance" chores.
The woman in the store is so ungrateful. It’s hot for those kids that aren’t used to Florida heat. What happened to Jet Lag! I feel for them both. I believe teens should contribute where possible but not being treated with such disrespect. Respect works both ways.
They seem like nice people but total control is never going to work out when the children are older and out in the world. They’ll be clueless. Sometimes you need to expose your children to the outside world because it’s reality unfortunately and no TV I find ridiculous
Omg okay ...this family is creepy. So there was another way the mom could've addressed that "modesty rule"... she could've taken the daughter with her to buy clothes ... and her daughter was basically wearing the same thing and it was fine! Dad seems odd ... giving your wife chores, pardon me?
I must admit that their kids are very sweet but overy protective and strict parents can also lead to teens eventually rebelling. Their kids are bound to experience the real world one day and the parents won't then be able to shield them. The key is to just teach your kids right from wrong so that they can make good decisions
Yeah. If you expose them and let them grow up with all the things the real world has to offer, you have the opportunity to teach them about it and guide them. Out on their own, they won’t have those words of wisdom and they’ll take it simply as they will.
Naw!! I’m sure the children can express themselves! They would do so with calm and manners, polite words and not the disrespect that Anastasia and Eden were used to giving their parents (due to unresolved grief, anger or other activities; the drinking and partying underage)… it’s fine to curate your children’s environment and entertainment!! Especially in todays mixed up culture, total disregard for ethical standards and morals! What will they learn on tv? Fantasy, explicit content, immortality, propaganda agendas and more.
Yes, and when the kids grow and live at their own I don't know how would they do anything since someone always tell them what to do, I don't think they will be able to make decisions themselfs ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Not only is the dad creepy but he uses the word “trained” to refer to his kids like they’re animals and he makes chores for everyone INCLUDING HIS WIFE while he supposedly doesn’t do anything but order people around.
Those children (from the strict parents) have the same 'look' on their faces as my siblings and I did 48 yrs ago: we all were emotional messes as adults. We were controlled...and did not know how to 'feel real'. Bless their hearts.
I understand this completely I was controlled my whole life n I didn’t know how to be myself as an adult it was hard I have kids now and I know what not to do!
My family was similar....we were "well behaved kids of strict parents" none of us made it out okay... These kids look like they have no room to emotionally mature at an appropriate age and develop independence I hope they're okay...
There are different ways to get through to these two young people. The young man was having problems with his biological father and why his mom did not let him have his dad in his life for so long. The young lady has both parents, but needed some motivation to obey her parents and have discipline.
Discipline and encouraging strong work ethic is important, yes. Leading by example is great. Teaching blind obedience and having so much control that your children can't branch out and explore their own individual interests and become their own person is wrong. They are people, not property.
Some teens even if they try to fix things at home their parents can gaslight them, and their parents could be the toxic ones. It’s goes both ways. It’s not just 1 way.
The strict father was even using guilt tripping. Pushing the idea that saying no to their parents should make them feel bad. Saying it's embarrassing that they didn't want to do the work at the thrift shop. Those are forms of guilt tripping. That makes them even more vulnerable to potential gaslighting later on, because they're taught to that they should feel responsible for the other person's feelings.
@@Aiko-jf1lq Really?! They brought them into their lovely home, gave them nice food, didn’t yell at them, and tried to help them, but you don’t think they deserve any “respect” from the two kids for doing that?
I couldn't watch the whole thing, I felt like the husband thought he was the super boss, and all women were under him. I felt like the swap is just trading afflictions.
@@marizensoul8410 yes and I don’t like how he has his family boxed out from the world like once they get to middle school there’s not hiding music and stuff like that
That idea of "you cant say no to your mom/dad" honestly needs to be left in the past, it can cause major issues with those kids being able to set boundaries
It’s a perfectly normal thing in Christian households and just other family styles too. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to shelter your child from provocative and aggressive language. We have to respect that every family is different
@@ultrasound914 I think the person that wrote the comment meant that restricting your kids music to that extent. I mean definitely have limits to what they do and don't watch or listen to, but also let them be their own person. Overall I agree with you lol.
maybe instead of having women dress modestly, we can have men learn some common decency.If they can't handle my uncovered shoulder, that's their problem and they are the ones that need to learn respect for women. Happy pride month!
"Some of his behavior is unacceptable in front of our little girl" she's talking about him like he's not even her son, kinda see where his issues stem from
and did you noticed when they were eating,the mom the sister and the step dad were all together on one side of table and Eden was on the other side alone and sad.
Thats the problem with this generation its all about us...me me me me....but these parents raised their kids away from technology,away from pornography, away from smoking,drinking and what ever els we were raised with....they were raised helping others,praising the Lord, doing work with their hands and not with their phones....this generation is going to spend over half of their lives on their phones, rather then in the world
Both men and women should be able to wear what they want, just teach your kids self control. don't force people to wear what they don't want just because it makes you uncomfortable. that's a you problem sweetie.
@@shahee6579 yep. I totally agree that men shouldn't harrasss women, but boys and men (in general) struggle with lustful thoughts when they see girls/ladies with revealing clothes. My brother isn't a perv, and he admitted this to me.
Also the fact that the parents are like "we don't want our kids to encounter any bad influences" but have signed up to this show 😂😂😂😂 like.. what are they expecting?!
I think it's also important to confront the parents about parenting. At the end of the day, they're the biggest reason their kids act this way. Somewhere, at some time, they did something wrong, and not confronting how they parent will result in failure eventually.
@@davidgv3527 I am honestly going to reply very broadly because I forgot what the video was really about since I have terrible memory… If I remember correctly what personally made me feel very uncomfortable was the way they where talking about how the girl should dress and things like that. I am sorry I could not be more specific or of more assistance I just forgot the whole video and am to lazy to rewatch 😅.
She really wasnt even dressed provactively in this episode like people really have sick minds and sexualize it themselves. they shelter the kids like that because of their fears of what they think when they look at it.
These parents are such good people. I could tell by how patient and calm they were with those kids and both genuinely seemed so happy when the girl finally agreed to stay and paint the fence
Dude if you have totally control of your kids life they aren’t gunna survive in the real world cause they are gunna be so used to being told what to do they won’t know how to do things themselves.
In the real world your constantly being told what to do....for example at school ur told to do ur homework,projects,studytime,etc.....or if u work....ur told what to di
There are instances where that could be possible, but you don’t know these people. I think many people in the comment are mad about the traditional Christian lifestyle the family lives. It’s actually the best way to live, the mainstream has conditioned people to think its bad.
@@foodlifefamily6140 She probably assumes Florida is only made of Florida men, gators, and hurricanes. Probably just thought it’d be crazy because Well You know It’s Florida
I can't stand the parents who want to mold the kids into exactly what they want them to be. The point of raising kids, is to guide them, teach them right from wrong, and let them grow into who they want to be. I don't want my kids to be replicas of me, I want them to be themselves.
They hardly spent anytime with Anastasia 🙄 It was all about Edan the boy. Just blew me away cuz it's the only video I watched where the kids didn't get really treated equally!
They're not, they just have different standards and ways of living. These parents are strict and just so happen to be religious. They are probably the most strict and overprotective family I've seen so far on this show.
the mum seems lovely but why is her modesty excuse that the men may feel “uncomfortable”? if the men in her household and city can’t control themselves that is their issue and the girl shouldn’t need to change for mens needs !
the thing I love about English tv is that no matter how new the video is, it still looks like it was filmed in 2002
Its old episodes
these aren’t new lmao they’re from the 2000s
These were filmed in the 2000s...
British tv now is filmed exactly how it is in somewhere like America.
Nah this is circa 2008, look at that razor flip phone
So true
Dad: we train/trained our kids...
Me: RAISED!! It’s called raised!
Iva Marie they aren’t animals and then at that he says I give my wife chores to do while he doesn’t do anything 😐
you train dogs but raise children
He obviously mean discipline. Something these kids lack.
@Decks RanRed old terms still work lol
smh when he said that they train their kids it felt like they were talking about animals or pets not human beings
"Anastasia will not be welcomed back into the bosom of the family until she covers hers.."
LOL who came up with that line?!
The moms first mistake was just going and buying clothes vs bringing the girl with her. She seemed semi willing to compromise but wanted to pick her own stuff which is fair.
I know, right? It's like the mom didn't understand that there are modest clothing that come in different styles. Just let her come with and find clothes in her style that are still modest.
@Vkng Wmn Well, I don't agree with that, but I respect your opinion.
@Vkng Wmn she is not 7 yo
Yup
@@claire7322 where
So your scared that your sons and HUSBAND would prey on your daughter if her shirt isn’t high or her skirt isn’t long.. that basically what she’s saying
The mom is seriously out of her mind. The dad too.
I refuse to teach my future daughters (or any kid that wants to dress that way) that it’s their fault if they’re being attacked. It’s not. It’s the other person’s!
Smh.. Are u serious??? Shows how demented your thinking is...
yes i totally relate to your comment, it's happening in my household as well, my mom believes men will always be men therefore i am not allowed to wear shorts or tanktops or anything of that nature at home because "dad" might get aroused. Me personally if i know my husband gets aroused seeing my own daughter in shorts then it's HIM i should get rid of, not my daughter's shorts!!!!
@@pershaazhak1651 absolutely disgusting, I feel for you.
Okay, but this is the first episode I’ve seen where the kids actions make sense. Eden isn’t a bad kid, he’s just very very angry at the world.
so true. and he just feels so out of place in his home, creating the anger.
It doesn't make it okay especially since his family supports him etc. However. It is him hitting his mother that is unforgivable in my opinion at least. I can't stand that. It's so evil.
Basically he’s a teenager
@@BigDawg31675 yeah whatever. He would be picking himself up off the floor.
So that justifies his behaviour then? @@BigDawg31675
The dad gives chores to everyone but himself and he does nothing? That ain’t right.
Yea, and he expects people to just let it go 😂
He works like many men do
@@shahee6579 so what, my dad works but he still does chores and cooks
Yeah especially since he’s home all day.
I completely DOUBT that he does nothing.
Eden looks like he can be the strict family’s biological son honestly
So true
Said the same as soon as they hugged!!
Yesss
I know right
I know
"The purpose of this show is to change your behavior it isn't supposed to to be about changing YOU!!!" ~Anastasia
Probably one of the truest statements I've ever heard spoken on this show. 😔
But the way you behave is part of who you are
@@rissarose781 behaviour and identity do define "you" but they are different
Absolutely
She’s correct
Agree !
She could've have easily just took the kid with her to get clothes that they could agree on
that would be too easy
@@francesgillotti1378 🤣 whys that?
Nah. That would mean that the kid actually gets to express herself as an individual. Blind obedience is preferred here.
Laura Grimes I think it’s because you said “could’ve have” and instead of “took” taken... not trying to be rude like the other comment but that’s what they mean
@@laloochie4783 oh I didnt even realize I did that
Ok but Edens mom is separating him and his sister, especially when she said “our little girl” and not referring her as his sister
I noticed that as well.
That’s the first thing I noticed. He said he feels out of place in the home, I wonder why...
Eden’s mom is wrong af for that! And she wonders why she’s having issues with her child. 🙄
Yep 100% picked up in that it was mean.
Fr no wonder he says he felt that he wasn’t apart of the family
“Well what are you doing , you’re not doing anything , you go paint the fence” .. damn right 😭💀
Guarantee she would've painted the fence if he would've painted it with her. It's called lead by example.
he gives chores to his wife? excuse me?
Yeah. It's creepy.
thats what i was thinking...
That is so bothersome
Do you expect her to just lay around all day. The man is the head of the house.
@@tiffany8946 I'm sure she could figure out what needs to be done by herself, she is an adult
Cant wrap your kids in bubble wrap forever...
This right here 👍
exactly, you protecting ur kids is not going to do them any good, tbh it may be even bad seeing as the wouldn't know anything about the real world
@@jackwynne2823 ye I rlly didn't want to think about it so I just used that, it's easier, and I'm lazy
@@shalomebasta632, Ok lol
So true
Dad: assigns chores to everyone but himself and repeatedly says “sometimes you have to do things you don’t want to do and finish the job”
Me: oh so that applies to your wife and your kids but not you ok that makes perfect sense buddy
He works you idiot , he's the one who bought the house,the car, the bills, that's more than chores
@@AC-qz3tv ik right like the WHOLE family makes money by modeling. Makes the most perfect sense the that the dad us the one who buys and earns stuff. It should have been more obvious 🙄
The dad’s job is to keep the chairs warm.
I guess the way they operate is Lindsey is the manager who takes on the mental load and everybody else does the actual work?
Still waiting for one where the teens fall in love
Lmao same 😂
That would be the best episode tbh😂😂😂
Slurpy malgz agreed 😌✨
There was one - teen had crush on her American ‘brother’ - can’t remember the episode.
Rosemary Hale - Ohio episode
The dad gives me the creeps.
I feel he was grooming the boy. He couldn't keep his hands off him and the way his eyes light up while looking at him or talking to him is disgusting. It was completely different than the way he spoke to or looked at the girl. However, the girl lost her spark at some point and looks totally broken by the end so something happened to her there. I can almost guarantee it. #breakingcodesilence
He just makes sure he stays in control of his family.
Init
Yeah me too...The second he saw the boy he gave me the creeps lol.
Yeah! Don’t know why I felt that he looked sinister! Even his wife had no warmth...they both looked scary to me!
These two are you one of the few teens who didn't crave cigarettes or alcohol. They just had attitudes.
lmaooo ana was making sooo many points to the dad “animals get trained” “you’re not doing anything” like he was so stumped when she told him that lol
I thought that was funny too, I guess he would say' I do boss work, plus delegating' LOL!! He wants to run his own mini empire.
She’s right, you train animals and teach kids
@@alisondye7372she’s unteachable at this point iMO.
@@alisondye7372- you teach and guide your children.
@@cinflishman4116 Exactly!
These kids honesty arent that bad they just need to learn respect.
They r in between
Periodt
And like - work = money = clothes and stuff.
@T Erhhh Is that true?
@T Erhhh she said he poked him not hit him like 😐
It’s sad that absentee fathers not only get away from responsibilities, but the Mum has to suffer the anger from the child.
Tbh I don’t understand the modest thing maybe we should teach men/boys not to perv instead of teaching girls to dress differently to what they like because male gender can’t control themselves
Agreed
People can wear what they want and people can look at who they want.
I think both things need to be considered. It's important to dress decently but men should also be taught to have respect for women and not treat them like sexual objects
@@noelsmaison685 facts
The Engineer from Risk of Rain 2 yeah but it’s their home so their rules
Dad writes the "chore list" for all the kids AND his wife? She should be running the household and he should be working with her to include the "additional household maintenance" chores.
Where is the Dads list???
Jennylyn Wall He doesn’t have one. As Anna said he does nothing whilst everyone else has to work
@@ambrosiaaa9064 and who do you suppose fixes things that are broken and pays the bills?
Tiffany he can still help out his children
Tiffany Women are able to do that
The woman in the store is so ungrateful. It’s hot for those kids that aren’t used to Florida heat. What happened to Jet Lag! I feel for them both. I believe teens should contribute where possible but not being treated with such disrespect. Respect works both ways.
my issue was the fact that they were unpaid and not actual willing volunteers, it was unpaid work that she didn’t want to do.
@@squidneythesquid2487 you dont get payed for working in charity shops
Then you're no different then the ungrateful teens in the video.
@@cowboyfunkk yes you ďo get paid for Working in charity shops.
@@cowboyfunkk yes… that was the point … u voluntary do it…. They didn’t volunteer
Lol her daughter was scantlier clad than the teen girl! Just flat chested lol
skinny girls always got away with breaking dress code at school !!
Yeah, I feel like the girl was called out because she's a bit bustier. Although the mom's daughter was wearing the same thing.
They seem like nice people but total control is never going to work out when the children are older and out in the world. They’ll be clueless. Sometimes you need to expose your children to the outside world because it’s reality unfortunately and no TV I find ridiculous
I agree!
@@Sweetsam013 Agreed
Agreed. Family does not live in the 21st-century. 95% of today’s society is Tecnology
I agree
I agree, like at least let them listen to their own music and have their own friends
Omg okay ...this family is creepy. So there was another way the mom could've addressed that "modesty rule"... she could've taken the daughter with her to buy clothes ... and her daughter was basically wearing the same thing and it was fine! Dad seems odd ... giving your wife chores, pardon me?
Dad is iso lazy and weird
Yea but their daughters didn't have what to show in the first place
That blonde has those big things while the daughter has mosquito bites
@@home_baked6891this is an incredibly weird comment for you to make for various reasons.
@@home_baked6891And if men can show ours then women can show theirs
I must admit that their kids are very sweet but overy protective and strict parents can also lead to teens eventually rebelling.
Their kids are bound to experience the real world one day and the parents won't then be able to shield them. The key is to just teach your kids right from wrong so that they can make good decisions
This is completely true. You cant keep your kids protected for ever. Teach them to make good decisions and they and prepare them for what you can.
Yep I agree
@@michaelmiller5718 overly protected kids can alao develop mental diaorders similarly to kids whos parents dont care about them
Yes and they need to learn to experience what its like outside family dynamics so they can be self sufficient when they become independent.
Yeah. If you expose them and let them grow up with all the things the real world has to offer, you have the opportunity to teach them about it and guide them. Out on their own, they won’t have those words of wisdom and they’ll take it simply as they will.
Anna is actually really smart. She is saying really logical things and learning
Yeah she did GCSE so that means she’s above average.
Are you kidding? 😂 if that’s really smart, then I’m a genius.
honestly, especially with the 'dogs get trained'
Anyone else notice the oldest brother carrying the girls suitcase to her room for the week? That’s so sweet.
“dogs get trained, animals get trained not children”
👏akant
Children need home training, discipline, rules, boundaries so that they know how to become successful adults.
Food, Life, Family yeah but when he said trained instead of raised it kinda creeped me out
@@Disha-kn7ym yup
@@Disha-kn7ym yes he gave me creepy vibes I feel he’s grooming his sons it’s so scary
@@foodlifefamily6140 "Trained" doesn't sound like the best word to use though. Raised and taught sounds better.
plot twist : that’s eden’s long lost dad that’s why he felt an immediate connection to him.
He met his dad before tho so that's not possible
@@sugar_- iza joke..
Lmao
That man looks like the boy
They look sooo alike too tbh
These parents are borderline forbidding their kids to express themselves, with their control in music, clothing, and language and what they do
I know it’s disgusting
Yes I love music and my fave shows. Idk what I’d do without being able to listen to my fave song
Not letting their kids watch TV, where they can learn about what goes on in the world.
We only listen to Christian music how about nooo and TV I don't watch it I watch yt
Naw!! I’m sure the children can express themselves! They would do so with calm and manners, polite words and not the disrespect that Anastasia and Eden were used to giving their parents (due to unresolved grief, anger or other activities; the drinking and partying underage)… it’s fine to curate your children’s environment and entertainment!! Especially in todays mixed up culture, total disregard for ethical standards and morals! What will they learn on tv? Fantasy, explicit content, immortality, propaganda agendas and more.
its so disgusting to teach kids to just blindly listen to what other people tell them.
That’s not going to end well in other real-life situations.
Their basically teaching their kids to be push overs
Yes, and when the kids grow and live at their own I don't know how would they do anything since someone always tell them what to do, I don't think they will be able to make decisions themselfs ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This couple is too rigid for me. What does the husband do after he’s made up chores for others.
Period
Why doesn’t the dad do the chores like the mum is doing it
exactly.
Cus he’s a control freak living in the time period where men were workers and women were house keepers and baby boomers. Change my mind.
@@tatermctot5895 yup
I don’t know but I find it selfish and hypocritical.
He doesn't need to do chores. He's the reason their bills are paid and food is on the table.
Not only is the dad creepy but he uses the word “trained” to refer to his kids like they’re animals and he makes chores for everyone INCLUDING HIS WIFE while he supposedly doesn’t do anything but order people around.
i think he's been military.
what about Personal Trainers? they're training people
@caro2233 to properly exercise and eat right not Bark orders you will do this or you will face punishment
Omg thank you glad I'm not the only one who thought he was creepy
It's good to have healthy boundaries but I feel the parents have gone overboard.
!! you have to teach your kids and if they don’t listen let them.Learn from your mistakes not what others say
Can't stand the parents.
These families need *Supernanny* !!
They need therapists more like! 😂
Yup
They need Mary Poppins lol 😂
UwU haha yes
Mhm hmm
The way the mom laughs and smiles scares me 😂
Those children (from the strict parents) have the same 'look' on their faces as my siblings and I did 48 yrs ago: we all were emotional messes as adults. We were controlled...and did not know how to 'feel real'. Bless their hearts.
They are sweet, beautiful children.
I understand this completely I was controlled my whole life n I didn’t know how to be myself as an adult it was hard I have kids now and I know what not to do!
No these kids are respectful to their parents. It’s okay to have strict parents.
My family was similar....we were "well behaved kids of strict parents" none of us made it out okay...
These kids look like they have no room to emotionally mature at an appropriate age and develop independence
I hope they're okay...
these glassy eyes are often seen in cults
Talks to the boy like it's his son but if the girl doesnt want to he just tells her to do it anyways
There are different ways to get through to these two young people. The young man was having problems with his biological father and why his mom did not let him have his dad in his life for so long. The young lady has both parents, but needed some motivation to obey her parents and have discipline.
I cried when the boy's mum was telling how he treats her. She's always been there for him
Discipline and encouraging strong work ethic is important, yes. Leading by example is great. Teaching blind obedience and having so much control that your children can't branch out and explore their own individual interests and become their own person is wrong. They are people, not property.
I also do not like it when people say "do not talk back to me." Often children will ask genuine questions. Children need to learn how to think as well
Well said
Perfectly said
@@alexkennedy1820I agree, my parents sometimes say that I’m back talking when I simply just ask them why they won’t let me do or buy certain things
Some teens even if they try to fix things at home their parents can gaslight them, and their parents could be the toxic ones. It’s goes both ways. It’s not just 1 way.
I swear thats my life . This episode actually disturbs me 🙄
This is so true. Basically my entire life
The strict father was even using guilt tripping. Pushing the idea that saying no to their parents should make them feel bad. Saying it's embarrassing that they didn't want to do the work at the thrift shop. Those are forms of guilt tripping. That makes them even more vulnerable to potential gaslighting later on, because they're taught to that they should feel responsible for the other person's feelings.
@@RisaPlays Right and at the thrift store he even said “this is for children’s funds” like ok?
Eden's mom does not do that to him.
“dogs get trained, animals get trained, not children” 💯✋🏾
I'm sure she thought it was smart. It wasn't kids get trained too, we just call it teaching to be polite.
@@JohnDoe-ty4jh it was smart
There is the scripture about training your child up in the ways he should go and he will not depart from it.
Why do i feel like the dad is his real dad who left him🤭
wattpad plot twists:
Right they look so much alike
I was think that..
He met his dad so that wouldn't make sense really
@@sugar_- wait when did he meet his dad
is it just me or are they like dressed modestly anyway?!!
Yesssss
Also girls can't help their bodies.. teach your young men not to ogle lol.
No
Yess i see nothing wrong
Yes!, They are dressed modestly.
Those kids are gonna end up being with an abusive partner and not realize it because of the way they were parented
The dads demands respect but don’t give none
yeah this parents demand respect but like for what? What did you do to demand my respect
They do respect them, the parents literally treated them with all the respect and never raised their voice but rather reasoned with them
@@Aiko-jf1lq
Really?! They brought them into their lovely home, gave them nice food, didn’t yell at them, and tried to help them, but you don’t think they deserve any “respect” from the two kids for doing that?
the dad gives me “perv pastor” vibes
IKR‼️‼️‼️
Yup
yeeeee
YES YES THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING
I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME HES SO WEIRD
Domestic violence is such an underestimated issue
I watch these because the parents are hilariously STUPIDLY strict😂
I couldn't watch the whole thing, I felt like the husband thought he was the super boss, and all women were under him. I felt like the swap is just trading afflictions.
The only thing I don't like is his lack of respect for his wife. He likes control. He talks mildly to his children, and reasons with them!
@@marizensoul8410 yes and I don’t like how he has his family boxed out from the world like once they get to middle school there’s not hiding music and stuff like that
These parents are actually strict. In other episodes that I watch the parents are pretty chill, it's the kids that overreact.
@@MS-ez8sm there is something wrong with the parents.
So, basically, that family believes in changing the girl's clothing rather than the boys' behavior?
Edit: thanks for the 3000 likes
They both need to changing them but they are focusing on the girls clothes and her attitude
@@caram3l yup
Yup
It pissed me off so much when I heard it
Exactly instead of telling the girl to change her outfits why doesn't she tell the boy the keep it in his pants🤢
That idea of "you cant say no to your mom/dad" honestly needs to be left in the past, it can cause major issues with those kids being able to set boundaries
Kids should Never say NO to there Mom unless they are being asked to do something criminal or vile. Chores, dressing appropriately, etc. is NOT Vile.
@@brendaarnold8485 They're allowed to have opinions, they're not puppets they're people.
R we jus not gonna talk abt how fine the oldest brother is.... like um
Wait? It's possible to find people hot even when dresses modestly 🤭
😃😃😃
@@avadallamura4269 I can't😂😂😂
EXACTLY
For real !
Limiting your child’s music isn’t right
Exactly. I would love to see them react to some of Prince's songs like Darling Nikki for example.
It’s a perfectly normal thing in Christian households and just other family styles too. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to shelter your child from provocative and aggressive language. We have to respect that every family is different
the world : restricting your child music isn't right
also the world : not our fault your kids hear vulgar content WATCH YOUR KIDS.
Exactly! This is messed up!
@@ultrasound914 I think the person that wrote the comment meant that restricting your kids music to that extent. I mean definitely have limits to what they do and don't watch or listen to, but also let them be their own person. Overall I agree with you lol.
maybe instead of having women dress modestly, we can have men learn some common decency.If they can't handle my uncovered shoulder, that's their problem and they are the ones that need to learn respect for women. Happy pride month!
@Don K is this sung to the tune of “Milkshake”? 🤷🏽♀️
Yes i agree with this
Did you see the look Anastasia gave the mum when she laughed about the clothing in the rules 😂😂😂
mr linsey : he feels like my son
me : omg he never meet his real dad omgggggg
The way the mom looked at him! Lol 'that's so sweet", rolls eyes
he did meet his dad is you actually paid attention
lxl Despair lxl no I didn’t
@@daloolaaa you didn't pay attention?
lxl Despair lxl no lol 😂
"Some of his behavior is unacceptable in front of our little girl" she's talking about him like he's not even her son, kinda see where his issues stem from
and did you noticed when they were eating,the mom the sister and the step dad were all together on one side of table and Eden was on the other side alone and sad.
Yes, instead of saying our girl, how about his sister
@@annaconway313 exactly!
With the stuff I watch and things I listen too read. I would not be able too survive with this family..
The moms laugh is cringe
Me too, i can't live without tv
Thats the problem with this generation its all about us...me me me me....but these parents raised their kids away from technology,away from pornography, away from smoking,drinking and what ever els we were raised with....they were raised helping others,praising the Lord, doing work with their hands and not with their phones....this generation is going to spend over half of their lives on their phones, rather then in the world
@@serenityhernandez7769 Yep
Right. I identify with Anastasia here lol these parents are crazy and I feel so blessed my parents were and are so cool.
@@serenityhernandez7769 rather do that lmao those kids are going to be push overs.
This entire family makes me VERY uncomfortable. If I was raised like that I would lash out once I was set free.
Sameeee
Agree
They seem very isolated, existing only to please the dad... CREEEPYY!!
@@johanneabelsen1644 fr
I hope the kids don't drink Kool Ade while they're there.
To be honest the teens in this episode are literally some of the best on the show, its the families that are vile.
“In front of our little girl” it makes it seem like she doesn’t even like her own kid or think of him as her own
Kinda feels like part of the reason he's so upset and rebellious I felt so bad for him😅
Both men and women should be able to wear what they want, just teach your kids self control. don't force people to wear what they don't want just because it makes you uncomfortable. that's a you problem sweetie.
These comments always come from women . You don't understand men
@@shahee6579 yep. I totally agree that men shouldn't harrasss women, but boys and men (in general) struggle with lustful thoughts when they see girls/ladies with revealing clothes. My brother isn't a perv, and he admitted this to me.
@@lindapirie7021 yes but as long as they don’t act on it idc
Yes definitely
Fine. Then I'll stand around naked when you're trying to eat your dinner.
I loved the way the dad kept his cool and held it together he never raised his voice he really had great composer about his self
Also the fact that the parents are like "we don't want our kids to encounter any bad influences" but have signed up to this show 😂😂😂😂 like.. what are they expecting?!
He had me at "chores list for my wife"
“So you’re saying no to me, twice in 1 day.” 😂😂😂 he was bouta have an emotional breakdown 😭
if I breathed on my parent I will be deleted from reality and the memories of me in people’s heads will be deleted.
My mom's not that strict she's pretty cool but she works all the time
Ahahahahaha
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same my mom got mad at me for calling my friend an idiot 😂
*Florida man takes in two troubled teens*
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
…and the two teens left more troubled than when they came.
they should rename this show "putting vulnerable children into abusive environments until it breaks them"
Yes
This episode especially
Yes
They are there to change their attitude not what they wear ffs
Part of changing their attitude is learning that you need to obey the rules proper to the environment.
the mom was excited to see her reaction and it lowkey made me sad lol
I think she was really aware of the cameras
I think it's also important to confront the parents about parenting. At the end of the day, they're the biggest reason their kids act this way. Somewhere, at some time, they did something wrong, and not confronting how they parent will result in failure eventually.
💯💯💯👍👍👍
This family is so openly sexist it actually made me so mad
So glad it wasn’t just me😐
Yes it made me so uncomfortable. It seems as though they still believe in gender roles.
Fr
How?
@@davidgv3527 I am honestly going to reply very broadly because I forgot what the video was really about since I have terrible memory… If I remember correctly what personally made me feel very uncomfortable was the way they where talking about how the girl should dress and things like that. I am sorry I could not be more specific or of more assistance I just forgot the whole video and am to lazy to rewatch 😅.
Eden looks more like the dad than his actual kids.
I know I was like has he ever been to England lol 😂
Plot twist
@Skunky Stinkerson wouldn’t this theory imply that the dad slept around lol
Lol he reunited with his long lost son😂
1 min in and He tells us 'chores for his wife! ' geez.
This family was very calm in many ways, but I can’t believe them banning tv and certain movies
Well it’s working for them
TV rots your brain. Their kids are 1million% better off.
@@deborahrobinson9718 not really
@@tiffany8946 yeah and youtube is G R E A T ;) hahahah
@@tiffany8946 Depends what they are watching
"No short shorts"
Their daughter is literally wearing them
And shorts are meant to be short it's in the name
Otherwise it's not even shorts🤡
No one said they can't wear shorts. They said no short shorts. Two very different things.
@@Kim_the_menace No, you need to wear knee high jorts.
@@JohnDoe-ty4jh why tf have you been so combative in your hundreds of replies in this comment section? No one wants to hear you let alone cares.
She really wasnt even dressed provactively in this episode like people really have sick minds and sexualize it themselves. they shelter the kids like that because of their fears of what they think when they look at it.
I can't believe Eden would physically hurt his mom 😔 seeing the pain on her face actually tear up😭
anastasia seems so nice and they were so mean to her for no reason especially that lady from the thrift store
fr they were taking advantage of her.
These parents are such good people. I could tell by how patient and calm they were with those kids and both genuinely seemed so happy when the girl finally agreed to stay and paint the fence
Dude if you have totally control of your kids life they aren’t gunna survive in the real world cause they are gunna be so used to being told what to do they won’t know how to do things themselves.
In the real world your constantly being told what to do....for example at school ur told to do ur homework,projects,studytime,etc.....or if u work....ur told what to di
Do*
I don’t like that American dad, something about him is predatory
There are instances where that could be possible, but you don’t know these people. I think many people in the comment are mad about the traditional Christian lifestyle the family lives. It’s actually the best way to live, the mainstream has conditioned people to think its bad.
@@foodlifefamily6140 lmao bruh you did not just say that 💀 "the best way to live"
@@foodlifefamily6140 I mean I do not find it the best way
Yup
What?! He’s so kind and sweet.
I feel so glad they are not my parents. And also sorry for all the kids who had to deal with the parents like those. I hope their kids will recover.
The boys literally 19 i cant licne to his own music
@Iva Marie No, i dont think he chooses to do that, more like this is what he has known his whole life, he doesn't know anything more than that.
What are you saying ?
Yeah it would be much better for him to shag all weekend drink till he passes out and smoke weed to get to sleep at night
@@shahee6579 chill, the person was only talking about listening to music that you may like not doing these things
It's called listen not licne
Oh God....... It's FLORIDA.
Ariabella Musumeci Florida isn’t actually that bad. I’ve lived here my whole life lmao
What’s that supposed to mean?
@@foodlifefamily6140 She probably assumes Florida is only made of Florida men, gators, and hurricanes. Probably just thought it’d be crazy because
Well
You know
It’s Florida
My heart broke when the mom started crying when she said he hits his hands on her. 💔
I can't stand the parents who want to mold the kids into exactly what they want them to be. The point of raising kids, is to guide them, teach them right from wrong, and let them grow into who they want to be. I don't want my kids to be replicas of me, I want them to be themselves.
Agreed like I won't listen to any Christian music it's dumb
So agree with you
❤
Exactly
But thats how kids are spoiled.
I would be more worried about those parents than the kids that was sent there
Do you mean the bad kids parents?
They hardly spent anytime with Anastasia 🙄 It was all about Edan the boy. Just blew me away cuz it's the only video I watched where the kids didn't get really treated equally!
Why are all these families cult like
Ikr.
Any pretty religious family is cult like in some way, shape, or form. I’m going through it
@@Muni_Puni yup
They're not, they just have different standards and ways of living. These parents are strict and just so happen to be religious. They are probably the most strict and overprotective family I've seen so far on this show.
There was one who actually turned out to be clut idk which one
I want to know where the “strict kids” are nowadays
these ones definitely have religious trauma lmao
Probably not knowing how to talk to people and have poor social skills with dealing with people who aren’t like them 😸
Isn't anyone gonna talk about how beautiful the daughter of the strict family is?
This family is giving me cult energy
Same
Definitely ! With the guru at the top being serviced and controling everybody.
The familys kids blinked twice they need help
U may not like these parents for some of their rules but you have to admire the fact of how calm and collected they stayed the whole time
the mum seems lovely but why is her modesty excuse that the men may feel “uncomfortable”? if the men in her household and city can’t control themselves that is their issue and the girl shouldn’t need to change for mens needs !
It's the men with the problem.
Yes!
Yes!