Unlike the other episodes, these teens haven't secretly gone out smoking, haven't gone out drinking, and aren't going bonkers at school. Worst they did was get close to each other, the mother is overreacting
@@eleanorhardy683She did overreact... How are the supposed to find husbands or wife's if they dont have boyfriends or girlfriends... arrange marriage ? Now thats not morally correct is it ?
@@maddek5182 its not morally correct with their culture. over there you go out and find your boyfriend/girlfriend in the mid 20's not arranged marriage
@@eleanorhardy683 who says "you people"when talking about literally anything that is disgusting language honestly. Its literaly rude and instead of talking out your concerns/diffrences you have to start with micro aggersions and disrespect, Gross.
They disrespected the rules and the culture of the people they were staying with. Rude. It was only 8 days. I think their precious little psyches could have survived 8 days of respect for another way of living.
@@yes2day100 they were being respectful the mom literally got so mad when the girl took her pants off to swim she was still wearing the coverup the mom said she was cheaping herself which is dumb
I felt so bad for the girl .. all she did was take off her pants to go in the water then she put them back on getting out smh. That’s just ridiculous why even go to the beach
@@rosegoldbanks4842 Fr the grandma even said it , it’s the parents lack of discipline they let them kids walk all over them it’s partly the parents to blame for why there kids turned out that way my mother raised me to be respectful I would never disrespect my mother like that the parents act as if there scared of them like whattttt😭
Stephen was very supportive of Lizzie when she was upset by being shamed by the mother. watching them grow close and support each other through the unfair treatment was very sad.
Grow up. It's not home your and you're certainly no one to judge others. If you're told not to do something, you either comply or fly your azz back to your Mommy's, that simple.
The unfair treatment?!?😂😂😂 Tough love isn't always unfair treatment!!! And CLEARLY the teens weren't traumatized by her, they actually grew to love that mom!!!! Our kids nowadays are given far too much, for them doing nothing to deserve it. That's some of the reason our world is like it is!!!!
it annoys me how they were just sitting doing homework, they cant hug, they cant hang out on the bed, and they are having to go to church and get their beliefs forced on them. they weren't that bad of people.
Honestly, these kids did nothing wrong, didn't complain, all they did was try to be friends and find some fun in the situation and they got shamed for it. They deserve better
I find it really conflicting... everyone says that African parents are really strict, teenagers are not allowed to do this or that.. but nevetheless, teenage unwed moms are really common in many countries in Africa.. no matter how strict or conservative the parents are. So obviously it doesn't help. Being restrictive isn't always the best approach to build character and responsible behavior...
Different culture. Over there, they would be shocked at the behaviour of the girl. People need to remember that something which may be ok to you is not ok to other people. Personally, I don't understand why someone would sign up to go to another country and obey the rules of another household, then get upset when those rules aren't their own. Respect the law of the land. The girl was in the wrong because she was disobeying the rules of that environment. You can't go somewhere and tell everyone to speak your language, unless you're there to colonise and impose your beliefs.
@@tharcisse7103 "People need to remember that something which may be ok to you is not ok to other people" yes,as long as they arent hurting others. If you get offended the way someone dresses, uses make up or modifies their body, that is YOUR problem. somethign you gotta deal with, not something the other person needs to fix to make you comfortable.
@@sntt3404 The person with the problem was the girl. If you go to another country by choice and are hurt by the rules of the land, that's YOUR fault. She could've just refused to do the programme instead of getting offended by their customs. The truth is, women who do that in those countries are viewed as prostitutes. Girls who do that stuff are taken advantage of and don't have the level of infrastructure we have in the UK to help them when they fall victim to the dangers of life. The mother was simply protecting her. Back home, she can take advantage of the systems that keep her safe without her having to do anything. In Africa, that same mentality and behaviour can very quickly destroy your life. Before judging people, maybe look at the context of where they are and why they take those stances.
I don’t understand why the mom was so mad when she took off her trousers, like what else was she meant to do? Get them wet and be cold for the rest of the day? She left her shirt on and it wasn’t even revealing.
You can “ maintain structure” yes but to gain the structure and discipline it often requires more work and enforcing rules. The teenagers act like kids. With little kids you have to sometimes point to every little toy that they need to cleanup.
That woman is too much! Those kids didn’t even do anything wrong, and they are more respectful than any of the other kids that I’ve seen on this show! That mom is in the wrong! Completely! She is making it bad when it was completely innocent!
Say what you will about the Ghanaian mom's parenting style, but the fact can't be denied that both Steph and Lizzy walked away having loved their experience-and even wanted to remain there with them!!
Well said❤ The fact that they cried and embraced each other at the end. Even having expressed their desire to return, is evidence to how much influence the Ghanaian family had on the teens. Love to the older sister too😊.
@Mr. Sahal E. M. Patel For example she told the girl that she was cheapening herself by dating but never said that to the guy when she was talking to him about dating instead she told him that girls are easy. The rules about clothing were also much stricter for the girl.
@Mr. Sahal E. M. Patel bruh you’re replying to every comment with “how?”. If you’re so dense you can’t notice the misogyny toward Liz, I’m surprised your can even read. Like seriously you have 2 brain cells left and are refusing to use any of them.
When they come back from school and lizzie calls the baby and says "Oi, hug" 23:58 i think that was so sweet 🥺 and the baby wanted Stephan. 😢 They both are sweet and kind they just needed correct parenting.
right!? this so tame on the kids behaviour compared to other episodes. I don't know what the kids problems even were? That they didn't do chores and dated? Isn't that all teenagers lol!
Yeah cause they don't allow kids to grow up or make their own decisions in Africa their parents make all the decisions for them so she really is mentally still 12-13
She’s a victim as well. Doesn’t excuse it of course but she treats people that way because that’s how SHE’s been treated her whole life. She doesn’t know anything else.
The exploitation of these teens and their emotions is disgusting and the fact that they let the mum say she was cheapening herself is disgusting they are ment to look after them. But I'm still going to watch this show 🤣
These teens wanted to sign up for this junk because their narcissistic behinds wanted their 5 seconds of fame and thought they were getting vacations. Several of them have even admitted it. I agree that television shows would exploit teens, but many of these teens also thought they were going to have it as easy as they did back home. Maybe now that girl will appreciate that her mother doesn't belittle her or look down on her or call her cheap.
I think that it would be ok for them to date each other as long as they had boundaries. Some parents are too strict. I think they would be perfect together.
They should know that The teens are British and they'll be more comfortable around each other. This goes with any race or nationality. They'll be more comfortable with themselves than other race specially when they have to do homework. Because each countries' education system is different from that of others.
So all these kids would do is not be morning people and not help around the house as much as they should? Aka normal teenagers? And they got sent to this demon spawn?
Fr, my parents would threaten to send us back to Africa (we are West African living in the uk) and I'd be all like "No that's fine, I'll do my work we dont need to talk about going back :)" These kids parents took that threat literally 😭
The African lady is wise, i like the advice she gave these people. I wish i had such moral civilized parents and not Westen like parents who act like they care but really dont.
I guess this mum could talk to the girl in private and politely if she really wanted her to understand her point of view and change something in her behavior and clothing and install some selfworth in her. Rather she talks to her from hight and with arrogance in front of others as well which actually means putting her down and making her feel small and humiliated or behind her back even.
Of course they didn’t. They were attention starved. Their parents give them whatever they want but don’t really seem to care about them. That’s why so many people end up in abusive friendships, relationships, etc..
I find the way the mum spoke to the girl, frankly disgusting. Her belittling and degrading comments making her feel ashamed of NOTHING/her sexuality is horrible.
I am glad I watched it through to the end - usually, I’m rolling my eyes at the strict parents. I started out thinking the mum was awful, but I was bawling my eyes out at the goodbye and that she reached out to the kids’ families on the phone was incredible. They were sweet kids.
This mother is completely overreacting. She really hurt that girl's feelings for enjoying herself at the beach and being social with the only person who she could relate to 😢
In traditional cultures, there are certain exceptions for how young people are supposed to behave. In western culture, we see this behavior as normal, but in other cultures, it's respectful to abide by the rules of the host and larger society.
@@Mary-1493 You can't really judge different cultures through the same lense. I don't condone mistreatment, but these rules seem reasonable enough to me, especially considering the kids are only there visiting.
I think because the mother is always on the lookout for sexual behaviour, she reads the note to support her viewpoint. Having known African people here in Australia, they have trouble assimilating because their discipline methods are against the law.
Why is it that parents typically try to *control* their kids, instead of *talking to them* ? And why do strict parents think that kids like these 2 need more strict rules, rather than emotional connection? I've been watching these episodes, and I noticed that emotional connection is typically one of the last things strict parents go for.
I’ve watched this twice this mother was genuinely concerned for the teens they both left with different perspectives that was the joy for me at the end they thought about their families. I love all the family they are all beautiful people even the kids
Unlike the other episodes, these teens haven't secretly gone out smoking, haven't gone out drinking, and aren't going bonkers at school. Worst they did was get close to each other, the mother is overreacting
No she’s not over reacting. She has morals, unlike some of you people.
@@eleanorhardy683She did overreact... How are the supposed to find husbands or wife's if they dont have boyfriends or girlfriends... arrange marriage ? Now thats not morally correct is it ?
@@maddek5182 its not morally correct with their culture. over there you go out and find your boyfriend/girlfriend in the mid 20's not arranged marriage
@@maddek5182 you need help because you don't need bf or gf to get married. I don't know wat world you living on but you need real help.
@@eleanorhardy683 who says "you people"when talking about literally anything that is disgusting language honestly. Its literaly rude and instead of talking out your concerns/diffrences you have to start with micro aggersions and disrespect, Gross.
These kids didnt even do anything 😂. They’re probably the most behaved kids to be on the show
Yeah
They disrespected the rules and the culture of the people they were staying with. Rude. It was only 8 days. I think their precious little psyches could have survived 8 days of respect for another way of living.
@@yes2day100 they were being respectful the mom literally got so mad when the girl took her pants off to swim she was still wearing the coverup the mom said she was cheaping herself which is dumb
@@yes2day100 im sure that person meant that compared to other episodes where kids smoked, drunk, stole, and cussed this isnt bad at all
They were disrespectful and I'm from US. But I'm from an area in the US that values respect more than other places.
Half of the time I feel like the teens on here are more broken than misbehaved💔
Same I thought it was only me.
Yeah, most just need some therapy
But not these two. These two don't belong on this show compared to all of the others...
almost always it seems like… and especially when you see the letters the parents write
When this show first aired in the 2000s, this used to be seen as bad behaviour, now it's just seen as bad parenting.
I felt so bad for the girl .. all she did was take off her pants to go in the water then she put them back on getting out smh. That’s just ridiculous why even go to the beach
frl
Exactly, and that whole cheapening bit was so rude
I agree with your comment but I don’t know what smh means 😂. What does it mean.
@@Tom-iv3nd “shaking my head”
@@itzmahnisworld8720 do you mean no when you say that.
Why don't these parents realize it's puberty? They all say "Oh she changed around 13" as if they're surprised or don't know why
The parents r also to be blamed for there disrespect parents should teach there kids how to act
Don’t blame disrespect on hormones that’s bull it’s the parents lack of discipline
@@rosegoldbanks4842 Fr the grandma even said it , it’s the parents lack of discipline they let them kids walk all over them it’s partly the parents to blame for why there kids turned out that way my mother raised me to be respectful I would never disrespect my mother like that the parents act as if there scared of them like whattttt😭
@@rosegoldbanks4842 and the child they have common sense unless they’re disabled like 99% of the people on this show
@@rosegoldbanks4842 true however that can defend contribute to the behavior
I feel so sad for the children of the African family. Trust me those with the strictest parents will always become the smartest liars
Explains our political climate eh? Hehehe
Brown girl here in her 20s. Can confirm
She doing to much
Also turn out to be the most grounded in some cases.
True
the dad DID NOT wanna do this show lmaooo
It’s because his wife was controlling and overbearing not only towards her own children, but towards him. You can see he looks beaten down.
@@Random_Wierdo.well they should divorce
@@KellyVibes-26 The mum's pretty tho 😍
their household seems exhausting.
Like I got tired just watching them get up that early and sweep the driveway.
@@the8bitgrandpashow282 And I'm sitting here trying to figure out why she made them do it so early in the morning before school!
Literally every one of these episodes
It’s called teaching your children obedience
Stephen was very supportive of Lizzie when she was upset by being shamed by the mother. watching them grow close and support each other through the unfair treatment was very sad.
Grow up. It's not home your and you're certainly no one to judge others. If you're told not to do something, you either comply or fly your azz back to your Mommy's, that simple.
The unfair treatment?!?😂😂😂
Tough love isn't always unfair treatment!!! And CLEARLY the teens weren't traumatized by her, they actually grew to love that mom!!!!
Our kids nowadays are given far too much, for them doing nothing to deserve it. That's some of the reason our world is like it is!!!!
Oh yes because algebra problems can really put two people in the mood
Fr lol
“Fraternising to that extent”
They were just sitting together
The mom would probably snap at you just for sneezing. What would you expect for her?
it annoys me how they were just sitting doing homework, they cant hug, they cant hang out on the bed, and they are having to go to church and get their beliefs forced on them. they weren't that bad of people.
Shut up I’ll n
@@footballadict4966 hey don’t be rude!
@@footballadict4966 I dare you, finish that sentence.
bro your nuts are too big to be bothered by that lesbianfootballaddict
@@jackiten2751 what 💀💀
Interesting how they say that the dad is in charge.
I know, but the mother really wears the trousers 🤣
@@jackiemalone5314 what is wrong with that?
@@jqydxn8941 absolutely nothing, i run my house too.
That's what they say in most of the episodes... when it's usually the mother who runs the show
@@jqydxn8941 nothing wrong with it. It’s just that they cap to your face 😂
Honestly, these kids did nothing wrong, didn't complain, all they did was try to be friends and find some fun in the situation and they got shamed for it. They deserve better
Yea
Not bad kids unlike the other kids on this show
You’re sure right. The parents clung to outdated beliefs.
@@davidhill8565 Morals are never outdated!!
@@sherry3301 Not everyone wants to get with the times.
The way this mother forces her beliefs into these kids annoys me so much smh
And the sexist views🤦♀️
I respect most of the parents on the show but i dont feel the same for those parents
@@oliver.mayes2305 what's sexist about what she did?
I find it really conflicting... everyone says that African parents are really strict, teenagers are not allowed to do this or that.. but nevetheless, teenage unwed moms are really common in many countries in Africa.. no matter how strict or conservative the parents are. So obviously it doesn't help. Being restrictive isn't always the best approach to build character and responsible behavior...
religious indoctrination is evil
The fact that she sat the boy down to tell him that the girl is 'easy' and not marriage material is amazing to me.
it was so bad, it actually made me feel bad for her because, she put her down
The moms mind was made up about the girl when she saw what she was wearing when she arrived there. :(
It's true but lmao
@@Jacob.haynes shes calling the girl easy when they guy is the one trying to pursue her… how is the mom rigjt
It’s true though
Telling Lizzie that she was cheapening herself was so mean. Besides, she was really covered up.
Different culture. Over there, they would be shocked at the behaviour of the girl. People need to remember that something which may be ok to you is not ok to other people. Personally, I don't understand why someone would sign up to go to another country and obey the rules of another household, then get upset when those rules aren't their own. Respect the law of the land. The girl was in the wrong because she was disobeying the rules of that environment. You can't go somewhere and tell everyone to speak your language, unless you're there to colonise and impose your beliefs.
@@tharcisse7103 exactly
That’s Africa life
@@tharcisse7103 "People need to remember that something which may be ok to you is not ok to other people" yes,as long as they arent hurting others. If you get offended the way someone dresses, uses make up or modifies their body, that is YOUR problem. somethign you gotta deal with, not something the other person needs to fix to make you comfortable.
@@sntt3404 The person with the problem was the girl. If you go to another country by choice and are hurt by the rules of the land, that's YOUR fault. She could've just refused to do the programme instead of getting offended by their customs. The truth is, women who do that in those countries are viewed as prostitutes. Girls who do that stuff are taken advantage of and don't have the level of infrastructure we have in the UK to help them when they fall victim to the dangers of life. The mother was simply protecting her. Back home, she can take advantage of the systems that keep her safe without her having to do anything. In Africa, that same mentality and behaviour can very quickly destroy your life. Before judging people, maybe look at the context of where they are and why they take those stances.
How will 2 frikkin teens get intimate in your house when everybody is around all the time????? Hello........she got some serious issues
I know, I don’t get why intimacy isn’t allowed anyway, especially hugging?
You are American.
Exactly! That mother really had serious issues.
Weirdo .
@@nialldean9791 . Who’s weird?
There just doing math homework. Helping eachother out. They can’t even do that!
I don’t understand why the mom was so mad when she took off her trousers, like what else was she meant to do? Get them wet and be cold for the rest of the day? She left her shirt on and it wasn’t even revealing.
It’s his flip phone camera for me
Its an old episode,you can tell by the graphics
Wellll that was the phone back then lol
They were far more reliable than the $1000 iPhone i now possess
Yea but they didn't have touch phones back when this video was made 😱
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This is the most respectful kids I’ve seen on this show
That's because the Ghana mama made sure they were. She scared them. Guess if their birth parents were stricter, they'd have been more respectful.
there are way more disrespectful teens on the show than these 2
The mother is incredibly verbally abusive and controlling. It’s genuinely scary to watch.
this behaviour is so normal in Africa, you'd be surprised.
I don’t see the Mom as controlling, but as their teacher because she’s explaining it as well!
Shes an overbearing bully
My mom is like that and trust me she's even more strict. 💀
You can maintain structure and discipline without yelling, being overbearing, micromanaging, and controlling.
Says an overly privileged woman who's NOT from Africa.
@@newyorkfan16 You happen to be incorrect on both accounts.
precisely. if u yell and do that other stuff, you arent maintaining discipline healthy. you are just abusive and manipulative.
@@newyorkfan16 that is so FRICKING judgmental you don’t know what’s happening in her life don’t assume that that is just so rude!😢
You can “ maintain structure” yes but to gain the structure and discipline it often requires more work and enforcing rules.
The teenagers act like kids. With little kids you have to sometimes point to every little toy that they need to cleanup.
“When I said you are cheap.. I meant it from the heart” 😂
I was just about to type this!!! 😂
I feel like she only said that because she remembered the cameras caught her saying that and wanted to save face
I think she is scared... Their friendship is so cute... They support each other
The grandmother was right. Parents fault
Maybe g
Grandparents were too strict and the parents didnt want to be like that but went too far the other way.
it could just be puberty too
@@wr3ck3dd10 Not completely
Are these kids even bad? They seem so good lol
No fr
They are bad for being so respectful and not giving value To the culture
@@Juststayhopefulwhy should they? it’s not their culture, they can respect it but don’t have to abide by it
@@kristinalogwood306 when u visit another country u r supposed to respect that! Don't behave like teen here
the kids are not the problematic ones here.. its that crazy mom like chill out girll
🤣
Literally 😂
Like the daughter in the tank top wasn’t “modest” either
The mom was really overdoing it in my opinion.
That woman is too much! Those kids didn’t even do anything wrong, and they are more respectful than any of the other kids that I’ve seen on this show! That mom is in the wrong! Completely! She is making it bad when it was completely innocent!
The boy showed the most change from anyone ive ever seen on the show. I hope he kept it up when he got home
half of them don't😂
So half of them do?
@@lindytucker5106 Doesn’t mean he didn’t change the most? 😭
With the way kids are acting today this show needs to be on instead of all of these love reality shows that everyone is sick of.
This and (Beyond) Scared Straight definitely helped to keep me on the straight and narrow😅
Damn right
I see depression in the kids there parents obviously don't know that kids their age will act like this -_- they will eventually grow out of it 😒
@@Cailey53 exactly!
It honestly looks like the kids have no motivation and just wanna have fun
@@brennathecatlover4360 exactly
This family runs like it’s the bloody 19th century 😅
I think it's just their age. The Dr put my daughter on the pill at 16. I wasn't even informed. Strange times we live in!
@@virginiaallenby2508 that's messed up
@@VedantMishra55 that's called patient confidentiality.
@@virginiaallenby2508 contraceptives can be prescribed to minors without parental consent. It's lawful
she's 16. in most cases it isn't any of your business.
This episode so different than the others. The teens were very nice and reasonable. The mother in the house was very rude and not reasonable.
Say what you will about the Ghanaian mom's parenting style, but the fact can't be denied that both Steph and Lizzy walked away having loved their experience-and even wanted to remain there with them!!
FACTS!!
Well said❤ The fact that they cried and embraced each other at the end. Even having expressed their desire to return, is evidence to how much influence the Ghanaian family had on the teens. Love to the older sister too😊.
ay that Feel Good Inc. had me vibing
right
that mother is so sexist and mean
@Sahal E. M. Patel man if you need me to explain that i might not be best equipped to help you
@Sahal E. M. Patel do you know what gender roles are?
@Sahal E. M. Patel then how can you not decipher this rittle of gender role.
@Mr. Sahal E. M. Patel For example she told the girl that she was cheapening herself by dating but never said that to the guy when she was talking to him about dating instead she told him that girls are easy. The rules about clothing were also much stricter for the girl.
@Mr. Sahal E. M. Patel bruh you’re replying to every comment with “how?”. If you’re so dense you can’t notice the misogyny toward Liz, I’m surprised your can even read. Like seriously you have 2 brain cells left and are refusing to use any of them.
Lmao “I will punish you”
When they come back from school and lizzie calls the baby and says "Oi, hug" 23:58 i think that was so sweet 🥺 and the baby wanted Stephan. 😢 They both are sweet and kind they just needed correct parenting.
… I didn’t really see the bad behavior while they were there 😅
right!? this so tame on the kids behaviour compared to other episodes. I don't know what the kids problems even were? That they didn't do chores and dated? Isn't that all teenagers lol!
This episode was filmed in 2008 just in case your wondering I looked it up on Wikipedia
That explains amount of emos in this vid
“If you don’t hug someone properly you’re suggesting things” WHAT?!
You don't need to marry every guy you meet🙄
Yeah I mean if u did then that would be cheapening yourself.
Plus its not cheap
anyone else think these kids weren't that bad? they seemed so nice honestly. i've seen worse on here lol
The Strict mom was pretty immature
@Michele Thomas you clearly haven’t seen other episodes….
Yeah cause they don't allow kids to grow up or make their own decisions in Africa their parents make all the decisions for them so she really is mentally still 12-13
Misoginy at it's finest...
She’s a victim as well. Doesn’t excuse it of course but she treats people that way because that’s how SHE’s been treated her whole life. She doesn’t know anything else.
It’s sad
now i js wanna see all the things the kids of the strict parents do behind their parents back bc i bet it would be wild
steph was actually so sweet
The exploitation of these teens and their emotions is disgusting and the fact that they let the mum say she was cheapening herself is disgusting they are ment to look after them. But I'm still going to watch this show 🤣
exploitation??? u cannot be serious 😂
They are probably getting money for college out of this.
These teens wanted to sign up for this junk because their narcissistic behinds wanted their 5 seconds of fame and thought they were getting vacations. Several of them have even admitted it. I agree that television shows would exploit teens, but many of these teens also thought they were going to have it as easy as they did back home. Maybe now that girl will appreciate that her mother doesn't belittle her or look down on her or call her cheap.
The Grandma at the airport seeing the kids off was so right.
The letter was not even that bad???
It really wasn't
the family is depressing.ugh
I think that it would be ok for them to date each other as long as they had boundaries. Some parents are too strict. I think they would be perfect together.
They should know that The teens are British and they'll be more comfortable around each other. This goes with any race or nationality. They'll be more comfortable with themselves than other race specially when they have to do homework. Because each countries' education system is different from that of others.
More so that they’re the same age, from the same country and culture. They could’ve been diff races and still most likely would’ve gone together lol
Agreed 100% silly to find mistakes especially on Lizzy breaks my heart.💔 That beautiful girl deserved to be loved by her mom. Sweet soul.
Minute the girl got home she plopped down and her mom served her something to drink
So all these kids would do is not be morning people and not help around the house as much as they should? Aka normal teenagers? And they got sent to this demon spawn?
Right this is me at 27 🤣
Fr, my parents would threaten to send us back to Africa (we are West African living in the uk) and I'd be all like "No that's fine, I'll do my work we dont need to talk about going back :)"
These kids parents took that threat literally 😭
That mom has issues.
At least that is the reason why children like hers are mentally sound
@@thelordschild6636 you don't know that.
The girl went right back into her old habbits, like instantly.
do you know her?
Not suprised, african mom was literally the worst parent out of all episodes on this show
Do you know her? Can you tell us what happened to her please
You cant just say that and not elaborate for 3 MONTHS
@@Djent666 Why?
That was sad calling her cheap
"even before she could get out of the car her bussom was out" the prejudgement is real
The African lady is wise, i like the advice she gave these people. I wish i had such moral civilized parents and not Westen like parents who act like they care but really dont.
All them teens in this show are gangsta until they go to Africa...
feel good inc. caught me by surprise haha
why do they always try to force god on these kids 🤕
What’s wrong with God? It’s not forcing it’s raising children the word of the land teaching morals and faith
@@rosegoldbanks4842 if someone doesn't believe in god then they shouldnt have to.
@@rosegoldbanks4842 you don’t need god for morals
@@theperson569 oh please you new age thinkers will see flames in your future for that exact thinking
@rosegold banks With that judgmental attitude you sound like you’re gonna be right there in the flames with the “new age thinkers”
The dad was acting like African teenagers don't have relationships. Purleeez!
go buy the girl appropriate clothes if you really want to help her
She doesn’t even want them to hug??? Nah that’s crazy
I guess this mum could talk to the girl in private and politely if she really wanted her to understand her point of view and change something in her behavior and clothing and install some selfworth in her. Rather she talks to her from hight and with arrogance in front of others as well which actually means putting her down and making her feel small and humiliated or behind her back even.
im sorry but the music taste in this is amazing. radiohead gorillaz and arctic monkeys
The mom is rude judging by Waht the girl is warring so rude
*wearing
@Mr. Sahal E. M. Patel She doesn’t hold men to the same standards.. it’s sexist
Did y’all finish the episode or?
If the kids ended up not even wanting to leave, the Ghanaian mother must have done something right or?
Of course they didn’t. They were attention starved. Their parents give them whatever they want but don’t really seem to care about them. That’s why so many people end up in abusive friendships, relationships, etc..
The oldest daughter did more helping to the teens then the strict mom 🤷♀️
I agreed
I don’t like how they do not let them have physical contact
Huh
I feel so bad for the girl she seemed so sad like they were only having fun, the mother defently overreacted
I agreed with you dating other's peoples not bad thing that's how you know the person is right one for you
I find the way the mum spoke to the girl, frankly disgusting. Her belittling and degrading comments making her feel ashamed of NOTHING/her sexuality is horrible.
I am glad I watched it through to the end - usually, I’m rolling my eyes at the strict parents. I started out thinking the mum was awful, but I was bawling my eyes out at the goodbye and that she reached out to the kids’ families on the phone was incredible. They were sweet kids.
The mother is just an absolute bully.
first and only time ive ever seen an episode where the mother was the one out of line and not the kids. just sad really.
Love seeing all the old fashion and how it changed
The parents CONTINUALLY GIVING IN & NEVER SETTING ANY BOUNDARIES, LIMITS or ANY CONSEQUENCES help KEEP THE TOXIC CYCLE GOING...🤦♀️💔
This mother is completely overreacting. She really hurt that girl's feelings for enjoying herself at the beach and being social with the only person who she could relate to 😢
Love is admitting when you are wrong as aperernts
In traditional cultures, there are certain exceptions for how young people are supposed to behave. In western culture, we see this behavior as normal, but in other cultures, it's respectful to abide by the rules of the host and larger society.
this is literally what people need to understand!!
Even if those views are really sexist? I mean come on
@@Mary-1493 You can't really judge different cultures through the same lense. I don't condone mistreatment, but these rules seem reasonable enough to me, especially considering the kids are only there visiting.
@@Mary-1493 No such thing as sexism...only pride and arrogance from overly indulgent selfish women.
@@newyorkfan16 ok sexist
The way her husband just sits there in silence tells me that she really is controlling and overbearing
@MrSahalEMPatel exactly. (His existence doesn’t even matter.(
African mom: *going off about relationships*
Stephen: Yeh
I’m so confused… was she supposed to swim with pants on?
When the mom asked "who's going to look down there anyway? " 💀💀
Bruh i was so mad
I think because the mother is always on the lookout for sexual behaviour, she reads the note to support her viewpoint. Having known African people here in Australia, they have trouble assimilating because their discipline methods are against the law.
Why is it that parents typically try to *control* their kids, instead of *talking to them* ? And why do strict parents think that kids like these 2 need more strict rules, rather than emotional connection? I've been watching these episodes, and I noticed that emotional connection is typically one of the last things strict parents go for.
These kids dont even seem bad, they are just being normal teenagers 🤷♀️
TEACHING FEAR IS NOT LOVE OR RESPECT. 💔
Not true. People need to know there's consequences to your actions
@crazymusicgrlcheesecake That's RESPECT NOT FEAR.
You CAN teach consequences using FEAR but that BREEDS ANGER & RESENTMENT the OPPOSITE of
RESPECT.
True 💯
the best part of this video is when they played feel good inc
edit: they have such good music in this ep; thirteen by big star too😭
I thought I was the only one that noticed 💀 it caught me by suprise
I’ve watched this twice this mother was genuinely concerned for the teens they both left with different perspectives that was the joy for me at the end they thought about their families. I love all the family they are all beautiful people even the kids
Fun fact im Ghanaian n you will be surprised teenagers do in Ghana 😬
please share!
"thats some kids not in MY house" lol wild 😂
Couldn’t imagine if these parents had actual bad kids😂she’d lose her mind
Yes, the one with drunk, cigarette, cussing.
After that, she would appreciate these sweet teens.
i cant belive they wont let them date i go to church my parents dont mind me dating
LOL Africa's a deeply conservative place. Very common for parents to be like that.
As long as you wait till marriage u Gucci
As long as you make informed educated decisions u gucci
@@lavochat15 No country on the planet has more than the United States. Nice try fool.
my boyfriend comes to church w me
Change the title of this video to world's worst parents.