You are exceptionally friendly, intelligent and sensitive. That’s obvious the first time I saw you. Expect problems from a world of less sensitive, less friendly and less intelligent people. Stay on course - enjoy your life and others as much as they let you.
Part of understanding your worth in friendships is finding people who both appreciate you and understand you. I'm sort of the you in my group of friends, but I'm important because without me, they generally just do their own things, not socializing much. Once I worried and felt like you did, but was reassured they were mainly busy with work and family stuff most of the time. Sometimes when you get older into adulthood, people can drift apart or friendships can get lost a little. But it's when you can mend those friendships and reconnect that you know they were real.
It sounds as if you are going through an especially uncomfortable period of reflection. Growing up isn’t always easy. You are bold to push yourself like that, to work on you’re weakness.
I appreciate how open you are in this video, the raw emotions are painfully relatable. I struggle with this constantly. Sometimes when i'm petty I will purposefully reciprocate the energy back (aka dont reach out to them first) and some of them just never talk to me again. If your friends takes advantage of you it's important to figure that out and lose them asap so you no longer drain yourself reaching out all the time. Those friends aren't worth your effort. One thing that I find is important to remember, is that people are living their own lives, and life can get really messy/ busy. Especially in adulthood I find that my friends and I take long unintentional breaks from contacting each other and when our lives calm down we reach out again to check in and meet up. I really hope your friends can appreciate your effort more and reach out to you more often. Thank you for uploading this :)
Thank you so much for your comments. I thought it was a bit crazy to post this but eventually I decided to say fuck it. I have had this problem my entire adulthood and every now and then when I thought I have figured it out it came back to haunt me. Even knowing I need to cut my friends some slack but feelings are hard to deal with. And yea I started to be more selective about whom I want to be friends with, and tell them my needs. It’s really good to know I’m not in this alone:)
I am the same way I check on everyone, but no one ever does that with me. It feels good when someone checks up on me it's an amazing feeling. Everyone has a life to live. Everyone is growing, making their mark on this world. Your english was great, don't feel bad, don't cry, you're too beautiful and I would like to be your friend. I would like to get to know you and have some fun laughs. I love to joke and have a good time. I'm in coachella ca. Have a good day 🙏🏽
You are exceptionally friendly, intelligent and sensitive. That’s obvious the first time I saw you. Expect problems from a world of less sensitive, less friendly and less intelligent people. Stay on course - enjoy your life and others as much as they let you.
Part of understanding your worth in friendships is finding people who both appreciate you and understand you. I'm sort of the you in my group of friends, but I'm important because without me, they generally just do their own things, not socializing much. Once I worried and felt like you did, but was reassured they were mainly busy with work and family stuff most of the time.
Sometimes when you get older into adulthood, people can drift apart or friendships can get lost a little. But it's when you can mend those friendships and reconnect that you know they were real.
It sounds as if you are going through an especially uncomfortable period of reflection. Growing up isn’t always easy. You are bold to push yourself like that, to work on you’re weakness.
thank you for watching my video and spending the time leaving the comment. yes, there is still a lot for me to figure out.
I appreciate how open you are in this video, the raw emotions are painfully relatable. I struggle with this constantly. Sometimes when i'm petty I will purposefully reciprocate the energy back (aka dont reach out to them first) and some of them just never talk to me again. If your friends takes advantage of you it's important to figure that out and lose them asap so you no longer drain yourself reaching out all the time. Those friends aren't worth your effort. One thing that I find is important to remember, is that people are living their own lives, and life can get really messy/ busy. Especially in adulthood I find that my friends and I take long unintentional breaks from contacting each other and when our lives calm down we reach out again to check in and meet up.
I really hope your friends can appreciate your effort more and reach out to you more often. Thank you for uploading this :)
Thank you so much for your comments. I thought it was a bit crazy to post this but eventually I decided to say fuck it.
I have had this problem my entire adulthood and every now and then when I thought I have figured it out it came back to haunt me. Even knowing I need to cut my friends some slack but feelings are hard to deal with. And yea I started to be more selective about whom I want to be friends with, and tell them my needs. It’s really good to know I’m not in this alone:)
I am the same way I check on everyone, but no one ever does that with me. It feels good when someone checks up on me it's an amazing feeling. Everyone has a life to live. Everyone is growing, making their mark on this world. Your english was great, don't feel bad, don't cry, you're too beautiful and I would like to be your friend. I would like to get to know you and have some fun laughs. I love to joke and have a good time. I'm in coachella ca. Have a good day 🙏🏽
Thank you for super sweet comments!!!
I can't reach out to anyone because I have no one ☹
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don't cry
Love people regardless of whether they love you or not, that's what Jesus Christ commands us to do.
She never said she doesn't still love them as friends. She is saddened by their lack of reciprocation with no reason.