Rashon Khan Responds To Mo'Nique's Bonnet Message: You Can't Tell People What To Do
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- Опубліковано 16 лип 2021
- www.comedyhype.com/ - In another conversation with Rashon Khan, we ask the former security guard of Richard Pryor and Eddie Murphy his thoughts on Mo'Nique telling women to not wearing bonnet's in public. Instagram: @ComedyHype & Twitter: @ComedyHype_
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Brothers shouldn't sag their pants. With all going on in the world, we still need to teach our people simple things.
With all Thats going on in the world, why be so focused on the simple things that really isn’t anyone’s business
Sagging is a great way to tell a potential employer to move on...
It's cultural sabotage / divisionism at play.
#DivideAndConquer
@@clb24 This, exactly! 👍
(And more...)
I think Monique said the bonnet thing out of love. She just wants us as a people to take pride in our appearance.
Exactly. Can’t tell our people shit. And these be the same folks wondering why we still behind every other race
Most definitely. My grandmother always used to say. "When you come outside looking like a 🤡don't be made when people laugh at you."
@@iamheeeem simple. And they’re response is “I can do what I want”. Well so can we (ie : laughing at your goofy ass).
@@shaani7978 Sis, this is so true! The spirit of offense has been running rampant in these days and times. Smh
Does wearing a Bonnet directly mean that you don't take pride in your appearance?!?
This is crazy. We can't tell each other anything at this point. It starts in house
Agreed.
Your foundation shapes who you are.
This world has become so touchy feelie, I don’t feel that Monique meant anyone any harm. Since when is it wrong to take pride in one’s self? What’s wrong with loving people to the truth? Once upon a time our people had a code of conduct, now it’s just a code of messiness…truly very sad. Almighty peace and blessings to all🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Exactly
You said it. He giving this a pass. Teaching the youth how to stand is the way you teach them how to grow. ✌🏾
Men need to concentrate on our young menand the women have Every right to correcting our young women. The problem is no one wants to be corrected about anything. This brother lives in his cozy world and don't have to see this foolishness! When you come outdoors and Get Dressed!!!
@Ernest Davis Nope…Wrong Group 💯
Monique didn’t create the bonnet talking point.She just brought it back to light.
You CAN tell people what to do. But they don’t have to listen.
Facts! And not listening will lead to more continued suffering.
what's wrong with giving positive advice to the youngstas. As old as this guy is ain't no way he's okay with saggin. That's part of the problem with this generation. Saggin has got to be the worst male fashion statement in our community + it looks completely stupid
I am grossed out every time I see a guy sagging and his but is sticking out. It looks weird and nasty and I don't understand why they do it like its okay. I never thought about problems with hips and legs because they do have to walk abnormally to wear pants in that way. Believe me, you DO NOT want that pain in your life.
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Rashon is likely not about 'saggin''. He's also wise enough to know the point is better expressed by NOT sagging than by making blanket judgements on people's fashions & behavior. As he said, be immaculate daily and folks will get the point.
@@reimourrpower9357 it's not "making judgment" to impart a little wisdom on to a young brother. We always hear later a person say "I was looking for direction" or "I needed someone to step and tell the the real"... All these young black men can't be that weak and just follow the next idiot standing on the corner.
You can control your own personal image but you can’t control how others will view you. If you simply don’t care, then go ahead and do you. But a lot of people want to do whatever and have people be ok with it at the same time. When I was growing I was raised with the mentality of “ don’t make us look bad” with the “us” being the general black community. Obviously bad is subjective. I think we all contribute to our racial image, but once again if you don’t care then do you.
I agree with you.
Exactly
I definitely hear you…but decades of conditioning from my immediate and distant family members has stuck with me for the remainder. While I do care about representation (myself and my family)…I always have planted in the back of my mind, the importance of representing my people/community. It gives me pride, and knowing that I am representing a dynamic, diverse and amazing group (despite decades of negative press and media propaganda).
Exactly 💯
Chile, Mo'Nique said what she said, and that's that on that. Let it go.
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This guy said what I tried to say in a better way. We have bigger concerns than bonnets!
Exactly
We have big and small concerns. Each concern is no less concerning than the next, we are just speaking on appearances now.
@@TaritasTake I'm sorry but that is not a priority. Education starting businesses and saving our children dwarf any concerns about appearance which isn't anyone's business anyway. We are free to wear what we want. Again folks should mind their own body!
@Busy Bodies! when I was a child a person's family may tell them that ain't it but not some stranger on the street. If anyone tried to tell my granny what to do she'd say when you pay my way then I'll entertain your opinions otherwise keep it moving. And that was her being nice; if you caught her on a bad day she'd let you have it nice and brutally honest. I want my people to thrive economically and make their own decisions about how to express themselves. When people feel better they do better. Not having all that stress would really change things in my community.
We used to communally correct and support each other and this new new mentality of I’m me and you’re you don’t tell me anything is a separation and apart of the bigger issues we have. We’re. It a monolith, but let’s not be ok with not holding each other accountable. I don’t understand why when we talk about the big things I don’t see comments about this is what we should be talking about. Talk about it all. Having your own businesses and becoming financially stable all go hand in hand with presenting your best you. Feeling good about yourself sets you in a productive mindset. It’s why there is a posture you’re supposed to have before even praying. Wash you face and come before God. Success for our people is a multifaceted process. Let’s respect the little issues as well as the big because the little issues can affect the big.
I've wore house shoes to store & pajamas to places! That SHT wasn't right & looked dumb. I'm not abt to jump out the window saying it wasn't. I wore du rags out to. It's simple it's trendy to look trashy & ppl are upset she came at their trend.
We can do better regarding bonnets and tackle the other issues as well. It's not one or the other.
Exactly. That was a “what about black on black crime” level response. Deflect from the issue to another F’d up issue so that we can turn a blind eye to it and go back to our regularly scheduled programming
However.... when does the discussion about the other start?
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He's trippin, when I grew up women didn't even want u to see them with pink rollers in their hair, now they come outside with all their night wear on SMH
Exactly! This elder is not being genuine. Have pride in your appearance.
Exactly
@@NegritaBrujita
That's becuz he gets off on that hood shit. He gets off on our black women twerking and all that shit. I'm so pissed at him. Let's cancel his ass. My dad use to say present yourself like a respectful woman.
@@rainbowlove5391 I’ve been cancelling before cancelling was a movement. Anything that is not for me, I don’t support!
Exactly point is you can't tell black women shit but brothers always get told what to do and how to do it
This Man is soooooo intelligent and appears to be so honest. God let him live a long time, we need to hear ALL his stories. He's seen a lot. Let me say, THANK YOU.
I totally understand and agree with what he's saying.. when you start trynna micromanage other people, where will it end ? Ppl say it's out of Love.. but Love is Free, Flexible, Faithful.. Not Controlling, Shaming, Contradictive, and Self Serving.. We've been taught to treat and function with each other in prejudice. But at the same time say "don't judge a book by its cover".. insecurity and sociopathy says, "you never know who you'll come across, so you gotta look good ".. . Wisdom says, "you never know who you'll come across so treat everyone with respect" ..
I think it's better ask and discuss why ppl are more concerned with Physicality than they are Quality of Character.. 🤡
I agree. I am more concerned with how people treat each other than how they look.
Girl Bye!! Image is what people look at period! Black women will wear whatever Asians sell but you'll NVR see them in the product. Those aren't bonnets, anyway. They are material shower caps! Babies are the only ppl who should be wearing bonnets outside, anyway. Condoning b.s. is why these young ppl don't have guidance now. When youre going out-Get dressed first. Period.
@@christiandivamd I'm so sorry you can't see pass your own limitations. I said what I said. And obviously hit a nerve.. not a coincidence. Congratulations.. 🤡🙃
What made me laugh is that she went online in a robe with no bra on to tell people not to wear a bonnet... makes no sense 🤣🤣😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😅😅😅😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😅😅
Exactly,I definitely remember that!🤔🙄
She was at her HOME tho! That’s a HUGE difference!
She wasn't wrong.....I guess if it was Election year....and she was Telling Ppl To VOTE or Die or Vote Blue Down The line ....it would've been cool to these Old mfs ...💀💀😂
What’s wrong with telling these fools to stop sagging their pants? It all comes from jail culture anyway so wtf? The problem isn’t suggesting to stop doing these things. The problem is our people are so sensitive that we can’t take it or leave it when it comes to said suggestions. OG off on this one. We should be able to hold a mirror in each other’s face without being so damn sensitive about it afterwards
There's someone at my job that sags every day. Thought I saw a shit stain the other day. Just look stankin. I literally see his underwear everyday
@@scorpiocara6798 it’s despicable af. The problem with our people is that we have no order or principles to abide by as a collective unit. Somethings should be code but it’s not. If we learn that sagging comes from prison culture, it shouldn’t be any push back on schooling the youngins who might not know this shit. Can’t preach about the OGs not doing there job, only to tell them to beat it when they try to
@@TheRealLeonardWashington this is at a place where you shouldn't even be dressing like that. Imma a bring him a belt hell. There's no way in hell he dont know his underwear are showing. It's not rocket science. He's just been allowed to get by thinking it's cute all these years like nobody taught him nothing.
@Kendrick Lewis let me just say this brother (I’m assuming that’s what you are). I’m not so afraid of Covid to the point where I feel more comfortable with seeing my sistas hide themselves with cover up in order to prevent transmission 🤨. The European straightening of the hair is a little irrelevant to a sista choosing to wear a bonnet or not. Reason being is that the people who are making those suggestions are not suggesting them to straighten their hair. Keeping yourself up in a presentable fashion isn’t seeking validation. It’s holding yourself up to a standard of greatness. When an OG is giving you that game, it’s coming from a place of love and experience. You can either soak up the game or keep it moving. Simple
@@scorpiocara6798 we are dealing with decades of programming. I used to sag my pants. Now that I’m 37 with 3 kids, a wife and most importantly knowledge of self, my perspective is different. People really need to open up that third eye vision during these times.
I can wear my bonnet where I want. If my head looks bad then the bonnet hides it until I fix it. People don't know other people's situation. Could be they don't have money to fix it. Not always about being lazy. True facts..
You can wear what you want, people may think you look ghetto or like you don’t take care of yourself but that’s their right too. Either way the world keeps turning
@@dinkyboss true facts, they don't know what's going on...
Then her statement didn't apply to you.
There are other ways to go out the house with a damn bonnet on.
I think this is the root, what is considered "looking bad" when it comes to black hair? Always with us is "ugly stage" and "no edges" and "nappy."
Why are we ashamed of our natural hair?
This was great I do so love his POV on subjects matters
Let's be about excellence wearing a Bonnet outside of the house is inappropriate.
Some people don’t have homes. I’ve seen several homeless people with them on. They are minding their business not bothering anyone and yet people are judging them.
How though? It's not like there wearing a bonnet at a wedding. Is it appropriate for ladies to wear booty shorts up there butt cracks and boob tube? Keep the same energy.
@@Awillii Let's unpack your statement, 1. If someone is homeless of course having a Bonnet on doesn't matter. Mo'Nique's statement wasn't directed to the homeless population though. 2. If someone has a Bonnet on minding their business is cool, but it's the imagery that is at issue. We all judge people every day.
@@eon001 Of course wearing booty shorts in public would not be appropriate.
@@Raygun34 so keep the same energy for the $lut march. There are bigger problems out there.
I'm sorry this OG saying bullsht with a soft voice. If you gotta problem with monique just say that.
Exactly. I felt like he used this interview as an opportunity to take a cheap shot at Mo's weight, BTW, she is promoting & portraying a healthy lifestyle
Rashon is the perfect example of "There's no fool like an old fool. He needs to shut up.
Indeed 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💯💯💯💯💯💯
There’s nothing foolish about picking bigger & better fights like pay, disease, politics, and economics 🤷🏽♀️🙄
Rashon is the perfet example of wisodm & perspective. You MW show foolishness know no age.
Discernment is key. Some people can smooth talk you to hell if you don't have your own understanding.
Righttt!!!
To many ppl caring about careless things way more important issues to address
Having an opinion is NOT telling someone what to do!
But she literally did say "stop doing that" sooooo...
Preach
Go back and listen to what she said then delete this because your comment is irrelevant
@@jeffdavis8704 she never pointed a gun to your head did she?
@@shebadannndshecook1195 Monique isn't gonna stop by your house and take your hair bonnets
Get on your flight as comfortable as you want. It’s always a problem when our woman are minding their own business
It's a problem when your at the grocery store looking like a fool. No man has to accept that bullshit
@@outlaw_t6682 who says they're even looking for a man? People really don't have a life if this is their top concern.
Beta
@@outlaw_t6682 lol but who is talking about men accepting women wearing bonnets? They’re about to get on a flight… When they wear braids ppl talk about it, Afro ppl talk about it. Tight clothes loose clothes..no matter what they do it’s never right
Thank you!!
Monique was right. A bonnet should never be worn in public. The ish is tacky. Do better black women. 🤦🏿♀️
Sagging pants down to your knees looks STUPID! Wearing bonnets outside is TACKY!
He speaks the truth in all he say wise man and God give it to you.
This whole Bonnet thing with Monique I think it's stupid if you see a woman wearing a bonnet in public leave her alone it is none of your business
I know right they still look good you making it seem like soon as you see a body on a girl head you like oh I'm completely turned off. Everybody following Kevin Samuels with no question that's weird
Mo'nique was NOT wrong. She just could have delivered her message in a comedic way to build up more of a younger audience fanbase. Yes she is one of the Queens of Comedy but as the saying goes the future is with the young and there is truth in Comedy. She could do a comedy sketch called The Bonnet Chronicles. Working with younger up coming Black comedians. It's not too late for her to do this...facts or undeniable undisputed facts?
I guess it's the Libra ⚖️ in me but I understand both sides of the argument. I get Mo' Nique's point, totally understand her view..... But Mr. Kahn this elder always drops straight UNCUT TRUTH!!!! He was the right hand to my favorite comedians EVER, MR. RICHARD PRYOR!!!!! He knows what he speaks.....
Mo’nique and other entertainers embarrass me EVERYDAY with the roles they bring to big n little screens. How dare her. Distractions.
U embarrassed us with ur comments
@@Mbmcfly89 stfu Pierre
@@Mbmcfly89 lmaooo exactly, what role has she played that doesn’t represent an actual person that exists in reality?
@@dinkyboss Mo’Nique won an Oscar. Oscars r only given to Blacks when they have done well in representing us in A BAD LIGHT. Top tier sabotage. That may b a “reality” performance in ur world but never in mine. Mo’nique is talented, beautiful and not the worst one out there if that helps (I know it is difficult for yall not to worship celebrities), but there are other things to call out than what some sister is wearing on her head. This bonnet talk is a distraction from what is coming to ur door in 5,4,3,2,1…
@@linearbrkdwnbro8714 you a bot ...buts what's the reason for your troll... u don't ride for your community lol y put up the bad acting... the role u play will never win a Oscar 🤡🤡
Interviewer didn’t explain it right
Umm...Gotta say on this particular subject, he is making no sense. Especially comparing this to sagging pants and thinking that's okay too..
If women and men want to look like they've just rolled out of bed 🛌🏾then ok. That's their prerogative.
Monique spoke from a place of love.
She just wants women to take pride in their appearance..Not hard to comprehend.
I love his energy…He’s a great interviewee….CH y’all need to have him and his thoughts on more often
After Monique rant I see more bonnets than ever in public 🤣 I hear what he saying and Monique. Good points from both elders
Brother Rashon Khan dropping the science. *"How about everytime you're out you're immaculate? Make it part of your act, be consistent. No different from the hot pants & miniskirts (of the 60's & 70's). Learn self-defense ladies so you can take bettercare of yourself in the streets..."*
Such a knowledgeable and wise gentleman. He made such great points.
Your Appearance is everything.One of the school Principle made a dress code for parents you will not drop off or pick up your children in Bonnets, robes & slides.
But women wear workout hers as fashion and that’s ok stop being a hypocrite
Love his response
Black people: we need to set standards for one another
Also black people: dont tell me what to do mind your own business
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Smart brother great interview
I don’t know why anyone would demonize Monique for what she said. Why are we fighting for the right to be ghetto? Bonnets are basically sleepwear & that’s GHETTO to wear in public. End of story. Besides,she was coming from a loving place when she said it
Who said it was ghetto🤔 white ppl Puerto Rican’s and everyone else do it too how about we learn to mind our business and not judge especially if you don’t know why they’re wearing it
@@jeffdavis8704 white women wore bonnets for fashion too. There’s a million other things to discuss way more important than bonnets.
Exactly
So what if she said you shouldn’t wear fake hair or nails too because it’s ghetto? Do people also not think that’s ghetto? Where do you draw the line?
@@KeyKeyJournals i totally agree
Hard to believe Khan is missing the message Mo'Nique was sending. It's not even about ''the bonnet."
I pray he authors
a book and go on tour. I will definitely pay to hear him speak.
These should be a series of lectures for learning.
The brother makes an excellent point. Tell people what you do and why to make the point about being presentable in public. He's also on point about just telling people what they should not do and being critical while doing it opens her up for "clap back" on things about her that people wish she would or would not do.
I like Bonnets, uggs and sweat pants! Its woman saying indirectly. "Don't look at me mofo!" 😅😂
I know that you can be vocal on several subjects and not focus on one. She always has talked to younger women about representing theirselves well in publuc❤
Wow! this brotha is wise! Respect 💪🏾
He just disagreed and agreed with her at the same time. If you had and have parents that tell you to be properly dressed when u go out of their house that’s consistency right? No matter if it’s nationally consistent, but to honest it really is. Like an unwritten rule. Mane she gave an opinion a suggestion. We pick and choose what to call negative and positive in other words we offer an OPINION on what we see fit to be positive or negative. This country is so backwards it’s blissful ignorance.
The most IMPORTANT part about her bonnet comment was….UNDERNEATH THE BONNET…MOST FEMALES DO NOT COMB THIER HEADS….and that comment is 100….she wakes up PJs sportin a bonnet in the fuckin mall….she has my vote….
He sound like he just wanted to take a cheap shot at Mo'Nique because her message was out of love. There're a plethora of things going on, true, but no one person can touch on/address them all therefore Mo playing her role. Going out wit bonnets on is IMPROPER ASF, whether Mo says so or not.
She needs to love herself better and stick to what’s actually important
@@Glitter359 how do u know that she doesn't love herself. Did u ever consider that the "image that's being portrayed of the AA community" is important to her. Do wear bonnets out in public, in place of grooming and personal hygiene? If u do her message is about u, if it doesn't apply let it fly, it's not for u. How is an elder speaking encouragement to the youth in regard to personal hygiene/public image EVER been a bad thing. How is loving ur ppl wrong? Man O Man....
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Say it. His ass need to be addressing our brothers about those nasty ass sagging pants. Nobody want to be looking at their asses in the grocery store. Just no respect for elders anymore. SMH!
Everyone should wear clothes that fit! Rolls belong in the Bakery window!😂😅😮😊
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 OG got knowledge!!! 😏
The brother is deep and seasoned
This is an old simp! Protect Auntie Monique at all times!
All he's saying is there's bigger fish to fry
YOU ONLY GET ONE CHANCE TO MAKE A ( FIRST) IMPRESSION AS I WAS TAUGHT GROWING UP SO MAKE IT A ( POSITIVE) ONE!🙏🙌
Rashon is seriously deep! On point!
Aint no female that signing a check for Monique is wearing a bonnet to Walmart
This old brother gotta chill those Bonnets gotta go ASAP 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️💨💨
This man is too old to be on such foolishness. Having dignity in your appearance is the beginning of being upright and dignified. Your appearance represents what’s in your heart and mind. This is why our parents and grandparents upheld this. No our young males shouldn’t be sagging and showing their asses. And these women in public like they just got out the bed is a disfrace. This man knows better but he hung out with Richard Pryor and Paul Mooney so that says a lot.
I love your words brother!
This is one topic in our community that needs to be addressed but if you speech up about anything that doesn't sit well ALOT OF Black Ppl. I guess we just going to live in the TWIGHT ZONE Forever! Smh
Right!!! I agree with you.
Monique was absolutely right. He's old enough to know better
Mr Khan you're saying the something as Monique and disagreeing with her at the same time
2:04 Awww shit!!! You done did it now!!!
And some of these males are sagging with Dirty draws! I've also seen a lot of females sagging!I truly don't get it and damm sure doesn't look good, That's a whole turn off for me!🙄😣
That the problem we think of people feelings than telling them what u doing is wrong if u going for a cooperate job interview u going to wear a bonnet if u going to the bet awards u going to wear a bonnet well some fool will wear one for clout
This man is totally awesome! Drop the mic......
He’s right. Monique gave another excuse for other people to publicly discriminate Black women. Now some establishments refuse to serve Black women in bonnets. Enough.
In my opinion, Mo’Nique was shaming…it was the presentation….showing a picture was unnecessary…Thanks for sharing this…I agree with dude…everyone has SOMETHING to work on.
Shaming ? Do you comment on news channels who do the same 24/7… nope just black folks who are trying to help. Crabs in a barrel!
When people told Black boys and men to stop sagging, they were applauded.
When people tell Black women to not go to airports and other public places with bonnets and noise shoes, they get criticized.
Whats wrong with what she said? 🤔 lets be real. We as a people cry we want respect then disrespect ourselves and expect the world to look over the known nonsense is ridiculous
Exactly!
Not a damn thing
Only "ninjas" think that this type of ish is cool, "black" people know what's up. There's a difference.
Its sad. I watch our people disrespect ourselves daily by willfully ignoring bad habits. Knowing the others viewus as a laughing stock.. And they should. We need to do and be better..
He's right. She needs to be consistent. If she's going to preach white people rhetoric, she needs to go all the way: Netflix offered the right amount and she should have taken it, shave those legs, be way smaller, cover the gray, stop the cursing (it's not ladylike), Oprah is the Queen, never be in a bathrobe online, etc. I could go on and on. With respectability politics, black women never win.
Now it's white ppl rhetoric to tell ppl not to where nasty looking bonnets out in public?? Nope it's just bc it's at black women from Blk women.
@@Swish_God Yup. It's a bonnet now. Before, it was locs and before that, afros. It never ends.
How the hell is that white people's rhetoric 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦. Swear y'all just be saying anything these days. Y'all need to look better do better in public don't matter the color of your damn skin 🤦🤦🤦🤦. Not taking care of your self failing personal hygiene is one of the first signs of mental health issues. There is a problem. Going out in night attire is questionable and concerning. Period. Do better
@@scorpiocara6798 Do your research, Sweetie. Respectability is about the white gaze - worrying about what they think is proper and having that be YOUR inner voice.
@@soliloquylove2115 it's not though. Everyone is held to those standards. It's called personal hygiene. I don't think about a white person when I say hm let me get up and wash my ass when I leave out the door this morning or let me look like I don't smell and look decent bcz I have self respect.
It's not what you say to people, but how you say something to a person or people.
People need to mind their business. Why take or waste time with silly stuff.There is so much to do. People who tries to control others (which no
one can do) have trouble in controlling themselves. No self-control in speech, behavioral, temper, etc.
Exactly. No control over yourself means you try to control everyone else with "constructive criticism "
Out in public and you see a youngsta with their shoe untied, you would tell the kid to tie their shoe. That's not judgment.. As for the bonnets there's a time a place for everything.
Appearance represents you! Mo'nique was dead on point!✅
Well Said
And opinions don’t matter i can look rough and have more than you how about you just mind your business 🤷🏾♂️
Facts 💯
@@jeffdavis8704 it’s not about materialism, it’s more about respect. You wouldn’t allow your children to wear just anything in public. Then extend that same logic to these grown women
@Blake W this isn’t a difficult concept. So, you’re saying nightgowns & boxer shorts & tanks should be wore in a restaurant 🤔 dude we can find excuses but we should invest our energy in finding solutions. If she’s having a difficult time managing her hair. How about we not judge her natural hair so that she wouldn’t have to hide it. Just a thought
Dude is on point… yall better heed and stop tripping
The interviewer is funny - He being schooled!
Just say we have bigger fish to fry but that doesn’t negate the issue of self respect/representation…it’s men like this unfortunately that will never hold our ppl accountable for their hand in their own self destruction..thank god for the new “black” media & the manosphere..Accountability the point
Well said. We can walk and chew gum at the same time.
Mr. L Channel "We do have bigger fish to fry." And I agree "Thank God, God, God, for the "The New Black Media"
Please take a look please. The second one is on topic . ua-cam.com/video/MbMjNhGI2mAh/v-deo.htmlttps://studio.ua-cam.com/users/video0i1fekgBW6Q/edit
A wise man.💓
I fucks with Rashon said 👏🏾👏🏾
He is right. People are more upset with bonnets than weaves, and booty shorts. What's more respectable, $lut walk or a overcoat and bonnet at trader Joe's?
That’s not even what he said. Also people shit on those these all the damn time
I kinda was with him.. at least on certain points I thought he was making.. but uh.. scratching my head. 🤔🤷🏽♀️
At the airport the women wearing bonnets may be preserving their hairdos while on the plane and they don’t have stylist to get them back right once they get to their destination
What Monique meant was when some ladies wear their bonnets and pajamas out in public like the store in stuff, Funky Dineva broke it down, it's the bonnet, the loudness, the sometimes bad dressed females.
I think people could where what they want. I where my drurag here and there sometimes. I think women can where there Bonnets.
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I can listen to this guy for hours, I love listening to older wisemen 🤔
He has no issue with dudes publicly displaying their prison calling card, but is concerns about their gate/THE OPENING, Monique’s weight & her discussion with women.
I Have No Questions.
Our appearance matches our attitudes and behaviours. We will be forever on the bottom.
That’s a strong statement. I guess YOU will forever be on the bottom.
I don’t think she was coming from a harmful place with her comment it’s just the shit wasn’t that deep
And what I find crazy is that folks want to play in this respectability politics and use the woman from yesteryear as a example as if they weren’t being looked at as second class citizen regardless of what they wore 😂😂😂😂
But go off though
The wisdom of the man!
Disregarding the simple things that reflect upon how you are perceived as individual will always affect the larger group & narrative.
Walk like a warrior!
This goofy euro individualistic mindset is detrimental on top of allowing your so called culture to be dictated.
The bonnet and twerking is getting old.
Durags and dressing like a 5 year old boy in sneakers and a baseball cap is old too 😴
@@ronbluthe310 They are both old. This gender war we have amongst ourselves needs to stop. Black Men and Women need each other.
It was nothing wrong with what she said, she should of just said it in the tone we know her from and that's comedy! A comedian being to serious dnt work for black people it didnt work for cosby and it's not gnna work for Mo'. She gtta get back to being funny that's all.
Monique was not talking down to the bonnet wearers. She actually delivered what is called wisdom. One of the great problems with our community is we don’t know how to hear and accept wisdom. I’ve been in the airport and young beautiful black sisters are in their pajamas with bonnets like they rolled out of bed and came to catch a flight. I’ll say it again for the people in the back, if you don’t respect yourself, no one else will. This piece of wisdom can be delivered simultaneously with all the other things going on in the world. At the end of the day, if a few people recognized the wisdom in what she was saying and stopped wearing bonnets in the public; it’s a win.
Exactly!