Idk but i can never Stop thanking my Allah almighty for saving me from something or someone who wasn't for me. I was blind in love i didn't realise it back then but after a point I started praying and asking Allah that if something isn't right for me give me hidayah, and Allah pak did it. He kept my heart away from that. And I realised it finally that if something is not giving the peace to my heart thn it's not worth keeping it. I m thankful to Allah that he saved me. I just pray that may we all get a spouse who will be the peace of our heart. Who will the coolness to our eyes. And with dt person, we can become a better person and Muslim altogether. ♥️✨🙌
@@JeeyaW371 I don't know what u must going through. But i can say one thing that is, LIFE GOES ON with or without someone. If Allah swt removed someone from your life that is for a reason. Trust the process. And idk about forgetting but u will learn to live with it. And later on it will stop bothering u.
1:00 Allah made us spouses so we may find peace 1:15 Explanation 1:50 The purpose is not love that comes from Allah, The purpose is not care that comes from Allah 2:00 When looking for a spouse, you should ask, what is it that makes me peaceful 2:15 What piece looks like/what it shouldn’t look like in a marriage 2:55 The primary objective when looking for a spouse
Before, I thought my life is a mess until I found him he gave me peace, anxiety is gone and those pain from the struggles before is totally gone like this is your reward for having the sabr in you.
We are not Muslim by choice, rather Allah chooses the purest amongst mankind to enter Paradise. If we become dirty minded, then there will be thousands of chaste monks, priests and pastors who will accept Islam and lead pure lives. Before you criticize me for advocating abstinence, and sexual moderation, go to the refugee camps in Yemen and Syria. I have personally seen how terribly Moslem mothers and sisters are suffering, where to get even one packet of food, they have to jostle with wild men and get assaulted. They do not have any medicine, and their children are starving in front of them. Dare not we claim that those Moslems are any less pious than we are, or deserve less earthly comfort, but those Moslem mothers whose children were burned to death by Burmese Buddhist junta will not agree with these video makers and neither should we be obsessed with sexual acts. Rest assured, we may try to use any hadith or verse of the Quran to justify any form of pleasurable thing or sexual acts with spouses, but remember that Islam is given only to the people who Allah loves, and using one's spouse for lust is not a believer’s objective. Some Moslems have become obsessed with satisfying selfish lust and desires, and constantly upload disgusting videos, when not a single Jewish Rabbis or a Christina monk or priests ever uploaded videos about sexual relation with spouse. Never will the people of paradise be obsessed with sex. It is a place for purity and justice, an abode of cleanliness and worship. If doing disgusting acts interests someone, they are free to enter hellfire, where the inmates will suffer in torment and nakedness, and then they can gaze at each other freely and use one another as toilet bowls. Indulging in sexual acts cause the light of faith to diminish from the heart, and slowly, Islam leaves that person, and they become ex-Muslim, as I personally had seen many who had become dedicated to destroy Islam.
He said just focus on your homework and don't go looking for your spouse because the spouse will come looking for you. So I guess one of us has to put some effort into looking for the spouse. I'm not a religious person but if I want something, I will put my best effort into achieving it and let Allah decide the outcome.
Subhanallah A couple of days ago i was worried about this same topic You know when I see my school mates vibing with their girlfriends or boyfriends at that time I feel insecure But then at the same time I remember that a haram relationship will never have a good ending May Allah [SWT] grant a good Life partner to everyone ✨
Exactly I'm feeling like this too my school mates , my friends and even My Cousins have girlfriends n boyfriend and they chat to them all the time . It feels lonely and insecure . . . Sometimes it feels like I'm too late or maybe not from this type of generation as i haven't even got into a relationship !
honestly, those words are just pure wisdom, especially the part about peace, a relationship better continue and better called perfect only when both sides establish stability and feel safe with each others and grow harmony bond within each others a right spouse is that person you go to for when you are down and sad so they can help you put yourself together and encourage you to fix yourself rather than caring for themselves only thank you for the amazing video bro , may Allah bless you and everyone and Eid Mubarak to all of us :D
He meant you dont need to desperately look for a spouse. Someone from somewhere will approach you to marry their son/daughter, if you live your life with a purpose
@@sarkerfamily4323 I think that statement was meant for mostly the ladies (and some men ), that they have to relax and the right spouse will come looking for her (vice versa ).
I've always believed that I'll also get such a halal person for me. Still now, I'm Waiting for him😊. But from now, I'll re-create my purpose & will live purposeful life in'sha'allah.
U can’t just believe that u have to still try women who stay this end up single until 40 and wonder why no one has come. Try be purposeful to a man and be a good muslim women first and traits that’s men want
I'm saying that your having anxiety and worry about this topic because in any immigrant culture as soon as you turn like 16-18 they start pressurizing their kids for marriage and unfortunately it becomes THE BIGGEST source of stress in young adults lives because on the one hand theres our parents constantly badgering us about marriage and on the other.... we as young adults are still finding our way in life like career wise, goal wise, and you know just trying to better ourselves. So the anxiety that your having is likely stemming from these pressures, indirect attitudes and things that parents and our elders say
Dear Brothers and Sisters, please read this comment! It will only bring you benefits. 1. It was narrated that Abu Umaamah said: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering Paradise except death. 2. Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He who says, 'Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi' (Glory and praise be to Allah) one hundred times a day, his sins will be obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the sea. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim) 3. Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet said:"There are two statements that are light on the tongue, heavy on the scales, and beloved to the Most Merciful: Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhana Allahi Al- Azeem (Glory and praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah, on the scales, and beloved to the Most Merciful: Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhana Allahi Al- ‘Azeem (Glory and praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah, the Most Great.)" (Al-Bukhari) 4. Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet said: He who repeats after every prayer: Subhan Allah (Glory be to Allah) thirty-three times, Al-hamdu lillah (praise be to Allah) thirty-three times, Allahu Akbar (Allah is Greatest) thirty-three times; and completes the hundred with: La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli shai'in qadir (There is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner. His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent)Will have all his sins pardoned even if they may be as large as the foam on the surface of the sea." (Muslim) 5. Zaid in Harithah narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whosoever says: 'Astaghfirullaha al-'Azeem al-ladhi la ilaha illa howa Al-Hayy al-Qayyum wa atubu illayh (I ask forgiveness of Allah, the Magnificent, than Whom there is no deity, the Livina. the Sustainer of existence, and I turn to Him in repentance,) his sins will be forgiven even if he should have run away from the battlefield (while he was engaged in fighting for the Cause of Allah, which is a grave sin in Islam). (Abu Dawud and authenticated by Al-Albani) 6. The Prophet peace be upon him said "Whosoever recites salawaat on me 10 times in the morning and evening, I will intercede for him on the day of Qiyamah." (TIBRANI) 7. Whoever reads Surah Ikhlas ten times, Allah will build a palace for him in Paradise. 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) exclaimed, "If that's the case, then we will increase in our palaces!" The Prophet du (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) responded, "Allah is better and greater (in reward)." [Ahmad] 8. Whoever reads Surat al-Kahf on Friday, it will act as a light/protection for him from one Friday to the next.[Bayhaqil 9. 9. Whoever performs their ablution carefully and then affirms (their faith by testifying): "Ash-hadu an laa ilaha il Allah wahdahu laa shareeka lahu wa ashadu anna Muhammadan "abduhu wa rasuluhu; Allahumma-ja'lni min at-tawaabeen waj-a'lni min al-mutatahireen": 'I testify that there is no true deity except Allah Alone, Who has no partners, and that Muhammad @ is His slave and Messenger; O Allah, make me from those who repent and purify themselves' - the eight gates of Jannah are opened for him so he may enter through whichever of these gates he desires. [Tirmidhi] 10. 10. Whoever says: "Radheetu billahi Rabba, wa bil Islaami Deena, wa bi Muhammad Nabiyya" - '1 am pleased with Allah as my Lord, and with Islam as my Religion, and with Muhammad as my Prophet, Paradise would be (made) mandatory for him. [Abu Dawud] 11. Whoever asks Allah for Paradise three times (Allahumma inni as'aluk al-Jannah), then Paradise will say: "O Allah! Enter him into Paradise!" And whoever seeks protection with Allah from the Fire three times (Allahumma ajirni min an-Nar), the Fire will say: "O Allah! Protect him from the Fire!" [Tirmidhi] 12. Whoever is easy-going, gentle and kind, Allah will make the fire forbidden for him. [Hakim] 13. In Paradise there are rooms whose outside can be seen from the inside and the inside can be seen from the outside. Allah has prepared them for those who feed the poor, who are gentle in speech, who fast regularly and who pray at night when (other) people are asleep. [Ahmad] 14. Narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "There is a soorah of the Qur'an, with thirty verses, that interceded for a man until he was forgiven; it is 'Soorah Tabaarak Alladhi bi yadihi'I-mulk (Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the dominion)' [al-Mulk 67:1]." 15. Say this 3 times for 6 hours worth of reward: Subhan-Allah Wa bihamdihi, 'adada khalqihi, wa rida-a nafsihi, wa zenatee 'arshihi, wa midada kalimatihi(Allah is free from imperfection and I begin with His praise, as many times as the number of His creatures, in accordance with His Good Pleasure by weight of his throne, equal to the ink that may be used in recording the words (for His Praise)." (Muslim) Share because it's sadaqat'ul jariah rewards forever:)
For the first time im hearing that a scholar is telling telling girls to live a purposeful life and focus on studies......❤❤❤..... I always thought that way...that i should better be independent and successful first...so that my future spouse look for me.....
no offence but independence is not attractive, dependence is. no point in marrying a woman if she’s independent like ok…go buy urself ur own house and pay for your own bills and utilities and food, like why am i providing? dependence is an attractive quality in women. not saying you can’t be independent, it’s just most men don’t prefer that do it for yourself tho if that’s your goal!
@@ibrahim_-_-_ independence is an attractive trait just as long as you are also able to learn to balance it with making your man feel like he is needed, he is wanted, and that he is strong. trust me, as a woman who has a personality of someone who can be easily addicted to a man, make them my everything, that is not attractive to a healthy man. sure it might be exhilirating at first to be the center of someone's attention, but soon enough that shine will fade and you will see all the bad sides of dealing with a person who wants to be attached to your hip. ive done a lot of missteps earlier in my first and current relationship where i relied on my man for my every whim and feeling. whenever i felt insecure, i would always ask for his reassurance and validation, and not try to fix my own feelings first. it bothered him, and he would think that because of my insecurity that our love was not real. it disturbed the peace between us, because i was always concerned whether he would leave me or not, if he still found me attractive, does he care about me, when is he going to give me flowers, etc etc. too much vulnerability and dependence can make your the man feel suffocated, and on edge. it is not fair to place that burden upon your husband.
Maybe the next time dont lie in the title of the videos as if your talking about "signs" when your just ranting about stuff we already know and your end point was "peace" and yet no signs that you promised us in the beginning of the video, i am not angry i am disappointed in you.
Subhan Allah ❤️ Allah Pak Ilm,Rizk or Umar Main Barkat Ataa Farmaye Bhot Khoob Ye Cheez Mard Or Ourat Dono K Liye Faidamand Hai Main Pyar Samjhta Tha Lekin BeShak Agar Peace Hi Nai Life Main Tow Pyar Ka Kya Faida🥺
Alhamdulillah I‘ve never been like that I swear with girls like this I can‘t even be friends with 😭😂 Thank you Nouman Ali Khan for telling those young girls that
At the beginning we had so much peace but I started getting anxious once it was time to start sharing about him with my family and then the anxiety and drama came along. When I am not around my mother and her questions I am quite at peace with my relationship.
Its not a good idea to rely on someone else to come and rid you of your sufferings and give you peace. Nobody loves a mess so first start loving yourself and be content with yourself.
Asalam Alykom brothers and sisters, please pray for me to get married. I have been trying for almost 15 years, but it hasn’t happened yet 😢. May Allah reward you.
@@ayeshajaved8906 my dear sister. The beauty of your face, eyes and body will fade away with time. What lasts is the beauty that is inside you. Your personality. Make sure to marry a person who is a good human being. Who has good manners and etiquettes.
@@ayeshajaved8906 and make sure you work on being a better person every single day. You can use prophet Mohammed's examples as your guide to becoming a better Muslim.
Sometimes they say, get married asap. And now it's 'don't look for a spouse'. so if everyone follows this advice and aren't looking for a spouse then nobody is going to get married.
Yes focus on your school and work but you need to at least put in some effort to look for them, then if it doesnt happen thats in the hands of Allah SWT. And you should look for someone when you are in your early 20s, otherwise people will fall into Zina or loneliness. No man or woman should be delaying till their 30s and 40s to start putting effort to meet someone cos by then you are less bothered
This is @Nouman Ali Khan (the speaker)and he had nothing to do with the content or the title, there's many channels or accounts on UA-cam people are putting their own title and sharing cut-pieces of other people's lectures.
Idk but i can never Stop thanking my Allah almighty for saving me from something or someone who wasn't for me. I was blind in love i didn't realise it back then but after a point I started praying and asking Allah that if something isn't right for me give me hidayah, and Allah pak did it. He kept my heart away from that. And I realised it finally that if something is not giving the peace to my heart thn it's not worth keeping it. I m thankful to Allah that he saved me. I just pray that may we all get a spouse who will be the peace of our heart. Who will the coolness to our eyes. And with dt person, we can become a better person and Muslim altogether. ♥️✨🙌
InshaAllah ameen summa aameen ❤
❤Ameen!!!! Beautiful!!!!
Why you have a fake name is not it like fraud
Is this possible to forget someone that u extremly love ,,I dont think so if this would be possible for me😔
@@JeeyaW371 I don't know what u must going through. But i can say one thing that is, LIFE GOES ON with or without someone. If Allah swt removed someone from your life that is for a reason. Trust the process. And idk about forgetting but u will learn to live with it. And later on it will stop bothering u.
1:00 Allah made us spouses so we may find peace
1:15 Explanation
1:50 The purpose is not love that comes from Allah, The purpose is not care that comes from Allah
2:00 When looking for a spouse, you should ask, what is it that makes me peaceful
2:15 What piece looks like/what it shouldn’t look like in a marriage
2:55 The primary objective when looking for a spouse
Oh Allah, forgive all of our past, present, and future sins, Ameen.
Ameen Ya Rabb!!!❤
Ameen
Aameen
Ameen
Alhamdulillah
Ameen
Before, I thought my life is a mess until I found him he gave me peace, anxiety is gone and those pain from the struggles before is totally gone like this is your reward for having the sabr in you.
❤❤❤❤❤
We are not Muslim by choice, rather Allah chooses the purest amongst mankind to enter Paradise. If we become dirty minded, then there will be thousands of chaste monks, priests and pastors who will accept Islam and lead pure lives.
Before you criticize me for advocating abstinence, and sexual moderation, go to the refugee camps in Yemen and Syria. I have personally seen how terribly Moslem mothers and sisters are suffering, where to get even one packet of food, they have to jostle with wild men and get assaulted. They do not have any medicine, and their children are starving in front of them. Dare not we claim that those Moslems are any less pious than we are, or deserve less earthly comfort, but those Moslem mothers whose children were burned to death by Burmese Buddhist junta will not agree with these video makers and neither should we be obsessed with sexual acts. Rest assured, we may try to use any hadith or verse of the Quran to justify any form of pleasurable thing or sexual acts with spouses, but remember that Islam is given only to the people who Allah loves, and using one's spouse for lust is not a believer’s objective. Some Moslems have become obsessed with satisfying selfish lust and desires, and constantly upload disgusting videos, when not a single Jewish Rabbis or a Christina monk or priests ever uploaded videos about sexual relation with spouse. Never will the people of paradise be obsessed with sex. It is a place for purity and justice, an abode of cleanliness and worship. If doing disgusting acts interests someone, they are free to enter hellfire, where the inmates will suffer in torment and nakedness, and then they can gaze at each other freely and use one another as toilet bowls. Indulging in sexual acts cause the light of faith to diminish from the heart, and slowly, Islam leaves that person, and they become ex-Muslim, as I personally had seen many who had become dedicated to destroy Islam.
Financial stability gives me peace.
He said just focus on your homework and don't go looking for your spouse because the spouse will come looking for you. So I guess one of us has to put some effort into looking for the spouse. I'm not a religious person but if I want something, I will put my best effort into achieving it and let Allah decide the outcome.
The best wisdom now I realized about marriage with true love.
Subhanallah
A couple of days ago i was worried about this same topic
You know when I see my school mates vibing with their girlfriends or boyfriends at that time I feel insecure
But then at the same time I remember that a haram relationship will never have a good ending
May Allah [SWT] grant a good Life partner to everyone ✨
@@Mo-gt8fh exactly brother , i trust you ✨
Exactly I'm feeling like this too my school mates , my friends and even My Cousins have girlfriends n boyfriend and they chat to them all the time .
It feels lonely and insecure . . . Sometimes it feels like I'm too late or maybe not from this type of generation as i haven't even got into a relationship !
@@alivealmyn5061 it's a good thing that your are not in a relationship
Allah will grant you a good Life partner
@@alivealmyn5061 Dont worry too much. If Allah gave you freedom, enjoy it. And when you least expect it, it will happen, InshAllah.
Ameen!❤
honestly, those words are just pure wisdom, especially the part about peace, a relationship better continue and better called perfect only when both sides establish stability and feel safe with each others and grow harmony bond within each others
a right spouse is that person you go to for when you are down and sad so they can help you put yourself together and encourage you to fix yourself rather than caring for themselves only
thank you for the amazing video bro , may Allah bless you and everyone and Eid Mubarak to all of us :D
Masha Allah, the best advice I could ever get. Jazakallah kheyr❤
"You wont have to look for the spouse, the spouse will look for you" isn't that the same as me finding the spouse! 🙂🙂
He meant you dont need to desperately look for a spouse. Someone from somewhere will approach you to marry their son/daughter, if you live your life with a purpose
@Green Mosaic MY point exactly, we need to search for the right spouse for ourselves.
@@sarkerfamily4323 I think that statement was meant for mostly the ladies (and some men ), that they have to relax and the right spouse will come looking for her (vice versa ).
@@sarkerfamily4323Not necessarily, Allah chooses our spouses for us. We may think we have a "choice", but Allah knows best.
😅🤣🤣🤣🤣
I needed to hear this jzk
may Allah make things easy for you and bring so much peace into your life, insha'Allah
Hearing this is so peaceful itself
MashaAllah ✨
Excellent this is so true Ma’sh’Allah JhazakAllah for sharing
Allah Kareem aapka Laakh Laakh Shukar for You blessed me with Shukar Allhamdolillha for everything ❤❤❤❤❤
I've always believed that I'll also get such a halal person for me. Still now, I'm Waiting for him😊. But from now, I'll re-create my purpose & will live purposeful life in'sha'allah.
U can’t just believe that u have to still try women who stay this end up single until 40 and wonder why no one has come. Try be purposeful to a man and be a good muslim women first and traits that’s men want
This is what I am having anxiety about from last few months it's really helping my thought processes
because really it comes down to the culture we're in that starts pressurizing us for marriage
@@kiranshah5195 I didn't get what you wanna convey me can you explain please
I'm saying that your having anxiety and worry about this topic because in any immigrant culture as soon as you turn like 16-18 they start pressurizing their kids for marriage and unfortunately it becomes THE BIGGEST source of stress in young adults lives because on the one hand theres our parents constantly badgering us about marriage and on the other.... we as young adults are still finding our way in life like career wise, goal wise, and you know just trying to better ourselves. So the anxiety that your having is likely stemming from these pressures, indirect attitudes and things that parents and our elders say
Ok I agree to it but partially
@@5a8459 why partially? What your take on this matter
Dear Brothers and Sisters, please read this comment! It will only bring you benefits.
1. It was narrated that Abu Umaamah said: "The
Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi immediately after each prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entering
Paradise except death.
2. Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He who says, 'Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi' (Glory and praise be to Allah) one hundred times a day, his sins will be obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the sea. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
3. Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet said:"There are two statements that are light on the tongue, heavy on the scales, and beloved to the Most Merciful: Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhana Allahi Al- Azeem (Glory and praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah, on the scales, and beloved to the Most Merciful: Subahana Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhana Allahi Al- ‘Azeem (Glory and praise be to Allah, Glorified is Allah, the Most Great.)" (Al-Bukhari)
4. Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet said: He who repeats after every prayer: Subhan Allah (Glory be to Allah) thirty-three times, Al-hamdu lillah (praise be to Allah) thirty-three times, Allahu Akbar (Allah is Greatest) thirty-three times; and completes the hundred with: La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli shai'in qadir (There is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner. His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent)Will have all his sins pardoned even if they may be as large as the foam on the surface of the sea." (Muslim)
5. Zaid in Harithah narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whosoever says: 'Astaghfirullaha al-'Azeem al-ladhi la ilaha illa howa Al-Hayy al-Qayyum wa atubu illayh (I ask forgiveness of Allah, the Magnificent, than Whom there is no deity, the Livina. the Sustainer of existence, and I turn to Him in repentance,) his sins will be forgiven even if he should have run away from the battlefield (while he was engaged in fighting for the Cause of Allah, which is a grave sin in Islam). (Abu Dawud and authenticated by Al-Albani)
6. The Prophet peace be upon him said "Whosoever recites salawaat on me 10 times in the morning and evening, I will intercede for him on the day of Qiyamah." (TIBRANI)
7. Whoever reads Surah Ikhlas ten times, Allah will build a palace for him in Paradise. 'Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) exclaimed, "If that's the case, then we will increase in our palaces!" The Prophet du (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) responded, "Allah is better and greater (in reward)." [Ahmad]
8. Whoever reads Surat al-Kahf on Friday, it will act as a light/protection for him from one Friday to the next.[Bayhaqil
9. 9. Whoever performs their ablution carefully and then affirms (their faith by testifying): "Ash-hadu an laa ilaha il Allah wahdahu laa shareeka lahu wa ashadu anna Muhammadan "abduhu wa rasuluhu; Allahumma-ja'lni min at-tawaabeen waj-a'lni min al-mutatahireen": 'I testify that there is no true deity except Allah Alone, Who has no partners, and that Muhammad @ is His slave and Messenger; O Allah, make me from those who repent and purify themselves' - the eight gates of Jannah are opened for him so he may enter through whichever of these gates he desires. [Tirmidhi]
10. 10. Whoever says: "Radheetu billahi Rabba, wa bil Islaami Deena, wa bi Muhammad Nabiyya" - '1 am pleased with Allah as my Lord, and with Islam as my Religion, and with Muhammad as my Prophet, Paradise would be (made) mandatory for him. [Abu Dawud]
11. Whoever asks Allah for Paradise three times (Allahumma inni as'aluk al-Jannah), then Paradise will say: "O Allah! Enter him into Paradise!" And whoever seeks protection with Allah from the Fire three times (Allahumma ajirni min an-Nar), the Fire will say: "O Allah! Protect him from the Fire!" [Tirmidhi]
12. Whoever is easy-going, gentle and kind, Allah will make the fire forbidden for him. [Hakim]
13. In Paradise there are rooms whose outside can be seen from the inside and the inside can be seen from the outside. Allah has prepared them for those who feed the poor, who are gentle in speech, who fast regularly and who pray at night when (other) people are asleep. [Ahmad]
14. Narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said:
"There is a soorah of the Qur'an, with thirty verses, that interceded for a man until he was forgiven; it is 'Soorah Tabaarak Alladhi bi yadihi'I-mulk (Blessed is He in Whose Hand is the dominion)' [al-Mulk 67:1]."
15. Say this 3 times for 6 hours worth of reward:
Subhan-Allah Wa bihamdihi, 'adada khalqihi, wa rida-a nafsihi, wa zenatee 'arshihi, wa midada kalimatihi(Allah is free from imperfection and I begin with His praise, as many times as the number of His creatures, in accordance with His Good Pleasure by weight of his throne, equal to the ink that may be used in recording the words (for His Praise)." (Muslim)
Share because it's sadaqat'ul jariah rewards forever:)
May Allah bless you ❤❤
Allah not He, if Allah is He it means that Jesus is God...Allah has no gender, n god is not a men
JazakAllah may Allah give's you highest rank in Jannat ul firdos ameen
Yep I am dying Alone
For the first time im hearing that a scholar is telling telling girls to live a purposeful life and focus on studies......❤❤❤.....
I always thought that way...that i should better be independent and successful first...so that my future spouse look for me.....
💯😓
no offence but independence is not attractive, dependence is. no point in marrying a woman if she’s independent like ok…go buy urself ur own house and pay for your own bills and utilities and food, like why am i providing?
dependence is an attractive quality in women. not saying you can’t be independent, it’s just most men don’t prefer that
do it for yourself tho if that’s your goal!
Hahaha do you live under a rock. I heard this every lecture on marriage. Also how to worship women and how men are inferi0r to women
@@ibrahim_-_-_ independence is an attractive trait just as long as you are also able to learn to balance it with making your man feel like he is needed, he is wanted, and that he is strong.
trust me, as a woman who has a personality of someone who can be easily addicted to a man, make them my everything, that is not attractive to a healthy man. sure it might be exhilirating at first to be the center of someone's attention, but soon enough that shine will fade and you will see all the bad sides of dealing with a person who wants to be attached to your hip.
ive done a lot of missteps earlier in my first and current relationship where i relied on my man for my every whim and feeling. whenever i felt insecure, i would always ask for his reassurance and validation, and not try to fix my own feelings first. it bothered him, and he would think that because of my insecurity that our love was not real. it disturbed the peace between us, because i was always concerned whether he would leave me or not, if he still found me attractive, does he care about me, when is he going to give me flowers, etc etc.
too much vulnerability and dependence can make your the man feel suffocated, and on edge. it is not fair to place that burden upon your husband.
The only downside to that is that women are getting old and ugly.
Maybe the next time dont lie in the title of the videos as if your talking about "signs" when your just ranting about stuff we already know and your end point was "peace" and yet no signs that you promised us in the beginning of the video, i am not angry i am disappointed in you.
he used someone else's video... what do you expect
Its click bait, what did you expect 😅 as a prudent person you have to find answer in the video 😅😂
He's not even the person that's talking
@@DrDoctopus what
@@DrDoctopus 😊who is the speaker
Best advice ever😍😍ma sha Allah
Ya Allah help me n make it easy fme to get married soon with the man i love...Ameen .... Ya Allah make him mine n soft his heart for me...Ameen
Subhanallah 🤍
Ma Sha Allah
Allahu Akbar 🤍
The best summary I have ever heard on marriage
"Stay purposeful"
Million worth advice❤
This is so well said mA, thank you
what a truth .... I just gone through this situation... Truthfull
Alhamdulillah 🤍
May Allah grant us such spouses Aameen
that "you love him too much "at 2:46 got me 😭😭
Jezakallah
Much needed one❤️
❤❤💎💎May Allah bless us all abundantly both in the duniya and akhirah 💯.....
aameen Ya Allah
bi Rehmatika Ya Mujeebu Ya Wahhabu Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum
This made my day
thank you for giving advice for my life
Thavakkalthu ila allah..
Subhan Allah ❤️ Allah Pak Ilm,Rizk or Umar Main Barkat Ataa Farmaye Bhot Khoob Ye Cheez Mard Or Ourat Dono K Liye Faidamand Hai Main Pyar Samjhta Tha Lekin BeShak Agar Peace Hi Nai Life Main Tow Pyar Ka Kya Faida🥺
Subhan Allah
This came in time 😍 i will just complete my masters and perfect my career with the right intention ofc.
Ameen
Alhamdulillah I‘ve never been like that I swear with girls like this I can‘t even be friends with 😭😂 Thank you Nouman Ali Khan for telling those young girls that
Shuukran shuukran
Allhamdullah MASHLLAH 💖♥️ peace ✌️ MASHLLAH 💖❤✌️🕋💐🌹🌴🪴🌳
This lecture really needed❤❤
Best advice ever😊😢👍
All situations are different
All circumstances are different
توقلة علي الله♥️
Seek for positivity ❤
this is the best explanation Subhanallah
But they showed reality sir👍
I wish I found this video 8 or 9 years ago 😢
Would you like to share what happened?
Everything good?
Are uh oka?
Why??
thank you a lot for such kind of advices))
“Cause i love him”😂😂
YA RAABII 🤲
I wish I could see this before 3 months
Why?
pls make dua for me their is this one girl whom i really really like, like reallllyyyyyyyy she is so gorgeous... pls
May ALLAH give u that girl
Please the full episode 😭 🙏
Nice speech, what's the name of sound track?
At the beginning we had so much peace but I started getting anxious once it was time to start sharing about him with my family and then the anxiety and drama came along. When I am not around my mother and her questions I am quite at peace with my relationship.
❤🤲💚
Speechless .... 😓
Its not a good idea to rely on someone else to come and rid you of your sufferings and give you peace. Nobody loves a mess so first start loving yourself and be content with yourself.
So it means I am a mess
#light *i so adore you* .this is👊👊👊👊👊to ma mind lol.
Thank you
😭😭❤️
I am graduated and single, now How can i find such that spouse who will give me peace 🙄
you find peace when you pray and recite quran
Find purpose in life. The right people with purpose will come along. That's what mufti said.
Have faith in Allah.
@@brownie315 He isn't mufti.
He is a common muslim brother
His name is nouman ali khan
This is Nomal Ali Khan's narration, not Mufti Menk. #muftimenk. Dear uploader, you might need to mention that
Why does it feel like his talking to me😂😂😂i was complaining abt the same thing to my mom
I do got an additional question: is it alright if you find that peace in a non-muslim? Is it mandatory to marry a muslim?
Bro really ranted and said "dont worry about it!" And dipped
MA sha Allaah Subhan Allaah alhamdulillah 😭 astagfirullah
Asalam Alykom brothers and sisters, please pray for me to get married. I have been trying for almost 15 years, but it hasn’t happened yet 😢. May Allah reward you.
May Allah accept your prayers. Amin
Literally think I'm going to be single forever
Hope fuel
The speaker is Nouman Ali Khan not Muftimenk
me and my sister often have anxiety about it! and I was thinking about that suddenly this vedio came!
I wish my future spouse would have the same character like me
Inshallah...Ameen
I don't know what gives me peace.
🖤🖤🖤🙌🙌
Can someone refer me to this nasheed in the background
Ali Dawud-Subhanallah
How we will come to know that this person will going to give us peace in future?
Is the person of good temper when you talk to them? Are they well mannered? These are a couple of signs.
@@brownie315 hy what about physical attraction? Agr acha insan hy but physical attraction na ho ri ho?
@@ayeshajaved8906 my dear sister. The beauty of your face, eyes and body will fade away with time. What lasts is the beauty that is inside you. Your personality. Make sure to marry a person who is a good human being. Who has good manners and etiquettes.
@@ayeshajaved8906 and make sure you work on being a better person every single day. You can use prophet Mohammed's examples as your guide to becoming a better Muslim.
Before worrying how someone Will give you peace maybe you should worry about how YOU give peace to someone.
Sometimes they say, get married asap. And now it's 'don't look for a spouse'. so if everyone follows this advice and aren't looking for a spouse then nobody is going to get married.
I guess what he meant and what he should've added is "don't look for a spouse when you still haven't found your purpose in life" 😅
nasheed name?
When I love Almighty Allah and prophet and parents and career. I don’t have any more space for anyone else. Sorry can’t.
How to find a purpose in life..?
Islam will tell you. Just learn.
In India Parents decide,
the marriage takes place
and after that the drama begins
Yes focus on your school and work but you need to at least put in some effort to look for them, then if it doesnt happen thats in the hands of Allah SWT. And you should look for someone when you are in your early 20s, otherwise people will fall into Zina or loneliness. No man or woman should be delaying till their 30s and 40s to start putting effort to meet someone cos by then you are less bothered
Q: aren't click baits Haram??
Still waiting for that 2 signs ;_;
He is not mufti menk he is noman ali khan
Dear شو
don’t fake title please…
What’s number two?
1) Purpose: find and follow your purpose, like minded persons will follow along with you
2) Peace, as the Mufti said
in the video they've mentioned only one "sign" or am I wrong? So one sign is piece and what is the other?
This is @Nouman Ali Khan
(the speaker)and he had nothing to do with the content or the title, there's many channels or accounts on UA-cam people are putting their own title and sharing cut-pieces of other people's lectures.
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