This Is Why Being Detached From An Ex Works
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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For years, my team and I have noticed an ominous phenomenon.
It looks something like this.
Our client comes to us desperate to get their exes back.
They try and fail
They then decide to give up
That’s when the ex comes back.
Only when they’ve fully detached it seems that’s when they come back.
Why?
Well, that’s what we’re going to figure out today.
It’s been 4 months. I let go of my ex. I’m not crying over him. My ex hasn’t contacted me. If my ex contacts me I will be surprised. If my ex doesn’t I don’t care. I been working on my self. I’m better with out my ex. I only wish I left my ex sooner. Good bye to bad rubbish.
This is a great video, and great tips! Exactly what I do when a relationship crumbles - I go back to the drawing board and revisit my life goals. It gives your life meaning again.
Chris, spot on. Bravo. Especially finding one’s magnum opus. Then it doesn’t really matter if the ex comes back. You likely won’t WANT them back. Keep up the good work
Right on
What a secure person understands is walking away.
Why do I get the vibe that this guy actually cares about his people
What if the Anxious and Avoidant roles were constantly switching back and forth between the two people in the relationship?
Thank u for your inspiring words… i'm in this phase right now…
Selene video I actually learned something new and important. Implementing that as we speak and working on my own Magnus Opus. Thank you Chris! 🙏 Subbed. 😎
I’m struggling to find videos about break ups when it’s a complicated situation, for example, my ex is from Afghanistan and came from a different life and he had to hide me from his family because they had different views and would disown him, and he’s not ready to up and move away, both mentally, financially and so forth. He can’t abandon his family, sure some say he could but it’s never that simple. But I have a hard time finding videos about complex situations like that. Interracial relationships and their families. Also it’s been 9 months since the break up and I’m still convinced he’s the one, and I’ll never know what was real or not until I know. He always told me he will die single unless he gets me one day when his family becomes open minded or god takes them, but until then, who knows… I think of him every single day and I do hope there’s a future for us and that it’s real like he always told me, and how I feel it is. 💭
I really enjoyed the latter 'Magnum Opus' part of this video 👍
that really helped me see a new perspective on things, thank you
Excellent video
I wonder how many people (secure - or anxious who worked on themselves and didn't show anxious attachment patterns) have been able to make their avoidant ex work on themselves and change their behaviours and apologise... as a deal for going back in a relationship with them?
you don't "make" somebody work on themselves.
Does it work for short term 2-3 dating partners where the connection was insanely good
I cant detach😢
What if neither you or your ex use social media?
Same position here.. I don’t use social media as I deleted it to focus on US. But we’re done. She still has hers cuz we shared it, but I’m all alone with nothing and no one.
Wt if we dnt follow each other on social media
Why my ex still have my number saved in him phone after 3 weeks of brkup.
People keep numbers. It means he doesn't mind keeping your number. No bad blood between you and him.
Why would you know about that? LOL
Mine too! I told him to delete it and he says no he’s not me.
Same with my break up as well! Been three weeks. No contact yet.
But I’m slowly getting over him now thank goodness for that.
First 🙋🏾♀️