He's Single Because Women Are Golddigger & have Sprinkle Sprinkle Mindset. Hes NOT competing for you
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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As I've gotten older, I've realized that a man who is ok with his children and his wife being raised and exposed to poverty is NOT a good man.
@@sparklesp9304 amen 🙏🏽
Oh 😮😮. My mind is blown …
Not once did this man say he’s okay with his wife and children to live in poverty. I don’t know how you jump to that conclusion.
@@tye1939 he’s cheap and narcissistic. He needs a man not a woman.
People in America don’t even know what poverty is .
Him laying in the bed talking to her tells me EVERYTHING I need to know.
I am telling you and what is a " normal" relationship? What is normal ?
Stinky for both men and women.
Plenty of serious, conservative women in Vegas. He is looking in the wrong places.Im from Chicago and I have a wonderful family. That’s a cop out.
Stop going for gold diggers and baddies and start looking at average women with normal jobs and you won’t have a problem dating.
But he wants the gold diggers and baddies to live an average life when they have plenty of options.
@@jayscott5618Bingo!
@@rosewatersweettea I didn't hear him say he goes for those type of women. Yall are assuming.
He refuses to date in his lane.
@@jayc5756 Somehow he keeps entertaining that type from what he said in the first 5 min. He needs to make better choices.
He in his soft girl era
He’s the sprinkle sprinkle he’s complaining about
I love being a passenger prince
You win 🏆 😂😂😂
@@ItsGoingDao 😆😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Have the decency to at least sit up 🆗......Mr. Zezty vibes ‼️‼️🤮💩🤮💩
😂😂🤣🤣
Theres def a zesty vibe there!!
🚩 Wanting a “mom” for your future children without sharing what kind of husband or father you’re planning to be.
Doesn't that mom deserve a good husband also 😅
More like a beard 😢😮
@@AstouLive-I was looking for your comment 😂
He’s not competing FOR women. He’s competing WITH women. 😂
Nuuuuuu😂😂😂
Literally the Great Value Drake
😅😅😅😅😅
Finally a comment I can 😂😂😂
Notice how he says he wants a MOTHER and not a wife...
You’re listening!!
Respectfully, wanting a wife and 3 kids on a Walmart salary in this economy is ridiculous.
He was being facetious. He eventually states he works in television.
@@shadea.3827 Slow 🤦♂️
@@jayc5756 You're evidently the slow one. He had said he'd just got a job in LA working in "television" two months ago and that, historically, he hasn't had stable employment (i.e. Walmart). I'm not really convinced he was making bank then or now.
@Vellycardwell his tok tok ya'll keep playing
@@shadea.3827 Ma, just take accountability & responsibility. That just made you look worst...tryna push that on me. But Whatever 🤦♂️
Am I the only one that found him creepy? Something seems really off about him.
narc vibes
He really likes the sound of his voice. 💅
Ashley is an excellent listener and very patient. She was willing to hear his perspective without judgement and she ended the conversation when it was expired. There is someone out there for everyone 🤷🏽♀️
He in bed with no shirt on, very disrespectful!! She should have not held a conversation with him.
😂😂😂he wanted to be wnb drizzy
Sir, where is your shirt?!?! Wearing an entire gold watch while shirtless is bananas 😂
Bonkers 😂😂
It's the little fox that spoil the vine!
So he has morals, but no significant thought to being a provider for your loving wife/“best friend” and kids
Also, he may have a better time marrying a good man and perhaps adopting
This y I tell every women, girls, teens charge these men cause ur the one risking ur body n life for a dusty legacy I asked my husband for 70k he only gave cause he tried to change my mind about kids when we agreed on no kids before marriage
providing is for kids. mothers and fathers provide for kids. you modern women want to be the big kids in the household nowadays
@@justlurkinFathers provide and mothers nurture
@@sparklesp9304 then why yall need equal pay and opportunities? why not leave those to the people that are burdened with the responsibility those things are used for. Why split the available work and money to provide with in two parts then expect only one side to handle all provision? make it make sense. It made sense back in the day. Doesn't make sense anymore.
Am I the only one who thinks he's gay ?
Definitely gay
Like drake is gay he is too😂
@@user-gn7in7tp4b I don’t know if drake is but drake paints his nails and has girl clips in his hair so could be
@@HottSundaedaily its not even the painted nails i think could be black nails to be a lil dif but its the way a man acts zesty asf and drake is zesty af there so many red flags in that man. He never takes any woman serious never been in no longterm relationship and the way he extra feminine with all if his skincare etc
@@HottSundaedaily He's bi allegedly
Ash! He’s not drunk! He’s high as a kite 😂
I bet he got a BBL and some Yeezy slides
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂You’re on a roll! 😂
@@thisblackgirloverhere9013 😂😂😂😂😂
@@HeauxlisticLux 😂😂😂😂
Bru say bbl😮😂😂😂
He is looking for a baddies, but wants them to be cheap. Pick a side sir, you might have to divest from the hotties.
He said he didn't have a specific look or type he's looking for ma. So where do you get that from? 🤔
@@jayc5756 Deductive reasoning. There are baddies of all “types”, it’s not mutually exclusive. The man has dated in Vegas, Brazil, the UK, NYC - he’s not dating 4s and 5s yet his wife might be in that range.
The baddies are as loyal as his bank account. He can marry a baddie but she's going to have an undeveloped personality because her looks doesn't require she be honest, upright, loyal etc. She doesn't focus on it because the men who are attracted to her are shallow.
@@itsmetifft 4 or 5 is subjective...because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
But yeah, we All want someone that we're very attracted to...well most of us straight men....and women. He seem to not care, but idk 🤔
@@khrisi9410 Huh??
I think he was talking more about Character than looks ma. And those things are not mutual exclusive or un-exclusive.
People are getting married in every city in the US in every country in the world and at every age range. Believing anything else is your mindset.
I never actually set out to interracially date to be honest , it only happened cuz of mental trauma I experienced from blk men growing up and black people in general so I always stay out there way as a adult cuz they so judgmental , I rather be around people that I can just be me , the guy I’m currently seeing is white and dosent require me to wear wigs although I do wear makeup cus it makes me feel pretty and I wanna look good for him .
Salute to you. Most of us guys don't set out to date out either...but we do when we are in our dating casual phase...and a lot of us gravitate towards who gives us that interested in us energy...and ww definitely do more than bw unfortunately...so that's how it happens.
But yeah, I gotta have a bw. But if my soulmate is something else...and the spirit says to be with her, I do. But the few that I did date that was white, I made sure they understood that it is casual...not longterm. So it is what it is. But that's just me.
The majority if not all blk men actually hate wigs lol. Omg they do Lmao. My man is mg biggest supporter of me wearing my natural hair. I hope you heal your trauma with your blackness of self and blk men. Your trauma is lying to you
We’re happy you found a sincere man.
@@opulence_prime 👻👻👻👻
THIS. Exactly my reason for dating out, I don’t even look their way atp.
he's depressed and lonely!
He’s giving narcissist
He's looking for his next Victim to Target.
@BlackEnchantress 😢
What a weirdo…
His language. " flow state" , " beautiful challenge", the dusty way of congratulations in the beginning
And his laid back position, is giving feminine energy to me
Its a red flag . Forgive me .
Sir find someone that works at Walmart with you so you can relate
Nah He wants the baddies that spend more money on themselves in a week then he does in a month 😅
He need to be quiet, Looking like Fake Drake
Hahahahhah and drake is prolly worst
He put on a brave face, but he is down bad. Bless his heart
I guarantee you he pursues women who are the opposite of what he says he wants 😂
What he needs to learn is the mind is very goal fulfilling so if he believes every woman is trash 🗑️ then the mind will show him every dumpster and recycle bin of a woman out there. We don't see with our eyes we see with our mind. Instead of minding Ashleys business, he should mind his and focus on developing his discernment and a positive view on women because his conversation and accolades alone aren't enough to pull the type of quality woman he claims he wants and if he does he won't see them
I love how you put that ❤will be using that in my own words 👏👏👏
@@mzbrown6969 Super Facts!
Complicated? No. CONDESCENDING AF, AbSoLuTeLy.
He zesty 😂
@@69FabulosityHow u can tell? Lol
@jayc5756 how can u not 🧐🧐🧐? He has his hand bk in a feminine pose acting like he's thrist trapping laying in bed with no shirt 🛌🤣🤣🤣 nothing about him gives off masculine 🤦♀️ he gives off thristy feminine vibes💯
@jayc5756 he's laying in bed 🛌 with his hand put bk with no shirt. He's giving lazy put in time to present himself properly & he's laying like a thristy feminine male in bed.
@jayc5756 obviously look at his zesty thrist trapping pose. He gives zero masculine vibes🤣💯
Man is laying in bed, interrupts all the time, and his financial situation sucks at 35 lol. He’s going to stay single, or he may pull a woman who is a doormat.
Can't listen to a dude talking in bed
I live in Vegas and it’s definitely a different world. It’s hard to go from being spoiled to not.
Men claim they want all this stuff and then get it and call you boring smh or cheat on you. They don't want any of this they just want to be able to say they have it .
Exactly. They say they want a kind, modest, humble, etc… woman but when such a woman shows up, they don’t bother to invest in where a connection with her can go because the next girl is new and more shiny…
@@876me7 I've been told I am not toxic enough. I have been told that I am too nice. All kinds of weird things. I dressed modestly for 6 months and the guy I was dating would sigh when he saw me wearing modest clothes. He would alternatively get excited when I dress provocatively. It's just a silly goose chase trying to please these men who really don't want what they say they want.
@@jahjah1769 Exactly. It took a while for me to come to terms with the fact that dating has been so confusing for me is these males claim to want one thing but really want something completely different. Silly goose chase is exactly right.
@@jahjah1769Yes yes yes! All of this! I no longer try to please them because they ALWAYS move the goalpost. My man will love me for me and I will not have to change who I am to try to fit his image. I’ve done it too many times just to sit there and end up looking foolish in the end!
A "good" man with good morals and values, would not be broke at all.
What change , value, growth , impact can a man make when broke ?
How good of a father and a husband can a man be if hes broke ?
A good man with good morals and values would never be broke.
He just talks just to talk to make ppl think he smart when he’s not, he the type of man that would hate to have a woman that would be smarter than him🤣 acts like there is not one woman that he could find in usa lol yea right💀 excuses cuz he wanna be the one flown out.
@@user-gn7in7tp4b How u assume All Of That?? SMH 🤦♂️
Lack of sleep will have you acting drunk. Ashley clocked the energy.
6:03 OHHH HELLL NOOO why he wanna fight Ashley 😂 So embarrassing
Lost 100lbs in COVID? Wow congrats!! 😮
He got that ozempik virus.
He Sounds Like A Fool !
Ash is so gorgeous, feminine and classy, I feel like she has 5 men 😂
Not even 1
🌈🌈
Lol. You saw a sign too huh?? Lol. Mann. Crazy!
Hmmm, he’s all over the place, difficult to get a clear read on. I liked his description of what he wants in a women but his reasons why he’s single were sus
Also, he is NOT a giver. He does not appear to take pride in the life he wants to created for/with his wife. His responses came across as self-interested.
I'm a guy and I felt sweet watching this interview. He's not wrong about the gold digger and sprinkle sprinkle mindset but its ironic that he would call in here to say that when thats most of the women who come on here.
the generalizations speak for themselves. Seems hurt and had to heal, creating this defense mechanism as a way of life. I don’t want to generalize tho 👀😂
He said he doesnt insult but he said " ooh look at the uglies "
You keep up with your success Velly , also 🎉❤ keep it up and manage your baddie. ❤ these are growing.pains thats all. He will be OK
So he couldn’t sit up straight?? He couldn’t wait to rant and rave smh
Ashley please just go get the bag!😂
Seems Jaded..
A jaded clown 🤡 he literally said “next time you come to Vegas we’re gonna fight” I would’ve hung it up right then and there.
I like the idea of picking up and moving at any time. My travelers heart wouldn’t mind at all. Even with kids. I don’t think he’s all bad. He did that lil cheeky thing about working at Walmart because he has been consuming a lot of social media.
Lol he needs to know Chicago girlies are sweet. That chiraq ish started in the early 2010s. I miss Chicago being a RnB /house music haven.
Chiraq is so late the girls are grown women
For no reason *gasps* 😮😂 ENERGY baby the reason and response is due to energy 🤌🏽
There are so many good white women out here. Keep that in mind brothers.
The guests should at least sit up before coming on it’s a little weird to be laying down in bed..
He talks soooooooooooooooooooooo much.
Shera isn’t his target audience so what is he even saying 😂😂😂
He doesn’t listen
He talks and looks like Drake.
16:47 my goofynes time and energy will pay the bill ladies😂
Aquarius ♒️ energy 😂
He boring af I fell asleep
Is he Moroccan?
Yall sitting up here criticising a man you seen on a 20 minute video acting like you know what he really got going on 😂 stay single ladies SMH. He didnt say what role he was at Walmart and even then what else he got going on. By the look of his Tik Tok, he looks great in a suit and be travelling places. He could be a district manager or a COO for all you know. Sheesh. Look like he on TV too as a sports commentator. Keep dreaming Velly, go big and keep shooting for the stars!
Hi Velly. 😂 you could have put a shirt on at least you zest queen
Eeww 😂
I like Ashley and I Absolutely LOVE Her videos and shows...but it do seem like shes kinda out of touch on the dating market and how it is realistically out here. FR
Just cause there may be some ppl available...dont mean that we should just automatically get with them just because. We gotta vet and find the right 1 for us ma. FR. And thats not always the easiest to do.
Ive been single for mad years in NY. NYC, most women here arent single. Almost all women are cuffed up by somebody. The players got most of the women. In NY, All women get hollered at all the time...multiple times a day...so the good men gotta really compete with the players...and we dont holla at women multiple times a day every day like them. So of course they will seem smoother and SEEM More Confident than us cause we may have confidence...but we might still step to you a little nervous. But take away All of that. Just by process of elimination....simple math...who would get more women just on simple math. Exactly.
So all those stuff...plus most women dont vet good or at all...so they usually get the same ol players and users that they deal with. Thats why I always feel that my soulmate is down south somewhere. Down south, the dynamics are Very Different in regards to dating. So yeah. Got its Pros & Cons, so idk. But we will see.
Come on down here with the rest of the Yankee transplants and find you a wife lol 😅
That was a whole lot man.
@@thisblackgirloverhere9013 Lol. Yeah, I edited and added most of that. My bad....guess I had a lot to say. Lol 😂
@@jayc5756 😂. It’s okay. When you gotta get it out, you gotta get it out! 😂
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