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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • EMOTIONAL BIG CHOP. It was not easy for me to cut my hair after growing it out. I never cut my hair EVER before so this was something new for me. Watch me go through a roller coaster of emotions because I decided I wanted to cut my hair.
    This is your sign if you’ve been thinking about it!
    The products I used to get this desired hairstyle are listed throughout the video.
    If you’re a new subscriber or if you’re an existing one, hi and welcome! 😁See you in the next video.
    #bigchop #emotional #cutmyhair #haircut #hairstyle #shorthair #thisisyoursign

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  • @allysa5919
    @allysa5919 4 місяці тому +47

    I’ve been watching videos about cutting hair all day! 😂 I’m preparing myself to cut mine Wednesday!

  • @Honeyybun
    @Honeyybun Рік тому +87

    Yessss 🎉 I’m so happy for you! I cut my hair off back in 2020 and I felt so free regardless of all the men in my life advising me against it.. grew it back out and I’m getting ready to cut it again tonight! It’s so freeing and babes it’ll grow back! Sending love 🩷🩷🩷

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Рік тому +1

      Yes I thought when I cut it I’d instantly grow it back but I’m loving the short!

    • @aliciam5302
      @aliciam5302 11 місяців тому +1

      My hair is so damaged I said to myself before the end of the year I need to cut all off, so it can grow back hopefully better, I never chopped my hair before, but lm ready.

    • @Honeyybun
      @Honeyybun 11 місяців тому

      @@aliciam5302 I cut my hair the same night I commented and it’s already growing not only faster, but thicker and healthier too.. Just do it!😘🩷

    • @DestinyisDevine
      @DestinyisDevine 8 місяців тому

      ⁠@@aliciam5302I’m right with you. It’s so bad I’ve been contemplating cutting it myself for days. After watching this I think I can lol this is the perfect way to start the year.

  • @Cee.bvbyy16
    @Cee.bvbyy16 7 місяців тому +31

    I went through a traumatic relationship pregnancy and birth I combed out my locs but I still feel the weight and energy attached to me I’m watching this video as I comb out my hair and say good bye…. Thank you for the confidence and comfort ❤️💯

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  7 місяців тому +2

      Happy to help ❤️ wishing you better days to come and with this new change!

    • @nana8135
      @nana8135 2 місяці тому

      Glad ur still here❤

  • @RARICHANEL
    @RARICHANEL 2 місяці тому +4

    Girl I’m crying with you! Preparing myself to cut mine soon!

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Місяць тому +1

      Good luck girly! You’ll love the feeling of freedom that comes with it.

  • @prettybrwneyez7757
    @prettybrwneyez7757 Місяць тому +2

    Just finished cutting off my 8 year locs about twenty minutes ago. I feel so much better. Ready for new styles!

  • @siasoul3667
    @siasoul3667 4 місяці тому +11

    “I have definitely been crying” 😂😂😂😂 this was me when I put a relaxer in my head. Now I’m about to chop it off. You look bomb! 😍

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  4 місяці тому +2

      When I say I was emotional 😂 our attachment to our hair is so strong . Thank you 😊

  • @kat.joelle
    @kat.joelle 2 місяці тому +5

    the silence when you came back after cutting it all off 😭😭😭 FELT. i’m currently working up the courage to go thru w/ my 3rd big chop - thank you for sharing your experience 🥹

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for watching- never be so attached to anything it stops you from moving forward. Cut it if that’s what you want! 🥰

  • @gemaliesaintlouis6381
    @gemaliesaintlouis6381 Рік тому +21

    Welcome to the short hair gang 🤘🏽

  • @mercurymadeTreal
    @mercurymadeTreal 2 місяці тому +6

    I just did the big chop 1 day after my 24th birthday . I didn’t even cry or nun like yea I look like someone grown son but it’s coo I feel a sense of freedom …
    I seen a pic that said it’s just hair let it go it holds bad memories. I think that helped me with grieving my hair ….
    So now I’m day 2 of big chop excited to see where it’ll be next year !

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  2 місяці тому +2

      Everyone’s reaction is different but essentially you’re right, just let it go. Hair grows back better after you cut it 😁

    • @beyondallreason-du4pq
      @beyondallreason-du4pq 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂haha same

    • @mercurymadeTreal
      @mercurymadeTreal 2 місяці тому

      @@beyondallreason-du4pq let’s gooooo !!!!

    • @ms.p6828
      @ms.p6828 Місяць тому

      Cut mine today and that’s what pains me, I look like someone’s grown son😩😩😩😩😩😩😢😢😢😢😢!

    • @mercurymadeTreal
      @mercurymadeTreal Місяць тому

      @@ms.p6828 onggg I be like damnn im my daddy son daughter 😂😂😂
      But baybeeee in the end it’ll be worth it

  • @chloejones9647
    @chloejones9647 10 місяців тому +21

    Woohooo rock it girl! I'm proud of you! I know it can be hard - but I'll tell you one thing, once you see yourself with short hair, you never go back! Bald/TWA Baddie status activated! The first time I ever cut my hair is when I was 9 or 10. I've love it ever since! And yes, too much maintenance for long hair! Cheering for you on the other side of the screen!

  • @ashlynbiancia6493
    @ashlynbiancia6493 8 місяців тому +4

    Aw, watching you cry made me get emotional as well. Im trying to decide if i want to cut my locs off. Ive NEVER had short hair in my life, but before getting my locs i bleached and dyed my hair so much that my locs are unhealthy and i just wanna start over😕. My hair is literally my everything to me and i already know im going to be bawling my eyes out whenever i decide to chop em off😭! You look so beautiful!!

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  8 місяців тому

      You should try it especially if you think youre hair is unhealthy! Your hair will grow back quicker than you think. I hope you make that decision 🫶🏾

  • @bri8800
    @bri8800 11 місяців тому +8

    Just did my big chop today😭. You’re new here to Charlotte!! Girl we need to go out. It’s hard meeting ppl here💯

  • @tashd363
    @tashd363 Рік тому +12

    Thanks for putting out this video Tay. You've inspired me to cut my hair like I've been wanting to. I hope to have as much courage as you do to go through with it though 😬. Loved when you said hair hold power but you're the one who puts the power in the hair (something to that effect, lol). This is so true. You look gorgeous 😍.

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Рік тому +1

      Thank you and I hope you go through with it, sending you the courage to do it 🤗

  • @InTheLifeOfShaye
    @InTheLifeOfShaye Рік тому +6

    Just cut mines yesterday and I feel gooooodddd and free! You look beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @Tonia682
    @Tonia682 Рік тому +5

    The cut really looks good on you!!! So pretty!!!

  • @dealgirl83
    @dealgirl83 11 місяців тому +5

    This looks 👏🏽 amazing!! I am so scared thinking I would not look good, but this looks amazing on you!❤

  • @feliciaferguson6803
    @feliciaferguson6803 Рік тому +5

    I’m about to do mine. You look absolutely adorable

  • @AmeliahhB
    @AmeliahhB 7 місяців тому +9

    This the one that really convinced me … I’m doing it tomorrow 🥹😫🤬😭🫣😝

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  7 місяців тому

      Welcome to the short hair crew 😜

    • @shalesawilliams756
      @shalesawilliams756 6 місяців тому

      @@tayjjaflowers I decided this evening to cut mine on Saturday 😬

  • @vettejakes
    @vettejakes 2 місяці тому +2

    Ooooo chile. Looks so cute! I’m tempted 😊

  • @SARAHSAWTHAT
    @SARAHSAWTHAT Місяць тому

    You are so beautiful! I just Subscribed! I woke up this morning and cut my hair and girl, my hair was long! But I love that I made the decision to start something new!

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Місяць тому

      Yayyy, it will grow back. Welcome to the short hair family!

  • @Winifred_N
    @Winifred_N 10 місяців тому +4

    Girrrrlllll, it’s the way I was reacting the same way you were reacting through the whole video 🥺 I can completely relate with every single thing! Definitely cutting my hair in a few days 😭
    Also, you’re super beautiful! 😍

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  10 місяців тому

      It can be so emotional 😭 but thank you & good luck 🫶🏾

  • @latisharenee6964
    @latisharenee6964 10 місяців тому +2

    I big chop last month and I love it feel free and your hair turn out beautiful ❤

  • @cynthiajubiter6889
    @cynthiajubiter6889 Місяць тому +1

    IT LOOKS GORGEOUS.

  • @KayWeezy317
    @KayWeezy317 6 місяців тому +1

    u are so courageous & brave! I love the confidence and support ur giving us too! Such a bubbly personality and girl.... u ate this straight up!!!! FLAWLESS

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  5 місяців тому

      Aww thank you 🥹💕! So happy y’all are doing it with me

  • @LifeWithCookie4
    @LifeWithCookie4 Рік тому +2

    It’s pretty on you and you’re hair will grow back more healthy so it’s okay I cut mine before to and doing it again this week

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! It’s too hot for hair so how’s the time do it.

  • @ScorpioMami415
    @ScorpioMami415 6 місяців тому +1

    Rock that shit girl you did it!!!! Looks beautiful welcome home❤

  • @genesemcquiller7935
    @genesemcquiller7935 7 місяців тому

    I cried from the start until she start cutting it because it’s so true we carry so much through our hair !!!! And I’m getting ready to cut my locs for the second time because they’re so thin and not growing like the first time around , I’m just over it and I’m just so emotional about it!!!! But this just gave me hope and confidence again !!!!

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  7 місяців тому

      Aww good luck on your journey! ❤️ Try using castor oil for hair growth. It can help with thickness.

  • @shatiffahbeanaland8819
    @shatiffahbeanaland8819 8 місяців тому +3

    Your encouraging me to cut mines cause my hair is damaged and relaxed l I just took my locs out and it’s literally falling out😢 I’ve had short hair before so that’s not a scare for me it’s all the styles I won’t be able to do once I cut it

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  8 місяців тому

      Girl you better get a wig 😅 unhealthy hair is the worse because it never cooperates. Or use protective styles until you feel like you can cut it to where you can do your desired styles.

    • @shatiffahbeanaland8819
      @shatiffahbeanaland8819 8 місяців тому

      lol I have some but I just don’t really care for them like that I just want some health natural hair and cutting it is the only way to achieve it

  • @kewanafraser2594
    @kewanafraser2594 10 місяців тому +1

    You did amazing love it. I’m about to do mine. I look forward to not going to the hairdresser for a long while. It hurts when you’re unable to manage your hair and then when you go to some professionals they don’t love the type of hair you have. So I can’t wait for the change! Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @isaackinity6567
    @isaackinity6567 Рік тому +2

    That’s a fly look on you patna!! Super proud of you for continuing to take major leaps of faith💯🤍

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Рік тому

      Yessir you know it, appreciate your words ❤️

    • @MelissaKarmel
      @MelissaKarmel 9 місяців тому

      You look tooooooo good😍😍😍 beautiful

  • @breewadley2284
    @breewadley2284 2 місяці тому

    Gorgeous ❤

  • @nayelizgallery
    @nayelizgallery 28 днів тому

    Your so pretty! It turned out great!!!

  • @hannahlee8366
    @hannahlee8366 Місяць тому +1

    I am going to cut my hair this week, and I am nervous 😬

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Місяць тому

      Don’t be, it’ll grow back! Good luck 🫶🏾

  • @vintageARTiscalming
    @vintageARTiscalming 3 місяці тому

    I just got my hair done for graduation with knotless braids and after everything is over and a few weeks has passed, I’m thinking of chopping and dying my hair too and seeing you cry made me tear up🥺❤

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  3 місяці тому

      Be prepared for an emotional roller coaster if you’re attached to your hair but I think it’s something every lady should experience. Good luck on cutting it 😊

  • @hannahlee8366
    @hannahlee8366 Місяць тому +1

    You’re so cute, I love the hair❤❤❤

  • @ash00001
    @ash00001 11 місяців тому +2

    I did mine today I’m so happy now lol it’s like I’m like a baby again

  • @lolaligirl2027
    @lolaligirl2027 6 місяців тому +1

    You’re beautiful !!

  • @MrsPawPaw1
    @MrsPawPaw1 Рік тому +1

    You look so cute!!! I cut mine a week ago sis....I had to start over and honestly it feels so good!

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Рік тому

      Team freedom because that’s what it feels like!

  • @BlissfulAdventuresTV
    @BlissfulAdventuresTV Рік тому +1

    You look beautiful with short hair

  • @GenneikaGreene
    @GenneikaGreene Рік тому

    😮girlllllll I had to doubt take 😂i was like she turned a bald head babbie 🎉love it ❤

  • @britneyarne3347
    @britneyarne3347 10 місяців тому +1

    girlll you’re gorgeoussss

  • @user-rk7tv5wb6z
    @user-rk7tv5wb6z 11 місяців тому +2

    I cut mine today 😂and girl l feel so good 😊

  • @TruthBeToldIsMe
    @TruthBeToldIsMe 3 місяці тому +1

    I actually like it a lot!

  • @JazzmynDesir
    @JazzmynDesir 11 місяців тому +1

    Love this your hair looks lovely. I just uploaded my big chop and loving the journey. Keep it up boo I had to sub💕💕💕

  • @sarcasticmee3103
    @sarcasticmee3103 3 місяці тому

    You did a good job on your haircut & it's super cute on you.

  • @charissamoe6351
    @charissamoe6351 7 місяців тому

    So beautiful!! You inspired me🥹❤️

  • @kelly4618
    @kelly4618 Рік тому +1

    So cute! I'm much older than you and I've never cut my hair or gotten it cut! 😮

  • @kaywil2
    @kaywil2 4 місяці тому

    Love it 😍😍😍 the color is super pretty on you too

  • @SUNNSHYNEBAE
    @SUNNSHYNEBAE 9 місяців тому +1

    I love it 🖤

  • @rawmaterial7986
    @rawmaterial7986 9 місяців тому

    I don’t know what it is about cutting our hair that makes us so emotional 😭

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  9 місяців тому +2

      It’s because we’ve had it for so long, it becomes an identity. 😭

    • @rawmaterial7986
      @rawmaterial7986 9 місяців тому

      yes!@@tayjjaflowers

  • @NycBeauty
    @NycBeauty 3 місяці тому

    Pretty 🌹

  • @simplylovelybeawithdonnaco1564

    OMG!!! You look soooooo pretty! I have been contemplating doing a big chop and I am terrified! But your video has given me courage! New Subbie ❤❤❤❤

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for the sub. Wishing you luck 😊

  • @oraclegreen7938
    @oraclegreen7938 2 місяці тому

    Pretty af❤

  • @naloire3276
    @naloire3276 10 місяців тому

    You're stunning!

  • @temirajackson7383
    @temirajackson7383 Рік тому

    So beautiful 😍 it really suits you!

  • @apara2005
    @apara2005 Рік тому +2

    You're not bald...bald means shaved hair completely off..Your hair is just short.

  • @samantha6670
    @samantha6670 Рік тому +1

    You are pretty, sister

  • @TheOGFamilyTrips
    @TheOGFamilyTrips 3 місяці тому +1

    I just chopped my hair but I don’t know what next to do, anyone has any advise???

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  2 місяці тому

      Try finger waves, dying it. Do every style you want too before you grow it back out!

  • @Aliciadoriety
    @Aliciadoriety 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey you still look like a beautiful child of God . ❤

  • @Aliciadoriety
    @Aliciadoriety 4 місяці тому

    It looks nice

  • @Erica_in_real_life
    @Erica_in_real_life 9 місяців тому

    So pretty

  • @Taymariemusic
    @Taymariemusic 5 місяців тому

    You're so beautiful ❤

  • @BionAvastar3000
    @BionAvastar3000 Рік тому

    get a nice taper fade from the barber, it would look so amazing!

  • @nayealexandria5722
    @nayealexandria5722 6 місяців тому

    very pretty on you

  • @prettybrown78
    @prettybrown78 Рік тому

    Day 2 for me!! Buzz cut crew!!😊

  • @ij4887
    @ij4887 4 місяці тому

    Did you blow dry the hair before cutting it?

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  4 місяці тому

      No I just took braids out so it was stretched out

  • @booneybaby3862
    @booneybaby3862 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Alondajones8
    @Alondajones8 Рік тому

    You look cute❤❤

  • @shia_iam8405
    @shia_iam8405 10 місяців тому

    its cute on you beautiful in brass it

  • @JeanelleStewart
    @JeanelleStewart 4 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @styl_propr
    @styl_propr 7 місяців тому

    'It's weird but it feels good....' I get it, #BigChop pending! #Beautiful 💔❤‍🩹❤‍🔥

    • @tayjjaflowers
      @tayjjaflowers  7 місяців тому +1

      Wash days just went down to 30 min, yes it feels great! Good luck 😊

    • @styl_propr
      @styl_propr 7 місяців тому

      I CAN'T hardly wait! #Yes @@tayjjaflowers