BIG CHOP...AGAIN! 3RD TIMES A CHARM
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- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
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I was like “Why is she crying? It turned out beautiful.” You’re beautiful. Remember that. We are not our hair. It’s just an accessory. Have fun with it.
Our hair in particular is not merely an accessory it is an antenna and a form of protection. But it will grow again. And you are not alone and you are beautiful.
Girl don't cry, I'm on my third big chop and I love it, I love my TWA so rock it.
I was hella emotional this week haha thank you girl
this is the realest big chop video ive ever seen
I'm laughing at the earrings bc I do the same thing when I'm cutting my hair. I throw on mascara and even throw something sexy just to give myself that extra umph
That’s all I needed! 😂
This❤is❤everything, I half way chopped mine last night and my daughter is going to assist me in the morning
I know you’re not feeling it but it’ll grow back so fast and so much healthier, so the chop will be worth it. I’ve always loved how versatile your hairstyles are! This chop is cute on you 😍
Thank you! I’ll definitely film more hair related videos this time around and see what I come up with. Thank you girlfriend! 💕
“the quicker my hair grow out THA BYETTAA”😂😂 you’re adorable
😂😂
ITS CUTE WHY IS IT SO CUTE STOP ITS GORGEOUS
That looks so good! I love that you're willing to do what needs to be done for healthier hair. If you miss it, you got braids and wigs 🥰
True dat! Haha I’m gonna install box baids next week lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣 “ ima be bald for my birthday?” It tuned out cute !!!!
Haha thank you
I appreciate you being real and raw in this video with your emotions through this process . I’m thinking about doing the same thing and I’m sure I’ll have the same reactions you did
Thank you! I was very much in my feelings, but I’m good now haha
ITS BEAUTIFUL DIVA! I DO LOVE YOUR RAW EMOTIONS DURING THIS PROCESS... THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY... EMBRACE IT AND BE AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU ARE!
Awwww sis, your so brave, you got this and like you said, it will grow back soooooo fast and healthy.
You are so pretty and your features are coming out even more with those earrings. Come through, kneck line and jawbone. Thanks for sharing!
Currently contemplating my 3rd big chop as well. My first one was in 2013 and second one was 2017. Here we go again. This gave me a lot of confidence. Thank you so much for sharing, you look beautiful girl ❤️
The "I'm baldheaded for real...damn..." took me out! 😂 But it looks cuteeeee! The face gives, always...so the hair is just the addition...it will grow back sis! 🤍
Thank you girl! I had too many emotions in this video 😂😂
I love how you're talking yourself thru it. You got this.
Gorgeous hun we so hard on ourselves. Go forth and b great
Just 10 minutes in and I’ve got tears in my eyes too. I’ve entertained the thought of cutting my hairs since 2020 after I got severe heat damage from straightening my hair twice for senior portraits. I have fine, dry, brittle, 4c hair that my family permed until I was 12. That I am still learning to take care of. That I am still learning to appreciate. Now I’m in my senior year of college. And there’s nothing that I want more than a shiny, flowing silk press down to my mid back for my last school pictures ever. But I’m not going to get that (from my own scalp at least.) In 22 years, I’ve never gotten a hair cut. Of course I’ve gotten small trims for split ends, but never just dramatic 2+ inches cuts. Yet my hair has never made it past shoulder length. And with so much going on with my transition from adolescence to adulthood, financial and emotional struggles, I’m so exhausted with having to add hair care on top of everything. So the past 2 months, I’ve really been considering just shaving my head.
Women, and especially us black girls, have so much identity associated with our hair. Identity, culture, femininity, trauma, memories, ect. Yes, it’s just hair. But it’d be foolish to not recognize that we attach importance parts of our lives to it. For me, I’m not too concerned with not looking feminine enough of whatever, I already dress pretty androgynously. I think I’m just scared that when I cut it, what happens when it starts growing back and i still can’t get my hair to be as long as I want it to be? Am I just destined to have shoulder length hair forever? Why do I have to work 10x harder than everyone else to keep my hair long and healthy? What’s it all for?
I’ve watched dozens of these big chops videos at this point. Some emotional cuts down to the scalp because of alopecia. Some empowering TWAs because hair just isn’t that serious. And I’ve heard a lot of the same speeches and tirades. But this video has already convinced me that this is what I need to do. Something about the stares into the mirror saying “Are you ok? I’m going to be alright.” The irrational fear that makes your whole body shake. Those small moments of self-depreciation where we’ve failed our hair followed by attempts of kindness for ourselves because life is just hard sometimes and we can’t be perfect.
I might straighten my hair one last time to say goodbye, but I’m hoping to have it gone by beanie season (so Sept-Oct). I haven’t been able to wear them before unless I had cornrows, but I usually don’t, so I’m looking forward to wearing some!
Thank you for sharing this very intimate moment with yourself. It makes me feel just a bit more confident that this hair journey will be ok. God willing, I’ve got some decades to figure it out.
Thank you for being vulnurable on here. When you started cryng I felt that DEEP in my soul. I went to the hairdresser because I was so frustrated with my hair I just took a pair of scissors and chopped off a big chunk of hair, and then I asked them to cut off all my hair. As she was buzzing my head I just burst out into tears. The hairdresser jest held me and then kept going. It is so exhausting to have this hair and I feel like there isnt enough room to complain about it. Being black, you're expected to be proud of your hair and never complain about it, but it can be so exhausting to take care of it and I really wish we could just be a bit more honest about how mentally draining having afro hair can be. It's like every morniing I have to tame a wild animal with my products and combs. Also you look really beautiful! I wish you lots of luck on this journey
I literally felt the same way and cut my hair yesterday. Every time I looked at it, it was thin on one side and thick on the other and my hair kept falling out really bad. I also bleached and colored my hair twice and then Permed it . I then cut it off 😂
Literally look so beautiful. Skin clear, hair is beautiful. You have always been beautiful. Pick up your crown. You are not you hair
I just big chopped for the first time for the same reason. My curl pattern was so loose due to heat damage, and I was sad/depressed looking at it after washing it. I had the same emotions and came across your video 🥹🫶🏾 let’s do this together sis
🌷🍃this video kept showing up on my feed and I’m grateful that I finally decided to watch it. although it’s well over a year old at this point, but if you have an opportunity to read this comment…. chiiile T H A N K Y O U for posting this powerful and beautiful moment of transformation. ❤
🌷🍃we invest so much creativity, love, and energy when it comes to our hair, and life in general. the hours and effort poured into caring for and grooming ourselves… from silk presses, braids, color, locs, etc. I recently went through a similar experience and had to big chop over five years worth of time and effort. I was so close to my hair goal… I too felt sooo 😢 gutted! but believe me when I tell you, I’ve learned from my missteps. I’m back on team twa, but grateful to still have healthy hair follicles that wanna stay in the game after all they’ve been thru 😂… hair is thriving! you’re funny, creative, and beautiful… thank you, Quiesha, for sharing this.🍃🌷
Remember to not pull it because you will cut more than you always want to. I big chop every January because that healthy hair grows so fast I’ve been doing it for 10 years. By June I’m always able to braid it. It’s like watching your kids grow.
I just want to say how much I appreciate your transparency from beginning to end in this video 😇
I LOVE it…..You are so lucky to have a face that can pull off short hair!
FOA….”You ARE NOT bald-headed! You did an amazing job to not be a licensed stylist!
Quiesha you give me LIFE Girl! The commentary as you talk to yourself…..I am dead on the floor listening to this!
You AIGHT Boo! Hair grows back! You also have a beautiful grade of hair; very dense so what you see as “bald headed” folks wish their hair was so full looking.
I love it on you! ROCK dat Ish Boo; you Gud!💪🏾💪🏾🫶🏾
Absolutely gorgeous! I have been needing to chop and the more I delay the more the line of demarcation moves 🤦🏽♀️ I appreciate you sharing your journey so much!
I just happened upon your video, and I must say that you look absolutely gorgeous with your new haircut. One sees your beautiful face and then your beautiful hair. I hope you are feeling it now. You look amazing, just stunning queen!!!
I think you look beautiful. I think once the initial shock wears off you’ll be okay. You’ve been here before and your hair grows back super fast. Keep your head up Q! ❤
Thank you girlfriend! I was hella emotional lol
I was here for you to be hype not sad. Give yourself more grace cause you look very beautiful. Been following you for years - and can't wait to follow you in this journey! ;)
When I went natural I transitioned instead of big chopping, but I got bored & bleached my hair & had to big chop in 2018 and your videos helped me so much. In the beginning of the yr I shaved my head and I’m starting to let it grow back and I’m looking forward to your vids. You look great with short hair btw 💗
Your hair is fine. I’ve follow you for years when you did the other big chop and it grew back. I love the look it not bad at all.
Thank you ☺️ 🥰
I love it. I am actually about to chop mine off before my appointment Saturday. Ima still go to my appointment but this hair has to go now. Going through the worst breakup right now and life is kicking my ass. The hair is something i can do without
I’m with you! I had to chop my hair 3 times to fully understand what I wanted to do with my hair. When it would shoulder length I’d start styling it too much. I’m determined to grow it to bra strap length.💖🙅🏾♀️
Same sis same! I didn’t learn the last 2 times, I’m positive I’ve learned my lesson now! Lol
Your hair looked so beautiful at the end ❤ And then you added makeup, that look fits you so well. Love it, love it, love it!
And that "Michael from Good Times" comment had me rollin'!
It’s cute 🥰! Don’t worry it will grow back before you know it ❤
I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO CUT MY HAIR AND I THIS JUST SOLIDIFIED MY CHOICE!! You look soooooooooo beautiful!! It was hard to see your cry because I thought you look amazing. I really hope you come around cause wow. You are gorgeous..
Don’t worry sis, just cut it ! It’s liberating !! 😍😍 and it came out wonderful!
i’m bout to do my second big chop & idk why i’m nervous cause my hair grow so fast 😭
You put yourself down so much and it turned out beautiful!😍❤️
I was having a really rough week, I’m okay now lol
I love it💕
I'm inspired to big chop!
Thank you! If you’re not afraid, go for it!
You know what baby girl, you did need to cut it that short! There was a lot to get rid of. And some sections were more damaged than others. And you look BEAUTIFUL and liberated. Sending you love.
I know 😩 lol thank you love 💕
You look great! I am so happy I found your channel. Like you I have been silk pressing my hair for about two years; with that said my curl pattern is nonexistent 😩 Before silk pressing I loved loved my curl pattern. So I am ready to go back and plan to big chop my hair and start over! You just gave me the extra push to chop chop 🤩
CUTIE PATOOTE!!! LOOKS AMAZING QUEEN!!!!
Thank you ❤️
I know the feeling girl trust! But better u cut off that damage sooner than later and like u said… catch me outside in about 3-4 months. Spring break bout to be lit! Hair bout to be thriving ❤❤❤
I really appreciate this video bc our hair is literally so similar in texture! I’m experiencing heat damage too that’s been bothering me (it’s not bad but I don’t want any at all) and I’ve been debating on cutting it all off myself. I def think I am after seeing this.
I love your personality! I needed this inspiration to do my 3rd big chop too!! You look great girl, don’t be sad, your hair is beautiful! Thanks for sharing this video❤
Girl I’m about to order my wigs & call it a year. Your cut is beautiful btw
It’s hella cute! It’s going go grow back beautifully! You are a beautiful girl! You are going to rock it and be your cute self! 😊
I literally went through this same process last night😢😊😢😂..just mixed emotions 🤦🏾♀️
I love your personality!!. I just big chopping with you today for the same reasons.
You look amazing! Thank you so much!!!
Thank you so much!!
It looks AMAZING & soooo cute!!!! Hurray for healthy hair!❤
I feel you girl. I cut my locs out after growing them for 7 years and girl when I tell you I had to put on a Jill Scott album to keep it together and get through it. So, I understand the emotions you were experiencing in this video. The 1st cut is always the hardest.
Subscribed and on the journey too.
You look stunning absolutely beautiful. I did the big chop 2 years ago and still struggle with thick 4c hair. Change is hard…but hang in there.
Sorry you are feeling sad right now, but like you said it will grow back, I think it's really cute. Try to find a healthier gel and mousse that will work for your hair as well for your new health journey.
Omg I loved this!!!! You motivated me so much
I'm the same it's my 3rd big chop just a week ago, my hair was bra strap length, but extremely damaged from protein overload and I'm trying for a year to fix it and it's just getting worse so I had enough and I cut it at neck length, I feel less stressed now, but now I know better
It turn out beautiful do not be hard on yourself it will grow back ❤
It’s so cute! It turned out great🔥🔥That’s why I clicked on your video. This is the look!!😍😍😍😍
Thank you!
Q I love it I’ve been here since all the chops I love it yes it’s a journey but we are all here for you ❤& with you but I would be crying my eye out too 😢I feel you I’m still scared too cut mines
This is supper cuteee on you omg! 😍 I just cut my hair to that “awkward phase” but im thinking I want to go even shorter and this will def be crying in the mirror but it will be so worth it babe! You look beautiful!
Thank you ☺️ idk why it was such a shock to me but it’ll grow back lol
You look good, I'm about to do my first big chop now. Thank you for this. Sending you some love 💕💕💕💕 hope you're feeling better now.
Oooh! How did it turn out?! I’m feeling better, Thank you love
it looks amazing!!!
You look stunning!!! You did a fantastic job!!
❤ yes she does, I did half of mine last night, I get out of work at 9 and I will have my daughter help when I get off 😊 my third time in a year, cut wise, pray for me 😂❤
Thank you!
Real talk about those hoops. They make a big difference. Lol.
Lmaoo “I look just like his raggedy ahh” 😂😂
Ghetto 😂😂
You ate the short hair up in the end! Lol. Looking forward to seeing it flourish how you wanted
Thank you boo! 💕
girl i definitely can relate and i’m definitely gonna to big chop for a third time !!! DO IT ❤
Hiii you have convinced me to cut my heat damaged hair. Because it came out so gorgeous. But I'm scared to this would be my second big chop lmao
i recently had my head shaved behind my ear due to shunt surgery , i'm big chopping tomorrow . i'm excited but still gotta figure out how to rock my curls with a patch behind my ear that's growing back lol I HOPE MY BIG CHOP COME OUT LIKE YOURS 🤩🤩 don't cry ! it's BEAUTIFUL & YOU'RE beautiful 😍💕
i cut my hair bald 5 times this year and it grew back everytime ...use biotin ...castor oil ect
U are very entertaining. Loved the energy 😅. At the end I cried with u. It will grow back.
you are absolutely gorgeous! No matter what you do to your hair. I LOVE IT!!
It looks gorgeous on you! It can be mentally challenging as first, but it’s gonna be okay, I did my big chop 2 weeks ago as well. You’re hair is gonna grow so much faster and healthier than if you didn’t cut it! I’m subscribed❤
It’s grown so much since then, I was just buggin lol. Thank you for subscribing! ☺️
you are beautiful & you look gorgeous with your hair short. in fact, I've been contemplating to cut my hair & your video is what pushed me to do. so thank you! sending you much love ❤
Thank you beautiful! I hope you loved your cut love!
You look beautiful 👸🏽 I’m on my second big chop and I was so nervous. I was going through each emotion I swear. But it’s always good for change. My hair wasn’t damaged I just decided ima cut it. My hair grows fast as well so I shouldn’t of been nervous I still am but ima just rock it ❤
Yasss! I see your profile pic & your hair will bounce back boo! I’m so glad I cut mine, because it’s grown back so fast & looks healthier than ever!
How I just knew my shit was gone look when I big chopped; and went natural the first time without a relaxer, or a professional! 🥴 Girl I wanted to cry and my hair ain’t nowhere near as full or curly as yours. You look so good as always! You’ll be back longer, thicker, curls still BUSS’N even better now! Your snap brought me back here 🫶🏾🤎💪🏾
That’s the scary part, is not knowing how it’ll look. I’m looking forward to healthy hair though. Thank you for your kind words 💗
Yes, please don’t use heat or anything. It will all be worth it, when your hair is healthy and long!
Inspirational! 🧡
I feel you sis. I’m loosing my hair really bad due to genetics and I had surgery 4 months ago. I need to big chop and I’m so terrified but excited at the same time. I want to cry when I see my hair in its current state.
It definitely was a phase, and idk why I took it to heart so bad this time around. I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this right now. I pray you can find confidence & liberation during this time 🫶🏽
This is exactly how it is going thru the process…. I’m at the stage of deciding . I’m tired 😢
Then go for it! I was struggling because I was not in the best place at the time of my big chop so my emotions were heavy. After a week or so I was good. My first 2 big chops I felt amazing, especially once my hair grew out and it was so healthy, it made it all worth it.
Very pretty. I understand your sadness but it really does look pretty 😊 keep your head up. You look really pretty
Sis 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I know it doesn’t mean anything but you look really good with the twa and it will grow back really fast and healthier 💖💖💖 I support you sis and love you thank you for being vulnerable with us and real as always
It jus this different this time & idk why 😩 but thank you boo!
You’re beautiful and your hair is also beautiful. Just keep working with it and see what works for you.
But you look sooo good and just motivated me to cut mine to the same length
I just big chopped after 12 years it was down my back I went through a depression and cut it off with impulse I genuinely miss my hair but I’m learning to embrace the short……You got this Queen!! And it looks amazing💞💞💜💜
Feeling this way today
@@payrpaynoattn809 Awe I pray you find peace and in the decision as I had to do as well whatever you decide if it’s keeping your hair or chopping it all off I have my days where I see somebody with long hair and I cry because I remember when my hair was down my back past my bra hooks and now I have nothing it’s been 4 months since I chopped it off so it’s still a little fresh but it’s growing back pretty quick and decent…..You got this my gorgeous 💕 💕💜💜
Thank you love! That’s amazing & cheers to new beginnings!
You are gorgeous! You are inspiring and you are loved by God. I've been following your journey since your hair was colored years ago(like late 2013). And you still inspire me sis💯 #youRock #YouGotThis!
Thank you so much!!
THAT is literally the hairstyle I desire, it looks real amazing 🫶🏾
Thank you!
It looks so cute!
Thank you!
It’s was super cute and super you in the video you showed it’s ok to cut your hair for it to be healthy
Girl u tripping ur hair is popping I love it 🥰 ❤🥰🥰😍😍
I recently cut my hair off as well and it has not been easy getting use to it. I could go back to wigs and doing things that made my hair unhealthy. But I realized Im still beautiful and so are you.
I'm going through this right now. I think I'm going to cut off my hair off. I didn't really do a big chop, my hairdresser at the time, cut it in sections so I wouldn't be self conscious, but now I think I'm going to have to cut everything off this time. I have bald spots, I have itching, the hair looks deader than a possum playing dead. I'm going to a derm at the end of the month (also the year). I'm stressed and fearful that she'd going to tell me that it's a lost cause and I'll be bald forever. My family all blame me, my friends don't really understand, they try, but telling me 'it's just hair' doesn't help. I can't even express how depressed I feel when I look at my hair, so I get you. I wish that your hair grows back healthy and better than ever.
I have my scissors ready, and I'm going to do it, when I get back from the derm. I'll literally start 2023 with no hair, because I'm going to cut it all off, I'll have to go shorter than you, and I'm going to look like a bald man 😮💨😭😭
Love your vibe, i just big chopped 2/22 from a relaxed girl. You look good lady. New to your channel
It's really cute.
Still gorgeous!!❤
Thank you!
Your going to rock it as you usually do. Stop being so hard on yourself. Many blessings ❣
It looks good
I was natural for 6 years then wanted to see how long my hair was - well I look fabulous for about 3 blowouts & 3 flatirons then I noticed the heat damage 😢😢
So I feel you sis
We got this ( this will be my 2nd big chop
You look so Good ❤❤
Don't cry you look beautiful!!!
Thank you!
@@QuieshaJay Your welcome!