How to tell if a guy intends to love you | Develop feelings at the same pace doing this! | Clip 2

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  • How men and women fall in love differently.
    Man fall in love with what they see, while women fall in love with what they hear. This distinction causes a lot of problems. It often causes one to develop feelings. Or both to develop feelings, but not at the same pace. Too often women think that because they are developing feelings based on the conversations they are having with men those men are also developing feelings, but that’s not how it works. If you add the complication of many of these relationships being developed exclusively through text messaging the problem is magnified. It’s not as simple as a man looking at a woman falling in love. In fact, that’s an over simplification. Men fall in love with what they observe about a woman. Her conduct her behavior, her principles her standards. That’s what they see. Falling in love simplified.
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  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  3 місяці тому +7

    Journaling can be very helpful for breaking old patterns and getting new results. I created a dating journal just for people trying to change their results. It’s full of helpful tips and guides to vetting a man. Get it here kevhick.com/products/dating-journal-tracker-date-smarter-not-harder-digital-version

  • @Enstine1
    @Enstine1 3 місяці тому +9

    Sometimes i get scared that my standards are too high then i try to lower it abit, but as soon as I meet a guy who's trying to make the relationship one sided i just opt out. I rather stay single than be in nonsense.

  • @gwenrobinson3521
    @gwenrobinson3521 2 місяці тому +1

    Kev is what those of us that did not have a father who cared or a big brother need. Real talk, no sugar coat.

  • @ladyofspa
    @ladyofspa 3 місяці тому +22

    Back in day we had our fathers and other men do our vetting to measure for intentions and committability. Doing it for yourself seems to rub men the wrong way. Your dad would ask for you man to man your financials, religion, compatibility,respectability. We need to bring it back women are getting eaten alive by predators. Men sense a liar. We just see a man interested and open our hearts, wallets, and legs.....

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun 3 місяці тому +1

      This entirely. Funny how the same people who want trad marriage want us to "pick the right man": we can't! As a species...

    • @Va13chka
      @Va13chka 3 місяці тому +2

      That’s just the women who are desperate and are pick mes. Women with high standards who don’t date with their heart on their sleeves or are not emotional don’t have these problems.

    • @anonymousarab8226
      @anonymousarab8226 3 місяці тому

      @@Va13chkawoman are being played big time by men nowadays

  • @keshadavis7158
    @keshadavis7158 3 місяці тому +20

    I fall in love with what I see not what I hear and I don't fall inlove easily

  • @amandaehlers7419
    @amandaehlers7419 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m one that has to have face to face time and talkative interactions. Getting to know each other much deeper, open as friends can be with each other. The txt, phone, and physical attraction doesn’t work at all.

  • @Sweetness092
    @Sweetness092 3 місяці тому +2

    This is so true

  • @Vickiluv
    @Vickiluv 3 місяці тому

    This was excellent!!

  • @anitapius6225
    @anitapius6225 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @keeidoeee
    @keeidoeee 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for this message Kevin

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 місяці тому

      My pleasure 😇

  • @Adhara740
    @Adhara740 3 місяці тому +1

    Excellent

  • @vernita0216
    @vernita0216 2 місяці тому +2

    Maintaining "silent relationships"... Whew Wake Up!!!

  • @elll3s
    @elll3s 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks, Kevin!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 місяці тому +1

      My pleasure 😇

  • @denisebronner334
    @denisebronner334 3 місяці тому +1

    That's REAL TALK! 💯💯💯

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 місяці тому

      🙏🏾thanks for watching!

  • @aladynamedSusan
    @aladynamedSusan 3 місяці тому

    God literally sent this to me thank you❤

  • @Handlebofa
    @Handlebofa 3 місяці тому +1

    God Bless you I need this message 🙏🏾

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for watching

    • @Handlebofa
      @Handlebofa 3 місяці тому

      @@KevHick reading and buying your journal now

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun 3 місяці тому +3

    I'm no longer interested in pursuing anything with this guy, because I wouldn't sacrifice my peace of mind again, but if it's long distance, he has my selfies, and he's always calling, but I don't see his face, what does that mean? I'm leaning on the side of no. I thought I'd ask.

    • @rahstara
      @rahstara 3 місяці тому +2

      Hey, I would like to tell you that you already have the answer within you. It's a no, hun. Leaving him will be tough, but you have to do what's best for your peace of mind. If you haven't seen his face that is a problem. He could not be who he says he is.

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun 3 місяці тому

      I know him through someone else

    • @blessedchildofgod9112
      @blessedchildofgod9112 3 місяці тому

      that's a big red flag worst long distance

    • @wickedwanderlust1602
      @wickedwanderlust1602 3 місяці тому

      Yeah I don’t do long distance. Unless he’s making an effort to come out and see you and see your face. Then I don’t know if I would trust it. The fact that your asking means you already have doubts

  • @kaleema1987
    @kaleema1987 3 місяці тому +2

    On some real stuff. I’m not really interested in no relationship. The texting for me is okay if I just want to have fun, Relationships can be trippy. I have to definitely know a guy and feel him out to see what type of person he is can’t really get that through texting. 💬 😅

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 місяці тому +4

      Men love that word they use fun and fuck synonymously. Shouldn’t have a problem finding that. Fun is everywhere.

    • @kaleema1987
      @kaleema1987 3 місяці тому +1

      @@KevHick I agree with you. I like that if it’s a mutual understanding between both parties and we go our separate way respectfully then that’s cool too.

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself 2 місяці тому

      I'm in a weird spot right now where I'm talking to someone I could see myself dating eventually, but not right now. I like talking to him (we're very open with each other) and things have gotten steamy over text, but we're both not in a place where we want something serious. So I'm fighting between wanting to have something physical with him, but knowing that I might develop feelings for him if we were to start seeing each other in person 😬 For the record, he confessed to having a crush on me. I feel the same, but haven't shared that with him.

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 3 місяці тому +1

    💚💚💚

  • @Dallas3212
    @Dallas3212 3 місяці тому +4

    1st

  • @alwaysgrowing7273
    @alwaysgrowing7273 3 місяці тому

    💣💣💣

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 місяці тому +1

      🙏🏾

  • @michellelogan9177
    @michellelogan9177 2 місяці тому

    🤎🧡🖤💙