@@Winklarson420So when you watch a movie you see the actor and not the character they play? When you saw forest gump did you yell 'run Tom Hanks run!' 😂
Saw a study on charisma which claimed it was a combination of competence and concern for the other person. So let’s see… 1.) focus your full attention, shows its worth your full attention, hence concern. 2.) make decisions and take full responsibility, show’s faith in planning and a expectation it was going to turn out well, hence competence. 3.) listen first & speak second, shows concern. 4.) don’t move or speak fast, shows confidence in how things will turn out, hence competence
The listen first part also means you allow others to make mistakes on their own. The more you let an idiot talk, the more evidence they give that they're an idiot. Same with liars.. let a liar talk and they'll show you all you need to know.
@@sandrashane677 Easy, it's our own vanity that narcissist use against us. Vanity is believing you possess something of value. When we learn we neither possess nor have much value in someone who only cares for themselves and feed our insecurities, but not meet our expectations we call them a narcissist. I image many folks are labeled narcissists because they were SUPPOSED to meet either unreasonable expectations or imbalanced transactional expectations and did not or they were SUPPOSED to value what we offered more than what they wanted and so in our minds they are big bad narcissists.
@@HakaiKaien Yeah the fake concern as in giving you their full attention is more like them stalking their prey rather than being concerned for your well being. You're right. Its quite the opposite.
Fantastic words you said and even I am writing some sentences in my book to follow and to overcome the failures to reach success, and the sentences I wrote are most similar to yours
Well he’s a Finnish actor, not like he’s a real gangster, or the garbage he’s spewing has any validity in the real world like all these social awkward kids in the comments pretend he does.
@@sam_lory How good is your Russian? Русский - мой родной язык и я прекрасно различаю русский акцент на английском языке. Так что, можете мне поверить.
That's pure propaganda manipulation. The Western media was tasked to condition Westerners to hate Russians even more than ever. What's one of the best ways to do that: say that the Russians kill dogs. In reality, the Russians love dogs.
What kind of responsibility when they kill people and sell them drugs and destroy their life? What kind of responsibility you blind 😂 this is just words, they laugh at you with these words 🤦🏻♂️ their reality is discussing
@@anaskerret stupidity or ignorance here? We're talking about responsibility not about killing etc. We know what a Mafia does but unfortunately you don't understand what the topic is being discussed here. Pathetic and out of line.
@@oliverhardy9464 we live in the world where there are rules of law. Committing a crime is wrong. Honor is subjective because it can be misused or misguided.
@@Randomtraveller83 1st: it was a joke...2nd: where did you read anything abut being robbed? Ok, let me put it this way: I would rather respect this guy than the devil himself
That’s standard for us Slavic people. My lecturer at college had to move where I sat cos he said that it scares him when I look at him cos “it’s as though your eyes are seeing through my soul”. Yet my lecturer literally looked like Hitler (my parents survived genocide/holocaust so him looking like Hitler freaked me out) 😂
I can totally agree with #2 I have a friend, which i would call the least charismatic of our group, who can never say yes or no if he would join. He would always "tell me then"...
Years ago when I had different life...a guy took knife against me...but I continue to walk slowly to him, looking at his eyes and.. the guy run away.. There were also situation when I was ask for help. The guy stand with big stick, wild and unpredictable. ..but I get an eye contact with him and walk around slowly , making distance shorter...he start to walk back into old building...there were doors but no light, but I walk after him into darkness and wait for him there. .he hide somewhere like a cockroach.
Pull a gun on a Russian mafia head? Not just your family..your entire DNA will be erased from history. Even ultra hardcore Arian brotherhood type dudes are not suicidal
Chrarisma is can be in anyone, eople that can make you listen to them either good advice or bad, it's just more manipulative people use charisma wayyy much better than other And society rewards manipulative people more than honest people
You know how to identify them so that’s a start. If you have a genuine interest in these characteristics then you can develop them in your day to day life. Just apply one of them every 3 to 4 days and see what happens. It’s this ‘seeing what happens’ that changes your internal relationship with them.
You probably don't have ADHD. A handful of people have it if any. You were sadly placed on a lifetime of dependence on serious drugs like millions of people by legal drug dealers.
@@kel7410 I didnt take any for a while and it messed up major life chances for me... I am on Concerta and its been great. I need to focus on daily basis so its been hell.
Do not divide your attention. When you watch the mafia boss, you watch to the end.
You mean actor
Отец хуйни не скажет
@@Winklarson420So when you watch a movie you see the actor and not the character they play? When you saw forest gump did you yell 'run Tom Hanks run!' 😂
Looks ai.
You are right ... I got chills though
I've listened to him without interrupting him, maintaining full attention and eye contact. Now I am charismatic.
I feel pure power 🔋 ✨️ 💪🏾 😌
We know that cameramen are impervious to life's dangers, but interviewing a mafia boss in a graveyard is a new level.
😂
😂😂😂
The guy isn't a real mafia boss like you can read it.
I guess this cameraman is the first one 😢
😂😂😂
The camera man is double charismatic - filming and listening! True principals
Saw a study on charisma which claimed it was a combination of competence and concern for the other person. So let’s see… 1.) focus your full attention, shows its worth your full attention, hence concern. 2.) make decisions and take full responsibility, show’s faith in planning and a expectation it was going to turn out well, hence competence. 3.) listen first & speak second, shows concern. 4.) don’t move or speak fast, shows confidence in how things will turn out, hence competence
The listen first part also means you allow others to make mistakes on their own. The more you let an idiot talk, the more evidence they give that they're an idiot. Same with liars.. let a liar talk and they'll show you all you need to know.
How come narciisists have charisma? Like stalking their prey?
@@sandrashane677 Easy, it's our own vanity that narcissist use against us. Vanity is believing you possess something of value. When we learn we neither possess nor have much value in someone who only cares for themselves and feed our insecurities, but not meet our expectations we call them a narcissist. I image many folks are labeled narcissists because they were SUPPOSED to meet either unreasonable expectations or imbalanced transactional expectations and did not or they were SUPPOSED to value what we offered more than what they wanted and so in our minds they are big bad narcissists.
@@sandrashane677 charisma is exactly the opposite of narcissism. But narcissists can and do fake it
@@HakaiKaien Yeah the fake concern as in giving you their full attention is more like them stalking their prey rather than being concerned for your well being. You're right. Its quite the opposite.
This guy needs to be in the next James Bond movie.
He is in John Wick 4
No, way too old.
Gta 6
Second that
He's in JW 4
The peace of God is complete and full power. Well spoken.
Indeed✝️🙏💜🕯️🔮🧩🧩
@@theahalme nope
@@xyorkum....yup
@@Trancecapes which god?
This man doesn't sound like a mafia boss, he sound like a wise man with the wisdom.
russian mafia filtered out all the dumb cool boys during the years. What is left are wise, charismatic and richt men.
many people think mafia=wise man
Any man who talks like this is man capable of anything. And that's how it should be
@@Dhruv_Dogra that’s because they deal with the street life and are always on edge. They learn from their mistakes, 🙌🦅🇵🇸
#4 would be gold to heed for so many youtubers on here.
If this guy makes an Udemy course, I'd buy it for sure 😂
Oh god, same. I'd be willing to fork out my moeny for it. 😂
😂😂
1. Do not divide your attention
2. Make decisions and stick to them
3. Listen first and speak second
4. Don't speak or move fast
Salamat
My attention span is terrible, Ive searched for a comment like this so I don’t have to watch 1 minute long video 😂
@@JechtNHporn? Drugs? Weed?alcohol?
brAtAn
@@JechtNHpractice it. You will get better with time
I am pretty sure that he killed the interviewer in the end
😂😂😂
🤣
😂😂😂
😅😅😅
no need, the interviewer commited suicide as a sign of respect
Wish this guy was my grandfather.. kinda scary but badass for sure
lol
He is an actor from Finland 🙂
Let’s go ask him if he wants to adopt us
@@oliverrussell9786 noooo.. please don't tell me this guy is fake!
@@uv3d_printing Andrej Kaminsky
This is sound, sensible advice. I'm totally with that. I can absolutely use it in my own life.
Fantastic words you said and even I am writing some sentences in my book to follow and to overcome the failures to reach success, and the sentences I wrote are most similar to yours
If Liam Neeson stole this guys kid, I’d be worried for Liam Neeson.
No, now we are looking on the father of Liam Neeson
😂😂😂
Or Denzel Washington 😂
Need a video on how to look like a old tough gangster like this guy
If Liam called this dude it would be liams lines from taken combined with the reply from this guy who says all this stuff about charisma lmao
This man could be Liam Neeson's sibling from another dimensions
Dayum! I was wondering why he look so familiar!!
@@mushvitlok8928So true
I was thinking about same. But I had forgotton the name. Even he has the accent
@@Photo_doctorlol his accent aint like liam
He's an actor, he was the priest in Berlin in the last John wick
My father taught me the 1st rule. He said "Never focus on 2 things at a time, you will lose your balance on both".
Russians says, don't run for 2 rabbit s, you will not catch even one of them.
@@ivanjulian2532 Learned it 🫡.
Don't half ass a couple of things, full ass one thing only
Yes, we have a saying: chasing two hares you won't catch any one
Charisma is built in a lifetime of experience with people, and their memories of you.
Be consistent.
Great advice sir. My dad told me the same.
He definitely has charisma. He blinks less. ❤
If you watch- you watch.
Not like Blinken.😊😊😊
Number 5 : smile, stare at your interviewer and do not blink
When you look you do not blink. Lol
That's an example of talking (writing) first and thinking second. You expose your stupidity.
😅😅
I seldom go to interviews.
When I stand next to an interviewer I'll always be the owner of my company
& interviewer just a pen pusher.
@@rahmannaneeslol when your dream is to slave for someone else ... Loser
Very true. Simply: be comfortable in your own skin
Bro needs to be in a movie
He's an actor from finland
Well he’s a Finnish actor, not like he’s a real gangster, or the garbage he’s spewing has any validity in the real world like all these social awkward kids in the comments pretend he does.
Actually he played a role in new John Wick movie as Pop of Belorus Church and shoot's to the John Wick with shotgun
Perfectly explained and beautifully expressed by this gentleman ❤❤❤❤.
Love his ending line. You have peace of God n that peace is pure power. With all his wisdom you almost forget that OG is in the mafia.
😂
Say anything in Russian accent and I’ll listen to it all day long.
I'm Russian, wanna talk?
His accent is NOT Russian.
@@magal55 yes it is, my friend. Pretty overdone, but still Russian
@@sam_lory How good is your Russian? Русский - мой родной язык и я прекрасно различаю русский акцент на английском языке. Так что, можете мне поверить.
@@magal55 мой родной русский будет уж получше английского😅
Only this man can stop the war in Ukraine
😂😂😂
Wise😂
Your name is not at all accurate.
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Listening to this sounds like a baptism at first and then changes to an outpouring, a downpour of fire.
This is very important, and I wish we had more understanding, like the old days.
Wow. That was wonderful. Thank you.
This guy commands respect.
*ridicule
Or is just a good actor. Like Pacino and Brando and De Niro in the mob characters
He's an actor
He speaks so genuinely soft ❤
This guy needs a UA-cam channel please make this happen bro yes you, you reading this. Let’s get this
He has his channel Grim Hustle
100% true especially No. 2 take full responsibility for your decisions and actions…
An even better listener, bratan 😎😁
Rule number 1, don't kill John Wick's dog
what about his cat?
@@ll-me4wz Only the cat but, never the dog.
That's pure propaganda manipulation. The Western media was tasked to condition Westerners to hate Russians even more than ever. What's one of the best ways to do that: say that the Russians kill dogs. In reality, the Russians love dogs.
If you breath, just breath. Me breathing all day and doing nothing.
...except watching YT and writing comments
Я сейчас смотрел ютуб и работал. Чтобы иметь харизму нужно сосредоточиться на одном деле. Теперь я буду только смотреть ютуб.
Ду нот дивайд ё атеншен, братан. 😂
Good combination of background beat ,Liams face ,heavy Slavic accent and true presence in real time….in social media.
Wish this guy was my teacher very wise words 💯😎
He's the grandfather I never had.
Old charismatic grandpa out there spittin nothing but facts 🔥🔥🔥
Such an intelligent man! Thank you ❤
This legend has literally fixed my problem in 30 seconds💯
Even a Mafia boss understands responsibility more than most people.
Even? Not even! Only!
What kind of responsibility when they kill people and sell them drugs and destroy their life? What kind of responsibility you blind 😂 this is just words, they laugh at you with these words 🤦🏻♂️ their reality is discussing
@@anaskerret stupidity or ignorance here? We're talking about responsibility not about killing etc. We know what a Mafia does but unfortunately you don't understand what the topic is being discussed here. Pathetic and out of line.
Good one. There is no honour among Thieves. Do you think there is honour between evil people?
@@oliverhardy9464 we live in the world where there are rules of law. Committing a crime is wrong. Honor is subjective because it can be misused or misguided.
He should be in the movies , he's really intense and charismatic , fantastic accent for Russian or Italian mafia
He was in John wick 4 he played a russian priest who shoot John
@@averyangrygringo6440which movie is this clip from
My man basically laid out the rules to become John Wick
More like the one whom you send to kill the babayaga.😊😊😊
Great piece of advice man
You're awesome 😎😎
I'll remember to up my charisma on my Dnd character, Cheers!
I just LOVE this accent
Not Russian, by the way.
@@magal55He got the slavic face.
Dracula
3 A.M. in a dark alley: I would rather encounter the devil himself than this guy asking „where are you going at this time?“ 🤣🤣
Kinda make sense 😂
@@Randomtraveller83 1st: it was a joke...2nd: where did you read anything abut being robbed? Ok, let me put it this way: I would rather respect this guy than the devil himself
He is someone who is making me the real me.
This is the second vid I’m watching if this guy and I like his wisdom. Where can I see more of this man
ABSOLUTELY SMART GENTLEMEN❤
This man can cut with his gaze
propably trained an ancient technique called tratak
That’s standard for us Slavic people. My lecturer at college had to move where I sat cos he said that it scares him when I look at him cos “it’s as though your eyes are seeing through my soul”. Yet my lecturer literally looked like Hitler (my parents survived genocide/holocaust so him looking like Hitler freaked me out) 😂
I only ever focus on one thing..
I just switch focus very often
trust me ''listening'' is hardest rule of here. it's so easy to talk over from hype with in me
A very simple man teaching simple facts👏👏
This man is in john wick 4
“Paulie moved slow. But that’s only because Paulie didn’t have to move for anybody”
Godfellass
Actually the first rule is to avoid making this guy come to your house and making him tell you the rules.
Oh my god the power in his eyes! And I love his accent
Amen to everything this man just said.
He must be some kind of GodFather
Liked the 4th point more.
I can totally agree with #2
I have a friend, which i would call the least charismatic of our group, who can never say yes or no if he would join. He would always "tell me then"...
"The peace of God..."
Thank you for this expression.
❤❤ Amazing Advice 🙏 Thank you Uncle 🙏👌
If someone pulls a gun on you, walk slowly, don't run. Don't spoil your charisma.
Years ago when I had different life...a guy took knife against me...but I continue to walk slowly to him, looking at his eyes and.. the guy run away..
There were also situation when I was ask for help. The guy stand with big stick, wild and unpredictable. ..but I get an eye contact with him and walk around slowly , making distance shorter...he start to walk back into old building...there were doors but no light, but I walk after him into darkness and wait for him there. .he hide somewhere like a cockroach.
Pull a gun on a Russian mafia head? Not just your family..your entire DNA will be erased from history. Even ultra hardcore Arian brotherhood type dudes are not suicidal
Sounds like wisdom to me.
This guy is not a gangster, it's a monk.
Sounds funny when you refer to him as 'it'!😂😂😂
Rupanya anda pandai bercanda 😂😂😂
He doesn't sound like a gangster at all. Most of them have zero IQ
Thank You for sharing this with us,old Russian Wolf....
Imma save this video in case i feel low 😂😂😂these kind of videos a like gold
He worked in John Wick 4 as an Russian Church Man ...
Russian accept is addicting!
Funny thing is - it's not Russian accent.
Maybe the accent isn't Russian, but I'm sure that it's a Slavic accent. "Bratan"=bro (in Russian language) and how he says "have": khaf 🤔
I do all these, I'm a child of God
You and everyone else is servant of god . God has no children. May Allah almighty guide you
@@mig-cm5to I'm not saying God had physical sexual relations, he is the Creator and I am his creation, that is why I say such a thing
Wonderful voice, real mafia talk
Very helpful thank you
The most important life rule I've learned is that people with "charisma" are very likely to be psychopaths. Point proved.
😮Yes
Chrarisma is can be in anyone, eople that can make you listen to them either good advice or bad, it's just more manipulative people use charisma wayyy much better than other
And society rewards manipulative people more than honest people
… The “Wise” Godfather
This guy interview is taken where all his dear opponents found their peace, after meeting his charisma: the graveyard.
😂😂
Great insights Sir for my whole life
He's a man of focus, sheer will, commitment.. something we know very little about
You know how to identify them so that’s a start.
If you have a genuine interest in these characteristics then you can develop them in your day to day life. Just apply one of them every 3 to 4 days and see what happens.
It’s this ‘seeing what happens’ that changes your internal relationship with them.
Rule number one don't listen to a charismatic psychopath. Idk what the hell he said but i hope it works out in the end 👍
My ADHD ass left the building
You probably don't have ADHD. A handful of people have it if any. You were sadly placed on a lifetime of dependence on serious drugs like millions of people by legal drug dealers.
@@kel7410 I didnt take any for a while and it messed up major life chances for me... I am on Concerta and its been great. I need to focus on daily basis so its been hell.
Rule 5 : don't give advice when no one asked.
I'm sure the person who recorded the video asked him.
That’s really good advice one, old wisdom from my Russian parents
😂
@@cordovajose5693 I'm sure the person who gave advice had called him to ask him.
Here's the idiot of the day !
If you have charisma, you have the peace of God and this peace is pure power.🕊️
From "trust me bro" source 😅
he has charisma
And to think there are those who attend college for 4 years
so true
This AI man 😂😂😂
Last thing I will do in my life is listen to this man's advice. A man that cannot hack it as part of a normal society.
Badass leadership skills!
My father taught me this when I was young
I watched this loop 3 times before I realized this guy had pulled me in with the charisma of which he speaks.
Un Mafioso non parlerebbe mai in video ma c'è un eccezione se sei un collaboratore.Sei solo una persona che gioca a fare il duro
1. Undivided focus
2. Integrity, make decisiom and take responsibility
3. listen first, speak second
4. speak slow, move slow, peaceful
The perfect charisma to play in next David Lynch movie😂
But he's sooo right!
Peace is power. Hallelujah! Someone gets it.