Fierce Marriage & Fighting "Naked"
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Me and my wife tried that fighting naked once . . . .we still can't go back to that Wal-mart.
Shocking I thought that was normal at wally world
Ya'll were probably better dressed than most of those people, honestly.
Funny.
HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!!!!!
Great!
Me and the wife tried this method, 5 kids later we don't fight anymore.
Makes sense....since you're passing out from exhaustion from raising five kids you don't have the energy to fight.
Lmao....!!!!!
That's good stuff right there!
V A S E C T O M Y
@@ExplosiveFetus except that 15% of vasectomy patients experience long term discomfort (AKA PAIN!)...
I love how Mrs. Poet looks at John like she just met him
Agreed. True love.
Awww ❤️
I noticed that too. How awesome
John's face when he realized he screwed up the scripture reference and Mrs. Poet nailed it. 😂
You are the real deal John because you recognize the importance of what you fight for. This is waaaay more important than any gunfighting video. Thanks
Great advice.
Bottom line: you once loved that one person that you would die for them, so don't hurt them by trying to be right.
The most telling thing to me is that they spent almost the entire video turned toward each other. Their body language says more than their words ever could. Awesome. I’m in.
Fight naked with my wife? This now brings to mind the words of Braveheart: "What are you going to do?" "I am going to go pick a fight."
I've been happily dating my SO for 13 years and we came to this realization...
One of the most important things couples need to acknowledge before any fight or disagreement is that YOU and your SO have each other's backs no matter what. You have to have a mutual understanding that when SHTF, that you and your SO will be the only people you can rely on (Bankruptcy, Illness, Zombies). Its hard to insult or hurt another person intentionally when you realize you are both on the same team.
13 years. . .
A few years back an OLD man I was familiar with said; “been married 65+years and never had a fight with my wife. Every time I see a fight coming I go for a walk, and that’s why I’ve lived so long (95+) I walked a lot.”
Another very wise man recommended: never play win/lose...because someone going to loose. In May we celebrate 50 years of marital bliss. Oh... and she’s been very very supportive of me buying lots of guns ....ten +. Kinda a long story... later
How the hell is this possible
My wife and I have been married for 39 years. About 10 years ago we sat down and wrote out our rules of engagement, ie. no name calling, no generalizations, no comparing with anyone else. No bringing up the past, etc. we decided that our relationship was more important than anything. Else. We have found that there are times when we might be technically right but still be very wrong. It’s more important to do right than be right. We go out of our way to tell each other that we love each other. It is easier to love someone you respect so we choose to respect each other. I love the fact this kind of fight requires you bring no weapons to the fight.
Wisdom
Lovely
Mrs Poet is beautiful and I love the way she looks at you. You are so very blessed to have her in your life. Cherish every second.
Great vid. Marriage isn’t for sissies. When I carried my bride through the threshold (fatal funnel) 40 yrs ago, I picked up a sense of humor, and lost my pride.
Early on in my marriage, I came home and my wife started to raise her voice at me. I stopped her right away and told her two things are going to happen. 1st she was gonna go into the bathroom and yell at the mirror and 2nd I was gonna leave for a couple of hours. When I came back I asked if she was done yelling and we sat down and talked about what was bugging her. That was over 20yrs ago and in the last 25yrs we started to raise our voices twice, before we stopped and decided to talk. She was raised in a family that yelled all the time and I was raised you don't yell during a disagreement because you will say something you can't take back. It's ok to disagree, but not to yell at the one you love enough to be married to.
Honestly John during this season of my life these types of talks have been so beneficial for me. I’ve been challenged in my marriage and have had to really dig in and learn what it looks like to be a husband that is pleasing in the eyes of the Lord. Thanks for sharing resources that have helped me in this journey. Thanks for all you do. Bless you and your family!
Both of these couples have an amazing foundation and the right focus on the right things. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
Yeah I’ll admit it I came here because I saw the word ”naked”
Oh you too?
Goddamnit!
*FACEPALM*......same....
We just reinforced the effectiveness of clickbait titles. From now on JL's vids are gonna be 'Shooting Techniques - Naked', 'Be the Warrior You Were Meant to Be - Naked', 'Taking Cover in a Gunfight, Low-Crawling, Escape and Evasion - Naked',and so on and so on.
@@Jazzman-bj9fq lmao
Love most of your videos but I gotta say...this is one of the best Ive seen! Awesome stuff and Praise God!!
"When naked, you can't go to war with a shield or weapons. "
The man needs to brush up in his knowledge on the ancient celts.
My wife would never buy into this... Ide pick 10 fights a day.
LOL!
After almost fifty years of marriage (in June), my husband and I have discovered that probably 90% of the things that start an argument between us are stupid and not worth the emotional effort. We step back. We don’t get personal. Even if we can’t resolve an issue before bedtime, we say I love you. We might not feel it, but we say it. Love is a decision we make everyday, even when we are driving each other crazy. We might not always like each other but we always agape each other.
So awesome to see you guys are connected with Fierce Marriage, found their podcast a few weeks ago and have been listening a ton, great content to challenge and build your marriage. Great content!
Good video. As an older fellow, I heard you both discuss what my wife and I have practiced. It works as long as you also remember that love isn't that warm fuzzy feeling you had when you first got together. We've found that love is a choice we make every moment. It doesn't matter what emotion you're feeling, if the relationship is to last, you must choice to stay in the relationship and fight for it everyday.
As a single man, I've watched and learned from couples over the years, on marriage and family. One piece of advice Ben Shapiro gave during a Q&A was, if you and your spouse share the same moral values, then your marriage can survive anything. Other things like: using the words we, us, and ours tend to help when talking about anything, admitting that there is a chance that you might be wrong when arguing, and never make important decisions when angry.
I so wish I could “like” this video a thousand times. Our society needs more of this, more love, more grace, more faith in Christ. Thank you for doing what you do!
Next time you’re in Southern California, please stop by Sandals Church. Would love to have you!
Wow !! I'm reading their book now for the first time. Great video and content. So much help for married couples. Thank you !!
Thank you Lovell family and friends, my wife and I are several years married and have small daughter, things have been stressful and this is very insightful. God bless y’all and thank you for being role models.
Impressed with my 2 second reload? Just wait until you see my disrobe speed, I'll be high speed low drag in no time... maybe that's what we were fighting over.......
I picture John all Ranger'd out suited up with night vision when he and Mrs. Poet fight.
Just remember the video where she took first watch with the NVGs while he slept like a baby. She can suit up too!
@@meatpopsicle42 Just the one that I was going to reference!
"Come get some!" LOL!
Ephesians 4:26 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:
Wrath means violent anger. I agree with there are times you do need step back. Letting the sun set when you have wrath is a bad thing. I will definitely have to look into this book. Thanks for the video
3:41 John looked like he was gonna cry trying his hardest not to crack a cheesy joke.🤣🤣🤣
Haha, yeah he did
Great stuff guys. So refreshing to see solid people being such an example! Marriages & families are falling apart in this country, so to see people in the public eye having such a strong foundation and putting out this sort of content, is encouraging & amazing.
I came to your channel for gun & gear reviews & training tips, but I think I enjoy these types of videos more than anything.
I love my guns. I’m a police officer, so the tactical stuff is great. However, this stuff, this is the truly important stuff. I have been following Fierce Marriage for awhile now. It’s awesome to see y’all collaborating for this! Great video!
My wife and I made an agreement, no matter what we cuddle up in bed every night.
Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Reconcile your issues before you go to bed.
I'm always right... when i admit I'm wrong.
Buahahaha. That text war was HILARIOUS. I am not a Christian, but can appreciate your commitment to and respect for God while keeping a good sense of humor.
I wish I had heard of “Warrior Poet Society” channel earlier. This is amazing content, thank y’all for sharing!!
I want to thank you for taking the courage to upload this. It takes a lot where you have a lot of viewers that may not be open or willing to hear what can truly help others. I was not expecting to receive a spiritual message before going to bed (always watching and researching guns and training videos.)
My wife and I have been married for 4 years now, which we have hard times and stress, especially with money, BUT: we made ground rules as stated in the video. Never go to bed angry, always share your love for each other through daily compliments, and include a mediator. And for us, we try and include the Great Mediator.
Good stuff! Thanks for sharing. I've downloaded a few of their Fierce Marriage podcasts because of this video.
I watched a vid on UA-cam a while back. It was a talk given by a woman who is a marriage counselor and talking about tips for a successful relationship.
She said much that made sense but the one thing I really liked, is that when you fight, you can not seek to hurt your partner with harsh words and you can only fight in the bedroom, naked!
I laughed my butt off and thought that was the best advice I have ever heard.
Oh my gosh that's the best text message back-and-forth ever! You guys were up to speed on your cliche Christian music lyrics...and, you know, Bible verses. It would be time wastingly hilarious to go back and label all the songs and verses that were used in that!
You guys touched on this a bit and I was happy to see it. When my wonderful wife and I get into a heated disagreement where one or neither of us are in a good place to be productive, one or the other will just say "let's put this on the shelf for now." Naturally we don't leave it there forever, but come back to it as soon as is reasonable.
This works for us not just in disagreements but in planning for the future, or big questions we might ask each other. If we dont know how to word the answer, instead of being pressured for an answer and saying something we dont mean, we can give ourselves time to say exactly what we think or feel.
Communication is HUGE. So we are slowly doing what we can to be better in that regard, and be there for each other in it.
I hope someone found this long rant helpful lol. Didnt mean to go so long.
So refreshing to see the four of you on this podcast, doing your best to make a positive difference in people's lives with a realistic sharing on addressing conflict with a foundation of faith. Not syrupy, not pollyannish- but pragmatic reality. Blessings on your journey and your message! From the viewpoint of 45 years and counting, just 18 and 17 years old when we were married, profoundly impacted by God's touch, and now getting ready for the next season of change ahead when so many will be searching for answers.
Great couple with solid advice! Thanks for making wise content full of truth. We need more of it, much love from Florida. God bless yall
Another good video from the Poet side. Your videos are awesome and eye opening both from the Warrior and the Poet side. Look forward to meeting you at the USCCA Expo. I’ll be there working for the USCCA, but will make time to stop in and hear your seminar.
Love this so much. On your same path. My wife and I just went through "Love and Respect". Awesome team building lesson plan for couples. Talks about two cycles, the crazy cycle and the building cycle. How to stop crazy to start building. I will check out Fierce Marrage! Thanks and much love to you all!
My wife and I have been together for 29 years. Listening to this reaffirms how we treat each other. Marriage is wholly a partnership. Thanks John!
This was some awesome information, thanks for making this video!
As I am getting married in 102 days, this is so great to watch and I want to get this book when we get married! Thanks for the content John!!!
Congrats in advance!
If each of you gives 100% and you always remember you love each other even when you don’t like each other, you'll have a good head start. And if you are friends before you tie the knot, good friends, you give yourselves another edge.
Yay for that! But get it now.
Being good friends doesn't guarantee a good marriage. In fact it can sometimes be the killer of a marriage.
Best friends? Probably not. But friends? Yes. If you aren’t friends and don’t have that basis of like, it will be hard to get through the times when you are driving each other crazy. At least, that’s the way it works for us - almost fifty years and going strong. And it works for my son and DDIL - twelve years and going strong. So I think there is something to it. Just saying ...
Love how John Lovell incorporates a whole of life approach to being a warrior poet..
This was great John, thanks for doing this video!
John, Thanks for showing this side of your life. I came here because of a love for shooting and firearms but who knew, as my wife and I are Marriage Coaches and have taught a variety of programs over the years. The past three years has been a program called "ReEngage" out of Watermark Community Church in Texas. God Bless you all for the work God has called you to!
Sooo funny...my wife just turned me onto this podcast last week, before I saw your video on it. (of course, I'm a week behind on WP youtubes watching, so the timing is amazing). Thanks for sharing this and all you (both) do. God Bless!
Mrs & Mr. Poet, thanks for the video and the insight into your friends book and examples they’ve used in their life. While I haven’t had to use the topics discussed in the video, I like the information discussed for possible future tribulations I may face. God bless.
That’s right! I said MRS. Poet before MR. Poet! The woman in my life rules my life and I proudly protect that life!!
How have I not come across your videos before? You are a hidden treasure!
Great podcast, thank you!
Had no idea you guys were old school buddies! I love Fierce Marriage & WPS! Good video everyone!
You guys are hilarious.
Also, I stopped the video and read some of those texts in the back and forth. I am just wondering where the lightning burn marks are. LoL
I've only recently discovered you I'm doing a lot of binge-watching. Love your stuff keep it coming and thank you
I love this video , I will definitely be buying the book. I wish my church had even one other person that liked the warrior path , its hard being the only person that loves guns , hunting and martial arts. This community of warrior poets is amazing.
I'm trying to help teach my wife about firearms and self defense and was actually watching another of your WPS videos with my wife and saw the title. We watched it together and loved 100% of this. It echoes what we've tried to live in our 23 years of marriage. Thank you so much for sharing this.!!!
This is great stuff! My wife and I are coming up on 2 years of marriage and just had our first baby. We apply a lot of these things in our relationship already. We are fortunate to have good role models and experienced couples in our life to pour into us. When we fight, we fight to reach an agreement, we’re a team and if one of us feels like we lost, we both did. And we always go to bed together at the end of the day, and nobody ever gets sent to the couch.
All of your videos are great and this one did not disappoint me. Now I realized that fighting naked isn't only physical but more so emotional and psychological to put away your shield and expose your real self. I've been thinking about fighting without clothes but without stripping ones self from the daggers and the shield nakedness could bring more things into the situation.
We love this! Thanks for more inspiration!
Awesome stuff!
Johns “oof” face on the bible quote correction from Mrs Poet 😂😂
That text battle of Holier than thou was pretty hilarious!
Had to pause to read that text battle. You guys are nerdy! That was AWESOME!!
That text battle... 🤣🤣🤣
That "spiritual text battle" was hilarious! People that really know scripture will appreciate it!
So much wisdom. Thank y'all for sharing.
24 min in...I may or may not have paused the video to read ALL those txt msgs....🤣🤣 they are hilarious !!
I wondered if anyone would!!!! That is well over a decade old!!
@@WarriorPoetSociety I may use a few of those 😂
This is awesome to see a glimpse of healthy connection between male friends and marriage. Thank you.
Thanks for the video. I always try to fight to win and this will def help my relationship .
good job Mrs poet! eph 4. I'll be buying the book
Great video. Lots of wisdom.
You really cover all aspects of being a Warrior Poet fighting for what’s right including your partner and nudity not such a bad thing!
Removing emotion is the most constructive step, also the hardest to do. Fighting, in any form, is easier if you can keep emotion from taking over.
Dang! love the texts!
I paused and stared at that photo of Johnny Love in a Gucci hat for so long and I couldn’t stop laughing 😂 Makes me hopeful that he wasn’t always too cool 🤙
Really wish I would have found your channel much earlier. Just recently stumbled upon you for the gun tutorials. I'm definitely staying with you for all of your beliefs. I think all four of you in the video are total rock stars. It's people like you all who should be admired for your life skills and Biblical approach to everything. Thank you so much for sharing, and may God bless you all greatly.
But by going naked you reveal your most prominent weapons....
Men also have the advantage that their weapon gets stronger by seeing the woman's weapons.
He's right you know ^
Another great vid, thanks.
Excellent video.
I’ve picked so many fights since we started this… best year of my life
Love your content - sound dampening to remove echoes would bring a big quality increase. Keep it up!
Awesome text battle! It’s great to have a friendship like that. I have been watching and have really enjoyed your content and very proud that you are so open to talk about Jesus Christ so openly. Keep it coming!
Never been the type to hash over feelings, but this makes so much sense if you actually want to keep everything going in a positive direction with your relationship! Communication is always the key, but it has to go both ways or you're just trying to make yourself feel better about the situation. Thanks for sharing this, have a good night! God bless our troops 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Awesome video John,
Good discussion!
This is great stuff. Wife & I also learned to be truthful & transparent. We learned that from Tony Montana - “Me...I always tell the truth...even when I lie.”
Great video...any plans to add a Mrs Poet line of clothing to your shop??? I love my shirts and hat, but would love to get my wife decked out in WPS gear too.
Y'all should have a podcast. Love to be able to download and listen at work 😁
Awesome video, glad to hear people being outspoken about the importance of Christianity in their lives. God bless you all.
As usual, awesome video and a great message. My wife and I are coming to ATL this weekend. Maybe we'll run into you guys.
God Bless you guy's and keep up the great work!
I like these people!! I will finish the video later...have to work now.
Very good video John! Thank you for this one.
My wife and I have been married for 13 years, we have 4 kids, and we are in deeper love now than ever before! A good marriage is possible with work...an incredible marriage is only possible in Christ!!
Fantastic show today. Thank you and God bless... 😁😁😁
I started watching more of your videos, love these videos you and your first lady are doing. Been married since 1990, now if I can get my 1st lady to watch with me. Blessing to you two and your family!
I wear the pants. She picks them out.
TaterNate lmao 😂
I’m still in the new couple phase with my SO, so we don’t fight at all so far. Closest we have is tickle fights but she bites. 🤣😬
That said, I like the idea of walking away & calming down before saying things hurtful. Gary Chapman’s book “the five love languages” is quite good too.