Rescue Your Marriage [w/ Order of Man + Warrior Poet]
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Ryan Michler, from Order of Man, and John Lovell discuss what is required to have a successful marriage.
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Wow
Thank you for ALL that you guys do to educate US good American People and for keeping Christ first!
Please check out Kevin samuels on UA-cam, and current state of marriage and women in the United States. Really interesting, although he is kinda savage
Thanks for this video John, very much needed today.
"My personal EDC is John Lovell" - Evan
That cracked me up 🤣😂😂
I love this channel. There are so few channels that teach men how to be good men, this is one of them.
We all need to speak up to change our failing culture.
@@WarriorPoetSociety amen
Or to give men with these thoughts a place to not feel alone.Being able to protect and provide is a large umbrella of things.If you aren't struggling to get it right. Then you are most likely doing something wrong. Thanks WP
@@WarriorPoetSociety I'm thinking of starting my own channel to tell heroic true stories. Might help someone I suppose.
I’m a little bit of a better man after watching this. Thank you
“Marriage is a duel to the death which no man of honour should decline” - G.K. Chesterton
Lol
Lol 😆
thats a great quote
If your marriage is a duel, you married the wrong person. Life is a duel, marriage should be a refuge.
I'm only 35 seconds into the video, and I can tell you, I need this today.
On the same boat brother
IF you only who save and other side destroy.. you play bad game.
@ETomatoeMan come again where?
same here brother
A month later......have you been taking the advice? And is it helping? Hoping the best for ya!
This is no longer the best gun channel on UA-cam. It is the BEST CHANNEL PERIOD. This content right here might push me to WPSN if this is what is in store on there. Keep it up John and God bless you!
I was an early WPSN member, it's worth every penny!
Wpsn is amazing brother. Support them! Get great content at the same time.
I’m on WPSN for the sole purpose of supporting this mans mission financially
First mistake when I started dating was neglecting my family and friends. Dont do it guys. One of my biggest regrets.
Noted.
I have the inverse problem, I have friends that are no longer friends because simply having a girlfriend renders everything else in life unimportant and less valuable to them, superseding all else.
@@ctsxhp326 interesting to see what the other end looks like. Luckily I've been able to work on the problem and not lose any friends, but relationships were damaged for sure
If you don't, you get scandal.
I haven’t neglected my family and my wife has not neglected hers, but really neither one of us talk to our friends anymore. That’s something I sincerely miss and regret.
Marriage is not a stroll in the park.
It's a cross country treck that requires teamwork to survive. Only it doesn't stop.
There may be a bear or two also along the way.
And you did NOT have all the right stuff when you set out. You're going to have to get it, make it, or adapt around it.
The juice ain’t worth the squeeze
@@afghanyeti 500 Magnum?
As a woman, I loved to hear two men truly speaking truth!
Probably the most information packed talk of marriage I've ever seen.
Hopefully not the last.
Words mean nothing, it's your actions that speak volumes.
Words mean a lot, but your actions mean more.
Words mean more to women.
Actions mean more to men.
Both still need both.
@@918Mitchell I must be a weird woman then, I value action over word.
A hundred actions will be forgotten if she hears one word she doesn't like.
I found my wife’s switch too. That’s why kid number seven will be here any day now.
Well done! Congratulations.
John, you nailed it brother... 👏 "this is a one way Covenant, where I will love you regardless of circumstances". Holy literally means different. To be set apart. Theres a reason why that is the word used by the seraphim to describe what they see as the fly circling around the Most High. There is none like Him. So in a sense, you're saying "let's make our marriage holy, different, set apart, something that brings honor and reflects the Most High.
Can we get an episode where Mrs. Poet and Mrs. OOM have a similar conversation? This was great; I want to hear more and their wives perspective.
I would show my wife that. We already watch it together, every time John brings her on the show
My 10th anniversary is coming up in july. Im only 29, so we went through hell to make this work, but in the end id do it all again. My wife is my rock.
Salute to you my brother 👏
My wife and I are going through our second separation in 2 years. We’ve been married for 8 years and have 3 children under 6. It’s hard. I needed the first separation to re-evaluate my life and the choices I was making as a man and a father. I’ve come along way I feel. I’m proud of the man I am for the first time in a long time. This second one though, may not be anything that can be fixed. I wish I would’ve heard this kind of stuff 5 years ago. I may not be in this mess now
It shouldn't be "Happy wife, happy life." it should be "Happy spouse, happy house" and in that statement its not dependent on the other spouse to provide that full happiness. That is on each of us individually. Your spouse can add to the happiness but not the cornerstone.
I’m 22, single, and I took a ton of notes. God bless you two!
Damn this is good. We are celebrating 14 years and I would have loved this sort of wisdom in the earlier years if our marriage
OK, that’s my favourite ad.
“When my personal EDC is away, John...”
We all need a WPS John in our EDC, make us basically invincible.
*Love is a Verb.* It takes work, and a lot of it.
Yes I think that is what most don't understand, I call it an action....everyone thinks it's a feeling, tingles fade.
13 yrs married, 15 together, shes my best friend and im hers. Didnt marry till i was 46 and wouldnt change a thing.
Maybe there's hope for me after all, lol. I'm 38 and my last serious girlfriend was almost 20 years ago (God it sounds so long ago). For a while though I wasn't in a good place and struggled with alcohol for years. But I've since been sober over 7 years and beginning of last year got in the gym to make some changes to my body, which I absolutely had despised for years (too skinny). I'm thinking maybe later this year I'll try dating again.
Holiness is what I consider enlightenment. Being able to break through your challenges despite the pain, you are happy
Selfishness is at the core of nearly ALL marriage problems. Almost everything boils down to an obsession with ME opposed to an obsession with giving of yourself to your spouse. The sooner you learn that, the more problems you'll avoid.
The center of all SIN is 'I'.
As a 19 year old new husband and father, I need this. Dad tired and loving it 🤘🏻
May your marriage be deeply blessed, so blessed that it requires you & her to forge your union stronger together. May God guide you. ❤
This is super deep. I used to always think having a significant other was just about having fun, and when it’s not fun anymore then it’s time to move on....This video has taught me that it’s so much more! Being able to challenge each other to become better!
Exactly. It's a battle but you're fighting the battle together. Not against each other.
10 year anniversary just past in March, got into one of our biggest fights, getting counseling, still working. This was encouraging guys thanks for the video
I'd love to see Jordan Peterson and John have a conversation. It would be so spicy
That would be amazing.
That certainly would be no trivial thing, I hope John loves lobster hierarchies.
I'd like to see that too. John has already taken weight lifting lessons from Mark Rippetoe, Jordan Peterson would complete the trifecta.
Oh yes. Two widely different personalities but both widely read.
A good conversation.
Jordan Peter's is not spicy, he is controlled opposition just like Ben Shapiro. I'd rather see him chat with a young buck like Nick Fuentes or John Doyle.
I found an exception
You can change everything and go to al the marriage counseling, can't please a bipolar spouse, that was abused as a child, with a mother in law pushing for divorce, and then misery for her daughter and grandkids.
When the VA counselor tells you "next time she will send you to the morgue, not the emergency room" you then succumb to her demands for divorce.
I really appreciate seeing a believer communicate topics that I am interested in. The last few years have been an absolute nightmare, so getting fed any way I can is really important. Thank you.
Wow, some of this really resonates. It's nearly impossible to find other men that think like I do so I deeply appreciate your perspectives.
You have hit on so many of the issues my wife and I have had during our 50 year relationship. (We were 16 when we met.) One of the most important things we have found is when we don't have joy in God, ourselves, each other, our family, that's when our marriage does not work well. Seldom do we feel joy in all those categories at the same time. But, when we cannot find joy in any these, we have had to rethink how we are living our lives. Everything changes and, to keep our marriage healthy, we have changed to maintain our own identities while growing our love and respect for each other.
Going through a similar situation, This video is a blessing. Good testimony.
Will be married 10 years this year and I gotta say this is a message from God, I needed to hear this, Thank you guys!
But the hi five for not knowing were the kids are but knowing there safe on 50 acres is a true dad goal of mine!
Amen Brother. I'm just over 10 years now, and we both have made mistakes though mine I consider to be the "worse" of those mistakes. God willing she will come back to Christ and at least start going to Church with our daughter and I again. I believe that God is the key to making everything work in life..
Awesome discussion!
It is so true marriage is difficult but so worth it!
My first marriage was 20years too long😳 Now, my second marriage 10years strong.
You have to realize your spouse is not you and you have to allow them to be themselves.
Work on yourself and love them through their faults (unless there is abuse). Happiness comes from within and then you share it with the one you love❤❤
If you want a fairy tale or happily ever after, go watch a Disney movie!!
John, you have been a constant pain in my butt, always reminding me that nothing falls in place without aligning myself first to God and then my family. Love you and the team for not being any different.
So awesome that two of my favorite content creators did an episode together. Hopefully just the first of many.
man... this was really good. i could listen to this conversation all day. thank yall for sharing.
As someone who recently married, this was a great video. I took a lot from this, thanks to the both of you for the honest conversations and guidance.
"It's not hard. It's challenging": Me trying to eat the loaf of french bread that sat out on the counter for too long.
I can honestly say.. I feel the same way about my rifle
fair point.
keep your rifle by your side
Please don't tell me you made this comment and had to say this at this moment!!! I don't even want to know if you are
married do you wonder why? You need to stay awake pay attention and take notes. Hands up 5 Stars for these two Godly Wise Tough Manly Gentlemen who get it and found the balance to have a healthy loving relationship!!!!
Great conversation! And a big YES PLEASE to a convo between the two of you about Christianity/spirituality
You guys have something amazing taking form. Glad I can tag along. Thank you for taking the time and sharing this.
Getting married to my wife is the best thing I have ever done.
Married 43 years and have been together 51 years. We grew up together, same neighborhood, same kind of working families, same schools and friends. I've never felt it was a "war" bit certainly is a challenge at times. We've always been on the same team. We do still have differences but we work thru them. The "war" has always been against those from outside, those who were against our values and life. In all that I'm a very lucky man with a greater woman.
This was literally one of the best videos I've ever seen
Your timing of this vlog was inspired. Thanks so much for sharing it was what I needed to here.
Long time watcher of the channel John.
The Lord DEFINITELY put this one in front of me today!
Great video and thank you!
Thank you for doing this video I have been with my wife for 17 years and I completely understand everything that was said. I also agree with everything that you guys said and it's nice to see that there is people out there like me that are still trying with the relationships not just giving up and moving on
Thank you so much for providing this channel! I need more of this content
I try not to pursue happiness but produce the fruit of Joy. From what I've personally encountered Joy in it's purest form can only flourish in the fields of holiness you're referring to. The integrous life I battle for isn't for me but for those in my life today and those who will need that version of me in my tomorrows. And THAT produces serious Joy in my soul 🤙🏻
Together over 20 yrs, married (by the state) 3. People always say you guys have the such a great relationship. I always compare it to a duck on a lake, we make it look easy, but look under the water and see all the hard work it takes to float across that lake.
What I needed, when I needed it. Thank you John and Ryan!
I love nearly ever video that is produced on this channel, but this one is on a new level of awesomeness! Mike you are my kind of man bro!
To the "this is hard" (24:54) I remind my daughter that it's triple reinforced when we play that game. We thought it, said it and heard it from a voice we trust implicitly. This gives the defeatist attitude significant strength when we didn't have to make that choice. There are times to use this loop in a positive way to our advantage. Finding a ways to prop ourselves up in the face of adversity and challenge is vital in many aspects of a life that strives and thrives irrespective of circumstances.
Ryan, hands down the best segment I’ve seen you do bro. Respect!
Such a great timing for this video for me. Love these videos on how to be a real man that defines the Warrior Poet life.
Greetings from Spain! I’m so happy you released this video now. In the past three weeks my pastor has been preaching in church about marriage, divorce and kids and it’s been hard but very blessing. And it’s awesome to see you now, understanding, explaining and defending true biblical marriage! God bless you.
Don’t take this the wrong way, I love these two men. So much knowledge dropping here I am watching twice. Happiness vs Fulfillment. I remember telling my wife a few times, remember you are an individual first, fulfillment is the goal. We aim to make each other the best versions of ourselves.
I really appreciate y'all bringing up the subject of happiness in marriage, and teaching this generation about what commitment and covenant is. 🙌
My husband and I appreciate you so much, John! Thank you for your courage to make waves in order to reveal Truth.
Awesome conversation between two great men that I look up to. As a zoomer it's a very refreshing change to hear about these hard, yet positive experiences. I've grown up around twisted expectations/perspectives regarding marriage, and seeing failed marriages all around me (including my own parents') really made me question whether it's even a "smart" option these days. After growing a bit, I'm quite convinced that marriage, with the right partner, is a beautiful thing to pursue and fight for. Thank you gentlemen, looking forward to the content to come!
Also, congrats on hitting the 1 million milestone! Been here since about 250k and this channel still deserves 10x the subs it has.
Hey John! I want to thank you guys for this video.
I am a Christian young looking to pretty soon put a ring on the hand of a beautiful, strong, Godly young lady, and this video really cleared up some of the questions that have been flooding my mind. As a young man making my way onwards in the Lord and in this world, I am bombarded with wrong thoughts and ideas as to what marriage should hold. God put this young lady in my life, and I want to treat her accordingly. Thank you again for your sound advice!
This channel always makes me feel like I'm just hanging out with friends. Kudos, guys. Your authenticity really shines through. I'm completely hooked on watching your videos. And to think I went down this rabbit hole just because I was looking for a review on a rifle sling. Well done.
35+ years into a life sentence and a movie comes to mind win I think of marriage
it was made in 1983... 'Wargames'
in the end it was said;
the only wining move is not to play
based
Love this content. Truth spoken! #sacredmarriage
My wife and I recovered from a year long separation in 2010. Same kind of issues and had to discover (the hard way) these truths too. Holy vs Happy. Now more in love than ever before and its not because we focus on being happy, we see conflict as growth trying to happen.
Great channel!
THANK YOU for publicly stating what my own mind, heart, and soul believe. It is a rare and refreshing change from our selfish and materialistic culture. As someone "in the trenches of struggle" myself, your encouragement is a needed shot in the arm to help guys like me persevere and to keep the faith, continuously moving forward with the Lord at my side. Please pray for so many couples in the same boat and that both husbands and wives may avoid the hardness of heart that destroys. God bless!
Well put Brother.
My favorite youtuber talking with my favorite podcaster about real and important issues. More of this!!
Great discussion! Definitely appreciate you guys!
I love this interview format. Good words of wisdom. Thanks guys!
keep the video's coming john!! thanks!!
What kind of loser thumbs downs this? 😤 Great advice on keeping people grounded, balanced, honest, and grown up/mature/adult within a relationship. I could see this helping nearly everyone I know or at least reaffirming to others that they’re on a good path.
Crazy authoritarian "liberals" that care nothing for traditional values, maturity, growth, honesty, having children, or being committed to the betterment of anyone but their own, ultimately empty and purposeless, pleasure. That kind of loser.
Rayn is henpecked. Why should adequate man like that?
This might be the video that gets me to join the WPS network, thanks for the great content!
Great wisdom. Love this channel. God bless you, John Lovell.
Really needed to hear this lately. Powerful as always guys. Keep up the good work. Look forward to checking out his content on WSPN!
Love this! So much of this rings true, balance is so important. Family and work with a reasonable, healthy amount of focus on your own well being. Awesome to see MEN engaged in a real conversation about the reality and responsibility of marriage.
It’s the husband’s job to lead in humility. God has designed it as such, so as soon as you decided to hold up your end of the deal, she was inclined for follow your lead. Well done, my man. You have been blessed. Keep up the grind!
As always, great advice from 2 of my favorite role models on youtube
Watching this on my one year of marriage anniversary! It wouldn’t have been possible without God, my wife’s patience, and good community around us. Great video John! Here is to many more years ✊❤️
Thank you for putting the caveat in the there that you may need to elevate some friendships. Not all friendship circles are healthy. And it's okay to cut them and forge healthier friendship circles.
One of the best WP videos EVER!
This was an awesome discussion! I would love to see more of these!!!
This was a GREAT podcast. Hubby & I have been married for 25 years and had to work through those ups and downs. Loved the topics you discussed here.
Thank you guys for this. I really needed to hear it right now.
Holiness not happiness, the best, thank you guys!
Love you doing marriage “stuff”. Miss you you doing the shows with you and your wife. My wife and I always watched them together. It was really awesome.
This video has been encouraging. Thanks for posting.
Glad it was helpful!
There is a difference between ditching your friends and growing apart from your friends. They both hurt but the only thing promised is change. Thank you for the solid content gentleman!
Fellas, this is genuine and honest and appreciated. I’m grateful I found this when I did.
I come back and watch this video often. It’s packed with so much wisdom.
Guys, thank you for all the great wisdom and sharing. Always important to look at ourselves and see how we can become a better person each day. God bless!
You guys are awesome! Thank you 🙏 so much for what you both do. Please continue on in the good fight. God Bless You !
This was a very good discussion and I’m thankful I stumbled across it.
John, you are so right. 49 years in June. Good stuff..
Gentlemen. You both separately are fantastic and I love your channels and content. You both together is epic. To like minded men (and women) we are an important society of God fearing people. Thank for the content and for the guidance I absorb from your chats.
Love you guys and God Bless.
The founding fathers should've kept it as "Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of property." Do we really have the right to be happy?
This is a great episode. I could've used this advise a few years ago. Psychiatrists/couples therapists, at least the ones we talked to, just made things worse.
Thank you I needed this.
I watch these videos on here and on WPSN because this channel deserves all the props
Great conversation! I really need to hear this