My Husband Got a $140,000 Bonus and Is Thinking About Leaving His Job

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  • @brianwinters5434
    @brianwinters5434 3 роки тому +1264

    I would probably stay at a job where I get a 140 k bonus.

    • @anondalat9733
      @anondalat9733 3 роки тому +49

      Right? LOL

    • @chrislim7976
      @chrislim7976 3 роки тому +27

      If that's part of the compensation and he can get better elsewhere, no.
      As a Controller you're probably not loving the job anyways.

    • @kazzTrismus
      @kazzTrismus 3 роки тому +34

      as a contractor and/or as his own boss hes probably seeing he could make double and/or be a CFO real fast...
      maybe he can see he's getting ripped off....especially if he's the centre of the universe for profitability for the company.
      did he make them $10 million a year and theyre throwing him crumbs?

    • @trich103
      @trich103 3 роки тому +11

      If he stayed another year while being miserable, does a 2nd large bonus change his life if anyway?

    • @adamsaldana5462
      @adamsaldana5462 3 роки тому +1

      @@chrislim7976 comes with the territory.

  • @CycleCruza
    @CycleCruza 3 роки тому +145

    Don't forget the taxes that are taken out of the bonus, like 40%!

    • @joesti7607
      @joesti7607 3 роки тому +5

      Well well well two motorcycle guys like finance eh?

    • @Eternalmotors
      @Eternalmotors 3 роки тому +6

      Ahhh never expected to see CyleCruza here but now it all makes sense... bikes in cash, house in cash, debt free.... Love your videos man!

    • @gwillis01
      @gwillis01 3 роки тому +1

      Set aside the money for taxes of course.

    • @sublimesense7761
      @sublimesense7761 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah that’s probably their income bracket if he’s getting a bonus like that (meaning the bonus will be charged that much because it’s additional income subject to the full marginal rate)

    • @QAX300
      @QAX300 3 роки тому +4

      That's still about 84k bring home

  • @BaconMountainMan
    @BaconMountainMan 3 роки тому +320

    I agree with the others...if I received a $140k bonus, I'd stay, at least for a little while.

    • @goalie2998
      @goalie2998 3 роки тому +28

      Until the check cleared, at least

    • @ATLFUNKCARTEL
      @ATLFUNKCARTEL 3 роки тому +22

      Have you ever worked a job that ate your soul and all of your time? Sometimes the money isn’t worth it.

    • @socketyellow3
      @socketyellow3 3 роки тому

      @@ATLFUNKCARTEL it is with the rona reducing the chance of him getting any similar job when he needs to work again.

    • @BaconMountainMan
      @BaconMountainMan 3 роки тому +1

      @@ATLFUNKCARTEL true, not that wasn't the situation in this call. They both absolutely loved the employer.

    • @ATLFUNKCARTEL
      @ATLFUNKCARTEL 3 роки тому +5

      @@BaconMountainMan liking your employer is not the same as liking your job.

  • @v4vannatta521
    @v4vannatta521 3 роки тому +200

    Maybe the dude just needs a 1-2 weeks vacation, get his head straight. That always helps me when I feel overwhelmed--be terrible to leave a great opportunity.

    • @Dominique-kg9kz
      @Dominique-kg9kz 3 роки тому +5

      I mean I just went back to work this week from a 2 week vacation and I feel great. Sometimes you just need a break away. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @gamingphoenix9832
      @gamingphoenix9832 3 роки тому

      1-2 weeks vacation isn’t enough tbh

    • @littleripper312
      @littleripper312 3 роки тому +1

      This is probably it. I've worked at jobs where I was so burnout and was going to quit but then felt okay after taking a vacation. People don't realize they're just burnout and need to rest.

    • @1800GetCash
      @1800GetCash 8 місяців тому

      *MAYBE THIS MAN DESERVES A BETTER WIFE? MAYBE THIS MAN DESERVES BETTER IN LIFE, IF HE IS BRINGING IN THE BIG DOLLAS THEN HE DESERVES THAT EXTRA... MAYBE THE WIFE NEEDS TO F'ING WORK*

  • @chucksmith9633
    @chucksmith9633 3 роки тому +72

    I was handed a $10K bonus check (on $150k income) the same day that I was planning on giving my notice. Decided to put it off for two weeks! Yep, felt kind of weird. No regrets though.

    • @fuse911
      @fuse911 2 роки тому +3

      Okay my boy chuck you DOIN IT

    • @user-vi5vd3ty9d
      @user-vi5vd3ty9d 3 місяці тому +1

      @@fuse911😂😂😂

  • @kengy1991
    @kengy1991 3 роки тому +229

    Dang, he must really hate his job if he is considering leaving it and he’s making that kind of money.

    • @SherryEllesson
      @SherryEllesson 3 роки тому +18

      If he's been cleaning up sloppy books at one acquisition after another, I don't blame him. The kind of stress that comes with the incredibly long hours and trying to find and fix other people's errors (or malfeasance) probably hasn't left him much time or sanity for his family. That's the stuff heart attacks are made of.

    • @kbrad4280
      @kbrad4280 2 роки тому +4

      This is EXACTLY what is wrong in todays workplace. Corporations love to dole out huge bonuses to management but expect to hire slaves for $10 an hour with zero benefits and no raise schedule.

  • @MrJrobb182
    @MrJrobb182 3 роки тому +75

    John Delony subtly hinting for a $140k bonus from Dave throughout the episode lol.

  • @wreckingopossum
    @wreckingopossum 3 роки тому +228

    This makes me feel like I am doing life wrong

    • @ronaldcastrovega5618
      @ronaldcastrovega5618 3 роки тому +13

      Did you see the eyes both Dave and the Other guy did when she mentioned the bonus amount? Yeah, it doesn't seem to be common

    • @earthangel1978
      @earthangel1978 3 роки тому

      Right?! 😂

    • @thebra
      @thebra 3 роки тому +1

      @Jason Smith Or doing sales for large enterprise software, for example. Easily make 500k+ bonuses in that field when you close 10 million+ sales.

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 3 роки тому +221

    Large Lump sums often has a habit of clouding people's judgement, seems like a decision to make when the excitement dies down a bit first

    • @ufchighlights1
      @ufchighlights1 3 роки тому +2

      Well said.

    • @fkillah
      @fkillah 3 роки тому +1

      @michael smith except he didn’t espouse that point here

    • @r3dp3anut41
      @r3dp3anut41 3 роки тому +1

      @@fkillah ‘espouse’ - absolutely cracking piece of vocabulary there, 10/10. You made my day and it’s still early!

    • @HereIsWisdom1318
      @HereIsWisdom1318 3 роки тому

      Yea! But maybe hes tired of cleaning up financial messes.

    • @gordonsmith5589
      @gordonsmith5589 3 роки тому

      Great point!

  • @marist89
    @marist89 3 роки тому +85

    Delony is thinking "$140K bonus, Dave let's talk"

  • @SevenRiderAirForce
    @SevenRiderAirForce 3 роки тому +22

    They should have "Why does he want to leave his job" right at the beginning. The loyalty question is a distraction.

    • @SevenRiderAirForce
      @SevenRiderAirForce 3 роки тому +3

      @Anne Day Yes, but she didn't get to that until 5:19 when she says the books keep piling up, which we infer means he's working too much. Then at 6:21 she says he's not in charge of enough decisions. It's not until 6:33 when Dave asks "What is he looking for in the new job that's different?" So most of the time was wasted.

  • @TheMomanslm
    @TheMomanslm 3 роки тому +13

    Dave got exactly where this took me. The bonus is the after effect of hard work and that may be for five years of hard work.
    Solid advice to the end.

  • @SylvainNtwali
    @SylvainNtwali 3 роки тому +97

    Be loyal to your bank account only. Employers can fire you easily so you should only be looking for your own interests and not the company's.

    • @dedalliance1
      @dedalliance1 3 роки тому +2

      Be loyal to your company, no one has to hire you.

    • @stevennakhla7803
      @stevennakhla7803 3 роки тому +11

      @@dedalliance1 nah youre wrong

    • @dedalliance1
      @dedalliance1 3 роки тому

      @@stevennakhla7803 lol.

    • @David25522
      @David25522 3 роки тому +9

      @@dedalliance1 😂 Your as important to a company as much as the guy standing behind you. We’re all just a number.

    • @dedalliance1
      @dedalliance1 3 роки тому +1

      @@David25522 depends on your company.

  • @ominous450
    @ominous450 3 роки тому +215

    There's no such thing as loyalty but gimme $140K bonus, I'd be inclined to stay

    • @AbbyC543
      @AbbyC543 3 роки тому +12

      Right. You never make a major decision when you are reeling from a loss or celebrating a big win. You want to be level and grounded for those life changing decisions.

    • @netdevnick
      @netdevnick 3 роки тому +15

      For real. I'll never understand why people think they should be loyal to a company.

    • @dedalliance1
      @dedalliance1 3 роки тому +6

      @@netdevnick Because a company isn't a company it's a group of people? That's like if your Dad (assuming you respect and love your dad) started a company and then treated you well paid you a good income and you're like 'Dad there's no such thing as loyalty to a company I'm quitting'. The 'Company' isn't what you're being loyal to it's the people in the company and if you really respect them and they're over at your house every other friday having a bbq and sports night or you're out at the lake with your boat all together that's your loyalty, to your friends and your community in the work place. Now, if you're shipping packages for Amazon yeah there's no loyalty because they don't care about you.

    • @cxkelley
      @cxkelley 3 роки тому

      Nope

    • @esspi9
      @esspi9 3 роки тому

      @@dedalliance1 That's really well put.

  • @melanie2100
    @melanie2100 3 роки тому +33

    maybe the husband should call in with his thoughts so we don't have to guess what the situation is :)

  • @rustyshackleford7285
    @rustyshackleford7285 3 роки тому +118

    I get a turkey every year at the hospital for a bonus.

    • @wendy1343
      @wendy1343 3 роки тому +2

      I don’t even get a turkey 😪

    • @topcheese2889
      @topcheese2889 3 роки тому

      I use to get a free turkey for thanksgiving working at a grocery store when I was younger

    • @joywilkins64
      @joywilkins64 3 роки тому +1

      I don't know if a Turkey or a Starbucks gift card is better!🤔

    • @daniellizarraga3897
      @daniellizarraga3897 3 роки тому

      I did too was it Alvarado?!

  • @bellmattwebb
    @bellmattwebb 3 роки тому +9

    So glad to see Dave appreciate loyalty. So many companies just see people as replaceable wheels and cogs. I've stuck around at the same company out of sense of loyalty 🙃 but it wanes some days

    • @redkobe5465
      @redkobe5465 2 роки тому +1

      yea bc hes the boss of a big company ofc he appreciates loyalty 🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️

  • @markfundenberger7398
    @markfundenberger7398 3 роки тому +3

    enjoy the appreciation and stick with it. feel for the owners of the acquired companies, their dreams were bought out and their lives are completely shifting, if they had someone like your hubby( my wife) does same thing. its priceless and god given talent..... you are a light unto my feet and make the path straight..... he could own the company hes working for one day

  • @danoconnor3720
    @danoconnor3720 3 роки тому +50

    Don't worry about loyalty to your company. They don't have any loyalty to you.

    • @imspace349
      @imspace349 3 роки тому +4

      I don't think that is fully true. It sounds like it is a great company and they want him to stay. A lot of BIG companies don't really care about you. Like Walmart but most small and medium businesses are great places to work.

    • @queen.kristal8395
      @queen.kristal8395 3 роки тому +2

      Wow if someone is giving you a $140k salary I think they are loyal enough

  • @ELLIOTTARMY
    @ELLIOTTARMY 3 роки тому +11

    money is not everything. when you feel you put in all the work but are also left out of the bigger decisions, the money becomes sorta insignificant....I'm in this spot now at my job..

  • @rtrt2889
    @rtrt2889 3 роки тому +4

    A company will never be loyal to you, especially nowadays. They can get rid of you tomorrow. Take the money and do what is best for YOUR family

    • @xX7ristanXx
      @xX7ristanXx 3 роки тому

      Exactly give the respect that you get.

  • @a004
    @a004 3 роки тому +121

    Man got paid 310 to do his job and he's complaining that he doesn't have control over decisions...

    • @superblump87
      @superblump87 3 роки тому +17

      Right? Sounds like no risk, high reward situation to me. At least stay a few more years and build a nice investment account

    • @a004
      @a004 3 роки тому +9

      @soapfanaddict that's fine, when you can afford to do so

    • @fkillah
      @fkillah 3 роки тому +2

      @soapfanaddict okay say he gets a job with all those check boxes you listed (he won’t because we live in reality), will he be happy making 1/2 as much? There’s always something

    • @larissagonzales6075
      @larissagonzales6075 3 роки тому +7

      If he wants to make decisions he needs to own his own company.

    • @dedalliance1
      @dedalliance1 3 роки тому +2

      @@a004 I mean, he lives in North Carolina, he could live on 35k a year if he really wanted to. 'Affording' to do so is subjective to your lifestyle and what you want out of life.

  • @HereIsWisdom1318
    @HereIsWisdom1318 3 роки тому +26

    The bonus is for what he ALL READY DID!

  • @hunterahall3681
    @hunterahall3681 3 роки тому +16

    Loyalty is a concept that makes you do things against your self interest.

  • @AlgosExplained
    @AlgosExplained 3 роки тому +6

    If I gave someone a 140k bonus I would feel bummed out that they were leaving, NOT because I just gave them a bonus, but because this person is worth this bonus and the loss would be a great individual. The money is not a loss, the loosing a great team member is the loss that's the bummer.

  • @brockfierge
    @brockfierge 3 роки тому +20

    Dave shut down his “thought experiment” real quick.

  • @somecallmetim46
    @somecallmetim46 3 роки тому +59

    As a controller, the world is his oyster and he could make as much or more working for himself!

    • @operationhotshotinc.6887
      @operationhotshotinc.6887 3 роки тому +7

      What’s a controller ?

    • @RealGirlBeauty11
      @RealGirlBeauty11 3 роки тому +17

      Abel Casanova An experienced, high-level accountant that’s oversees an accounting department.

    • @operationhotshotinc.6887
      @operationhotshotinc.6887 3 роки тому +4

      @C B well someone must think he is worth $140k bonus..

    • @johnmartin4641
      @johnmartin4641 3 роки тому

      If you do that, then you’re responsible for 100% of your health insurance and retirement and you pay double payroll taxes. That’s why I’ve always viewed working for yourself as a crapshoot. I know someone who works for himself and he regrets it for those reasons.

    • @DavidRamseyIII
      @DavidRamseyIII 3 роки тому

      Not true. That’s quite high compensation for that role

  • @hungry4amill
    @hungry4amill 3 роки тому +16

    Sounds like the mafia to me... I heard the books are a mess, loyalty said 100x , huge bonuses ; and leaving town 🌹 🐟

  • @sethbender2863
    @sethbender2863 3 роки тому +6

    If he loves the company and is the controller. He has some pull in the room. He needs to go in and have an honest convo about what needs to change.

  • @freegibran
    @freegibran 14 годин тому

    As a business owner I find this conversation very interesting. It shows the importance of other things outside of salary/bonuses. The more emotional human aspect of growth.

  • @yurkouki
    @yurkouki 3 роки тому +11

    Making 170k a year and 140k bonus. That’s a job to have ! I’d stay till I die, unless I’m in Cali, I’d move right away !

    • @victormarquez2976
      @victormarquez2976 3 роки тому

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    • @komranbehbehani6379
      @komranbehbehani6379 3 роки тому

      @@victormarquez2976 lie

    • @alexs3187
      @alexs3187 3 роки тому

      Unless the job and lifestyle sucks.

    • @Jakkaribik1
      @Jakkaribik1 6 місяців тому

      Hello Victor!!

  • @DirtRoadAutoRepair
    @DirtRoadAutoRepair 3 роки тому +2

    The problem with a huge bonus like that in one year for multiple years of past work is that I could bump you into a new tax bracket that you might not have been in if it was spread out of multiple years.

  • @ij1376
    @ij1376 3 роки тому +4

    Currently doing accounting school...hearing that this kind of job with that kind of pay even exists is encouraging. :D

  • @clarifyingquestions
    @clarifyingquestions 3 роки тому +1

    Best call ever.

  • @hiitsme3039
    @hiitsme3039 3 роки тому +14

    As a accountant that has done closes messed up books are headache

  • @moicus29
    @moicus29 3 роки тому +15

    An 82% bonus, even if they're "good guys"... sounds weird. Like they realized they under paid him by 60-80% and are trying desperately to fix it fast before he goes fortune 500.

  • @jumpiam8477
    @jumpiam8477 3 роки тому +49

    When he has kids, it's not about him anymore. I would stay in this job until this pandamic is over. It seem like this job is doing good during a tough time.

  • @bindingcurve
    @bindingcurve 3 роки тому +39

    The 140K may be hush money and time to leave ........ The situation there may be ready to blow up / they are NOT following his advice

    • @JessyJess04
      @JessyJess04 3 роки тому +16

      Yeah exactly as a controller he’s getting a 6 figure bonus and immediately wants to move out of state? I’m thinking someone’s been cooking the books. She’d better dust off whatever skills she has before he ends up in jail.

    • @kpeggs82
      @kpeggs82 3 роки тому +1

      Why is he still just a controller. Sounds like the bonus is a poor runner up prise for not being CFO.

    • @bindingcurve
      @bindingcurve 3 роки тому +1

      @@tomw485 I don't think he is going down in flames. I think there may be structural issues with the company he is working for. I would not be surprised if he voiced the issues, the company did not listen, but he got the bonus for being a good soldier. He just does not want to put up with it anymore. Dave was alluding to it when he started asking why at the end.

    • @SC68170
      @SC68170 3 роки тому +3

      Didn't look at it that way but I find it hard to believe a company would give u 140k to leave

    • @bindingcurve
      @bindingcurve 3 роки тому +1

      @@tomw485 but you have to wonder why he wants to leave. Sounds like a small business that is growing fast. That is a tricky transition and things don't always scale. But who knows. He may have a really good offer at a different company.

  • @hookahspot8973
    @hookahspot8973 3 роки тому +11

    He sounds like a great guy and with a 140K he should start his own firm, if he’s a controller he could be making millions a year

  • @alexjartos
    @alexjartos 3 роки тому +31

    I think his company is going to make the decision for him if they watch this video.

  • @bimmerwman
    @bimmerwman 3 роки тому +21

    It sounds to me like he is looking for a future where he can continue to grow in his career. The pay may be good, but there may not ever be any opportunity for advancement for leadership positions.

    • @chrislim7976
      @chrislim7976 3 роки тому +2

      A Controller is pretty much a leadership position. As the controller, he knows his "bonus" was a drop in the bucket.

  • @NickJacksonusa
    @NickJacksonusa 3 роки тому +23

    Good work environment, good people, good pay. Do NOT go anywhere.

    • @ashleyjones5396
      @ashleyjones5396 3 роки тому +2

      Right! The grass is not always greener on the other side!!!

  • @uknasa007
    @uknasa007 3 роки тому +3

    Yeah man, I remember when I was younger. I thought I was hot stuff, got into stocks, and absolutely failed. Learned my lesson. Moved on to safer investments, such as playing at the casino.

  • @stellavargas4127
    @stellavargas4127 3 роки тому +51

    Sh*t I'll work there!!!
    For bonuses like that I'll stay!

    • @kevindrake714
      @kevindrake714 3 роки тому +2

      Trust in Christ.

    • @edb484
      @edb484 3 роки тому

      FACTS!!!

    • @chief5981
      @chief5981 3 роки тому

      Yeah but he only gets that bonus once a year

  • @justfine77777
    @justfine77777 3 роки тому +4

    I have a friend that’s a Urologist. He gets insane bonuses, and his income is even better, and he doesn’t miss a lick. Stay at your job people.

    • @chief5981
      @chief5981 3 роки тому +3

      A urologist that doesn’t miss a lick ?

    • @Tolohtony
      @Tolohtony 3 роки тому

      @@chief5981 😯🤣

  • @smithdonte00
    @smithdonte00 3 роки тому +5

    John: Let’s do a little thought experiment, so Dave you gave me 140K. 🤣

  • @prmm218
    @prmm218 3 роки тому +61

    Cleaning up 🧼 messy books seems like the husband’s forte! That’s his specialty!

  • @High5748
    @High5748 3 роки тому +16

    I mean loyalty isn't that rare of a thing. It's just rare to find a company that worth being loyal to. At 170K a yr job I'd be smiling everyday coming in until I retired.

    • @queen.kristal8395
      @queen.kristal8395 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah the job isn’t the problem I think the wife is just greedy.

    • @High5748
      @High5748 3 роки тому

      @@queen.kristal8395 Well yeah, agree. One issue with being a stay at home mom and not knocking it. Is when the kids aren't home I'd imagine boredom sets in.

  • @froddgraham7545
    @froddgraham7545 3 роки тому +12

    I don't know who, but someone actually needs to hear this, you've got to stop saving all your money. Venture into investing some, if you really want financial stability

    • @curtisjames1889
      @curtisjames1889 3 роки тому

      Pure wise comment.

    • @joannabrit9938
      @joannabrit9938 3 роки тому

      I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do because i have no idea of how and where to invest in these?

    • @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
      @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 3 роки тому

      @@joannabrit9938 All you need to worry about is marry and divorce. Do that twice and you will have what you need.

  • @RyGuy1538
    @RyGuy1538 3 роки тому +12

    170k/year and a 140k bonus? And you want to leave?! Why isn’t the guy calling? Is the wife the one who wants to move? Why not tough it out for another 10 more years, get a few more of those bonuses, and retire?

    • @queen.kristal8395
      @queen.kristal8395 3 роки тому +3

      Said the same thing you would have to start someone else and u may not make the same money 💰 be lucky because a lot of people can’t even pay rent or put food on the table.

    • @RyGuy1538
      @RyGuy1538 3 роки тому +3

      @@queen.kristal8395 exactly. “We just got a 140k bonus, what should we do?” Uhhh…. What?

    • @queen.kristal8395
      @queen.kristal8395 3 роки тому

      @@RyGuy1538 lol

    • @chubbytummymafia
      @chubbytummymafia 3 роки тому +1

      Maybe he wants to use the money to open his own business.

  • @Tolohtony
    @Tolohtony 3 роки тому +4

    I have to work Overtime for my "bonus". Dr. John looks like he could be a grown up famous cute child actor from a 1950's style sitcom.

  • @MasterMcCubbin
    @MasterMcCubbin 3 роки тому +12

    sounds like he just needs a long vacation.

  • @joywilkins64
    @joywilkins64 3 роки тому +3

    They're 1st thought was to leave the job and move. It seems like they started this decision wrong if LEAVING after getting a 140k bonus was their BEST idea they could come up with!

  • @pablor.694
    @pablor.694 3 роки тому

    2:50 Dave was like nah haha

  • @TL-pk2gh
    @TL-pk2gh 3 роки тому +3

    That company needs to hire an Assistant Controller, cleaning up the books of another company is hella work - (from an accountant)

  • @apeacefulmcadory1627
    @apeacefulmcadory1627 3 роки тому +3

    If the books are a mess, is that bonus possibly a mistake? If not, stay a few more years, get everything in order and then go.

  • @Takar100
    @Takar100 3 роки тому

    Dave is right that most companies don't have great accounting. Especially for a company that acquires companies, because most of the time, those new companies are smaller and on smaller systems.
    I'm in accounting as well, and I've seen it myself. I've been at companies where I've said "I've never seen anyone do their books like this!" And switched companies, and then said the same thing. Accounting is, honestly, one of the easiest jobs that people make SO difficult.
    Dave is also right, he should approach management (as a controller, he's pretty high in management, and should have some pull) and say "here's what we need" and if they don't listen, THEN you can start looking and even be real with the CFO and say "hey sir/madam, I've voiced my opinion, it's not going in the direction I want, so I'm putting some feelers out there."

  • @ekoller
    @ekoller 3 роки тому +10

    Why is she calling instead of him? I think this was an excuse for her to show off how great her husband is. I’m guessing he’d be embarrassed if he knew she was calling.

  • @silasdietrich7464
    @silasdietrich7464 3 роки тому +2

    Loyalty...? Didn't know such thing existed, partially in silicon valley. Well there isn't any loyalty here, companies will dump you at a drop of a hat, look after yourself

  • @jayrocke6067
    @jayrocke6067 3 роки тому +2

    He should have a discussion about his authority. A controller should have authority to "control".

    • @trinityolivas4380
      @trinityolivas4380 3 роки тому

      Controllers are senior auditors and accountants. They don’t say how the money is spent, they make sure there’s enough to go around and everything is good for audits

  • @ashleyloertscher6483
    @ashleyloertscher6483 3 роки тому +6

    Would I ever leave this company? Look, I'm all about loyalty. In fact, I feel like part of what I'm being paid for here is my loyalty. But if there were somewhere else that valued loyalty more highly, I'm going wherever they value loyalty the most.

    • @user-qq5xs8nl1j
      @user-qq5xs8nl1j 3 роки тому

      then you arent that loyal after all... grass isnt greener on the other side

    • @SicklyNickable
      @SicklyNickable Рік тому

      @@user-qq5xs8nl1j the joke
      Your head

  • @moodyzebra
    @moodyzebra 3 роки тому +3

    Dude has a job that won’t allow him to make decisions and then a wife trying to make his decisions for him, or else why wasn’t he on the cal too? I feel like he thinks he’s losing out on his independence and his relationship and job may both be projections of that feeling.

  • @mandysimmons2769
    @mandysimmons2769 3 роки тому +9

    If I made 170K? Did I hear that right? After taxes? I'd save 50k of it a year for sure. I could squeak by on 120K that's ten grand a month. That's my dream income by the way.

    • @Deltron6060
      @Deltron6060 3 роки тому

      In the immortal words of Biggie - "Mo money, mo problems"

    • @euenfheiejrj
      @euenfheiejrj 3 роки тому

      Why can’t you make that money? Where do you live?

    • @mandysimmons2769
      @mandysimmons2769 3 роки тому

      @@euenfheiejrj who were you addressing? me?

    • @euenfheiejrj
      @euenfheiejrj 3 роки тому

      @@mandysimmons2769 yes I’m assuming you live in a cheaper cost of living area if there aren’t jobs making that much money where you are. It’s all about location.

  • @vashtibascombe701
    @vashtibascombe701 3 роки тому

    Good Advice

  • @beaco2706
    @beaco2706 2 роки тому +2

    No thought experiment for you

  • @AStanton1966
    @AStanton1966 3 роки тому +7

    I heard a guy say, "If you're making a $1million a year and hate your job, you're underpaid.

  • @DavidBrewerESK84LIFE
    @DavidBrewerESK84LIFE 3 роки тому +16

    With that kinda money i could hire the real actor that plays "Jeffrey" from The Fresh Prince to be my butler

    • @edb484
      @edb484 3 роки тому

      Chill lol

    • @chief5981
      @chief5981 3 роки тому +1

      Not in 2021. You should apologize to the first African American you see for thinking this way

    • @willelfakir
      @willelfakir 3 роки тому

      @@chief5981 So to himself? Lol

    • @chief5981
      @chief5981 3 роки тому

      @@willelfakir yes! I should apologize to David for correcting him

    • @JoeGonzalez9351
      @JoeGonzalez9351 3 роки тому

      Thinking like a broke man.

  • @KevinSproul
    @KevinSproul 3 роки тому +9

    He is valuable BECAUSE they keep buying companies with bad books. He will be less valuable working for a company with it's books in order that isn't acquiring anything.
    I would only leave for a change of geography or a massive jump in pay (say $500K to be CFO of a bigger company).

  • @tyndni
    @tyndni 3 роки тому

    Guys previous accountant here. Take overs are horrible! He deserves it. Also not many people are skilled enough to handle take overs.

  • @lindakincaid4530
    @lindakincaid4530 3 роки тому +1

    In most cases, a bonus is given for a reward in work done except for a sign on bonus.

  • @garys.1415
    @garys.1415 3 роки тому +25

    Don’t miss the forest for the trees. He just needs to be creative with what he has.

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un 3 роки тому +1

    Early in the call she mentioned want to move to another state; is he wanting to leave because of the job itself or for relocation?

  • @HangNguyen-ih8rf
    @HangNguyen-ih8rf 3 роки тому +3

    The company probably sense this guy about to leave so they give him a 140k bonus as a quiet way to hold him back.

  • @ericl452
    @ericl452 3 роки тому +2

    After taxes, it's only about 80k. Not a lot of money in the big picture. Wouldn't be enough for me to leave unless I really wanted to.

  • @bigskyguy1611
    @bigskyguy1611 2 роки тому

    It is a fantastic question. Dave is right in that the bonus is for work and time performed. It should not be to buy loyalty. If the managers are upset that he is leaving soon after a bonus payment, then that issue resides in poor management behaviors and the guy should not feel burdened by that.

  • @MSH3423
    @MSH3423 3 роки тому

    He got the bonus for doing great job. For his past performance. He can leave if needed.
    He is highly valued at work. He got more leverage than others. Being Controller for Accounting is high pressure high responsibility job.

  • @lucuslopez6866
    @lucuslopez6866 3 роки тому +4

    Good pay and good boss. What more do you want?

  • @DeepVerma728
    @DeepVerma728 3 роки тому

    My grand father was an Accountant and drank a lot. The corruption he found with a lot of companies made him want to blow his brains out. Then you have to legally find a way to cover it up. That's what they pay you for.

  • @Oneofakind123
    @Oneofakind123 3 роки тому +2

    Interesting. Maybe ask Dave if employeers have or should have lojalty.

    • @victormarquez2976
      @victormarquez2976 3 роки тому

      𝙒•𝙃•𝘼•𝙏•𝙎•𝘼•𝙋•𝙋••𝙈•𝙀•• +•1•4•2•3•7•4•2•76•1•8 𝙁•𝙊•𝙍••𝙈•𝙊•𝙍•𝙀••𝙂•𝙐•𝙄•𝘿•𝙄•𝘼•𝙉•𝘾•𝙀

    • @evanserickson
      @evanserickson 3 роки тому

      Hahaha exactly

  • @FBA_AllTHEWAY
    @FBA_AllTHEWAY 3 роки тому +1

    I would rather hear her husband’s point of view. I guess he was at work.

  • @eddieblake097
    @eddieblake097 3 роки тому +2

    ayy giving a shout out to the web developers!

    • @eddieblake097
      @eddieblake097 3 роки тому

      @The Ramsey Show - Highlights get outta here

  • @willmichael4033
    @willmichael4033 3 роки тому +11

    Everyone is commenting wondering why someone would leave a job that pays $140k bonuses. I'll tell you why someone would do that: because they're worth it and someone else will pay more!

    • @Rob--
      @Rob-- 3 роки тому +2

      Especially a CPA with a masters or PhD.

  • @Barweezy
    @Barweezy 3 роки тому +4

    Haha in the industry I work in, people only quit immediately after bonuses are paid out. What is this loyalty you speak of?

    • @euenfheiejrj
      @euenfheiejrj 3 роки тому

      Same but also companies lay people off right before bonuses so there’s no loyalty from companies either.

  • @sitiwrattz
    @sitiwrattz 3 роки тому

    Take the money and run

  • @nikekid52
    @nikekid52 3 роки тому +2

    Sounds like some ozark business 😂

  • @goat2601
    @goat2601 3 роки тому +1

    Ask to work remote. The company likes him and would probably accommodate.

  • @joebolling
    @joebolling 3 роки тому +13

    140k bonus maybe. Could be severance pay ;)

    • @joebolling
      @joebolling 3 роки тому +2

      @@tomw485 🤦‍♂️

    • @joebolling
      @joebolling 3 роки тому +3

      @@tomw485 it wasn’t the husband that called in, it was his wife. We’re only hearing what she said he told her, which may not be the exact truth. Which sounds better... “honey, I just got a huge bonus, let’s move!” ... ? ... or, “honey I just lost my job, pension, and dignity. But I got enough severance pay that might allow us to start completely over from scratch” ...?

    • @craigcarter400
      @craigcarter400 3 роки тому +2

      I could definitely see it being that way. Saving face

  • @NaNa-lt1po
    @NaNa-lt1po 3 роки тому +2

    If there is more opportunity to get these kinds of bonuses, then why not..else if you want to leave just be honest about it

  • @PurpleRose8725
    @PurpleRose8725 3 роки тому

    Yesssss, "reset" the job!

  • @innocentrage1
    @innocentrage1 3 роки тому +3

    The heck is a controller? I wanna make 170k a year and get a 140k bonus

    • @rs232killer
      @rs232killer 3 роки тому

      Corporate Controller... Like the chief bookkeeper.

  • @abitamimbharmal1498
    @abitamimbharmal1498 3 роки тому +4

    If you want people to stay, you give them golden hand cuffs like faang companies. Stock options that vest after 2-3 years every single year, so if you ever quit, you lose like 100k

    • @willmichael4033
      @willmichael4033 3 роки тому +1

      Many software engineers at FAANGs can be walking away from over $500k if they leave due to stock vesting.

  • @kamboieyyy9998
    @kamboieyyy9998 3 роки тому +18

    Never be loyal to any company. Sorry Dave. But just not going to happen.

  • @NaNa-lt1po
    @NaNa-lt1po 3 роки тому +5

    Hey John, company didn't give him 140k.. he earned it. Dave doesn't give you his money, you earn it..

  • @lombardo141
    @lombardo141 3 роки тому +2

    Another classic case of “money can’t buy happiness”

  • @culpd
    @culpd 3 роки тому

    He needs to make the decision based on what works for him. Immediate is fine. Consider if he would have accepted another job offer. The new employer would expect him to start ASAP.

  • @davidsridharan202
    @davidsridharan202 3 роки тому

    Money isn't everything. You learn that very shortly after you get it.

  • @jiggyjoeandrufusthedoggy857
    @jiggyjoeandrufusthedoggy857 3 роки тому

    Don't quit. If they are giving him 140k bonus on 170k salary they will change procedures to make him happy enough to stay.

  • @shannonjohnson4314
    @shannonjohnson4314 3 роки тому +7

    Some people just don't know when they got it good and unfortunately their the ones that have it good.

    • @carloslanderos6569
      @carloslanderos6569 3 роки тому +1

      You can only miss out on so much life before you realize money isn’t everything

    • @Jakkaribik1
      @Jakkaribik1 6 місяців тому

      @@carloslanderos6569 Money will be on this world rather have a Few $100K Before not caring about Money Average People need $600K Per 10 Years so you should get around $300K at Minimum 20 Years Before you go into Pension or want to Leave the Work Force

  • @memeworld7800
    @memeworld7800 3 роки тому

    When someone at the company here's this it's going to be a problem...

  • @williams6334
    @williams6334 2 роки тому

    Sounds like he has a really good deal going tbh. I'd try what they suggested and try and negotiate since these people sound like they would be open to it.