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Trying to find a good Woman in today’s age is like saying I’m trying to find a real life dinosaur.
Lmao
@@dillpickle7376And finding a good woman who you also find physically attractive is even more difficult, but it’s very important for happiness so I know it’s frustrating because it is for me as well so we are all dealing with the same problem. Don’t give up because as hard as it is and as few good women their are I do believe finding one is possible. Keep your head up.
Alligators and crocodiles are dinosaurs so they do exist!
@@jwhite1559But Alligators and Crocs are dangerous if you invade there habitat soo?
@@A.S_Muncher the point is dinosaurs still exist and so do good modern women. They’re not easy to find but they exist
I work in a senior home, its hard seeing all the real women die, one was a teenager during ww2 and thinks modern people are so weak
My grandmother just passed she was 99, married 67 years to my grandfathershe was awesome. She would also tell you point blank abortion is murder.
god that hit deep
The reason society is the way it is is because the WW2 veteran fought with the Marxists side
Imagine be8ng miserable on death bed about peolle u prob can't even walk to see
Imagine reading the above comments and thinking either of the women mentioned were miserable or unable to walk.
Reading comprehension skills are going the way of the dodo.
People's egos are out of control now. They think they're special and deserve everything for nothing.
You right, homes. Sometimes I catch myself thinking that, but then I have to remind myself that I am ordinary. Lol
That describes modern women for sure takers
You know, I'm in Colombia, and over here girls are taught the same crap about independence, hoeing and all that bad stuff.
@hamzaa8357in Turkey it's maybe worst lol everyone talking about western women here it's the same if not the worst my 3 uncle is divorced and they were with 'traditional' women lol
@@salty3069if your uncle got divorced 3 times by foreign traditional women then it’s truly over for every man or at least most, marrying any woman today whether she’s western or not is like playing minesweeper.
He's being overly dramatic, my mom is turkish, not that traditional but gave birth to me and my 4 siblings while working most of her life, amazing Muslim women exist luckily, ofc for Muslims.
Independence now a bad thing? You heterosexual men are irredeemable and confused
I'm from Kazakhstan. Feminism over here is developing with the light speed
It’s hard enough finding a good woman but it’s even harder to find a good woman who you also find very physically attractive is even harder. But I do believe having high standards is better in the end.
Harder even to keep them around long term once you do find one.
@@Eye_of_Horus Not if they’re loyal but finding one of those is even harder.
@@hot_guy997 I’d say so difficult that it isn’t worth thinking about. I’ve never known any.
@@Eye_of_Horus If you make enough money it won’t be hard. By enough I mean at least 6 figures.
You just have to have standards it is possible though. Just let each girl you date know that she can’t just use you for things like your money and if things get to hard you’ll just leave her until you find someone who will stay with you maybe not no matter what but unless something really unfortunate happens like you become homeless or something really bad. Just make sure to pay for every date and get her a Birthday Present and Valentines gift every year and anniversary gifts every year to. If you don’t make at least 6 figures then it’s a must to find a girl who won’t use you for your money.
I’ve seen a drastic difference in the past 10 years within the dating world…it’s not just our culture and society it’s also the dating apps and social media
2009 was the end.
100% man, I was just telling this to a friend of mine, it felt like dating was a lot easier back then.
I already accepted the reality years ago that I'll stay single for life. Since the moment i accepted and stopped chasing women, i never felt lonely again. The key is just to accept it, be honest to yourself and do the best of your life as a single guy. Life is much more than just chasing whores. You have to kill that hope in you, that you'll find the right woman, marry, make babies. No, it'll never happen. That hope is what makes you miserable as single guy. Modern women aren't worth to marry, you risk everything by marrying a whore(99%are whores in the west).
The J3oooszz plans of Hu-WH!T3 G3N0S!D3 is coming along AS PLANNED. No one sees the obvious.
thats 100% facts brother. most of our misery is just unfulfilled desires, so why should we desire something well never have? God bless
Facts bro, I've found my peace now. And funnily enough as they say, it attracts them, I can see them look at me differently now in public. But my mind is set now, i'm firm in my decision to not want or need them. Hookers are legal here so seeing one of them when you feel like it is a good enough alternative.
Same boat for me. Last relationship feels like the last love of my life. Been awhile since it ended and I’ve dated but I just really don’t care anymore. I like being alone more now. I have too many cool hobbies and spending time with a woman just seems like a waste of time to me now.
Its happen also here in Philippines
I was married to a ‘good woman’. Turned out she was the biggest con-merchant ever. Lost everything. Now rebuilding.
never been married. 30. I hear that I'm not missing much.
don't get married
it was once said that, "Young women receive this incredible gift that they have no idea what to do with, and by the time they finally figure it out, it's gone. "
Quitting drinking. Working out. Focusing on my finances and plans for what's next for me in life. Can't imagine allowing a woman who isn't my daughter into my life these days. Just not for me. I have no labels. I just do my own thang. Good luck boys. We'll be fine. The fems, well, we'll see how they fare.
Lost one of my best friends due to alcohol 4 years ago, 44 years old.
@@bregjejabra25 I'm so sorry to hear that. Alcoholism is a fucked up thing. I quit 6 months ago. Best decision I've ever made in my life by far. Stay strong out there King.
@@MattyLiam333 It`s done purposefully, just as unnatural Fructose sugars (in the West), making people bigger and causing fatty liver diseases. It`s easy available on every street corner, always for sale, and always cheap if you look for it. Has destroyed millions of friendships, families, (car) accidents and God knows what else.....Stay strong please.
Thier attitudes will change when they're about 60. When Thier body hurts from the daily grind. Going home to an empty house. When the reality of dying alone sits in, then they'll change. It's a phase. Don't chase em. Let them come to you. And just date. From one man to another, it's a good time to be single and benefit from Thier "attitude". TRUST ME!
@@movwardYou reap what you sow
Having a lot of guy friends is another red flag to look out for IMO.
Honestly at this point id argue having a lot of female friends is also a red flag because they will negatively influence whoever you are dating lol. If her friends are high quality women its a definite green flag though that just doesnt happen anymore
@@-lord1754move to a Muslim country if you want to date quality women. Otherwise good luck
@@-lord1754 It certainly can be, especially if they are low value females.
@@MomoAfterDarkY’all are jokers. Low quality men seeking what they can’t give…😂😂
Finding a 27 yr old woman without kids or a bodycount
For real. I became single at 26. 35 now. Everyone's been single moms and hoes since then 😅
@@aaronhuffman6417 gotta love being independent! 👍🏼
It should honestly be a body count less than 2 ideally, 1 should have been a committed relationship that just didn't work out, totally forgivable.
Are you without kids with body count less than 5? Do you have the qualities you desire? Good riddance!
If they're 27 it's almost guaranteed they were h03ing around. 22 is my MAX, and even that's pushing it. I went monk at 23...30 now. I'd rather die with my self-respect than to bail out some worthless hor.
Trying to find a good woman is very difficult even over seas. They do exist but that's like 1% of them.
I live in the Phillipines and notice many of the younger women here have completely become indoctrinated by a "Western/modern women" mentality and actually idealize it as being the ultimate goal. The addiction to social media is unreal, a whole generation of narcissits are in the making. Most of the teenagers and young adult women have multiple Instagram, TikTok, FB accounts which they use religiously, its very pathetic.
Goes the other way it comes through discipline and self awareness both woman and men a struggle the evil inside
Good women can be found in every corner of the world. Unfortunately the world is round.
Except that the world actually isn't round. It's flat.
@prussiansoci 4:41 etyofamerica haha 😄
100% flat, but diff story though
LFA been killing it lately 🔥🔥🔥
THIS is what young men need to hear.
That was refreshing. Keep your eye open for the needle in a hay stack while staying on the grindstone building yourself up. Better than settling in my book
Modern women have lost all credibility with men.
I needed to hear this today. The last few years, I've been moving too fast with the women I've dated (mainly by rushing into the physical part of the relationship) and while I've stayed unscathed, I could have easily gotten burned by a few of them. I'm 35 and never had a long-term relationship, but I know in my heart that I want to settle down with a good woman and have a family. In order for that to happen, I need to be open to taking it slow in dating. There are good women out there, but you have to make sure to do the vetting that LFA is talking about. Thanks for sharing, man!
Do yourself a favor and give up hope. Unless you're willing to move to a remote village with limited technology, you wont find a good girl. It's over.
Something spiritual must have happened to you this year. I’ve noticed quite a change. Good to see it.
Improvise Adapt Overcome 👊🏼 stay strong brothers!!
Good to see someone with the right perspective and advice! Thanks
Europe..sweden..gone over board totally!
LFA for President 🇺🇸
2028!
Biden 😂. Clown 🤡 to nursing home 🏡
Found your channel a few days ago and I've been loving everything you put out, so I just wanted to say thank you for that. You're really helping me out a lot.
LFA thanks for making this video. We're about the same age and it sounds like we've gone through a similar evolution. Have a great day man.
Yup and no need to get angry with them either. The lifestyles they're living arent sustainable long term. Racking up a high notch count, clubbing, screwing good men over, and burning bridges will only lead to misery in the long run for most of these women. The only thing theyre doing is accumulating bad Karma.
Realest shit LFA probably dropped 💯💯💯
Thank you for this video. Sincere appreciation for your content.
Thanks for this. It’s a relief to hear something different.
Well articulated, man. 👏
Thanks LFA for exposing the truth
RESPECT, man !!
Thanks brother this stuff needs to be more mainstream out there for real.. thanks for this content man..
Great video. Need more messages like this.
bro I subbed to your channel when I was 19, im now 25. lowkey helped me a lot🤝🏼
Mad respect to you for realizing your mistakes. It takes a lot to admit that. What I will say as a Muslim American woman is, I used to think females here were crazy, until I started noticing feminism has rubbed off on males & they don't even realize it. I mean women still pursue having a family & children as imperfect as that might be. The solution most manosphere guys will give you is "adaption". They don't understand that in a healthy society, the men uphold the moral standard, not preference. Do not push a moral standard that you do not live by. At that point, it's merely a preference and you're not owed anything.
What they're also not noticing is, when they bring females with bad energy into their space, it effects them mentally, emotionally, environmentally, financially, etc. There is a deep seated self-rejection masquerading as arrogance among men who been with women who are like that. I can always tell. As much as manosphere pages wanna make it seem like the solution is more optionality, there is a threshold of rejection that a person can experience before it ruins them. Thats what leads to these males having disdain for their manhood & resorting to self-castration. This is what happens when your manhood is purely about getting women. Marriage has always been in place to protect men....from themselves. Let that sink in. It wasn't there just to protect women. Some males just like some females are self-sabotaging. Don't let them drag you down with them.
Anyhow, you're the only man I seen who has practical solutions.
No
men don't control access to sex, women do. Which means men holding a moral standard when it comes to hooking up won't change anything because most men can't even get laid. This is on women, they are the ones that started sleeping around.
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Is that a maplestory profile pic!? :D
@@LordHerek Exactly. Isn't it twisted what types of absurdities they will come up with all to yet again deflect responsibility and blame towards Men!? That whole story above is total bollocks.
Great message LFA you do a great service to the manosphere I think people's behavior have turned a corner and it will never go back to a respectable level it's just to far gone Im ready for the asteroid to hit.
This message is spot on, thanks.
Love the channel brother 💪🏼
Straight truth!!!
Thank you for the video. Vey valuable. On the first date you have to establish boundaries. Respect, loyalty, value.
Absolute truth brother.
Knowledgeable video
This is my favorite video of yours LFA!
Love this video
In some communities, men are also encouraged to hook up with a lot of women, and create the women they don't want to be with. I think both men and women need some accountability here. These women choose to act the way they do, and so do men. It's possible to bounce back, and grow as humans. But it begins with ourselves. If we're not accepting where we went wrong, and come together as a team trying to fix this. Then sadly a lot of hope for the future is lost.
Yes you are right. Unless both men and woman communities won't realize they are simply tricked by corporations that produce misery and propaganda and if they understand that what they do (vaping, drinking alcohol, taking all sorts of drugs, whoring, divorcing etc) is bad essentially for them and them only and they worsen their lives and lives of those who they are beside them then their mentality will start to change. Empathy towards others, self awareness, thoughtfulness in their actions, kindness towards those who they love and prayers for God Father and Jesus and Maria the mother will make them better people. Today in modern world faith in real God in christianity is basically non-existent. More popular is allah that is basically a devil that questions Jesus Christ without reason and purpose for betterment of people. Also Jews treat him like a trash and they are corrupted themselves. That's why for nearly 2 thousand years Israel was also non-existent on a map. Nowadays Jews and Muslims work together to dominate the world by finances, military, law and civil propaganda and we are in a stage that they can do anything (especially bad things) without consequences while people of a good heart are enslaved and isolated. That's why I think this world is near to awake the apocalypse that is forseen to all kinds of people and War, Death, Famine and Plague will strike the most powerful damage the humankind had ever experienced. Read the apocalypse of the Saint John in the Holy Bible and you will understand everything. Hope you will have good time in a future. Until we meet again.
How’s will always be hoes. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. A man will have sex if he’s offered it most the time.
Quality content bro i appreciate that
Great thoughts and insights bro; well done.
Things will change, but it will take a while, and women will have to want to change individually, which will be difficult at first since one huge issue is the group think where they encourage each other to continue the status quo, do whatever they want, take no responsibility while being encouraged, rewarded and celebrated for being their worst selves by each other, all media, and society at large.
A vast majority of women will never take responsibility for themselves as long as they see others are not. One big collective. It will be interesting to see how things shake out.
EDIT: "In the United States, sex means nothing". This is pretty accurate
Yo dude i just found you but man your as real as it gets fam 💯
after you marry them they lose interest in sex and become boring as hell
Lol sadly I’ve seen this happen to a lot of my friends.
Great video
I really like these videos
I've been in the dating game for about 20 years now. Things have gone from bad to worse. Smoking, drinking, drugs & clubbing have always been a turn off for me. But the disrespect for men and female empowerement, the language they use and the behavior they exhibit is extremely annoying and depressing. I feel like the idea of the "pure, good & modest girl" is just a fantasy and you have a better chance of scoring a supermodel while being an average joe than finding one. Blaming men for the promiscuity of modern women sounds dumb to me. Every guy that has the option to sleep with lots of women will take it, let's not bs ourselves. But only a select few get that opportunity and the rest are left with scraps & leftovers. Just how the world works. So not only are most men unable to find the fantasy they're being sold - but they even can't get laid in the proccess. Unfortunately society willl always be geared towards women and never towards helping men solving their issues.
finally someone in "manosphere" who also talks about accountability for men. moral standards of both genders need to rise if we want to build a better future.
You deserve a sub, you taught me how I can act for the future.
Yes men can and should lead by example. Specially, for the women who are lost who did not have good father figures or broken homes, etc. men can change this pattern.
A lot of wisdom there.
We seek the truth, and endure the consequences
It really sucks LFA. As a young guy i wish it wasnt like this. One of my close buddies found a nice feminine woman and they get along well so im proud of them but i wish i could find soneone like that. Have a good week brother
Going through a break up and this made me feel much better today.
Some of the best advice I've heard, lately. Over the past few years I have been focusing less on chasing the pleasure and I feel like I finally have clarity of thought, when it comes to dating. It's tough out there, but good women do exist. It's frustrating, but it is still worth the time to try to meet a good woman.
It's true that's why I'm desensitized even when it comes to new women I meet even though I see how kind they may be in the beginning I understand things could change the next day or she can change feedings wise and it won't surprise me. Do I feel sorry for them? No because we all have basic understanding of whats right or wrong and the same sympathy it doesnt warranted towards men but it is what it is. But the key thing is understanding
but the only thing he said was men good.. women bad..😅
@kangjhha lmao what? Did you even watch the video?He literally said in this video that most modern men aren't good people either. lol damn y’all hear what you want to hear 😂
@@beardifull462 😆I heard exactly what he said.. don't be naive😅
@@kangjhha lol you do know the whole basis of his channel is to help men right? If men were so good he wouldn't have this men's channel advising men on how to get better not only in general but to improve their dating lives with women . If he had such a distain for women why would he have live call in shows giving men dating advice heck none profitable advice at that to lol make it make sense . When I see the majority of his videos they definitely don't have that MGTOW effect. I guess this is a classic example of two people looking at the same thing and seeing something different . Meh
Indeed, they are.
Facts I remember having a simple food conservation with a nurse not hitting on her nothing like that and she was just very stuck-up and condescending
Real talk
Choose women with the right head, fellas. I see a woman who doesn't put out easily as a potential green flag.
Green flag for sure
"Choose"??
Only about 3% of men have a choice of women.
It is not only west countries. Because of social media many countries are same.
8:44 But this is a difficult topic. Let's face it. They would say "and what if we never get married, what are we going to do for a living?".
Very good advice LFA. After years of being used by Women for sex on the dating apps, I realize what they have been doing to me
Don't think anybody was using you for sex buddy
👍👍👍LFA
Since I got divorced I have found that it is a hell of a lot easier to get laid than it is to get a girl to actually date you. Hell some of these girls it's easier to get them into bed than it is to get them to return your text messages.
With words of wisdom like this, you must be spending time in The Word Of God. Peace!
This sure is a Godly advice.
Was just thinking about this the other day they almost remind me of my scumbag friends back in 2012
You are not wrong. “If you want something different, you gotta make different choices from the others”….. “stop worrying about sex” love this phrase.
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Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.
1 Peter 1:16
Been single for 31 years and loving it!
hey LFA! thanks for going against the tide and preaching the truth. I have come to some similar conclusions couple of years ago, but I have more luck than you cause I'm living in Poland in Europe, which was not that modern way back, however, american "values" are spreading everywhere in the Western countries though pop-culture and the whorization is progressing at super-speed. I just wanted to answer some of the most difficult questions: there is a solution for this. A counter-revolution is happening at the same time and it's called Traditional Catholicism. When I listen to your advice, it is literally the same thing the catholic moral teachings were saying for ages. More over, there is no other way if one struggles to improve himself (to become perfect). God has given the best advice possible ever, the only thing the West needs now is to translate it into modern culture and lifestyle. If you want to find a good wife, you cannot find her anywhere outside of the traditional catholic community. But be aware - this also means that men need start working themselves, their character, eliminating vice, super-hard these days! And I'm telling you as a former hook-up culture contributor, unaware of course! The West is headed for self-destruction, so it's good to jump out of the Titanic while it's not sunk yet. I'll be praying for you!
Poland is the same now it’s worldwide.
I used to try pickup artist advice or whatever but the only thing that actually worked for me was putting on a bit of muscle getting a 6 pack and saying whatever the fuck i wanted, when i wanted to girls.
Real men serve God, real woman serve real men. We're all slaves to the TRUTH. God is the truth... but the truth hurts. FAKE people cannot handle the TRUTH. They need self-deception and chaos to keep their highs going.
Great stuff as usual LFA!👏👏💪💪🤜🤛
Great.
This can serve as a reply to a comment that says "marriage is there so that women protect man from themselves".
If they give it to me, within 2/3 days get it get on girl!
And they sure do learn quick...
" pearl necklace " by ZZ Top
9:57 I agree, since I am a christian.
Yes agreed
Listen to Derek Prince, for example video on Witchcraft. He speaks a lot
about this issue and a lot on the state of USA and that was like 30, 40 years ago. It will blow your mind.
Indeed
you got some Instagram models looking for a relationship and i wondered she has been doing with other guys leading up to wanting a relationship
Lets take a look at the endgame. Marriage and children. The divorce rate is 40-50% for first marriages almost at 70 for second marriages. Why would you want a relationship that is highky likely to end in FINANCIAL & EMOTIONAL DISASTER?
Of all the "manosphere" content out there, I like yours best: It's the most well-balanced and realistic.
I think your advice to not put the pussy on the pedestal is spot-on. So many guys are desperate just to get a whiff of it that they will do anything just to get in the same county as some 'tang.
My own situation is this: I'm fat. But I'm not ugly, and I'm smart. I'm spending the next year increasing the ol' sexual market value by losing weight and getting stronger.
I know I'll never get the upper quartile of pussy but hey--even a pretty sock can still be stiff with man juice, so I'm not sure that's what I even want.
And I'll tell ya, what you've said all along has made sense: Put in the work on yourself. Don't be a creep. Respect women.
So even though I'm a blob now, in a year I'll be in a much better position to decide who I choose to give myself to.
And that's called hope, brother.
Thank you for that--I'll always be grateful!
They are only taught that way by single mothers and colleges
Dig your content brother. One question, you mind sharing what gear you use? specifically, how do you record your audio? Im looking to start posting vlogs similar to this and the internal mic on my Canon SL2 is garbage. I want sound quality comparable to yours. Thanks!
This video was canon m50 with sigma 16mm f/1.4 to get depth of field and a diffuser to add more .. with a rode videomic pro+ very little post production editing.
@@LFA Thank you sir!
I gotta be more like this guy
you're like a father figure , like a youtube father figure , or the bigger brother I never had... really nice to have people like you nowadays that speak the truth, it's so refreshing to listen to this ( especially when I see things the same like you ) . I see so much bullshit in US everywhere constantly pumped brain washing women. In this western culture everything is so much different than the European eastern one... I appreciate you ! Have you been to Europe ? I am curious , you've probably been. I miss the women there. Here in US you can't talk with one without hearing some feminism crap.
any thoughts on whether this is All of a part of the "Ghettofication process"
men are turned by music/culture into drug-dealers small-time gangsters, criminals
women are turned into street walkers, drug-addicts etc...
I'm a bad chik
It would be helpful if coomers/simps stopped supporting them on the internet and fuckbuddies stopped existing. It causes an endless cycle of women being dumped and having emotional baggage that they do not resolve rationally but instead with more hookup/ONS trash
I attract beyond plenty but I'm also not trusting who I give my time to. So, tbh, I don't do anything out of safety. I'd be more comfortable if they sent me in their application to see if they fit the criteria but obviously I'm joking but dreaming at the same time.
Consistency
Who sings that version of Get Low at the end of the video?