Why would I spend time with someone who constantly tries to make me feel uncomfortable, hurt or disrespected? I want the opposite of that. I don't need someone constantly attacking me and trying to destroy/manipulate me. That's sick. I don't need an enemy by my side.
Unfortunately like he said it's likely in their nature. I've seen married women behaving like that with their husbands even after years together, they get some sort of thrill from making their husbands bend to their every whim.
@@dstmessenger5803 Not fairytales. Standards. I have standards and expectations. If someone is below what I am willing to accept then they can go 'entertain' someone else. At this point all I want from them is just fun and once I get it I'm not putting up with their bs anymore. What's the point of a relationship for a man? Genuinely asking. I'm not into toxic and abusive partners so it has to be something else.
@@blacklightgamer97I was having a great time playing with my 2 young boys when the soon to be ex wife jumped in and cried "STOP, you have all had enough fun!". It was eating her up seeing us have fun while she wasn't running the show.
@@John_Wood_ I suspected my mother had a strong superiority complex and used me to reinforce it, she we’d always have something to respond to me and “show me wrong” to anything I suggested, said or affirmed because she “had more experience” The only time I could finally push back was thanks to my dad, we were putting decorations on the corners of the ceiling of a new room we had built and we were figuring out how the pieces were supposed to go. I figured it out before her and she was in absolute DENIAL that that’s how the pieces went until my dad affirmed her and showed her that that’s undeniably how the pieces were supposed to go, she stormed out of the room and victimized herself after that. Everyone that meets me tells me I’m ingrateful and should love having a mother like her because she gave me everything materially speaking, but how can I value that when she torn my self worth and with that my soul at every opportunity she got because of her selfish self affirmation.
I've been binge watching your videos and making notes for 2 weeks now You're literally changing and saving my life after gf broke up with me after I've been treating her like princess, was caring and loving. She reversed the whole relationship within hours. Thank You for the knowledge and day to day therapy
That's pointless and your are doing a routine no difference just because you take notes and put in so much effort for a woman seriously so you have any value
@@hellvon9573 don't let anything throw you off, make you lose confidence, they can sense it (anybody can really, predators and criminals also target victims based on this) but with women, you have to adopt an attitude of remaning cool/not caring about anything especially when she tests you And she *will* test you.
That's actually a classic human nature. Humans don't like to be antagonised but likes antagonising others. They don't truly care about others. Perhaps they're just big talkers
10:20... Pure narcissism!! Runnnnn! Most girls that come from a loving home will not participate in most of these. Sure, she might test, but not patently! In other words, 'act' as if you have options! Which, for a lot of guys, is hard to do. But if her tests are potent, RUN! Do not put up with her mind games, because if you TRAUMA BOND with her, you will not be able to even 'walk'!!
Then you'll run from 95% of all dates. 50% of all dating materials were raised with single moms, the rest was raised by bitch moms and beta dads. 100% were brainwashed trough their entire life with the current bluepill narrative.
I'm a real demon. I let her do whatever she wanted to trauma bond herself with me and guess what? I walked away without a flinch never looked back on purpose now her ego and confidence is on the ground.
I think sh*t tests are a myth. If she's being rude why bother with her? If a woman is interested in a guy she's going to act as nice as humanly possible so she doesn't turn him off.
I'm 65 and I've seen so many women ruin their own (perfectly good) lives. And of course, in the process, the lives of the men and children around them.
Bro, more guys need to walk away when they are tested. Stop trying to “respond better,” and simply getting better at walking out of dates and breaking up with women. Break their hearts, their egos, and their souls. They love it, and they’ll love you for it. If they don’t, bye bye. SIMPLY BE DONE. You weren’t that guy for her, anyway.
I wish this was true, but unfortunately it isn't. This is hardwiring. Subconscious responses they give you to see how you handle it is done on purpose to give strength indicators.
@@CaseyZanderListen Bro.. He’ll learn it one way or the other!!! I’m 57 and I’ve been with over 300, well that was when I stopped counting. My wife who I been with almost 30 years still does these tests! It NEVER stops! 🤷
@@peaceonearth8693 being the one for her is different from me looking for the one. Of course I want her to feel like I’m the one for her. That’s called attachment bro. I want her to get attached to me…think about it
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
10:43 this where i win all the time with women. Why? Being silent is first nature for me, I grew up as an only child, so being by myself in complete quiet IS MY NATURE. But more so, I do not get anxious in presence of a girl, so I remain stoic as if I am by myself anyway. I engage very well with them, but when it comes to silence, it is always them who end up breaking it. A lot of men FAIL this one because they feel they need to be constantly engaging with her, a woman's feelings doesn't need interaction, all it needs is your MASCULINE STERM PRESENCE.
Great, insightful video. However, the painful experience of my mom dying from cancer instilled a deep inner strength in me. The biggest lesson I learned from that ordeal was that life is entirely too short. The moment I detect these stupid tests from women I simply walk away from that situation. I neither have the time nor energy to waste on this. It's simple - get w/ my program or your out. Sometimes they do other times they find me way too strong & leave.
Apart from my different experience after my mother died, what you say are words from my mouth. It's laughable that women initially think that I'm weak and have no power or status in society - that's evident in how they come on to me. When they speak to me, they quickly discover my status and just how far out of my league - below me - they really are. I've found time and time again that I intimidate them because of how I have to behave and operate in my every day life and the high expectations I have to have from people at my level. Yes, I'm entitled to professional, competent behaviour from adults because that's what my status and what I'm expected to deliver demands, from the expectations from the people above me in society.
Just because clothes or cars or stocks are marked down, don't assume they are bad. Make your own mind up - 'Whether we're talking about stocks or socks, I like buying quality merchandise when it is marked down.' - W Buffett
2:10 there is this one particular girl who was doing it a lot with me. yes, she been attracted, but she WAS NOT CERTAIN how strong i was because of all the mystery around me, i dont talk, there is nothing she can hear from anyone. So she kept doing little test to test my strength if i would fire at her for being annoying towards me. i never flared, but i dismissed her, and every time she tried to come back close to me, she had to wait and prove herself WORTHY to be around me. This is where she discovered MY STRENGTH and the tests have completely stopped.
Absolute truth. I dismissed her and almost discarded her because she was rude. Then she was never rude again. Most of these betas are so afraid of losing their woman it's honestly embarrassing.
@@HardeepSIngh-bu2zn Casey doesn’t know anything about attraction, I’ve been doing this for 10 years. If a girl likes you, she will never treat you lower status than her and she will cater her personality to be pleasant. They may run tests here and there but nothing offense or too out of pocket that could risk ruining your opinion of her. Women highly care about what you think if they like you.
This!!!! 100% I’m usually with Casey. But men we have to stop normalizing women emotionally and psychologically abusing us and calling it female nature. There are evil people in every gender. The book the manipulated man written by a woman gives you all the game Casey could ever give you, from a woman herself.
I am intrigued by the body language here. Non-Italian talking with hands. Doing a big "X" for "loads" of tips. The thespian level breathing. The wife-beater/math professor vibes.
Explain how it’s double homicide (killing another human ) if a pregnant woman is killed…but people refuse to just admit that abortion is in fact killing a human - not “just a fetus”…?
its just b.s excuse so they can f left and right all the tyrones and use your tax money for free abortions pal. haven't you realised it by this point? :D it's a hoax, a scam. they want free $$ to do w.e their pompus brain rot desires.
@@rejectwokeness1314This is true, IF you bring her into a western legal environment. If you keep her in her village, where her own family and community will shame her if she tries this shit, then it can work. If you have the right and the power, to knock her upside the head and everyone around her will be on your side, then you can keep her in line. Women are like CHILDREN. Well disciplined children are awesome. Empowered and spoiled children are terrors. Do NOT bring her to the States and give her the power of the US government at her back. Women are like children who constantly test authority. The problem we are having is exactly the same problem we would have if we gave all children guns and law enforcement officers that cover for them and pander to their worst instincts. Women ARE like this, and that is WHY men need to seize the authority and take away their rights. That is where they are most happy. Keep her in her village and everything will be fine.
I'm screwed. I absolutely hate being tested without my knowledge. I could never trust someone who masks their intentions. She's already proving she can keep secrets from you.
It’s logical for women to test men. Wether they do it consciously or unconsciously doesn’t matter. If you are afraid of failing then it means you are not ready because these tests are generally good at telling if you are aligned with your masculinity or a wimp
According to Sadia Khan apparently these tests are not intentional but are done subconsciously…in other words women are not aware that they’re doing them and they are a mechanism of picking the proper mating partner since centuries ago a woman had to be sure about their mate since pregnancies were not safe
Men subconsciously lust after women but can repress those feelings to not knock one out….i refuse to believe women just do these “tests” subconsciously
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I agree with this and the tests are constant and never ending, especially in marriage. It's worth it if you want to have a family. Now 70, divorced, and enjoying my peace.
This is a good reminder video that the hotter / sexier women are going to throw more shade and more tests at you than your run of the mill average/below average looking girl. Sometimes I get spoiled by how well the lesser attractive women treat me, and then when i get around super baddies and they dont act right i dismiss them too fast, always forgetting that they are likely playing their stupid version of game (i.e. testing me in their way) and that there are extra tests to pass when it comes to unlocking the really hot ones. Once unlocked though I am going to expect a certain level of treatment that they need to fall into or else I'm gone. Must add value to my life
I strongly disagree. From my experience, hottier girls are easier to date than less attractive. I observed this phenomenon a lot and have a solid explanation of it. Moreover, the gap is widening with time: average looking (and even older) subjects are progressively getting harder to date today than several years ago, while young and sexy material retains the same difficulty.
@@renegadezen7841The observations I shared have been conducted through several big EU/UK cities over a long (over 7 years) period of time. My current residence (relatively small EU city, famous skiing resort) is not relevant to the topic. I'm 40+.
Dont forget that there's always a change that she is narcistic or with borderline. Vetting snd willing to walk away is key. Dont play stupid games cause you will win stupid prizes. Have morals and be willen to walk away when there is disrespect.
Man I am 52 years old and taking advice from a younger man. Where were you when I was in college? Where were you when I made the stupid mistake of getting married. Thank you for the education!
have money is not simple in a system that is rigged from the day you were born pal. this world is who is more cunning and most evil, wins all the p*$$y and world we live in hell if you haven't realised, that's how God punished us for allowing Eva to eat the damn fruit. had we just been eating the fruit of life we would be fkin and living in peace for who knows how long for ever.
I was seeing some girl. She said she loved me and all that rubbish. A couple of months in she brings up an orgy conversation saying she wants to or at least curious about an orgy. I obviously shut it down and left her calling her a slut. I felt annoyed and kind of shocked as she came across quite sweet. Anyway a couple of weeks later she hits me up saying it was just a sexy topic and a bit of mind fun and that she wasn't serious about it. I explained it crossed my boundaries and had moved on. But what a weird test. At first I thought she did it on purpose to test me but after she explained i generally think she did it subconsciously. But yeah women do all sorts of things to test men. Unless it's early on and they are really into you and then they are good as gold. Funny that
She might have already had threesomes and was testing the waters to see if you were ok with it. They are very deceptive. You avoided a train wreck with hideous baggage
Two really good points you made here. The first being that the ‘tests’ that women give don’t typically fall into the general elementary category such as challenging authority or silent treatment. From what I’ve ive experienced, it’s situational for sure , but both the more she likes you and the more you are indifferent to her, the more unhinged and complex the tests become. Especially if you’ve proven yourself to be valuable and her dispensable to you. And like you stated there are definitely times where you can play the long game and win a prize by biting the mental bullet, but in many cases like that one, if the mental ethics are that questionable in the situation then it’s better worth cutting her off. Because as we all know, tests only get harder
And to mention the second point which is the last sentence you stated that early on the tests are never present which definitely is funny. Its almost like they’re strategically getting into your blind spot and suddenly planting a bomb to see how well you can diffuse it under pressure
No. She was serious. Believe me. I know several of them. Usually the dude initiates the implanted orgy statement. If the female does it, RUN, if you're looking for a relationship with said female. Don't wife her. She more than likely did it a few times already. Don't doubt anyone or anything!
Brother Casey...... You are indeed a scientist....... Yo wanted to add..... Even if you are awkward..... Be comfortable being awkward and she will still like you......
I have got all the test approved and one final test of giving me silence treatment is in the process. Eventhough I'm doing everything as Casey told(even without watching it earlier coz I got to know this channel today itself), I just want to confirm that what he is telling is one hundred percent correct.
6:48 a girl that had been sending me DMs for awhile now, she went the route recently of saying "you are so weird & nerdy". I laughed to myself and say oh look at you, how cute. I didn't get upset nor flare up and deny being weird and nerdy, I simply said, "and I see that you like weird & nerdy, it's your type". She did her typical "lol" which for her is signaling she LIKES.
Her: "I'm different from other girls..." Me (smiling like a crocodile): "Really? Then tell me just 3 things that makes you special....." And here the fun begins...
True. They always seem to hit you with a huge test out of nowhere, when you least expect it. The only remedy for this is to date lots of women. Have multiple options so you’re unfazed when one of them starts acting up.
The most advanced test a woman has ever given me is that she threatened to call the police for asking her to have sex. THAT’S an advanced test. She’s wanting to see if you fear the police because if you do, she’s bowing out.
I don’t know I’ve struggled with this a lot of women will say the most crazy ridiculous things to see you react, or they will even get physical. A lot of times they will wait until you’re in a relationship with them. It almost sounds easier on paper to just say don’t react.
She wants to see a superman in a man, but she isn't willing to change her silly way of living, What a joke it is really. Would someone tell these women and bring them out of their fantasy?
3:00 Guys, what Casey is describing is that a narcissist is looking to see how likely it is that you'll be her co-dependent. She doesn't want the guy who tells her that "chocolate ice cream is still better." That's an instant disqualification. She wants the docile, mouldable guy who tells her that vanilla is good too and you'll get a 2nd date. If she knows that you're strong in who you are, that means you get rejected. If she sees you have boundaries and you don't white knight, you get rejected.
Every woman worth having is like this. Women are narcissists. You just have to accept this. Only other option is to be celibate. Sure, you may not get the 2nd date. She may blow you off (at first). But if you hold your frame, she’ll be thinking about you while she’s on her date with the supplicant, lol.
There’s those “fake” submissive narcs too. They’ll play along and when they know when you’re on their web they start their manipulation. They are very sneaky with it too. Gotta be careful out here.
3:40 I will agree that you willing to stand up to her tests indicates your position on the SMV in terms of the women you're used to talking to, but as I fail (in their eyes) these tests but pass (in my and Casey's eyes), it means in practical terms that such men don't date. The only men these women are willing to date are those who pass the woman's tests by failing them in Casey's estimation.
if you ever have kids and a family that approach has to become much more nuanced obviously but yeah for early relationships it's fine I guess. even still it's a bit too blunt of a tool depending on the circumstances
@@cairopls brotha I guarantee you're not in a long term marriage or very long term relationship. hell Casey has never gone that far either. You are going to go through tribulation no matter how thoroughly you've screened a woman. it's going to come regardless of how red pilled you are or how many casey videos you watch. Casey covers a lot of material in his videos, and even gets some long term stuff right too. but he simply hasn't ever lived out the long term stuff. no decade plus. no kids. no marriage. there's a lot of nuance. Honestly I'm impressed with how much Casey gets right despite the lack of experience, but it's not all black and white.
I like how certain men in the comments are challenging Casey saying he's incorrect. But these same men know he IS correct which is why their dating life sucks but they won't hold themselves accountable. Then they comment by thinking their way is actually correct.
Much of this is true and it makes me smile when girls do it. “I’m not like most girls” or “I can count my body count on one hand”. It’s an indication of high interest and a challenge, should you choose to accept it.
If you’re new to Casey’s channel… stay tuned!!! This dudes info is fucking game changing. Why!?? Not because it’s new or grandiose.. ITS THE WAY HE BREAK THIS SHIT DOWN! We’ve all experienced this at one point or another. That’s how we found the channel 😂 because we needed to CHANGE. We can’t expect the woman to do it… they won’t. We must change fellas. Enjoy the journey 💪🏽 #HEADMAN
My Mom made me think I was sick my whole life and ruined relationships with family and anyone who I gave my attention to or cared about. It’s called Munchausins Byproxy, it’s what Eminem’s Mom had.
Post divorce met Julie. We've been together 41 yrs. All these tests and shit I just chalk up and tell her I consider all that as, part of, "her job". We joke around about it and when I give it back and she complains about 'men', I explain, "that's my job." Oh, and it never ends so guys, play the game.
The whole "weakness" thing is purely perception based, as the woman is extrinsically driven from the outset, then if she allows herself, she'll discover the world of "intrinsic" qualities of a man, and appreciate those. If she stays on the extrinsics, there will always be "something potentially better", and you're together by default only.
Stand tall gentleman, don't react don't flinch chin up chest out and smirk.( If you know yourself there's no need to fear the outcome of 1000 battles) - sun zhu
All these advice and suggestions are good for the dating phase. Initial stages. But what about people who‘re married? Maintaining relationship skills for the long haul? Clearly Casey hadn’t unlocked those set of deep skills. If I‘m wrong please prove me wrong
She's testing if your alpha if you come off as alpha. If you say "I'm rich" she'll ask "how much money do you have?" If you say, "I'm funny," she'll say "ok then, tell me a joke." If you say you are strong, she'll want to hang on your arm or have you pick up heavy things. If she's asking about ice cream, it's to see if you are a transparent posur. Guys like this approach girls/other guys/the internet, and crumble immediately if anyone dares probe further. As in, getting to know you better. Something deeper than ice cream or shirts or your hat collection.
i used to do this naturally and i used to naturally be quiet and now that i became morneimterovted i lost that… i need to get back to being more strong and silent it creates so much tension
Make sure you have a tool box of default lines memorised because they will throw you off unexpectedly and brutally at any time This is one I like using to add to your tool box when she disapproves of something you do or say. “I’m glad you like it” definitely don’t shift your stance on what you just said.
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The 'painting themselves pure' is one that for me often shows up as "Are you trying to trick me? I don't know if you are sincere...etc." Implying they are the pure sincere ones who don't play around and they want you defending your honorable intentions. If a woman goes silent and starts the silent treatment, that is one tactic I walk away from. It means they will do it again, even if you respond well to it initially. They learned it as a tactic. You will see it again regardless. No thanks. It's emotional abuse.
My mother did that to my family my entire life, she would shut herself in her room and storm around the house and slam doors. I’d listen to her go from her room out to the living room, give my dad a hard time and slam the door as she went back into her room. It was terrible. Made me definitely realize how much a woman will run you to the ground if you don’t stick up for yourself.
It does not matter who you are, or who she is; a woman needs to know that you don't *need* her.
And she ( them ) constantly works to find every minute fault.. in her eyes/mind.
if shes needy she will take you even if you are needy as well.
Cuz they have massive cognitive dissonance
That's freaking sick
I do not need her i want her. Thry sometimes dont get that
Why would I spend time with someone who constantly tries to make me feel uncomfortable, hurt or disrespected? I want the opposite of that. I don't need someone constantly attacking me and trying to destroy/manipulate me. That's sick. I don't need an enemy by my side.
And then they blame you for bad behavior, it is pretty insane!
Unfortunately like he said it's likely in their nature. I've seen married women behaving like that with their husbands even after years together, they get some sort of thrill from making their husbands bend to their every whim.
it’s their job bro. it’s all hardwiring. stop believing in fairytales. be stronger
@@dstmessenger5803 Not fairytales. Standards. I have standards and expectations. If someone is below what I am willing to accept then they can go 'entertain' someone else. At this point all I want from them is just fun and once I get it I'm not putting up with their bs anymore. What's the point of a relationship for a man? Genuinely asking. I'm not into toxic and abusive partners so it has to be something else.
Then become gay, because they all do it.
I've come to realise the vast majority of them are power and control freaks. They always end up gaming themselves out of a happy life.
Not just in relationships, your post reminds me of some of my nightmare female bosses
Women dont love men they love power they want a puppet to manipulate then drop then repeat
All mothers are this
@@blacklightgamer97I was having a great time playing with my 2 young boys when the soon to be ex wife jumped in and cried "STOP, you have all had enough fun!". It was eating her up seeing us have fun while she wasn't running the show.
@@John_Wood_ I suspected my mother had a strong superiority complex and used me to reinforce it, she we’d always have something to respond to me and “show me wrong” to anything I suggested, said or affirmed because she “had more experience” The only time I could finally push back was thanks to my dad, we were putting decorations on the corners of the ceiling of a new room we had built and we were figuring out how the pieces were supposed to go. I figured it out before her and she was in absolute DENIAL that that’s how the pieces went until my dad affirmed her and showed her that that’s undeniably how the pieces were supposed to go, she stormed out of the room and victimized herself after that. Everyone that meets me tells me I’m ingrateful and should love having a mother like her because she gave me everything materially speaking, but how can I value that when she torn my self worth and with that my soul at every opportunity she got because of her selfish self affirmation.
I've been binge watching your videos and making notes for 2 weeks now
You're literally changing and saving my life after gf broke up with me after I've been treating her like princess, was caring and loving. She reversed the whole relationship within hours.
Thank You for the knowledge and day to day therapy
That's pointless and your are doing a routine no difference just because you take notes and put in so much effort for a woman seriously so you have any value
@@TheREVIEWGUY1-ip1wm you're the one without value
😂😂😂 Married 27 years and she still challenges me. Guys, he says the truth. The raw truth. Believe him.
True story. You fail the test one time, boom! 27 years gone! Playin' on a harcore mode with only 1 life - real FUN! 😁
How do you handle them? I find it tiring honestly
@@justdetoxThe key is to never lose frame, even if you slip up, don't ever let anything throw you off (atleast don't show it)
@@_--Reaper--_when you say dont lose frame wdym by that?
@@hellvon9573 don't let anything throw you off, make you lose confidence, they can sense it (anybody can really, predators and criminals also target victims based on this) but with women, you have to adopt an attitude of remaning cool/not caring about anything especially when she tests you
And she *will* test you.
Her: "I'm not like most girls."
Re: "That's what most girls say"
Exactly 💯
Just like the ones that say “I don’t usually hook-up on the first date” lol
That's actually a classic human nature. Humans don't like to be antagonised but likes antagonising others. They don't truly care about others. Perhaps they're just big talkers
Yeah . She’s say’n she an even bigger slut
😂😂
10:20... Pure narcissism!! Runnnnn!
Most girls that come from a loving home will not participate in most of these. Sure, she might test, but not patently! In other words, 'act' as if you have options! Which, for a lot of guys, is hard to do. But if her tests are potent, RUN! Do not put up with her mind games, because if you TRAUMA BOND with her, you will not be able to even 'walk'!!
Then you'll run from 95% of all dates.
50% of all dating materials were raised with single moms, the rest was raised by bitch moms and beta dads.
100% were brainwashed trough their entire life with the current bluepill narrative.
I'm a real demon. I let her do whatever she wanted to trauma bond herself with me and guess what? I walked away without a flinch never looked back on purpose now her ego and confidence is on the ground.
I think sh*t tests are a myth.
If she's being rude why bother with her? If a woman is interested in a guy she's going to act as nice as humanly possible so she doesn't turn him off.
@@joetejada1184 do you feel better person after this?
@@opita_opicahe never cared .
I'm 65 and I've seen so many women ruin their own (perfectly good) lives. And of course, in the process, the lives of the men and children around them.
Isn't it amazing just how much energy women put in to ruining their and others' lives
@@EE12CSVTong
Its up to the man to lead women properly.
It's ridiculous. Like why do you need drama why do you need attention why do you need to be so judgemental yet these feminist say were the problem
Eve made Satan her god.
Adam failed by obeying her instructions Genesis 3:17
Bro, more guys need to walk away when they are tested. Stop trying to “respond better,” and simply getting better at walking out of dates and breaking up with women. Break their hearts, their egos, and their souls. They love it, and they’ll love you for it. If they don’t, bye bye. SIMPLY BE DONE. You weren’t that guy for her, anyway.
I wish this was true, but unfortunately it isn't. This is hardwiring. Subconscious responses they give you to see how you handle it is done on purpose to give strength indicators.
@@CaseyZanderListen Bro.. He’ll learn it one way or the other!!! I’m 57 and I’ve been with over 300, well that was when I stopped counting. My wife who I been with almost 30 years still does these tests! It NEVER stops! 🤷
Where you write "you weren't that guy".. Seems like your beliefs are still about finding "The One".
Casey is a type of guy being tested even from males
@@peaceonearth8693 being the one for her is different from me looking for the one. Of course I want her to feel like I’m the one for her. That’s called attachment bro. I want her to get attached to me…think about it
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?
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Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked father obah eze up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
10:43 this where i win all the time with women. Why? Being silent is first nature for me, I grew up as an only child, so being by myself in complete quiet IS MY NATURE. But more so, I do not get anxious in presence of a girl, so I remain stoic as if I am by myself anyway. I engage very well with them, but when it comes to silence, it is always them who end up breaking it. A lot of men FAIL this one because they feel they need to be constantly engaging with her, a woman's feelings doesn't need interaction, all it needs is your MASCULINE STERM PRESENCE.
Interesting. Can you give a personal example based upon your experience?
EXACTLY
Being a single child, I can say we are mostly narcissists ourselves 😂
Never stop posting man💯
Why.
Great, insightful video. However, the painful experience of my mom dying from cancer instilled a deep inner strength in me. The biggest lesson I learned from that ordeal was that life is entirely too short. The moment I detect these stupid tests from women I simply walk away from that situation. I neither have the time nor energy to waste on this. It's simple - get w/ my program or your out. Sometimes they do other times they find me way too strong & leave.
Yes, if your really want peace of mind. Woman aren’t the way to go… the monk life suits me beter. But of course, that’s also not for everyone 😅
Apart from my different experience after my mother died, what you say are words from my mouth. It's laughable that women initially think that I'm weak and have no power or status in society - that's evident in how they come on to me. When they speak to me, they quickly discover my status and just how far out of my league - below me - they really are. I've found time and time again that I intimidate them because of how I have to behave and operate in my every day life and the high expectations I have to have from people at my level. Yes, I'm entitled to professional, competent behaviour from adults because that's what my status and what I'm expected to deliver demands, from the expectations from the people above me in society.
Just because clothes or cars or stocks are marked down, don't assume they are bad. Make your own mind up - 'Whether we're talking about stocks or socks, I like buying quality merchandise when it is marked down.' - W Buffett
2:10 there is this one particular girl who was doing it a lot with me. yes, she been attracted, but she WAS NOT CERTAIN how strong i was because of all the mystery around me, i dont talk, there is nothing she can hear from anyone. So she kept doing little test to test my strength if i would fire at her for being annoying towards me. i never flared, but i dismissed her, and every time she tried to come back close to me, she had to wait and prove herself WORTHY to be around me. This is where she discovered MY STRENGTH and the tests have completely stopped.
Absolute truth. I dismissed her and almost discarded her because she was rude. Then she was never rude again. Most of these betas are so afraid of losing their woman it's honestly embarrassing.
I don't even know any woman
If she feels confident enough to test you like this, then she doesn’t care about loosing you, and she’s in the higher status position
Good counter point
@@HardeepSIngh-bu2zn Casey doesn’t know anything about attraction, I’ve been doing this for 10 years. If a girl likes you, she will never treat you lower status than her and she will cater her personality to be pleasant. They may run tests here and there but nothing offense or too out of pocket that could risk ruining your opinion of her. Women highly care about what you think if they like you.
@@HardeepSIngh-bu2zn rule of thumb, if she treats you worse than her boss at work, she doesn’t like you
@@apeshitphilosophy5221 that’s what Rollo Tomassi says in a way
This!!!! 100% I’m usually with Casey. But men we have to stop normalizing women emotionally and psychologically abusing us and calling it female nature. There are evil people in every gender. The book the manipulated man written by a woman gives you all the game Casey could ever give you, from a woman herself.
Been implementing this in my game, it’s much improved. Great work Casey
I Never seen this kind of content on Internet, I will say you are the dating guru top 1%
Yep. He is THE 1%
I remember being "tested" like this, taking it personally, shutting down, and never contacting the woman again.
She's probably still hot for you but you'll never know because you're not attracted to retards lmao 😅
I am intrigued by the body language here. Non-Italian talking with hands. Doing a big "X" for "loads" of tips. The thespian level breathing. The wife-beater/math professor vibes.
The silence test is powerful .... also manifests thru pulls backs of texting / calling
Visual learner here! Never get rid of the white board!
the women that say that stuff are all toxic/immature/unsaveable, just avoid them
All women test. All that changes from person to person is the severity and frequency. And you don't know these things until they start.
99% of them behave as you said
They communicate indirectly.
Whenever she says something
She means the total opposite
u mean all of them?? 😂😂
Explain how it’s double homicide (killing another human ) if a pregnant woman is killed…but people refuse to just admit that abortion is in fact killing a human - not “just a fetus”…?
its just b.s excuse so they can f left and right all the tyrones and use your tax money for free abortions pal. haven't you realised it by this point? :D it's a hoax, a scam.
they want free $$ to do w.e their pompus brain rot desires.
Todays Women's obsession with power is just straight up evil, I want a simple girl who doesn't play these mind games
That’s gonna be difficult to find but good luck
they play it too some extent dude there testing ur g
They been like this since the begining of time
There's no such woman, even if you find a village girl from southeast Asia and marry her ,her true colours will show
@@rejectwokeness1314This is true, IF you bring her into a western legal environment. If you keep her in her village, where her own family and community will shame her if she tries this shit, then it can work. If you have the right and the power, to knock her upside the head and everyone around her will be on your side, then you can keep her in line. Women are like CHILDREN. Well disciplined children are awesome. Empowered and spoiled children are terrors. Do NOT bring her to the States and give her the power of the US government at her back.
Women are like children who constantly test authority. The problem we are having is exactly the same problem we would have if we gave all children guns and law enforcement officers that cover for them and pander to their worst instincts.
Women ARE like this, and that is WHY men need to seize the authority and take away their rights. That is where they are most happy. Keep her in her village and everything will be fine.
I'm screwed. I absolutely hate being tested without my knowledge. I could never trust someone who masks their intentions. She's already proving she can keep secrets from you.
Facts
It’s logical for women to test men. Wether they do it consciously or unconsciously doesn’t matter. If you are afraid of failing then it means you are not ready because these tests are generally good at telling if you are aligned with your masculinity or a wimp
According to Sadia Khan apparently these tests are not intentional but are done subconsciously…in other words women are not aware that they’re doing them and they are a mechanism of picking the proper mating partner since centuries ago a woman had to be sure about their mate since pregnancies were not safe
If Sadia says it, then it must be true.
Females picking their reproductive mates is not the norm throughout human history. She’s wrong from the outset.
Men subconsciously lust after women but can repress those feelings to not knock one out….i refuse to believe women just do these “tests” subconsciously
I agree with this and the tests are constant and never ending, especially in marriage. It's worth it if you want to have a family. Now 70, divorced, and enjoying my peace.
This is a good reminder video that the hotter / sexier women are going to throw more shade and more tests at you than your run of the mill average/below average looking girl. Sometimes I get spoiled by how well the lesser attractive women treat me, and then when i get around super baddies and they dont act right i dismiss them too fast, always forgetting that they are likely playing their stupid version of game (i.e. testing me in their way) and that there are extra tests to pass when it comes to unlocking the really hot ones. Once unlocked though I am going to expect a certain level of treatment that they need to fall into or else I'm gone. Must add value to my life
I strongly disagree. From my experience, hottier girls are easier to date than less attractive.
I observed this phenomenon a lot and have a solid explanation of it.
Moreover, the gap is widening with time: average looking (and even older) subjects are progressively getting harder to date today than several years ago, while young and sexy material retains the same difficulty.
@@AndreyGreenYtube interesting. What city are you in. And how old are you
@@renegadezen7841The observations I shared have been conducted through several big EU/UK cities over a long (over 7 years) period of time. My current residence (relatively small EU city, famous skiing resort) is not relevant to the topic. I'm 40+.
@@AndreyGreenYtube ah. European women. That explains the difference. American women are a whole nother breed
@@renegadezen7841What is special with EU women?
Dont forget that there's always a change that she is narcistic or with borderline. Vetting snd willing to walk away is key. Dont play stupid games cause you will win stupid prizes. Have morals and be willen to walk away when there is disrespect.
Man I am 52 years old and taking advice from a younger man. Where were you when I was in college? Where were you when I made the stupid mistake of getting married. Thank you for the education!
Its quite simple:
Have money
Be fit
Be smart and wise
Set boundaries and respect
have money is not simple in a system that is rigged from the day you were born pal.
this world is who is more cunning and most evil, wins all the p*$$y and world
we live in hell if you haven't realised, that's how God punished us for allowing Eva to eat the damn fruit. had we just been eating the fruit of life we would be fkin and living in peace for who knows how long for ever.
I was seeing some girl. She said she loved me and all that rubbish. A couple of months in she brings up an orgy conversation saying she wants to or at least curious about an orgy. I obviously shut it down and left her calling her a slut. I felt annoyed and kind of shocked as she came across quite sweet. Anyway a couple of weeks later she hits me up saying it was just a sexy topic and a bit of mind fun and that she wasn't serious about it. I explained it crossed my boundaries and had moved on. But what a weird test. At first I thought she did it on purpose to test me but after she explained i generally think she did it subconsciously. But yeah women do all sorts of things to test men. Unless it's early on and they are really into you and then they are good as gold. Funny that
you should have said yes and bring one of youre best homies so y all could bang her together and then you could have left her in peices 😊
She might have already had threesomes and was testing the waters to see if you were ok with it. They are very deceptive. You avoided a train wreck with hideous baggage
Two really good points you made here. The first being that the ‘tests’ that women give don’t typically fall into the general elementary category such as challenging authority or silent treatment. From what I’ve ive experienced, it’s situational for sure , but both the more she likes you and the more you are indifferent to her, the more unhinged and complex the tests become. Especially if you’ve proven yourself to be valuable and her dispensable to you. And like you stated there are definitely times where you can play the long game and win a prize by biting the mental bullet, but in many cases like that one, if the mental ethics are that questionable in the situation then it’s better worth cutting her off. Because as we all know, tests only get harder
And to mention the second point which is the last sentence you stated that early on the tests are never present which definitely is funny. Its almost like they’re strategically getting into your blind spot and suddenly planting a bomb to see how well you can diffuse it under pressure
No. She was serious. Believe me. I know several of them. Usually the dude initiates the implanted orgy statement. If the female does it, RUN, if you're looking for a relationship with said female. Don't wife her. She more than likely did it a few times already. Don't doubt anyone or anything!
I've become adept at reading women and I finally understand them. Having said that I know enough now to just stay away
😂❤
You can either love or understand women you can’t do both. Im starting to believe that’s true
Brother Casey...... You are indeed a scientist....... Yo wanted to add..... Even if you are awkward..... Be comfortable being awkward and she will still like you......
I have got all the test approved and one final test of giving me silence treatment is in the process. Eventhough I'm doing everything as Casey told(even without watching it earlier coz I got to know this channel today itself), I just want to confirm that what he is telling is one hundred percent correct.
6:48 a girl that had been sending me DMs for awhile now, she went the route recently of saying "you are so weird & nerdy". I laughed to myself and say oh look at you, how cute. I didn't get upset nor flare up and deny being weird and nerdy, I simply said, "and I see that you like weird & nerdy, it's your type". She did her typical "lol" which for her is signaling she LIKES.
works like magic
No it's not sh saying she with someone else bet she cheating
these tests happened to me too LOLL especially the periods of silence tests lol
Casey with the daily reminders
Love you Casey, fantastic advice, you are like the Terminator, just amazing the energy you have fleshing out the minutia of the mating dance.
Fucking hell, rather just stay rich and single
Her: "I'm different from other girls..."
Me (smiling like a crocodile): "Really? Then tell me just 3 things that makes you special....."
And here the fun begins...
Thats not fun when she gjost you after invedtigstiinwuesrions.
Do you smile like a crocodile at your lack of sofistication in constructing grammatically accurate sentences in English? Bet not
i really like all of the new set up this is a huge glow up, the only thing, just to nitpick is your way of writing
I have read so many books on women and this guy is spot on
Naa this one right here gold bro🔥
So easy hearing you say, but I feel so blind and clueless when tests actually happens
It's a never-ending nightmare that you'd be better off staying the hell away from.
True. They always seem to hit you with a huge test out of nowhere, when you least expect it.
The only remedy for this is to date lots of women. Have multiple options so you’re unfazed when one of them starts acting up.
I wasn’t sure whether you are legit or not but I’m sold after this post.
The most advanced test a woman has ever given me is that she threatened to call the police for asking her to have sex. THAT’S an advanced test. She’s wanting to see if you fear the police because if you do, she’s bowing out.
why would u even ask
Lmaaoooo
If you have to ask, she don’t want it, a women that sexually attracted to you will literally plant there tongue in your mouth
Ahahaha
roflmao
God bless you brother you got that wisdom champ thank you keep it up king !!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
When there testing you through texts but you have already decided you don't want her 💪
They're. Not there.
@@PoshByDefaultI bet you are drowning in it.
I don’t know I’ve struggled with this a lot of women will say the most crazy ridiculous things to see you react, or they will even get physical. A lot of times they will wait until you’re in a relationship with them. It almost sounds easier on paper to just say don’t react.
Triceps looking awesome bro
Don't kiss his ass
@@commodore6430 complimenting his triceps doesn't equal kissing his ass
@@1by110 ur gay
you´re a king dude. thanks man
She wants to see a superman in a man, but she isn't willing to change her silly way of living, What a joke it is really. Would someone tell these women and bring them out of their fantasy?
All I can say is that a Woman so close to God will be your closest bet to not playing those games.
Great video, Uncle Casey.
This is a great video and I recognize virtually everything from my own experience!
I wish I saw your video sooner. Especially the last point on silence. I really needed to see this one.
It’s also in texting
3:00 Guys, what Casey is describing is that a narcissist is looking to see how likely it is that you'll be her co-dependent. She doesn't want the guy who tells her that "chocolate ice cream is still better." That's an instant disqualification. She wants the docile, mouldable guy who tells her that vanilla is good too and you'll get a 2nd date. If she knows that you're strong in who you are, that means you get rejected. If she sees you have boundaries and you don't white knight, you get rejected.
Agreed
Every woman worth having is like this.
Women are narcissists. You just have to accept this. Only other option is to be celibate.
Sure, you may not get the 2nd date. She may blow you off (at first). But if you hold your frame, she’ll be thinking about you while she’s on her date with the supplicant, lol.
We need your break downs
There’s those “fake” submissive narcs too. They’ll play along and when they know when you’re on their web they start their manipulation. They are very sneaky with it too. Gotta be careful out here.
*Women definitely have these subtle ways of testing men, and understanding these dynamics is crucial.*
3:40 I will agree that you willing to stand up to her tests indicates your position on the SMV in terms of the women you're used to talking to, but as I fail (in their eyes) these tests but pass (in my and Casey's eyes), it means in practical terms that such men don't date. The only men these women are willing to date are those who pass the woman's tests by failing them in Casey's estimation.
The moment that a woman starts testing me or acting disrespectful, I end things and go no contact.
That is the only correct answer to any “test.”
if you ever have kids and a family that approach has to become much more nuanced obviously but yeah for early relationships it's fine I guess. even still it's a bit too blunt of a tool depending on the circumstances
Spot-on. Have a like.
@@christopherrobindysart maybe dont start a family with a disrespectful person idk
Agreed
@@cairopls brotha I guarantee you're not in a long term marriage or very long term relationship. hell Casey has never gone that far either. You are going to go through tribulation no matter how thoroughly you've screened a woman. it's going to come regardless of how red pilled you are or how many casey videos you watch. Casey covers a lot of material in his videos, and even gets some long term stuff right too. but he simply hasn't ever lived out the long term stuff. no decade plus. no kids. no marriage. there's a lot of nuance. Honestly I'm impressed with how much Casey gets right despite the lack of experience, but it's not all black and white.
That big breath of fresh made me crease!! Brilliant…
I like how certain men in the comments are challenging Casey saying he's incorrect. But these same men know he IS correct which is why their dating life sucks but they won't hold themselves accountable. Then they comment by thinking their way is actually correct.
You are so on point it's impressive. 🎉
Much of this is true and it makes me smile when girls do it. “I’m not like most girls” or “I can count my body count on one hand”. It’s an indication of high interest and a challenge, should you choose to accept it.
How far has society fallen where a woman can say she's had 5 other men inside her while claiming it's pure and virtuous? Lmao.
And I never do.
@@K0RP53correct, it is not sufficient.
@@Aasn9I mean, I never accept the challenge.
Listen to him guys, he is right. I have experienced all of this
The only one you’re missing is “I’m not the type of girl to play games” 😂
Bro!!!! This finally made sense and most men in the comments aren’t getting it
Oh I'm getting it, I'm just not putting up with it.
Oh we get it, but women don't want strong men. They only want the weak ones they can use. That's nearly all married/LTR men.
Amazing breakdown of information, thank Casey!
Good work my man! Great insights, and true points.
Yeah I just failed this miserably 😂😂😂. But the more you know! Always a next time
Great video Man. Respect 💪🏼
If you’re new to Casey’s channel… stay tuned!!! This dudes info is fucking game changing. Why!?? Not because it’s new or grandiose.. ITS THE WAY HE BREAK THIS SHIT DOWN! We’ve all experienced this at one point or another. That’s how we found the channel 😂 because we needed to CHANGE. We can’t expect the woman to do it… they won’t. We must change fellas. Enjoy the journey 💪🏽 #HEADMAN
glazing
Absolutely
Paul janka made this stuff
My Mom made me think I was sick my whole life and ruined relationships with family and anyone who I gave my attention to or cared about. It’s called Munchausins Byproxy, it’s what Eminem’s Mom had.
Casey you breaking too many hearts sending them to me cause they always be crying 🤣
11:00 Oh the Silent treatment. That's when they get deleted and blocked. I don't deal with little girls.
Crazy but this is real insight. Guys take his advice
Being in an online class is the last thing I expected when I clicked on this video
Post divorce met Julie. We've been together 41 yrs. All these tests and shit I just chalk up and tell her I consider all that as, part of, "her job". We joke around about it and when I give it back and she complains about 'men', I explain, "that's my job." Oh, and it never ends so guys, play the game.
The amount of women who say "I don't do that" 😂
I don't go dates anymore been almost 10 years but I used too go on a lot and this guy is spot on girls always say and do those things
The whole "weakness" thing is purely perception based, as the woman is extrinsically driven from the outset, then if she allows herself, she'll discover the world of "intrinsic" qualities of a man, and appreciate those. If she stays on the extrinsics, there will always be "something potentially better", and you're together by default only.
She tested me one to many times, 😂 I just Disappeared after a few years
Stand tall gentleman, don't react don't flinch chin up chest out and smirk.( If you know yourself there's no need to fear the outcome of 1000 battles) - sun zhu
When she tests you walk away never play a woman's game
Thanks, Casey. Looking forward to further advice.
Casey aleays finds a way to make me learn new things about Women.
A very nice video Uncle C! Thank you.
All these advice and suggestions are good for the dating phase. Initial stages. But what about people who‘re married? Maintaining relationship skills for the long haul? Clearly Casey hadn’t unlocked those set of deep skills. If I‘m wrong please prove me wrong
She's testing if your alpha if you come off as alpha. If you say "I'm rich" she'll ask "how much money do you have?" If you say, "I'm funny," she'll say "ok then, tell me a joke." If you say you are strong, she'll want to hang on your arm or have you pick up heavy things. If she's asking about ice cream, it's to see if you are a transparent posur. Guys like this approach girls/other guys/the internet, and crumble immediately if anyone dares probe further. As in, getting to know you better. Something deeper than ice cream or shirts or your hat collection.
i used to do this naturally and i used to naturally be quiet and now that i became morneimterovted i lost that… i need to get back to being more strong and silent it creates so much tension
Make sure you have a tool box of default lines memorised because they will throw you off unexpectedly and brutally at any time This is one I like using to add to your tool box when she disapproves of something you do or say.
“I’m glad you like it” definitely don’t shift your stance on what you just said.
This video was very valuable u went in deep enough to learn something new and yes ive experienced it my self
all points correct
the moments of silence on the phone too
Wow, I wonder how many on the planet have that ET-15 / N3 Pro combo? 😮...congrats & I can't wait for u to get adjusted to them. Very sweet setup & it would be nice to see back to back shots with both N3 style limbs with the same arrows through the chrono🎉❤😂.
Mistake #1: Never, EVER do food or any kind of meal eating on initial dates.
Stick to coffee/ice cream/etc or something simple like that
Casey video a day, keeps frustration with women away💯
Congrats on your new whipe CZ 🚀
The 'painting themselves pure' is one that for me often shows up as "Are you trying to trick me? I don't know if you are sincere...etc." Implying they are the pure sincere ones who don't play around and they want you defending your honorable intentions. If a woman goes silent and starts the silent treatment, that is one tactic I walk away from. It means they will do it again, even if you respond well to it initially. They learned it as a tactic. You will see it again regardless. No thanks. It's emotional abuse.
My mother did that to my family my entire life, she would shut herself in her room and storm around the house and slam doors. I’d listen to her go from her room out to the living room, give my dad a hard time and slam the door as she went back into her room. It was terrible. Made me definitely realize how much a woman will run you to the ground if you don’t stick up for yourself.
Please never stop posting
The white board helps a lot to understand these situations, thanks bro