The Good Girl Myth - Why Women Say “No Hook-Ups”

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  • @user-ly1ml6ue9n
    @user-ly1ml6ue9n 3 роки тому +102

    The driveway is back 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @danielposh
    @danielposh 3 роки тому +121

    I’ve seen those “no sex” on girls tinder profiles. Makes perfect sense their tired of being banged up by the baller and the sledge hammer and trying to experiment with you being the good girl. Wow! Thanks for this info

    • @LFA
      @LFA  3 роки тому +28

      Bingo!

    • @Xanivert
      @Xanivert 3 роки тому +17

      From my experience, these are the girls that will actually give it up easier

    • @htokid7299
      @htokid7299 3 роки тому +14

      @@Xanivert not the point brother, we don’t want whores we want high value women.

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 3 роки тому +6

      When you see they have in their bio 'no sex', you know the material she's made of.

    • @michaelgresham1980
      @michaelgresham1980 3 роки тому +2

      @@htokid7299
      There is no such thing as a high value woman. You still have a lot to learn kid.

  • @glengraham7681
    @glengraham7681 3 роки тому +132

    It's common for guys to fall into her frame. The trick is to maintain your frame. Be a masculine man. Be sexual. No attachment to outcome. Be resilient. Don't be hurt if she is not interested. No one itess. Date more than one woman. Just have fun. Be happy. Be fun to be around. Lift her emotions and your own emotions. No more boring dates. Laugh. Tell jokes. Drink alcohol. Do fun things. Work on your emotions.
    Too many people both men and women have been hurt or carry around depressing emotional baggage. Let go of it. Live in the present moment and not the past and not the future.
    Have a positive happy optimistic mindset.
    Assume she likes you. Assume success.
    Feel good, look good, have fun. Dating is light and playful and not serious. Avoid depressing serious subjects. Be mysterious and talk less. Be interested in what she has to say. Lift the mood or lift the vibe.
    Learn how to lift someone up elevate their emotions and laugh and make both you and them feel good.
    Consider hiring LFA as a coach or wingman and maybe get a wing girl.
    You can do this.
    Stop wasting time.
    Direct sunshine during the noon hour over more than 60 % of your body can boost testosterone along with a healty diet and deep quality sleep and less masturbation. Women are more attracted to a guy who gives mixed emotions and is not needy. Mystery is attractive.
    See it. Visualize success. Masculine - feminine frame. Mindset of success.
    Raise your standards. Expect better. A man should have a purpose more than a woman.
    Never chase a woman Also don't be a pussy. If you strongly believe something then be a man and stand up for what you believe!
    I recently learned it is BEST not to push "likes" and to not comment on posts. This is a mistake. You probably could do a video on it

    • @AllStar4261
      @AllStar4261 3 роки тому +10

      🎯

    • @Roshan3L
      @Roshan3L 3 роки тому +6

      I will like and comment on this, this is exactly what you should do...dont take it too fucking serious and just love the whole floaty process.

    • @alexiscancun1619
      @alexiscancun1619 3 роки тому

      Yep don’t push her with a lot of like and don’t comment on her posts. It seems like too much for some reason. I’ve been in the social media game for a while and the guys that don’t are not commenting on her posts are usually the ones getting em. Don’t do too much, it might not be necessary at all

    • @dattrax7
      @dattrax7 3 роки тому +1

      Amazing addition to this important video!

    • @enyaliuslll3954
      @enyaliuslll3954 2 роки тому

      This comment is the perfect caricature redpill manifesto.
      You are such an empty headed buffoon.

  • @bernardomvp
    @bernardomvp 3 роки тому +50

    Didn't even pressed play and already pressed the like button

  • @sebasg80
    @sebasg80 3 роки тому +106

    You’re either alpha enough for her to break her rules or you’re beta enough for her to make rules for you

    • @LFA
      @LFA  3 роки тому +54

      She will try to put rules on alpha too but it won’t work.

    • @sebasg80
      @sebasg80 3 роки тому +7

      @@LFA once there is enough of a frame... great content LFA big fan of yours !

    • @johnnybravo3612
      @johnnybravo3612 3 роки тому +1

      @@LFA I haven’t watched the video yet but how does an alpha get into her pants if she puts rules on him too? Only thing I’ve experienced like that was a girl saying she doesn’t do hookups when I was at her house so I just kissed her more and casually talked to her more and then said I had to leave and she stopped me before I left and we fucked. So she took off her own rule, I didn’t have to convince her (though I knew talking with her would make her more comfortable).

  • @stevenpiralis9889
    @stevenpiralis9889 Рік тому +4

    Peter Gabriel was onto the Sledgehammer years ago haha.💪

  • @nishantkumar6960
    @nishantkumar6960 3 роки тому +10

    LFA and SANQ4, these two channels are saving lives

  • @bigbror2287
    @bigbror2287 3 роки тому +27

    What’s up brothers! 💪

  • @Xanivert
    @Xanivert 3 роки тому +30

    2-3 hours? Goddamn
    Ain't nobody got time for that lol

    • @artemisentreri4244
      @artemisentreri4244 3 роки тому +8

      Also - sex after allnight party? Stinking with a club, cigarettes and booze. Cannot feel anything either. F... that shit.

    • @Pastor_Sempa
      @Pastor_Sempa 3 роки тому +5

      How 3 hours? I 😲🤔

  • @amir.2000
    @amir.2000 3 роки тому +25

    No way! This is how exactly my ex did and that was the reason that I left her,

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 3 роки тому +6

      Good instinct.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 3 роки тому

      Yo I'm telling you dont they only chase the thrill

  • @kennynguyen2460
    @kennynguyen2460 3 роки тому +12

    This is some seriously accurate facts about the female species. LFA, thanks for exposing them 😝.

  • @Leonidnrv
    @Leonidnrv 3 роки тому +23

    I'm going through a situation just like this with a girl and this video came on time .... yes, you're the big brother :))

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 3 роки тому +2

      Oferă-i spațiu... Cât mai muuult:)))

    • @Leonidnrv
      @Leonidnrv 3 роки тому

      Unele îs pe combinat...mai ceva ca noi :))

  • @norseman-ns5tq
    @norseman-ns5tq 3 роки тому +7

    As much as I love listening to UA-cam early in the morning to get the day started...idk if I can listen to LFA anymore for one reason...I can't predict when he will randomly say something so funny I literally spit my coffee out hoping I don't wake up my family

  • @recklessnotion1899
    @recklessnotion1899 3 роки тому +9

    The brick wall has returned and you're a genius btw, this is one of your best videos.

  • @anthonymiller8365
    @anthonymiller8365 3 роки тому +10

    Man ... what an opening 👏 Like a sledgehammer... 😃😃😃

  • @Stew357
    @Stew357 3 роки тому +3

    Outstanding advice and video, as always. Thx LFA

  • @thelostson9394
    @thelostson9394 3 роки тому +6

    This is so spot on..

  • @oznwachukwu6653
    @oznwachukwu6653 3 роки тому +3

    Haha! Great video, good to see you back LFA 👌🏾

  • @AyanokojiiKun
    @AyanokojiiKun 3 роки тому +8

    Key take away,
    1) marriage is with the state has nothing to do with love
    2) do not fall into the no sex experiment
    3) back then religion do not have such contract

  • @alexbailie225
    @alexbailie225 3 роки тому +7

    The one way to beat the experiment is ghosting & improving your life.
    LFA I like how you mentioned that ‘the sledgehammer’ gets respect and the other guy won’t. And the way to beat that is show your intent straight up. Leave it at that and if they start bargaining then you leave the deal.
    I’ve found myself in both areas before. It widely depends on the persons taste too.

  • @somerandomdudeontheinterne7726
    @somerandomdudeontheinterne7726 3 роки тому +6

    One of your best videos yet 👌🏻

  • @RZFitnessTV
    @RZFitnessTV 3 роки тому +7

    Good to see you on here again bro!

  • @sunnyboy288
    @sunnyboy288 3 роки тому +1

    I love your channel and your attitude man! you're the man! Lead us to glory.

  • @smilodon92
    @smilodon92 3 роки тому +3

    Great video! Very insightful

  • @lexritter2760
    @lexritter2760 3 роки тому +7

    Shout Out From Iowa. Much Respect.

  • @sawyerwonderlich6786
    @sawyerwonderlich6786 3 роки тому +5

    Hammer crew checking in.

  • @venomwithin1
    @venomwithin1 3 роки тому +6

    LFA you’re a scholar and a gentleman!

  • @fabiang7243
    @fabiang7243 3 роки тому +3

    THE man LFA, another good hit to the guys👍Likeing the day and night shoots both😎

  • @LoneSoul-vy7lp
    @LoneSoul-vy7lp 3 роки тому +1

    Best one yet ! 👍🏼

  • @richardplantagenet1878
    @richardplantagenet1878 3 роки тому +2

    L F A hits Hard with the analysis of
    The Loop Big thumbs up Brother
    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @camilovarela1954
    @camilovarela1954 3 роки тому +4

    you are the man dude, salutes from Chile

  • @tjfootball1908
    @tjfootball1908 3 роки тому +7

    This is literally the greatest video.........I have ever watched my entire life.......... Everything is just perfectly explained

  • @patrickmccloskey8800
    @patrickmccloskey8800 3 роки тому +7

    Finally back in the driveway🙏

  • @seekingfreedom9020
    @seekingfreedom9020 3 роки тому +2

    Great content man

  • @diasrohan
    @diasrohan Рік тому +1

    LFA you should be on the top ... superb bro well explained

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan 3 роки тому +7

    Oh maan, I love wall videos! Classic LFA.

  • @indiedude9034
    @indiedude9034 3 роки тому +1

    Needed thiss!

  • @Josecito777
    @Josecito777 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing, love your way of picturing things so the most obtuse man can understand
    Golden material

  • @adblaze4808
    @adblaze4808 3 роки тому +7

    Straight up facts 💯

  • @Dan-ul1hd
    @Dan-ul1hd 3 роки тому +3

    Awesome video.

  • @davewinterton4
    @davewinterton4 3 роки тому +8

    I find these videos so entertaining haha

  • @infamismworldwild6248
    @infamismworldwild6248 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks, encountered this often but couldn't quite place a term on it

  • @thomasmueller2319
    @thomasmueller2319 3 роки тому +15

    lol why would you even date a girl that does all this. Better to be single and not have a romantic relationship than to be with a girl every alpha dude banged up.

    • @TheDobermannnn
      @TheDobermannnn 2 роки тому

      The problem is how would you find out the girls who is fresh?

  • @karbut4135
    @karbut4135 3 роки тому

    Great video with outro , keep going with these videos you have so much self awarness its unbelivable .. and maybe buy Lexus LFA itll suit you right

  • @jamirose2342
    @jamirose2342 3 роки тому

    Hiya, I am a coach as well, and I am binge watching your content this afternoon, this video is definitely true- I took myself out of the game to work on myself but it is extremely obvious how many men don’t understand female nature and I like your “intro” to hypergamy.
    I think a lot of men need to listen and just believe it’s all women because if you do then you are less likely to be shocked when you actually come across a really really nasty “fish box” I think I saw someone say lol.
    This is pretty accurate. Nice job.

  • @nightmare0xranmabloodedge122
    @nightmare0xranmabloodedge122 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for the info! XD

  • @brocklanders3616
    @brocklanders3616 3 роки тому +13

    It's all a game men. One day they're looking for Alpha Tyrone and the next beta provider Carlton. Alpha males get dropped for betas, and beta males get cheated on for alphas. There's no winning for us men, unless you have no feelings and or met in highschool and locked her down before she gotten through

    • @LFA
      @LFA  3 роки тому +7

      But keep in mind, 50% of men have enough of a balance to succeed. Which side are you going to fall under?

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 3 роки тому +2

      What makes you think that locking down a girl in highschool will make her stay?

    • @scarlettbear4885
      @scarlettbear4885 3 роки тому +2

      I don't cheat on my husband, and he's no beta. Don't let despair get you in a depressive cycle. There are women out there who will stand by you if you do right by them.

    • @brocklanders3616
      @brocklanders3616 3 роки тому +1

      Nothing is sure fire or guaranteed. However, which car do you think has a better chance of breaking down. The one that had multiple owners before you got the car or the one you bought brand new with 8 miles on it? In regards to females, they're unpredictable because they're lead by their emotions and feelings. Which is why they're never happy and it's generally momentary.

    • @scarlettbear4885
      @scarlettbear4885 3 роки тому +1

      @@brocklanders3616 Get a woman who understands that her own emotions aren't reliable, happiness is fleeting, only family is important, and that she needs your leadership. Easy peasy.

  • @diptanuchakraborty8493
    @diptanuchakraborty8493 2 роки тому +2

    Freaking awesome 👌 content puts let's stress and provides utmost clarity

  • @latinobacon
    @latinobacon 3 роки тому +3

    Very well theorized

  • @keithwatson9258
    @keithwatson9258 3 роки тому +1

    Holy s***t!!
    Knew it but never heard it like that
    Subscribing now

  • @Maloki175
    @Maloki175 2 роки тому

    You're really making me feel like you are my old brother I appreciate you and your work

  • @iPlatano07
    @iPlatano07 3 роки тому +2

    Wow spot on

  • @patoloco1000
    @patoloco1000 3 роки тому +1

    You're right on the money

  • @kingspunkbubble
    @kingspunkbubble 3 роки тому +1

    Top content.👍

  • @Jdog305Cubanito
    @Jdog305Cubanito 3 роки тому +2

    Fambam 🔙 @ it with the HEAT ♨️

  • @Thatuptownguy
    @Thatuptownguy 3 роки тому +1

    Nailed it bro. You should be a pastor!!

  • @Roquea.207
    @Roquea.207 2 роки тому

    I love your videos because are precise and concise about one important thing, cut the shit all the time and don’t let women in any way make you waste you most valuable resource: Time

  • @peterceccarelli5846
    @peterceccarelli5846 3 роки тому +11

    So what is a good girl. Where can she be found. Does she even exist. A good girl being “almost” a virgin. Not likely. When LFA says he’s engaged, all hope is not lost lol

  • @sweetgeezus6333
    @sweetgeezus6333 3 роки тому +4

    Shout out from Tulsa ok buddy 👍

  • @Nyualum17
    @Nyualum17 3 роки тому +2

    Someone make this number 1

  • @RealHughFlynt
    @RealHughFlynt 3 роки тому +32

    All of the responsibilities & NONE of the benefits. Meanwhile her fish box is blown out & her walls are peeled back💥💯🤣

    • @FlutterSwag
      @FlutterSwag 3 роки тому +13

      Welcome to Arby's

    • @Pastor_Sempa
      @Pastor_Sempa 3 роки тому +11

      Being in a relationship with a woman that's been ran through is like marrying an ex prostitute, you only get a limited time on this earth, dont waste your life, learn from millions/ billions of others mens mistakes.

  • @khalidhakimi93
    @khalidhakimi93 3 роки тому +2

    2:09 sledgehammer😂😂😂😂

  • @randomdude3646
    @randomdude3646 3 роки тому +3

    This is funny AF

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 роки тому

    Nice tea good tea bro

  • @queebanns
    @queebanns 3 роки тому +7

    Another great weekend with my red pill brothers

  • @timotahowhitehawk3756
    @timotahowhitehawk3756 2 роки тому +1

    Good talk...where can I buy those cool black tees you have on?

  • @jeremiah8716
    @jeremiah8716 3 роки тому +1

    Love the classic driveway

  • @mohamedamineboussebt3530
    @mohamedamineboussebt3530 3 роки тому +2

    i really love you man ... you are the best

  • @amir.2000
    @amir.2000 3 роки тому +9

    I never could imagine my partner does these such things while we're in relationships

    • @thewld2
      @thewld2 3 роки тому +13

      They find ways to do it. Their very cunning

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 3 роки тому +4

      Amir, don't be surprised. Take it as you see it.

  • @valentino099
    @valentino099 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks bro

  • @adnanbeg411
    @adnanbeg411 3 роки тому +8

    You are a scholar. Love from INDIA.

  • @basedblackpilled3810
    @basedblackpilled3810 3 роки тому +22

    LFA would yo make a video of being an adult virgin or share your thoughts about virginity (both in men and women) at some point?

    • @patoloco1000
      @patoloco1000 3 роки тому

      What for?

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 Рік тому

      @@patoloco1000 cuz he's a virgin, obiously.. don't you see his profile name?

  • @rickygilbert7204
    @rickygilbert7204 3 роки тому +16

    Don't tell them you watch an LFA video 🤣 I can one of the guys saying that lol. Serious tho don't be part of anyone experiment or game.
    Good video LFA 👊

  • @anthonywebster8638
    @anthonywebster8638 3 роки тому +3

    She's basically trying to put on a front like she's higher value than she actually is.

  • @alexrusso7517
    @alexrusso7517 3 роки тому +49

    “See I’m not a monster, I’m just a head of the curve.” 😈
    Be ahead of the curve gentlemen

    • @D3vious38
      @D3vious38 3 роки тому +7

      Classic scene.

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 Рік тому

      Me to women: "You have all these rules, and You think that'll save you" 😆

  • @libo6322
    @libo6322 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent

  • @techexec3182
    @techexec3182 3 роки тому +5

    Be the sledge hammer 🔨

  • @luisnejez1232
    @luisnejez1232 3 роки тому +3

    Dude I like your frames, what brand are those?

  • @adonosssi
    @adonosssi 3 роки тому +5

    Wise man said. Sex is poor and normal peoples joy.

  • @a45rt689
    @a45rt689 3 роки тому +3

    Don’t worry about women put focus on wealth & success been using that formula for 2 years now and well doing great success

  • @sacredhope4731
    @sacredhope4731 3 роки тому +4

    i personally don't believe this logic fits all women.. some women are truly wanting something authentic as well.. just my two cents...

    • @LFA
      @LFA  3 роки тому

      This video was about the women who do fit this logic. 😎

  • @robertfishter2862
    @robertfishter2862 3 роки тому +7

    Genesis 2:21-24: "And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." This is from the first book of the bible.

    • @jakedaddio8909
      @jakedaddio8909 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah LFA is a little off with this one. As a religious man myself I realize marriage back then happened at a way younger age. Therefore I’m not saying I’m going to wait until marriage to have sex, but I will wait for the one I know I’m going to be with

    • @thecarlitosshow7687
      @thecarlitosshow7687 3 роки тому

      @@jakedaddio8909 I agree with you on this. He seems to be arguing for a progressive, almost feminist approach to traditional Christian marriage at one point because he said it’s a “social construct” But he does however argue that man need to be on the high value but what is the ideal man like? Genesis states that “a man must leave his mother and father and have a wife.” (It’s not the right quote but it’s there). He’s talked about other men in his videos with no career, still living at his parents. Well the Bible clearly states a man must separate from his parents which he argued for before. The story of Abraham being a Father of Many Nations illustrates that kind of man of high value. A man called for a purpose by God. Women are drawn to that man that has it together. “The women were beautiful and brethren and man chose them.” Also in the Bible. (Sorry about the misquotes) Moreover, the Bible talks about men that are bad (Nimrod) who was the leader of The Tower of Babel. Lastly, I think as a society our Christian values, principles, doctrines, dogmas, and ideals HAVENT CHANGED only our ATTITUDES about them HAVE CHANGED in this case marriage between man and woman and where disagree it being a social construct. That’s just my two cents.

  • @X_0MM
    @X_0MM 3 роки тому +11

    Wow the west is so harsh on you guys

  • @WhiteYuskaitis
    @WhiteYuskaitis 3 роки тому +2

    Good Shit

  • @liberatorofminds.3159
    @liberatorofminds.3159 3 роки тому +3

    Lfa I belive.

  • @indiedude9034
    @indiedude9034 3 роки тому

    I can see him happy in this video

  • @AR-cn6dr
    @AR-cn6dr 3 роки тому +1

    What’s up brothers! Gotta leave the state out of it

  • @pinglankek
    @pinglankek 3 роки тому +4

    every girl says, oh i dont just sleep with a guy i just met, then they sleep with me instantly, and go on im the only one, but it was the same story for every other guy. My last ex gf i dated for 2.5 years said ''im not easy, im very hard and want to have emotions for t he guy i have sex with''.
    I met her through a friend and we added snaps online, i sent her one pic and the bag was sealed :D. And the guys before me almost had it just as easy too... Women just talk, and everything that comes out of their mouth is the opposite many times

    • @carlgonzalez3337
      @carlgonzalez3337 Рік тому

      You sent her a dickpic?

    • @bedadays1763
      @bedadays1763 Рік тому

      I disagree only the guys she really likes the look of.She won't be easy for guys she thinks lack in the looks department

  • @realcorkdan
    @realcorkdan 3 роки тому

    play em at there own game , and watch your game skyrocket 💪

  • @kingdingaling9756
    @kingdingaling9756 3 роки тому

    LFA sipping on Viking's meade

  • @overlordborn6131
    @overlordborn6131 3 роки тому +2

    Driveway video but a bottle of good beer was missing. Anyway really helpful video ,but isn't it always hard to be those type of guys, even though I tried, but still they can see the truth out of you.

  • @KingQov
    @KingQov 2 роки тому

    You are totally correct about marriage. These fools can't even understand their own biblical texts. It's sad.

  • @bellavita3097
    @bellavita3097 11 днів тому

    I haven’t listen to this one yet, but can we get some mortar for the brick?🙊☺️

  • @mza131313
    @mza131313 3 роки тому +3

    Based

  • @GANGULENCE
    @GANGULENCE 3 роки тому

    How true...

  • @amir.2000
    @amir.2000 3 роки тому +1

    The Boss

  • @jglawrence6973
    @jglawrence6973 3 роки тому +3

    And...the truth bomb series...

  • @samweirich5973
    @samweirich5973 3 роки тому +10

    LFA on his way to becoming the next Joe Rogan....

    • @scarlettbear4885
      @scarlettbear4885 3 роки тому +2

      That gay migdet? No way. LFA is above his league.

  • @kanedalo2822
    @kanedalo2822 3 роки тому

    TRUE TRUE TRUUUUEEEE

  • @tyronetraviesworkout
    @tyronetraviesworkout 3 роки тому +13

    My goal is to have status and be the sledgehammer all in one bro