my coming out story | high school | Bluenbroke | Lesbian coming out | LGBTQIA +

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  • Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
  • My coming out story throughout school and high school was quite a journey full of deceit and denial. This being a long journey for me to get to where I am today means this is only part 1...
    Part 2 to follow in the coming weeks with a lot more to share on self discovery and acceptance.
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    Look forward to seeing you in the same place, same time- next week!

КОМЕНТАРІ • 55

  • @livesdifferentlylived
    @livesdifferentlylived Рік тому +46

    Can’t believe you started with “I just want to be straight with you “. Words become so embedded don’t they. I actually have tremendous respect for you. You and Millie are wonderful.

  • @Chellie_Ester
    @Chellie_Ester Рік тому +23

    Kate really said "let's get straight in to it" whilst telling a coming out story 😭

  • @charlietao-x9h
    @charlietao-x9h 3 місяці тому +2

    the "whos the most popular boy? i should probably like him" hits deep

  • @Abigail-cj7lt
    @Abigail-cj7lt Рік тому +35

    So proud of you and who you are!! Watching the real you blossom out of the ‘closet’ that our tiny village puts us in has been so lovely. You are amazing ❤️

    • @Abigail-cj7lt
      @Abigail-cj7lt Рік тому +3

      You are an inspiration to young people and “the only lesbian couple that school has ever seen” mood.

  • @feuersterngaming6002
    @feuersterngaming6002 Рік тому +10

    Your story sounds exactly like mine. I'm still questioning, but I also present masculine (except my hair, still looking for a good short haircut for me) and nearly all my friends are guys, and I love football. There were hard times and jokes about me, but at the moment it's okay.
    Your story is really interesting and inspiring, thanks for sharing 🙌

  • @lilykat.
    @lilykat. Рік тому +8

    Thank you for sharing :) My timeline goes:
    Middle school: I'm so bi
    First hear of high school: I'm very gay.
    The rest of high school: I'm pan ace! (dated the same cishet ace guy for three years)
    Now, second year of college: lesbian flags in my dorm, a bi flag with a big question mark on it in my brain, and rainbow flags on as many things as I can own and still hide from my mother.
    Still not sure if I was ever really in love with that guy or if I was in love with the validation and sensuality. I thought I was attracted to him, but was I just horny? Was I glued to him physically and digitally because I needed a comforting figure? I keep getting what I think are crushes on guys, but are they compulsory, am I just obsessed with the fact that I'm desirable, am i just turned on by a few specific characteristics separate from who they are as a person and not actually attracted to them, do i just get excited that i might find somebody i can be sensual with? Why do I keep having little friends to lovers fantasies about my female friends? Why do some things about guys still turn me on? Dude, I don't know what's going on.

  • @nic-zr9sq
    @nic-zr9sq Рік тому +22

    thank you so much for sharing ur story!!

  • @zoecrouse6064
    @zoecrouse6064 Рік тому +11

    You are an inspiration to a lot of us ❤ this story is amazing and im so glad that you felt comfortable to share it ❤

  • @irregular_kid13
    @irregular_kid13 Рік тому +8

    Let’s get *straight* into it

  • @livesdifferentlylived
    @livesdifferentlylived Рік тому +10

    Love the prom outfit!! You’re so brave. Good for you v

  • @microwave5580
    @microwave5580 Рік тому +8

    Yes now I get to learn more about you! Thanks for inspiring me!

  • @workingchemisthahah
    @workingchemisthahah Рік тому +6

    Firstly, thank you so much for sharing with us! It's really sweet and just a pleasant video to watch

  • @slendi9816
    @slendi9816 Рік тому +8

    I LOVVVVVVEEEEEE YOUR VIDIOS !!!♡
    when I was 7 or 8 I remember that one day after school me and my girl best friend ( i'm a girl) went to her house and since no one was there and we were at a stupid age we were wondering how it feels to kiss or make out so we kinda did it and in the middle of this whole thing were we were making out her mother came in she just looked at us and got out of the room saing nothing 😂 idk why I'm writing this but yea.....

  • @aimeemiller9875
    @aimeemiller9875 Рік тому +2

    I have so much respect for you and watch your content every day. Thank you so much for sharing your story, you are definitely an inspiration. And you looked amazing in your prom outfit

  • @aprilausthetic443
    @aprilausthetic443 Рік тому +1

    I’m not gay but I love these coming out story’s because I see it as people growing and discovering themselves some story’s are pretty juicy too

  • @cutestcandyfloss9013
    @cutestcandyfloss9013 9 місяців тому

    This is so amazing thank you so much for sharing this, this has helped so much!!! 😁 your such an inspiration ❤️

  • @ninahempstead1251
    @ninahempstead1251 Рік тому +2

    You looked amazing at prom, my parents and I still talk about how great you looked! Best dressed, no contest

  • @ZoellaFischerVA
    @ZoellaFischerVA Рік тому +1

    very meaningful video. Thank you for sharing your story, that was insightful

  • @Puppetry-playverse
    @Puppetry-playverse 8 місяців тому

    I just found this, and yet I'm happy i did.

  • @slime_community
    @slime_community Рік тому

    You are so cool! But as a german teenie I can say : I learned much more in this video as I ever will lern in a lesson biology!

  • @YouCanCallmeNet
    @YouCanCallmeNet Рік тому +6

    I have such a hard time with accents! I had to listen so hard to every word lol
    But I loved it !
    And I'm so happy that you are in such a good place in your life right now. You truly look happy 🙂
    Looking forward to part 2 !

    • @YouCanCallmeNet
      @YouCanCallmeNet Рік тому

      @Ville What is gross ?

    • @YouCanCallmeNet
      @YouCanCallmeNet Рік тому

      @Ville Wow...why are you even here then ?

    • @YouCanCallmeNet
      @YouCanCallmeNet Рік тому

      @Ville so you delete your comments , insulting her, now you're trying to get to me. Go away, I'm done responding to someone that has such low intelligence. One more comment to me and I'll report you.

    • @YouCanCallmeNet
      @YouCanCallmeNet Рік тому

      @Bluenbroke this person going by the name @Ville has insulted you twice, then has deleted his comments. I've responded to his comments twice, I think he needs to go.

  • @grillbesteck6319
    @grillbesteck6319 Рік тому +7

    Yay new video!

  • @helinio.7861
    @helinio.7861 Рік тому +1

    I big fan of you . Youre so perfect person

  • @MuhammadSajjad-oo9mw
    @MuhammadSajjad-oo9mw Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing.you are so so sweet

  • @charlistudioedit8050
    @charlistudioedit8050 Рік тому +1

    I love your style cool shirt

  • @shilpisaha6422
    @shilpisaha6422 Рік тому +3

    You are SO CUTE 😳 my heart is beating at 28827272727272 Miles per second maam 😳

  • @MillieMclay
    @MillieMclay Рік тому +5

    I love you beautiful ❤ SLAYER

  • @melon_milkteakay
    @melon_milkteakay Рік тому

    Not the Hannah Montana refferences-

  • @liv1078
    @liv1078 Рік тому

    I have the same issue. I think that I'm gay but male validation is so important to me. I'm with this one guy and have been with him for a year and a half. I love him romantically but, i just dont feel the spark anymore. I love that he loves me but i have a major interest in women. Im scared to tell him this because this is my longest relationship so far and I'm terrified that no one will treat me as well as he did. He's my best friend but i domt feel like he should be my boyfriend..

  • @Guest-tu8ke
    @Guest-tu8ke 5 місяців тому

    Elementary: had a few boyfriends but felt nothing, js didn't want to ruin friendships, so played along with it. Crushed on a girl for 1 year
    Middle: continued to crush on the same girl, 7th I confessed and she was straight and told our whole school. So I'm single now, but I like this other straight girl that I think I'm losing feelings for. Oh and I'm masc too. I want to cut my hair short and my parents won't let me😊. Have a good day

  • @v6l_
    @v6l_ Рік тому +3

    SLAYYYYYY

  • @wafflez_wasfound
    @wafflez_wasfound Рік тому +4

    YASSS SLAY

  • @V_0737
    @V_0737 Рік тому +3

    SLAYYYYYY 🫶

  • @haruruben
    @haruruben Рік тому +1

    She looks like young Alyssa Milano 😊

  • @jinglebellsmycroftsmells
    @jinglebellsmycroftsmells Рік тому +1

    GREAT VIDEO you're amazing!!!
    but
    i still use tumblr. it is my only social media. i am very insulted

  • @mollykimball7261
    @mollykimball7261 Рік тому

    If I where your friend I would support you because I used to be a lesbian

  • @kpopfantomboy3
    @kpopfantomboy3 Рік тому +1

    I want to cut my hair but my parents don't allow.

    • @noa-ix9pe
      @noa-ix9pe Рік тому +1

      Just do it, what are they gonna do abt it, reattach it? xD

  • @Lea_does_art
    @Lea_does_art Рік тому +1

    Unrelated, but um as a closeted genderfluid how can u get a less femme haircut without explaining why to ur parents?❤

    • @ethanholbrook1469
      @ethanholbrook1469 Рік тому

      Maybe you could say "oh I saw it online and think it looks cool" or try to find actor/someone famous with the haircut you want and say "I thought they looked cool with it and wanted it" those are my ideas for you (ps sorry if it's bad advice)

  • @kkarax1790
    @kkarax1790 Рік тому +2

    hi first

  • @obliviate1953
    @obliviate1953 Рік тому

    I love the video, but please, darling slow down:)

  • @sparkee.
    @sparkee. Рік тому +1

    I thought you were American 😭

  • @smobilson1359
    @smobilson1359 Рік тому +2

    Omg Bri'ish 🤮
    Wooooooooohooooooo
    /s

  • @lillipad_frog
    @lillipad_frog Рік тому +1

    I’ve been following a Brit what the fuck 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 (Irish person obv)