4 Money Beliefs That Limit Your Wealth Inside and Out w/ Kate Northrup
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- Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
- Know your worth to get over your money anxieties and start living abundantly. In this video, you'll learn from Kate Northrup the four money beliefs that keep you broke, and what you can do to change them.
Belief #1: Someone else should/will do this for me. This belief gives another person your power. Instead, know your worth and believe that you're capable of solving your own financial problems, like getting out of debt.
Belief #2: I'm not good with money. This belief only holds you back. We've all learned the skills we have, and being "good" with money is one of them. Know your worth and understand that your beliefs become your actions, and your actions become your life. Pay attention to your money and you'll start to build a better relationship with it.
Belief #3: People with money are greedy OR it's not spiritual to have money. When we have a negative judgment against others, our subconscious will never allow us to have that abundance we're judging because we believe it's negative. Know your worth and your worthiness to have abundance, and understand that money is just a tool to trade value for value.
Belief #4: I'm not ____ enough. This thought takes you out of the game. No one will value you more than you value yourself -- know your worth and begin to put your attention on what you value about yourself and the ways you bring value to the world. Write down three of these things before bed each night so that you begin to grow that muscle.
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“If you free yourself financially, you can be fully present to your purpose on the planet”! 🙌🏼 precisely!
What is holding me back is. the belief that I am not smart enough to take care of my money issues
Money beliefs that have been holding me back: "Money is scarce." "That's expensive."
When I spend money, I will start to look at it as a transaction of value. I am giving money in order to receive something that I value. I will remind myself every day that I am valuable and abundant. I attract money into my life because I add an abundance of value to the world and the people around me!
Thank you for sharing this knowledge and encouragement!
I love this!!!! I'm going to 1. start checking my bank account balance every day and practice gratitude for three things of value in my life, and 2. think of myself as having worth and adding value to others' lives.
“I will become more prosperous to the degree that I add value to someone's life.”
Right! Living is giving
You posted this 9 years ago and it’s the message and actionable items I needed today in 2023. Thank you Marie and Kate!
So glad you enjoyed it Erin! :) May this start and continue a journey of financial abundance. 💗 - Monauar, Team Forleo
My limiting money belief is that someone else has to qualify you (or you have to have another degree etc) before you can ask for more money or increase your abundance. I think Kate's last tip about recording how you add value will be an awesome way to smash that belief on its ass!
Wow..."3 things you value yourself and 3 things you add value to somebody that day"...write them in your journal...that is such a revelation. i started writing Daily Journal because of my Dad's passing last months when he wrote on 12/17/2015 in his journal "i thank my son (me) whom took me to happy birthday breakfast this morning". i wrote only about whatz up what's happenning but never about others or people i add value to...
My negative money belief is that I don't think I have enough money to grow a successful business. The way I've been tackling it is writing a list of every single thing I can do to improve my money with the finances that I do have. Thanks for this video, it gave me a new perspective!
First time watching, tremendous personality and voice Marie ✨💋🌹✨
07:25mins onwards
1) having the mentality that someone will save you financially... 😒
2) "I'm not good with money" 08:40
Solution: check ur balance, pay attention, make a budget, give gratitude.
3) I'm not _____ enough 😑
You are more than enough
Solution: journal 📓3 things you value about urself and how u added value in someone's life that particular day 💥
If we're not seeing our worth, we're not going to get the value and exchange for that- very true quote.
Lillie Thomas II 😍😍😍😍😍😍💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
And I loved how Kate talked about spending $ on workshops. Buying "spiritual" growth products is basically the same as buying designer clothes, just camouflaging it
Something that's been holding me back is the belief that money is hard to get and there isn't much of it. Thanks to these videos I'm opening up my mind and realizing money is only as hard to get as I make it. I'm reminding myself that it actually ISNT hard to get and there is PLENTY to go around. Thanks guys!
I have been working on changing this thing I say all the time... "I'm not a lucky person." Though I have always held that I make my own luck... Just saying out loud that I'm not a lucky person seems to be a terrible thing that stands in my way. I feel this is part of the "Not being enough" concept that I do know plagues me. So there it is I AM A LUCKY PERSON, because I am enough, I am smart enough, I am strong enough,I am committed enough, and I really deserve good things... AND I DO make my own LUCK!!
One belief that's holding me back, "One can't make a living doing what one likes to do, unless you're extremely lucky"
I could try (& look into it)
Jake I have a free test you can take if you'd like it will give you a glimpse into some of your top money blocks. Let me know ifyou want me to send it to you.
speaking of loving yourself....I have a great story. My nephew asked his 6 year old son why he is so happy ALL the time. His response: "Because I love myself"
At 6 years old, he's got it figured out already!
Betty Sheppard It is great how kids offer more wisdom than what we give them credit for, thanks for sharing this, you made me smile (:
This is gold! That little boy has a lot to teach us all.
- Jillian, Team Forleo
I always have this fear deep inside of me when it comes to looking at my bank account or looking at the amount of debt I owe due to school. When I look at my bank account I right away compare it to the amount of debt I owe crumbling inside I start to think 'I will never get through this debt' or 'I need more money to even make a dent in my debt and still be happy doing things I love to do in life'. This video has changed the way I think and I have made my first financial budget planning out how I can control my debt and still be who I am and do what I love!!! Thank you for your guidance and amazing conversations!!!!!!
OH MY GOSH, THIS VIDEO COMPLETELY SPOKE LIFE RIGHT INTO ME!!!!! It is literally one of those videos where my eyes and ears completely perked up, even though I do not share the same money beliefs discussed on this video, what Kate Northrup was saying was COMPLETLEY what I needed to hear today, so thank you for creating this video and interviewing her!!!!
Love you both. Thank you for these points. I know my ‘mantra’ is I need ($20,000) to do what I need to do to become successful. Whatever amount of money I determine I NEED to have to (1) become successful, (2) start the road to success (3) extract myself from an abusive environment is ALWAYS 100x more than I have...
If I BELIEVE the universe will support me in my steps toward my goals, that could be the action I could take... Move forward (somehow) as if ..
Thanks for telling the truth lady.
My re-occurring thought is- "There's not enough. I don't have enough. It's going to run out, its not going to last."
Steph Gallo ask yourself, how much would be enough? then work on it. eveything is transient - the bad thoughts as well. good luck ;)
Thank you!
yeah, those are the thoughts to let go of...let just pass through your mind and then counter with the complete opposite thoughts until the opposite thoughts are the ones that pop up more in your mind. If you worry about those things and think those thoughts, you can only continually attract the same things you think. Hope in the past 10 mos. you've found a way to think different and attract differently. If not, employ the method above immediately and change your life. Lack is a lie. the energy of life is abundance until we are born into a life where people have poverty mentality and/or we have a poverty mentality. We can have an abundant mentality and find that things flow into our life that have less to do with money and more to do with 'having everything we need and want in abundance'.
Me!! This and the fear/belief that I can't make money
"No one will value you more, than you value yourself." Powerful quote. Great information Marie and Kate. Thanks.
It is a powerful quote, however, it is not correct. Fortunately, there are people who see value in others and their contributions. And there CAN be people who value someone more than they value themselves. And I'm sure if you think about it, you've heard or whitnessed those stories, too. Yes, there might not be man of them. And most of the time its our close friends and relatives. But even "out in the world" there can be strangers, who value what you have to offer. It's just that you shouldn't rely on these few people to show up. But in my opinion, it's not good to cement the believe that those people can't or won't exist at all. When you meet one of these, be open and grateful.
Just sounds like a load of crap to me.
It's not their original quote either
My belief is always "its not enough!" "This amount won't cover everything I want"
It's time to change this. I thank every cent that comes my way because it ALL adds up!
I just went through my debts and totalled them up, also my monthly expenses.
One of my negative feelings about having money is my dad was stressed and sick all the time because of his business, and ended up retiring early.
I love the idea of writing down 3 things I value in myself and I can't remember the other part.
Checking my bank balance daily and taking responsibility were 2 great tips. I have handed over my money power, but it is not a safe place to be as I once thought. Thanks guys, will start the diary
"Wanting money is a shame. Wanting money is shallow." That's been holding me back. Thank you for your videos. I'm learning to building a good relationship with money. And learning to respect money.
Greetings Marie, just discovered your channel 18 minute ago, heartfelt topic that needed to be spoken about. This discussion definitely pierced through some stone-wall ideals I've somehow carried with me without awareness. The disguised for me was that those I'v deemed as financial stable had someone to help them along the way! My resolve to the matter is, I desire a better story then suffering without a cause. We all go through challenges BECAUSE we are advancing to a better version of ourselves. You BOTH have been enlightening the process. Thanks
we don't turn on our full potential because we think someone else will take care of it...good stuff.
1: That I am not good, skilled, or at the same level as the people that make enough money ("enough") according to my own standards. Like money was somehow out of my reach. But this value exchange just shifted my perspective. I feel like a click was made in my heart and head.
2: Well the first action would be to sign up on a platform to put my art-work out there and basically offer value to the world. I will also continue with some classes to increase my value.
My holding back belief is that if I charge for all of the time that I'm putting in, the customer will leave because they are spending too much money, so I don't charge for all of my time.
Ive done that as well!
What holds me back is the belief that I am not wanted not supported not safe not free... So journal out 21 days Freedom here I come 💔💜💖💟
Thank you for putting this into words that brought a tear to my eyes when I felt it also. The first thing to fix a problem is to know what the problem is. May we all realize how very valuable we are.
Before listening, I wasn't sure I had any of these counter-productive beliefs but I do. I identified with several of them. Great tips. Thank you! Already shared with BFFs.
I love how these are small & doable tasks that can really make a huge difference other than BIG tasks that can feel way too overwhelming to start off with.
Be real and truthful and learn to be better with money, wow! love this!
I love these women. Not only they talk about money, they akso talk about virtues. They are classy, polite, relaxed. I like that. What is inside manifests outside. That is the fruit of right spirit.
Money without love, humility, forgiveness, peace, generosity, kindness, respect etc...cannot bring happiness.
I truly loved watching your video Marie with your guest Kate.I am quite good at earning money but poor in saving.From today I am going to change this belief and start making affirmations that I am a saver.I will start looking at my bank account everyday ,to spend less than I save.Thank you so much Marie.Lots of love and prayers. (Remy from Mumbai India)
My negative belief is that pursuing more money will take away the little bit of peace I have managed to find exactly where I am. More money means more stress, more responsibility, less family time and less happiness at this point in time. I am dealing with it by thinking of the ways that money will add to my life and recognizing that I will still have free time when I am earning more.
Looking at my bank account with an abundance and gratitude mindset is going to be my new daily ritual. I hope to apply this to my monthly small biz book-keeping as well, making it a ritual of love and apprecation! Thank you for this intervew!
I think this is my absolute fave MarieTV video! I'm pretty sure what's holding me back from fulfilling my best potential is the fact that I'm afraid of not having money and thinking I'm not good with money at the same time. Money is always a topic I swerve around or try to think about indirectly. I've never been in a place of financial freedom (mentally or otherwise) so a constant fear and apprehension lurks around.
What a fantastic video!
Thank you, Kate and marie
I love the idea of looking at my accounts and feeling abundance! And telling myself I AM GOOD with money, especially my retirement accounts.
'saving' and being cheap is the belief that was holding me back. When I was younger I didn't invest in outings with my friends enough and travels. Because of that I didn't have friends to help when I needed it. Money is just a tool. experience and social network is just as valuable.
Thank you for sharing! This was a powerful interview. For me, a money limiting belief I have is related to how life is supposed to be: "life is about survival", so I am noticing that I end up having just enough to keep moving, but honestly, it is not enough. I am starting to change my habits now :)
We're so proud of you, Saraj! We know you've got this, and we're sending you all the love and support as you "keep moving" - you've got the secret sauce right there. 💪💖
This is so amazing not just on the money side of it but in valuing and empowering yourself to think better. Next semester I am eligible for internships but I keep looking at companies and think I am not good enough to apply or they'll shoot me down. This has been another big eye opener for me! Thanks again Marie!
I'd been avoiding checking my business account....I watched this and checked it....extra unexpected money had gone in....now I check it every day thanks!
GREAT advice!
Thank you. Profoundly grateful for this episode. One money belief holding me back is my past. I am from a small town of poverty, welfare, and breeding like wild fire. Although I haven't lived there for almost 18 years and have found my purpose I am still holding myself back from earning income. Logically I know that I am not my past, I have cut chords in meditations, yet still when it comes to connecting to receiving money I my throat chakra swells and feel like I'm swallowing a rock. You are giving me tools to begin healing a painful money past and began living in the value of my potential and values. Just by watching you two do it!
I have many money beliefs holding me back. 1. I can't start a business because I don't have a unique product to sell and also I'm not a good marketer.
2. What I studied in university has no job openings
3. This you already mentioned it; my mum will take care of it.
MakkiNjeri I am guilty of numbers 2 and 3 :(
Love this channel Marie!
Patricia Bright xifzz
belief #4 reminds me of the point behind the Parable of the Talents, which is; "use the assets you have got, and stop staring yourself blind by looking at the ones you don't have". In the parable, the bad servant was given 17.5 kilos of gold to play with! This is close on seven hundred thousand USD to invest, - which is start-capital enough for any self-respecting small business entrepreneur. But he was so busy comparing himself to the other two (who had been given 2 million USD and 3.5 million respectively), that instead of valuing the fortune he actually had and doing something with it, he buried his 17.5 kilos in a field and did nothing with it. In the meantime his fellow servants had increased their portfolios 100%!
Great Information.
I love this; every time I pay attention to finances regularly, my income increases. But I thought that I have to look at my full balance sheet and it is a bit overwhelming. But looking in my checking and savings accounts as well as my credit card, it's so much easier to do, and I will set a daily alarm to do so. A huge thank you!! xoxo
Watching videos like these have made me aware of where I have come up with my beliefs and how to banish them.
I've made strides in this past year and everything you have discussed here is changing EVERYTHING in my life for the better. I am well on my way to MORE success. I am healthier which is on the top of my list of abundance. My relationships are getting fine tuned in a better way. I am already a business woman and the wealth and good business decisions are rising......the sky is the limit :)
I love your videos....thanx for such wonderful tools and insight....I am truly grateful :)
There used to be this belief of not being enough, of being worthless. I've become a long way with that but that beautiful practice Kate was talking about (writing down three things that one has done well that day) is something I'm totally going to try out. I can already feel how powerful that's going to be. Thank you for this video, it was really helpful to me. Love and greetings from Finland
I have had 2 beliefs: Who's got the money is the one to blame and the other one is that I was scared of money: what to do about it- keep shining and offering the value to my people!!
Yay!!!! Love it girlfriend! Xx moneeeey I love learning about money!!!!
A belief that keep holding me back is "you're going to have a huge unhappiness feeling and mental pressure when you have a lot of money" coz I saw many ppl around me was unhappy even when they have a load of money. And I'm trying to relearn about living in abundance including watching this. Coz actually I have a lot to feel abundance for, but lately, i seems forget about it. And I really think that I'm not living my life and not being myself because I was trapped with my financial situation right now. Thanks for this topic that you brought up, this really help me to understand better of respecting the value of myself
This video come on my feed for a reason and at the right time.
My limiting belief: I am not smart/clever enough to make a lot of money or enjoy wealth. (one of the limiting phrases that Kate mentioned in the video!) And the most ironic part of this is that I have held jobs where my sales record is the highest in the company! But my upbringing and going back to my family business and falling back into our old family roles and dynamics has been killing my self-esteem. I am taking action now from Marie's videos to own my self-worth, to believe that I can make good money and eventually have wealth, and to say bye bye to my family business and be bold enough to pursue my own business.
Great video! There's this thing people can do to help get rid of their CCs faster: Debt Snowball. You start with the smallest balance card first, add a set amount of extra you're paying on it every month. When it's paid off, move that amount of payment over to the next credit card. The amount of money you're paying on each goes up exponentially as the smaller one is paid off.
I love talking about money. I agree it is a tool to get things done. And I agree that $$ is neither negative nor positive. It's a vehicle to show up more fully in our purpose. Excellent interview & insight.
My limiting belief is that my student loans are so massive and will take so long to pay off, that's its not worth even trying. To counter that, I'm applying to refinance them today, and stopping to stress about them so I can free my mind to come up with creative money generating solutions.
And please vote Bernie Sanders for president, he has a program to forgive all student debt. Good luck!
Amazing, I grew up a coptic orthodox christian and they keep on saying "the love of money is the root of all evil" now I understand it doesn't literally mean that way, and that it means loving money for selfish unhealthy reasons is the root of all evil. As for money and spirituality was still kind of a limiting belief to me because again I grew up in an environment that denies anything materialistic and life joys and in the same time says it's okay to go after getting better financially and it caused me confusion to be honest, but as Kate said I'm going to start seeing money as a way of adding value now.
Thanks Marie and Kate :)
I believe that I wasn't taught to know how to deal with money management. I know that I am ready to make a change because i'm taking steps to learn, instead of relying on the belief that I don't know. I made the action of signing up on mint.com. This was super helpful because I am now able to see all my assets (and debt at once). I am ready to take control, because I have the ability to learn instead of staying in the dark!
I really love the breakdown of transaction. Money is just an exchange of value. It is a very obvious point but I believe I'm speaking for many when I say that is easy to forget.
I vow to try to always remember to recognize my worth and check my bank account balance everyday and give gratitude for ways my life is abundant.
Thank you!
The self love/ self value thing was absolutely priceless! love it! Totally using it
I found your show a few days again. You've added so much value to my life in just a few days. Thank You!
Really like the comment made about judgment will never allow us to have the prosperity we want. Good thing to keep in mind.
I’ve been debt free a couple times and STILL didn’t find my purpose when I was completely debt free...soooo I ended up getting into debt once again...and again!😩 I’m in the process of paying it off again..for the LAST TIME! I’m older and wiser and finally ok with living within my means!
Wasn't my belief to begin with but one I've been told by my family (as recent as a year ago & I'm over 50 - damn, give it a rest already!) is that I am bad with money, always have been, always will be. Brings up such sadness. I am trying to move past it but honestly, have no idea. I tap, meditate & try to think positively.
This is so enlightening on so many levels. Money, you just have to learn how to treat it and it will treat you great in return. Ladies you are beautiful. Kate is just the most gorgeous blonde lady I ve seen in quite some time.
Great episode. I think my greatest limiting money belief is that I have to do things I don't like doing (usually boring things) in order to make money.
Katrina, this is a good one.
Uh! Thats a really good one! I will remind myself to this, thank you!
I watched this video last night and knew it needed a second viewing so I had breakfast with you two this morning! I definitely struggle with believing that I am enough and love the actionable advice to write down three ways I added value every day. I have a day planner on my nightstand now specifically for that purpose...giving attention to the positive actions I'm already taking so that more will come!
I feel like the debt I have is overwhelming and impossible to get out of. I'm so ready for a new belief because I can't stand my negative self talk. I'm actually sick of myself and after watching this video I'm laughing cuz it's clearly so possible to get out. Thank you for this, I'm leaving my house early today to grab something nice for the salon I go to. #giving
tai moore Don't give up!!! I know how you feel. WE can do it! ❤️
@tai moore - it's always possible to achieve more :) laughing about it's great and then take action - sending energy of strength, courage and support to you!
Check this book out...it can help :D
www.amazon.com/Unlimited-Possibilities-Forever-destructive-beliefs-ebook/dp/B00N265SMO
tai moore hey and how is it going? good luck! 😊
Look up Debt Snowball videos. Dave Ramsey is the guy that came up with it.
Rich is an understatement Marie. Great interview!
Marie Forleo. Powerful Woman. Xx. I Love you!!
First off, I've stumbled across your site by accident. I cannot express how lucky I am to do so! Your videos and blogs are helping me to look at myself honestly. Though uncomfortable most of the time, it is a task I must do to not only recognize issues I face or don't face, but to also make the necessary steps to change myself and my future. Thank you Marie!
In response to your video, "Change Your Money Beliefs", I feel that I am not smart enough to do anything. I appreciate the suggestions made by Kate Northrup in keeping a value journal and writing three things that I value about myself, or the value I add to others' lives. With this, I look forward to gaining the confidence to move forward and making bigger steps towards my goals.
A side note, I'll be watching your videos and reading your blogs daily. It really helps me to face my fears and to discredit the lies I tell myself. Once again, thank you, thank you, thank you!
My mindset has never kept me "broke" - but I'm 100% sure I have an artificial ceiling on me. I grew up middle class and I subconsciously have been told from birth that money is shameful, and you're evil if you have it.
Paying attention pays off!!!! Loved that, i'm going to look at my bank account daily, i've realized i'm constantly avoiding looking at it
Great episode!!! Thank you
I think my greatest limiting money belief is that I always doubting myself 😰
Tell the Truth. Yes! I know this to be true after doing this for myself years ago.
My money belief that's holding me back is 'I'm not the kind of person who has money'. But I'm changing it! :)
I agree... Money is a tool... nothing less nor more. How you use it is the issue. Best to use it for service for yourself, for your family, for your community and for your deity/Deity (obviously a benevolent one).
7:20 gets you past introductions and framing and right to the beliefs
Here's a great tip on #2. I have a Bank of America account and have set up all my accounts to send me a daily alert of my balance. It goes to my email and my phone BAMM! I'm constantly reminded to manage my finances daily. And because so many things are on auto pay, it's definitely saved me from overdrafts when my rotating account gets low. I also set up low balance alerts - if my accounts get under a certain balance, it alerts me. Of course, the intention is to keep increasing this balance and you'll find you'll make more and more money to keep it at the balance.
Did u set this up on your app or thru the bank?
I sent this up online. It comes through as an email notification. I do have the bank app too which let's me do any immediate transfers or other actions. I did it for all my accounts, and they all come over close together so I CAN'T miss the alert which makes it top of mind daily.
Thank you ladies.. I am really grateful for those 4 guidelines to improve relationship
Love this. I'm so grateful I discovered this video 🙏🙏🙏
This was AWESOME!
I have a thousand pounds put aside in the bank through a job that is under paying me and the idea /ethics of this wealthy Buiness is a false to clients. I am greatly uncomfortable and uninspired with how they are operating and they don't care to hear my idea or anyone else's. I get motivated by seeing why I want to do in my Buiness even more. Im trying to save for my Masters and start back up my online Buiness Which I had to abandon as my father whom I lived with we got evicted and I was homeless for two months. I'm not bad with money I KNOW WHAT I WANT which is to inspire people and have integrity with my Buiness and myself. At times I doubt my self like this morning. But this excellent video has shaken me up to try to think positive.
i grew up in such a way that it was insanely important, especially for women, to be modest. if money is important to you, you are selfish, greedy, stingy, dogged, anything negative you can imagine. i gave away so much money in my life, really gave it away to prove to myself that i'm not selfish. it was such a deep conviction of me that it took years until i dindnt feel bad and guilty anymore when i was asking a friend to give me back the money i had borrowed him.
One belief I have gotten better at but is STILL holding me back it that I believe I am not worthy of spending money on myself OR I always sort of minimize the value I provide with my business. My main employer is my older sister so it makes things mushy. BUT the ONE thing I will do is keep the journal that was talked about. It is really hard for me to do anything consistently for longer than about 12 days but I am going to try REALLY hard because I truly believe this will help me tremendously.
Thank you so much!!!
Rich discussion* pun intended.
Love kate's look, she's really pretty.
Limiting money belief- i dont have enough money to get started/ to invest in myself...
I will and have already invested in myself and will feel the fear but do it anyway. I just paid for a class on self improvement! havent started the class but i'm going to let the information and tools seep in and not think about the money spent but think of value coming in.
I'm also telling myself slowly that "I am the best investment I have". Sending you love Marie!
Charlie Cakes , you don't need a class. you have to define what investing means for you and what, how it will actually benefit you. education, travel, relationships with successful acquintances, experience, being helpful, impressing others with your abilities, getting out of your comfort zone, being responsible, watch how others became successful and try to imitate that
I will start to journal every day the 3 things I did that added value to me or others.
WOW, belief 1 was good to hear someone say out loud. I don't feel so alone and crazy.
Like the 4th concept, it's extremely critical. Because one always have this, he has got a backup, or ancestral property or wealth.
Very inspiring. Simple rules to follow, but so impacting.
the belief that has held me back but no longer!!!! is that money is the root of all evil. it was great to hear it on your show that it money is spiritual as to how you use it. thanks!
Kate is so smart! Thanks Marie!
She has great parents
The change I've made is facing the numbers, and being patient.
My limiting belief. Someone else will take care of it. I will look at my bank account everyday and list 3 things that are abundant in my life at the same time.