Coming Out to Mom Live

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  • @notthat1130
    @notthat1130 4 роки тому +7972

    When she first said “is it something about your personality”. I knew that she already knew. This is a good mom

    • @Alex-ov5nq
      @Alex-ov5nq 4 роки тому +274

      it was when she said “whatever you have to tell me i still love you either way” i knew she knew😭

    • @lashondacambridge7259
      @lashondacambridge7259 4 роки тому +21

      Facts

    • @LadyRingi
      @LadyRingi 4 роки тому +38

      I love mothers, PARENTS that will support their child no matter what🥺🖤

    • @rainb5987
      @rainb5987 4 роки тому +24

      Yeah. Mothers have good instinct like mine. My Mom already knew it as far as I remember.

    • @asnider3155
      @asnider3155 4 роки тому +4

      TOTALLY!

  • @Luna-pj8xi
    @Luna-pj8xi 6 років тому +10575

    "Don't be sorry, I want you to be happy" I love this woman

    • @yvngsplittz6155
      @yvngsplittz6155 5 років тому +8

      deleted channel no it’s not

    • @btsbtm
      @btsbtm 5 років тому +4

      deleted channel wtf

    • @alphasunshine7267
      @alphasunshine7267 5 років тому +7

      My mom is the opposite

    • @CdnCwby09
      @CdnCwby09 5 років тому +9

      I agree this mother is a rockstar with her reaction to her son telling her that he is gay

    • @dippyfresh8155
      @dippyfresh8155 5 років тому +2

      Austin Kaiser oh god I’m so sorry

  • @lavendercloroxbleach8419
    @lavendercloroxbleach8419 6 років тому +6012

    When he said sorry, I lost it. He was so scared and everything😭😭😭

    • @jacksonsguitar6187
      @jacksonsguitar6187 5 років тому +11

      Me to

    • @tianasparklez
      @tianasparklez 5 років тому +7

      deleted channel lol k

    • @shronk8007
      @shronk8007 5 років тому +11

      deleted channel in some countries but not all plus nothing is wrong with being gay

    • @coilguy25
      @coilguy25 5 років тому +3

      I did too. That made me cry.

    • @obitoUchiha-dy3yb
      @obitoUchiha-dy3yb 5 років тому

      Why do ya care I hate gay kids

  • @ivyivy2639
    @ivyivy2639 4 роки тому +3532

    him: "im sorry"
    mom: "dont be silly, i love you no matter what"
    my eyes: 🌊🌊🌊

  • @ThisisDanBell
    @ThisisDanBell 8 років тому +9610

    This woman is a saint.

    • @brianacast123
      @brianacast123 8 років тому +122

      his mothers so sweet every mother needs to be this way, by the way I love your videos I've always wanted to visit abandoned places but never have the guts and when I watch your videos I feel like I'm there and I love it :)

    • @badbittyerick
      @badbittyerick 8 років тому +19

      aren't you one of those explorer guys?

    • @187onasimp
      @187onasimp 8 років тому +11

      Woa it's Dan Bell

    • @susanaesmeraldaharogarcia4898
      @susanaesmeraldaharogarcia4898 7 років тому +10

      Ethentent yess agree I've been trying to come out for the longest time but idk how

    • @emmye595
      @emmye595 7 років тому +1

      Ethentent yes

  • @andrewconway9589
    @andrewconway9589 5 років тому +3344

    “Something about your own personality?” She totally knew

    • @rollydoucet8909
      @rollydoucet8909 4 роки тому +109

      If anybody knows you more than you know yourself, it's your mom.

    • @schem515
      @schem515 4 роки тому +13

      @@rollydoucet8909 and Google.

    • @firstnamelastname3201
      @firstnamelastname3201 4 роки тому +25

      @@schem515 Ah, yes the two all-knowing beings. *Google* and *Your Mom*

    • @mireenahesseltine419
      @mireenahesseltine419 4 роки тому +34

      She started with “you could never tell me something I wouldn’t stop loving you for” lmao. She knew

    • @robinbrown2256
      @robinbrown2256 4 роки тому +12

      She was waiting for him to tell her. She totally knew.

  • @biggrice4181
    @biggrice4181 4 роки тому +3740

    I can’t be the only person who got this video 4 years later

    • @matteo805
      @matteo805 4 роки тому +8

      Bigg Rice I got it today lol

    • @janovahlol
      @janovahlol 4 роки тому +1

      M2

    • @gabino5678
      @gabino5678 4 роки тому +7

      At this point, I can't be the only person who watched this video 4 years ago

    • @matteo805
      @matteo805 4 роки тому +3

      I watched it 4 years ago and today

    • @Pufflune
      @Pufflune 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah

  • @walkinonmars5379
    @walkinonmars5379 3 роки тому +1520

    As a parent, you’re supposed to love your children unconditionally. That’s what a true parent is.

    • @lisaestheticcc
      @lisaestheticcc 2 роки тому

      @@jimthegreat9989 get your homophobic ass out of here

    • @TheBiggestBruh
      @TheBiggestBruh 2 роки тому

      @@jimthegreat9989 Then you must be gay

    • @SuisLBC
      @SuisLBC Рік тому +1

      Not in Asian households it has to be earnt

    • @jjk_death_note
      @jjk_death_note 10 місяців тому +7

      🏳️‍🌈yes🏳️‍🌈

    • @bioman2007
      @bioman2007 5 місяців тому +2

      amen to this!

  • @lincolnhoffart8506
    @lincolnhoffart8506 4 роки тому +2641

    “Don’t be sorry silly!” Those words almost made me cry.

    • @charliehorsenm3446
      @charliehorsenm3446 3 роки тому +37

      Well it did make me cry like a baby. I just wanted to reach out to him and hug him and his wonderful mom! She is exactly what a real mom should be!

    • @normka223
      @normka223 3 роки тому +2

      Remove the 0 from you're like's 😳

    • @robinbrown2256
      @robinbrown2256 3 роки тому +4

      I can never get through this video without crying like a baby.

  • @rafaelluissantiago1017
    @rafaelluissantiago1017 7 років тому +2327

    My heart breaks when he said "i'm sorry"

    • @ida2958
      @ida2958 7 років тому +15

      Rafael Luis Santiago same

    • @kidd8k
      @kidd8k 7 років тому +21

      so did mine.

    • @skyefairy7119
      @skyefairy7119 7 років тому +22

      ikr, same

    • @nurikodb3915
      @nurikodb3915 7 років тому +38

      Rafael Luis Santiago Saying sorry because you are gay is like saying sorry you are alive...

    • @DryIceSoda
      @DryIceSoda 7 років тому +1

      Rafael Luis Santiago same..

  • @pixiekitten3306
    @pixiekitten3306 6 років тому +2666

    It breaks my heart that he felt the need to say "Im Sorry" he should never have to apologize

    • @williesoke4708
      @williesoke4708 5 років тому +11

      He should my mother would’ve kicked my ass I’m not but she would of if I was

    • @sonnysoke6327
      @sonnysoke6327 5 років тому

      Your fucking right I would willie

    • @kaylyn5840
      @kaylyn5840 5 років тому +24

      @@deletedchannel8869 Gay isn't wrong idiot.

    • @Michelle-ky8qt
      @Michelle-ky8qt 5 років тому +2

      @@deletedchannel8869
      And if you ignore what I wrote then you're an asshole because you know I'm right and your stupid,so instead of discriminate gay people go and educate yourself.

    • @bacicinvatteneaca
      @bacicinvatteneaca 5 років тому +2

      @M.V.P. people in sexual entertainment has nothing to do with the biological phenomenon of homosexuality, which is an expected occasional result of how heterosexuality develops.

  • @LEELOLKH
    @LEELOLKH 4 роки тому +2608

    Mom be like: If you told me you’re straight I would be surprised

    • @janicedcruz7861
      @janicedcruz7861 4 роки тому +6

      @green tuber yes:)

    • @elessar2777
      @elessar2777 4 роки тому +7

      @@emmanuel3566 No.

    • @BuriTechVids
      @BuriTechVids 3 роки тому +8

      @@emmanuel3566 Abour what sin are you talking about? Love?

    • @hsoj3
      @hsoj3 3 роки тому

      @@janicedcruz7861 No

    • @droidnautica
      @droidnautica 3 роки тому +2

      @@BuriTechVids oop-okay?

  • @icer8991
    @icer8991 5 років тому +4711

    “Its ok hun I knew you were”
    *Destruction: 100*

    • @benjy7578
      @benjy7578 4 роки тому +31

      Lmaooooo

    • @nou7911
      @nou7911 4 роки тому +118

      I know this is an emotional vid but damn that made me laugh.

    • @alexs1to
      @alexs1to 4 роки тому +12

      No u LMAOOO

    • @olman1760
      @olman1760 4 роки тому +14

      I’m not gay wtf

    • @alexs1to
      @alexs1to 4 роки тому +7

      Hun u sure?

  • @aneesussy
    @aneesussy 5 років тому +3923

    Boy: cries, I’m sorry
    His mum: don’t be sorry silly
    She is so nice

    • @rollydoucet8909
      @rollydoucet8909 4 роки тому +41

      He has absolutely nothing to be sorry about. It's wonderful that his mom was there to support him. I'll bet life got a bit easier for him after that.

    • @jamestheredengine7214
      @jamestheredengine7214 4 роки тому +25

      She's so nice because she doesn't hate gays? That's not being nice, that's being normal.

    • @aneesussy
      @aneesussy 4 роки тому +16

      James The Red Engine what I’m saying is that she is caring but lots of parents aren’t

    • @rollydoucet8909
      @rollydoucet8909 4 роки тому +13

      @@aneesussy We hired a guy at our business who had been kicked out of his home, because he was gay. Turned out to be one of our best employees.

    • @Ezequiel55vf
      @Ezequiel55vf 4 роки тому +8

      Yes the mom is so nice she has a good heart

  • @rolypolyzrkool5237
    @rolypolyzrkool5237 4 роки тому +2083

    when he said “im sorry” i cried like a lil babey >:(

    • @rainb5987
      @rainb5987 4 роки тому +19

      My Mom: I even fight your teachers and parents of your bullies just because of what they had done and you say sorry for being gay? Don't! I even kill for that.

    • @iglaviensis
      @iglaviensis 4 роки тому +8

      me too

    • @ProfessorxVile
      @ProfessorxVile 3 роки тому +8

      @@rainb5987 I don't think he was saying sorry for being gay, he was saying sorry for being worried about her reaction

    • @charliehorsenm3446
      @charliehorsenm3446 3 роки тому +7

      Me too! I wanted to reach out to him and hug him! Seems like such a wonderful kid! And the more gay people I encounter the more I admire them. They seem to almost universally be some of the kindest, most compassionate, caring, loving, thoughtful and truly decent, wonderful people I have ever encountered in my life.

    • @sunblue22
      @sunblue22 3 роки тому +6

      I am sobbing right now

  • @VinEllis
    @VinEllis 2 роки тому +1024

    I’m a 27 year old 6’3” 250 straight married man and a biker. This made me cry like like a baby. Nobody should ever have to feel shame for who they are and I absolutely applaud this mother.

    • @dev_peace_soul
      @dev_peace_soul 2 роки тому +27

      Thx for the support:)🙏🏼

    • @rhy.westerman
      @rhy.westerman 2 роки тому +23

      You’re great dude 🥹

    • @kels_x1414
      @kels_x1414 2 роки тому +25

      Um yeahhhhh the fact that u had to describe yourself and paint such an image in people's minds let me know you're not actually straight you're just trying to look and come across as tough 😂

    • @VinEllis
      @VinEllis 2 роки тому +66

      @@kels_x1414 and you strike me as a middle schooler lol

    • @Boothe_Outdoors
      @Boothe_Outdoors 2 роки тому +5

      @@VinEllis lmao!!😂😂😂

  • @pastamane
    @pastamane 8 років тому +14329

    You will never know what the original comment said

  • @AshleeRose
    @AshleeRose 9 років тому +2496

    your mom is amazing!!! this made me cry

    • @danielmcneil7
      @danielmcneil7 9 років тому +2

      AshuhLeeVlogs Mee tooo !!

    • @angelinaross1248
      @angelinaross1248 9 років тому +6

      Don't cry...
      Craft

    • @sy1150
      @sy1150 9 років тому

      Angelina Ross oh my god

    • @angelinaross1248
      @angelinaross1248 9 років тому +1

      seaweedbrain oh my chemical romance

    • @sy1150
      @sy1150 9 років тому +3

      Angelina Ross HAHAHA the phandom breaks me

  • @emilywright9083
    @emilywright9083 7 років тому +507

    MOST SUPPORTIVE MOM EVER ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-eb7pt2se8d
    @user-eb7pt2se8d 5 місяців тому +95

    My son wrote me a 2 page letter and handed it to me as he got out the car to go to work. I sat in my car before I drove off and read it and he explained in that letter that he was gay . I drove home with tears in my eyes with knowing how depressed he had been with trying to hide that he was gay and when i went to pick him up I told him I love him for who he is and I kinda knew from when he was about 5 that this maybe the outcome. I worry about the world being cruel but I’m always there for him.

    • @Владислав-м1к7у
      @Владислав-м1к7у 5 місяців тому +13

      reading that made my heart melt. I'm a russian gay kid, I wouldn't have ever expected my parents to accept the fact that I'm gay. Thank you for being a caring mother. Your son is blessed to have you, I believe the only thing that you can teach him is to learn to protect himself. Physically, mentally, I believe that it's possible. Thank you and may the universe energy protect you and your family.

    • @user-eb7pt2se8d
      @user-eb7pt2se8d 5 місяців тому +8

      @@Владислав-м1к7у thank you and I’m so sorry that you are going through that with your parents. Be strong and love yourself for who you are .

    • @Владислав-м1к7у
      @Владислав-м1к7у 5 місяців тому +1

      @@user-eb7pt2se8d by that I meant my parents accepted me in a way that I’ve never thought of what they would do it to me but thank you so much:)

    • @mickey_09
      @mickey_09 3 місяці тому +1

      U know u r an amazing mom

    • @joshfulcifan1015
      @joshfulcifan1015 Місяць тому

      You are an accepting and morally good parent.

  • @nooraishahkhan8575
    @nooraishahkhan8575 4 роки тому +1289

    The way he rests his head on his moms shoulder so naturally and just sobs so easily. He's clearly been waiting for that comfort from somebody. It's okay honey.🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @ant9531
      @ant9531 2 роки тому

      @@jimthegreat9989 dafuq wrong with you lmao

    • @samanthapalus1085
      @samanthapalus1085 10 місяців тому

      @@jimthegreat9989 Cry more weirdo.

  • @ohmy918
    @ohmy918 5 років тому +2029

    I wonder how he’s doing. It’s been 4 years

    • @d0wntownki2k
      @d0wntownki2k 4 роки тому +215

      I think this was older than 4 years ago. Not just the quality, but sorta the way his hair is styled. That style of hair was really popular in the 2000s.

    • @cavilslvt
      @cavilslvt 4 роки тому +61

      [클라우스] youraveragepisces yeah at the start of the video he says it was four years ago. do 8 years now since he came out ig

    • @_aidan__9366
      @_aidan__9366 4 роки тому +13

      Yea dude this was his last video

    • @warriorxvskairipa8375
      @warriorxvskairipa8375 4 роки тому +5

      AmDippy 😂😂

    • @randomguy3223
      @randomguy3223 4 роки тому +9

      AmDippy not cool

  • @Saraswatiji
    @Saraswatiji 7 років тому +214

    I just love his momma, what a sweet heart of a lady.

  • @FakruddinAli7777
    @FakruddinAli7777 4 роки тому +438

    That woman is literally an angel....I remember my mother warned me to behave straight when I was 6 or 7 years old, when I didn't even know what being gay is. I just wish my parents to accept me the way I am, if they do so, I'll get enough confidence to live openly and fight anyone else's bullying

    • @marchbros-bk9hp
      @marchbros-bk9hp 3 роки тому +11

      I’m sorry! You will come out gold on the other, and then nothing can stop you!!!

    • @wilhelminavonbismarck370
      @wilhelminavonbismarck370 3 роки тому +6

      You sound like you have alot of confidence, and I hope that you have everything you want out of life, honey, it’s who you are, PLEASE PLEASE be proud of who you are! 🥰

    • @SN-vn6wb
      @SN-vn6wb Рік тому +3

      wishing the best for you

  • @JessicaUzumaki
    @JessicaUzumaki 7 років тому +267

    Oh gosh, I love that you can hear the relief in her voice when he admits to being gay. She's like "Oh, that's it! Thank god!".

  • @tiffannyrachmania1215
    @tiffannyrachmania1215 6 років тому +715

    crying but still flips hair😂
    you must be really scared to tell her:( she is a real angel

  • @P3SIPredator
    @P3SIPredator 7 років тому +343

    It broke my heart to see him get so scared, and then apologized.

  • @Cynthiagirouard
    @Cynthiagirouard 4 роки тому +667

    That's gonna be me when I'm a mom, always supportive and accepting of my kid

    • @isaywhateveriwantandyougot7421
      @isaywhateveriwantandyougot7421 4 роки тому +28

      I am happy that in the past couple of years, the LGBT community is getting more and more exceptance, even in the entertainment media

    • @wilhelminavonbismarck370
      @wilhelminavonbismarck370 3 роки тому +8

      I love it 🥰 I love everything about it , you a good parent, it’s so important to show kids love and acceptance- they NEED to KNOW that you will never ever not love them

    • @user-lj3fq1pe2f
      @user-lj3fq1pe2f 2 роки тому +2

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @n4zaaa
      @n4zaaa Рік тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @n4zaaa
      @n4zaaa Рік тому

      Me too❤

  • @bbutten414
    @bbutten414 7 років тому +605

    Your mother is amazing. Plus she looks like she gives the best hugs.

  • @seraph7023
    @seraph7023 8 років тому +413

    I wish everyone was like her. I cried so much. I'm so proud of you for this and you should never apologize for being you.

    • @iloveanimecooper9521
      @iloveanimecooper9521 8 років тому +1

      Summatime Victor!!!

    • @emmye595
      @emmye595 7 років тому +10

      Summatime I hope my parents with be accepting when I tell them about me being bi

    • @abbydun8556
      @abbydun8556 7 років тому +2

      Lps Curious ClawTM I AM TOO AND TRANSGENDER!!!!!!!!!

    • @elyaskahia6617
      @elyaskahia6617 7 років тому

      I wish my mum was like her.She is lovely and more clever I think than mine who doesn't accept it for almost 26 years now!

  • @shmooptifloop8118
    @shmooptifloop8118 5 років тому +485

    I probably wouldn't be where I am today without the encouragement I got from this video. Thank you!

  • @fannie3911
    @fannie3911 3 роки тому +137

    I know this video is old, but I’m so grateful for it. My daughter came out to me and I swear that I embodied this woman. Thank you for teaching me how to handle this with so much love and understanding . I love you no matter what! 😍

  • @RustyNickels
    @RustyNickels 4 роки тому +6237

    Son: I have something to tell you.
    Mom: You're gay?
    Son: Yeah.
    Mom: Cool. Me too. Don't tell dad.

  • @bipolarwanderer
    @bipolarwanderer 6 років тому +322

    I kinda think his mom already know and just waiting for him to tell. She's an amazing mom. I hope all moms with gay children would be as acceptable abd supportive as she is. Don't fail you mom, kid. Make her proud. :)

  • @guadasanroman5108
    @guadasanroman5108 4 роки тому +389

    "I knew you were" moms know everything guys

    • @jazminehoward7406
      @jazminehoward7406 2 роки тому +5

      It’s the fact that she said I don’t want people being mean to you I love you and she accepted it like omgggggg ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Milburt
      @Milburt Місяць тому

      @@Hai_.. totally didn’t happen.

  • @BrockPlaysFortnite
    @BrockPlaysFortnite 3 роки тому +241

    Don’t ever be sorry for something you can’t control 🥺 makes me so sad

    • @kels_x1414
      @kels_x1414 3 роки тому +28

      I hate when people say things like "oh you chose to be gay" 🙄 my response is always "okay then when and why did u choose to be straight" 😂

    • @yo6247
      @yo6247 3 роки тому +3

      @@kels_x1414 Yeah lmaoo

    • @Sonnenanbeterin1991
      @Sonnenanbeterin1991 3 роки тому +1

      @@kels_x1414 exactly

    • @NailaFaisal-du1gh
      @NailaFaisal-du1gh Рік тому +1

      @@kels_x1414 Being straight is human nature though

    • @MBauer457
      @MBauer457 Рік тому

      ​@@NailaFaisal-du1gh Just as being gay is

  • @pran7205
    @pran7205 4 роки тому +807

    I'm straight and I want her as a mother

  • @brigitteclaudette4456
    @brigitteclaudette4456 7 років тому +160

    As soon as she guessed it, I burst out crying. This is so beautiful.

    • @savagexhailie376
      @savagexhailie376 6 років тому

      Brigitte Claudette facts omg 😭

    • @Alwayseepy
      @Alwayseepy 5 років тому

      Starting to cry when he started talking

    • @derail14
      @derail14 5 років тому +1

      i think his mum knew a long time before he made the vid, parents know.

  • @KiaWilson
    @KiaWilson 7 років тому +325

    Matthew, I'm still crying about how sweet your mom's reaction was.

  • @tambrand7294
    @tambrand7294 Рік тому +116

    Im 50 this year and still never found the courage to come out to my mother. She now has terminal cancer with just weeks to live and i still cant tell her. I never got the right vibes that she would be ok with it. Im glad that things have changed a lot for the younger generations, maybe less lives will be living a lie . Well done to you and your mum.

    • @BruhKing69
      @BruhKing69 Рік тому +3

      What happened

    • @struggIes
      @struggIes 8 місяців тому +4

      Wow I hope you are doing okay🙏

    • @nordiskkatt
      @nordiskkatt 5 місяців тому +5

      I'm so sorry. I'm about your age, and coming out to my parents was the hardest thing I ever did. I share your pleasure that things seem to have changed for the younger generations.

    • @AlexSR__
      @AlexSR__ 4 місяці тому

      Hey how are you and your mother now?

    • @tambrand7294
      @tambrand7294 3 місяці тому +1

      Unfortunately my mother passed away just 5 weeks after being diagnosed with metastatic lung cancer. 29/09/23 ....so I never did tell her. But the rest of my family now know.

  • @budczus
    @budczus 4 роки тому +989

    Kid: Hi mom, i'm gay.
    Mom: Hi gay, i'm mom.

  • @Joe-ix5hj
    @Joe-ix5hj 7 років тому +146

    Mother of the decade! 💞💛💛

  • @boilingmutt
    @boilingmutt 8 років тому +618

    when she said "Dont be sorry!!" i started balling!!

  • @PL4Y3R_0N3
    @PL4Y3R_0N3 Рік тому +64

    This is the most iconic coming out video ever

  • @aleksandaraleksic8104
    @aleksandaraleksic8104 6 років тому +3981

    *Mom: Is it about girls or boys?*
    *Son: Yes*
    *Mom:u gay?*
    *Son:Yes ... starts crying*
    *Mom:I knew it*
    Me: lmao yeet

    • @myteaissugarfree2436
      @myteaissugarfree2436 6 років тому +62

      Lenny The Troller *I KNEW YOU WERE*

    • @rukeysyt7710
      @rukeysyt7710 6 років тому +3

      😅

    • @angiestegall9749
      @angiestegall9749 6 років тому +5

      Lenny the troll?...... Now we know why you commented this

    • @syd_1876
      @syd_1876 5 років тому +13

      *I KNEW YOU WERE I KNEW YOU WERE HONEY*

    • @kaylaties9744
      @kaylaties9744 5 років тому

      Lenny The Troller started crying- wait what?

  • @ELAWORLDxx
    @ELAWORLDxx 5 років тому +314

    I felt the relief for you. That cry was a result of years of pent up uncertainty and fear of being accepted as who you are. There’s nothing wrong with who you are and I’m so glad you have a mommy who validates that. Live out loud my love!!! 💕

    • @ACinemafanatic
      @ACinemafanatic 5 років тому +2

      OhHey Wessuhhh I wish I had that mom but I’m still scared 😥 and him crying just made me cry so long since I can never express myself to anyone I feel trapped and I have to maintain this image of being straight due to having homophobic parents

    • @leenm.7677
      @leenm.7677 5 років тому +1

      Dorian Gipson I’m sorry you’re going through that. There will be lots of people who love and accept you just as you are! You just be the best person you can be and hang in there! ♥️♥️

    • @mattgamer1574
      @mattgamer1574 4 роки тому

      Theres nothing wrong with him but definitely theres something wrong with him being gay

  • @ColeSteven
    @ColeSteven 9 років тому +158

    this is the sweetest thing in the world.

    • @spinaldistort8833
      @spinaldistort8833 9 років тому +18

      shut up Cole

    • @MrKawaiiKing
      @MrKawaiiKing 9 років тому +1

      +Spinal Distort I love those jokes xD

    • @lostboynotfound
      @lostboynotfound 8 років тому +1

      Oh my word, your hair! What's that haircut called? This UA-camr "Chris Oflyng" has the same haircut, and i really wanna get something similar to it. It's funny because you're both from Wisconsin lol.

  • @simonenarsson8978
    @simonenarsson8978 4 роки тому +897

    I’m straight but this actually put some tears in my eyes

  • @georgemonkey01
    @georgemonkey01 8 років тому +507

    When I told my mom she was like "oh, that's it? We ALL knew already son, everyone knew."

    • @jenjenroserose5361
      @jenjenroserose5361 8 років тому +12

      George Gonzalez Aww, I mean, at least everything turned out fine 😂😂

    • @georgemonkey01
      @georgemonkey01 8 років тому +17

      Hurbert The pervert yes sir I do

    • @zxukitrizakynthos7532
      @zxukitrizakynthos7532 8 років тому +1

      ЖЙΗ ΙЙËTN ΦωλЧог БΧυχΠ ΓΝΑΙΡΣΧ

    • @mamajama779
      @mamajama779 7 років тому +1

      That was to Slutty Jojo

    • @tefimorales5199
      @tefimorales5199 7 років тому +2

      Why can't we just get along 😂

  • @TVPaulina0o0
    @TVPaulina0o0 7 років тому +839

    this made me cry this is fucking adorable God bless this woman

    • @user-mi6ge6pp3t
      @user-mi6ge6pp3t 7 років тому

      xXPaulinaPenguinXx do you have snapchat ? from France

    • @LuchaMac
      @LuchaMac 7 років тому +5

      xXPaulinaPenguinXx Eric Gonzalez I know. Same with me. I am glad some parents are so accepting. People are born that way. I feel bad for anyone who's parents would not accept it. Love is Love. I feel bad for people who had to go through hiding it. In today's culture it is definitely accepted more than this time. But from what I have seen through highschool so far, knowing how those kids get treated differently because of their sexuality is bullshit. I like women. I am not going to treat a woman differently if she does too. I am not going to treat a guy differently if he doesn't like women. I wouldn't treat someone any different if they were bisexual. I wouldn't treat you differently if you were transgender. I just hope it is what makes people happy. What is sad is people hide it. I am a Christian. People quote both the old and new testament. The fact of the matter is the new testament teaches to love all and forgive. Jesus Forgives. Jesus loves everyone regardless of sexuality. To say otherwise is absolutely insane. The mother seems to share the same views as me. I wouldn't treat you differently. If it says in the old testament sodomy is wrong. The new testament never says that. Jesus loves all so let's all do the same.

    • @birdbeak36
      @birdbeak36 7 років тому

      same :)

    • @chronicler2313
      @chronicler2313 7 років тому

      God won't be blessing that's for sure. Kids are to be loved unconditionally and receive prayer and can be set free through God's grace.

    • @yaaaniii8123
      @yaaaniii8123 6 років тому

      xXPaulinaPenguinXx same !

  • @stfu_lacy
    @stfu_lacy 8 років тому +54

    I know this is like a year old, but this is very beautiful and I'm so proud of this. I love your mom for being so accepting.

  • @chrisfortin4251
    @chrisfortin4251 3 роки тому +30

    I'm 45 and I wish this is what my mother would have said. It would have changed absolutely everything. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @madvillian6350
    @madvillian6350 4 роки тому +1519

    Mans: telling mom he’s gay
    His head: 👆👉👇👈

  • @radhaosan3950
    @radhaosan3950 6 років тому +800

    Roses are red
    Violets are blue
    The amazing stuff starts at 5:52

    • @ianprobert4739
      @ianprobert4739 5 років тому +15

      Thanks for that !

    • @kingmon6774
      @kingmon6774 5 років тому +12

      All of it is amazing, but the coming out is amazing.

    • @gogodancer4372
      @gogodancer4372 5 років тому +3

      thanks

    • @xevielonerganx196
      @xevielonerganx196 5 років тому +8

      roses are red
      violets are blue
      thank you for telling me
      i now love you

    • @birdbeak36
      @birdbeak36 5 років тому +3

      woah rhymes

  • @RonaiHenrik
    @RonaiHenrik 7 років тому +1101

    It's so sad that he said sorry immediately after coming out..... It's a sad world where the pressure of social norms is this strong. Society is fucked up

    • @carolinesawyer8765
      @carolinesawyer8765 7 років тому +1

      jerk

    • @RonaiHenrik
      @RonaiHenrik 7 років тому +2

      Anna Dash I meant that he felt like saying "sorry" immediately after saying "I'm gay". That's the pressure of the social norms. If social norms had been different it'd be like: I have ginger hair, I'm sorry.

    • @RonaiHenrik
      @RonaiHenrik 7 років тому

      RainbowAnnaDash
      Yes, so he said sorry because of the pressure of social norms. That's what I was saying. You are saying basically the same thing only with different words

    • @RonaiHenrik
      @RonaiHenrik 7 років тому +1

      RainbowAnnaDash !!!
      Well if it stopped, human race would be extinct within like 100 years :D
      What I, or anyone can do about it is be open-minded. I'm as straight as a brand new German nail but I that doesn't mean I didn't go to a bar with colourful flag hanging above it in Brussels ;) if people were open minded life would be easier for *a lot* of people

    • @wickedemerald2442
      @wickedemerald2442 7 років тому

      That this visual occurs to you may indicate that you harbour latent sexuality yourself; come on - be honest with yourself. Free yourself from society's pressures - come on out of that closet Bro.

  • @DianChias
    @DianChias Рік тому +13

    When my son came out, we were driving home. I remained calm and spoke to him till we got home. I told him I was proud no matter what. He has several diagnosis and still amazes me to this day! Your mamma is a smart woman too!!

  • @midna5750
    @midna5750 8 років тому +214

    I keep coming back and watching this video not because I relate to it, but because it's just so heartwarming. Makes me cry every time

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  8 років тому +8

      Aww, well I'm happy you like it :-)

    • @midna5750
      @midna5750 8 років тому +2

      Thanks! I'm just glad you decided to share this moment. :)

    • @midna5750
      @midna5750 8 років тому +7

      I don't listen to anyone who can't use your correctly in a sentence. Lol

    • @Bryan-gc9bk
      @Bryan-gc9bk 7 років тому

      Malea F I keep watching it cause its fucking hilarious XD

    • @kaylacordery1367
      @kaylacordery1367 7 років тому

      thelilpsyco2 how?

  • @leyte1601
    @leyte1601 5 років тому +4641

    Me: I'm bi.
    Friend: Okay! Just don't get a crush on me. Lol.
    Me: Yeah you're not really my type.
    Friend: *BuT yOu'Re Bi*

    • @aaaaaaaaaa6232
      @aaaaaaaaaa6232 5 років тому +34

      Colette Tran lol me

    • @whatsupbro3
      @whatsupbro3 5 років тому +138

      Jesus Christ this happens all the time it’s so annoying

    • @property3959
      @property3959 5 років тому +5

      brie1n1crackers LMFAOOOOOOOO

    • @deeedprawn
      @deeedprawn 5 років тому +50

      My friend came out as bi to me and I’m not annoying so I wasn’t like “hAha d0 you have a cRush on mE.”
      And then it turned out they actually did like me and I was super oblivious about it haha whoops

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 5 років тому +6

      brie1n1crackers i hate when people react like that accept that people have STANDARDS

  • @KiNgStRoHhUtRuFfY
    @KiNgStRoHhUtRuFfY 5 років тому +205

    still sobbing over this beautiful woman in 2k19

    • @pxcan5991
      @pxcan5991 4 роки тому +7

      2k19? This aint sports

    • @ezequielviana3687
      @ezequielviana3687 4 роки тому +2

      @@pxcan5991 lmao

    •  4 роки тому +2

      @@pxcan5991 2k=2000
      2k19=2019

    • @pxcan5991
      @pxcan5991 4 роки тому +1

      @ I know but its just weird saying it like that

  • @attackthecanvas
    @attackthecanvas Рік тому +38

    When she said “is it something about your personality” she knew. Mommas always know. ❤

  • @graciemparsons5733
    @graciemparsons5733 4 роки тому +3097

    I'm gonna tell my kids this was Shane Dawson.

    • @saltysnackkid
      @saltysnackkid 4 роки тому +13

      LETS GOOO

    • @DeZa_shackless
      @DeZa_shackless 4 роки тому +7

      Phosr Productions R/wooosh

    • @mo_riz
      @mo_riz 4 роки тому +12

      Phosr Productions just cause you don’t find it funny doesn’t mean it’s not a joke

    • @businessguyold7999
      @businessguyold7999 4 роки тому +2

      Phosr Productions it’s a joke.... :/

    • @light_dark0138
      @light_dark0138 4 роки тому

      Omfg😢😭😂

  • @istalkfictionalcharacters5194
    @istalkfictionalcharacters5194 8 років тому +2268

    wow... what a wonderful lady.
    and son. ;)
    u r very lucky

    • @istalkfictionalcharacters5194
      @istalkfictionalcharacters5194 8 років тому +2

      cool ^^

    • @istalkfictionalcharacters5194
      @istalkfictionalcharacters5194 8 років тому +4

      The Alaskan Bull Worm omg hahaha 😂😂😂👌👌👌👌 cool Dude

    • @riofantastica4313
      @riofantastica4313 8 років тому +2

      I LOVE SPONGEBOB BY KATIE A GREED

    • @Jungson-br4wi
      @Jungson-br4wi 7 років тому +1

      I LOVE SPONGEBOB BY KATIE yeah i mean my mom also tells me she loves me no matter what but if i were to be lgbt idk what she would say i mean i know my aunts and grandmother and family would judge me alot if i were to be but my mom idk.... But his lady is honestly so sweet and has a really big heart

    • @michelleconley4692
      @michelleconley4692 7 років тому +7

      I am sorry to out too you but times are changing and when i don't agree with what you believe in i won't judge or question it. But I am asking as kindly as I can too please keep this too yourself your comment isn't going to change anything nor is making fun of it. All you are going to get out of this is a bunch of people yelling at you through a screen. You have a right to believe and act the way you act, but slowly times are changing and it wont be long until you culture changes too i don't know when or how long it will take all i know is that it wont last like that forever whether it be tomorrow or when you are a grandparent or even longer than that... so please keep this to yourself because no one gives a damn about your opinion because that is all it is.

  • @rayyanhindi3243
    @rayyanhindi3243 6 років тому +390

    I just wish I could have the same story 4 years ago I came out today the closet to my mom and she kicked me out of the house.
    After living with her for 19 years it broke my heart how easily religion could break up even a son mom relationship over being gay.

    • @tookitogo
      @tookitogo 6 років тому +25

      Rayyan Hindi I’m so sorry to hear that. :::hugs:::

    • @sofiasegura2716
      @sofiasegura2716 6 років тому +18

      Hey I love your name, and im here if you want to talk. I would love to hear more about you and your story. I just wanted to say your valid and I fully support you. Best of luck!

    • @johnhodson8674
      @johnhodson8674 5 років тому +5

      Rayyan, my mom did the same but over time she changed and is now my biggest supporter! Things can change!! even if they don't you have been honest with her. Although it hurts, time will help you to heal. Never feel alone! there are milllions of us out there, that means there are millions of people out there who love you x

    • @RobertFleming
      @RobertFleming 5 років тому +3

      Rayyan Hindi I’m so sorry Rayyan. I was kicked out all of a sudden at 26 over religious issues. Even had the police called to escort us off the property...OVER A DISAGREEMENT.

    • @r2d2315
      @r2d2315 5 років тому +1

      Or maybe they just needed an excuse to kick your 26 yr old ass out of the house.

  • @AurorXZ
    @AurorXZ Рік тому +11

    It's 2023 now, and this is somehow the first time I've seen this video background. Matthew, you've definitely gotten this thousands of times, but Thank You. I saw this when it first went around on UA-cam over a decade ago, and I never, NEVER forgot it. It was in the back of my head when I came out to my own mom, and it was so encouraging to know someone else shared my struggle and bore my same weight. I hope you're happy today.

  • @blazersguy5267
    @blazersguy5267 4 роки тому +652

    Imagine it was a prank and she said I knew you were.
    Confusion: 100

    • @cutuway
      @cutuway 4 роки тому +11

      Underrated as fuck

    • @ugodegiorgi3288
      @ugodegiorgi3288 4 роки тому +4

      Hahahahahaha

    • @nivedithagirish4023
      @nivedithagirish4023 4 роки тому +17

      I don't wanna be that person, but coming out isn't something to make a "prank" out of. Those who are actually in the closet have to muster up a lot of courage to do so, and it really is nerve-wracking.

    • @cutuway
      @cutuway 4 роки тому

      @@nivedithagirish4023 coming out pranks are literally all over youtube whatchu talkin bout

    • @nivedithagirish4023
      @nivedithagirish4023 4 роки тому +12

      @@cutuway I'm saying it's wrong. I'm not just talking about OP or this commentor, I'm putting forth my opinion that it's not a very good idea for a prank in general.

  • @barenbaaendiger
    @barenbaaendiger 4 роки тому +208

    The fact that he does put that on youtube is just wow
    And the reaction of his mum
    "Its okay i just want you to be happy"
    She is a good mum

  • @alexisdelfabbro5806
    @alexisdelfabbro5806 7 років тому +211

    This is a real mother. Loving Caring Kind. It breaks my heart he said sorry! Str8 ppl have it easy they are lucky they don’t have a day made for them!! One day I hope I dream this world and everyone in it will wake up! And we look back and realise how awful we were how disgusting our behaviour was to think that we could possibly decide a future for someone else make a choice for someone else #equality

    • @mirnaurquia9050
      @mirnaurquia9050 6 років тому +2

      Lexie DelFabbro, I'm glad that there are people who are like you, not many but people who have respect for others and don't judge them based on they're sexuality because all people are equal.

  • @hzquanrui
    @hzquanrui 6 місяців тому +11

    I wish everyone could be as kind-hearted as your mother.

    • @scomarz7669
      @scomarz7669 5 місяців тому

      wilhelm pfp spotted

    • @hzquanrui
      @hzquanrui 5 місяців тому

      @@scomarz7669 ahahaha

  • @jada1796
    @jada1796 7 років тому +608

    No matter what we are here for you!:)
    Who's cutting onions?!

    • @daveyyy
      @daveyyy 7 років тому +1

      😭my eyes

    • @Phxrmacy
      @Phxrmacy 7 років тому

      Just another person In the comments onio cut the onio in middle of the onio an onio drop the onio

    • @kaylahall7693
      @kaylahall7693 7 років тому

      Me!!

    • @jasmynshreve6805
      @jasmynshreve6805 7 років тому

      Just another person In the comments ikr whoever’s cutting onions needs to stop my it’s makeing my eyes leak

    • @matchabxba
      @matchabxba 7 років тому

      Just another person In the comments it's the invisible ninjas again

  • @hermaeusmoru4549
    @hermaeusmoru4549 6 років тому +227

    I wish everyone's parents would just accept them for who they are but sadly we live in a world when some people just don't support us for who we wanna be

    • @cagmo164
      @cagmo164 5 років тому

      Yes🤐

    • @Cybr_Crow
      @Cybr_Crow 5 років тому +1

      My parents are against bthe LGBTQ community 😭

  • @Serenity281078
    @Serenity281078 6 років тому +1733

    Hi Matt,
    I'm a 40 years old mother of 2 beautiful girls. And I'm Muslim, from Moroccan origins, born in France, a French citizen.
    Why am I saying that and what's the point of my comment?
    Just to let you know, even if my religion sees you and all the LGBTQ+ as sinners, to me, you are human before anything.
    And you're just in love with people of the same sex...
    If one day, one of my daughters would come to me and say: "Mum, I'm lesbian", it won't be the end of the world... She will remain my baby daughter I love and always will, she won't be an other person, she will be herself...
    Of course, it will be very weird, I don't know how I will feel when I will meet for the 1st time her girlfriend, but I will always be open minded to who she is, and won't judge her or her girlfriend...
    I'm so sad when I hear stories about parents who throw away their kids because they are gay, because being gay is not a choice, it is only about one heart in love of an other one...
    I'm so touched by the love and the open mind of your parents, and I hope you will share many good memories with your parents! Respect guys!
    I wish you all the best, please don't change anything!
    Much love and hugs from France...
    😘😘😘

    • @tookitogo
      @tookitogo 6 років тому +59

      Samira ACHAACH Thank you for your comment!! You know, not everyone will tell you this, but it’s totally fair for it to be weird for you. You can be completely accepting of a gay child, but it is still something to deal with as a parent! Everyone has certain expectations of how life will turn out: go to school, get a job, find a spouse, have a family... something like that. Just as a gay kid has to slowly accept that they are gay and their life will be different from that expectation, so does the parent! You also have a lifetime of assuming your child will follow the most common path, and even if you see the alternative as every bit as equivalent, it’s still a change in expectations! And it’s OK for that to be weird for a while! But it will eventually feel totally normal.
      I don’t know how old your kids are, but consider letting them know that if they were LGBT, you’d love and accept and support them unconditionally. At best, it makes a really difficult time a LOT easier. And at “worst” and they’re straight after all, you’ve taught a bit of tolerance. :)

    • @riaenkarhystynk
      @riaenkarhystynk 6 років тому +30

      You are so wise!!!

    • @octipuscrime
      @octipuscrime 6 років тому +43

      I completely support you. Im not part of the LGBT community but i agree with you completely. I dont personally think Islam is against them. Just the mind set and cultures of those people.

    • @TheBlackIdentety
      @TheBlackIdentety 6 років тому +10

      And you've just went against the word of your god. You are obliged to kill this kid,and me as I'm an atheist aka the greatest evil on Earth,and anyone who disagrees with the Quran basically.
      You've taken the first step to be rid of that disgusting ancient dogma though so I suppose that's positive. Respect to you.

    • @MBTAMoreRailfan
      @MBTAMoreRailfan 6 років тому +4

      Samira ACHAACH thank you. 🏳️‍🌈

  • @midwestern.berner39
    @midwestern.berner39 Рік тому +22

    This is the kind of reaction I wish every LGBTQ child recieved. She's a good mama, and it shows in just how much he wanted to tell her. He trusted his mama to love him even though it was frightening. Way to go kid

  • @MrPUCK1231
    @MrPUCK1231 7 років тому +80

    Bless his mama, this made me cry :(

  • @toldtruth8657
    @toldtruth8657 9 років тому +175

    I used to hate gays and lesbians but after watching these videos I literally don't see anything wrong. Seeing how hard it is for you guys to come out is just heartbreaking. I hope you have a great life and don't let anyone stop you from you doing that.

    • @destrierofdark_
      @destrierofdark_ 9 років тому +7

      +Mr Cumdump The primary reason of antagony is ignorance in all cases.

    • @BlueBerry-io6yh
      @BlueBerry-io6yh 9 років тому +14

      Aw I'm so glad you changed your mind 😄

    • @chantalzilala7554
      @chantalzilala7554 9 років тому +1

      wel l cant seem to change my mind.

    • @toldtruth8657
      @toldtruth8657 9 років тому +3

      Chantal Zilala Sorry what?

    • @BabyDoll-qb6po
      @BabyDoll-qb6po 9 років тому +8

      +Mr Cumdump you are an amazing example that people change for the best

  • @Kayla-oo9ex
    @Kayla-oo9ex 8 років тому +271

    This is the saddest video of coming out I have ever seen. The other videos they act like I'm going to tell my mom or dad no big deal. He's really scared. It breaks my heart.

    • @unefille5msp
      @unefille5msp 8 років тому +1

      I dont think it's sad the mom is accepting him

    • @gaamatsu4dewin
      @gaamatsu4dewin 8 років тому

      He;s not scared.

    • @lola_dash788
      @lola_dash788 8 років тому +9

      +Mister Chiky it's sad how scared and upset he is cos NO child should have to feel like this. Like its something to be ashamed about. It's sad that he apologized to his mother for being gay, as if it's his fault and something terrible. Like if he failed a class or got a DUI. I'm not gay so I can't relate to him entirely but my cousin recently came out to me the end of last year and this makes me incredibly sad cos I know this is how he felt and still continues to feel and is still terrified to tell his parents, who already know and don't care. Yet he's still fearful they'll disown him. I wish we could take this awful negative stigma away from being gay. As if it's a curse or a bad awful thing.

    • @clarkehh6504
      @clarkehh6504 8 років тому +1

      There is a video where a child is beaten by his own parents after coming out. That is by far way worse and more sad.

    • @unefille5msp
      @unefille5msp 8 років тому

      Kali_Dash yeah I get it.

  • @bringthelight2421
    @bringthelight2421 4 роки тому +22

    That is the prime example of what parenting should be. I wish my mom would have taken it this well. You are amazing.

  • @noaisarat
    @noaisarat 7 років тому +73

    this is so beautiful, I wish all parents were like this mother, im actually crying.
    bless this mother and bless you for managing to come out to her, it's hard to do that.

  • @snoopyr1953
    @snoopyr1953 5 років тому +580

    and my dad literally wants me to stop watching queen just because freddie mercury is bisexual.

    • @fs9020
      @fs9020 4 роки тому +51

      Correction. Freddie Mercury was gay. Tell your daddy that there's nothing to worry about.

    • @Veijo33
      @Veijo33 4 роки тому +49

      @@fs9020 He was bi. He was in relationships with both men and women

    • @simonalaniz1192
      @simonalaniz1192 4 роки тому +23

      @@Veijo33 Not saying he was gay or bi, but being in a relationship doesn't change your sexuality

    • @hiiiiii7055
      @hiiiiii7055 4 роки тому +7

      F Tina nope, he was bi, but A for effort haha

    • @darangatang2804
      @darangatang2804 4 роки тому +2

      He's gay bro

  • @LucaCXI
    @LucaCXI 5 років тому +181

    My parents started crying after I told them I was gay and my dad is sending me to therapy but the therapist himself says my dad is stupid and she like helps me get through this rough time and Matt you are so lucky to have a mom who really loves you!

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 5 років тому +15

      at least you have an amazing therapist

    • @bisexualbean2529
      @bisexualbean2529 5 років тому +5

      AviaLxca
      I’m so sorry 😥
      I hope that you can find peace with yourself and who u r 😊

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 4 роки тому +14

      @@mattgamer1574 please just stop

    • @somaliansausage6727
      @somaliansausage6727 4 роки тому +2

      @@orksca5459 I'm not a homophobe but still I understand his parents

    • @orksca5459
      @orksca5459 4 роки тому +8

      @@DominicStride really appreciate you not trying to force others to become straight mad respect for that man. but you say its a sin to be gay yet at the same time, its supposedly a "sin" for women to not be virgins. sooooo?

  • @HereticBREAKINGPOINT
    @HereticBREAKINGPOINT 3 роки тому +21

    The reaction from his mom, it's for me PRICELESS WHEN SHE HUGGING SO LOVELY AND SAID DON'T WORRY THIS BOY OR TEENAGER WAS SO BRAVE I HAVE GREAT RESPECT FROM HIS MOTHER!!!!

  • @oyvindm1954
    @oyvindm1954 7 років тому +377

    Your video makes me cry in happiness for you. I am bi and came out when I was 60. When I was a child beeing gay was forbidden in Norway. So I never found my man. I wish you all the best in life! Love from Oyvind in Norway.

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  7 років тому +26

      I'm so happy that this video meant something special to you. I'm happy that you were able to come out, and I hope that one day you find the perfect person to make you happy. :-)

    • @katiekrotz680
      @katiekrotz680 7 років тому +5

      Matthewac1 my brother was in the same situation. I also made a quote for him and me and people being bullied because we're different. I was fed up with it and I actually attempted suicide. But then I made this quote. "Every individual is one of a kind in their own way, even if some fail to see it." I hope this helped you and others. It really helped me and my brother 😊

    • @katiekrotz680
      @katiekrotz680 7 років тому +3

      If I was next to you I would hug u too

    • @melissameddane
      @melissameddane 7 років тому +2

      im not gay but touching

    • @melissameddane
      @melissameddane 7 років тому

      oyving hows your relationship parner doing?

  • @saryntoews
    @saryntoews 5 років тому +2707

    👇= how many pieces my heart broke into when he apologized.

    • @Thalia_Aquaticaa
      @Thalia_Aquaticaa 5 років тому +13

      Are you that insensitive

    • @fanofthatsgross5935
      @fanofthatsgross5935 5 років тому +5

      I would have accepted his apology only if he never did it again

    • @fanofthatsgross5935
      @fanofthatsgross5935 5 років тому

      @nothing Inc no

    • @thepolice4063
      @thepolice4063 5 років тому +6

      saryn toews Imagine begging for likes. Pathetic.

    • @Ug1yKarma
      @Ug1yKarma 5 років тому +2

      saryn toews yes but it’s still fucking disgusting

  • @wavystars5075
    @wavystars5075 8 років тому +442

    I can't believe he apologized. That's so sad. Society is really screwing people up for absolutely no reason.

    • @michelleconley4692
      @michelleconley4692 7 років тому +4

      Nah society still is fucked up. It may be for different reasons but either way it is messed up in all ways I simply just learn too ignore it.

    • @anonymouse6094
      @anonymouse6094 7 років тому +22

      This video really touched me and it made me cry because of the mom's beautiful reaction. I thought about that if it had been my son doing this, that that's how I would be too. I think that he apologized, not because he likes men, but because he knew probably as a mother she had dreams of him getting married to a woman and having his own children one day, and didn't want to have to take her dreams away from her.

    • @bonchbonch
      @bonchbonch 7 років тому

      People who un-ironically use the term "SJWs" are automatically idiots.

  • @kaylin-leementor1901
    @kaylin-leementor1901 Рік тому +5

    Makes me cry every single time. Everyone deserves this kind of love and understanding when they come out.

  • @sofiamartinez3258
    @sofiamartinez3258 4 роки тому +171

    I shouldn’t be crying right now this is the happiest I’ve been in a while :)

    • @historyisthebest5831
      @historyisthebest5831 4 роки тому +9

      I don't know why but I'm crying at people's coming out video compilations.

  • @chocolatecerealtime973
    @chocolatecerealtime973 7 років тому +224

    2 things: YOUR HAIR OMG I LOVE IT SO MUCH ITS SO FLUFFYYYY and This is beautiful. So inspiring. I haven't told my parents yet and I'm terrified

    • @ardi7727
      @ardi7727 7 років тому +2

      ChocolateCereal Time have you told them?

    • @jorjakelly8904
      @jorjakelly8904 7 років тому +4

      ChocolateCereal Time I like how first your like FLUFFFFYY and then it gets super sad 😂

    • @natalie_w14
      @natalie_w14 6 років тому +3

      ChocolateCereal Time u are goin to do good when u tell your parents and I’m praying for u and hope your parents respect you for who u are 😊🙏

    • @marblecosplay486
      @marblecosplay486 6 років тому +3

      Woop hi guys its ChocolateCereal Time here im just on a diff acc lmao. Ive also figured out im trans soooo yeah and they know i like both but dont know in trans... Help?
      (Ps: yup silly then depressing xD)

    • @djstokes9859
      @djstokes9859 6 років тому +3

      I’m telling my mom tomorrow. I’ve known 8 years

  • @rjschu
    @rjschu 7 років тому +144

    Congratulations and great job, Matthew! Your video is making a difference for other gay kids. It moved me to tears. I grew up in Louisville and came out to my parents when I was 14 (1979). I had the same fears. I'm grateful my parents reacted pretty much the same way yours did...with unconditional love. On a side note, when I told my grandmother (mom's mom) her response was, "Well, EVERYBODY knows your gay!" Being GLBTQ is much easier than it was 38 years ago. However, I'm left shaking my head, that in the 21st century gay kids still have to be terrified of being kicked out of the house or disowned by their families. Thank you for your courage and be proud of what you have accomplished.

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  7 років тому +24

      Thank you for sharing your story with me. I enjoy hearing other people's experiences. I'm very happy to hear that your family accepted you, and I hope that you are happy.

    • @andaleblake2891
      @andaleblake2891 7 років тому

      Richard Schusterman I live in Louisville and I am bi.

  • @prettyboycat8278
    @prettyboycat8278 3 роки тому +7

    This mother’s words and actions, her comforting hugging and love is enough to make a grown man cry

  • @ihopenicklives7678
    @ihopenicklives7678 9 років тому +249

    i am addicted to watching parents react to their children confessing

  • @karveon4lifek4l76
    @karveon4lifek4l76 7 років тому +294

    I just came out today that's why I'm watching this I cried and my momma already knew too she wants me to have a family with a woman but the same thing she saying my momma said to me today but I told my family first before her because the reaction is so hard and shy in your heart and soul!!!

    • @gothicqueen666
      @gothicqueen666 7 років тому +2

      karveon 4 Life k4L Same im a lesbian and im afraid to come out.

    • @Mredrose
      @Mredrose 6 років тому +3

      Annie Leonhardt im not part of the Lgbt but i love supporting ppl just take it step by step remember that u dont have to come out but just do it at your own time when your ready

    • @gothicqueen666
      @gothicqueen666 6 років тому

      Mar Mar Thank you for your'e help i will do it step by step i only told my besteht friend and she underdtood why and accepted it.

    • @k4thia
      @k4thia 6 років тому

      karveon 4 Life k4L I just came out too! I started c hi for when my mom said "it's okay it's okay"

    • @sipsip_bitch300
      @sipsip_bitch300 6 років тому

      Annie Leonhardt same tbh...-

  • @brandon_aka_BOT
    @brandon_aka_BOT 7 років тому +18

    This video really strikes home with me. I couldn't help but cry so much at how scared he was and how loving his mom is. Thanks for posting this. It is the closest video to my own experience I have seen so far on the internet.

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  7 років тому +8

      I'm glad that it meant something to you. :-)

  • @ScottStuart2K
    @ScottStuart2K Рік тому +10

    Good for you my man!! Just like your mom said “you’re born who you are.” You have nothing to apologize about. You have an awesome mother on your side👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @josiahbotsford3817
    @josiahbotsford3817 5 років тому +41

    I've watched this so many times...and I cry every time. I hope that you are having an amazing life!!

  • @earthmover10
    @earthmover10 9 років тому +26

    I love this!! I never got the chance to tell my mom, she passed away when I was 9,I was 18 when I came out, my dad always knew haha, loves me unconditionally. It was my mom from heaven that gave me the strength to come out and be the beautiful person I am :)

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  9 років тому

      I'm happy to hear you and your dad have such a strong bond with one another. I'm sure your mother is looking down on you from heaven, and I'm sure she is very proud of you.

    • @earthmover10
      @earthmover10 9 років тому

      She is I know it, where in the states do you live? I'm in Canada

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  9 років тому

      +Alastair Swann Kentucky. What part of Canada are you from?

    • @earthmover10
      @earthmover10 9 років тому

      I am from B.C., but I live in Alberta now. Come live here haha

    • @Matthewac1
      @Matthewac1  9 років тому

      +Alastair Swann lol definitely wouldn't be opposed to visiting some day.

  • @kaseybryant_
    @kaseybryant_ 7 років тому +96

    Love to you + your family. Your mother is wonderful-- wish I could hug you both. Ox

  • @wilhelminavonbismark507
    @wilhelminavonbismark507 3 роки тому +38

    His Mom is just absolutely an angel. I cried when she said, while hugging him close, "Don't be sorry, silly!" Brave, sweet young gentleman who was raised by a Mother who taught him VERY well. You are an amazing person with an incredible Mother, sweetheart. ❤️ I wish your family nothing but the best.

  • @manuelvenegas7943
    @manuelvenegas7943 4 роки тому +87

    I miss my mom
    Happy Mother’s Day to all the mommas like her.

    • @lonelywolf1730
      @lonelywolf1730 3 роки тому +1

      @DuncanStudios Collection sorry for u hope u r good

    • @gisplus9050
      @gisplus9050 2 роки тому

      @DuncanStudios Collection sorry for your loss😭😭😭😭😭

  • @MelodyAlannaMusic
    @MelodyAlannaMusic 7 років тому +87

    Best video EVER! This made me cry at my desk

  • @kayak2052
    @kayak2052 7 років тому +140

    I want to see how he is doing now:) I absolutely love this

    • @gossipntea7064
      @gossipntea7064 7 років тому +2

      Kaya K the last update was he replied to someone 4 months ago

  • @Starfish9587
    @Starfish9587 3 роки тому +55

    I hope my parents are like this. I tried to ask them what if I'm lesbian and they answered, "You better not or else we will kick you out of this house". I am currently waiting for the right time to tell them the truth. Maybe when I become independent, I'll be ready

    • @parulkumar3863
      @parulkumar3863 3 роки тому +2

      good luck

    • @aslater5
      @aslater5 2 роки тому +10

      That’s terrible that they’re like that. You shouldn’t say a word until you are out on your own and completely independent.

    • @bloxyton
      @bloxyton Рік тому +1

      I think you should tell them when you move out

    • @lovely_tragedies
      @lovely_tragedies Рік тому +1

      I think your parents should take a little look at this video and learn to be more accepting. I’m sorry honey… you never deserve to feel like you can’t be yourself.. like mama said “if they’re your real friends, they won’t care.” Same goes with family members, if they truly love you and care for you, they shouldn’t care and should eventually come around.. but unfortunately, some people care more about their “beliefs” than their blood.

    • @a-bird-lover
      @a-bird-lover Рік тому +2

      I really suggest you wait until you're independent and prioritize your safety!! Remember that you don't owe it to come out to people, it sucks to have to live in the closet around your family but safety is a much, much higher priority