it really depends where you came from and ur culture and its really scary but personallyi think you can choose betwean these things with will power and all but what do i know i dont join communities
@@ibrahimismail5625 nah it totally depends on the person's personality and the person himself. Culture and the place you come from only has a small impact and in the end of the day you cant tell me that someone is a good father just cause he is from a specific culture
@@Catholic81 Yes you can blame her. Children are obligated to care for their parents when they're old yes, but they're not obligated to give you grandchildren. It's really bad when you pressure someone to have kids they dont want!
If my child came out to me as lgbt, I wouldn't be able to help but be sad. Not because I don't approve, but because this world can be so ugly and unaccepting. As a parent, I worry that my child will have difficulty finding their happiness. All the more reason to give them my unconditional love and support.
Me too, though for a different reason - it reminded me of my mum's reaction when I came out. Shock, but overridden by concern and acceptance. Her main priority was getting me to sit down because it was the first time I had come out to anyone, and I was shaking so hard she thought I was going to fall over. Same-sex marriage had been legal here for years, but my mum and I were both raised in Christian Fundamentalism. She viciously defends me against her own family.
it hurt so bad hearing "a dad should always understand his daughter" after just getting into a big fight with my father. i love this video. it's really hard to see other people have good relationships with their parents, but at the same time, it is comforting that not everyone has to go through the hurt of feeling alone in your home.
I understand that so well my narc mother still trying to brainwash me that she knows the world and how these things work. Nothing she has ever told me to do has led me to happiness.
"a dad should always understand his daughter, there's nothing i can't understand. we're family no matter what". i teared up, he's so heartwarming 🥺!! that girl should be so thankful to have a dad like him.
Me too! We are going thru a moment in time where individuals are finally starting to break free and be exactly who they know they are. Members of the LGBTQ+ are so brave and I don’t think they truly know that they are changing the WORLD! Right here and now! I love seeing the videos of parents/family that accept their loved one after they tell them. And it breaks my heart to hear of someone’s family disowning them when they shared their truth. I don’t want kids, but if I ever do, I’ve learned from stuff like this that support and understanding is so important.
I'm straight but oh my god I'm crying so bad rn...This father is just the role model for every parent. Everyone wants to be loved, accepted and supported by family unconditionally
I don't agree. I think that you should be allowed to chose if you see them as family i should not feel trapped with horrible people just cause we're related by blood family is something much deeper than that....
when the girl’s dad said “you could get married in other countries” and “we’re family no matter what” that was so heartwarming bcs that means her dad has basically accepted her already despite the shock and is already thinking about her future 🥺
When I was younger my dad, who’s very religious, used to be extremely homophobic. He would say things like “gay people are disabled” “they’re predators” and would use shocking words against them. I was so scared of coming out I started getting depressed and I felt like he would kick me out of his life. When I finally came out 2 years later with the help of my mom, he started crying because suddenly he remembered all the painful things he said and he felt extremely sorry. And now here we are, he became a trade unionist and protects the rights of minorities daily. I’m glad I got supportive parents even if the journey was long and tough. Edit: just to clarify, I’m a woman xx
@@angelinenabua6336 Parents who already have plans for what they expect their children to be are ruining the beauty of children in the first place. Its beautiful to raise your child and see them grow into an amazing person. Parents have to expect the unexpected when in comes to raising a child. Before going out and deciding you want to have a child, have a conversation with yourself and ask “Am I financially stable?” “Is my mental health okay?” “Will I still love and support my child if they came out?” “Will I be able to be a prominent figure in their life?” Etc. If you can’t see yourself in one of those scenarios then you need to fix that before deciding to make a baby. Don’t be your child’s enemy.
@@sweettea4245 yes. You're obviously correct. They hold such high expectations for their Children and forget that their Children may have another thought or gets forced just for them to exceed their parents expectation... And it's really sad.
But the girl who got cussed and who said about her parents like you explained are different people The girl with laid-back parents was supported by her dad
As someone who has a father who made my life a lot worse definitely don't agree lmao.. My father told me never to look at men or talk to them ( while he or mother never said the same to my brother), he made men look like aliens to me & now he wants me married, does he think I'm a numb person with no feelings? I can't even look at a man without getting goosebumps because of his restrictions now he wants me to be like other girls, get married.. How funny is that.
It’s really interesting how at the start they were all like my parents are so accepting of me and they always support me but this one small detail all of a sudden changed that
The way they intro’d the video I thought they weren’t actually gay just seeing what their parents reaction would be. Honestly, I’m still a bit unsure. PD never asked “do your parents know you’re gay?” Just told them “today you’re telling your parents you’re gay.”
@@justinneff9560 I was also unsure but I think the more important message from this video was the parents and their reaction/response to their child coming out to them. I honestly don't care if none of them are actually gay, you could tell that it meant a lot to the woman talking to her dad that he would accept her and even meet her girlfriend to have dinner. It was so heart warming to see. :)
@@BiancaPark Yeah we just don't want them to just don't want them having other people pretending to be gay for views. The message and the hardships people experience by coming out are certainly in the video.
@@shingswoooop Calm down for a second.They just wanted to express their oppinion with a sentence that you may see as "edgy and gay".Also stop using "gay" as an insult cause all you know is that they might be gay plus it gives off "I'm a homophobic popular kid that doesn't know human decency" vibes. Edti:The person deleted their comment-Smh,all i recall is that they commented “Your comment is edgy and gay” or smth like that
when the mom said "hang up the phone" I was scqred she meant she didn't want to speak to him anymore, but the fact that she said that becauae its a serious subject she wants to be talked in person was heartwarming to me
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists Science: There is not a single gay gene Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
When that girl's dad said "we are family no matter what" made me tear up so bad . Remembering that my dad said that don't even consider me as your dad if you are going to be like this.
@@kotoriitsuka3218 What do you wanna see, if you're straight? Seeing how he'd react if you lie about being gay? I don't think it's a good idea, cuz it'll permanently stick in his head.
“i’ve heard they can get married in other countries…” my heart sank, the fact that equal rights are that far away from lgbt koreans. the idea of gay marriage is simply an idea to them :(
@@nehanaveen2252 yeah....I'm just waiting to go to France where its legal, unlike in my country...I know I will never come out to my parents, and if I end up marrying a girl...they won't know :/
@@karalsor6145 We would be glad to welcome you. Same-sex marriage is a recent yet really important part of France now, and a big step for more tolerance and equality. You have my support
No CuZ the way the girl’s dad was like “you can get married in other countries” was actually sweet cuz it kinda meant to me that he was already thinking of how she could get married and was planning it even though she JUST told him that she liked a woman 🥺🥺
it’s so sad how lgbtq people can’t get married in korea yet. i hope it becomes legalized soon and more koreans become more open minded towards gay people. that dad was so sweet and i love him
it really hurts watching the way the lady said "can't you just support me?" while trying to smile after she heard how her mother cussed at her for being true to herself.
The mother may come around. I have gay friends who experienced this at the beginning. Parents react differently and many are just in shock and do not know what to say or how to behave with news like this. I don't agree with their reactions but this is in South Korea and it is conservative. Her mother may need to process it. One of my friends in school came out when she was in her late teens. They kicked her out but eventually they came around. It took a while and they accepted her orientation and support her 100%. My cousin came out and my aunt was crying because she was scared not angry. She was concerned about discrimination, hate crimes, this was in the seventies. She told him to leave and move to the city as we were in a rural conservative village.
@@dolcemaddalena please just know that South Korea is a conservative country so I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t but I would like to hope that them other did soon accept her daughter
OMG THAT ONE GIRL'S DAD "you can get married in some countries" HE WAS LITERALLY READY TO HELP I WANT TO CRY (btw this is a positive thing i think someone misunderstood lol_
“A dad should always understand his daughter, we’re family no matter what. Don’t think about what others say..you live your life..” 🥺🥺🥺 I teared up. I wish I had a father like that
Korean women were told in the 1950s by their fathers that they need plastic surgery to attract white military men. They told them Korean men are oriental losers. This is how plastic surgery started in Korea
Korea is the suicide capital of the world because Korean women don't like Oriental men. They desire Caucasian featured men added with Caucasian noses, and air brushed skin tones too
I’m so sorry to everyone in the comments who’s parents are so mean. I cannot imagine what that’s like you are so strong live how you like love who you want. 💕
Damn that girls mom went off! Didn't want to hear a word! That was quite harsh but it's just what I expected, most of them rejected but the one girls dad accepted despite being surprised.
@zappafan11 Excuse me? That's not a good parents. A parent will love their child for who they are..They shouldn't hate their child just because of who the child lloves..cause in the end..It is their child
@zappafan11 That's wrong cause it's weird.. It's not even the same thing.. Gay doesn't mean you are loving someone older than you or loving animals..It's just loving someone despite the gender. Parents should support their child even if they like the same gender and it's not illegal or something
when the dad said "dont care about other and do what you want", I immediately started crying because honour and reputation is really important to my religious and strict parents and they are always telling me "what will others say", "you are a disgrace to our family" and so on. Her dad was so wise and understandable. They say ur parents should become your bestfriends during your teenage and adulthood but unfortunately some parents like mine still control me
remember that you weren't put here on this world to live for your parents or for other people (if you're religious, if you're not like me then the reason you exist is random and you don't owe anyone your life), live for yourself
Based on your name I feel like you are Muslim (please correct me if I’m wrong) and I just wanna say that I completely understand what that can feel like, ESPECIALLY with very religious, strict parents. You feel trapped and want to impress them but it feels like nothing you do will be good enough for them. Know that I am here for you and I know you can get through this, even if it may take a while :)
I feel bad for the girl who got cussed out by her own mother... though I'm really happy how parents supported their children and I hope hers will change their mind sooner or later. When she smiled through the pain my heart broke:(
@Yungplaygurl Korean women were told by their fathers in the 1950s to get plastic surgery to attract white military men because oriental features looked unattractive. This is how plastic surgery started in Korea.
As a fellow gay person I just want to say that you are valid. You are perfect just the way you are. I'm so sorry that your comment was met with such nasty replies.
They did so to understand if their family is supportive or against same sex love and marriage.they might be straight till that time and can't avoid the fact that they could love same sex lover after that if they understands that everyone will be supportive
I wish I had parents like that. Growing up, my wishes were always insignificant in the eyes of my parents. Even though I'm an adult now, there are times when my heart hurts because I didn't receive enough love as a child.
What's surprising is that among the parents, a father responded more positively than others and the things he said really assured her that he understands and support her. Most people expect mothers to be the understanding one but here the father responded calmly and affectionately despite the shock.
Maybe because moms are more invested in their kids - they are the main caretakers, especially in more traditional countries like Korea - so when their 'perfect' little girl/boy does not turn out the way they dream of, the mother doesn't respond well to it. Most likely the mothers will come around and be understanding after some time passes. That's just my take on it.
@@leonardoenrico2152 which parent isn't? Any parent would be disappointed for various reasons while acceptance and support is a case to case basis. I don't think I've heard, it's very rare, of any parent say they would want/wish a child to be a member of LGBTQ+.
When I came out to my mother she was calm and more accepting than my father who strictly told me to leave the house and never step inside this house again. I was only 13 at that time and it broke my heart. It takes a lot of courage yet they never try to understand. The girl is lucky to have a supportive father.
@@ss-sr5my "make them good" girlie why was her coming out the parent bad? She doesn't need a scolding, she needs a supportive parents. She did nothing wrong to be cursed out like that.
The previous video was seeing how parents reacted to Koreans telling their parents that they’re dating an American, so they thought that this was just a social experiment like the other video, which it isn’t.
Even if it was an experiment it showed some of them that their parent's love isn't unconditional after all. Let's say these people are straight, but still support LGBT and wanted to do this experiment for that reason. When you find out that your parent(s) is homophobic and responds super negatively towards you, you realize that in another life if you WERE LGBT, you would not be accepted by your own flesh and blood. You realize your parents don't love you as much as you thought they did, and they only love a specific version of you that aligns with their beliefs and what they want. It's even worse when you already, for real, are LGBT. Having to come into terms with that is a heartbreaking experience. It's heartbreaking to think that if you tried to be vulnerable with your parents and tell them something as important as that, which would by no means be easy to do, they would think much less of you. They would be ashamed of you and, in extreme cases, disown you or cut ties, because they can't accept someone who is LGBT as their kid.
@@sotis1756 you can still have children. The thing is ignorant parents like this are still around and it doesn’t motivate most same sex couples to have kids. Also, plenty of adults on Korea aren’t having kids or getting married anyways. Harsh parents and society is the issue.
@@sotis1756 1. Gay ppl can have biological kids, whether through surrogacy, IVF, sperm donor, or by just one member of the couple being trans. If they decide to have biological children, of course. 2. Obsessing with your kids having kids like that is creepy af. 3. Do people like you just not realize that there are plenty of cis straight people that are infertile or just choose not to have biological (or adopted) kids? Having even a straight kid isn't a guarantee that you'll get grandkids. Children don't exist to reproduce for you wtf
I love how that dad who said "Well done" also started thinking like "I've heard you can get married in other countries". This man definitely returned with the milk. That's the kind of dad every man should aspire to be.
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists Science: There is not a single gay gene Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic lol
I cried a river listening to that father comforting his daughter, I never felt such comfort and acceptance from my own. If all parents can be as calm and accept that their kids aren’t replicant of them so many households would be at peace. We wouldn’t spend the rest of our lives chasing the concept of feeling home.
So true :( I totally agree with you. And your last words are so relatable to me, and to everyone as well i guess. We are always searching for the place where we can feel safe and where we can feel home . But the home isnt just a building, it's about people who make you feel home. And it's so sad that sometimes even in your family you feel yourself lonely . I wish everyone find a person , who make you feel home 💜
When I came out as Bi my mom started crying, my father was so disappointed, and my brother who was on the phone said he was going to beat me up, I left the room and came back later to apologize for who I am, when I saw the girl’s father being so understanding and loving I started crying with her. It was so sweet
Being bi or g ay is not bad, because it is not a choice! But the problem and perver$ion is when those feelings are acted upon and that person does sex with the wrong gender or having suspicious romance expressions with the same sex
@@moving8496 how is that a contradiction? They are different, they were born with an inclination towards immorality but of course depends on the society you are born to, if you are for example from Spain, it would be normal but not in other countries. And who told you it is their right to act upon their feelings? They can make friends and best friends but no such thing as boy-boy relationship
I am not a part of LGBTQ community but that girl's father's support for her almost made me cry . It's really nice to see parents accepting their kids for who they are
When the girl's dad said, “no matter what, we’re family.” I started crying because I realized I will never have parents just like hers, I just wish I could have a supportive and understanding family.
@@luckykhan755 But they can also break it, I don't remember how many times my father made me cry, I have a trauma bcz of him. Ofc, he's my father, but it doesn't mean that I need to love him no metter what, I can handle all the shitty things that he did, but some people can't
I'm so surprised that parents are okay with showing who they're to kids, but when kids show who they're, they're NOT ACCEPTED. Amazing Edit: Damn the likes tho!
Animayo parents who physically/ mentally abuse their kids in the name of stress or anger issues, over controlling parents, parents who drink in front of their kids, parents who quarrel in front their kids and much more. In the end when we ask them y they’re doing this they give some senseless excuses like “tats how kids should be raised” or “this is normal in every family” or “this is how adults act”or they say “don’t talk back to parents”. They chose to give birth to us it wasn’t our choice and it’s their responsibility to accept their children and let them grow in a safe and accepting space. It’s their responsibility to not vent out their anger or apply unnecessary rules and traditions on kids and let them think and act freely.
4:20 this moment is so beautiful, the dad is so supportive to her daughter, he says like I don’t want this to kinda “block” your life, you have to first earn money etc…
I love how the father was both supportive and worried because he knows how the society will treat them and instead of scaring her off, he advised her to work harder and not mind what other people think.
Vote Republican to Vote Anti-LGBT or Democrat to Vote Highly-Flawed-but-Pro-LGBT. Its kinda simple as that. Trust me, i dont like the fact how simple this is either, but we cant shy-away from the fact that it is like that.
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists Science: There is not a single gay gene Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
Everybody in the comment section talking about that one dad who accepted her and I'm here feeling bad for the others, whose parents got mad when they confessed! :(
When my sister came out to my parents, my mother said "okay and so what? You are still my daughter, I gave birth to you, I will protect you from anyone" and she meant it, any family member that tried to be homophobic she would put them in their place. My mom is someone you don't mess with LOL.
For a Korean man..... from his generation... to understand his daughter, on a phone call confession no less, is soooooooo rare I cannot even tell you. Korean society is very conservative and hyper competitive. Her father is simply worried about what others might think, but at the end of the day, he chooses his daughter, because he loves his daughter. UNREAL!!!!!!!!!!!! Truly, this girl will grow up to be kind, kind human being, because of her parents. And that's what's important. And the way that dad answered... think about it... he just Squid Game'd five reactions that will have a lasting effect on his daughter's life. He was careful, thoughtful, and ultimately answered in a way that made his daughter feel loved and respected. DAD OF THE YEAR! Young lady.... I hope you have a wonderful life.
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists Science: There is not a single gay gene Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
Same here, but when I came out .it was a mixed reception. My dad was pretty cool about it, but my mom was a bit worried and told me to just be "normal" my dad is white and my mom is Chinese so maybe it was because of the culture.
To have a dad like that… that girl is so luckily. I started crying when she started crying too. Queer or not, I can’t imagine how good it feels fo know that someone important in your life loves and accepts you no matter what.
Yeah, my mum supports me being gay, but she doesn't support me being trans, but despite that, every one of my friends supports me being trans and it feels like a burden lifted to know there's someone supporting you.
my heart hurts for the girl who got cursed out by her mother... i feel so bad for her. i am bisexual and came out to my very christian black mother (if you are black you know how homophobic the community can be) surprisingly she took it well... i am grateful for that. mine reacted similarly to the way the dad of the girl did, accepting and wise. this was a beautiful video.
im black and 15 but I haven't come out to my family yet, I only came out to my brother and my two best friends as pansexual. The thing im worried about is that my mom talks a lot, so if I tell her she'll most likely tell the whole damn neighborhood, even if I did tell her not to. Also yeah I agree, the community is quite homophobic, especially out in the hood.
@@imtrappedinsangwoosbasemen246 fellow Pansexual! No one in my family knows but j might come out to my very accepting sister when she’s a bit older and I can trust she won’t accidentally out me; my parents are those bigot conservatives who are the “ew all these PRONOUNS and LABELS” kind of homophobes so I don’t think they’ll be accepting and at best will mock and dismiss my sexuality rip we stay strong together
im black and a lesbian, the black community is so homophobic towards lesbians and im afraid to come out to any of my black friends or family unless theyre lgbtq+.
The girl with the understanding dad made me cry so hard, I was practically gasping for air. He was so supportive even for being asian which made me tear up even more. He gives her advice and also searches for solutions for her to marry her girlfriend. He wants her happiness to come first and was just so, so understanding. THIS IS THE EXAMPLE OF A GREAT PARENT. I haven’t cried for so long in years.
No matter the results of the calls, what OSSC is doing by portraying LGBT+ youth here is really important. I hope this channel gets bigger and bigger and that it remains giving good quality and inclusive content
I live in a country where even the younger generation struggles to accept homosexuality outside of movies and bl series. I've thought about coming out to my parents several times, but every time the certainty that I will be kicked out to live on the streets has held me back. I've always been Daddy's girl, and I wish my father would be as supportive as the girl's father. She's lucky to have one who doesn't hesitate at all to have her back.
i’m a lesbian and a korean and this shit is gonna make me tear up. i really wished i had parents that supported me. (ayo other lgbtq peeps who are going through the same thing, i love y’all. you all deserve so much more. stay safe
Imagine getting that reaction- "Dad, I broke up with my boyfriend" "Well done." 💀🤚 Edit: Her dad is literally too sweet though. I feel like this is how my dad would react if I got together with a girl. I've told him and my mom I'm pansexual and they are like "... Your point is?" like they see no difference in me. They both don't believe in sexualities and how you should be with the opposite gender only, so I'm relieved-
Ur so lucky! I came out as pansexual too, and they literally didnt talk to me for months. They said i can either be GET OUT OF THE HOUSE or quit being pan. But somehow, I'm surviving in this household.😥 and whenever i have a guy over(Im a guy too btw), she tells him to get out of the house. Then when i have girls over, she tells them to get out too! I really dont like it in here!😭😭
@@sandhanitizer6260 Awh, I'm so sorry for you! Don't let them control you into thinking what's "Best for you". Nobody knows what's best for you better than yourself❤️ Sexuality can't be helped, and if they can't see that then that's their problem. I hope you'll be able to get out of that situation soon❤️
this father is way beyond his league !!. If every father was as supportive and understanding as this guy - the world would not just be beautiful but a very "special" place. You are a very blessed girl to have a father like him.
That girl's father is the most open minded out of other parents. The way the other parents were cursing, It was really heartbreaking because even if there child is of lgbtq community, they are there child. They should try to understand and love them whatever they are. 💜💜💜
@@swearitjustajuice63 its not a choice i guess, they dont choose it themselves,they are just born that way,until they find out themselves. ANYWAYS THEY ARE SPECIAL LIKE EVERYONE
@Sribas Chowdhury its ok, you are just special, dont feel down just because other people think you are diff. . its your life , just live the way u want. and even if no one supports you, REMEMBER THAT I SUPPORT YOU. DONT WORRY AT ALL. YOU ARE PRECIOUS TOO.💜💜
The father that was understanding, made my heart so warm. Brought me to tears actually and I’m so happy. This is how it should be. Parents understanding and supporting their kids no matter what. A great moment there.
Everyone’s talking about the father but the way the girl’s mother started swearing and roasting her literally broke my heart- I mean imagine having a mother that doesn’t support you
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists Science: There is not a single gay gene Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
Before that the girl said she was close with parents as friends. It is horrible that her mother doesn't support her anymore just because she prefers women. So disappointing
I love that her father started thinking of ways that could help his daughter live with who she loved!!! He already was thinking about ways to get them married❤❤❤
I'm super grateful to have a dad like that girl, and a mom. They are both Asian and lived in India (which is a very homophobic country and same gender marriage was only legalized in 2018) I came out as bisexual to my parents a year ago, and they were both extremely supportive (I think my mom already knew though) my dad just started crying and gave me a big hug. They were never this privileged growing up so I find it amazing that despite their upbringing they were so understanding and accepting. It means the world to me that they support me and my sexuality. Edit: Wow, thanks for all the likes! Wasn't expecting my comment to blow up this much! Just thought I would update because a lot of replies were sharing their own coming out stories or struggles they've faced and I thought since that comment was a while back I would just bring you up to speed. First of all, I came out as pansexual a couple weeks ago and as expected, my family was supportive (my mom even bought me a pan flag for my room!) Also, if you're struggling with being accepted by your family/friends or are in the closet, afraid to come out; please know that you are valid. You are loved no matter what. Never feel pressured to one out whenever you're comfortable is whenever you should! Remember that there will always be people wanting to bring you down or people who will contribute to your beliefs. The important thing is to only associate yourself with the people who care and respect you. Don't let the homophobes effect you. Keep your head up, loves
I'm very happy for you! I'm from India too and sadly my bisexuality will most likely be a secret from my parents or family forever. But my friends are veryyy supportive and understanding so I have high hopes for our future generations.
As far as I am aware of my surroundings the GenZ and millennials are not homophobes. Yes, people older are a little rigid with their mentality. So, you saying "very homophobic" is a little wrong😅 Virtual hugs from India 🤗
@@DCVCPC it was legal for 2500 years before the british came and we had many gay hindus sufis and poets and rememberd people that are gay shah hussain and bulleh shah were both gay and this was in pakistan
As a Japanese, when I told my mother a little bit about my sexuality, she looked at me uncomfortably and disgusted. It's hard to live as one of lgbtq community in asia, but just a few people who understand it makes me happy
I'm very sorry for how it is in Japan (And most of Asia) regarding Asia. A lot of people think that it's disgusting because they were taught in a way that made it look horrible. Personally I'm a American but also am latina so my family wouldn't be supportive either. I'm glad that you can feel good by others. Have a great life my friend. Even through all this stupid stuff. I'm not good at this stuff I'm sorry haha
I'm from the UK. My boyfriend is from the Philippines. We have had nothing but support from both our families when we came out to them. We are both very lucky. I wish it was the same for everyone. Please just all live your lives the way you want to. Don't worry about trying to please others. You only get 1 life, go live it the best way! 🥰❤️👬🏳️🌈🇬🇧🇵🇭
there's a probability that deep in her mother's heart, she's afraid of what others might think about her daughter (problems her daughter might face, just like how the other lady's father had said) well...we'll never know one's mind and heart
@@imyoml9 actually they don't know about my gender identity yet, I'm a Trans guy. But they actually don't support or I should say they don't have enough knowledge about lgbtq+ community. I'm also an Asian (India), and here alot of people (especially elder ones but not everyone) don't know anything that's why they don't support us.
@@sayonsengupta I can't imagine how difficult that must be, and I hope things will improve. Just know that no matter what gender you identify as, whoever you are, you're valid and don't let anybody say otherwise! You're fine the way you are, so stay true.
@@sayonsengupta Im from India and i get you... The amount of open minded people from the older generation in our country as of now is really less.. i hope it changes soon and i wanted to tell that no matter what people say, you are amazing the way you are... don't loose your identity for people around you.. i really hope and pray that they will accept you for you.. but please do know that you're fine the way you are no matter what their reaction is... even if we don't know each other, i wish you all the best and i hope everything goes well for you!!Stay strong and stay the same!!!
I think his point was "people will gossip, will make your life tough, but you go chase after your dreams because if you work hard, you won't have time to hear them, plus your success will shut them up".
I can’t imagine disowning my child for that. It makes me cry, I’m only 18 but when I have children I will always love them no matter what they prefer. I used to be in a strict family that was 100% homophobic and I became blind and just like them. Thankfully I see clear and am no longer that way. I love everyone and love is love❤️ be who you are and love who you want! Life is way to short for that.
same! I have a very conservative yet a bit homophobic household. I love my family ofc. But I decided to change myself for the better and to be open about the LGBTQ
At first I wasn't sure if they were actually gay or if this was going to be a "prank" video, but then the girl and I both started crying at her sweet dad! I'm glad it was real.
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"Dad should always understand his daughter."
That girl have the sweetest dad ever.
it really depends where you came from and ur culture and its really scary but personallyi think you can choose betwean these things with will power and all but what do i know i dont join communities
@@ibrahimismail5625 nah it totally depends on the person's personality and the person himself. Culture and the place you come from only has a small impact and in the end of the day you cant tell me that someone is a good father just cause he is from a specific culture
@@Uzy_71 Society
I was crying too when he said that
I cried with her lmao her dad is amazing
“Dad should always understand his daughter. There’s nothing I can’t understand. We’re family no matter what.”
It melted my heart so bad......
Too bad dads like that are one in a million among traditional Asian parents... 😔
He's one in a million.
Too bad my dad is homophobic and I'm actually pansexual 😔
And yes, he's Asian :]
Nah bro it’s elated your heart so good! ⟟ loved that so much : D
He is one in a million literally. I really wish I had a father like this.
the girl’s dad seems like he’s supportive but scared of the prejudice she might face
I thought he was worried; not so much about what others might think, but rather it would hurt her chances of success in work environment
@Jennie the idol we failed to protect she’s not blind lol
OMG HI MISA PFP
My dad feels like this as well
@@miriamart3130 As someone who has gone out/dated/hook up with men I say, everything is wrong
Everyone’s talking about the girl with the amazing father but I feel so bad for the girl who got cussed by her mom
Ikr!
Yeah 😭
That's your Asian mom, for you. She probably wanted grandchildren. Can't blame her.
@@Catholic81 there's something called "adoption" 💀
@@Catholic81
Yes you can blame her. Children are obligated to care for their parents when they're old yes, but they're not obligated to give you grandchildren. It's really bad when you pressure someone to have kids they dont want!
That girl's father is such a heartwarming person.
True!
He is so supportive and wishes her to be happy ❤️
i cried ;-;
Yesterday I came out to my mother and my mother reacted the same way!!! I'm so happy
This made me cry
That one father who was so understanding and showed support towards his daughter is just truly heartwarming.
yesss 🥰
I agree, she was clearly not sure how he would react. I know she was crying out of relief.
His response really made me cry. You could really feel through the screen the weight lifting off her shoulders while listening to him...
i was literally crying by watching their whole conversation i wish i had a dad or mom like him
@@jayseanmof1959 me too
the father saying lgbtq marriage is allowed overseas implying his daughter can travel to get married is so heart melting
@@hari2824 no need to comment if it's gonna be rude.
@@hari2824 Dont be so rude man
@@hari2824 tf, i you don’t have enough something good to say, don’t say it at all
@@hari2824 You wrote” I wish i didn’t have a dad like this” Did you meant to say that you wish you did have a father like this or it is not a mistake?
@@hari2824 it’s better to have a dad like this than have a dad like mine who says he cares but really he doesn’t.
If my child came out to me as lgbt, I wouldn't be able to help but be sad. Not because I don't approve, but because this world can be so ugly and unaccepting. As a parent, I worry that my child will have difficulty finding their happiness. All the more reason to give them my unconditional love and support.
Do not be sad be proud! LGBT pride is a happy thing
@@strugglingcollegestudent They're saying they're proud but the homophobic people will giv them a hard time
Well just stop letting them be gay fr
The world isnt ugly
@@dawinny3234 it doesn’t work like that 💀
“There's nothing I can't understand, we're family no matter what.”
that melted my heart
Same sis
made me tear up.
Same....I'm crying 🥺🥺💜
i am also crying with her...
Me too, though for a different reason - it reminded me of my mum's reaction when I came out. Shock, but overridden by concern and acceptance. Her main priority was getting me to sit down because it was the first time I had come out to anyone, and I was shaking so hard she thought I was going to fall over.
Same-sex marriage had been legal here for years, but my mum and I were both raised in Christian Fundamentalism. She viciously defends me against her own family.
The girl’s dad was so heartwarming. What a fantastic father.
I really touched too 😢
i almost cried
It's truly nice to see a father that loves his daughter *unconditionally*.
Truly
bless him
I was literally crying when her father said, "I support you don't mind others."
same.
ayyy Girl My Name Is Aanchal too💞💞
I wonder how would he react if he had a son and not a daughter.
Same bur idk how to tell my dad that I'm bi💙💜
OMG same here. I thought this only happens in dramas.
it hurt so bad hearing "a dad should always understand his daughter" after just getting into a big fight with my father. i love this video. it's really hard to see other people have good relationships with their parents, but at the same time, it is comforting that not everyone has to go through the hurt of feeling alone in your home.
same... hopefully one day i can be truly be happy for my friends who have good relationships with their parents without feeling pain in my chest.
I understand that so well my narc mother still trying to brainwash me that she knows the world and how these things work.
Nothing she has ever told me to do has led me to happiness.
The girls dad is actually worried about the struggles she'll face, not exactly bc of the worlds perception of her. That's just a great dad :)
THE AMITY PFP
SO GAY 😩😩
THE AMITY PFP IM CRYING BAHAHAH- THE NAME I JUST NOTICED AHAHHAHAHAH-
Alr after that breakdown yup i agree.
I like your profile picture
Amity oh cramity
"a dad should always understand his daughter, there's nothing i can't understand. we're family no matter what".
i teared up, he's so heartwarming 🥺!! that girl should be so thankful to have a dad like him.
1.2k likes and no replies wtf
I cried too! You can tell how much that meant to her. They are very lucky to have each other 💜
He was such a good person...I hope everyone gets parents like him who support their children in situations like these...
Me too! We are going thru a moment in time where individuals are finally starting to break free and be exactly who they know they are. Members of the LGBTQ+ are so brave and I don’t think they truly know that they are changing the WORLD! Right here and now! I love seeing the videos of parents/family that accept their loved one after they tell them. And it breaks my heart to hear of someone’s family disowning them when they shared their truth. I don’t want kids, but if I ever do, I’ve learned from stuff like this that support and understanding is so important.
I’m crying rn. Bless him
I love how the dad is so supportive but the
"I broke up with my boyfriend-"
"Well done."
KILLED ME
I love it
Maybe the guy was pretty terrible to her and the father was aware.
I like the ranboo pfp
@@Marjorie_But_A_Commentator for me it was just funny
I preffered not to think about a backstory to that since it makes it a bit
depressing
ngl
@@gayforurparents2990 ty
I also like ur pfp
I'm straight but oh my god I'm crying so bad rn...This father is just the role model for every parent. Everyone wants to be loved, accepted and supported by family unconditionally
"We're family no matter what." That's really powerful. Parents of gay children should remember that.
yes, no matter how we grow up. I hope we can do the same to our kids.
Any parents should remember that.
I don't agree. I think that you should be allowed to chose if you see them as family i should not feel trapped with horrible people just cause we're related by blood family is something much deeper than that....
@@Emiko-x8s agreed
@@Emiko-x8s You do make a good point but I don't think that was what OP meant.
when the girl’s dad said “you could get married in other countries” and “we’re family no matter what” that was so heartwarming bcs that means her dad has basically accepted her already despite the shock and is already thinking about her future 🥺
When he talked about other countries I teared up. He sounded shocked but was still completely supportive of her relationship 🥺
So are they actually gay?
@@fidhanawal5925 thats the whole video😭😭😭
I know right? That was so nice.
@@anikaaaaa5294 i think only for video they did that
"We're family no matter what"
😭❣️ Everyone deserves a dad like him ❣️
I want my mom like him :(
@@stanleysutandy3991 no every mom is not same..they have different way of being kind and sweet🥺Ik your mom is that💗
I want a dad like him
Exactly
My dad would beat the fuck out of me
When I was younger my dad, who’s very religious, used to be extremely homophobic. He would say things like “gay people are disabled” “they’re predators” and would use shocking words against them. I was so scared of coming out I started getting depressed and I felt like he would kick me out of his life.
When I finally came out 2 years later with the help of my mom, he started crying because suddenly he remembered all the painful things he said and he felt extremely sorry.
And now here we are, he became a trade unionist and protects the rights of minorities daily.
I’m glad I got supportive parents even if the journey was long and tough.
Edit: just to clarify, I’m a woman xx
This is so sweet. I’m glad he changed for the better and saw the error of his ways:)
Your dad went through a redemption arc
I’m going to replace your father with my uncle, we are now family.
Your dad changed for the worst💀 he should really rethink his decision before leaving his children getting brainwashed
@@halloeverynya Hold on i'm just getting my popcorn before someone makes this an incredibly long discussion
Saying you wouldn’t love your child if there were LGBT is like saying
“I love my child but terms and conditions apply”
😂😂😂
Jokes aside if a parent stops loving their child after they came out they never loved them in the first place.
@@sweettea4245 yep... Imagine changing your mind on a person especially your OWN child, just because they weren't what you wanted them to be 😭
@@angelinenabua6336 Parents who already have plans for what they expect their children to be are ruining the beauty of children in the first place. Its beautiful to raise your child and see them grow into an amazing person. Parents have to expect the unexpected when in comes to raising a child. Before going out and deciding you want to have a child, have a conversation with yourself and ask “Am I financially stable?” “Is my mental health okay?” “Will I still love and support my child if they came out?” “Will I be able to be a prominent figure in their life?” Etc. If you can’t see yourself in one of those scenarios then you need to fix that before deciding to make a baby. Don’t be your child’s enemy.
@@sweettea4245 yes. You're obviously correct. They hold such high expectations for their Children and forget that their Children may have another thought or gets forced just for them to exceed their parents expectation... And it's really sad.
“Dad should always understand his daughter.” AHH MY HEART SO SWEET.
IKR so wholesome!
☺
ikr i cried!
If my dad was like that I would've been happier
😊
It's so sad that the girl who got cussed out felt that her parents were laid back and would probably not care what her sexuality was.
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That’s how i felt too, before i asked them about why their god felt that being abuthing other than cis and straight is wrong
the fact that they didnt show hpw it ended up with her really makes me worried. i guess it really didnt go well
@@IshikaGoel29
Wish i can come to her and welcome her in my home
But the girl who got cussed and who said about her parents like you explained are different people
The girl with laid-back parents was supported by her dad
"a dad should always understand his daughter" now that's a good father!!
The fact that fathers were more supportive than mothers burst the whole bubble of perspective that Hollywood had created in my mind over the years.
the one dudes mother seemed alright with it. acceptance doesn’t have to do with gender.
@@luffymain True. Acceptance depends on the person
@@MillieDuu FRFR I WISH EVERY PARENT HAD THAT MUCH UNDERSTANDING-
@@nishikaaa6515 IKR
As someone who has a father who made my life a lot worse definitely don't agree lmao.. My father told me never to look at men or talk to them ( while he or mother never said the same to my brother), he made men look like aliens to me & now he wants me married, does he think I'm a numb person with no feelings? I can't even look at a man without getting goosebumps because of his restrictions now he wants me to be like other girls, get married.. How funny is that.
“I um..I broke up with my boyfriend.”
“Well done”.
I felt that
What do you feel
Wow there is the comment that got 1.8k likes and there is only 1 chat? Not fair
@@sheesh7833 lol it fine anyways 👍
@@dhruvikapathak9642 "emotions" like a normal human would
@@diliaaastarlight8691 oh l can't feel that because l not a human
It’s really interesting how at the start they were all like my parents are so accepting of me and they always support me but this one small detail all of a sudden changed that
The way they intro’d the video I thought they weren’t actually gay just seeing what their parents reaction would be. Honestly, I’m still a bit unsure. PD never asked “do your parents know you’re gay?” Just told them “today you’re telling your parents you’re gay.”
@@justinneff9560 I was also unsure but I think the more important message from this video was the parents and their reaction/response to their child coming out to them. I honestly don't care if none of them are actually gay, you could tell that it meant a lot to the woman talking to her dad that he would accept her and even meet her girlfriend to have dinner. It was so heart warming to see. :)
@@BiancaPark Yeah we just don't want them to just don't want them having other people pretending to be gay for views. The message and the hardships people experience by coming out are certainly in the video.
Internalized homophobia is scary
Now I'm scared to come out to my parents ;-;
I love how calm and relaxed he was when he said, "He has just grown on me" and he smiled
"Can't you just support me?" Okay i feel the pain when she said that :(
Koreans with their fake Caucasian surgery
@@shazzadahmed2682 what is wrong with you
@@shazzadahmed2682 what?
@@shazzadahmed2682 bro who hurt you
@@shazzadahmed2682 obsessed behavior
I felt bad for the girl who got cussed by her mom. The smile she projects means pain to me.
It justs shows how they're so used to it.I would've cried on the spot if I were them.
“The smile she projects means pain to me” sounds edgy 😶
@@shingswoooop Calm down for a second.They just wanted to express their oppinion with a sentence that you may see as "edgy and gay".Also stop using "gay" as an insult cause all you know is that they might be gay plus it gives off "I'm a homophobic popular kid that doesn't know human decency" vibes.
Edti:The person deleted their comment-Smh,all i recall is that they commented “Your comment is edgy and gay” or smth like that
@@shingswoooop my name or my username? My name means angel/wings of an angel 🤨
@@shingswoooop 😐 okay snowflake. Stop using gay as a insult
when the mom said "hang up the phone" I was scqred she meant she didn't want to speak to him anymore, but the fact that she said that becauae its a serious subject she wants to be talked in person was heartwarming to me
thousandth like :)
Right 😭 that was a much better outcome
well in person she could easily slap him...
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists
Science: There is not a single gay gene
Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow
Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
the DAD made me cry, i wish my parents were that supportive
is nobody gonna talk about “i broke up with my bf” “well done”
*well done*
_w e l l d o n e_
*WELL DONE*
*w e l l d o n e*
*W* _e_ *l l* D _o_ *n* _e_
the daughter is crying, the dad is crying, I'm crying, we're all crying
Not really, but your 100th like
@DripTrollKing we got some internet tough guys here
And I’m not crying
I cried too
Who’s we? 😂
“I broke up with my boyfriend”
Dad: “Well done”
But he was so understanding and a good father. Always came back with the milk 🗿
PFFT-
Not the milk 🗿😂😂
What a legend.
Not like deku's dad lmao 💀
@@きよ-f3m he went to get milk 13 years ago and still hadn't returned 🧎♀️✨
The dad is such a beautiful soul. She is lucky to have him.
When that girl's dad said "we are family no matter what" made me tear up so bad . Remembering that my dad said that don't even consider me as your dad if you are going to be like this.
That's soo true!
That’s so sad. I am a straight girl but I do wanna see my dad’s reaction. But I am a coward lol.
I'm so so sorry you have to live with what he said...., you are absolutely wonderful and worthy of love
@@kotoriitsuka3218 What do you wanna see, if you're straight?
Seeing how he'd react if you lie about being gay?
I don't think it's a good idea, cuz it'll permanently stick in his head.
:)
“i’ve heard they can get married in other countries…” my heart sank, the fact that equal rights are that far away from lgbt koreans. the idea of gay marriage is simply an idea to them :(
it's simply an idea and a faraway dream in many countries
@@nehanaveen2252 yeah....I'm just waiting to go to France where its legal, unlike in my country...I know I will never come out to my parents, and if I end up marrying a girl...they won't know :/
Yeah... imagine living in Iran
Which I do while being forever closeted.
@@fazetta I live in a country where it is illegal to be homosexual but You have it a 100x worse omg. I can’t imagine it
@@karalsor6145 We would be glad to welcome you. Same-sex marriage is a recent yet really important part of France now, and a big step for more tolerance and equality. You have my support
No CuZ the way the girl’s dad was like “you can get married in other countries” was actually sweet cuz it kinda meant to me that he was already thinking of how she could get married and was planning it even though she JUST told him that she liked a woman 🥺🥺
it’s so sad how lgbtq people can’t get married in korea yet. i hope it becomes legalized soon and more koreans become more open minded towards gay people. that dad was so sweet and i love him
I thought the same!
I’m a lesbian, and in my country not only is gay marriage illegal, but it can land you 7 years in prison 🧍🏽
@@rayn724 Which country?
@@aathira741 Pakistan :’)
I started tearing up when the dad said ''there's nothing I can't understand'' and ''We're family no matter what''
it really hurts watching the way the lady said "can't you just support me?" while trying to smile after she heard how her mother cussed at her for being true to herself.
The mother may come around. I have gay friends who experienced this at the beginning. Parents react differently and many are just in shock and do not know what to say or how to behave with news like this. I don't agree with their reactions but this is in South Korea and it is conservative. Her mother may need to process it. One of my friends in school came out when she was in her late teens. They kicked her out but eventually they came around. It took a while and they accepted her orientation and support her 100%. My cousin came out and my aunt was crying because she was scared not angry. She was concerned about discrimination, hate crimes, this was in the seventies. She told him to leave and move to the city as we were in a rural conservative village.
@@dolcemaddalena nice! Hopefully the mother comes around…
@@dolcemaddalena that brings hope to me as well! i’m planning to tell later in life, while im in collage, not high school
@@dolcemaddalena please just know that South Korea is a conservative country so I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t but I would like to hope that them other did soon accept her daughter
W mother
OMG THAT ONE GIRL'S DAD "you can get married in some countries" HE WAS LITERALLY READY TO HELP I WANT TO CRY
(btw this is a positive thing i think someone misunderstood lol_
Freak you are icl
@@embb120 ?? sorry what?
@@embb120 what????????
@@embb120 you're weird
@@embb120 icl?
“A dad should always understand his daughter, we’re family no matter what. Don’t think about what others say..you live your life..” 🥺🥺🥺 I teared up. I wish I had a father like that
me too...
Same here 🙁
Korean women were told in the 1950s by their fathers that they need plastic surgery to attract white military men. They told them Korean men are oriental losers. This is how plastic surgery started in Korea
Korea is the suicide capital of the world because Korean women don't like Oriental men. They desire Caucasian featured men added with Caucasian noses, and air brushed skin tones too
same :(
I’m so sorry to everyone in the comments who’s parents are so mean. I cannot imagine what that’s like you are so strong live how you like love who you want. 💕
كليزق مسويه فهيمه
Damn that girls mom went off! Didn't want to hear a word! That was quite harsh but it's just what I expected, most of them rejected but the one girls dad accepted despite being surprised.
@zappafan11 real parents accept and support their children for who they are
@zappafan11 Excuse me? That's not a good parents. A parent will love their child for who they are..They shouldn't hate their child just because of who the child lloves..cause in the end..It is their child
@zappafan11 That's wrong cause it's weird..
It's not even the same thing..
Gay doesn't mean you are loving someone older than you or loving animals..It's just loving someone despite the gender.
Parents should support their child even if they like the same gender and it's not illegal or something
@zappafan11 That’s the worst comparison ever.
who the hell is this zappa person
when the dad said "dont care about other and do what you want", I immediately started crying because honour and reputation is really important to my religious and strict parents and they are always telling me "what will others say", "you are a disgrace to our family" and so on. Her dad was so wise and understandable. They say ur parents should become your bestfriends during your teenage and adulthood but unfortunately some parents like mine still control me
u r not alone!
remember that you weren't put here on this world to live for your parents or for other people (if you're religious, if you're not like me then the reason you exist is random and you don't owe anyone your life), live for yourself
You're not alone
Based on your name I feel like you are Muslim (please correct me if I’m wrong) and I just wanna say that I completely understand what that can feel like, ESPECIALLY with very religious, strict parents. You feel trapped and want to impress them but it feels like nothing you do will be good enough for them. Know that I am here for you and I know you can get through this, even if it may take a while :)
I feel EXACTLY the same as you
I feel bad for the girl who got cussed out by her own mother... though I'm really happy how parents supported their children and I hope hers will change their mind sooner or later. When she smiled through the pain my heart broke:(
Hello Noelle
@Yungplaygurl Korean women were told by their fathers in the 1950s to get plastic surgery to attract white military men because oriental features looked unattractive. This is how plastic surgery started in Korea.
@@AyanAli-py7ci what has that to do with this 😂
@Yungplaygurl I knew that i am half korean but it was sooo random
Yea like she didn't came on the screen after the mother was cursing poor girl.
I came out to my family and they keep denying it. That was 2 years ago. It still hurts
than be normal
@@bojanadabic282 define normal
@@Viv1enne.Straight
As a fellow gay person I just want to say that you are valid. You are perfect just the way you are. I'm so sorry that your comment was met with such nasty replies.
@adibmahmood8618 oh my god, I never thought of that before. That is so simple
Nah cause hearing her dad say that brought tears to my eyes. It must be so wonderful to have a dad like that.
Also, I wonder if the people in this video are really LGBT or if they're just doing it to see how theyd react?
They did so to understand if their family is supportive or against same sex love and marriage.they might be straight till that time and can't avoid the fact that they could love same sex lover after that if they understands that everyone will be supportive
Yeah
I wish I had parents like that. Growing up, my wishes were always insignificant in the eyes of my parents. Even though I'm an adult now, there are times when my heart hurts because I didn't receive enough love as a child.
@@MinSugaCheonjae well I hope u will revive that love else where as an adult
What's surprising is that among the parents, a father responded more positively than others and the things he said really assured her that he understands and support her. Most people expect mothers to be the understanding one but here the father responded calmly and affectionately despite the shock.
it depends on ur parents personality tbh
@@weItyang agreed
But her father is dissapointed, I can hear his cry
Maybe because moms are more invested in their kids - they are the main caretakers, especially in more traditional countries like Korea - so when their 'perfect' little girl/boy does not turn out the way they dream of, the mother doesn't respond well to it. Most likely the mothers will come around and be understanding after some time passes. That's just my take on it.
@@leonardoenrico2152 which parent isn't? Any parent would be disappointed for various reasons while acceptance and support is a case to case basis. I don't think I've heard, it's very rare, of any parent say they would want/wish a child to be a member of LGBTQ+.
“Dad should always understand his daughter. There’s nothing I can’t understand. We’re family no matter what.” Wow 😭😭😭
I cry when her dad say that 😭😭😭
I wish I had a father like her
This melted my heart 😭
When I came out to my mother she was calm and more accepting than my father who strictly told me to leave the house and never step inside this house again. I was only 13 at that time and it broke my heart. It takes a lot of courage yet they never try to understand. The girl is lucky to have a supportive father.
Doesn't your dad knows that he can go to jail for throwing out underage kid out of the house? It's not that simple.
@@qwertz666 His father has no gray matter in his brain
@@qwertz666Depends on country's laws
I feel so bad for the girl whose parents swore at her :( poor thing, I hope she’s okay.
right also 1K likes in a 2 days!?
@@isabelaglo 2k in one day- wow
@@ss-sr5my "make them good" girlie why was her coming out the parent bad? She doesn't need a scolding, she needs a supportive parents. She did nothing wrong to be cursed out like that.
@@armygenezenxmy2498 well i am not talking about any gay lol can be another thing too
@@ss-sr5my it was about her coming out, not other situations smh 🙄.
why are people asking if they’re really gay? that one girl literally broke down cuz of how supportive her father was.
The previous video was seeing how parents reacted to Koreans telling their parents that they’re dating an American, so they thought that this was just a social experiment like the other video, which it isn’t.
@@sillymulchgobbler oh okay. thank u for telling me.
@@sailormoon92-vv np
Even if it was an experiment it showed some of them that their parent's love isn't unconditional after all. Let's say these people are straight, but still support LGBT and wanted to do this experiment for that reason. When you find out that your parent(s) is homophobic and responds super negatively towards you, you realize that in another life if you WERE LGBT, you would not be accepted by your own flesh and blood. You realize your parents don't love you as much as you thought they did, and they only love a specific version of you that aligns with their beliefs and what they want. It's even worse when you already, for real, are LGBT. Having to come into terms with that is a heartbreaking experience. It's heartbreaking to think that if you tried to be vulnerable with your parents and tell them something as important as that, which would by no means be easy to do, they would think much less of you. They would be ashamed of you and, in extreme cases, disown you or cut ties, because they can't accept someone who is LGBT as their kid.
you don't need to be gay to be overwhelmed knowing that your father will support you no matter what.
"dad should always understand his daughter" this makes me cry. She so lucky to have a father like him
Me too. Best thing ever. Am glad i watched this vdo.
Extremely lucky ..
She so lucky, I wish my father is have that mindset too
Her father is such a gem .
Parents who don’t accept their own children should’ve never had em in the first place.
They just want little clones of themselves smh
@@annabellehe4307 right like a person is still individually their own person. 🥴
Yeah but too late by then.
@@sotis1756 you can still have children. The thing is ignorant parents like this are still around and it doesn’t motivate most same sex couples to have kids. Also, plenty of adults on Korea aren’t having kids or getting married anyways. Harsh parents and society is the issue.
@@sotis1756 1. Gay ppl can have biological kids, whether through surrogacy, IVF, sperm donor, or by just one member of the couple being trans. If they decide to have biological children, of course.
2. Obsessing with your kids having kids like that is creepy af.
3. Do people like you just not realize that there are plenty of cis straight people that are infertile or just choose not to have biological (or adopted) kids? Having even a straight kid isn't a guarantee that you'll get grandkids. Children don't exist to reproduce for you wtf
I love how that dad who said "Well done" also started thinking like "I've heard you can get married in other countries". This man definitely returned with the milk. That's the kind of dad every man should aspire to be.
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists
Science: There is not a single gay gene
Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow
Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic lol
Naw dawg he had the milk stocked up before the baby came
@@arcanesidus_This comments section is crazy bro, they are literally proud of this shit lol
@@thedarkking32 What do you mean?
@@thedarkking32 wtf
I cried a river listening to that father comforting his daughter, I never felt such comfort and acceptance from my own. If all parents can be as calm and accept that their kids aren’t replicant of them so many households would be at peace. We wouldn’t spend the rest of our lives chasing the concept of feeling home.
So true :( I totally agree with you. And your last words are so relatable to me, and to everyone as well i guess. We are always searching for the place where we can feel safe and where we can feel home . But the home isnt just a building, it's about people who make you feel home. And it's so sad that sometimes even in your family you feel yourself lonely . I wish everyone find a person , who make you feel home 💜
Most people procreate for selfish reasons, it's actually rare for someone to not expect a "mini me"...
الاباء العرب :)
No one gives a shit
When I came out as Bi my mom started crying, my father was so disappointed, and my brother who was on the phone said he was going to beat me up, I left the room and came back later to apologize for who I am, when I saw the girl’s father being so understanding and loving I started crying with her. It was so sweet
Being bi or g ay is not bad, because it is not a choice! But the problem and perver$ion is when those feelings are acted upon and that person does sex with the wrong gender or having suspicious romance expressions with the same sex
@@moving8496 how is that a contradiction? They are different, they were born with an inclination towards immorality but of course depends on the society you are born to, if you are for example from Spain, it would be normal but not in other countries.
And who told you it is their right to act upon their feelings? They can make friends and best friends but no such thing as boy-boy relationship
@@nufailanoonit is a choice
No
You should prob find a new family that’ll support you tbh
I am not a part of LGBTQ community but that girl's father's support for her almost made me cry . It's really nice to see parents accepting their kids for who they are
its so sweet and nice!
right, when she started to cry i almost started crying, it’s so sweet to see kindness and acceptance
Same , i cried
same
A Dahyun Stan is here HELLO 👋😘
When the girl's dad said, “no matter what, we’re family.” I started crying because I realized I will never have parents just like hers, I just wish I could have a supportive and understanding family.
omg same, we rockin on the same boat woop woop :’)
@@luckykhan755 lmao that’s bs, some people have abusive parents, your logic to me sounds like smth a helicopter parent would say
@@luckykhan755 But they can also break it, I don't remember how many times my father made me cry, I have a trauma bcz of him. Ofc, he's my father, but it doesn't mean that I need to love him no metter what, I can handle all the shitty things that he did, but some people can't
*Matter (sorry, my english isn't so good)
you can build your own, someday. i’m cheering for you, friend 💕
I'm so surprised that parents are okay with showing who they're to kids, but when kids show who they're, they're NOT ACCEPTED. Amazing
Edit: Damn the likes tho!
Showing who they are to kids like what? What do they show they're kids
@@FlorEnCeCe ... not accepting?
Animayo parents who physically/ mentally abuse their kids in the name of stress or anger issues, over controlling parents, parents who drink in front of their kids, parents who quarrel in front their kids and much more. In the end when we ask them y they’re doing this they give some senseless excuses like “tats how kids should be raised” or “this is normal in every family” or “this is how adults act”or they say “don’t talk back to parents”. They chose to give birth to us it wasn’t our choice and it’s their responsibility to accept their children and let them grow in a safe and accepting space. It’s their responsibility to not vent out their anger or apply unnecessary rules and traditions on kids and let them think and act freely.
@@friedfetus.8948 thx for the essay
@@FlorEnCeCe idk why, its a thanks but i found it offensive lmao
4:20 this moment is so beautiful, the dad is so supportive to her daughter, he says like I don’t want this to kinda “block” your life, you have to first earn money etc…
I love how the father was both supportive and worried because he knows how the society will treat them and instead of scaring her off, he advised her to work harder and not mind what other people think.
Vote Republican to Vote Anti-LGBT
or Democrat to Vote Highly-Flawed-but-Pro-LGBT.
Its kinda simple as that.
Trust me, i dont like the fact how simple this is either,
but we cant shy-away from the fact that it is like that.
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists
Science: There is not a single gay gene
Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow
Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
Ice Castle Same
Everybody in the comment section talking about that one dad who accepted her and I'm here feeling bad for the others, whose parents got mad when they confessed! :(
@ZedLow
Why are they right??
@@StormixDZN
Parent: *Curses non stop
ZedLow: Ah yes. This makes so much sense. Everything is clear now.
@@StormixDZN can i ask why?
@@StormixDZN ? Wdym by they’re right?
@@StormixDZN im sorry you would do what to your child???? that's insane you're willing to kill someone who you've raised just because they're lgbt?
This is one of these scenes
Korean son: "Mom, I think I'm gay"
Mom: "Okay and? Your still a failure-"
What in the Beatrice Horseman is this?
@@zannchristo asian family
@@zannchristo Bojack niceeeeee
@@zannchristo bojackkkk
@@zannchristo Mr Peanutbutter haha
the last girl's interaction with her father was so heartwarming to watch
When my sister came out to my parents, my mother said "okay and so what? You are still my daughter, I gave birth to you, I will protect you from anyone" and she meant it, any family member that tried to be homophobic she would put them in their place. My mom is someone you don't mess with LOL.
Wow I'm so happy for your sister and bless your mom... She's a sweetheart.
I love your mom (not like that lol)
I'd really love to have your mom :(
that's very sweet, you have a great mother
I would love to be friends with your mom. I feel like mine doesn’t understand me.
For a Korean man..... from his generation... to understand his daughter, on a phone call confession no less, is soooooooo rare I cannot even tell you. Korean society is very conservative and hyper competitive. Her father is simply worried about what others might think, but at the end of the day, he chooses his daughter, because he loves his daughter. UNREAL!!!!!!!!!!!! Truly, this girl will grow up to be kind, kind human being, because of her parents. And that's what's important. And the way that dad answered... think about it... he just Squid Game'd five reactions that will have a lasting effect on his daughter's life. He was careful, thoughtful, and ultimately answered in a way that made his daughter feel loved and respected. DAD OF THE YEAR! Young lady.... I hope you have a wonderful life.
The dad was wholesome ❤️
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists
Science: There is not a single gay gene
Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow
Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
@평생 소원이 누룽지 If love is love then can a siblings marry each other ?
The dad is simply worrying about the pressure that his daughter may face in the future… damn so heartwarming
@평생 소원이 누룽지 Explain what is this health issues exactly ?
As a girl who's attracted to both men and women this really warmed my heart.
As a boy who’s only attracted to other boys, this also really warmed my heart 🏳️🌈.
Same here :)
@2O46 not everyone likes labels
@2O46 yeah those word have very negative kind of aura. Beacause of the tones some use it with
Same here, but when I came out .it was a mixed reception. My dad was pretty cool about it, but my mom was a bit worried and told me to just be "normal" my dad is white and my mom is Chinese so maybe it was because of the culture.
I'm just literally crying bc of this.
I want a father like this.
To have a dad like that… that girl is so luckily. I started crying when she started crying too. Queer or not, I can’t imagine how good it feels fo know that someone important in your life loves and accepts you no matter what.
Yeah, my mum supports me being gay, but she doesn't support me being trans, but despite that, every one of my friends supports me being trans and it feels like a burden lifted to know there's someone supporting you.
I know right?!
The girl's dad accepted her. That's so heartwarming and really nice.
Korean people are know for Caucasian surgery
@@shazzadahmed2682 lmao so random😭
@@shazzadahmed2682 ew gtfo
@@shazzadahmed2682 excuse me what? 💀
Were they really gay? Or just a prank?
that lady's father got me tearing up wow sana all
same sana all ganun ka supportive
Yes me too
Asexual ako so no future kids for my parents AHAAHA
@@wakeupwakeupwakeup89yearsa30 LMAO ONE OF US
@@ampalayuh3190 uhm ask ko lng. Pano mo malalaman na asexual ka? Nalilito din ksi ako e
I am promising myself today when I will have kids I will support them in every situation and never will leave them alone
You’ll be a better parent than a lot of people in this comment section then.
@@maximeminassian6002 i hope I can be
my heart hurts for the girl who got cursed out by her mother... i feel so bad for her. i am bisexual and came out to my very christian black mother (if you are black you know how homophobic the community can be) surprisingly she took it well... i am grateful for that. mine reacted similarly to the way the dad of the girl did, accepting and wise. this was a beautiful video.
im black and 15 but I haven't come out to my family yet, I only came out to my brother and my two best friends as pansexual. The thing im worried about is that my mom talks a lot, so if I tell her she'll most likely tell the whole damn neighborhood, even if I did tell her not to. Also yeah I agree, the community is quite homophobic, especially out in the hood.
@@imtrappedinsangwoosbasemen246 fellow Pansexual! No one in my family knows but j might come out to my very accepting sister when she’s a bit older and I can trust she won’t accidentally out me; my parents are those bigot conservatives who are the “ew all these PRONOUNS and LABELS” kind of homophobes so I don’t think they’ll be accepting and at best will mock and dismiss my sexuality rip we stay strong together
wow thats rare
im black and a lesbian, the black community is so homophobic towards lesbians and im afraid to come out to any of my black friends or family unless theyre lgbtq+.
as a first-gen black bi with christian ghanaian parents, I don't even try to think about coming out to them
The girl with the understanding dad made me cry so hard, I was practically gasping for air. He was so supportive even for being asian which made me tear up even more. He gives her advice and also searches for solutions for her to marry her girlfriend. He wants her happiness to come first and was just so, so understanding. THIS IS THE EXAMPLE OF A GREAT PARENT. I haven’t cried for so long in years.
@@BK-ut3wc imagine complaining over someone’s feelings
@@BK-ut3wc they’re*
Imagine being a complete asshole that is completely ignorant of the struggles faced by the lgbtq+ community and trivialising it.
It was so touching.
@@BK-ut3wc imaging getting mad and spreading hate to random person on the internet because their explaining their feelings.
No matter the results of the calls, what OSSC is doing by portraying LGBT+ youth here is really important. I hope this channel gets bigger and bigger and that it remains giving good quality and inclusive content
Indeed
I agree, and I love the main cast, they are so thoughtful and their reactions are heartwarming. ✌🏼+❤️
It's cringe, not good.
@@vladimir8035 yeah sure darling, have a nice life
@@vladimir8035 then why are you here watching and commenting??
I live in a country where even the younger generation struggles to accept homosexuality outside of movies and bl series. I've thought about coming out to my parents several times, but every time the certainty that I will be kicked out to live on the streets has held me back. I've always been Daddy's girl, and I wish my father would be as supportive as the girl's father. She's lucky to have one who doesn't hesitate at all to have her back.
i literally cried when the father and girl were having conversation. if all parents were so supportive, i don't think the world needs anything more
Your comment really caught my eyes
@Mike Hunt what 😂
@Mike Hunt LOL
i was crying smmm i want a loving relationship liek that w my parents lols but im so happy for her tho
@Mike Hunt lmao I- 😭😭
i’m a lesbian and a korean and this shit is gonna make me tear up. i really wished i had parents that supported me.
(ayo other lgbtq peeps who are going through the same thing, i love y’all. you all deserve so much more. stay safe
I hope they’ll come through! You have my full support ❤️
You have support and virtual hug 🤗
thank you guys :’)
Don’t worry man. We support you
We support u🙈🐾🐨
Imagine getting that reaction-
"Dad, I broke up with my boyfriend"
"Well done." 💀🤚
Edit: Her dad is literally too sweet though. I feel like this is how my dad would react if I got together with a girl. I've told him and my mom I'm pansexual and they are like "... Your point is?" like they see no difference in me. They both don't believe in sexualities and how you should be with the opposite gender only, so I'm relieved-
I'm so happy for you that you have such supportive and loving parents! ❤
@@talarv9026 Thank youu🥺❤️
Ur so lucky! I came out as pansexual too, and they literally didnt talk to me for months. They said i can either be GET OUT OF THE HOUSE or quit being pan. But somehow, I'm surviving in this household.😥 and whenever i have a guy over(Im a guy too btw), she tells him to get out of the house. Then when i have girls over, she tells them to get out too! I really dont like it in here!😭😭
@@sandhanitizer6260 Awh, I'm so sorry for you! Don't let them control you into thinking what's "Best for you". Nobody knows what's best for you better than yourself❤️
Sexuality can't be helped, and if they can't see that then that's their problem. I hope you'll be able to get out of that situation soon❤️
@@whosmka thank you!!❤ btw im army too!
this father is way beyond his league !!. If every father was as supportive and understanding as this guy - the world would not just be beautiful but a very "special" place. You are a very blessed girl to have a father like him.
That girl's father is the most open minded out of other parents.
The way the other parents were cursing, It was really heartbreaking because even if there child is of lgbtq community, they are there child. They should try to understand and love them whatever they are. 💜💜💜
Army 😌💜
Exactly, No Child is Choosing to be LGBTQ+. LGBTQ+ Chooses the Child 🤭
@@ilxve_txe yassssssss
@@swearitjustajuice63 its not a choice i guess, they dont choose it themselves,they are just born that way,until they find out themselves. ANYWAYS THEY ARE SPECIAL LIKE EVERYONE
@Sribas Chowdhury its ok, you are just special, dont feel down just because other people think you are diff. . its your life , just live the way u want. and even if no one supports you, REMEMBER THAT I SUPPORT YOU. DONT WORRY AT ALL. YOU ARE PRECIOUS TOO.💜💜
The father that was understanding, made my heart so warm. Brought me to tears actually and I’m so happy. This is how it should be. Parents understanding and supporting their kids no matter what. A great moment there.
understanding them for being gay wtf😒
Everyone’s talking about the father but the way the girl’s mother started swearing and roasting her literally broke my heart- I mean imagine having a mother that doesn’t support you
Nature: Men and women were born differently so that they could be attracted to each other, and because of them humanity now exists
Science: There is not a single gay gene
Logic: If everything is about love, you can marry your mother, sister, daughter, marry 100 different people or even a marry cow
Fools and degenerates: Nature, science and logic are homophobic
i don't even have to imagine that
Before that the girl said she was close with parents as friends. It is horrible that her mother doesn't support her anymore just because she prefers women. So disappointing
I can’t imagine that. I feel horrible for people whose parents don’t support who they are, and who they love.
а мне и не надо представлять
I love that her father started thinking of ways that could help his daughter live with who she loved!!! He already was thinking about ways to get them married❤❤❤
I'm super grateful to have a dad like that girl, and a mom. They are both Asian and lived in India (which is a very homophobic country and same gender marriage was only legalized in 2018) I came out as bisexual to my parents a year ago, and they were both extremely supportive (I think my mom already knew though) my dad just started crying and gave me a big hug. They were never this privileged growing up so I find it amazing that despite their upbringing they were so understanding and accepting. It means the world to me that they support me and my sexuality.
Edit: Wow, thanks for all the likes! Wasn't expecting my comment to blow up this much! Just thought I would update because a lot of replies were sharing their own coming out stories or struggles they've faced and I thought since that comment was a while back I would just bring you up to speed. First of all, I came out as pansexual a couple weeks ago and as expected, my family was supportive (my mom even bought me a pan flag for my room!) Also, if you're struggling with being accepted by your family/friends or are in the closet, afraid to come out; please know that you are valid. You are loved no matter what. Never feel pressured to one out whenever you're comfortable is whenever you should! Remember that there will always be people wanting to bring you down or people who will contribute to your beliefs. The important thing is to only associate yourself with the people who care and respect you. Don't let the homophobes effect you. Keep your head up, loves
Omg I live in india too and I always thought that every indian person was homophobic but I'm glad there are people who support LGBTQ+ community
@@ιισω I don't live in India 😅, my parents used to but then they moved to Canada where I was born. I've visited India a few times but yeah
I'm very happy for you! I'm from India too and sadly my bisexuality will most likely be a secret from my parents or family forever. But my friends are veryyy supportive and understanding so I have high hopes for our future generations.
As far as I am aware of my surroundings the GenZ and millennials are not homophobes.
Yes, people older are a little rigid with their mentality.
So, you saying "very homophobic" is a little wrong😅
Virtual hugs from India 🤗
@@DCVCPC it was legal for 2500 years before the british came and we had many gay hindus sufis and poets and rememberd people that are gay shah hussain and bulleh shah were both gay and this was in pakistan
As a Japanese, when I told my mother a little bit about my sexuality, she looked at me uncomfortably and disgusted.
It's hard to live as one of lgbtq community in asia, but just a few people who understand it makes me happy
I'm very sorry for how it is in Japan (And most of Asia) regarding Asia. A lot of people think that it's disgusting because they were taught in a way that made it look horrible. Personally I'm a American but also am latina so my family wouldn't be supportive either.
I'm glad that you can feel good by others. Have a great life my friend. Even through all this stupid stuff.
I'm not good at this stuff I'm sorry haha
Best of wishes to you and the LGBT+ community ( ◜‿◝ )♡
I live in a place where it's illegal to be gay and if you are gay you will get beaten up in public, it's really scary
im sorry about the situation, i have your back ok? im rooting for you, i hope things get better in the future
@@Sharkyie1018 Same we get 3 years in prison for just being yourself.... smh
I feel like if I told my dad I liked a girl, he’d go like, “Even better. Now I don’t have to worry about you getting pregnant.”
this was EXACTLY what my friend’s dad said when she came out to him 😭
THAT is exactly what my father said to me
Dads and their weird fear of their girls getting pregnant 😂
😂
lucky you
I'm from the UK. My boyfriend is from the Philippines. We have had nothing but support from both our families when we came out to them. We are both very lucky. I wish it was the same for everyone. Please just all live your lives the way you want to. Don't worry about trying to please others. You only get 1 life, go live it the best way! 🥰❤️👬🏳️🌈🇬🇧🇵🇭
My respect for that girl's father is IMMENSE.
*Immense
@@7m.l_ typo xD
The way that girl said *can't you just support me* broke my heart.. I hope her mom will understand soon
I think they are not actually gay it’s just a social experiment
@@gigigiooo i thought the same
@@gigigiooo but at 5:34 he said confess
there's a probability that deep in her mother's heart, she's afraid of what others might think about her daughter (problems her daughter might face, just like how the other lady's father had said)
well...we'll never know one's mind and heart
I thought it's just a social experiment 👁️👄👁️
When that girl's father supported her and accepted her, i was really tearing up. I wish my parents were also like that.
your parents don’t support you ?
@@imyoml9 actually they don't know about my gender identity yet, I'm a Trans guy. But they actually don't support or I should say they don't have enough knowledge about lgbtq+ community. I'm also an Asian (India), and here alot of people (especially elder ones but not everyone) don't know anything that's why they don't support us.
@@sayonsengupta I can't imagine how difficult that must be, and I hope things will improve. Just know that no matter what gender you identify as, whoever you are, you're valid and don't let anybody say otherwise! You're fine the way you are, so stay true.
@@sayonsengupta Im from India and i get you... The amount of open minded people from the older generation in our country as of now is really less.. i hope it changes soon and i wanted to tell that no matter what people say, you are amazing the way you are... don't loose your identity for people around you.. i really hope and pray that they will accept you for you.. but please do know that you're fine the way you are no matter what their reaction is... even if we don't know each other, i wish you all the best and i hope everything goes well for you!!Stay strong and stay the same!!!
@@sayonsengupta aww as a fellow Indian, I get you man the amount of stigma on it is just sad
lol “I don’t care, go make money” attitude
I think his point was "people will gossip, will make your life tough, but you go chase after your dreams because if you work hard, you won't have time to hear them, plus your success will shut them up".
I can’t imagine disowning my child for that. It makes me cry, I’m only 18 but when I have children I will always love them no matter what they prefer. I used to be in a strict family that was 100% homophobic and I became blind and just like them. Thankfully I see clear and am no longer that way. I love everyone and love is love❤️ be who you are and love who you want! Life is way to short for that.
i'm very proud of your for opening your mind and heart :) we are all human and deserve respect, love, and care
You're a good person
@@seliyoon thank you😢❤️❤️❤️
you’re very kind, keep up the good work :)
same! I have a very conservative yet a bit homophobic household. I love my family ofc. But I decided to change myself for the better and to be open about the LGBTQ
At first I wasn't sure if they were actually gay or if this was going to be a "prank" video, but then the girl and I both started crying at her sweet dad! I'm glad it was real.
This was the part that made me think like ohh it’s real. She def wouldn’t cry if it wasn’t.
Although the reaction is genuine, I still think its a social experiment and they aren’t actually gay
@@sirragealot4593 True you could be right
@@sirragealot4593 I don't think so. If they aren't gay then they would've confessed that at the end
@@mirroruniverse9331 yeah but she has a bf
EVERY parent should respect their child’s love interest.
Unless they a douche bag, regardless of gender if they a douche respect may not be given 😂
@zappafan11 Why are u saying this under almost every comment like this. Once again, that’s stupid comparison that have nothing to do with each other.
@zappafan11 Come on.. You know what I mean. Don’t say stupid things like that.
nah
Nope
God bless these youngsters and for being brave. Go live your life!