Over $109,000 In Debt And Only Make $28,000 A Year!

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  • @BigBoiler508
    @BigBoiler508 5 років тому +521

    HVAC Designer, Licensed Real Estate Agent, Business Owner, Graphic Designer... lack of focus seems to be a major theme here

    • @Aznmf
      @Aznmf 5 років тому +54

      Right. Clearly all of the above professionals can net him more than 28k a year lol

    • @onemogain23
      @onemogain23 5 років тому

      What’s the best way to learn graphic design and how long would it take until you can get a job?

    • @PandemicGameplay
      @PandemicGameplay 5 років тому +44

      Sounds like he isnt qualified for any of those. If he was actually good at just 1 of those he would make more than 28k a year.

    • @lukem9246
      @lukem9246 5 років тому +22

      My boss does HVAC designs and engineering (with a two year degree) and makes around 200k a year lol

    • @cohenfromdiscord2551
      @cohenfromdiscord2551 5 років тому

      Meh

  • @bobbyb7672
    @bobbyb7672 5 років тому +61

    7:35 When Dave hit that mute button, the call is officially over with...
    👉👉👉👉👇👇

    • @janiecel
      @janiecel 5 років тому

      Ralinebe 233 BOOM

  • @sharonwilliams271
    @sharonwilliams271 5 років тому +255

    The guy calls in for advice...won't shut his mouth and has an excuse for everything.

    • @archiealsobrookii4755
      @archiealsobrookii4755 5 років тому +8

      True he is bitter from being hurt so he can't hear or see nothing other than pain and being a victim.

    • @TeachPlanGo
      @TeachPlanGo 4 роки тому +4

      For EVERYTHING

    • @findingnory
      @findingnory 4 роки тому +8

      He talks a lot, sure. But,
      A. Phone conversations are hard; especially when the topic is thick.
      B. He is stressed, so there's a lot of backstory to shove into a 7 minute conversation.
      C. At 6:55, when Dave tells him to go to work, he clearly accepts that info.
      I got agitated too, but that's just because I'm trying to listen to Dave. The caller has no reason to care about me hearing. This was HIS chance at a new start and he attacked it head-on and did a good job.

  • @notclaire612
    @notclaire612 5 років тому +244

    This was basically my financial situation after graduating college. I’m down to 25k!

    • @notclaire612
      @notclaire612 5 років тому +12

      hefe gonzalez that’s the plan! I’ve taken up a second job earning about $1000 a month and spending as little as possible.

    • @GottuboiBeachVolleyball
      @GottuboiBeachVolleyball 5 років тому +4

      @@notclaire612 Good to hear that you're tackling your 25K student loan seriously and be debt free. 👏👊

    • @notclaire612
      @notclaire612 5 років тому +1

      hefe gonzalez I’m in the suburbs near Chicago. A little more expensive than most areas but both my husband and my family is here.

    • @bobsmith1841
      @bobsmith1841 5 років тому +2

      Good for you!!

    • @atriptoasia6979
      @atriptoasia6979 5 років тому

      Claire Hoffman if you don’t mind me asking ? When did you graduate ?

  • @thehappycamper6789
    @thehappycamper6789 5 років тому +134

    He’s 48? Sounds so much younger.
    $28K a year , and no savings.
    He’s a mess!

    • @princevinny0073
      @princevinny0073 9 місяців тому +3

      😂😂🤣🤣 he sounds like 21

  • @Eveningbreeze721
    @Eveningbreeze721 5 років тому +575

    He sounds like a 23 year old.

    • @jhoncena1111
      @jhoncena1111 5 років тому +2

      Kind of like Kenny Johnson.

    • @TyroneBiggums789
      @TyroneBiggums789 5 років тому +9

      As a 24 year old i can relate , rock bottom here too

    • @pep590
      @pep590 4 роки тому +6

      @@TyroneBiggums789 Yes, but this 48 year old should have learned something in those extra years of earning experience. You will do much better.

    • @TyroneBiggums789
      @TyroneBiggums789 4 роки тому +7

      @@pep590 i appreciate your kind words after attempting suicide I just got accepted to john hopkins for college, im trying to turn my disaster of a life around

    • @pep590
      @pep590 4 роки тому +2

      @@TyroneBiggums789 Awesome! Very proud of you!

  • @xxpowwowbluexx
    @xxpowwowbluexx 5 років тому +127

    I don’t believe he’s “stone-cold sober.” Why would he even make that comment if he were? That came out of left field.

    • @jamesfox406
      @jamesfox406 8 місяців тому +1

      Why would he even mention it?

    • @jimbob7582
      @jimbob7582 8 місяців тому +2

      could be that he has and had a problem with drinking and is going to recovery fellowships for it and he’s sober right now.

  • @ClassicTycoon
    @ClassicTycoon 5 років тому +248

    Kind of suspicious that this guy feels the need to shout out that he’s sober

    • @intimacy2138
      @intimacy2138 4 роки тому +14

      Perhaps it's something he takes pride in because he knows addiction can be a strong hook? You're making a big assumption he has a problem.

    • @allisonwaters716
      @allisonwaters716 4 роки тому

      Exactly. Probably pain meds

    • @justme87999
      @justme87999 3 роки тому +2

      Eh I know plenty of people that come from really rough homes and since their parents used/drank so they become very defensive to that stuff. I wore not drinking as a badge of honor for a while because of my mother's side of the family.

  • @JakeThornhill
    @JakeThornhill 5 років тому +374

    The intensity with which he muted him at 7:35 😂😂

    • @AllLoveAbout
      @AllLoveAbout 5 років тому +4

      Jake Thornhill 🤣

    • @EbonyRivers1
      @EbonyRivers1 5 років тому +41

      He didn’t sound very eager to work more. Hmm. Only one way out of this hole.

    • @anthonybrown06
      @anthonybrown06 5 років тому +4

      😭😭😭

    • @bobbyb7672
      @bobbyb7672 5 років тому +6

      👉👉👉👉👇👇👇

    • @queenzville
      @queenzville 5 років тому +14

      Hahahah!! I know right? I wanted to mute him too!! I replayed that like 10 times! 😂

  • @Snack_Package
    @Snack_Package 4 роки тому +94

    7:35 Dave had to hit the mute....dude was about to tell Dave he was also a Bankruptcy Attorney.... This dude drained the life out of me just listing to him....imagine being married to him.

  • @khoado123
    @khoado123 4 роки тому +82

    This guy definitely is or was an addict... he just randomly shouted out to himself being sober lol

  • @canman5060
    @canman5060 5 років тому +190

    Finance should be mandatory starting in all elementary school from grade 3 onward.

    • @cocobutterchin6768
      @cocobutterchin6768 5 років тому +6

      Learning about it will not stop American from getting deeper and deeper into debt. Many American want to be living the American Dreams on DEBT. Most American don't have COMMON SENSE. I didn't go to any finance school but I use my own common sense to manage my finances. I am 45 years old in USA, my house is paid off, rent free and mortgage free, I am also a single mother to a 14 years old child that live with me full time, all of my credit cards is paid off. I don't live above my MEANS. Food for thought.

    • @cocobutterchin6768
      @cocobutterchin6768 5 років тому +1

      My Parent are in their 70s that are still living the same American Dreams with plenty of DEBTS and they still have a Mortgage,the same lifestyle they were living when younger. But, you know what? I didn't follow their kind of life. I use my own common sense not to live like my parent and that was how I was able to pay off my house when I turned 40 years,5 years ago.

    • @Countcho
      @Countcho 5 років тому +2

      Ikr. I see so many with high incomes yet living paycheck to paycheck

    • @forest12able
      @forest12able 5 років тому +4

      My high school math teacher put us through FPU and I learned more life skills through that than any other class.

    • @mohammadwasilliterate8037
      @mohammadwasilliterate8037 5 років тому +1

      The call it Maths, everyone does it.

  • @makpack
    @makpack 3 роки тому +14

    Rock bottom is solid ground. That's profound and humbling.

  • @frapeyou
    @frapeyou 5 років тому +482

    he fired the guy that made his business flourish

    • @smhca
      @smhca 5 років тому +11

      Maid ..... come on man ( made * )

    • @smhca
      @smhca 5 років тому +40

      @Frank Olivieri 🚨 grammar police on duty 🚨

    • @SuperFang1
      @SuperFang1 5 років тому +47

      He killed the golden goose.

    • @rachel8041
      @rachel8041 5 років тому +115

      Didn't make any sense to me either. He fired the guy because he said that he wasn't doing his job but yet helped him make 97,000 🤔

    • @SuperFang1
      @SuperFang1 5 років тому +54

      @@rachel8041
      The fired guy was probably a Sales Man and one of his responsibilities was to pass pamphlets at the hospital. He didnt do that and he got fired. Salesman probably felt handing out pamhlets was pointless to his sales job.

  • @chrisrush3513
    @chrisrush3513 5 років тому +69

    48 going on 22! He missed the maturity bus big time!

  • @superior120v5
    @superior120v5 5 років тому +53

    Just when your life seems bad...tune in to Dave

  • @PInk77W1
    @PInk77W1 4 роки тому +34

    I went thru a divorce. I lived in my car for 8yrs to pay my child support. It wasn’t ez.
    It hurt a lot.
    I never felt sorry for myself
    I never did drugs
    I never gave up.
    Now I’m about to buy my house cash.
    I have zero debt. I have a large savings acct.
    I’m blessed.

  • @ReddingRed
    @ReddingRed 5 років тому +24

    He is NOT listening...he's waiting to interrupt.

    • @renaeadams7868
      @renaeadams7868 4 роки тому +1

      I thought I heard him say whatever, when Dave was like hold on it's my turn. ;) Wow great job getting in his own way. Hope he finds his way out of the tunnel 😉

    • @k8schmate
      @k8schmate 7 місяців тому

      @@renaeadams7868 no he said 'sorry'

  • @amyjohnson7527
    @amyjohnson7527 5 років тому +21

    I appreciate how kind Dave is when he asks about their lives.

  • @northharriscollege
    @northharriscollege 5 років тому +90

    I guess not everyone is replaceable.This guy fired his best employee and that decision brought him to his knees financially. He totally underestimated that guy ability and overestimated him own.

    • @corey407woc
      @corey407woc 5 років тому +10

      northharriscollege two bad knees at that! Lol

    • @desertguy1362
      @desertguy1362 5 років тому +8

      Never own a business unless you are the one who is the major player

    • @kimjong-un5562
      @kimjong-un5562 5 років тому

      @@desertguy1362 or u pay ur key employees very well

    • @kimjong-un5562
      @kimjong-un5562 5 років тому

      @kfreshify lol I can't even respond to ur luda

  • @sup_monica3597
    @sup_monica3597 5 років тому +67

    LOL he fired his hest employee who apparently "didnt do his job"

    • @Vis117
      @Vis117 4 роки тому +8

      sup_ monica sounds like he did his job with the competitor pretty well.

    • @ahastar1141
      @ahastar1141 4 роки тому +1

      It could be that he was under performing with this kid as his boss, but once he was let go he was extremely motivated to bury this kid for letting him go. Its amazing how a firing can light you on fire

  • @ghsb
    @ghsb 3 роки тому +9

    That mute at 7:34 was glorious

  • @GenExDividendInvestor
    @GenExDividendInvestor 5 років тому +56

    Love that forward-looking positive comment.. "the rear view mirror is smaller than the windshield".

  • @Aznmf
    @Aznmf 5 років тому +73

    Cant discharge student loans in bankruptcy. Beans and rice sounds good right about now...

    • @---skynet---
      @---skynet--- 5 років тому

      Maybe deliver some pizzas for side cash....but from what i heard on that phone call,he will call 2 months later whining about growing car bills and him needing a new car🙄

    • @jerseynurse6878
      @jerseynurse6878 5 років тому

      Or pj and J and dollar tree food

    • @dennis.teevee
      @dennis.teevee 2 роки тому

      yeah, back to college living lol 😂, PBJ, instant noodles, rice&beans, beans&rice, 😋 yumm 🤣

  • @jenniferdennis6465
    @jenniferdennis6465 4 роки тому +70

    Unfortunately, he sounds like he enjoys being a victim.

  • @katrinaumana2127
    @katrinaumana2127 5 років тому +138

    His life has turned into a long country song💔😢. Hang in there you will get through this Amen🙏

    • @jerseynurse6878
      @jerseynurse6878 5 років тому +2

      Katrina Umana - amen. Most of the people who call I don’t really feel bad for because they lived beyond their means. But he seems like he can’t catch a break. Hope he does soon.

    • @michaelmarquez6133
      @michaelmarquez6133 4 роки тому

      This guy blames everybody but himself what were you doing before you got divorced I was a college student like those air conditioning schools does not mean exactly cause student what happened to your business well it wasn't my fault the guy that was the laziest guy I fired him and then he run me out of business I mean does that make sense why do you have all the debt well I'm a Christian so I didn't go to court for the divorce LOL everyone else's fault

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 5 років тому +89

    *I wonder what the fired salesperson is thinking*

    • @bobsmith1841
      @bobsmith1841 5 років тому +14

      I bet he's on cloud 9

    • @kutie216
      @kutie216 5 років тому +34

      Probably happy to have a boss that doesn't accuse him of "not doing his job" lol

    • @Je.rone_
      @Je.rone_ 5 років тому +3

      @@kutie216 true!

    • @munchmafuziquchi2965
      @munchmafuziquchi2965 5 років тому +3

      Never underestimate my power

    • @hornetguy9063
      @hornetguy9063 4 роки тому +2

      Hard life lesson for a lot of people: effort doesn’t matter, only results. Sales guy was probably lazy because he knew that all he needed was a company to be a face for and the money would flow in. But captain “Protestant work ethic” guy was put off by his effort and fired him.
      Some people are really, really valuable.

  • @Laura-zu3il
    @Laura-zu3il 5 років тому +7

    So many of the comments here are negative against the caller. Would bet some of them aren’t any better off. Good for him for asking for help and wanting advice. Hope he doesn’t read the negative comments. He has a student loan at 48 but he went to college later in life. Stop being so judgmental.

  • @Ant0417
    @Ant0417 5 років тому +181

    So divorce is against his religion, but he gets divorced anyway, but in a way that leaves him in financial ruins and allows his ex wife to get away scot free with zero debt?! His religion sounds fun.

    • @Jemgirly
      @Jemgirly 5 років тому +16

      He decided himself that he would let his wife get away with no debt. It has nothing to do with the religion

    • @ClassicTycoon
      @ClassicTycoon 5 років тому

      So you’re pro divorce?

    • @Ant0417
      @Ant0417 5 років тому +13

      Classic Tycoon I’m anti-marriage

    • @happydays9613
      @happydays9613 5 років тому +12

      JJ Anthony this had nothing to do with religion, more to do with moral stupidity.

    • @andrewh.4186
      @andrewh.4186 5 років тому +6

      The part that was against his religion was sending his wife away with half his debts.

  • @Ryan_DeWitt
    @Ryan_DeWitt 5 років тому +39

    Needs a bigger shovel. 28k at 48 years old with no savings isn't going to cut it.

    • @kimjong-un5562
      @kimjong-un5562 5 років тому

      I know if he had atleast 300k in investments he could atleast be at around 48k a year

  • @maq637
    @maq637 5 років тому +39

    Make another “20,000$” between now and the end of year. Hahah Dave you are great man

  • @johnjackson9767
    @johnjackson9767 4 роки тому +20

    "I've done it all stone-cold sober".
    Something an addict would absolutely say without being promoted.

  • @jorgealmeyda5222
    @jorgealmeyda5222 2 роки тому +5

    “I do everything but I’m not doing any of it right now’ is what he’s basically telling Dave LOL. Good luck brother.

  • @gsquared2394
    @gsquared2394 5 років тому +83

    Figured out why the guy is bankrupt: he won’t shut up and let other people speak.

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 5 років тому +12

      Right. And sounds like he knows everything and nothing simultaneously.

    • @mariee.5912
      @mariee.5912 5 років тому +1

      @@ceecee8757 that's a funny statement.

  • @iomis2001
    @iomis2001 5 років тому +26

    Almost 50 with this debt and college debt while making 28K a year? it's over.

    • @lady56725
      @lady56725 5 років тому

      kolop1 😂😂

    • @donaldlyons17
      @donaldlyons17 3 роки тому

      I don't think the debt is the problem but I am really concerned about the income!! With enough income the debt can be paid off but with too little it will never be paid. He needs the income to make stuff possible because behavior only increases or decreases the odds. Your quote: (Almost 50 with this debt and college debt while making 28K a year? it's over.)

  • @jorasparents
    @jorasparents 5 років тому +84

    I know this guy's type. He isn't satisfied with having a job, because he feels he needs to be a "big man." He's all over the place. Could go get a job at a retailer for the holidays, deliver pizzas, do real estate NOW (he's gonna need to start with an established agency that already HAS branded marketing material) ... He sees himself as a baller, not someone who's working a regular job like most people. And that mindset is holding him back. He's just all OVER the place with no concrete plan ... otherwise, he would not have fired his best salesman. That story in itself made zero sense ... It's Walter Mitty syndrome. (For anyone who doesn't know the reference, Walter Mitty = "an ordinary, often ineffectual person who indulges in fantastic daydreams of personal triumphs." JUST GET A JOB! GET TWO! Work your HARDest and save WHILE doing real estate on the weekends. Etc. "Regular" work is honest, good, important work.

    • @aboubakr1527
      @aboubakr1527 5 років тому +1

      jorasparents sounds like my dad

    • @ElectricBlueIX
      @ElectricBlueIX 5 років тому +6

      Exactly. I can’t stand seeing people not want to have a normal job and work for someone else. Like they are above that kind of work. I guess they have that luxury. Most people don’t. The important part is to have a GOAL. Make a decision of where you want to be with your career in 10+ years and find out how to get there. Talk to people who have done it. Surround yourself with smart ethical businessmen.

  • @Lianne459
    @Lianne459 5 років тому +106

    48 years old and still has student loan debt?

    • @DisabilityExams
      @DisabilityExams 5 років тому +39

      The are 60 year olds taking on student loans to go to school. It's insane.

    • @N75MP
      @N75MP 5 років тому +11

      @@DisabilityExams because we support college for everyone. Lol

    • @RhinoXpress
      @RhinoXpress 5 років тому +15

      Lianne, that's not uncommon. Some people go back to college to either finish their degree or look for something else to get a degree in at that age. Besides 48 is becoming the new 38 as we live longer and longer. Pretty soon people won't be able to draw social security until they're 70.

    • @Alexdelarge1975
      @Alexdelarge1975 5 років тому +9

      I'm 44 and I have to pay my student loan debt till I'm 54/55, unless I accelerate the payments.

    • @roolyfe
      @roolyfe 5 років тому +2

      The most student loan are parent plus for grandparents over age 65

  • @kirstylogan9899
    @kirstylogan9899 4 роки тому +11

    "I'm a graphic designer"
    Microsoft paint doesn't count bro

  • @medviation
    @medviation 5 років тому +192

    Shout out to the real people making $400 a month in a 3rd world country!

    • @Lanja1991
      @Lanja1991 5 років тому +27

      I was making 600$ a month and still managed to save up 5000$ in two years in my third world country

    • @Aznmf
      @Aznmf 5 років тому +5

      @Jessica Smith you dont make 400 a month? That's poverty.

    • @PritamDas_26
      @PritamDas_26 5 років тому +12

      400 a month in my country in the location I grew up in is very very good. Our expenses are barely 150 a month. And that's solid middle class living with a non working spouse and two kids. Single guys can manage at 80-90 a month.

    • @prateekbohra7610
      @prateekbohra7610 5 років тому

      300$ month

    • @tele2312
      @tele2312 5 років тому

      @@PritamDas_26 Wow that's so interesting! Do you mind sharing what country that is?

  • @JohnSmith-kr9zw
    @JohnSmith-kr9zw 5 років тому +62

    Student loans are not discharged in bankruptcy, bankruptcy is a great tool in some circumstances but not all

    • @hern9897
      @hern9897 5 років тому +1

      I think we all know that by now

    • @JohnSmith-kr9zw
      @JohnSmith-kr9zw 5 років тому +1

      1224-what do “we know”?

    • @hern9897
      @hern9897 5 років тому

      @@JohnSmith-kr9zw we know that after a Private student loan has reached the status of limitation, the collector cannot force repayment on the debtor, depending on your state. Dave Ramsey was coaching a girl to pay back a 5 year loan, meaning that she didn't have to pay it back.

    • @twincherry4958
      @twincherry4958 5 років тому

      They actually can be...under certain circumstances. Federal student loans , I'm talking about.

  • @aileencrane7700
    @aileencrane7700 5 років тому +17

    “And I’ve done it stone cold sober.” Um, okaaaayyyy...and?

  • @mecheckraise
    @mecheckraise 5 років тому +52

    Everyone's fault for my bad decisions. This guy needs to get a clue. He has failed at everything so far that he tried.
    He has to make a new plan from here. He needs new income.

    • @donaldlyons17
      @donaldlyons17 3 роки тому

      I am worried everything he touches will end in problems. I know some of this is not his fault but he has too many problems and not one solution has worked!!! Your quote: (Everyone's fault for my bad decisions. This guy needs to get a clue. He has failed at everything so far that he tried.
      He has to make a new plan from here. He needs new income.)

  • @trebmaster
    @trebmaster 5 років тому +27

    You underestimated this salesman's powers...was his name Anakin Skywalker?

    • @gargoyles9999
      @gargoyles9999 5 років тому +3

      Samuel Carter well his wife was Obi-wan, took him out at the knees

    • @Michael-vf2mw
      @Michael-vf2mw 3 роки тому

      @@gargoyles9999 savage...

  • @Simon-oy7kf
    @Simon-oy7kf 4 роки тому +9

    "I underestimated his power"
    He's too dangorous to be kept alive!!!!!!

  • @damariommitchell
    @damariommitchell 5 років тому +3

    This guy is 48 and won't shut up to get advice from Dave. Dave was patient and understanding

  • @amyl3729
    @amyl3729 5 років тому +5

    I noticed that, as he's explaining his story, nothing that went wrong was his fault. He is sooo gracious to not fight a divorce though? Hello... you gotta do something! There are a lot of inconsistencies here. I hope he stops being a victim someday. Good luck!

  • @dexterm1285
    @dexterm1285 5 років тому +30

    Your going to need a bigger shovel to get out of that mess.

  • @joefran619
    @joefran619 5 років тому +4

    Hang in there bro! You will get through this!

  • @Jusaguy000
    @Jusaguy000 4 роки тому +7

    Sales man wasn’t doing his job . But some how he ran him out of business .

  • @YummyFood454
    @YummyFood454 4 роки тому +4

    Wow a lot happened in short time. That’s rough. I hope he can turn things around. Sounds like a good guy

  • @rimmer200
    @rimmer200 5 років тому +14

    Great show , learn a lot on your channel.

  • @imad910
    @imad910 5 років тому +2

    Keep your head up brother you’ll get through this

  • @bobsmith1841
    @bobsmith1841 5 років тому +8

    I guess he will rethink his thought process that brochures equals sales...

  • @craigslistrro709
    @craigslistrro709 5 років тому +26

    This guy is all over the map.. He needs to just get a job and focus on paying his bills...

  • @RhinoXpress
    @RhinoXpress 5 років тому +30

    I'm surprised dave didn't tell him to deliver pizzas...

    • @marcdonvito6485
      @marcdonvito6485 5 років тому +2

      He doesn't have a car, and he has bad knees.

    • @mr.speyside5240
      @mr.speyside5240 5 років тому +1

      Beans and rice and rice and beans

  • @Chessman27
    @Chessman27 3 роки тому +1

    Dave’s right hand man is that mute 🤫 button

  • @blinkingred
    @blinkingred 4 роки тому +1

    I really dislike it when callers interrupt Dave.

  • @Rebekah_emeth
    @Rebekah_emeth 4 роки тому +2

    " Rock bottom is solid ground "

  • @ProjeckDestiny
    @ProjeckDestiny 5 років тому +28

    Ouch 48 years old and nothing to his name.

    • @MFlint-un2tq
      @MFlint-un2tq 5 років тому

      bwiin I said the same thing to myself.

    • @Aznmf
      @Aznmf 5 років тому

      @@MFlint-un2tq it's the 76k in student loans. At 48? That will negate any retirement savings. From 22 to 48, and still has 76k to pay off. Not even a chiropractor

    • @p.shermanfortytwowallabyla9488
      @p.shermanfortytwowallabyla9488 5 років тому +1

      I just saw a video title "70 years old and only $900 in the bank"
      I couldn't even watch it

    • @ceciliapreziose3783
      @ceciliapreziose3783 5 років тому

      he never did anything

  • @mlovespring7892
    @mlovespring7892 3 роки тому

    Please always support the good workers. Favoritism is for a smucks!

  • @youngwiseman4
    @youngwiseman4 5 років тому +7

    Read the comments first... And got anxious about getting to the 7:35 mark... 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid 5 років тому +10

    monetary slavery at its absolute finest

  • @MidnightPodcast
    @MidnightPodcast 5 років тому +1

    This guy's all over the shop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @MissCandy350
    @MissCandy350 5 років тому +6

    "Let's start dreaming again!"

  • @andrescanseco4949
    @andrescanseco4949 4 роки тому +1

    My Best wishes to you. I got forclousere on 20007 , I got divorced at 2009. I lost my house ,my marriage. In 2001 I was able to buy my other house. My credit went down to 540. Now my credit is around 834 and my house ' s price have been increasing. Good luck only you can help yourself. Work hard and try to sav some money , you can do it.

  • @lovethemflowers
    @lovethemflowers 5 років тому +1

    Dave told him to throw those bills in the trash. I know Dave means for the caller to just not worry about them right now, but those bills should be SHREDDED so he's not a victim of identity theft.

  • @jeffpesos6554
    @jeffpesos6554 5 років тому +4

    I'm 25 with 50k debt. God please don't let me be this guy 🙏

  • @Angela-ne9cy
    @Angela-ne9cy 4 роки тому +1

    It sounds like he's a very passive guy. He's never learned how to take control of his own life and, instead, he just gets swept away by the wave of circumstance. His survival instinct is to make excuses, blame other people, and just roll over. Poor guy!! I hope he gains a sense of self-worth and wisdom.

  • @JAM609
    @JAM609 5 років тому +1

    Rock bottom is not solid ground. Rock bottom is suicide attempts

  • @AustinBWH
    @AustinBWH 5 років тому +1

    Basically, you believe you were paying your sales guy to much so you fired him.

  • @jaimetomlinson6768
    @jaimetomlinson6768 8 місяців тому

    I like the positive position from Dave.

  • @fawkestheplotphoenix964
    @fawkestheplotphoenix964 2 роки тому +1

    That moment when you realize Dave asks people about their lives to give himself more time to think

  • @carstuff4u942
    @carstuff4u942 4 роки тому +1

    Don't you all love how Dave mutes people.…...

  • @CesarGallegosMusicComposer
    @CesarGallegosMusicComposer 5 років тому +1

    Wow great advice 7:11 Hope deferred speaks of dreams you hold for a reward or outcome but the reward is delayed more than you think reasonable. It is something you are looking forward to, perhaps in the near future, but they are delayed and delayed and delayed. Great job Dave!

  • @rebuiltgirl3263
    @rebuiltgirl3263 5 років тому +2

    I need to hear this.... I will put this on repeat

  • @SingingBeeize
    @SingingBeeize 5 років тому +5

    👴🏻:aahht aahht " ...MY TURN ...MY TURN!..."

  • @pimpballer3
    @pimpballer3 5 років тому +11

    Get a personal loan to pay the student loan. Then bankrupt

    • @hbarudi
      @hbarudi 5 років тому +2

      Yes that is a way to make the student loan bankruptable...

    • @marcdonvito6485
      @marcdonvito6485 5 років тому

      There's always a way out.

    • @Aznmf
      @Aznmf 5 років тому +4

      How do you qualify for the loan with a 28k a year income and 109k in debt. This isn't 2008. Loan requirements have changed. Getting a HELOC has debt to Income requirements

    • @hbarudi
      @hbarudi 5 років тому

      @@Aznmf Thing is that new loan will become part of the 109k in debt you are just moving debt, not borrowing more money.

    • @gargoyles9999
      @gargoyles9999 5 років тому +2

      pimpballer3 Try to convince a judge that that wasn't fraud. Kinda like buying life insurance and then the spouse dies a month later

  • @LittleHatori
    @LittleHatori 5 років тому +2

    Hey! You can do it mate!
    Make that 14 year old son your vision! And continue to be faithful! And work work work work to pay of ur debt. And leave that kid a college fund.

  • @khoado123
    @khoado123 4 роки тому +2

    Its very very and I’ll say it again VERY easy to make 10k-20k a year doing a side hustle in the advanced world we’re living in.... he can easily earn 20k as a freelancer graphic designer or he can do side gigs like DoorDash, Uber or Amazon. Im an a cyber security tech and i work pretty much 60 hrs a week at a university but i make extra 15-25k a year (depending how hard i wanna push it) doing DoorDash. It’s all mental and ego. Once you set your mind straight and put your ego to the side, you’ll realize that doing a side hustle will make a huge impact in your financial life. Just dont work yourself to death though

  • @jeremyncrm2012
    @jeremyncrm2012 3 роки тому +2

    Dave dropping some profound stuff there about motivation from hope.

  • @James-Lifts
    @James-Lifts 3 роки тому +3

    Dave failed to recognize this guy clearly has a history of drug abuse in one way or another

  • @llllll-ux2lz
    @llllll-ux2lz 5 років тому +5

    So much for your helpmate...seems like she was only there for the money.

    • @everydy
      @everydy 4 роки тому

      She probably couldn't get a word in edgewise & threw her hands up

  • @NickPeitsch
    @NickPeitsch 5 років тому +6

    That’s a terrible ratio of debt to income...
    But totally possible to pay it off! Focus on the debt as your number 1 priorty

  • @tacticalheadlampwithstrap3184
    @tacticalheadlampwithstrap3184 5 років тому

    I'm doing better than I deserve. Because I didn't go to school and stayed out of debt.

  • @johnulcer
    @johnulcer 5 років тому +4

    Better start delivering some pizzas, my dude.

  • @Scorpiomaj27889
    @Scorpiomaj27889 5 років тому +5

    I love when I hear people say starting a business is the American dream.... until you realize how many of them fail.

    • @littleraskle
      @littleraskle 5 років тому

      Yup, I'd like to open a business but I KNOW that I don't have the discipline and savvy to keep it up. People dont have self-awareness...

  • @gigiwoodlawn2142
    @gigiwoodlawn2142 5 років тому +4

    I can see why his wife left him.

  • @genzlegacy7988
    @genzlegacy7988 5 років тому +4

    Weird guy; interupts THE DAVE, randomly brings up the fact that hes sober, no savings at 48...

  • @onemogain23
    @onemogain23 5 років тому +1

    Wow no rice and beans?! The advice in this video is different from the other ones, I like it!

    • @1redrubberball
      @1redrubberball 5 років тому

      This guy can't cut his lifestyle enough to make any practical difference. Dave had to point him towards getting more income.

  • @roycebeatz3401
    @roycebeatz3401 5 років тому +3

    These type of people make me feel great about my life.

  • @NotQuiteEpic
    @NotQuiteEpic 5 років тому +17

    What made him feel the need to tell us that he was paying his bills while sober? Nobody asked.

    • @Austinole11
      @Austinole11 5 років тому +10

      Seems like he was nervous about calling a national radio show and divulging something very hurtful and embarrassing... Let's cut the guy some slack.

    • @Sun_Henry_Connie
      @Sun_Henry_Connie 5 років тому +9

      I get the impression he is a recovering addict and is thankful he managed to stay sober during times that typically cause relapse

    • @1nonly963
      @1nonly963 5 років тому +2

      Because he's popping pills 2 knee surgeries...

  • @shola7987
    @shola7987 3 роки тому

    I understood what he was saying about going thru stuff stone cold sober lol life wakes you wanna be high up in the clouds sometimes.

  • @wolfofdubai
    @wolfofdubai 5 років тому +10

    The guest need to save as much as possible,
    To pay off debt first before anything else.

    • @dubbelzoutrond7809
      @dubbelzoutrond7809 5 років тому +2

      I doubt he could even keep up with the interest on a 28k salary, he still needs to eat, pay taxes, support his son and probably has to pay a rent/mortgage. He needs to do exactly what Dave said and get his income up.

  • @TheRonnieBlueEyes
    @TheRonnieBlueEyes 5 років тому +3

    A lot of this stuff wasn’t this guys fault... according to this guy.

  • @dariusisrael5140
    @dariusisrael5140 3 роки тому

    Bless you dude

  • @corey407woc
    @corey407woc 5 років тому +24

    Once again the wife gets all the money and no debt, while the man is struggling to even survive smh

    • @devoywilliams5549
      @devoywilliams5549 5 років тому

      not worth it to get married or have kids unless u pay someone to have one.

    • @P4fashion
      @P4fashion 5 років тому

      corey407woc I know it sounds sad. But maybe she has debt accumulating.

  • @wwtjoygbths3993
    @wwtjoygbths3993 5 років тому

    Dave is amazingly amazing.

  • @ceciliapreziose3783
    @ceciliapreziose3783 5 років тому

    so he is 48, divorced 3 yrs earlier from this video. His work while married was he was an engineering student..........didn't finish, who was supporting the house, 40 yrs old still in school and has a kid............GIRL RUN this man will never get himself on any track

  • @poppyz6816
    @poppyz6816 5 років тому

    Thank you Dave

  • @chrism1966
    @chrism1966 4 роки тому +1

    “My turn” lol