I remember it used to be that way here in Sweden, although in person because it was before smartphones and internet, up until the early 90's where things started to change and hook-ups became a normalized thing, that's when I decided to be on my own and only break my solitude for the one woman I can spend the rest of my life with and build a happy life together with, I'd rather stay alone and content for the rest of my life than to take part in the stupidity of modern relationships in the west, that's for damn sure. You Rubeauti however gives me hope for the future of mankind and who knows, maybe I'll fall for a good woman in the Philippines as well now that I've seen plenty of proof that there are a lot of good women there, including yourself. 😃
You fogot the caveat...Some Pinay are sometimes under immense pressure from their parents to provide support they will do or say anything to secure a Foreigner.
If you want to find out if the girl you are chatting to, who you met through a dating site, is honest. Make a different profile, and get a second sim card, (if you talk over WiFi, for example with whatsapp, it only costs you the price of the sim, you don't even need to buy data). Then msg her and see if she chats to you. See if she says the same things to you. See if she flirts with you. I hate to say it, but this is how I have caught out a number of girls I started to chat with. They talk to LOTS of men, and they have no problem flirting with all of them. It may seem a bit sneaky, and not the best way to start a relationship, but those first few that you catch out, that you may have potentially invested a lot of time in, will make it worth it. I hate to say it, but at least 80% of the women I have chatted to from the Philippines were after a wallet. They couldn't care what you look like, what your interests are, or to be honest, anything about you. They will be sure to ask what you do for a living, whether you live in a house, what you drive, who you live with, do you have a big family, all of this before asking what you even like to do for fun, or hobbies or interests. They are sizing up your wallet. Don't believe me, get another sim, and tell them you are a menial worker, you rent a small apartment and you have a big family. You won't hear from them again. (The big family thing is that in the Philippines it is common for a man to support his extended family, so if you have a big family, she will think you have to give more money to them, so less for her). Yes, yes, I know there will be diamonds in the rough, but you need to go into any relationship that you are going to invest time in, and possibly a lot of money, with your eyes open. Finding that one girl who will be perfect for you is just as hard over there as it is in your own country. So do your research, look after yourself above all else, and watch your wallet, don't send money, don't pay bills, don't pay for anything. (Especially the 'I don't have money to get data' scam, just tell them you will be waiting when she does get more data, and surprise surprise, the next day, they will still be there). I would genuinely be interested if anyone agrees/disagrees with anything I have said here, so in the spirit of educating us all, put your experiences as replies, and then other guys will get a feel for whether what I have said is true or not. This is just my experiences so far, so there is a chance I picked the wrong girls to chat to, or maybe it is just me 😛
Very common sense advice. Man MUST mind his wallet. I have read something like this from a very known marketer. "Men go into a divorce with a lot of anger, resentment, hurt. This is NOT the time for this, this is one of the most important business transactions in life. Get the best lawyer, become a cunning, ruthless calculating machine. Play her as she did it all the time. Use all means at your disposal." It worked for me and she packed her bags and that was that. The excellent lawyer's fees were a small change to what I could loose.
I think an important question is, when the 2 of you are together can she put her phone away, if she doesn't do it without being asked to, she's showing a lack of interest in you. Meeting her friends and family could be good or bad, one of them could slip up and say something they shouldn't have and be something he will not accept in a partner and be the reason he breaks up with her. Remember, CLEAR communication is important, you can subtly hint all you like, let's be honest, most guys don't pick up subtle hints.
Actually, meeting the girls barkada (circle of friends) saved my life, literally! The Pinay was on a big-time scam with her undisclosed lover's family (that had money). I'll spare you the details, but two from her barkada knew what was going on and told me. Literally saved my life (not just figuratively).
I think that is all good practical wisdom shared Rubeauti. Three things I would add to remember is that 1) A great many people married don't have a spouse like that and things change. 2) For women: All is fair in love and war. 3) Poverty on one or two ends greatly complicates the interaction.
Honey child, I met a Pilipina that was kind of distant to me. She would barely talk to me and, for 2 weeks, played hard to get. I had to work hard to get her attention. LOL. Almost 8 years later, she laughs when I remind her. What a sweet, pure person she turned out to be. I believe she is indicative of most Pilipinas.
That's so sweet! It sounds like you put in the work to get to know her and it really paid off. Relationships take effort and communication, so it's great that you were able to break down those barriers and get to know
I experienced every one of these things in the beginning, and still experience some of it. I met her family, I even chat with them sometimes as well as her daily
Great video Rubeauti. I have met a number of women online who ask a lot of personal questions, What is my mother's maiden name. Who was my 3rd grade teacher. What street I lived on as a teenager. 😀
It's difficult to know what are people's intent these days. I think it's fine to take our time finding someone worthwhile. Good people find each other and bad people disappear quickly
Great advice Rubeauti 👍I especially liked meeting the parents advice. That way I can get a pretty good idea of what my wife may look like in the next 20-25 years 😂😂😂 Why do all the Filipinas I have chatted with online always ask what kind of job I have? 🤨
Here’s a little tell I’ve observed with Filipinas that they might be attracted to you. If you’re with a group of Filipinos and there’s a pretty Filipina who is acting very shy and is hiding behind her cell phone and looks like she’s not paying attention to the conversation it is often that Filipina who is attracted to you. She is just scared you might not find her attractive which is why she is acting shy. The way to tell if she is would be to say something to her or ask her a question. When she looks up at you make direct eye contact with her. If she immediately breaks eye contact but then glances back at you. She’s probably attracted to you. At this point if she’s still acting shy wait until it is about time to leave but before you do slip her your phone # when no one is paying attention and motion for her to call you and leave. If you receive a text message from her within the next 30 minutes you will know she likes you.
Wow, that's great advice! I think the best thing to do is to just be yourself and let the sparks fly (or not). You don't have to be a Casanova to make a connection - sometimes it's just a matter of being in the right place at the right time. Good luck!
I’m flying back to the Philippines at the beginning of next month to finally meet the woman I’ve been gettin to know. I have VERY high hopes, but I’m aware that it could all fall apart very quickly. You’re video has eased my anxiety a bit. She and I talk all the time. She’s 43 y/o. We video chat several times a day. I know where she works (and video chat while she’s working). I’ve met her parents, her sons, her niece, etc. It’s silly, but sometimes we just stay on the phone even when we’re not talking. I think it just makes us feel like we’re closer to each other. She always talks to me about what I’m eating and being healthy. She often shows interest and concern in my well being. I believe I’m seeing genuine joy and excitement in her eyes, but I guess I’ll find out for real in less than 3 weeks 😊 Even if I come to find out that I’m being scammed… I’ll just be thankful for the happiness she brought to my life for the time she’s been in it. I haven’t been this happy in 20+ years!
Hope all goes well. I had several that seemed ideal when I was just out of graduate school. Turned out, all were in love with going abroad like an OFW to send money home and not really in love with me. My 2 cents to any man who must petition (usually due to work), is to say something along the effect that "I have a small business income, and I'll live a simple life with you in your country". This is especially true if the beneficiary (lady) has a degree or highly marketable skills.
@@keastland no problem I'll be in the Philippines next month as well. What makes it difficult to choose a Filipina is that you can not pick them based on beauty there are so many beautiful woman. That you have to actually get to know them before picking them. I see why men get overwhelmed when they go to the Philippines.
@@ntech1507 I completely understand that! If I wanted, I could’ve chosen women much younger, but that’s not what I’m looking for. I’m trying to allow myself to be excited and happy, but I’m making sure I also keep in mind that I could be getting played too. I mean, no one ever thinks they're getting played/scammed until they find out, right? LOL!
Hi Rebeauti great video as always. I have had some doing everything you mentioned but sadly in the end found out they are only looking for some who will support them finacially. It is not so easy to find the right one. I know there are good ones out there but there are many that see a foreigner as someone who has endless cash and that is not true. Many have to stick to a very tight budget here and don't have the means to buy a girl everything she wants. Myself I can live comfortably if I stay within my monthly budget and if I am lucky can save some to do a bit of travelling a couple times a year. You need to ask if the girl of your dreams is willing to live anywhere you want to live, who comes first partner or family, and if she expects you to help her family with daily life. Even then it is not 100 %. Keep smiling and stay safe
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video! 🤗 I'm glad that you could relate to what I was saying and it made an impact on you. I'm honored! 🤩
This was very helpful to me, thank you so much. With different cultures, it's had to know true feelings and intentions, and understanding each other is the most important thing. This helped me a lot. Yes, I liked, and i'm subscribed.
Wow everything you said happened to me. I found my dream woman, we video call each other every day and are so in love with each other. In January we can finally meet in the philippines. Our feelings for each other are really deep!She is the one and my soulmate/best friend❤🥰
The 🔑 is when she meets you-(turns off her phone-spontaneously says you are good looking-glances at you-puts her arm around you first) in essence it is all about you-if she is a true 8-9-10 she will not go to bed with you but she will kiss you goodbye!
Thanks for your input! That's really interesting. It sounds like you have a lot of experience with this. I'm sure it's helpful for some people, but I think it's important to remember that everyone is different and that it's
I challenge you-interview Flipinas and ask them do you marry for “love” or your “into” them. I believe the latter are the Flipinas-Flipinos marriages and the former Expats marriages (good provider-not bad looking) of course in general always exceptions!
Thank you for that very useful information my girl does a lot of those but not all but we're just getting to know each other so I guess we're on the right path 🙏💖💋
Preciate the video I agree with 80% of what you said. But, there's a couple things I disagree with. Yes communication is important but replying in a timely matter is important. And lastly I would say I have gotten to watch actions more then words
. Thank you for your feedback! I agree that communication and responding in a timely manner are both important, and that actions often speak louder than words. I'm glad to hear that you agree with 80% of what I said in the video
Another way to know that she likes you is if for example, she takes you to the local town of Dolores in the side car of her tricycle, and parades you up and down every street for 15 minutes so that they can all witness her 'Americano'
I was with my Fiipino girl for 18months.And i'm about to fly out again next Friday.But i've just found out that shes been cheating on me.I'm gutted and annoyed.Up until last week i couldnt get her off the phone.But since then.Its just been rubbish excuses.And now i've just caught her out.Oh well lets hope i find a girl who wont cheat.
@@marcrichard7251 Well those who have Filipino girls will know that you cant get them off the phone at the best of times.But she told me that her phone was broken.And that she couldnt get on her Whatsapp.But i rang it earlier.And low and behold it started ringing.So she lied and shes been very secretive this past week.And now shes gone off line totally.I kinda knew there was something not quite right.Instinct kicked in.And when say this guys believe me.TRUST YOUR GUT.If you think its wrong,It more than likely is.But i'll just go out there and make the best of a bad situation i guess.Go have some fun.
You are very charming, and a beautiful woman. Your videos are informative and well presented. Thank you for your time and effort in these presentations. I'd be delighted to meet you IRL some day, and hope that happens,
️ Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm glad to hear you found my tips helpful. I'm always available to answer any questions or provide more advice - just let me know!
I don't think I can form a relationship online with someone I haven't met in person. The thought of trying to be committed to maintaining communication seems like a burden. There have been many times I've tried dating apps to get to know women, but it's just superficial. It seems pointless to select a partner based on what their 5 year plan is if I don't know if I'll even enjoy spending 5 minutes with them. If I am enthusiastic about seeing her then I will make the effort. If she is enthusiastic about seeing me, then I won't need to try to impress her. I care about the 5 minutes of genuine time more than 5 years of expectations.
That's a really great attitude to have! It's so important to make sure you take the time to really get to know someone before investing too much in a relationship. It can be hard to find someone who you click with, but it
I have been dating online a Phillapina woman from a province who’s 45 yrs old for three months, I’ve even traveled to PH to meet her. She has talked about marrying and spending the rest of her life with me. She says she doesn’t love me, but that’s up to me to make her fall in love which I thought was cute. I think I have winner would you agree?
Thanks for the support! I'm always happy to share my knowledge and experiences with you guys - and if you ever learn something new, don't forget to share it with me too! After all, knowledge is a Filipino woman's best friend! 🤓
@Rubeauti I appreciate this information. I am watching out for signs that a Filipina may like me, want to know me more or She is into me. I like Morenas, by the way, even the ones who don't sing.
That's great to hear! It sounds like you are really invested in getting to know a Filipina better. I'm sure you're going to find someone who appreciates your interest in them. Just make sure to be respectful and patient when
@@Rubeauti I am doing that. Sharing Loving kindness as much as I can, including to you. Retiring in Philippines, Manila not on short list, but I would come to visit You.
I used to have a filipina gf that did all that and more. We met by making comments on a UA-cam video then making comments on each other's comment. We hit it off right away. We were always on video chats. After a year we began making plans to meet for the first time. She wanted to meet in Hawaii and I agreed. One night she wasn't feeling well. She hurried to the CR to vomit but never made it. She collapsed on the kitchen floor still on video. I couldn't get her to speak so I called her best friend and her aunt as well. They rushed over and got her to the hospital. Her aunt held the phone on video chat the next morning and she tried to chat with me. The doctors said she wasn't going to make it. She kept saying she loved me and she was sorry over and over. Finally she took her last breath saying never forget I love you. She passed away April 7 2018 in Hong Kong. She was 30 and still a virgin. She promised her mom and God she would wait until marriage. I respected that. She was the only person I cried about bcuz they died. She was a filipina. I've been single since she passed away.
My condolences. I presume you were close in age and had a lot in common. As to your story line, I'm not sure how you were going to meet in Hawaii (presumably you petitioned her) but you were with her in HK where her aunt is.
Given the choice, would you swim through a clean river or through one infested by deadly pirañas? If your answer is "clean river" then you don't use online dating apps or social media. Else, you are asking for trouble, pain and financial loss.
Ha ha, yeah I can see the correlation there! I think I'll stick to clean rivers, but I'm not ruling out online dating apps and social media either. After all, you can find some real gems out there! 😉
. Hi there! Thanks for your comment. I totally understand where you're coming from and I'm here to help. I'm glad you're looking out for me - it's important to make sure we're all on the same page.
Great video, thank you for all your hard work! I have a question... what is the best way to meet a good Filipina? I'm so tired of online scammers or girls who chat with 100 men at the same time... should I just go to the Philippines and hope I run into a good girl? Any advice will be appreciated 🙏
Good points, but it's mostly fake IMHO having lived there. It's almost always about money to send home to her extended family and having children with wealth as her retirement plan. The expat vlogs say to avoid romantic escalation (although that's what normally attracts) and only after providing some financial support and promises of marriage and babies (and not disclosing your snip) do you begin to tell her what she needs to do (be romantic) to keep the money "mentor" (sugar daddy) around.
Honestly Rubeauti . . . you are soooo twee. But I'm sure all the suitor suckers are happy to lap it all up. Good for you, dear. Carry on . . . PS. By the way . . . do you have a problem with even the least application of cosmetics? You know, a touch of rouge, a hint of eye-shadow and lovely lip-gloss. None of my business, of course!
How about this one Rubi, she says: "Paul I really really like you, in fact I am crushing on you!" Is that a pretty clear sign? But Rubi, you haven't said that to me...we haven't even met, so many things wrong in this world. I think that the signs that Philippina women give off that they really like a man are about the same as the signs of women from any nationality but there are differences to be mindful of. In my experience Asian women in general and Asian men as well are very friendly, easy to smile, super easy to engage and interact with. In our current western societies where men and women can't even interact normally with one another, this friendly and open demeanor by Asians may be misread. Culture differences: An American woman likes you, she wants you to pay for her new Lexus! An Asian woman likes you, she asks if you would be willing to pay for a roasted Pig that will be served when you go with her to meet her family. 🙂
That's great to hear! You must have very high standards, and I'm sure that person is really special to you. It's important to find someone who meets your expectations and makes you feel appreciated.
I must be doing something wrong. I've been seeking a filipino girlfriend for 4 months and not one will give me more than 5 minutes of their time. I have to ask all the questions, most of which they don't answer. They never ask me anything except if I will send them money.
Haha, sorry to hear that it hasn't been going too well. Don't worry, you'll find someone eventually. Maybe try asking different questions that they can answer, and maybe even find something they're interested in so you can chat about that. But if not, there's plenty of fish in the sea so don't give up!
Haha, no way! I'm not a money lender. I just like to give advice and help people out. But if you want to show your appreciation for my help, feel free to buy me a cupcake!
That's so sweet! I'm glad you were able to enjoy a beautiful moment with your Filipina friend. It's always nice to start the morning with a reminder of how much we are loved!
Sounds like a lot is involved, with actually getting to know a Philippina. Although I suppose if there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, who cares 😉.
It's usually a pot of fools gold. I've been there many times over many years. All about money for extended family and having babies as their retirement plan.
@Bob Bruce yes experience is bliss, I,ve also lived and stayed in Thailand and Vietnam for nearly 4 or 5 years on and off over the last 28 or more years. Now I,m back in Australia for the last ten years. It's just easier unless you find the lady who is willing to help with the situation and or is really already self reliant. Then you'll always find it difficult, that's unless you have an endless amount of money. Which most don't, I,ve met blokes and drank with some and got to know only a certain few. And let's just say 1.5 mill plus house car and whatever else. All gone because he couldn't keep it in his pants. And another 1 or 2 blokes 1, 2 mill and get this the other about 7 or 8 mill U.S. He owned a couple of bars in Sai Nam Yen at the back of Patong Beach ⛱️ and 1 in Bangla and Soi Sea dragon. When he,d go for work, his missus would always be fooling around with other men. He just laughed and said who gives a rats ass. I mean this bloke had a few homes in Europe and a house in The Philippines. He just had money but he never was a big head just a genuine man. Fool you said maybe, or maybe just had a great time spending. I say good on him. Some of the ladies hanging around him weren't to shabby. I was never 1 for throwing heaps around because I didn't really have it. Although I had many good times and yes spent some doing so, but nothing to elaborate. Like buying motorcycles or 20,000 baht gold or houses. I think the most I ever give a lady was a thou Aus but that was my old girlfriend who had lived with me and took care of my apartment when I was working in Vietnam on and off for 2 years. Like the old saying goes a fools easily parted of his money. I say if he enjoys doing it and doesn't hurt anyone, and most importantly respect the culture and of course the ladies. Then so be it, cheers 🍻 mate.
@@teds8928 I do have to be honest.. they were both what is considered older.. 42, and 44.. so a different set of expectations than the younger ladies.. but they both value time actually spent in conversation and sharing information face to face.
Thanks for your funny comment! I'm not sure if I can give you a definite answer, but I'd suggest talking to her directly and seeing what she has to say - that's probably the best way to find out! 🤗
No no no have you ever seen a beautiful Latina from Mexico? They make just about any filipina look like yesterday's news!!!??? incredibly beautiful ,,,,I just saw a storeful at Marshall's dept store 😍😍😍my goodness 😍 but if I'm ever in the Philippines ,,as they say " when in Rome " where's the P ? Why don't you have her on your channel?? I'd watch,,,,, and Filipinas send imogees when she needs $$$$ come on seriously
@Rubeauti me an inspiration?? Right,, no my friend,,I'm just me, ,,a lonely old man who admires life and all its Rubeauty's your the one who deserves an award or praise ❤️ ♥️ ✨️
@@Rubeauti Thank you for restoring my faith. I had been feeling down lately as I navigate this battlefield as I prepare to retire and move to the Philippines in less than 6 months. Thank you and God bless you. I promise I won't fall in love with you too quickly. I am still working on the Music. No Filipina singer found yet.
@@Rubeauti I sent you a couple of long messages on Messenger weeks ago. I presume that is yours . March 30 I left a response to a vlog. I am Imperial Brown
Had a Cebu city Filipina communication for 2 and half years and did this type of things. But for several years went south Korea US military bases for paid escort to guys and hangout at hookah lounges with drugs in the pipes. Even had booths for sex. Never seen so many lies. How do you trust a Filipina and have a homely province Filipina. Still say your blog and all bl9gers there and expats bloggers are trafficking province Filipinas.
Have you ever been in United States and if you would want to come to the USA you would love I love your country I love to come and see your beautiful country my name is Robbo lone Wolf ❤️
It's understandable to feel frustrated when you encounter people you don't think are genuine. However, it's important to remember that everyone is different and not to make assumptions about someone before getting to know them. We all have something to offer,
It's true that it can be difficult to find genuine people out there, but there are still many wonderful people to be found. We just have to be sure to take our time and find the right ones!
Hi there! Thanks for your comment! I'm Rubeauti, and it's great to meet you! I'm always happy to help out with questions about money. Feel free to reach out if you need any advice or help with
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I remember it used to be that way here in Sweden, although in person because it was before smartphones and internet, up until the early 90's where things started to change and hook-ups became a normalized thing, that's when I decided to be on my own and only break my solitude for the one woman I can spend the rest of my life with and build a happy life together with, I'd rather stay alone and content for the rest of my life than to take part in the stupidity of modern relationships in the west, that's for damn sure. You Rubeauti however gives me hope for the future of mankind and who knows, maybe I'll fall for a good woman in the Philippines as well now that I've seen plenty of proof that there are a lot of good women there, including yourself. 😃
You fogot the caveat...Some Pinay are sometimes under immense pressure from their parents to provide support they will do or say anything to secure a Foreigner.
Hahaha, yeah that's true. Some Pinay out there are willing to do anything to get what they want from a foreigner. You gotta watch out for those ones!
100% Correct
If you want to find out if the girl you are chatting to, who you met through a dating site, is honest.
Make a different profile, and get a second sim card, (if you talk over WiFi, for example with whatsapp, it only costs you the price of the sim, you don't even need to buy data).
Then msg her and see if she chats to you. See if she says the same things to you. See if she flirts with you.
I hate to say it, but this is how I have caught out a number of girls I started to chat with. They talk to LOTS of men, and they have no problem flirting with all of them.
It may seem a bit sneaky, and not the best way to start a relationship, but those first few that you catch out, that you may have potentially invested a lot of time in, will make it worth it.
I hate to say it, but at least 80% of the women I have chatted to from the Philippines were after a wallet. They couldn't care what you look like, what your interests are, or to be honest, anything about you. They will be sure to ask what you do for a living, whether you live in a house, what you drive, who you live with, do you have a big family, all of this before asking what you even like to do for fun, or hobbies or interests. They are sizing up your wallet. Don't believe me, get another sim, and tell them you are a menial worker, you rent a small apartment and you have a big family. You won't hear from them again. (The big family thing is that in the Philippines it is common for a man to support his extended family, so if you have a big family, she will think you have to give more money to them, so less for her).
Yes, yes, I know there will be diamonds in the rough, but you need to go into any relationship that you are going to invest time in, and possibly a lot of money, with your eyes open. Finding that one girl who will be perfect for you is just as hard over there as it is in your own country. So do your research, look after yourself above all else, and watch your wallet, don't send money, don't pay bills, don't pay for anything. (Especially the 'I don't have money to get data' scam, just tell them you will be waiting when she does get more data, and surprise surprise, the next day, they will still be there).
I would genuinely be interested if anyone agrees/disagrees with anything I have said here, so in the spirit of educating us all, put your experiences as replies, and then other guys will get a feel for whether what I have said is true or not. This is just my experiences so far, so there is a chance I picked the wrong girls to chat to, or maybe it is just me 😛
Very common sense advice. Man MUST mind his wallet. I have read something like this from a very known marketer. "Men go into a divorce with a lot of anger, resentment, hurt. This is NOT the time for this, this is one of the most important business transactions in life. Get the best lawyer, become a cunning, ruthless calculating machine. Play her as she did it all the time. Use all means at your disposal."
It worked for me and she packed her bags and that was that. The excellent lawyer's fees were a small change to what I could loose.
I think an important question is, when the 2 of you are together can she put her phone away, if she doesn't do it without being asked to, she's showing a lack of interest in you. Meeting her friends and family could be good or bad, one of them could slip up and say something they shouldn't have and be something he will not accept in a partner and be the reason he breaks up with her. Remember, CLEAR communication is important, you can subtly hint all you like, let's be honest, most guys don't pick up subtle hints.
Actually, meeting the girls barkada (circle of friends) saved my life, literally! The Pinay was on a big-time scam with her undisclosed lover's family (that had money). I'll spare you the details, but two from her barkada knew what was going on and told me. Literally saved my life (not just figuratively).
@bobbruce4135 Filipinas can tell.and live a lie for many years 😮
I think that is all good practical wisdom shared Rubeauti. Three things I would add to remember is that 1) A great many people married don't have a spouse like that and things change. 2) For women: All is fair in love and war. 3) Poverty on one or two ends greatly complicates the interaction.
Honey child, I met a Pilipina that was kind of distant to me. She would barely talk to me and, for 2 weeks, played hard to get. I had to work hard to get her attention. LOL. Almost 8 years later, she laughs when I remind her. What a sweet, pure person she turned out to be. I believe she is indicative of most Pilipinas.
That's so sweet! It sounds like you put in the work to get to know her and it really paid off. Relationships take effort and communication, so it's great that you were able to break down those barriers and get to know
You're smart way beyond your years Rubeauti. Always happy when you share your thoughts and opinions. ❤
I experienced every one of these things in the beginning, and still experience some of it. I met her family, I even chat with them sometimes as well as her daily
Great video Rubeauti. I have met a number of women online who ask a lot of personal questions, What is my mother's maiden name. Who was my 3rd grade teacher. What street I lived on as a teenager. 😀
Halo halo 😇. Thank you for this video, it's mos def common sense.
Thanks for watching! 🤗 Appreciate your kind words and glad you found the content helpful. 😊
It's difficult to know what are people's intent these days. I think it's fine to take our time finding someone worthwhile. Good people find each other and bad people disappear quickly
Your loose hair is really pretty, but braids are something completely special. It fits to you really much :)
Thank you so much! I really appreciate the compliment. Braids have always been a favorite of mine, so I'm glad you think they suit me 🤗
@@Rubeauti suit, true ;)
Great advice Rubeauti 👍I especially liked meeting the parents advice. That way I can get a pretty good idea of what my wife may look like in the next 20-25 years 😂😂😂 Why do all the Filipinas I have chatted with online always ask what kind of job I have? 🤨
Great upload!
I appreciate the work you put into your uploads and your content is always interesting.
Mahalo Nui 🤙
Much appreciated!
Great information Rubeauti👍🏽. Certainly some good things to look out for.
Thanks for the kind words! I really appreciate it. 😊
@@Rubeauti You're very welcome always
Here’s a little tell I’ve observed with Filipinas that they might be attracted to you. If you’re with a group of Filipinos and there’s a pretty Filipina who is acting very shy and is hiding behind her cell phone and looks like she’s not paying attention to the conversation it is often that Filipina who is attracted to you. She is just scared you might not find her attractive which is why she is acting shy.
The way to tell if she is would be to say something to her or ask her a question. When she looks up at you make direct eye contact with her. If she immediately breaks eye contact but then glances back at you. She’s probably attracted to you. At this point if she’s still acting shy wait until it is about time to leave but before you do slip her your phone # when no one is paying attention and motion for her to call you and leave.
If you receive a text message from her within the next 30 minutes you will know she likes you.
Wow, that's great advice! I think the best thing to do is to just be yourself and let the sparks fly (or not). You don't have to be a Casanova to make a connection - sometimes it's just a matter of being in the right place at the right time. Good luck!
I’m flying back to the Philippines at the beginning of next month to finally meet the woman I’ve been gettin to know. I have VERY high hopes, but I’m aware that it could all fall apart very quickly.
You’re video has eased my anxiety a bit. She and I talk all the time. She’s 43 y/o. We video chat several times a day. I know where she works (and video chat while she’s working). I’ve met her parents, her sons, her niece, etc. It’s silly, but sometimes we just stay on the phone even when we’re not talking. I think it just makes us feel like we’re closer to each other.
She always talks to me about what I’m eating and being healthy. She often shows interest and concern in my well being. I believe I’m seeing genuine joy and excitement in her eyes, but I guess I’ll find out for real in less than 3 weeks 😊
Even if I come to find out that I’m being scammed… I’ll just be thankful for the happiness she brought to my life for the time she’s been in it. I haven’t been this happy in 20+ years!
Hope everything works out man. She's sounds wonderful
@@ntech1507 Thank you!
Hope all goes well. I had several that seemed ideal when I was just out of graduate school. Turned out, all were in love with going abroad like an OFW to send money home and not really in love with me. My 2 cents to any man who must petition (usually due to work), is to say something along the effect that "I have a small business income, and I'll live a simple life with you in your country". This is especially true if the beneficiary (lady) has a degree or highly marketable skills.
@@keastland no problem I'll be in the Philippines next month as well. What makes it difficult to choose a Filipina is that you can not pick them based on beauty there are so many beautiful woman. That you have to actually get to know them before picking them. I see why men get overwhelmed when they go to the Philippines.
@@ntech1507 I completely understand that! If I wanted, I could’ve chosen women much younger, but that’s not what I’m looking for.
I’m trying to allow myself to be excited and happy, but I’m making sure I also keep in mind that I could be getting played too. I mean, no one ever thinks they're getting played/scammed until they find out, right? LOL!
Hi Rebeauti great video as always. I have had some doing everything you mentioned but sadly in the end found out they are only looking for some who will support them finacially. It is not so easy to find the right one. I know there are good ones out there but there are many that see a foreigner as someone who has endless cash and that is not true. Many have to stick to a very tight budget here and don't have the means to buy a girl everything she wants. Myself I can live comfortably if I stay within my monthly budget and if I am lucky can save some to do a bit of travelling a couple times a year. You need to ask if the girl of your dreams is willing to live anywhere you want to live, who comes first partner or family, and if she expects you to help her family with daily life. Even then it is not 100 %. Keep smiling and stay safe
well it takes time to find the right one... Don't give up!
Excellent comment Filipinas are very good liars and Filipinas will admit that
At the end fo your video I could do anyting for a while. I still did not want to believe it, but she meets all the points. OMG!!
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video! 🤗 I'm glad that you could relate to what I was saying and it made an impact on you. I'm honored! 🤩
@@Rubeauti Thank you. Sorry for not subscribing. I think, I do not need it anymore. I have her, I guess.
This was very helpful to me, thank you so much. With different cultures, it's had to know true feelings and intentions, and understanding each other is the most important thing. This helped me a lot. Yes, I liked, and i'm subscribed.
Wow everything you said happened to me. I found my dream woman, we video call each other every day and are so in love with each other. In January we can finally meet in the philippines. Our feelings for each other are really deep!She is the one and my soulmate/best friend❤🥰
The 🔑 is when she meets you-(turns off her phone-spontaneously says you are good looking-glances at you-puts her arm around you first) in essence it is all about you-if she is a true 8-9-10 she will not go to bed with you but she will kiss you goodbye!
Thanks for your input! That's really interesting. It sounds like you have a lot of experience with this. I'm sure it's helpful for some people, but I think it's important to remember that everyone is different and that it's
I challenge you-interview Flipinas and ask them do you marry for “love” or your “into” them. I believe the latter are the Flipinas-Flipinos marriages and the former Expats marriages (good provider-not bad looking) of course in general always exceptions!
Thank you for that very useful information my girl does a lot of those but not all but we're just getting to know each other so I guess we're on the right path 🙏💖💋
No problem! I'm glad you two are figuring it out! I'm sure you'll make an awesome team 🤗 Here's to lots of successful DIYs! 🤞 🥂
a 95% Clone of Rubeauti would be a perfect match.
Preciate the video I agree with 80% of what you said. But, there's a couple things I disagree with. Yes communication is important but replying in a timely matter is important. And lastly I would say I have gotten to watch actions more then words
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Thank you for your feedback! I agree that communication and responding in a timely manner are both important, and that actions often speak louder than words. I'm glad to hear that you agree with 80% of what I said in the video
Another way to know that she likes you is if for example, she takes you to the local town of Dolores in the side car of her tricycle, and parades you up and down every street for 15 minutes so that they can all witness her 'Americano'
Great information and advice, thank you!
😊 Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts! It's much appreciated.
I was with my Fiipino girl for 18months.And i'm about to fly out again next Friday.But i've just found out that shes been cheating on me.I'm gutted and annoyed.Up until last week i couldnt get her off the phone.But since then.Its just been rubbish excuses.And now i've just caught her out.Oh well lets hope i find a girl who wont cheat.
Wow Phil…so sorry…how did you find out?
How did you meet your Philippina, Online or in person?
Just block and move on champ she wasn't the one. Plenty of women who want to start something nice.
Have fun with the women and not more it's good for your soul and your wallet
@@marcrichard7251 Well those who have Filipino girls will know that you cant get them off the phone at the best of times.But she told me that her phone was broken.And that she couldnt get on her Whatsapp.But i rang it earlier.And low and behold it started ringing.So she lied and shes been very secretive this past week.And now shes gone off line totally.I kinda knew there was something not quite right.Instinct kicked in.And when say this guys believe me.TRUST YOUR GUT.If you think its wrong,It more than likely is.But i'll just go out there and make the best of a bad situation i guess.Go have some fun.
Good video rubeauti good information as well I appreciate it very much 😎💪
You are very charming, and a beautiful woman. Your videos are informative and well presented. Thank you for your time and effort in these presentations. I'd be delighted to meet you IRL some day, and hope that happens,
Perfect 🤩 thanks I learned a lot again from the best 🤗🤗
Thanks for the tips for better understanding! 🤩❤
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Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm glad to hear you found my tips helpful. I'm always available to answer any questions or provide more advice - just let me know!
Thank you for sharing really good information 😊😊
When are you showing your subscribers pics to filipinas again? Whenever you do, include me. Appreciate your hard work and content 🙏🏽
Does your answers represent you as well? Are we getting a glimpse into how you (Rubeauti) show interest in a guy?
Sure!
Great informative video Rubeauti❤👍🏽
I don't think I can form a relationship online with someone I haven't met in person. The thought of trying to be committed to maintaining communication seems like a burden. There have been many times I've tried dating apps to get to know women, but it's just superficial. It seems pointless to select a partner based on what their 5 year plan is if I don't know if I'll even enjoy spending 5 minutes with them. If I am enthusiastic about seeing her then I will make the effort. If she is enthusiastic about seeing me, then I won't need to try to impress her. I care about the 5 minutes of genuine time more than 5 years of expectations.
That's a really great attitude to have! It's so important to make sure you take the time to really get to know someone before investing too much in a relationship. It can be hard to find someone who you click with, but it
Great video! Thanks!
I have been dating online a Phillapina woman from a province who’s 45 yrs old for three months, I’ve even traveled to PH to meet her. She has talked about marrying and spending the rest of her life with me. She says she doesn’t love me, but that’s up to me to make her fall in love which I thought was cute. I think I have winner would you agree?
Thanks for sharing your insights
No problem! I'm happy to help. Plus, I get to show off how smart I am. ;)
@@Rubeauti And cute 😉
lovely video, keep up the good work!
Thanks for the support! I'm always happy to share my knowledge and experiences with you guys - and if you ever learn something new, don't forget to share it with me too! After all, knowledge is a Filipino woman's best friend! 🤓
if this was a test i would do very well
Very good info ty 🎉 miss beautiful
Hi Beauti!
Someday... maybe soon!
🤞 Thank you for your comment! 🙌
Thanks for the good information ..
Love and support from Korea...
Salamat po...
Salamat po!! :)
@Rubeauti I appreciate this information. I am watching out for signs that a Filipina may like me, want to know me more or She is into me. I like Morenas, by the way, even the ones who don't sing.
That's great to hear! It sounds like you are really invested in getting to know a Filipina better. I'm sure you're going to find someone who appreciates your interest in them. Just make sure to be respectful and patient when
@@Rubeauti I am doing that. Sharing Loving kindness as much as I can, including to you. Retiring in Philippines, Manila not on short list, but I would come to visit You.
I 💯 agree...
I used to have a filipina gf that did all that and more. We met by making comments on a UA-cam video then making comments on each other's comment. We hit it off right away. We were always on video chats. After a year we began making plans to meet for the first time. She wanted to meet in Hawaii and I agreed. One night she wasn't feeling well. She hurried to the CR to vomit but never made it. She collapsed on the kitchen floor still on video. I couldn't get her to speak so I called her best friend and her aunt as well. They rushed over and got her to the hospital. Her aunt held the phone on video chat the next morning and she tried to chat with me. The doctors said she wasn't going to make it. She kept saying she loved me and she was sorry over and over. Finally she took her last breath saying never forget I love you. She passed away April 7 2018 in Hong Kong. She was 30 and still a virgin. She promised her mom and God she would wait until marriage. I respected that. She was the only person I cried about bcuz they died. She was a filipina. I've been single since she passed away.
My condolences. I presume you were close in age and had a lot in common. As to your story line, I'm not sure how you were going to meet in Hawaii (presumably you petitioned her) but you were with her in HK where her aunt is.
Given the choice, would you swim through a clean river or through one infested by deadly pirañas? If your answer is "clean river" then you don't use online dating apps or social media. Else, you are asking for trouble, pain and financial loss.
Ha ha, yeah I can see the correlation there! I think I'll stick to clean rivers, but I'm not ruling out online dating apps and social media either. After all, you can find some real gems out there! 😉
@@Rubeauti Yeah, it's a "mirror" situation. What for us westerners is very risky, to a Filipina can be the pot of gold. In every meaning!
@@SahrokhVery risky is an understatement 😮
maybe the PI honey is assessing you to make sure you are up to her standards so Ruby that works both ways
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Hi there! Thanks for your comment. I totally understand where you're coming from and I'm here to help. I'm glad you're looking out for me - it's important to make sure we're all on the same page.
She beat me, we always together ❤❤
lovely!
Great video, thank you for all your hard work! I have a question... what is the best way to meet a good Filipina? I'm so tired of online scammers or girls who chat with 100 men at the same time... should I just go to the Philippines and hope I run into a good girl? Any advice will be appreciated 🙏
If you have any sense don't.Filipinas are bad news.
How about when she says "I can't afford to loose you"... keep in mind she has never asked for a penny in a year...
Keep her. Shes in love. She might be afraid to ask you for a penny. Some Filipina are like that. IMO.
Good points, but it's mostly fake IMHO having lived there. It's almost always about money to send home to her extended family and having children with wealth as her retirement plan. The expat vlogs say to avoid romantic escalation (although that's what normally attracts) and only after providing some financial support and promises of marriage and babies (and not disclosing your snip) do you begin to tell her what she needs to do (be romantic) to keep the money "mentor" (sugar daddy) around.
Cause she like you falls in love with you for you and your personality. Like you did with me hunny ❤❤❤😊😊
If she doesn't allow you to install a GPS Tracking System in her, she's not into you ! 😊
Fantastic🔥
Honestly Rubeauti . . . you are soooo twee. But I'm sure all the suitor suckers are happy to lap it all up. Good for you, dear.
Carry on . . .
PS. By the way . . . do you have a problem with even the least application of cosmetics? You know, a touch of rouge, a hint of eye-shadow and lovely lip-gloss. None of my business, of course!
Hello my miga ,, I would know if she Loved me If she gave me Her Rice 😀🤣❤
Great insight into Pinay Culture
Thank you . 🇵🇭1❤
oh my gosh Beauty drives me crazy Inlove kaayo ko sa girl sa mga kulot❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️🧸
How about this one Rubi,
she says: "Paul I really really like you, in fact I am crushing on you!" Is that a pretty clear sign? But Rubi, you haven't said that to me...we haven't even met, so many things wrong in this world.
I think that the signs that Philippina women give off that they really like a man are about the same as the signs of women from any nationality but there are differences to be mindful of. In my experience Asian women in general and Asian men as well are very friendly, easy to smile, super easy to engage and interact with. In our current western societies where men and women can't even interact normally with one another, this friendly and open demeanor by Asians may be misread.
Culture differences:
An American woman likes you, she wants you to pay for her new Lexus!
An Asian woman likes you, she asks if you would be willing to pay for a roasted Pig that will be served when you go with her to meet her family.
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Haha! I'm flattered, but I think I'm going to have to pass on the roasted pig. Thanks for the kind offer though!
If she likes you she will not leave your side
Thank you for your kind words! 🤗 I appreciate your support and am glad to have you around.
Was it just me..or did everytime Rubeauti had a point and the noise came it.. it was a cash register sound? (hehehe)
Thanks for the laugh! 😆 I'm glad you noticed the cash register sound effect. It was a fun way to emphasize my points! 💰
I have met hundreds of so called honeys and only one has come up to my standard of humanity
That's great to hear! You must have very high standards, and I'm sure that person is really special to you. It's important to find someone who meets your expectations and makes you feel appreciated.
@@Rubeauti yep
Sorry, maybe you didn't need to hear that. Have a great day, take care and God bless you Rubeauti 🙏 💔
Very Helpful...😅😅😅
Maybe so.. but she knows how to open your wallet also..
so don't forget to budget accordingly!
I must be doing something wrong. I've been seeking a filipino girlfriend for 4 months and not one will give me more than 5 minutes of their time. I have to ask all the questions, most of which they don't answer. They never ask me anything except if I will send them money.
Haha, sorry to hear that it hasn't been going too well. Don't worry, you'll find someone eventually. Maybe try asking different questions that they can answer, and maybe even find something they're interested in so you can chat about that. But if not, there's plenty of fish in the sea so don't give up!
If she's not making it difficult for you ;)
What happens if they do all that and add all their money issues, and could they send you money?
Haha, no way! I'm not a money lender. I just like to give advice and help people out. But if you want to show your appreciation for my help, feel free to buy me a cupcake!
my filipina sang to me this morning.
That's so sweet! I'm glad you were able to enjoy a beautiful moment with your Filipina friend. It's always nice to start the morning with a reminder of how much we are loved!
I'm here now how can we communicate with each other
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Thanks for reaching out! It's great to connect with you. Let's chat and get to know each other better! 😊
Sounds like a lot is involved, with actually getting to know a Philippina.
Although I suppose if there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, who cares 😉.
It's usually a pot of fools gold. I've been there many times over many years. All about money for extended family and having babies as their retirement plan.
@Bob Bruce yes experience is bliss, I,ve also lived and stayed in Thailand and Vietnam for nearly 4 or 5 years on and off over the last 28 or more years.
Now I,m back in Australia for the last ten years.
It's just easier unless you find the lady who is willing to help with the situation and or is really already self reliant.
Then you'll always find it difficult, that's unless you have an endless amount of money. Which most don't, I,ve met blokes and drank with some and got to know only a certain few.
And let's just say 1.5 mill plus house car and whatever else.
All gone because he couldn't keep it in his pants. And another 1 or 2 blokes 1, 2 mill and get this the other about 7 or 8 mill U.S.
He owned a couple of bars in Sai Nam Yen at the back of Patong Beach ⛱️ and 1 in Bangla and Soi Sea dragon. When he,d go for work, his missus would always be fooling around with other men.
He just laughed and said who gives a rats ass. I mean this bloke had a few homes in Europe and a house in The Philippines. He just had money but he never was a big head just a genuine man.
Fool you said maybe, or maybe just had a great time spending. I say good on him. Some of the ladies hanging around him weren't to shabby.
I was never 1 for throwing heaps around because I didn't really have it.
Although I had many good times and yes spent some doing so, but nothing to elaborate. Like buying motorcycles or 20,000 baht gold or houses. I think the most I ever give a lady was a thou Aus but that was my old girlfriend who had lived with me and took care of my apartment when I was working in Vietnam on and off for 2 years.
Like the old saying goes a fools easily parted of his money.
I say if he enjoys doing it and doesn't hurt anyone, and most importantly respect the culture and of course the ladies. Then so be it, cheers 🍻 mate.
There is no way in the world....!!
If she can put her phone away for more then 10 minutes while you are together in person then she is all yours 😂
Oh, I am flattered! But I think we need a bit more than 10 minutes to really get to know each other. Let's try for an hour? ;)
@@Rubeauti A woman from the Philippines can go one hour without touching her phone? If so I want to marry her lol
@@teds8928 some of them can :) I had the fortune to meet 2 women while I was there. both who were willing to put the phone down and just share time.
@@Karshel well as said lol
@@teds8928 I do have to be honest.. they were both what is considered older.. 42, and 44.. so a different set of expectations than the younger ladies.. but they both value time actually spent in conversation and sharing information face to face.
Wow my Filipina must secretly hate me 😳😳😳😳
Hi Rabeauti, is it true, have you a new boyfriend? All my hope is out😉
How do i know she likes me? i just ask- or more accurately i beg. LOL!
Thanks for your funny comment! I'm not sure if I can give you a definite answer, but I'd suggest talking to her directly and seeing what she has to say - that's probably the best way to find out! 🤗
@@Rubeauti -of course. Nothing beats one-on-one talk. A week should about do it. 😂
No no no have you ever seen a beautiful Latina from Mexico? They make just about any filipina look like yesterday's news!!!??? incredibly beautiful ,,,,I just saw a storeful at Marshall's dept store 😍😍😍my goodness 😍 but if I'm ever in the Philippines ,,as they say " when in Rome " where's the P ? Why don't you have her on your channel?? I'd watch,,,,, and Filipinas send imogees when she needs $$$$ come on seriously
🤣🤣🤣 just joking but seriously, you are awesome and an inspiration to many. Keep it up!
@Rubeauti me an inspiration?? Right,, no my friend,,I'm just me, ,,a lonely old man who admires life and all its Rubeauty's your the one who deserves an award or praise ❤️ ♥️ ✨️
Latin America have the most beautiful girls in the world 🌎
Common Sense!!! Now that’s asking a lot from a westerner!!! 😂😊
hahahaha
Is there a difference between finding a Filipina and finding THE Filipina
Right now nobody loves me and nobody cares about me.
But don't worry - you've got me! 🤗 Let's learn together and have fun - Filipino style! 🇵🇭
@@Rubeauti Thank you for restoring my faith. I had been feeling down lately as I navigate this battlefield as I prepare to retire and move to the Philippines in less than 6 months. Thank you and God bless you. I promise I won't fall in love with you too quickly. I am still working on the Music. No Filipina singer found yet.
@@Rubeauti I sent you a couple of long messages on Messenger weeks ago. I presume that is yours . March 30 I left a response to a vlog. I am Imperial Brown
@@geecheelionmusicPrepare to be scammed as you are definitely not made for the Philippines
Had a Cebu city Filipina communication for 2 and half years and did this type of things. But for several years went south Korea US military bases for paid escort to guys and hangout at hookah lounges with drugs in the pipes. Even had booths for sex. Never seen so many lies. How do you trust a Filipina and have a homely province Filipina. Still say your blog and all bl9gers there and expats bloggers are trafficking province Filipinas.
I'm in ayungon negros oriental. I will be here a year hopefully I want to talk to you
Thanks for your message! It's great to know that you're in Negros Oriental. I hope you have a great time there. 😊
Have you ever been in United States and if you would want to come to the USA you would love I love your country I love to come and see your beautiful country my name is Robbo lone Wolf ❤️
most so called honeys are snitches and a waste of space
It's understandable to feel frustrated when you encounter people you don't think are genuine. However, it's important to remember that everyone is different and not to make assumptions about someone before getting to know them. We all have something to offer,
it is hard to find a real honey in this world
It's true that it can be difficult to find genuine people out there, but there are still many wonderful people to be found. We just have to be sure to take our time and find the right ones!
a disgrace on humanity
and if I see you I will run to a bigger hill away from you
honeys like Ruby thinks the sun shines out their backside
and if she intruduce me to her Grandma?
Haha, if she introduces you to her Grandma, I'm sure I'll be getting a call from Grandma asking for a date! 😉
ahey, I would like to date you. YOu seem like a very special person.
just check his wallet
Hi there! Thanks for your comment! I'm Rubeauti, and it's great to meet you! I'm always happy to help out with questions about money. Feel free to reach out if you need any advice or help with
blah blah blah what a bunch of bananas
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