leaving each other... (long distance relationship)

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2018
  • Monica flew home to New York... this is always the worst part. // EPISODE 34
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  • @iSamPatterson
    @iSamPatterson 5 років тому +173

    I’m tearing up watching this back urgh

    • @colekitten1367
      @colekitten1367 5 років тому +4

      Sam Patterson 633 I love how you changed your voice I love you talk together keep up the good work you guys

    • @poppycole8127
      @poppycole8127 5 років тому +1

      High school musical ok love kids poppy 12

    • @AleenaA147
      @AleenaA147 Рік тому

      So emotional

  • @joycebeau3858
    @joycebeau3858 5 років тому +21

    salute to the couple who's in a "LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP "

  • @chloewebson
    @chloewebson 5 років тому +30

    “I’m doing better”
    *20 seconds later balls out crying*
    mood when I leave my boyfriend:((

  • @singingstar56
    @singingstar56 5 років тому +34

    at the end when he said “i’ve got to marry this girl” WHERE CAN I FIND A MAN LIKE THIS HELLO IS ANYBODY OUT THERE

  • @MelisaBaydemir
    @MelisaBaydemir 5 років тому +80

    Awww you guys😭 I totally get you. Me and my boyfriend only get to see another a couple times a year but when I have to leave it's literally like Niagara falls in my eyes. It's so hard. :( but distance is nothing when you LOVE the person so much.

    • @iSamPatterson
      @iSamPatterson 5 років тому +4

      Melisa Baydemir exactly it’s so worth it :)

    • @joycebeau3858
      @joycebeau3858 5 років тому +1

      i feel the same way i hust got home to my country and it feels like a decade since i am home cause i miss him already salute to the long distance relationship

  • @sherrywiedow3530
    @sherrywiedow3530 5 років тому +46

    You are both such an inspiration for others! I’m in a long distance relationship but we don’t get to see one another nearly enough- I get how Monica was feeling in this video! Hang in there - distance is only a test of how far out love can reach!

  • @roralinn8865
    @roralinn8865 5 років тому +4

    I have been in a relationship that, until last October was an LDR. 5 years together and the days when we have to leave each other were always the worst. Seeing you guys and your relationship, I am rooting for you guys to be together saying only goodnight and not goodbye. LDR are the hardest relationships but if you can work through the distance you can withstand anything. Love you guys

  • @GotABrokenHeart
    @GotABrokenHeart 5 років тому +2

    My heart can't handle this amount of cute. Especially Sam's little thing at the end when he just says "I need to marry this girl". I. Am. Sobbing. Also, I think I commented a while back that I wished I could find someone who cares about me the way you two care about each other...and I think I might have. I don't wanna jinx it, but I'm really hoping. Luckily my bf only lives 10 min from where I go to college, so it's not really long distance, except when I go home for summer since it's a 13 hour drive.

  • @OwlsOfTheNights
    @OwlsOfTheNights 5 років тому +4

    I’ve discovered your channel two days ago and I fell in love. With every video I watch, I believe more in love and I believe there is someone out there for me, that’s the power of your videos! I can see the love between you two and it looks like it is straight out of a fairytale. I cry so much to the point I have to pause the video to calm myself hahaha 😂I truly thank you for your videos, love you ❤️

  • @fridajensen3286
    @fridajensen3286 5 років тому +4

    your love is so strong and this relationship is everything

  • @julianaaguiar5392
    @julianaaguiar5392 5 років тому +3

    Dear Monica... thank you for those video it's such a relive to see other couples with a similar relationship.
    My boyfriend and I have met in March last year. We didn't know what to expect. I had an one year visa and he is the most unpredictable person. We started or official dating on 30th of April and I left on 30th of October. I started crying one month before.We didn't know what to do after.(I'm trying to be brief). He bought the flight in the first week of December for July.It was pure cuddling. When it was end of August I already was missing him terribly. Watching you videos and marriage proposals have helped me to go on as or next meeting is only in January. So I wish you all the best.hugs.

  • @sydrawlingss
    @sydrawlingss 5 років тому +20

    you guys got me crying before i go into work with this😂 love you guys❤️❤️

  • @jjnb102
    @jjnb102 5 років тому +2

    I absolutely love you two together. You're awesome people.

  • @shrisandhya_
    @shrisandhya_ 5 років тому +2

    i know how it feels like to be away from someone you love so much.. ive been away from him for more than 2 years.. ive never meet him in that 2 years and just waiting for Gods miracle to let me see my guy again.. it hurts.. its hard. you both are awesome.. God bless you both always!

  • @Reemyi-cj1bq
    @Reemyi-cj1bq 5 років тому +3

    You guys are the best number 1 couple we loveee because ur not fake and ur so opennnn to us♥️

  • @kaygrace2878
    @kaygrace2878 5 років тому +2

    you are the most realest people I’ve watched in awhile. so good to others as well. I’m glad I found yall’s channel a couple weeks back. hard video to watch but you guys have real love. you guys will be together for good soon. 💕

    • @iSamPatterson
      @iSamPatterson 5 років тому +1

      Kay Grace thank you so much Kay 😊 I hope so!

  • @heyyanindyasss
    @heyyanindyasss 5 років тому +1

    I’ve just started a long distance relationship and I miss him everyday. He lives in Germany while I live in Indonesia. It’s hard because when he’s home after work, I must be asleep because I go to school in the morning and when I’m awake, he’s about to sleep. We only videocall on the weekend which feels like forever for me!
    I hope Sam and Monica’s plans will come true❤️

  • @emilytolman7006
    @emilytolman7006 5 років тому +7

    So hard and sad big hugs!!! This reminds me of my sister because she’s in Leeds England and I’m in Provo Utah and I miss her and her family so much! I won’t see her till next summer so I feel for the both of you

  • @lynntegen5272
    @lynntegen5272 5 років тому +10

    For goodness sake, just just married already. Pff to the right time, the right time is when you love each other and want
    to spend the rest of your lifes together.

  • @Frosty-oe6sq
    @Frosty-oe6sq 5 років тому

    I remember you guys just hitting 20k and the craziest part is your almost at 30k already, keep up the great work and stay positive you’ll see each other soon.

  • @kileyalexander1548
    @kileyalexander1548 5 років тому +5

    My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship as well! When ever I miss him I watch your videos, makes me feel better ☺️❤️

  • @neutralholly
    @neutralholly 5 років тому +54

    For the 1% that see this, I hope your dreams come true!! Mine is to be a successful UA-camr 🙃

  • @beinamysawa7458
    @beinamysawa7458 5 років тому +1

    I love you both...be strong, God be with you guys.

  • @taylorcolbeth1090
    @taylorcolbeth1090 5 років тому +3

    This makes me so sad... I am so sorry for you both!

  • @mounaahmed6517
    @mounaahmed6517 5 років тому

    Yaaay you Guys finally uploaded I'm happy much love 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @matteamangiaracina907
    @matteamangiaracina907 5 років тому +32

    My boyfriend and myself have been in a long distance relationship for over 2 years now. Whenever I miss him (which is always) I watch your videos (which again is always😂) love you guys and your relationship, keep it strong and just know that people are here for support❤️

    • @iSamPatterson
      @iSamPatterson 5 років тому +3

      Mattea Mangiaracina thank you so much! Best of luck with your relationship and we love you too :)

    • @afifasaliahshafiq4757
      @afifasaliahshafiq4757 5 років тому +1

      I thought I'm the only one doing it this way! 😂👌💕

    • @Reemyi-cj1bq
      @Reemyi-cj1bq 5 років тому

      Best of luck I hope ur always happy together♥️🙏🏻

  • @diyagoswami933
    @diyagoswami933 5 років тому +2

    U both are so amazing & adorable.. Love u guys & stay together like this always no matter how much distance come in your way ❤

  • @irenee3062
    @irenee3062 5 років тому

    No surprise that your parents get along so well because you both have such a great and genuine relationship both your parents I am sure can see that. So great Monica flew home with her parents that must take the sting out of leaving UK. Moving in together full time is serious step the settling in period and finding your groove is another challenge but you will both do great. Proving your relationship for a visa not sure about UK or US but here you would be recognized as being in a defacto relationship. Love to you both.

  • @reviewforthetube6485
    @reviewforthetube6485 5 років тому

    You guys might be the most in love couple on UA-cam seriously your gf is the sweetest woman I've ever seen and you seem amazing also but man this is true relationship goals

  • @lauren33881
    @lauren33881 5 років тому

    I'm obsessed with you guys agh this video is so sad!!

  • @Sana-cs9xm
    @Sana-cs9xm 5 років тому +3

    Here I am enjoying another 14mins💕😊 luv u

  • @vishal_parmar8
    @vishal_parmar8 5 років тому +1

    U both looking perfect for each other.specially Monika is very cute.god bless uh.

  • @_xo_mustache_xo_3934
    @_xo_mustache_xo_3934 5 років тому

    I have never clicked so fast I was waiting all day for this Monica and Sam you can do this your relationship is so strong you can get through this
    Edit:I love you guys❤️❤️

  • @reannalangridge6533
    @reannalangridge6533 5 років тому +4

    You guys are so strong I would literally die if i couldnt see my boyfriend for months. ❤

  • @mahnoorzia6261
    @mahnoorzia6261 5 років тому +1

    y’all are soso cute ❤️ god bless

  • @megameokochan9930
    @megameokochan9930 4 роки тому

    *crying non stop whenever I watch this video* nuuuuuuuuu!!!

  • @madievlogs777
    @madievlogs777 5 років тому

    Literally smile click on mi face seeing your videos... the chemistry you guys share is amazing..! It's feel so bad seeing Monica shedding tears I guess ur smile look more prettier than ur ocean water..! #LoveYou

  • @brennajohnson5171
    @brennajohnson5171 5 років тому

    I LOVE U GUYS!!!

  • @charlie1445
    @charlie1445 5 років тому

    I saw the title and was just...sad. love u guys!! ❤❤

  • @cislynedwards876
    @cislynedwards876 4 роки тому

    I love watching you guys .

  • @helenaslife4729
    @helenaslife4729 5 років тому

    Aww bless this is sad when u leave each other I love u both so much 😍❤️

  • @alanhayward6719
    @alanhayward6719 Рік тому

    What a truly beautiful love story

  • @Rosie-bi5gz
    @Rosie-bi5gz 5 років тому +3

    I found you guys by searching for promise rings/proposals haha so funny 😂

  • @mel_5817
    @mel_5817 5 років тому

    aww i love them

  • @3laddin
    @3laddin 5 років тому +1

    Actually I cross your channel accidentally but aberrantly I get addicted to your content you provide I’m a way older then you you look like my children know and I feel bad cause I’m still single tell know I miss all the huge fun ..... but forget about me I wish you remain together for ever and the binds between grow even stronger... no matter what .... I love you both and hope you happiness for ever ... Sam you got it all body never leave it...
    Monica keep it you got to .....
    May the God bless you both forever

  • @reaganpruitt1578
    @reaganpruitt1578 5 років тому

    ALSO Monica you resemble your dad so much its crazy!! I love it!!

  • @aesthetica350
    @aesthetica350 4 роки тому

    I love them so much! ❤️

  • @ravaljaymit3036
    @ravaljaymit3036 5 років тому

    It's hard to apart for while...but you both are so much adorable... God bless you guys..

  • @alexhidalgo2698
    @alexhidalgo2698 5 років тому +1

    Sam and monica
    Great long distance relationships
    Wonderful you both are greats with relationship
    Ps both of you stay strong
    It hards but try not to cry a lot

  • @bridgetbeaver1932
    @bridgetbeaver1932 5 років тому +2

    aw it was so nice meeting you!

  • @amberschlesser4797
    @amberschlesser4797 5 років тому

    Love you guys hope you stay together forever

  • @carolei9807
    @carolei9807 5 років тому +1

    I know the feeling, my boyfriend and i met spent the weekend together and today i had to leave, we wont meet until the end of march, ldr are tough, it burns in my heart every time he leaves

  • @melissapeace8558
    @melissapeace8558 5 років тому +1

    Right in the feels 😭 visas are literally the worst, most annoying, complicated, expensive, piece of shiz to deal with. I haven’t seen my husband in three months and I don’t know when I will get to see him because of the visa situation. Crossing my fingers for you guys that it will go smoothly! 🤞💕

  • @iimanimarie
    @iimanimarie 5 років тому

    cutest couple !

  • @egyptianqueen7779
    @egyptianqueen7779 4 роки тому

    I love Sam's child voice 😂😂😂

  • @allylindavlogs
    @allylindavlogs 5 років тому

    love u guys

  • @ayeshabegum8992
    @ayeshabegum8992 5 років тому +2

    😘i really love u both....May u both be together .....XOXO

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому

    I also watch the same videoes as well lol love you sam and monica

  • @balajikarthi9040
    @balajikarthi9040 5 років тому

    So moving from Sam and Monica to Sam, Monica

  • @caitlinferronato
    @caitlinferronato 5 років тому

    My boyfriend and I are doing long distance now too and we're considering moving to London and we're in the same visa situation you are in! It's tough and the visas make it so hard to be with each other. Good luck guys!! Rooting for ya!

  • @bethbeecroft6976
    @bethbeecroft6976 5 років тому

    I feel you both :( it sucks so much ♥️

  • @kaaatttiieeee
    @kaaatttiieeee 5 років тому +1

    when he calls her ms. cheeky and kisses her forehead 😭 RIP ME

  • @dipakchaudhary2413
    @dipakchaudhary2413 5 років тому

    i am watching your video last 1 week. you are the best couple in the world. love from nepal

  • @samanthaflores8954
    @samanthaflores8954 5 років тому +1

    "I need to marry this girl" MAH HEARRTTTT😭

  • @KoaRipley
    @KoaRipley 5 років тому

    thank u so much for bringing up the civil partnership! i just looked into it and i'm hoping my boy and i can apply and get ourselves a cute lil nottingham apartment very soon! xx

    • @iSamPatterson
      @iSamPatterson 5 років тому +1

      koala I talked to an immigration lawyer about it and the first heterosexual couple to ever enter a civil partnership was in June this year (as it was designed for homosexuals) so I’m scared to be the test bunny for the visa just a heads up I’d definitely speak to an immigration lawyer about it if I were you :)

    • @KoaRipley
      @KoaRipley 5 років тому

      Sam Patterson that was something i noticed whilst i was researching about it - all the government websites were saying “same-sex” couples so i was concerned at first. i saw the article about the couple that went to the supreme court in june though and although it gives me a lot of hope, i agree that testing in could be scary. but i’m definitely going to hit up an immigration officer and get more informed about it! thanks so much for your reply!

  • @delvilorra8097
    @delvilorra8097 5 років тому

    I really love U both. . 😍😍😘😘😘😘

  • @mohammedomer8178
    @mohammedomer8178 5 років тому

    This is very smoking!! I love you guys. I'm a big Fan from Somalia Africa.

  • @madelynpruitt4964
    @madelynpruitt4964 4 роки тому

    I'm not the only one I feel a lot better

  • @sanaabouslila6518
    @sanaabouslila6518 5 років тому

    Love u guys from morroco ❤❤❤💛

  • @aLiShikari
    @aLiShikari 5 років тому

    Youuu guyyyyysssss

  • @AdrianHilder
    @AdrianHilder 5 років тому +1

    My friend, the right time to marry the girl is when you find yourself blurting out 'I need to marry ' and also when you can see it is hurting her not to. I was in this situation 25 years ago when we had been through 2 years out of 3 of my girlfriend (now wife) being away studying for her degree. We saw each other in holidays and for weekends about once every 3 weeks. We were engaged during her 3rd year so we could be married and together properly once her studying was done.
    Its not a marriage of convenience for the sake of immigration rules when you truly love each other.
    But every couple has to find their own way through this and make the decisions for themselves.

  • @iamalive2826
    @iamalive2826 2 роки тому

    She deserves an Oscar

  • @keerthia4982
    @keerthia4982 4 роки тому

    Monica is natural beauty

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому

    So do i monica same love you

  • @Stitchlife-jp5fj
    @Stitchlife-jp5fj 5 років тому

    Im in a long distance relationship! It's horrible i understand how u both feel xx ❤

  • @g0dfree291
    @g0dfree291 5 років тому +3

    Monica's sister is also extremely pretty😍

  • @ajboyproductions4574
    @ajboyproductions4574 3 роки тому

    0:13 so cute

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому

    sam i agree with you 100%

  • @gualberto7769
    @gualberto7769 5 років тому +2

    Hey guys, I wish you all the best. Hopefully you ll menage to live together in a year or two.

  • @charlie1445
    @charlie1445 5 років тому

    Omg my anniversary with my bf is on the 16th of March so on yours it will be my 7 month anniversary❤❤💯

  • @maryflorence2853
    @maryflorence2853 5 років тому

    Am just blubbering Jesus! Am so sad when they leave each other

  • @rinaraffi3682
    @rinaraffi3682 4 роки тому

    i cant understand it eather sam same truly extreamly absest with sam and monica

  • @MsSexylady93
    @MsSexylady93 5 років тому +7

    I love you guys and i know how long distance feels my boyfriend and i did long distance for 3 1/2 years with me living in South Carolina and him living in Florida but now him and I are living in Florida together and now we have been together for 5 1/2 years so i know you all can get through it love you both

    • @iSamPatterson
      @iSamPatterson 5 років тому

      Tanner Craig that’s amazing to hear Tanner! 😊

  • @zonamckinney1259
    @zonamckinney1259 5 років тому +4

    Sam Patterson you need do soon you both can't survive without each other.

  • @reaganpruitt1578
    @reaganpruitt1578 5 років тому +1

    I love you guys so much! Sometimes I feel as though your channel inaccurately portrays how most LDRs are though! You guys generally get to see each other about a month a part and you're able to stay together together and travel for several weeks at a time. I was in an LDR for 3 years, so we were normally apart for about 3 months at a time, and when we were together it was for normally less than a week. We spent all our money on him coming home and since he wasn't home for long, we didn't get to travel anywhere. This isn't meant to sound hateful in any way, I just feel like everyone has expectations when entering an LDR and I never want someone to enter an LDR thinking they will be able to do things they can't! But I am glad you guys get to travel and do all that together, plus you are super blessed that you own a business together, that would be so awesome!

  • @christianpaulomaglasang2801
    @christianpaulomaglasang2801 5 років тому

    Genuine

  • @geomiri6020
    @geomiri6020 5 років тому

    watching monica have to leave gives me ptsd from when i have to leave my partner :c

  • @judis6224
    @judis6224 2 місяці тому

    I hear you Monica,love a bath😊

  • @zahrashokoohi5437
    @zahrashokoohi5437 5 років тому

    hi guyes i wish the best for you❤❤❤i'm in long distance relationship too iam in Iran in asia and she is in US!! we can meet each other once a year.. a week long :/ so i miss him soooooooooooo muuuch
    btw sam you are so like harry potter like my boyfriend😁

  • @craigmoodie5756
    @craigmoodie5756 5 років тому

    I’ll wait for my wedding invite then brother!!

  • @kelseyspringer7708
    @kelseyspringer7708 5 років тому

    You guys help me with me dealing with my ldr. Were back together just taking things slow as possible right now. You guys are #ldrgoals I just wanna text him so bad but hes busy

  • @MonicaGartner
    @MonicaGartner 5 років тому +26

    :(

    • @iSamPatterson
      @iSamPatterson 5 років тому +6

      Monica Gartner ❤️

    • @alexhidalgo2698
      @alexhidalgo2698 5 років тому

      Aww so sweet
      It hards not to see your love again
      I cry a little bit when you and Monica are hugging the last time

    • @verityshingfield2749
      @verityshingfield2749 5 років тому

      💍🌹 get engaged soon

  • @ay-by9qs
    @ay-by9qs 5 років тому

    aww☹️💖

  • @megwarn
    @megwarn 5 років тому

    my boyfriend arrives tonight at 12am and we live 200 mile apart and it’s been a month since I saw him I can’t wait to see him

  • @deepashakapoor1461
    @deepashakapoor1461 5 років тому

    firsttt!! loveyouguys❤️

  • @OfficialAkzmusic
    @OfficialAkzmusic 5 років тому +1

    I totally get this... I do this 2-3 times a year and it never gets easier. Leaving each other sucks... I hope for the best for you two. I'm also trying to document our long distance relationship, come check us out if you'd like. Bless.

  • @pratikranjan4553
    @pratikranjan4553 5 років тому

    ❤️❤️❤️ love you brother from India

  • @brendaprinsloo2212
    @brendaprinsloo2212 5 років тому +1

    Sooooooo sad, if I had to do that going away from my hubby, I'll die... We have been together 15 years and married 11 years and he is my everything (second to Jesus). We are still in love and I won't survive one day without him being by my side...

  • @katietaylor8
    @katietaylor8 5 років тому

    Long distance is very tough as I am in one. You 2 are a cute couple and I hope you 2 see each other very soon. Will you 2 be together for Christmas? 💙

  • @courtt444
    @courtt444 5 років тому

    I’m moving to Florida in January, if you guys are ever In Florida let me know because id love to meet you guys!!! ❤️