Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
People who make videos like this are doing gods work, man…. I needed this video today, I’ve been drowning in air… Fcuk it’s hard to loose a woman you really loved… thank for making this video bro.
“Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m deeply sorry to hear about your pain-losing someone you love is incredibly hard. I’m glad this video could provide even a little bit of comfort. Stay strong, and take it one day at a time ❤❤❤
@ Heartbreak is incredibly tough, and it’s something you can’t fully understand until you go through it. Stay strong, it does get better with time, and you’ll come out of it stronger. Hang in there, man ❤
Its not thr heartbreak that hurts the most its the fact that you havr to act like she doesn’t exist anymore, if feel’s like waking up to hearing that someone is de*d and you have to deal with it your whole life knowing you cant talk to that person again, you never get a change to tell them somethings you had in mind you never get a chance to keep your promises 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️💔💔💔 the pain of loosing someone you gave trusted and opened up to is hell, u have to taste it to understand why some people com*t suicide after breakups.
I kept returning to her. Everytime i walked away she breadcrumbed me and that little glimmer of hope made me feel I was only overthinking. But then she did it again. I had to devise a plan to destroy that stupid hope. I am the person who never lose hope. It just had to be done that way. She never saw it coming until it was too late, and it was liberating. I am peaceful now.
I would say - just stop fighting. If she really meant something for you and you had deep feelings towards her, just accept that she will hold that special place in your heart for life. There is no point to vindict someone who meant a lot for you. You will have memories, reoccurring thoughts, sometimes you may ruminate. But slowly, you will heal and find someone else who can give you even better love.
It’s hard to let go knowing you were the main cause the relationship ended.. my depression took over and made me someone I wasn’t which eventually pushed her away after trying to hold on. Once she ended it something came over me and I was able to get my life back however she moved on to another guy and I’ve had to to this journey alone wishing she was with me
I'm sorry you're going through this. It’s hard, but it sounds like you’ve made incredible progress in getting your life back on track. Focus on your growth and healing, this journey is shaping you for better days ahead. Keep moving forward you’ve got this ❤❤❤
The hardest part for me is she turned me into a better person and she was there in the darkest part of my life. She basically cut me out for a guy she has had fellings for before she really knew me. She blocked me last night finally because i wouldn't let go. I found this video this morning. I love and care for her and this is hard as hell for me.
@@darthsephy6090 Maybe that's why she came into your life - to make you a better person. Some may say God sent her on your way to heal you. I had a similar situation that I'm trying to heal from. I made my wrongdoings, she also had her past but it took our life on a different level. We're not together anymore but I love her with all my heart and I'll have to live with it. We'll see what happens. Anyway, if she chose someone else - let her. Don't stop other people from searching for their love. I know it hurts You, and you feel betrayed at some point. You probably made some commitments to each other that were broken. But you can't force anyone to stay in your life. Us men are tought to fight but sometimes fighting is making the situation work worse, than better. She made a decision and choose someone else, so this is a conscious step. I hope you accept the reality and make necessary steps to find someone who is willing to stay in your life for good and bad.
@@darthsephy6090this is likely going to be one of the hardest and most painful times you'll ever experience. 😢 But trust me on this, it will eventually pass. If you let time heal you, if you practice enough self-love and nourish all the relationship in your life that really mean something to you, you will get out of this. And you will be stronger, much stronger than before
I think I needed to hear this today,, I am a narc abuse survivor and I feel like I have been holding onto a small piece the same old memories and version of myself that no longer holds truth anymore,, even though it’s been years I have been free from this negativity and pain I for some reason still feel an urge to hold onto this broken piece of myself THANK YOU 😊 And yes i completely understand that this is most likely about a break up and the hardships of that,, but i am seeing this as I a break up with the old victimized version of myself so i can grow
Your insight is powerful, and I’m so glad this resonated with you. Letting go of the past, especially after such a traumatic experience, takes incredible strength. You’re on a beautiful path of healing and growth, keep embracing the new version of yourself, You're doing amazing ☺❤
Same bro, I didn’t know what a narc was until I had to research and figure out what the hell was going on… Jesus she hurt me… I feel like I don’t even know who I am, she said she loved me then few days later just stopped texting me completely… how can someone be so cruel… I’m so trauma bonded and everyday is a war inside of me…. I just want to be free from this hell
@@phoenixprotocol452 “Sorry you’re going through this, It’s tough, but realizing the truth is a big step. You deserve better, and things will get better with time ❤
I had a 6 years of relationship and recently she broke-up for someone else she found interest. This was my first ever relationship and I am devastated now don't know what to do. I am feeling dead everyday. Hope someday somehow I will overcome this.
@@subhojitchowdhury466 I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It hurts now, but I promise it won’t feel like this forever. Take it one day at a time, focus on yourself, and know that better days are coming ❤️❤️❤️
You will adapt take it a day at a time Keep on improving yourself.Go to the gym Work on your body Keep your mind occupied and focus on improving your life
i wasnt in a relationship but i was in a failed talking stage and i fell so hard for her, she has a bf now and i know now that i need to let go of her, i really needed to hear this, thank you.
I’m really glad this helped, Letting go is never easy but you’re taking an important step forward, Trust that with time, you’ll heal and find peace. Stay strong ❤❤❤
Your situation is same as mine. It hurts when I see her with the guy. Mainly the guy and her used to troll me, by internationally being very friendly in front of me iykyk what I am saying. And they used to laught it out upon me. It hurts when someone you love deeply make fun of you with their friends 💔. After that I started ignoring her, and now I am with the most beautiful girl in whole class, plot twist😅
I just broke up my girlfriend yesterday and yesterday night was the coldest night in my entire life I cant sleep I cry a lot but I will be handle it ,I will come back here once I finally healed.
I did the same night too my guy. It wasn't my choice... she said she could no longer give me what I needed. I said I needed her. She gave me so many chances to go. I wish I took them. I knew it was over when she asked for me to "give her a break". How can I when that's all I been doing for the past few months... We got this.
I’m just now going through my first breakup and this video knew exactly how I was feeling at the start. I know it’s gonna be tough no matter what, but this helps a lot. Thank you for giving back to humanity in a positive way.
guys. take a break and use that energy on building yourself up and loving yourself even half as much, in terms of health, exercise mindset... you will be much better off
I’ve had many encounters with women over my 24 years of life and only had two relationships this last one I had the second we did so much in just 10 months almost had a child helped her when she had nothing went to Hawaii together shared an incredible bond and love but she wanted to break it on and off and finally left me for some older guy who’s 30 so I don’t get it she was everything I prayed for and was drop dead gorgeous I don’t hate her she’s the only girl I have loved unconditionally and I pray for her back but if it’s meant to be god will bring it back and if it’s not so be it. Either way I have to let go for my own sanity even though I don’t want to life must go on because I did think about ending myself for awhile all the way up until last week but I’m still praying to god asking for hope. I’m still conflicted but this video has helped
I’m sorry you're going through this, but your strength to keep going shows how much you value yourself and your future. Letting go is hard, but it opens the door for healing and growth. Keep praying, stay strong, and know better days are ahead ❤❤❤
For a year I have been in a affair relationship with a girl who is going to get married this year in May with her partner with whom she has been in a relationship for almost 10 years, we care about each other but she can't give up the marriage cause she said its complicated, and I understand that, I cant force her A week ago we went on a trip and we talked a bit, she told me that she can't keep lying and hiding from her boyfriend anymore and she doesn't know what's wrong with her anymore, she feels confused, plus she has to prepare for the wedding, she told me that we don't know what will happen in the future, but she wants us to have a natural relationship without having to hide, but also she wants to still talk to each other and not lose contact, Im a bit confused and suffer sometimes because of the loneliness, Ive never chased her, she was always looking for me, we havent talked since last week I am a patient and understanding guy, I am sensitive and deeply experience emotions, I am loyal when I fall in love, but at the same time I can have adventures if they dont want relationships and are made clear from the start My question is, should I continue talk to her when she is looking for me and live my life or should I cut her off? Please give me some tips, thank you
Let her go. In the bible it says a prudent wife is a gift from the lord. Just wait on your gift. I'm still waiting for mine. It is better to be patient then to take over a city. Amen. Peace be with you. Happy Sunday.
“You’re not just letting go of her, You’re letting go of the version of yourself that dependent on her.”
yes ❤
“You are not just letting go of her, you are letting go of the version of yourself that depended on her for happiness”
yes ❤
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
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Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked father obah eze up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
People who make videos like this are doing gods work, man…. I needed this video today, I’ve been drowning in air… Fcuk it’s hard to loose a woman you really loved… thank for making this video bro.
“Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m deeply sorry to hear about your pain-losing someone you love is incredibly hard. I’m glad this video could provide even a little bit of comfort. Stay strong, and take it one day at a time ❤❤❤
Hey man I hear you! I’d never experienced heart break until this past summer. Blown away with how painful it can be. Hang in there!!
@ Heartbreak is incredibly tough, and it’s something you can’t fully understand until you go through it. Stay strong, it does get better with time, and you’ll come out of it stronger. Hang in there, man ❤
Its not thr heartbreak that hurts the most its the fact that you havr to act like she doesn’t exist anymore, if feel’s like waking up to hearing that someone is de*d and you have to deal with it your whole life knowing you cant talk to that person again, you never get a change to tell them somethings you had in mind you never get a chance to keep your promises 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️💔💔💔 the pain of loosing someone you gave trusted and opened up to is hell, u have to taste it to understand why some people com*t suicide after breakups.
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I kept returning to her. Everytime i walked away she breadcrumbed me and that little glimmer of hope made me feel I was only overthinking. But then she did it again. I had to devise a plan to destroy that stupid hope. I am the person who never lose hope. It just had to be done that way. She never saw it coming until it was too late, and it was liberating. I am peaceful now.
I would say - just stop fighting. If she really meant something for you and you had deep feelings towards her, just accept that she will hold that special place in your heart for life. There is no point to vindict someone who meant a lot for you. You will have memories, reoccurring thoughts, sometimes you may ruminate. But slowly, you will heal and find someone else who can give you even better love.
Wise words. Letting go is tough, but holding onto resentment won't change anything. Focus on healing and finding peace ❤
It’s hard to let go knowing you were the main cause the relationship ended.. my depression took over and made me someone I wasn’t which eventually pushed her away after trying to hold on. Once she ended it something came over me and I was able to get my life back however she moved on to another guy and I’ve had to to this journey alone wishing she was with me
I'm sorry you're going through this. It’s hard, but it sounds like you’ve made incredible progress in getting your life back on track. Focus on your growth and healing, this journey is shaping you for better days ahead. Keep moving forward you’ve got this ❤❤❤
The hardest part for me is she turned me into a better person and she was there in the darkest part of my life. She basically cut me out for a guy she has had fellings for before she really knew me. She blocked me last night finally because i wouldn't let go. I found this video this morning. I love and care for her and this is hard as hell for me.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sounds incredibly painful. Remember your worth and focus on healing. You'll get through this ♥♥♥
@@darthsephy6090 Maybe that's why she came into your life - to make you a better person. Some may say God sent her on your way to heal you. I had a similar situation that I'm trying to heal from. I made my wrongdoings, she also had her past but it took our life on a different level. We're not together anymore but I love her with all my heart and I'll have to live with it. We'll see what happens. Anyway, if she chose someone else - let her. Don't stop other people from searching for their love. I know it hurts You, and you feel betrayed at some point. You probably made some commitments to each other that were broken. But you can't force anyone to stay in your life. Us men are tought to fight but sometimes fighting is making the situation work worse, than better. She made a decision and choose someone else, so this is a conscious step. I hope you accept the reality and make necessary steps to find someone who is willing to stay in your life for good and bad.
@FactScope0 Thank you
@@darthsephy6090this is likely going to be one of the hardest and most painful times you'll ever experience. 😢
But trust me on this, it will eventually pass. If you let time heal you, if you practice enough self-love and nourish all the relationship in your life that really mean something to you, you will get out of this. And you will be stronger, much stronger than before
I think I needed to hear this today,, I am a narc abuse survivor and I feel like I have been holding onto a small piece the same old memories and version of myself that no longer holds truth anymore,, even though it’s been years I have been free from this negativity and pain I for some reason still feel an urge to hold onto this broken piece of myself
THANK YOU 😊
And yes i completely understand that this is most likely about a break up and the hardships of that,, but i am seeing this as I a break up with the old victimized version of myself so i can grow
Your insight is powerful, and I’m so glad this resonated with you. Letting go of the past, especially after such a traumatic experience, takes incredible strength. You’re on a beautiful path of healing and growth, keep embracing the new version of yourself, You're doing amazing ☺❤
Same bro, I didn’t know what a narc was until I had to research and figure out what the hell was going on… Jesus she hurt me… I feel like I don’t even know who I am, she said she loved me then few days later just stopped texting me completely… how can someone be so cruel… I’m so trauma bonded and everyday is a war inside of me…. I just want to be free from this hell
@@phoenixprotocol452 “Sorry you’re going through this, It’s tough, but realizing the truth is a big step. You deserve better, and things will get better with time ❤
It's hard to just block and ignore someone you have children with.
you're right but setting boundaries is key, for your peace and your kids' well-being. Stay strong, they’ll thank you for it ❤
I had a 6 years of relationship and recently she broke-up for someone else she found interest. This was my first ever relationship and I am devastated now don't know what to do. I am feeling dead everyday. Hope someday somehow I will overcome this.
@@subhojitchowdhury466 I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It hurts now, but I promise it won’t feel like this forever. Take it one day at a time, focus on yourself, and know that better days are coming ❤️❤️❤️
@ Thanks for the motivation
You will adapt take it a day at a time Keep on improving yourself.Go to the gym Work on your body Keep your mind occupied and focus on improving your life
Thank you! I needed to hear this ❤
i wasnt in a relationship but i was in a failed talking stage and i fell so hard for her, she has a bf now and i know now that i need to let go of her, i really needed to hear this, thank you.
I’m really glad this helped, Letting go is never easy but you’re taking an important step forward, Trust that with time, you’ll heal and find peace. Stay strong ❤❤❤
@FactScope0 thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Your situation is same as mine. It hurts when I see her with the guy. Mainly the guy and her used to troll me, by internationally being very friendly in front of me iykyk what I am saying. And they used to laught it out upon me. It hurts when someone you love deeply make fun of you with their friends 💔. After that I started ignoring her, and now I am with the most beautiful girl in whole class, plot twist😅
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I just broke up my girlfriend yesterday and yesterday night was the coldest night in my entire life I cant sleep I cry a lot but I will be handle it ,I will come back here once I finally healed.
I did the same night too my guy. It wasn't my choice... she said she could no longer give me what I needed. I said I needed her. She gave me so many chances to go. I wish I took them. I knew it was over when she asked for me to "give her a break". How can I when that's all I been doing for the past few months... We got this.
Thank you!
you're welcome ❤
this is very true, thank you so much for sharing ❤
i'm really glad you think so, thank you ❤❤❤
Amazing new video. Thank you❤
you're welcome ❤
I’m just now going through my first breakup and this video knew exactly how I was feeling at the start. I know it’s gonna be tough no matter what, but this helps a lot. Thank you for giving back to humanity in a positive way.
Breakups are tough, but you’re showing strength by facing it head-on, I’m glad the video could help stay strong, and take it one day at a time ❤❤❤
guys. take a break and use that energy on building yourself up and loving yourself even half as much, in terms of health, exercise mindset... you will be much better off
wise words, thanks for sharing your opinions ❤
I’ve had many encounters with women over my 24 years of life and only had two relationships this last one I had the second we did so much in just 10 months almost had a child helped her when she had nothing went to Hawaii together shared an incredible bond and love but she wanted to break it on and off and finally left me for some older guy who’s 30 so I don’t get it she was everything I prayed for and was drop dead gorgeous I don’t hate her she’s the only girl I have loved unconditionally and I pray for her back but if it’s meant to be god will bring it back and if it’s not so be it. Either way I have to let go for my own sanity even though I don’t want to life must go on because I did think about ending myself for awhile all the way up until last week but I’m still praying to god asking for hope. I’m still conflicted but this video has helped
I’m sorry you're going through this, but your strength to keep going shows how much you value yourself and your future. Letting go is hard, but it opens the door for healing and growth. Keep praying, stay strong, and know better days are ahead ❤❤❤
24 years old…you know nothing yet
Is that you again Mr Dark N?
Just let her to bro
Its so easy
You just have to thug it out gng
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@FactScope0 atleast somebody gets it
It sounds all too familiar. Like you read my mind.
glad it was helpful ❤
For a year I have been in a affair relationship with a girl who is going to get married this year in May with her partner with whom she has been in a relationship for almost 10 years, we care about each other but she can't give up the marriage cause she said its complicated, and I understand that, I cant force her
A week ago we went on a trip and we talked a bit, she told me that she can't keep lying and hiding from her boyfriend anymore and she doesn't know what's wrong with her anymore, she feels confused, plus she has to prepare for the wedding, she told me that we don't know what will happen in the future, but she wants us to have a natural relationship without having to hide, but also she wants to still talk to each other and not lose contact, Im a bit confused and suffer sometimes because of the loneliness,
Ive never chased her, she was always looking for me, we havent talked since last week
I am a patient and understanding guy, I am sensitive and deeply experience emotions, I am loyal when I fall in love, but at the same time I can have adventures if they dont want relationships and are made clear from the start
My question is, should I continue talk to her when she is looking for me and live my life or should I cut her off? Please give me some tips, thank you
Let her go. In the bible it says a prudent wife is a gift from the lord. Just wait on your gift. I'm still waiting for mine. It is better to be patient then to take over a city. Amen. Peace be with you. Happy Sunday.
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@FactScope0 🙏❤