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สวัสดีครับ My wifes Thai husband left her. She told our friend that she knows I won't leave her, she feels secure so I get the best from her. The fun part of her being 16 months older than me is her being asked if I'm her ลูกเขย which started in our early fifties, and the stunned reaction when they find out that I'm her husband.
This video is excellent for treating the topic thoroughly. I would also add, younger woman are usually not jaded; they don't carry "baggage" from past unsuccessful or abusive relationships that interfere with them opening their heart fully in a new loving relationship.
Thank you for another great video! As an older man from America, you give me a lot of hope that I can meet a respectful, younger woman in Thailand. I liked your other video about how to find a quality woman too. When I come to Thailand, I plan to follow your advice and take some classes and meet smart, interesting, and respectful people. Kop kun ma krap!
Thai women are very beautiful even when they are in their 40s and 50s. A guy does not have to date a 22 year old Thai woman (unless he wants to) to have a beautiful companion. Having the option to date women of all ages in Thailand is very nice!
I'm 66 and my Thai girlfriend is 43. we have a great relationship. I take care of her and she takes care of me. I love her and she loves me. women are women everywhere but culture matters. everywhere I go people think I am in my low 50s. I look younger than I am. so I think that play s some part in our relationship. I don't look like an old man I don't feel like an old man and I certainly don't act like an old man. having been married twice in the US to women that were 4 years younger than me, what works in that culture does not necessarily work here. as far as your points of the video I think all of them are valid and true. You obviously put a lot of thought into the video and I appreciate that. money is a necessary part of life and to deny that is foolish. the fact that as a foreigner in Thailand I have much more income than my girlfriend is what it is. she lives on her income but not well. my contributions to her help her have a better life as well as her daughter. her contributions to me make my life better. it's a win-win for both of us!
In the west, married folks are looking at 60/70 % DIVORCE rate for 1st marriage. Women say the 1st marriage is for LOVE, 2nd marriage is for security ($$$$) Thai man saw me with a twentyish lady and said "she has grandpa, BF, teacher, & banker in 1 package."
hahaha, that's funny but Truth! I'm an older Thai woman married to a younger American man, 7 years younger. Happily 34 years together now. I'm the BF, teacher & banker in one package. Unfortunately, not yet a grandmother. My children's dates think I'm too scary, they all run. lol🤣🤣🤣
Lol. I'm 62 and my son was born when I was 37. I've had white hair since my early 30s. But the kids at school would often call me daddy grandpa. I never was offended as I don't really care what others think.
I met my Thai wife when she was an 18 year old college intern. I was 49 then working for a client in Bangkok. 31 year age difference! We dated for two years then married in the U.S. 14 happy years ago. Shes 33 and I’m 65 now. She’s amazing and the love of my life. She became a US citizen, and we now have a beautiful daughter who we are raising in Thailand now! It can work and it’s not all about money - believe me!
If any young lady decides to date a man who is much older than her. More older the better, if you know what I mean.. Fundamentally, no woman will marry a poor broken old man of course especially if a woman came from a wealthy family and well educated. People always say "No money. No honey" 😅
If the gap is more than 20 years it’s all about money and security. There’s always exceptions to the rule, but that % is tiny. If you think otherwise then you’re just fooling yourself.
My Culture We have a Spiritual 🙏🏾mental Physical guideline for age relationships =( Half your age Plus 7years ) I was 40 yrs old when i met Lek 28 ys Now I'm 63 yrs Young and she's 50 yrs young now. Traditional Thai wedding 2Rai 5baht gold sinsod Sami & Puliya Rak mak mak Hello from Korat 🙏🏾
If there is a age gap, financial stabilty is essential but not sufficient condition for a relationship from the younger partner. The older partner does not want to spend their older years alone or attending funerals as a social function or talking about health issues all the time.
you are like a cornucopia of wisdom! 😇 how do you know all these things? and thanks for nuancing this subject.. it's not ALL about the money. also love the leelawadee flower in your hair:)
I'm 62 and my gorgeous Thai wife is 31. We live in southern California and are a normal, married couple. In the US, a relationship like this would probably be a non-starter for the woman. But my wife has a great life here with me. Lots of women back home are jealous of her! Truthfully, a woman in Thailand who wants a great life with a farang husband faces long odds. Most men she is likely to meet are only in Thailand to have a good time and not interested in a serious relationship. Young western men in Thailand have been spoiled with choice in women and are now serial-dating cheap Charlies with Wilt Chamberlin type numbers. The older, retired guys who are much more common are typically on a budget and don't want a permanent relationship; they want a maid/cook with benefits. And if she does find a great guy who is in Thailand on vacation, bringing a Thai woman to the west is a huge amount of work and very costly. Few western men will carry through with this endeavor.
Dang Palm, you said you could date someone older than your dad… What if you and this much older person are compatible in every way but he is poor… would you still date him?
There is a formula that says her age in relation to 15yo should be doubled for the man. This means that a man that is 25 should have a gf older than 20. A man that is 65 should have a gf over 40. This is what is what is acceptable in the west. It is not strange that these numbers might be tweaked in Thailand so a guy of 65 might have a gf of 35 or even 30. I am 65 but looks like 40 what you see is what you get! 😂
Relationships are transactional around the world. As long as both people are consenting adults, it’s nobody’s business but their own. I am 67 and my partner is 17 1/2 years younger. We have been together for three years and live a simple but happy life. If others think it’s wrong, we don’t care!! We will live our life and others can live theirs. We all have the right to decide how to live our lives without judgement as long as we don’t hurt others.
What happens when the old guy gets so old and feeble that he can no longer function sexually while the much younger woman is still in her sexual prime. Can a much younger beautiful woman be happy if the old man is unable to perform physically or even no longer has sexual urges.
That is why men have blue pills, fingers, tongues, and toys if needed. The thing is if it's all about sex and/or money then it's doomed to fail no matter what. Make better choices, as an older man I would never date a sub-30 lady for anything more than fwb, not that I don't like and appreciate them but what are you really going to have in common and to talk about. Yes, there are exceptions but I am talking in general. Anyway good luck to you looking for a Thal Filipina, I found mine. You can find yours.
Another thing I have heard discussed is that a single mother (especially with sons) is not "high value" for a Thai man and are much more accepted by farang.
@@RobFomenko you just confirm what I said, nothing wrong with it, it's just like that. If she doesn't have kids you already have less "competition" and she can spend more time with you
@@Misterioso62 nope did not confirm it. You will never be her first priority as long as her mother and family are alive. with that said if she loves you she will spend as much time with you as she is capable as Thai women love hard and deep.
i love your video that say the truth but Thai man leave his wife mostly Thai man is drunk doesn't take responsible for his family and leave his wife to take care about there kids alone western man know this problems in Thai tradition a lots of divorcees in general its love for money but unfortunately love is not free today
@@lifeisgoodno1 in Thailand there are not pensions,so the law not punish the Thai man,many leave the home and find another woman,in thailand there are millions of single mothers plus woman single without kids
i think it very nice, i am a 71 years old black american man, i will love to have a younger lady, , . it more normal then being gay, atlease. a older man and younger lady is male and female, , if they can have guys with other guys and girls with other girls, they can have a older man with a younger lady, , a older man with a younger lady. i beleve it,s as good as a younger lady with a young guy, , the same,
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Very well thought out and presented. Thank you for your insights.
สวัสดีครับ My wifes Thai husband left her. She told our friend that she knows I won't leave her, she feels secure so I get the best from her. The fun part of her being 16 months older than me is her being asked if I'm her ลูกเขย which started in our early fifties, and the stunned reaction when they find out that I'm her husband.
This video is excellent for treating the topic thoroughly. I would also add, younger woman are usually not jaded; they don't carry "baggage" from past unsuccessful or abusive relationships that interfere with them opening their heart fully in a new loving relationship.
Thank you for another great video! As an older man from America, you give me a lot of hope that I can meet a respectful, younger woman in Thailand. I liked your other video about how to find a quality woman too. When I come to Thailand, I plan to follow your advice and take some classes and meet smart, interesting, and respectful people. Kop kun ma krap!
There's an Afgan-Canadian Vlogger that needs to see this video. He hates age gap relationships, and he makes it known every chance he gets.
Thai women are very beautiful even when they are in their 40s and 50s. A guy does not have to date a 22 year old Thai woman (unless he wants to) to have a beautiful companion. Having the option to date women of all ages in Thailand is very nice!
@@gary4451 exactly
It’s biology. 22 is peak fertility.
@@dud3man6969that doesn’t mean 22 year old women are attracted or interested in old men lol
@@IncognitoXYZ I didn’t say they were. But they’re definitely attracted to money.
I'm 66 and my Thai girlfriend is 43. we have a great relationship. I take care of her and she takes care of me. I love her and she loves me. women are women everywhere but culture matters.
everywhere I go people think I am in my low 50s. I look younger than I am. so I think that play s some part in our relationship. I don't look like an old man I don't feel like an old man and I certainly don't act like an old man. having been married twice in the US to women that were 4 years younger than me, what works in that culture does not necessarily work here.
as far as your points of the video I think all of them are valid and true. You obviously put a lot of thought into the video and I appreciate that. money is a necessary part of life and to deny that is foolish. the fact that as a foreigner in Thailand I have much more income than my girlfriend is what it is. she lives on her income but not well. my contributions to her help her have a better life as well as her daughter. her contributions to me make my life better. it's a win-win for both of us!
In the west, married folks are looking at 60/70 % DIVORCE rate for 1st marriage. Women say the 1st marriage is for LOVE, 2nd marriage is for security ($$$$) Thai man saw me with a twentyish lady and said "she has grandpa, BF, teacher, & banker in 1 package."
hahaha, that's funny but Truth! I'm an older Thai woman married to a younger American man, 7 years younger. Happily 34 years together now. I'm the BF, teacher & banker in one package. Unfortunately, not yet a grandmother. My children's dates think I'm too scary, they all run. lol🤣🤣🤣
Lol. I'm 62 and my son was born when I was 37. I've had white hair since my early 30s. But the kids at school would often call me daddy grandpa. I never was offended as I don't really care what others think.
I met my Thai wife when she was an 18 year old college intern. I was 49 then working for a client in Bangkok. 31 year age difference! We dated for two years then married in the U.S. 14 happy years ago. Shes 33 and I’m 65 now. She’s amazing and the love of my life. She became a US citizen, and we now have a beautiful daughter who we are raising in Thailand now! It can work and it’s not all about money - believe me!
Thanks for sharing 🙏😊
Age is irrelevant it’s all about wallet thickness.PERIOD
That’s just creepy.
Good for you. All the best
@@jz3689 Ok Karen
Each person brings something to the table that the other wants. That's what makes a relationship work. Doesn't matter the age.
If any young lady decides to date a man who is much older than her. More older the better, if you know what I mean.. Fundamentally, no woman will marry a poor broken old man of course especially if a woman came from a wealthy family and well educated. People always say "No money. No honey" 😅
Money is not enough. If there is no love and mutual respect, that relationship will fizzle.
I'm enjoying your videos Palm. Every one is better than the last. I wish you much success with the channel !!
If the gap is more than 20 years it’s all about money and security. There’s always exceptions to the rule, but that % is tiny. If you think otherwise then you’re just fooling yourself.
a gape of 22 years betwween us buth still married and happy with 3 beautyfull childrens i love here and thailand
My Culture We have a Spiritual 🙏🏾mental Physical guideline for age relationships =( Half your age Plus 7years ) I was 40 yrs old when i met Lek 28 ys Now
I'm 63 yrs Young and she's 50 yrs young now. Traditional Thai wedding 2Rai 5baht gold sinsod Sami & Puliya Rak mak mak Hello from Korat 🙏🏾
If there is a age gap, financial stabilty is essential but not sufficient condition for a relationship from the younger partner. The older partner does not want to spend their older years alone or attending funerals as a social function or talking about health issues all the time.
you are like a cornucopia of wisdom! 😇 how do you know all these things?
and thanks for nuancing this subject.. it's not ALL about the money.
also love the leelawadee flower in your hair:)
Thanks!
Thank you so much for your support.
I appreciate it 😊
Thumbs up 👍 Palm
Very good video!! 😊😊
Thank you for good video
Good and true.
Of course it does the most beautiful young women want younger men I see it here in pattaya every day
I'm 62 and my gorgeous Thai wife is 31. We live in southern California and are a normal, married couple. In the US, a relationship like this would probably be a non-starter for the woman. But my wife has a great life here with me. Lots of women back home are jealous of her!
Truthfully, a woman in Thailand who wants a great life with a farang husband faces long odds. Most men she is likely to meet are only in Thailand to have a good time and not interested in a serious relationship. Young western men in Thailand have been spoiled with choice in women and are now serial-dating cheap Charlies with Wilt Chamberlin type numbers. The older, retired guys who are much more common are typically on a budget and don't want a permanent relationship; they want a maid/cook with benefits. And if she does find a great guy who is in Thailand on vacation, bringing a Thai woman to the west is a huge amount of work and very costly. Few western men will carry through with this endeavor.
Thanks for sharing Nordic 👍😊
I like your thumbnail a lot! 😂
Thanks! 😂
How about the opposite? Is socially acceptable when woman is a lot older than man?
If age is just a number, the jail is just a room then 😂
Nice👍👍
Would you cover younger men dating thai women who are older?
Do thai women dating younger men?
Is it taboo or accepted?
Cool t-shirt.
No matter how you try and sugar coat it, it's sugar daddy and sugar baby.
Dang Palm, you said you could date someone older than your dad…
What if you and this much older person are compatible in every way but he is poor… would you still date him?
If he’s poor but can take care of himself and don’t rely on me then he’s fine.
If you ask me it is about money!
There is a formula that says her age in relation to 15yo should be doubled for the man. This means that a man that is 25 should have a gf older than 20. A man that is 65 should have a gf over 40. This is what is what is acceptable in the west. It is not strange that these numbers might be tweaked in Thailand so a guy of 65 might have a gf of 35 or even 30. I am 65 but looks like 40 what you see is what you get! 😂
Sawatdeeka Palm why most Thai lady have metal bracelet Bridget in there teeth ?
I think because the price here is not that expensive 😃
how about older women 30/40+ and men 20+ is this acceptable?
Yes, but that’s not much happening here.
Sure, but you're on the wrong thread granny
Relationships are transactional around the world. As long as both people are consenting adults, it’s nobody’s business but their own. I am 67 and my partner is 17 1/2 years younger. We have been together for three years and live a simple but happy life. If others think it’s wrong, we don’t care!! We will live our life and others can live theirs. We all have the right to decide how to live our lives without judgement as long as we don’t hurt others.
Never find a woman very young because it's all about money,I'm for example 39 I want a woman between 30-45 but not less
Good choice!
So you want to be a baggage handler?
Have handicaped People ( Man ) do have a Chance, to meet a nice Thaiwoman. She doesn't have to be much younger.
Obviously, everyone have a chance here.
Thanks for your answer.
What happens when the old guy gets so old and feeble that he can no longer function sexually while the much younger woman is still in her sexual prime. Can a much younger beautiful woman be happy if the old man is unable to perform physically or even no longer has sexual urges.
She will stay for the money but go outside to seek sexual satisfaction.
That is why men have blue pills, fingers, tongues, and toys if needed. The thing is if it's all about sex and/or money then it's doomed to fail no matter what. Make better choices, as an older man I would never date a sub-30 lady for anything more than fwb, not that I don't like and appreciate them but what are you really going to have in common and to talk about. Yes, there are exceptions but I am talking in general. Anyway good luck to you looking for a Thal Filipina, I found mine. You can find yours.
yes i would like to date one off the single lady ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Another thing I have heard discussed is that a single mother (especially with sons) is not "high value" for a Thai man and are much more accepted by farang.
That’s correct.
Avoid single moms or you may become only her 3rd or 4th priority
@@Misterioso62 says the guy that thinks that you should be her first priority over her mother or her kids?
@@RobFomenko you just confirm what I said, nothing wrong with it, it's just like that. If she doesn't have kids you already have less "competition" and she can spend more time with you
@@Misterioso62 nope did not confirm it. You will never be her first priority as long as her mother and family are alive. with that said if she loves you she will spend as much time with you as she is capable as Thai women love hard and deep.
i love your video that say the truth but Thai man leave his wife mostly Thai man is drunk doesn't take responsible for his family and leave his wife to take care about there kids alone western man know this problems in Thai tradition a lots of divorcees in general its love for money but unfortunately love is not free today
Well said 👍
@@lifeisgoodno1 in Thailand there are not pensions,so the law not punish the Thai man,many leave the home and find another woman,in thailand there are millions of single mothers plus woman single without kids
i think it very nice, i am a 71 years old black american man, i will love to have a younger lady, , . it more normal then being gay, atlease. a older man and younger lady is male and female, , if they can have guys with other guys and girls with other girls, they can have a older man with a younger lady, , a older man with a younger lady. i beleve it,s as good as a younger lady with a young guy, , the same,
You will find a bunch in Thailand 😉
All about money