Quick comment Palm - I completely agree with the 5 precepts of Buddhism - But most Thai women ( and most men ) I've met want all these qualities in men but cannot reciprocate these qualities themselves - when I lived there we called them 7/11 Buddhists because they visit the temple and behave in a particular way and as soon as they leave they become different people, this is quite sad in my opinion. But thanks for your hard work and videos Palm - have a great day.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's true that sometimes people can behave differently outside of a spiritual setting. It’s a complex situation. I appreciate your insights and support for my videos! Have a wonderful day! 😊
Your comments are so true, your average Thai person fails in following the 5 precepts, Thai men cheat all the time, and there are many Thai women who cheat too. Women control who they have sex with, so if they didn't cheat men couldn't cheat!! All these video's about how foreigners should behave, in none of them is there anything about give and take or compromise. I
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY: 1. Make food; 2. Sleep with him; 3. Create peace in his life; 4. Be useful. HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY: 1. Be Friends 2. Companion 3. Lover 4. Beautiful 5. Charming 6. Good in the kitchen 7. Athletic 8. Electrician 9. Plumber 10. Mechanic 11. Carpenter 12. Decorator 13. Stylist 15. Poet 16. Psychologist 17. Bug zapper 18. Psychiatrist 19. Good-natured 20. A good listener 21. Organizer 22. A good father 23. Smell good 24. Empathetic 25. Praise 26. Sensitive 27. Attentive 28. Seductive 29. Smart 30. Funny 31. Creative 32. Hot 33. Strong 34. Understanding 35. Tolerant 36. Prudent 37. Ambitious 38. Capable 39. Brave 40. Determined 41. True 42. Insurance 43. Check everything 44. Punching bag 45. Lonely without friends DON'T FORGET TO: 46. Praise often 47. Give gifts 48. Be honest 49. Opening the car door 50. Not to stress her 51. Don't look at other women. 52. Lift the toilet lid. 53. Being a computer teacher. 54. Don't snore. 55. Do not dry your feet with a towel. AND ALSO: 56. Never forget: * her birthday * dating anniversary * the anniversary of the first kiss * the anniversary of the first time they met * her mother's birthday * Valentine's Day and being faithful THEY HATE... 1. Who responds 2. Who remains silent 3. You lie to them 4. Be sincere 5. Worries 6. Who doesn't care 7. Be jealous 8. Don't be jealous BONUS: And never forget, even if you (the man) are right, you are always wrong.
My wife is the oldest sister, she must take care of her parents and younger sisters. I understand that this is very important for her and respect her for it. I consider it my job to help with this. I know she has good judgement and let her choose when to help and when not to help. I have been here for a long time and very much respect her culture and her Buddhism and being polite and proper at home and outside. We are together now for 24 years. We don't fight. I don't like conflict. We share the good and difficult parts of life.
I agree with your points. Maybe the thing that my Thai girlfriend appreciates the most in me is that I always try to stay calm, even if she starts panicking herself. Also she appreciates my healthy lifestyle a lot, since I eat healthy, do a lot of sports, don't use drugs, don't gamble and don't smoke and rarely drink alcohol. The things I appreciate the most in my girlfriend are also related to Thai culture. These are her wilingness to help others and showing attention to them, the way she shows respect for family and close friends and last but not least her positive energy, as she always tends to focus on things that give her energy and minimise the attention given to any negative things. I really feel that due to our mutual willingness to listen and learn from each other we use our differences in character to become better persons in life and in this way really fit together!
Of all the women in the world, I have not encountered any group easier than Thai women. Seriously, you can get a Thai woman without trying. Make your goal more than just “find a Thai woman” into “find a great Thai woman”. That’s more difficult.
Thank you Palm ;) People that know me say " if you had as much money as patience you'd be rich ". I appreciate Thailand and culture. the only thing that concerns me is that social media shows and tells the younger girls that the need to color there hair, and look to be like Western girls or Korean Idol's. My wife passed away but she was able to retain her femininity and values from Nakorn sri Tammaratt. Her shyness and sweetness never wore out as time went own.. you are an example of what I mean ;)
Thank you so much! I'm really glad to hear the videos are helpful, especially now that you're in Thailand! 😊 Enjoy your time here. Have an awesome day!
This hasn't exactly help me understand the two biggest roadblocks I run into in my experience with dating Thai women, but learning more about their perspectives is always a good thing. Thank you for that.
Dear Ling noi, thank you so much for mentioning me again. Makes me proud 😊. For your list, wow. Maybe, I'm on a good way, if I can cut the beer out... After a sad first try, I'll look for the 10 points thai woman. But first need to find a language school. C u next time!
Thank you so much for your kind words! 😊 Cutting out the beer is a tough one, but it sounds like you're already on the right track! Looking forward to seeing you next time! Take care and keep up the great work! 🙌
It’s not hard. Been with my Thai wife 16 years. A woman values success and a man values beauty. It’s the same everywhere. I’m now a retired lawyer who’s financially well off and yes years ago when we met in an office environment I had no delusions why a young 20 year old college intern would be interested in me. And guess what? She was drop dead gorgeous so I was interested in her. Now over time we dated for 2 years and got to know each other before we married in the U.S.. But even all these years later I still have no illusion that if I weren’t financially successful she would have never given me the time of day. If she wasn’t so beautiful I wouldn’t have given her a second look. But damn it all worked out pretty well and we are very happy together with a baby daughter! Our relationship has evolved well beyond that now and a big part of that was our mutual willingness to understand each other’s culture. I got a bit lucky there because that’s not your typical thai woman. They usually want it all their way and that don’t work anywhere with anyone.
Thank you for sharing your story! It’s great to hear how mutual understanding and cultural respect played such a big role in your relationship’s success. It sounds like you two have built a strong foundation beyond initial attraction, which is inspiring. Wishing you, your wife, and your daughter continued happiness!
It’s always nice to be respectful and listen to you, Palm. I predict that if I am ever in a monogamous relationship with a Thai woman that we will end up speaking Thai most of the time since I love languages. This was my experiences with both of my Japanese exes.
Thank you so much! It really means a lot to hear that! 😊 I totally agree, respect and communication are key in any relationship. It sounds like you have a great appreciation for languages. Keep enjoying the journey! 🌟
I got married in Thailand in 1997 when i was 21.. I'm 48 now and my wife is 53. There's a huge problem with that culture. The parts that make the people feel obligated and extremely pious to the point where they harm themselves anywhere families with false cultural beliefs and obligations, especially the women which keep them poor. There's a lot more to it . Things can change for the better
Thank you and appreciated you for your sharing about these qualities Thai woman/lady were/are looking and wants all these qualities from the man. So is this means that the man/guy must have all these perfect 10 qualities and cannot less one or two or more of these qualities required? Are all these 10 qualities required from Thais woman/lady you mention were/are for foreigners' men and not for their own local men?
Thank you for your comment! 😊 Thai women may admire these qualities, but that doesn't mean a man has to be "perfect" or check every single box. These qualities can appeal to both foreign and local men alike; it's more about the effort and sincerity in connecting.
Hi Palm, I think those qualities are definitely reasonable. For some reason the the West we have lost a lot of the respect for each other. That is one of the many things I liked about Thailand on my recent trip.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I totally agree, respect is such an important foundation, I’m glad you got to experience that on your trip! 😊 Hope you enjoyed every moment!
Perfection is impossible, and everyone has their flaws. The qualities I talked about are more like ideals to strive for rather than strict requirements. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
How does the extended Thai family normally (I know it isn't all the same) react to their Thai family member dating a farang? Given how strong the family bond is there I would imagine making a relationship work is almost impossible if the family is against it.
Monogamy in Thailand? What about the famous เมียน้อย concept that you often encounter in Thailand? What about the many girls working in red light business? Sure it is a buddhist concept, but how many couples IN FACT live like this?
Most Thai women I've seen are pretty crazy about Korean men. It is possible that they might think that Korean men usually check those 10 boxes most of the time?
Good point! I think the reason is Korean culture definitely has a big influence in Thailand. That's why they wanna date them and wanna experience like those movies.
The world is about balance, so you will find good and bad worldwide. I look at the negative and positive experiences as a learning and growing experience. I love the peace and tranquility of Thailand, the food, the temples, and the overall culture. It is a matter of finding someone who accepts and likes you and who you like and accept as well.
Good listener? You see thai women all the time in restaurants with their farang boyfriends playing on their phones without any interest whatsoever in him , and him bored and staring into space, no money no honey
So what can women offer me for all those wants and needs? Hmmm, yeah, 0 reciprocation. I thought so. Lady, you are pushing a bad deal. It makes more sense for a man of money to have casual encounters on an as needed basis. I will not marry someone who comes with so much excess baggage. What's in it for me? All I heard from you is support this, support that. Why exactly do that? I fail to see the upside for me. I see a lot of upside for the woman, but there is no benefit for me. So it's a pass.
The truth, every woman has imprinted DNA called "Hypergamy" (which is a term used in social science for the act or practice of a person dating or marrying a spouse of higher social status or sexual capital than themselves, and continuously attempting to replace their current partner with someone they deem superior. ) Without sounding Sexist - "Men you are the Prize" (always remember this), i am a believer in treating women equally and respectfully but a large majority of women bring very little to the table. I have meet some of the nicest women and the Vast majority were Asian, the best of the best was Thai, sadly she was married and to a proper control freak. (personal opinion), he doesn't deserve her at all, yes she has faults but we all do, not many people will criticizes their own faults, mainly because others will use it for manipulative purposes. feel free to delete this comment, its only my personal opinion from many years of studying Human behavior at work.
So a man must have money, but a Thai woman does not? Thai women do not like lying, but I have met quite a few that lie. There seems to be some dual standards in this video discussion…
So why is it that all the onus falls on the man and is not reciprocated by the woman? (Especially when she finds out her pay grade doesn't match that of the man, and she keeps on "demanding"?)
Another desirable characteristic of the foreign man is that he must be pliable. This means that he must be willing to be shaped, molded, and managed by the Thai woman that presides over his life.
Quick comment Palm - I completely agree with the 5 precepts of Buddhism - But most Thai women ( and most men ) I've met want all these qualities in men but cannot reciprocate these qualities themselves - when I lived there we called them 7/11 Buddhists because they visit the temple and behave in a particular way and as soon as they leave they become different people, this is quite sad in my opinion. But thanks for your hard work and videos Palm - have a great day.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's true that sometimes people can behave differently outside of a spiritual setting. It’s a complex situation. I appreciate your insights and support for my videos! Have a wonderful day! 😊
Absolutely right, they want but don't want to give in return, so a video on the perfect Thai woman!
@@ThaiThoughtsnot complex at all, it's called hypocrisy
Your comments are so true, your average Thai person fails in following the 5 precepts, Thai men cheat all the time, and there are many Thai women who cheat too. Women control who they have sex with, so if they didn't cheat men couldn't cheat!! All these video's about how foreigners should behave, in none of them is there anything about give and take or compromise. I
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:
1. Make food;
2. Sleep with him;
3. Create peace in his life;
4. Be useful.
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY:
1. Be Friends
2. Companion
3. Lover
4. Beautiful
5. Charming
6. Good in the kitchen
7. Athletic
8. Electrician
9. Plumber
10. Mechanic
11. Carpenter
12. Decorator
13. Stylist
15. Poet
16. Psychologist
17. Bug zapper
18. Psychiatrist
19. Good-natured
20. A good listener
21. Organizer
22. A good father
23. Smell good
24. Empathetic
25. Praise
26. Sensitive
27. Attentive
28. Seductive
29. Smart
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Hot
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Brave
40. Determined
41. True
42. Insurance
43. Check everything
44. Punching bag
45. Lonely without friends
DON'T FORGET TO:
46. Praise often
47. Give gifts
48. Be honest
49. Opening the car door
50. Not to stress her
51. Don't look at other women.
52. Lift the toilet lid.
53. Being a computer teacher.
54. Don't snore.
55. Do not dry your feet with a towel.
AND ALSO:
56. Never forget:
* her birthday
* dating anniversary
* the anniversary of the first kiss
* the anniversary of the first time they met
* her mother's birthday
* Valentine's Day and being faithful
THEY HATE...
1. Who responds
2. Who remains silent
3. You lie to them
4. Be sincere
5. Worries
6. Who doesn't care
7. Be jealous
8. Don't be jealous
BONUS:
And never forget, even if you (the man) are right, you are always wrong.
Thanks for sharing 🙏
Lol!😂
Best comment ever
Bravo Leo, thanks for being a realist and telling it how it is
Thats one hell of a long list. Sounds very out of this world
My wife is the oldest sister, she must take care of her parents and younger sisters. I understand that this is very important for her and respect her for it. I consider it my job to help with this. I know she has good judgement and let her choose when to help and when not to help. I have been here for a long time and very much respect her culture and her Buddhism and being polite and proper at home and outside. We are together now for 24 years. We don't fight. I don't like conflict. We share the good and difficult parts of life.
None of that matters. Only money 😂
😂
I agree with your points.
Maybe the thing that my Thai girlfriend appreciates the most in me is that I always try to stay calm, even if she starts panicking herself. Also she appreciates my healthy lifestyle a lot, since I eat healthy, do a lot of sports, don't use drugs, don't gamble and don't smoke and rarely drink alcohol.
The things I appreciate the most in my girlfriend are also related to Thai culture. These are her wilingness to help others and showing attention to them, the way she shows respect for family and close friends and last but not least her positive energy, as she always tends to focus on things that give her energy and minimise the attention given to any negative things.
I really feel that due to our mutual willingness to listen and learn from each other we use our differences in character to become better persons in life and in this way really fit together!
Thanks for sharing! It sounds like you and your girlfriend have a wonderful balance of supporting each other’s values and learning from each other. 😊
I am determined to find a Thai woman. I love them to death. They're so beautiful!
Good luck man - I thought I met a good one - take your time
Of all the women in the world, I have not encountered any group easier than Thai women. Seriously, you can get a Thai woman without trying. Make your goal more than just “find a Thai woman” into “find a great Thai woman”. That’s more difficult.
@@eddiejohnson4434 Please help to link me with one beautiful one. I will appreciate you more...
Jesus, god help you
@@eddiejohnson4434yes easy and all about $$$
sawadee krub khun Palm. thank you
Thank you Palm ;) People that know me say " if you had as much money as patience you'd be rich ". I appreciate Thailand and culture. the only thing that concerns me is that social media shows and tells the younger girls that the need to color there hair, and look to be like Western girls or Korean Idol's. My wife passed away but she was able to retain her femininity and values from Nakorn sri Tammaratt. Her shyness and sweetness never wore out as time went own.. you are an example of what I mean ;)
it's sad that MONEY is such a big part of all this, but I guess it's reality
thanks for another interesting video! love the background👌
Thank you for watching! 😊 Glad you enjoyed the video and the background! 👌
@@ThaiThoughts 🙏
Another good video, Palm. I always learn something. Since I am already in Thailand, I find every little new piece of knowledge to be helpful.
Thank you so much! I'm really glad to hear the videos are helpful, especially now that you're in Thailand! 😊 Enjoy your time here. Have an awesome day!
@@ThaiThoughts If they don't kick me out, I plan to stay until my final days.
This hasn't exactly help me understand the two biggest roadblocks I run into in my experience with dating Thai women, but learning more about their perspectives is always a good thing. Thank you for that.
Glad it helped a bit, understanding each other’s perspectives is key. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Dear Ling noi, thank you so much for mentioning me again. Makes me proud 😊. For your list, wow. Maybe, I'm on a good way, if I can cut the beer out... After a sad first try, I'll look for the 10 points thai woman. But first need to find a language school. C u next time!
Thank you so much for your kind words! 😊 Cutting out the beer is a tough one, but it sounds like you're already on the right track! Looking forward to seeing you next time! Take care and keep up the great work! 🙌
It’s not hard. Been with my Thai wife 16 years. A woman values success and a man values beauty. It’s the same everywhere. I’m
now a retired lawyer who’s financially well off and yes years ago when we met in an office environment I had no delusions why a young 20 year old college intern would be interested in me. And guess what? She was drop dead gorgeous so I was interested in her. Now over time we dated for 2 years and got to know each other before we married in the U.S.. But even all these years later I still have no illusion that if I weren’t financially successful she would have never given me the time of day. If she wasn’t so beautiful I wouldn’t have given her a second look. But damn it all worked out pretty well and we are very happy together with a baby daughter! Our relationship has evolved well beyond that now and a big part of that was our mutual willingness to understand each other’s culture. I got a bit lucky there because that’s not your typical thai woman. They usually want it all their way and that don’t work anywhere with anyone.
Thank you for sharing your story! It’s great to hear how mutual understanding and cultural respect played such a big role in your relationship’s success. It sounds like you two have built a strong foundation beyond initial attraction, which is inspiring. Wishing you, your wife, and your daughter continued happiness!
This is a list of the attributes of my ideal woman, super stuff.
Sounds like you've got a clear vision of your ideal woman!
It’s always nice to be respectful and listen to you, Palm.
I predict that if I am ever in a monogamous relationship with a Thai woman that we will end up speaking Thai most of the time since I love languages. This was my experiences with both of my Japanese exes.
Thank you so much! It really means a lot to hear that! 😊 I totally agree, respect and communication are key in any relationship. It sounds like you have a great appreciation for languages. Keep enjoying the journey! 🌟
@ No worries! With your informative and entertaining videos, I will definitely enjoy the journey!
I got married in Thailand in 1997 when i was 21.. I'm 48 now and my wife is 53. There's a huge problem with that culture. The parts that make the people feel obligated and extremely pious to the point where they harm themselves anywhere families with false cultural beliefs and obligations, especially the women which keep them poor.
There's a lot more to it . Things can change for the better
Thank you and appreciated you for your sharing about these qualities Thai woman/lady were/are looking and wants all these qualities from the man. So is this means that the man/guy must have all these perfect 10 qualities and cannot less one or two or more of these qualities required? Are all these 10 qualities required from Thais woman/lady you mention were/are for foreigners' men and not for their own local men?
Thank you for your comment! 😊 Thai women may admire these qualities, but that doesn't mean a man has to be "perfect" or check every single box. These qualities can appeal to both foreign and local men alike; it's more about the effort and sincerity in connecting.
Like you to post a new picture, you with your favorite pizza - jelen ahaan na khrap!
Awwww Thank you so much for the Super Thanks! 😊 Appreciate the support 🍕🙏
Pizza? Where? 😂
Hi Palm, I think those qualities are definitely reasonable. For some reason the the West we have lost a lot of the respect for each other. That is one of the many things I liked about Thailand on my recent trip.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I totally agree, respect is such an important foundation, I’m glad you got to experience that on your trip! 😊 Hope you enjoyed every moment!
In the west we’ve also chosen to think men can be women and women can be men. We are different
Trump is going to make US great and respectable again!!!
Sorry, i can not go by you, because you are talking about a perfect Person !. Nobody in this World is perfect, Nobody !.
Perfection is impossible, and everyone has their flaws. The qualities I talked about are more like ideals to strive for rather than strict requirements. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
How does the extended Thai family normally (I know it isn't all the same) react to their Thai family member dating a farang? Given how strong the family bond is there I would imagine making a relationship work is almost impossible if the family is against it.
Monogamy in Thailand? What about the famous เมียน้อย concept that you often encounter in Thailand? What about the many girls working in red light business?
Sure it is a buddhist concept, but how many couples IN FACT live like this?
Unmmm then what about MIA NOI and GIK …?
Sorry I don’t know how to write in Thai 🇹🇭 🙏
This is not acceptable for most Thai women. I’d say it’s also a common reason for a high rate of divorce. Thanks for watching the video 🙏😊
Are there any top quality Thai women?
Most Thai women I've seen are pretty crazy about Korean men. It is possible that they might think that Korean men usually check those 10 boxes most of the time?
Good point! I think the reason is Korean culture definitely has a big influence in Thailand. That's why they wanna date them and wanna experience like those movies.
The world's smallest men that's why
Aren't we all looking for Thai sugar mamas? 😊
Ideally they want tall handsome and young and strong guys.
Thanks for sharing 🙏
@@ThaiThoughts no worries Palm
Nah, they want old and wealthy with a dodgy heart
@@kippsguitar6539 they might settle for that and cheat behind his back with young handsome tall guy. They fantasize about it😆
@@kippsguitar6539 but yes I get it that you need money to fly to Thailand, live there, visa costs, etc ...
The world is about balance, so you will find good and bad worldwide.
I look at the negative and positive experiences as a learning and growing experience.
I love the peace and tranquility of Thailand, the food, the temples, and the overall culture.
It is a matter of finding someone who accepts and likes you and who you like and accept as well.
no gik = no sanuk 555
Hahaha I like your sense of humor.
Good listener? You see thai women all the time in restaurants with their farang boyfriends playing on their phones without any interest whatsoever in him , and him bored and staring into space, no money no honey
So what can women offer me for all those wants and needs? Hmmm, yeah, 0 reciprocation. I thought so. Lady, you are pushing a bad deal. It makes more sense for a man of money to have casual encounters on an as needed basis. I will not marry someone who comes with so much excess baggage. What's in it for me? All I heard from you is support this, support that. Why exactly do that? I fail to see the upside for me. I see a lot of upside for the woman, but there is no benefit for me. So it's a pass.
No .. 🕺😆
In other words, they want a free ride. 💰
It's theirs country & culture, you a just another farang in amazing Thailand !.
The truth, every woman has imprinted DNA called "Hypergamy" (which is a term used in social science for the act or practice of a person dating or marrying a spouse of higher social status or sexual capital than themselves, and continuously attempting to replace their current partner with someone they deem superior. ) Without sounding Sexist - "Men you are the Prize" (always remember this), i am a believer in treating women equally and respectfully but a large majority of women bring very little to the table. I have meet some of the nicest women and the Vast majority were Asian, the best of the best was Thai, sadly she was married and to a proper control freak. (personal opinion), he doesn't deserve her at all, yes she has faults but we all do, not many people will criticizes their own faults, mainly because others will use it for manipulative purposes. feel free to delete this comment, its only my personal opinion from many years of studying Human behavior at work.
Thank you for sharing your perspective. I appreciate your openness, and all viewpoints are welcome here!
@@ThaiThoughts Khop Khun Khrup.🙏🙏🙏
So a man must have money, but a Thai woman does not?
Thai women do not like lying, but I have met quite a few that lie.
There seems to be some dual standards in this video discussion…
I already make it very clear. And in case you don't have time to watch it till the end. 👉 ua-cam.com/video/htvx8gJPlCE/v-deo.html
Make sense. I do agree @kmoint.. most of Thai women really like to lie. I never understand that. I mean what’s the point to lie right ?
Welcome to the world.
So why is it that all the onus falls on the man and is not reciprocated by the woman? (Especially when she finds out her pay grade doesn't match that of the man, and she keeps on "demanding"?)
Where are those "good" women?
All over Thailand as far as I can see.
Another desirable characteristic of the foreign man is that he must be pliable. This means that he must be willing to be shaped, molded, and managed by the Thai woman that presides over his life.