10 Signs You're Genuinely Kind Hearted
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- Do people describe you as kind and compassionate? The most amiable people have a kind and compassionate heart that radiates joy to those around them. Nobody can resist someone who is consistently gentle, benevolent, and accepting. But sometimes, it could be possible that you’re not aware that you’re a kind-hearted person. We made this video to remind you that you're actually a kind-hearted person.
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Kyle Robbins. 15 Simple Traits Of A Truly Good Person. Retrieved January 27, 2021, from
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I'm genuinely kind-hearted, but I am very careful with my kindness.
Thanks for sharing! How many signs did you relate to?
Same
I try to be but I always end up people pleasing or getting taken advantage of
@@outrider8569 same T-T
@@outrider8569 ikr 😢😢😢
"Having a soft heart in a cruel world is courage, not weakness" - Jerry the Mouse
This is powerful.
@@Psych2go are you a company or a person? 🤔
@@errorsarefunny they're a team and they're mission is to make psychological health available to all country even tho it may not seem possible.
Completely disagree.
Very true
Kindness is truly the most attractive thing.
Cudnt agree more!🙌
So true. Before I got married , of all the qualities that I would look for in a man, kindness would usually be the first. I always loved a gentle man . I find kindness and a sense of humor are the best assets a person can have..
@@sunnydaze2359 totally agree!
Kindness is the top most attractive personality trait a person can have whilst sense of humor comes in second.
@@sunnydaze2359 Don't take it personally but many angry BlT℃H€$ prefer kind and gentle persons so thats in times of need they can use their gentleman as a punching bag🃏🃏 Hope u are nt one of em
The sad thing about having a kind heart nowadays is that others around you more see it as manipulation, like you want to use them, but I just help others because they need it, I don't care if I get something in return or not, as long as they are happy by the end, I am happy
My boss sees kind-heartedness as a weakness. As a result I’m no longer kind to him.
Same honestly
I've spoken to people before who would say things like "you're just saying that to be nice. You don't really mean it." Or genuinely can't bring themselves to trust anyone even if they think u are being genuine. And it hurts, I hate seeing people in that state.
I just want them to be happy, I don't want anything else.
And if they don't, they see it as a weakness, and will try to manipulate/hurt you because they think you can't fight back. >.>
Yes
Yes, and also being kind hearted tends to make you a target of manipulation from some opportunists since you go extra miles sometimes to make people happy :(
Been there for years, finally I'm self- aware and learning that saying NO is okay and doesn't make you a bad person.
1. you value life more than material things 0:44
2. you don't pick sides 1:27
3. you are kind to everyone 1:52
4. you go the extra mile 2:24
5. you always want to understand others 2:51
6. you don't pass judgement 3:19
7. you treat others with respect 3:50
8. you value yourself 4:15
9. you compliment others when deserved 4:43
10. you are trustworthy 5:11
I hope I could help!
Ty✨
HOW SO QUICKLY?!
Thank you!
Thank you so much
Thx
I’m genuinely kind-hearted, because I’ve been hurt, so I do everything in my power, not to let others go through the same pain I was forced into!
Same
I've had people take advantage of my kindness too.
Same here. Exactly why I’m going to school to be a counselor
Keep doing that
I've been hurt but somehow I turned worse. I admire y'all kind-hearted people and wish to be one, but I know for a fact that im not one since I'm too blunt and irritable
Being kind-hearted is underrated. If everyone was nice to everyone else, this may would be a better place to live. Please, stay happy and don't forget to smile.
Definitely lets do our part and be the change we wanna see in the world🙏😉
❤️❤️❤️
Ik :(
It's nice being kind, but it can be hard when there are people who will try to take advantage of your kindness. So you gotta be a good judge of character and tell who deserves your kindness or not. Doubt them because not everyone is who they seem to be. And don't always stick to the "They'll eventually change" mindset because there are people who are just beyond redemption, beyond change. You think being kind will help them feel awful about themselves and try to be better but that's not always the case. :(
@@whowantstotalkaboutmurders4177 sadly, you're right about people taking advantage of kindness, been there
things i have learned watching this channel:
1. I am not burnt out, I'm just lazy
2. I am not attractive
3. I am not genuinely kind hearted
incredible.
I am sure you are a wonderful
person and don’t feel bad about being lazy,
Just try to bring yourself to doing more things
I was extremely disappointed when I realized I’m not genuinely kind-hearted either
I want to make others feel good and I want to just be a good person who helps others.
My advice is remember you are a human and try to practice kindness around others.
Be yourself because that’s who you were made to be
hah, lol
Lmao madlad
u *are* burnt out, not lazy omg context matters y;knw
in this video they're talking about just people when they're at a normal state but everyone gets burnt out sometimes
Same
Okay but why is nobody talking about how extremely soothing the narrator sounds
Many agree with u haha including myself! Others have also mentioned her soothing voice in the past🥰
Amanda Silvera is her name, we’re all in love with her smooth-as-butter voice, and she has her own channel, which I encourage everyone to check out
People have been saying that forever
@Truth to be fair they've hearted many of the comments and honestly there should be nothing wrong in positively reacting to someone complimenting you
@Truth why the hate🤔
"If u have been brutally broken but still u have the courage to be gentle to other living beings, then u re a badass with a heart of an angel"
-Keanu Reeves
I hope to have a heart of an angel.
Nice
Thanks
Thanks
(I didnt know if i should type this comment because it might seem if i am just saying it even tho it didn't happen but it did and by a friend)
I don't want heart of Angel who always be over treat people
It really is sad how many of us are genuinely kind hearted, but because we're hardened by the struggles of life it rarely shows.
Agreed
True
Yass
Right
Yep.dont want to be taken for granted anymore so I stopped going out of my way for everyone.Now people have to earn their place in my life.I do get the urge to help out but then I remember past experiences and realise nah, this person doesnt deserve it.
It hurts so much knowing that you always care for others and do anything you can to help them out or make them feel better and yet no one ever shows you that kind of care or love. No one would care if you disappeared. I've always been like this growing up, and yet I've been always shown by the human race that people only care about their selves.
"If you have been brutally broken but still you have the courage to be gentle to other living beings, then you're a badass with a heart of an angel."
-Keanu Reeves
Not that I'm Jesus himself, but to me being kind brings more good to myself than to the others.
You don't need to say "I'm kind" cuz true kindness shows.
Ikrrr actions speak louder than words after all otherwise they r just empty words. It has to be shown thru action not thru words cuz anyone can claim to be something they r not so its vital to assess someone based on their behaviour
Kind people never say im a kind person
@@astrella.moon_ The comments however-
You need to be kind but don't wasting times trying to prove it
Y⸽e⸽s⸽
"You value yourself"
*Low self esteem has entered the chat*
And while my heart sort of can be called strong as I was battling those thoughts for YEARS without little to no help cause my mom thinks that I'm fine and doesn't wanna get me to psychotherapist, I am easily getting walked on just because I'm afraid to hurt others... and I genuinely trust everyone and tend to see good in people
:v
My mom is the same. She doesn't belive in mental health just like her family,so anytime I say how I feel,she just turns me down because I'm not experienced in life enough to feel this way. I hope you can get the help you need in the future. Be strong. :)
I know how you feel... It's going to be alright just stay strong ☺️ I've been through those things too but all in all it's better to be just yourself and try to gather some confidence from psych2go videos or maybe talk to people or friends that'll listen to you and understand your feelings. You've been a strong person and you were even able to speak out your thoughts in this comment section so don't doubt yourself, believe in yourself. Each and everyone has a difference that they can make and we are all unique in our own way and we were always strong we just need to recognize it, if you understand what I'm saying hehe 😚 also I think that you're a really kind person 😊
@@csokissuti7343 I know how you feel too... I always talk to them how I feel when I was younger but they always just joke about it, they just say that I'm too dramatic or something, but I'm alright since I always believed that I can go through this challenge and stayed strong even if I experienced some hesitations and low self esteem here and there. I hope someone will listen to your feelings too and even help you about it in the future ☺️ stay strong and don't give up on anything 😚 it's going to be alright 😊
@@yukiokazuki6787 Thank you. 😊
I highly recommend holding doors for others. I've been doing it almost nonstop since middle school (I'm in 10th grade as of writing this) and it's incredible how simple yet meaningful and inspirational to others that is. I've had teachers let dress code violations slide and watched others hold nearby doors for people when they see me doing the same, all while getting "thank you"s faster than I can respond to. Whenever I lose my faith in humanity, this simple interaction always brings it back.
On another note, being deaf and having high functioning autism and ADHD, I practically owe my life to my parents and the army of people they raised (at their weakest financial state, no less) to help me become who I am today. I've been trying my hardest to return the favor, and am ecstatic that I matched most of the signs :)
The small things in life can bring the greatest joys
Glad to know someone does this. My parents taught my brother and I a long time ago to do this to everyone. Its a small gesture that means a lot to people and thats important.
I like holding the doors for others! But somehow I get weird looks especially from boys/men. I wonder if they think that I actually flirt/interested with them :/ why can a girl/woman help too as well?
Well done! That’s a great comment, it’s refreshing to here how grateful you are for the life lessons you received from others. Although give yourself credit, you can explain and install these ideas into your children but not all people do this or understand how important it is. I have raised my boys to be polite and respectful, to always help others, say thank you and express their appreciation. They are such wonderful young men and I’m incredibly proud of them. As little boys they would always say thank you to the people serving us in stores etc and they would respond in shock at how impressed and greatful they were to hear that coming from a little kid kindness catches the same way rudeness and disrespect does. A smile and kind gesture goes a long way and I’m so very proud of you. Well done x
Yeah when I do kind things for others I never expect an award but a simple thank you or smile on their face always makes me feel good inside.
Im sorta glad to hear someone say that not wanting want to pick a side isnt just being selfish or what ever. I hate picking sides and would try to help people come to compromises (unless of course one side is just straight up immoral)
I cant be the only one who has difficulty to decline someone's request especially when I'm uncomfortable.
Hina-chan~
I had the same difficulty too. I had problems saying no as well. I became resentful as a result of it.
Me too!
Same
Hey Chairitii, thanks for sharing. Remember that you can say "No." and that "No." is a sentence. You don't have to give any reasons or explanations.
I'm kindhearted when it matters, and try to be gentle with people who need it. But usually it's complicated.
I’m sorry this happens to you. Try best as you can. Also valuing yourself more so people know they won’t mess with you ever.
"But usually it's complicated." That hit me like a bus
i'm genuinely kind-hearted and i'm tired of being stepped on and not being able to face it. how virtuous
Besides being kind-hearted can we just appreciate the art and animation into this? It's just absolutely gorgeous I fell in love with their style!
You are so kind. Glad you like the animation!! How many signs did you resonate with?
Psych2go is like so addicting.
Glad you enjoy our videos :D
agreedddd
Yeahh truue
It is
True
Two years ago, I met someone who became one of my role model for kindness, and after that I discovered more about kindness from many sources. And now this video served as a reminder of how far I've reached in practicing the virtue of kindness, how timely.
Hey Stede Estelle, thank you for sharing and for making the world a kinder and more positive place.
I can relate to having a role model for kindness. For a few years I had an amazing friend who was the kindest person I’ve ever met. He sadly passed away unexpectedly in 2018 at age 30. I’ll never forget him and can only aspire to be as kind as he was 😢❤️
I'm glad you've improved your social skills (Aka kindness)! It's a very important trait to have and it helps you getting a partner. ^^
I’m genuinely kind-hearted, because I’ve seen how it’s like to be hurt so I don’t want others to feel that way or think of themselves that they are not enough. It’s tough to be like this sometimes and keep your head up in painful situations, but at the end of the day at least I know who I am and the good intentions that I have... so I’m proud of myself that what happened to me hasn’t turned me into a different person and that I still stay true to myself.
"Treat others as you would treat yourself", morals that I’ve lived by my entire life. Every time I do something that makes someone uncomfortable, I envision it being done to me so I understand that I shouldn’t have treated them like that, and apologize.
Can anyone else relate to having every one of these traits except for loving yourself lolll
yup i can oof
Yes:(😣
that is a bruh moment1
Yes.
YESSSSSSSHH:(
Noelle is a walking definition of kind hearted
I agree with you one hundred percent on that
yes, she’s baby
@@sxftpixie yep
@@indumathi6501 a genshin impact character.
@@indumathi6501
genshin impact character
I am genuinely kind
But finding something genuine also feels impossible.
Sometimes it feels lonely but seeing others happy does put a smile on my face.🙂
Sometimes being kind-hearted gets to the point where everyone starts to want something from you. Don't be so kind that you start to resent others. Don't say yes so often that people start using your good nature to get what they want from you.
I made that mistake in my childhood and adolescence. Although I was willing to help my classmates out with whatever they needed, it eventually got to the point where they started to take advantage of my kind-hearted nature, ranging from wanting to copy off my homework to making me buy things for them. My inability to reject their favors caused me to resent them.
For me genuine humility is a sign of kind heartedness
It’s nice to be or be with a kind-hearted person. Certain aspects of them are quite desirable, like being objective. However, as for doing things not for personal gain, I don’t think such a thing always applies. Constantly working to earn money for others, for example, somewhat removes the privilege of enjoying the hard-earned money for oneself (such as buying a new video game).
"Constantly working to earn money for others" sounds like a person just surviving in a predominantly capitalist society...or a parent working to provide for their family but maybe I misunderstood your comment.
@@danbridges4755 Maybe I don’t understand my own comment. 🤣
@Adrian Castañeda Oh yeah, now I remember what I meant. It’s like a worker that needs to send money to their family (probably like overseas Filipino workers) in order to help it survive, so they can’t just keep the money for themselves lest they be seen as cold-hearted.
(Also, I don’t know what capitalist really is. I’ll search it, I guess.)
What I meant is like this: a person who always does things for others but never for themselves (the idea of which is how I understood the section in the video) would not allow the person to enjoy life for themselves.
I am also realizing that the video mentions later on that kind-hearted people still value themselves, so they won’t always be doing things for others (in the sense that I pointed out).
People tell me I’m kind hearted, I believe I am and care a lot about people, even ones who may not deserve it…..this also hurts me because people take advantage and use it against me, but I try to see things from everyone’s point of view.
😭😭😭😭😭🙏
Have you watched psych2go’s video on signs your kindness is used against you?
I am a Kind Hearted Individual ❤️
It is a privilege for me, when I get the opportunity to make someone feel joy in their hearts 🙏
The kindness in me is very aggressive.. it doesn't let anyone be helpless. When someone needs help, I always make time for it... Sometimes my kindness is just too much but at times, it really helps.
This cruel world cud def use more of ur kindness so never hesitate spreading it wherever u go😉people will thank u for it and u will get rewarded in return so never underestimate a simple act of kindness, it always makes its way back to u and gives purpose and happiness to ur life🙏
@@nahiedlaila9601 wow 😄 Thanks for the eye-opener speech 💖 I'd definitely be more kind than ever before 🤗
Fire with 🔥
I relate to all of this except 3 (I find it hard to be kind to everyone), 8 (I do value myself but I can't really stand up to people bigger and stronger than me) and 9 (I'm too shy to compliment people I don't have a close bond with)
All the kind people out there, just be careful in case unkind people want to take advantage
I didn’t realize how kind I really am. Some people will shame you into being mean like them, but it’s not your true core. Give love and be love. It’s the tougher road but it’s the best one♥️
I was taught that kindness is greatness, but turning a thank you into a no problem shows that you don't value yourself as much or time. Which can also lead to people taking advantage of your kindness, try to say your welcome more often!
Lets see if you have the element of kindness like fluttershy 🐥💜
🐥1. you value life more than material things 0:44
🐥2. you don't pick sides 1:2
🐥3. you are kind to everyone 1:52
🐥4. you go the extra mile 2:24
🐥5. you always want to understand others 2:51
🐥6. you don't pass judgement 3:19
🐥7. you treat others with respect 3:50
🐥8. you value yourself 4:15
🐥9. you compliment others when deserved 4:43
🐥10. you are trustworthy 5:11
i actually wrote All off this in a paper and type it it took my forever 💀
ty for the effort
Thank you 🐥
And you deserve a like for that💕
That cute ducky emoji warms my heart.
Appreciate the extra mile you took for us fellow followers🥰ur too sweet❤❤bless you🙏❤❤need more people like u in this world, selfless and caring😘
*A good heart comes from a strong heart*
It's OK to be kind hearted but in this cruel world we need to be careful
I am a kind hearted person all my life. Still am, it’s a shame so many people see me as toxic or a bad person..😢
When I suggest helpful advice or suggestion to help those in their sticky situation.. support them, encourage them and they drain me of my own self worth… and abandon me.
But this video here shows, I’m still kind regardless of how much pain I’ve been through. Thank you ❤ for this video
Kind-hearted is the perfect description of me. Even though I sometimes say or do the most stupidest things, I'm a really good guy deep inside. I always have been. I don't need religion to make me a nice person. I know there's goodness inside me. I always treat people with respect, and I am unafraid to compliment them every now and then. That's just who I really am.
Being kind- hearted is a good thing … however sometimes people take advantage of your good nature ..so then you have to deal with letting them know that they may find themselves behind themselves and that is not a pretty sight!
@@sheilameyers152 yeah, I'm aware of that.
@@Ai_dayooooo …..Good… don’t let anyone take advantage of you… they may find themselves at the top of the mountain and not know how to come down!
you don't need religion to make you a nice person bc religion doesn't make people nice (in my experience) lol it's good that your trying your best to be a good person on your own. kudos
@@addyjohnson1956 thank you
Hey everyone hope you’re having an amazing day ❤️ 😁
Thank you!
*"Being kind-hearted means you're objective."*
Psych2go, every day you prove yourself to be more insane than I thought you were.
I can see myself in this video that I am kind hearted. Its from working as a customer service representative for 12 years and counting. I am taught to listen before speaking, understanding rather than just hearing what other people tell, empathy over sympathy, being sincere in your solutions and going the extra miles to resolve the issue, and a HUGE HEAP of patience as well!
With these in mind, I keep myself on judging people based on first hand experience. Also, to think that both sides needs to be heard first before judging. If my order in a fast food restaurant is a bit wrong, I pass on complaining because that person my get fired If I complain (unless its really, really messed up order).
Kindness is a great trait but a lot of people severely abuse it. That's why kindness should not be shown so easily.
Also, I care more about cats rather than people. Great video as well!
Do you know anyone who's kind hearted?"
Me: *of course I know one, he's me!*
That's good to know. How many signs described you? :)
@@Psych2go Most of them... Not trying to brag though
@@Psych2go I want to say 6-7/10 signs at the most.
"You value yourself."
Oh, dear... That's a close one.
I'm genuinely a kind hearted person. To me most of them are true. And yet even if I wanted to be cold to some people I still can't. I love you vids!~❤✨
“that’s me!!” - virtually all respondents, even the meanest ones
The most soothing relaxing voice u can hear tbh.
1. you value life more than material things ~check
2. you don't pick sides ~check
3. you are kind to everyone ~check
4. you go the extra mile ~check
5. you always want to understand others ~check
6. you don't pass judgement ~check
7. you treat others with respect ~check
8. you value yourself ~check... well, half check. Y'alls videos are helping me find value in what I have to give. :)
9. you compliment others when deserved ~check
10. you are trustworthy ~check
I'm trying to learn how to be a very kind hearted person. I'm struggling to work past my flaws, but I have hope for what the future holds for me. I love people and want to do better for people. For now though I have things to work past. Have a great day all!
I love watching the videos to understand myself more and appreciate myself! Thank you for making these all the time.
No problem :) How many signs did you relate to?
Take the videos with a grain of salt.
Me too!
Videos about kindness always remind me of this guy in high school who said I was selfish. Why? Because being kind makes *me* feel good, so my kindness is a means for selfish gains lol
Needless to say I discovered soon after he was using me for my knowledge of things he was trash at :) I'm glad I learnt that lesson in high school and not later in life~
lol that's what I used to tell myself when I was really young, that me being nice to people was only for selfish gain. so I'd feel so guilty whenever I made someone happy.
Same with me bro
@@addyjohnson1956 same..😖😖here..
Genuine kind people don’t make their kindness a big deal. Instead, it’s the people that like them that know how much of a nice person they are
I'm generally kind-hearted but I will not let anybody step all over me
I believe I am genuinely kind hearted but I just discovered as I was watching this! I have not been treated with the same kindness though, I feel it's because I haven't set boundaries. Thanks for this video! You may just have saved my life. Xoxo! I believe the universe sent me to your channel been really down and confused lately as people just want to hurt and take advantage of me. Don't know how long I would have lasted but it is well. Love your channel and your vibes
Kind hearted people are hard to find because people too often abuse their kindness, they walk an extra mile to make sure people are happy and satisfied to the point that people start taking them for granted. Kind people are actually the saddest people on earth because they don't get treated the same way they treat people and one of the reasons they treat people with kindness because they know how it feels like to be treated poorly. I wish every kind people there to hold on a little bit longer, u will get what u deserve. ❤️
Thank you❤
Well Said, that's spot On!
Honestly, I am so glad this video ended up in my recommendation, I realized I truly am kind-hearted and I relate to all the signs. Since it is unlikely anyone will know who this is from, my mom criticizes me a lot and I have gone through a lot of narcissist abuse and some physical growing up. I moved and have got no friends but since school is starting I hope I will. After watching this video, I want to continue to spread that kindness that I never realized had so much impact in my everyday life. Thanks for this video Psych2Go!!!
This video just made me realize how much I grew as a person and am so happy I did! ☺️ But there is always room to grow! Thank you so much for this video!
i love the references in your vids sm 😭
Thanks!! Glad you like them :)
this made me tear up! i always worry if i don't have a good heart, but this video proved me wrong 🥺
i believe my kindness was manifested unconsciously mostly due to the video games i've played while growing up. Majora's mask, Mother 3, and now recently, Omori. Not only from those games, but also from the amount of times I had to reconcile with my first best friend. I'm Very lucky to have had such positive influences in my life to keep my spirit of kindness alive after several traumatic experiences in my school life. My Best friend had to move away, and due to some unfortunate misinterpretations, our past school buddies all ganged up on me when i couldn't articulate my feelings properly. which followed me all the way tell the starting of highschool.
Not to mention i've been lied to in a multitude of relationships. It's amazing I was able to relearn to trust others so quickly without needing much help from professionals.
But despite everything, I still follow my heart throughout life and be as kind and respectful as i can to others. Life does get better, and as you yourself gets better. You'll be impressed just how much your heart has flourished.
Woah, I didn't know that I was genuinely kind-hearted
I mean, I can relate to probably every sign, probably because of that my goal in life is to make everyone around me happy even if they won't but I don't really care about others bad opinion about me, I'm trying to focus on their good opinion
I'm always this kind and helpful person in my friend group, that is always here to cheer someone up or even talk at almost every hour
What a light-hearted piece of work
I know someone who is kind-hearted, unfortunately she suffers from social anxiety and can rarely go out. But she's a real sweetheart
Ngl, i might be kind-hearted...But i keep my kindness for people whom i love and trust. And since iv'e been betrayed quite a few times.. im kind eo that others dont feel the way i did in the past...
I relate to some of these signs, but I don’t think I’m genuinely kind hearted since I usually don’t act nice to people, it’s probably because I’m in a bad mood, people are rude to me first, etc. I guess I could say I am kind-hearted but I only show it to people who deserve it. Then again, before I was very genuinely kind hearted, though I never showed anyone this kindness and no one thought I had it since I was very lonely.
As I grew older, people kept using my kindness and shyness to their advantage aka being a pushover and I had enough of that. So I started acting rude, it’s probably because I don’t want to get used and mistreated. But sometimes my rudeness gets too extreme even I am aware of that. So, I guess I could say I am just nice to people who treat me well and deserve it. I don’t know why I typed this all out, but if you read this all then I thank you,
Some people should really try to internalize, what saying "What goes around, comes around" might mean when they are rude to others. Rudeness will bite back sooner or later. Being kind at least should result in getting kindness back, though it does seem like two hardest words to say between people are "thank you".
And I guess it's boundary of sorts to not let people be total ass at you for being kind. Some people just doesn't deserve kindness back at them. I can't really say that I am truly kindhearted person because of seeing one too many times that kindness is seen as weakness for some reason and people trying to abuse that.
And one reason for typing would be that sometimes its best to let out thoughts, put them into words and all that, giving fresh air and time to think on those thoughts instead of bottling them up can result in some sort of realization or enlightment even.
I’ve actually been going through a really bad phase of a depression relapse and I had a crying spell in my bedroom a few days ago.
My confidence has been wavering and this video is just what I needed. I’ve been moody, irritable, anxious, and I have trouble sleeping; all signs of severe depression that I recognize since I’ve been through it before. This video helped me clear my mind and helped me remember that I have my flaws, but by the end of the day, I’m a genuinely kind-hearted person going through struggles.
I’m not very confident in myself at all and I have low self esteem, but I match up with all the other points listed in the video.
Thank you so much, Psych2Go.
I've been feeling pretty down, thanks for this, made me feel a lot better. Even though I wasn't really feeling like I was a bad person, my relationship with someone is being tested (family). This video made me feel better about the process of building it back up.
let’s just say my parents have described me as kind-hearted my friend at school even though so I always help someone out at school. if something falls or a teacher needed help sometimes whenever drama happens I don’t pick sides. I just go my way. but they try to drag me to the side but I just walk away without any hesitation. with judgments, I just keep opinions, and thoughts to myself. I always treat others with respect even if it’s at school. I always like to understand others even when they are venting. I am trustworthy so a lot of people count on me I try to value you myself. I try to value my life other than material things
I always felt narcissistic but hearing this and feeling that it describes me I feel a lot better and more confident of my personality
Thank You❤
Me!!! This video is amazing and on point. With all humility that I say it describes me and the way I carry myself to perfection...!! I always thought that seeing the very best in people was wrong, because sadly most of that people prove that they are not half the good I had seen in them and therefore hurting and disappointing me in the long run. However thanks to this video I realize that doing so is a virtue and a characteristic of a kind heart.
is good to hear from a detail video that you in fact ARE kind hearted!
This helped me realize that I’m actually a really good person.
Me after learning more about myself: “Wait how do I be nice to people again?”
Because when it’s not something you think about you just do. Then you try to think about it, it all crumbles.
I feel as though I'm a kind hearted person. I related to most of these, the only one I don't is valuing your self-worth. While I look for the best in others and do my best for others, I look for the worst traits in myself and rip myself apart based on them
I had watched a video once, and learnt an important lesson that all of you should be aware of, that kindness and niceness are different things.
You might be always nice to other people, but sometimes while doing that you are not nice to yourself. Being kind would mean you don't hurt anyone including yourself, and confront people if you feel they are hurting you in some way. So, be kind people, not nice!
Btw I'm myself not the best advice-giver as I've not had much experience, but at least knowing this is better than knowing nothing!
I love the jean and lisa illustrations 🤍 great content as always!
Here's a fun fact: people often confuse personality with attitude. My attitude depends on you. My personality doesn't. If I'm an asshole, and I am, proudly, it's because you deserve it. I'm also the best friend you might have.
yesssss thank you. that's what I do lol
@@addyjohnson1956 Didn't ask but okay...
@@MCPunk55 I did
@@titofmoss404 I'm not your buddy, guy.
@@MCPunk55 ok i think i may have been talking about something else, you just seem like a jerk
ok I’ll be very honest, I’m not kind hearted haha
but I do admire the genuine kind hearted friends.
*I SO DESPERATELY NEEDED THIS!* Not letting people walk all over me and valuing myself are tough ones. Living with a toxic person often makes me flip sides from time to time. So just the fact that I can go from one to the other shows that my true nature can come through when it's allowed and available. Although I may take sides when it comes to genuinely bad people, I still hope that one day, even if some kind of an afterlife that they would heal and find genuine love and happiness instead of a life of extreme punishment, or one of constant denial or incapacity to see the bad ways they harm others and themselves. If no afterlife, at least perpetual rest is better than them living to hurt others and to continue down a path of destruction and harm to themselves.
Though, I think I may be a people pleaser *and* a genuinely kind person! Quite a freaky combination!!!
can we just appreciate all of the art in these videos? it's always amazing
At 5:08 I see that luka and Alberto on the right picture and Giulia and Luka on the second drawing 😉 it’s adorable btw! ^^ I always pay so close attention to the drawings and animations of each Psych2Go video bc the art styles are all so intriguing and beautiful 💕💕💕
Glad I’m not the only one who noticed!
Personally, I believe that Amanda has the kindest and most soothing voice on the planet. :-)
3:38 "You keep all your thoughts and opinions aside and listen attentively"
This is indeed a good trait, but on some occasions, I've heard that this can be interpreted as having low self-esteem and -confidence. I have a hard time disproving this point and I think there is somewhat of a balancing act when sharing each others' perspectives during a conversation. But putting others before yourself is rarely a bad thing.
Except losing yourself in the process 😕
I think many people have made this mistake
after watching this video i realize im not the most kind hearted. i wasn't so sure about ths myself so i searched it up. I dont relly see myself going on adventures or seeking experiences but i do value objects that re memories from the experiences that i was lucky enough to have. I take sides in arguements because i usually do like to believe that i'm helping a person not by helping each side of the arguement but by personally sharing my opinion on the arguement and trying to help see what point of view there iswhile listening to another side This video was nice to listen to, to help learn about myself and others. thank you
I think kindness starts in *respecting people*
I thought that this video was well put together and well explained! Thanks for sharing, Psych2Go! I thought I related to most of these characteristics. However I used to be quite reserved with sharing my full kindness with other people, and at complimenting others when they deserve it. I've become a lot better in both of those areas. I've had a lot of help, outside of my family, with these things; and I think I've come to convey myself a lot more to other people than I used to, and have given them compliments for what they do or accomplish. However, I still am having some reservations both with my kindness and with complimenting others. But I've resolved much of both problems since. Thanks again for sharing!
Thank you for the saying 'a kind heart comes from a strong heart'.
I had a misconception that caring myself is selfish. Actually I realized that I need to be kind to myself to be more kind hearted towards other people.
Thank you so much
I used to be kind hearted person but...cruelty of people made me give up kindness 😔
I feel happy to see this video recommendations
It always made my day
Somehow I'm not sure, but I might have relate to being genuinely kind hearted
I'm questioning myself whether or not I'm also kind-hearted. I mean, I don't really talk too much to other people and maybe they see me as intimidating or whatever, but I'm treating everyone properly, even if I'm kinda struggling to maintain that posture. I don't know...like sometimes I'd be this 'sponge' and soak up other people's secrets and whatnot just because they trust me that I wouldn't spill the beans impulsively. So yeah, I guess I'm a good person...I hope...
Just from what you said I already think that you are a kind-hearted person don't doubt yourself about that, because it just will show, there's no need for you think negatively about things that doesn't even need to be thought about, just be yourself and don't worry about things that might hinder you from being you ☺️
(Also sorry if I kinda sound rude or something on some words or something I'm not really that good in English yet hehe)
this video described a friend of mine so well, i always knew she was a kind hearted person but it's crazy how much this video described her, i'm happy to have someone like that in my life tho
man I love listening into your videos.. Your voice makes me feel chill in my body and it makes me keep listening to this vid
Thank you for another great video! I subscribed 2 days ago when i found out about your channel and I love these videos! Thank you! I love your drawing skills ! Please for the next video could you do something with zodiacs?
You are kind for giving us this content .. ♡
No problem :) We hope you enjoy this video
I know a person close to me and a few others that is so kindhearted. People with good hearts can be so special in the way they help us all in times of need or in normal times. I’d like to grow more like that every day.
Thank you for the beautiful reminders.
I love the animation of these videos!! no matter what information I get from each one, I always end up being happy because of the cute little plants and stuff. So cute! :D
Glad you like them! Thank you so much :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go Yes of course! :D
Am I genuinely a good person or just influenced by a life of trauma and I act nice to defend myself.
awe my traits as a person fits all of the signs of kind hearted ppl! 🥰