Hi Junaid I am a practicing Psychiatrist in US for the last 30 years and came across your channel accidently . Since than I have watched most of your Ask ganjiswag videos, I am impressed with your perceptiveness and problem solving taking into consideration the cultural nuances . I have watched all you videos in a very critical way but you are right on spot 100% of the time. Keep up the good job in educating and enlightening the youth of South Asia.
Main bhi yahi baat kiya karta hun,,, itna samajhdaar banda mujhe pure pakistan mein nahin dikha,,, even imran khan se zyada samajhdaar hain junaid bhai
Oh really? Islam gives man right to beat his wife, allows him to marry 4 times without permission from his first wives, divorce by just saying divorce divorce divorce. She gets 1/8 inheritance from husband, 1/2 as compared to her brothers. Her testimony is half as much as man, she is deficient in intelligence. Are these rights?
@@fatimaasif3622 Absolutely, yahan fatwe baazi to bikti hy koi daari wala jahil jese pubg ko haram keh dete aiseyi inpe pe b laga dega koi fatwa k junaid akram Islam k khilaaf kaam krta hy ye wo or yahan ki awam hi iss qdr jahil hy k marne maarne pe ajate hyn but we want him to speak truth
@Saad Bin Masud SO LIKE U ACTUALLY DENIED THE FACT THAT U LOOSE OPPORTUNITIES IN THIS COUNTRY? BRO TRY TO BE A WOMAN FOR A DAY AND COME BACK TO UR COMMENT.
@@BizBytesTVs India-Pakistan both beat their wives at home and point fingers at each other that the other party does the most. You get the drift, chutye?
No country will do anything if the wife doesn't want to divorce. Also if the man is wealthy and wife is broke, family court will not grant custody to the broke parent. And the rich spouse will exploit the situation. Yes india has the courts but at the end "money talks"
Somehow I get so much hope from you, Mooroo, Waqar Zaka and Momin Saqib.. Things and circumstances will get better In Shaa Allah I'm working as a part time activist for education within Muslim community I ask everyone else to join in the same endeavour Only education can help us get out of oppression and poverty. Stay safe Junaid Bhai. Stay blessed. Wish to meet you soon In Shaa Allah So many ideas I wanna discuss with you Love and warmth from India.
bring tears in my eyes! junaid bhai ap koi aesa institution bhi banaein jahan ap mardoun ko balance karna sikhaen rishtoun mein... bohat sari khawateen ka bhala hoga
I have only one close friend in university and she's shia but believe me we never discuss shia sunni issues . We both help each other in everything and now we are very good friends Alhumdulillah ❤❤ My parents Alhumdulillah never teach me that shia are bad people and i am proud of them 😍
Shia Sunni ! While attending one of the sessions at KLF, after the author asked the audience for questions, A man stood up and shared his life experience where he told that his Child was being left behind in everything by other students, cause he was Shia, which instantly broke me into tears. realising where we stand as Humans and so called Muslims.
you were right....as i said my parents that i want to do love marriage and they are like yeh buht badtmeez hogai ha and sad thing is that my siblings have the same thing to say ..... being a girl is so hard in this society
Advise.. qsn 1..😷 Get divorce .. marry someone sensible .... if you can raise ur childrens knock court doors if u can't let him have dm.. Think practical and plan 🤓 Work hard , earn money .pasa hy to sb kuch hy.. 😏 Divorce. bcz Is nay nhe bdlna 😒 marriage.. bcz dts a mental and physical need of both sexes😷
@Saad Bin Masud sir could you bother to read this And one of His signs is that He has created for you, spouses from amongst yourselves so that you might take comfort in them and He has placed between you, love and mercy. In this there is surely evidence (of the truth) for the people who carefully think." (Surah 30, Verse 21
@Saad Bin Masud The Messenger of Allah (S) has said, "There is no foundation that has been built in Islam more loved by Allah, (The Greatest and Noblest) than marriage." I hope you get some aqal if you are among the ones who believe in Quran 💜
Best solution for desi families move out from your parent's home after marriage....Not very far but like next street so that maa baap ka khayal bhi rakh sakey.
@49:49 😂 I agree. Subcontinent culture especially wedding customs are mind boggling. I really want to know which part of Pakistan have this custom where bride’s family has to send breakfast on next day of wedding. Many Pakistani dramas are promoting this recently.
It's very much unfortunate that women are hopeless in our society and always need dependency in the shape of father/brother/husband or son. As I married a foreigner and it was difficult for me to come out of the mindset that women need to do the dishes or clean and manhandle work, like a typical man thinking. It took me years to change my mindset that even household work is not only for women, but it's also a joint responsibility and there is no shame to do dishes or do domestic work at home.
Hi Junaid, First of all hats off to you for tackling these difficult topics but I have few suggestions which might be helpful. Off-course, this is you podcast and you have a all the right to talk on however you want to but for few question you go in detail which diminishes the answer that you have provided. Lets take the example of the first question, you have talked for 16 minutes and your answer was of only 2 minutes. It is understandable that you want to talk about those issues in detail but after 24 episodes few things are becoming repetitive. I personally feel that you can tackle 10 questions in detail where you can join in similar and smaller questions and talk about them. If I want an answer for my problem I would like to go straight to the answer. I also know you are trying to educate people but it is this randomness in the answers which makes it hard for someone who is actually looking for the answer to their particular problem. It is probably good for us as an audience but for the person who has sent the email he/she is just waiting to get the hair out of all of this butter. In the second question you did not even read the question fully before going into all the Nuisance. This is making all of this experience really bad. This is my personal opinion. I still watch all of your videos but I think bringing some structure into this will be helpful to this segment in the long run.
Never go back to that man After few years kids will come back to you Or his second wife will also give kids to first wife to save herself from any tension.
Allahmdullilah My best is shia and his 2 brother including him married with Suni Girl ( love marriage ) and they all are happily living ..even there was tough situation but it was never about Suni shia thing , it was all mainstream sans susar issue .. My frnd's Parents are too Nice with all 3 her daughters so does their Parents as well and its been more than 10 years combine of all 3. and I have never heard anything regarding Shia sunni things !
Just wanted to point out on 10:40. It's not provision of rights to birds to cage them, just cause to save them. It even forgets how to fly. It's all an illusion of protecting rights. Mind it please !
This is most sensitive topic, the one who do conversation on it will loose the fans by defending ones faith ... But hatsoff to u ... U define both Shia and Sunni crises in a manner way ... No one get hurt❤️
7:11, she was 19 years not 15. Yes when people found out that she was Shia, they removed the fundraiser and tweets like "damn i didn't know she is shia".
13:47 Junaid Bhai Mene aaj Tak apki Kisi baat Koo galat nahi Kaha hai par is Baar Apne jo point bola Woo Galat thaa. That Shia Woman Should Fight and she Should goo to Court. Agar Mard ney Bache Rakhe hoe hai woo bhi bina Kisi sensible reason ke to ye Bhut galat baat hai. Ye Case Legally Solve hona chahiye.
Junaid bhai, now the question is about the betterment of kids in the sad first email. Being a mother myself my 1st thought is, How can she save her kids? Why she wants to give up on her own children? If she get the final divorce she should go to the courts and atleast get the joint custody of her kids. If she opt for reconciliation, she will be with the kids to safe guard their interest and be a part of their upbringing. I always failed to understand how a step mother would give same love and protection as a biological mother. Please be a part of your kids life to save them from any physical and mental abuse in future. THEY NEED YOU.
Dear Humera, thanks for such a compassionate reply, the reason my ex husband is grabbing my kids is just that he doesn't want to give me a dime in any case, he's a class stingy person. Buchay mujhay Dainay Ka matlab unka kharcha bhi do, Jo mujhay as his wife Aik aana pocket money Kay naam pay nahi daita tha Wo Buchon Ka kharcha khaak day ga?
@@syedafauziahaider6504 my heart is with you. Unfortunately the laws in ISLAMIC REPUBLIC of Pk are not there to protect rights of a woman let alone giving her equal rights and believe me these mahafiz of this patriarchal society will never let it happen. You did not bring these children all by yourself in this world. Their FATHER is also equally responsible for that.
Hi ' i went for higher education to England at 2012 their i met a turkish girl from izmir we both were in same course , also we lived at same floor, diff flats ofcourse we met in lab sessions and from their on we start eating together and watching movies visiting each other place also made many common fiends we used to talk for hours and hours, in second year his father came to visit and she told him about our friendship he thought we are dating so he came to me and said if you like and if you re a real man you should marry her , i became shocked and told her about what his father said to me in private she became little upset as i was taking this all in fun i thought she is upset due to his dad but actually inside she liked me and she was upset due to my non serious attitude i came to know this through our common friend as she told, to double checked i asked her directly that do you like me and suddenly she said yes i do and i want to marry you,spend my life with you i became shocked, she was extremely attractive so i couldnt said no i dont like you, actually I also said i love you inside i never saw her more than friend also my plan was to marry a pakki kurri not turkish lol but later on i also start developing feeling for her we became more close , i was afraid that we will fall in any sin so i talked with my parents and she with her we arranged their meeting in dubai as her parents used to visit dubai every summers for vacation and my family was settled in dubai so perfect place to meet now is the interesting part when our parents met of course they liked each other , my parents was bit open mined also her parents, So we got engaged now our other relatives and her relatives start envolving now discussion on sect firka started taking place in town ofcourse she was hanafi sunni and i was shia jafari we never discussed this before but our relatives had keera her relatives were bit open towads this issue as compared to mine (typical pendu) my khala was very much against this marriage as she had issues with outer sect marriage keh bachay kesay rahay gy bacho ka kia firka hoga , i said khala jo unki marzi hogi my father was very supportive my mother was bit confused but she was happy with my happiness her father also asked me that if I have issues with their sect tell me now but i took him in confidence and we got married in thrid year i got job in UK we start living there we had a vey beautiful son hashim now after birth of my son her family and my family both become very concious about his sect wo hanfi hoga ya jafari we both dont really care but our parents do as he is growing dono families ne khsosi uski poppo aur meri khala g the greatest ne naak my dam kr raka hy what we should do jab bhi hum hashim ko naniyal ya dadiyal le jatay hain they start his tabligh he is very confuse i am afraid hashim will become athiest as he is fed up from both sects forcing him my is dar se aur bachay bhi paida nahi kr raha Some advice will help
Bhayia! Bechey paida ker lejiey, behen bhai ka rishta us ka haq hy or Jeb tableegh keliey ziyada Bechey family ko milain gey to tweja bi but jaey gi seb ki.... Umeed hy aney wala weket aasani ley ker aey ga, InshaAllah
First,talk to those people and tell them not to talk about firqa and stuff to ur kid strictly. if they don't get it,cut off with them. Second,tell ur kid not to pay attention to them and get distant. Don't let them ruin his innocent mind.
Bhai your story was very long. If you want suggestions then teach you children that sect which you and your wife can both agree upon. Listen to your loved ones. Not from whole family. And make babies as much you want... Wasalam
Junaid bhai aaj sara din i heard ur videos. Hats of to you to read such depressing emails. Kuch maza ka answer kya. My questions how you can be so normal after such lige stories
No offense but why there is so hate between Shia and Sunni,becoz I have alot friends here in India who are muslim and they leave peacefully but never heard about this term from them
This hate is mostly regulated by political parties to gain a certain following. E.g there's no relevancy for a muhajir party to exist nowadays in Pakistan.... but it still exists and they continue to speak about mujahirs ( Muslims who resided in Pakistan from India)
@Tarun Singh Haan.. Hathras was an open exhibition how caste is dying thanks to Modi government. Anand Teltumbde Gautam navlakha Father Stan Swami There are anti nationals septuagenarians trying to divide India and their Parkinson's disease starts acting up when confronted with central agencies. Caste system is dying. Thank you for enlightening that.
If Sunni girl marries to Shia, we don't label them Kaafir. We consider them Muslims But Shia girls shouldn't marry person from other sect, before marriage love compassion but after marriage his family will call you Kaafir & will force you to become Sunni. So Shia girls should avoid marrying Sunni boys
Attaturk did the right thing for Turkey, and Jinnah was a fan of him, in-fact he wanted the same road map for Pakistan. This nation is lost and has become a slave of the ancient Arab culture.
There is family court in every district in india which resolve this type of family issues..In matter like divorce these courts are more inclined towards women rights and compensation .in 99%precent case women get easily custody of children with compensation...But still there r lot to reform against patriarchy
Hi Junaid I am a practicing Psychiatrist in US for the last 30 years and came across your channel accidently . Since than I have watched most of your Ask ganjiswag videos, I am impressed with your perceptiveness and problem solving taking into consideration the cultural nuances . I have watched all you videos in a very critical way but you are right on spot 100% of the time. Keep up the good job in educating and enlightening the youth of South Asia.
Listen bro can you guide me related to that psychiatrist pls dm me @oyesalmannn
Watch Old Episodes On His Main Channel
Most sensible person in Pak rn. Hats off. 🙏❤️
@Nawal Iqbal really bro ...200 million ki abadi mai sirf ek banda sensible hoga ...seriously? You need to wake up and smell the coffee.
Main bhi yahi baat kiya karta hun,,, itna samajhdaar banda mujhe pure pakistan mein nahin dikha,,, even imran khan se zyada samajhdaar hain junaid bhai
@@NylonStrings83 Wah re chutiya😝😝
@@sajidtalks2908 app imran khan ko samajh dar samajhtay ho ?
@@ZeeshanHaider-ve6eo yes correct
Islam mein rights hein Pakistan mein rights nhi. Greatest TRUTH ever.
Behtereen...
Sorry to say but Pakistan ko Islam✌🏻 hi lekr dooba hai iykwim.
Oh really? Islam gives man right to beat his wife, allows him to marry 4 times without permission from his first wives, divorce by just saying divorce divorce divorce. She gets 1/8 inheritance from husband, 1/2 as compared to her brothers. Her testimony is half as much as man, she is deficient in intelligence. Are these rights?
That hurts💔
bhai Islam nhi I would call it religious superstition. Superstitions or unk creators ne Pakistan ko barbaad kiya hai.
Please hire some security for yourself Mr Akram,,,we as a society need u to be safe . Love each and every video of yours . Thanks for all that u do.
Why should he do that? Since whatever he says is right
@@harismansoor5733 and people who right are ones who are at the most danger due to our jahil extremist society.
@@fatimaasif3622 Absolutely, yahan fatwe baazi to bikti hy koi daari wala jahil jese pubg ko haram keh dete aiseyi inpe pe b laga dega koi fatwa k junaid akram Islam k khilaaf kaam krta hy ye wo or yahan ki awam hi iss qdr jahil hy k marne maarne pe ajate hyn but we want him to speak truth
Han sahi kaha.... Security ki zarroat hey.
''You're losing alot of opportunities in this country just because you're a woman''
I can feel it.
@Saad Bin Masud .. another religious fool, living in denial.
@Saad Bin Masud mullah this is not your forum
Same
@Saad Bin Masud SO LIKE U ACTUALLY DENIED THE FACT THAT U LOOSE OPPORTUNITIES IN THIS COUNTRY? BRO TRY TO BE A WOMAN FOR A DAY AND COME BACK TO UR COMMENT.
@Saad Bin Masud wahiyat gender =your pyari ami jaan.
In India there are family courts to solve these family issues. Junaid Bhai is doing this and it's fucking free 😀
@Tarun Singh yes brother aman baisla
India is one of the most rappist country phir isko controll q nhi karte
@@BizBytesTVs India-Pakistan both beat their wives at home and point fingers at each other that the other party does the most. You get the drift, chutye?
No country will do anything if the wife doesn't want to divorce. Also if the man is wealthy and wife is broke, family court will not grant custody to the broke parent. And the rich spouse will exploit the situation. Yes india has the courts but at the end "money talks"
“You only live once”
You dont live once
You only die once. you live everyday so make the most of it
Love this series ganji swag
🥰And I'm anxiously waiting for this episode.
Somehow I get so much hope from you, Mooroo, Waqar Zaka and Momin Saqib..
Things and circumstances will get better In Shaa Allah
I'm working as a part time activist for education within Muslim community
I ask everyone else to join in the same endeavour
Only education can help us get out of oppression and poverty.
Stay safe Junaid Bhai.
Stay blessed.
Wish to meet you soon In Shaa Allah
So many ideas I wanna discuss with you
Love and warmth from India.
bring tears in my eyes!
junaid bhai ap koi aesa institution bhi banaein jahan ap mardoun ko balance karna sikhaen rishtoun mein... bohat sari khawateen ka bhala hoga
"Pakistan is not Islam'" answers most of the questions
Islam? Mein toh kehta hun haram hai haram. Pehle jalad se insaan bnao phir islam ki baatein krao inn se.
True 1000000%
Once Pakistan follows Islam as prescribed without cherry picking things from it only then can the country excel
@@ameen5586 no, if Pakistan does that, Pakistan will become like China. more unnecessary policies.
@@ameen5586 true
Get this man to a million subscribers! Deserve every single penny he earns!
Junaid Akram making such a positive difference and breaking taboos - with swag! God bless you.
I have only one close friend in university and she's shia but believe me we never discuss shia sunni issues . We both help each other in everything and now we are very good friends Alhumdulillah ❤❤ My parents Alhumdulillah never teach me that shia are bad people and i am proud of them 😍
Kudos to you bro ✌️ Always be like that! Humanity first !
I love how he started cursing at the end because that's my feelings by that time also😹
آپ کی ویڈیوز سے مجھے بہت حوصلہ افضائی ملتی ھے
اللہ آپ کے علم میں مزید اضافہ فرماۓ
آمین
Salute You Junaid Sir You are doing the work which our Ulma and Scholars should be doing
Shia Sunni !
While attending one of the sessions at KLF, after the author asked the audience for questions, A man stood up and shared his life experience where he told that his Child was being left behind in everything by other students, cause he was Shia, which instantly broke me into tears.
realising where we stand as Humans and so called Muslims.
Love From Haryana, India Junaid Bhai
SIRRRR YOUU AREE SOOOOO WISEEEEEEE
this video deserves a thousand likes
daymmm!!
Thank you for making our life better everyday
Feeling extremely sad for the women in first , 😭
May Allah bless you and your family
Please Pakistani jagoo
What a beautiful rant at the end. Sad yet beautiful.
I hope that women get through this soon and May Allah give her strength..Ameen
Junaid Sir in last 10 minutes is the whole issue we have as a society..💔
Thank you for these videos! Please keep them coming!
you were right....as i said my parents that i want to do love marriage and they are like yeh buht badtmeez hogai ha and sad thing is that my siblings have the same thing to say ..... being a girl is so hard in this society
Advise.. qsn 1..😷
Get divorce .. marry someone sensible .... if you can raise ur childrens knock court doors if u can't let him have dm..
Think practical and plan 🤓
Work hard , earn money .pasa hy to sb kuch hy.. 😏
Divorce. bcz Is nay nhe bdlna 😒
marriage.. bcz dts a mental and physical need of both sexes😷
I agree with you but in terms of letting children go. It is very difficult for a mother
@Saad Bin Masud sir could you bother to read this
And one of His signs is that He has created for you, spouses from amongst yourselves so that you might take comfort in them and He has placed between you, love and mercy. In this there is surely evidence (of the truth) for the people who carefully think." (Surah 30, Verse 21
@Saad Bin Masud The Messenger of Allah (S) has said, "There is no foundation that has been built in Islam more loved by Allah, (The Greatest and Noblest) than marriage."
I hope you get some aqal if you are among the ones who believe in Quran 💜
@@wajeehabatool9831 Yes sister you are right Prophet Muhammad PBUH also said that he who marries completes half of the faith.
Best solution for desi families move out from your parent's home after marriage....Not very far but like next street so that maa baap ka khayal bhi rakh sakey.
Love your content Junaid bahi!
You are inspiration to me you are doing great work
@49:49 😂 I agree. Subcontinent culture especially wedding customs are mind boggling. I really want to know which part of Pakistan have this custom where bride’s family has to send breakfast on next day of wedding. Many Pakistani dramas are promoting this recently.
This channel has the best audience.... below iq walo ko samjh hi nhi ayengi ye baate🙄
Bhoot achha session thaa. Sakon mil gya sun kar saas bahu wale question per. Mere saath bhi same haal hai.
perfff message junaid bhai much love
ماشاءاللہ بہت اعلی اقدام کررہے ہیں آپ سلامت رہیں
JUNAID BHAI.YOU ARE A MAN AMONG MEN.
Junaid Bhai. ALLAH apki hifazat kare... ameen. saari pareshaniya gham duur kre. ameen
Your second answer to the question is absolutely valid great to hear junaid bhai
It's very much unfortunate that women are hopeless in our society and always need dependency in the shape of father/brother/husband or son. As I married a foreigner and it was difficult for me to come out of the mindset that women need to do the dishes or clean and manhandle work, like a typical man thinking.
It took me years to change my mindset that even household work is not only for women, but it's also a joint responsibility and there is no shame to do dishes or do domestic work at home.
I pray namaz both ways and i will teach my kids also and to love everyone
New generation ap ke sath ha
Waiting desperately for the next episode Junaid bhaii..
Keep it up,You doing a nice work
Abdul Rafey i totally agree to you....the only sensible person i know in pakistan!
Hi Junaid, First of all hats off to you for tackling these difficult topics but I have few suggestions which might be helpful.
Off-course, this is you podcast and you have a all the right to talk on however you want to but for few question you go in detail which diminishes the answer that you have provided. Lets take the example of the first question, you have talked for 16 minutes and your answer was of only 2 minutes. It is understandable that you want to talk about those issues in detail but after 24 episodes few things are becoming repetitive. I personally feel that you can tackle 10 questions in detail where you can join in similar and smaller questions and talk about them. If I want an answer for my problem I would like to go straight to the answer. I also know you are trying to educate people but it is this randomness in the answers which makes it hard for someone who is actually looking for the answer to their particular problem. It is probably good for us as an audience but for the person who has sent the email he/she is just waiting to get the hair out of all of this butter.
In the second question you did not even read the question fully before going into all the Nuisance. This is making all of this experience really bad. This is my personal opinion. I still watch all of your videos but I think bringing some structure into this will be helpful to this segment in the long run.
38:00 Sir apke lumber 1 editor se audio kharab hogaya hai
Never go back to that man
After few years kids will come back to you
Or his second wife will also give kids to first wife to save herself from any tension.
My favrt youtuber so far ❤️
New listener here keep up the great work Junaid bhai from 🇬🇧 👏🏼
Me trying to comment first:
PTCL: Chup kr k beh jithe tere oqat othe hi reh
Original joke
Ek to chichora upar se punjabi ✋🏻✋🏻✋🏻 lanat
@@akhirmalboosa2929 tere muh ch loll 😂
Allahmdullilah My best is shia and his 2 brother including him married with Suni Girl ( love marriage ) and they all are happily living ..even there was tough situation but it was never about Suni shia thing , it was all mainstream sans susar issue ..
My frnd's Parents are too Nice with all 3 her daughters so does their Parents as well and its been more than 10 years combine of all 3. and I have never heard anything regarding Shia sunni things !
Sir you are doing a great job.It would highly appreciated if you start making videos on book reviews.
Just wanted to point out on 10:40.
It's not provision of rights to birds to cage them, just cause to save them. It even forgets how to fly.
It's all an illusion of protecting rights.
Mind it please !
You make more sense than all of the so called religious preachers combined !! ✌️❤️
This is most sensitive topic, the one who do conversation on it will loose the fans by defending ones faith ... But hatsoff to u ... U define both Shia and Sunni crises in a manner way ... No one get hurt❤️
7:11, she was 19 years not 15. Yes when people found out that she was Shia, they removed the fundraiser and tweets like "damn i didn't know she is shia".
But why ? Why so much hatred and fear?
So much of hatred....sad..
Great man
Huge respect sir..
Fan of ask ganji swag 👍
Zabardast Junaid Bhai
Take this matter to the court. Custody is always (90%) given to the mother.
How can we reach out to you? I’d like to be a part to help overseas Pakistani and contribute in some way.
wow so sick of these toxic in laws BS. Men need to grow up and stop listening to their mothers rubbish even though theyre fully grown adults.
Just listening to this Q&A session, can help in any future related issue.
Man i am your fan 🙏🏻❣ your every word is golden word ❣
Today your tone n voice is so pleasing .
sensible conversation
ye bat bohot hit kar gai ka jo bada ha wo sahi ha .. True !!
I agree with your third answer as well junaid bhaii
The first one is so sad , I wish best for that mam , May Allah give her the best in this world and the other world ( Ameen )
Waiting for next episode 🤔🤔
Junaid Bhai AJ dang Kar Diya wo dialogue bhen ki ankh is 0p...,😂😁
13:47 Junaid Bhai Mene aaj Tak apki Kisi baat Koo galat nahi Kaha hai par is Baar Apne jo point bola Woo Galat thaa. That Shia Woman Should Fight and she Should goo to Court. Agar Mard ney Bache Rakhe hoe hai woo bhi bina Kisi sensible reason ke to ye Bhut galat baat hai. Ye Case Legally Solve hona chahiye.
very informative
Junaid bhai, now the question is about the betterment of kids in the sad first email. Being a mother myself my 1st thought is, How can she save her kids? Why she wants to give up on her own children? If she get the final divorce she should go to the courts and atleast get the joint custody of her kids. If she opt for reconciliation, she will be with the kids to safe guard their interest and be a part of their upbringing. I always failed to understand how a step mother would give same love and protection as a biological mother.
Please be a part of your kids life to save them from any physical and mental abuse in future. THEY NEED YOU.
Dear Humera, thanks for such a compassionate reply, the reason my ex husband is grabbing my kids is just that he doesn't want to give me a dime in any case, he's a class stingy person. Buchay mujhay Dainay Ka matlab unka kharcha bhi do, Jo mujhay as his wife Aik aana pocket money Kay naam pay nahi daita tha Wo Buchon Ka kharcha khaak day ga?
@@syedafauziahaider6504 Acha ap hyn 1st email mein?
@@syedafauziahaider6504 my heart is with you. Unfortunately the laws in ISLAMIC REPUBLIC of Pk are not there to protect rights of a woman let alone giving her equal rights and believe me these mahafiz of this patriarchal society will never let it happen. You did not bring these children all by yourself in this world. Their FATHER is also equally responsible for that.
Hi '
i went for higher education to England at 2012 their i met a turkish girl from izmir
we both were in same course , also we lived at same floor, diff flats ofcourse
we met in lab sessions and from their on we start eating together and watching movies visiting each other place also made many common fiends
we used to talk for hours and hours, in second year his father came to visit and she told him about our friendship he thought we are dating
so he came to me and said if you like and if you re a real man you should marry her , i became shocked and told her about what his father said to me in private
she became little upset as i was taking this all in fun
i thought she is upset due to his dad but actually inside she liked me and she was upset due to my non serious attitude
i came to know this through our common friend as she told,
to double checked i asked her directly that do you like me and suddenly she said yes i do and i want to marry you,spend my life with you
i became shocked,
she was extremely attractive so i couldnt said no i dont like you, actually I also said i love you
inside i never saw her more than friend also my plan was to marry a pakki kurri not turkish lol
but later on i also start developing feeling for her we became more close , i was afraid that we will fall in any sin so i talked with my parents and she with her
we arranged their meeting in dubai as her parents used to visit dubai every summers for vacation and my family was settled in dubai so perfect place to meet
now is the interesting part
when our parents met of course they liked each other , my parents was bit open mined also her parents,
So we got engaged
now our other relatives and her relatives start envolving now discussion on sect firka started taking place in town
ofcourse she was hanafi sunni and i was shia jafari
we never discussed this before
but our relatives had keera
her relatives were bit open towads this issue as compared to mine (typical pendu)
my khala was very much against this marriage as she had issues with outer sect marriage keh bachay kesay rahay gy
bacho ka kia firka hoga , i said khala jo unki marzi hogi
my father was very supportive
my mother was bit confused but she was happy with my happiness
her father also asked me that if I have issues with their sect tell me now but i took him in confidence and we got married in thrid year
i got job in UK we start living there we had a vey beautiful son hashim
now after birth of my son her family and my family both become very concious about his sect
wo hanfi hoga ya jafari
we both dont really care but our parents do as he is growing
dono families ne khsosi uski poppo aur meri khala g the greatest ne naak my dam kr raka hy
what we should do
jab bhi hum hashim ko naniyal ya dadiyal le jatay hain
they start his tabligh
he is very confuse
i am afraid hashim will become athiest as he is fed up from both sects forcing him
my is dar se aur bachay bhi paida nahi kr raha
Some advice will help
Go away from them somewhere far away
Bhayia! Bechey paida ker lejiey, behen bhai ka rishta us ka haq hy or Jeb tableegh keliey ziyada Bechey family ko milain gey to tweja bi but jaey gi seb ki.... Umeed hy aney wala weket aasani ley ker aey ga, InshaAllah
First,talk to those people and tell them not to talk about firqa and stuff to ur kid strictly. if they don't get it,cut off with them.
Second,tell ur kid not to pay attention to them and get distant.
Don't let them ruin his innocent mind.
Try being 6 months Sunni and 6 months Shia
Not just Hashim, the parents too
May that will help.
Bhai your story was very long. If you want suggestions then teach you children that sect which you and your wife can both agree upon. Listen to your loved ones. Not from whole family. And make babies as much you want...
Wasalam
49:08 lost my shit at this moment 😂😂 ded😂
@Ask Ganjiswag Bro ap nah yeh puppet kahan sa banwaya ha, Jo samne parha ha
kisi ko idea ha k duabi k visit visas kb tak open ho jayen gy?
Junaid bhai aaj sara din i heard ur videos. Hats of to you to read such depressing emails. Kuch maza ka answer kya. My questions how you can be so normal after such lige stories
Sar aap Har chij Sach bolate Hain Baat FIR vahi hai kadwa hai par Sach Hai I really appreciate you❤💯❤💯👏👏
Jiye Ganjiiiiiii
Still waiting for my question's answer. Still not picked yet
Very nice
Sir ap k lie dil se duaen nikalti hai
No offense but why there is so hate between Shia and Sunni,becoz I have alot friends here in India who are muslim and they leave peacefully but never heard about this term from them
Different idiologies..
There are extremists in both sects ..aur jo aqalmand shia sunni hote hn wo kbhi bhi aapas mn nh ladte... Jo bewaqoof hote hn wo fatwe dete hn
Leave that friends
This hate is mostly regulated by political parties to gain a certain following.
E.g there's no relevancy for a muhajir party to exist nowadays in Pakistan.... but it still exists and they continue to speak about mujahirs ( Muslims who resided in Pakistan from India)
@Tarun Singh Haan.. Hathras was an open exhibition how caste is dying thanks to Modi government.
Anand Teltumbde
Gautam navlakha
Father Stan Swami
There are anti nationals septuagenarians trying to divide India and their Parkinson's disease starts acting up when confronted with central agencies.
Caste system is dying.
Thank you for enlightening that.
Koi bt ni junaid jnb audio k liye hm bas apko sunnay atay hain thanks for your great content
If Sunni girl marries to Shia, we don't label them Kaafir. We consider them Muslims
But Shia girls shouldn't marry person from other sect, before marriage love compassion but after marriage his family will call you Kaafir & will force you to become Sunni.
So Shia girls should avoid marrying Sunni boys
U r doing a great job JZK 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
39:04 Imagine "GanjiWoman" 😁
By the way just kidding bro you are doing great ❤❤
Ap bilkul sahi kha raha hain .
great Content great youtuber boss sir
Salute you man❤️
Attaturk did the right thing for Turkey, and Jinnah was a fan of him, in-fact he wanted the same road map for Pakistan. This nation is lost and has become a slave of the ancient Arab culture.
You should read history. Attaturk was one of the worst things happend go Turkey
He saved Turkey from... you know the situation Pakistan is facing right now and it’s a gift for generations.
Avoid the ads on youtibe videos simply instal Newpipe Legacy app no add will come in between lolz.
There is family court in every district in india which resolve this type of family issues..In matter like divorce these courts are more inclined towards women rights and compensation .in 99%precent case women get easily custody of children with compensation...But still there r lot to reform against patriarchy
Good work
Right when the "Real" Junaid Akram came Audio glitch spoiled it.
😂😂😂😂 let's start together 👌🏼
Tbh some people call other people “haji” because they look like haji😂
True.
its also a way to give respect.
im from KPK so here its different i guess.