Forgiveness does not require continuing to share your life with that person. Forgiveness is not for the person who wronged you, it is for the person who has been wronged. Most people who hurt others were only being true to who they are and many feel nothing orher than regret the infidelity was brought to light. People naturally continue behavior that is validated or accepted. If they do not feel consequence of their actions, why would they stop. To forgive is to accept that the behavior this person exhibited is what they do and and move forward with your life.
true its not easy we are all human though think of the fudge factor its on the internet we are all capable of cheating there just need to be the right circumstances those people who are judgmental self righteous and perhaps sanctimonious dont want to acknowledge that but it is also precisely those people who are capable of it I I have read a story about a woman who never chetaed (before) happily married loves her husband meets the love of her youth is in love with him AND loves her husband (yes feels love for two people) she slept with him three times I suppose came to her senses and moved on and this woman unlike before would not believe anymore that no one is capable of cheating
It’s not necessarily “real” to forgive cheating. I’m not jacking that. I’ll forgive a lot of things, but I draw the line at a certain level of disrespect out of respect for myself. Cheating is a violation of a lot more than just the act of infidelity.
The only thing real about forgiving a cheater is real simping. That's a betrayal that's almost impossible to recover from and the possibility of it happening again is high. They will not respect you for forgiving their cheating ass. Know your worth and have some self-respect.
Facts. Forgiving a cheating woman and taking her back is a capitol L. It confirms the weakness that knew was there and they will do it more and more. And demand forgiveness.
I had an ex girlfriend who betrayed me after a 2 year relationship. It took me about 2 years of not talking to her to come to my senses and realize I need to forgive. Because through all this time I still felt the betrayal deep down inside because of the anger and feeling that come with holding a grudge against a person. Forgiveness doesn’t make you weak, I believe it does the opposite and makes you stronger. Just because you forgive someone, doesn’t mean you will trust them and let them continue these those actions again. I will never hang out with this girl again, I will never trust her. But forgiving her has made me happier inside, and to those who fear God, he will appreciate forgiveness in the long run. After all, how would you want God to forgive you for all you’ve done, when you cant forgive others in this world. Be the bigger person.
that phase " real men" I hate that phase woman they want the real men to forgive and a fool so the woman can do it again and keep on disrespecting the guy, that will not be me if I my woman cheated on me it's done over why would I her have the chance to do again. that is the problem. When Most woman say if you were a real man and most men will take back the woman after she cheated on the guy
not to be able to forgive is thats a personality flaw people are not able to forgive and see the person at the end of the day as human why do you think that most people lie about anything because people are very judgemental and unforgiving around the subject by the way if I were married I would be either monogamous or monogamish and try as much as I can to be monogamous
If she cheats, its never about you. so don't hallucinate and think that youd be a REAL MAN IF YOU FORGAVE HER. You're not.. you're an idiot who she lost respect for and the moment y'all hit a rough spot, she went outside and tried to fix it with someone else. The best chances are it would happen again so don't fool yourself
If she cheats on you and you hear it from someone else or you caught the cheating, they are not sorry they cheated, they sorry they got caught. What's gonna happen is they gonna keep cheating but you probably won't catch them cause they got better at hiding it. Best thing you can do is to leave her alone because whoever is pouring her/will be pounding her gonna have a field day laughing at your expense, not worth it.
Agreed. Same here. I'm willing to give second chances as long as you show growth and prove yourself. We appreciate deserve second chances and forgiveness
this is exactly what I told my girl. if you would have told me immediately after it happened and I could sense your apology was geniune, you would have gotten a chance. but she kept it hidden for so long. I started getting suspicious but she denied denied denied. typical "I would never, I love you, especially NOT with him" I said ok, stayed and I was actually happier. because she was guilty and knew she had to work harder to get my trust again. she was doing a good job, but where she messed up was that she lied, she actually did cheat multiple times with the same guy, and the ONLY reason I found out was because HE sent me proof. conversations of them, photos. i am sick to my stomach. she really wanted to take the truth to the grave. 13 years down the drain.
I can forgive but, you still have to face your consequences. If people weren’t held accountable, you leave the door open for it to happen again. So if she cheats, I can forgive but, I can’t be with you, that’s stopping you for learning your lesson. That’s the only way you can free your from the betrayal, to move on from that source of pain or outlet of destruction.
Forgiveness is so the hurt/betrayed person can move forward. Each situation is different. There's no right or wrong answer regarding if the spouse cheated (emotionally or physically) It truly depends on the human being who is attempting to forgive said betrayal.
Complete BS. You don’t have to forgive a person for cheating on you. Just walk away. There’s nothing to forgive. The trust is gone. If a woman cheats on you… she’s already gone. So why I am forgiving you?
what he said at the end is a gem tho! especially when dealing with women that have a bad/ abusive past with partners. the slightest thing you do will trigger them and they treat you like the other person did them.
nah, those old sayings effectively teach people to be a bit too comfortable with being a perpetual victim... and with human nature being what it is, most people are eager to try and take advantage of what appears to be an easy mark. ...and cheating in particular? Nah, that person is immediately disqualified; there should be no 2nd chance on that. When you give out a 2nd chance on *any* kind of betrayal... all that happens is that person IS indeed going to do it again at some point.
My wife is cheating on me right now. Im trying to forgive. We still on the same house together. And she goes out with this guy when she goes out. It hurts to see her go out. I'm trying to forgive her. But what she is doing had to and will stop. I'm not perfect. But ive never did what she has done. Yeah ive looked at other women but never went along with it and tried to get with that other Woman. But here she is doing what she do. We have four Children together a whole Family. But I still continue to pet her so what she's doing. You can't make someone stay with you and Love you. When I'm gone out of the house I'm at work. Om not out at a bar enjoying life and doing this and that. Im lost. I still love her and I feel that we can reconcile our Marriage. But she has to put a end to what she is doing. I feel like I'm being used because she still asks me for things. And I always reply. Hey ask him ain't he your new man?? Don't ask me ask him? Am I wrong for doing that y'all?? Please I need answers advice something. Guidance. Like I wanna take her back but I feel like I have been violated our vows have been violated. And Everytime this person comes to get her I feel like doing the histrousous thing. Choking him out. Damaging him. Bit I realize if I do that I'll forever lose my children and I'll be locked up. I need answers. Anybody please respond to this. I'm the only one who works in the house hold. I hold it all down. Im just exhausted with this experience Guys. Please a response from just one person would be GREATLY Appreciated. Who ever responds to this Female or Male I Thank You❤❤💯💯💯👍👍🫡🫡🫡🫡
I’m going through similar situation I say pay attention to her actions. Now my girl isn’t moving weird anymore but in your situation I’d focus on me if she continually disrespects you like that
my gf was tryna cheat my friend started helping her he kissed her somehow but he never told me anythibg but she came to me apologizing just after 1 day said she liked that guy i told everything to her about him n what he was trying to do with her if y'all getting what m talking about like do and throw things i showed every recording of his to her about her she was already crying n bruh I've never seen someone cry like dat after telling all of it to her she kneeled in front of me begged for forgiveness you know this all in just 2-3 days i was okay with her kissing him n it wasn't that much of a deal to me but the thing for which i felt betrayed is after reading his response to her messages like just somehow he wanted to bang her but by being friends with bene n telling her to keep continue cheating on me this guy never told me he went out with her she was the one who came i forgived the girl cz it wasn't a big deal we are young we can like other people m just like why my friend keep talking to her he was with me for 5-7 years why he didn't told me anything that girl would have suicided..... if she didn't told me all of it please do not do these things no matter who the girl is she would have destroyed her life I've seen cuts on her hand neck stomach guys please do not help woman in this the remorse woman feel is so bad she'll get herself killed n with a title of whore with her name
Real men? What a way to smear a man who is within his biblical rights to divorce the cheating spouse. If a man wants to take back a cheater, that’s his choice. But it doesn’t make him a “real man.” Also, cheating might reveal that your wife/girlfriend doesn’t care for you. The cheating might not be a glitch, it might be a feature of who she is.
This only counts if you have 100+ bodies and already been a multi-time cheater. Same way a women with a high count doesn’t care at all about a guys past
My comment doesn't necessarily apply to monogamy because I've never really believed in that sort of thing but I digress. One of the reasons I left christianity behind is because it teaches to "forgive those who have wronged (them)." Here are the problems 1. You're Betraying yourself by tolerating their bad behavior + history tends to repeat itself and 2. The person who betrayed the other person's trust knew where "the line" was but still chose to Cross it because they didn't believe there'd be Consequences. Don't hold grudges but don't be foolish enough to give that person a second chance to Destroy you.
Well I guess I ain’t no real man. You cannot and are not supposed to forgive cheating. All these women have all kinds of toys they can use. Forget all that. Pass her off and let her live freely.
@@kareemabdulwahhab6919 I’ll forgive anything…it’s about power and peace. I forgive so as not to allow that power over me; I can move on in peace because I was able to forgive.
The ONLY reason a man will forgive is not for love of the woman but for the love and safety of his children . If the man knows that the woman will raise them in a bad way then he might forgive her, ONLY if she is showing huge changes and seeking help. He will never love or trust her the same but she must respect and love him like she never has before.
😆 funny. I think you're right. She's not dressed classy at all, fairly revealing in an oopsy way. Hard to get pass the presentation talking about fidelity or infidelity, dressed a kinda hoe-like on a show, in public.
I understand you as women would want him to forgive you but that is opposite of our nature.... being empathic and humane are not continent on forgiveness.... as a great man I am empathic and humane but I am also NOT a fool!!!
I don't EVER recall seeing anything that indicated Christ wanted a man to forgive his wife for cheating...if as a wife you made a conscious decision to cheat you dont care about Christ!!!!
@@blackbeltben2775 infidelity is not limited to any religion or the lack of , religion is social and sexual control and judgment to keep people humble and in line , I say religious or not think for yourself and trust your own judgment
i will NEVER be a real man then lmao. a woman cheating on you is a total lack of respect all around the board. you can forgive her but absolutely leave her. one has nothing to do with the other.
Firstly scripture is misapplied here, infidelity is addressed in scripture for what infidelity is n its outcomes. Believing that u have forgiven a person that's cheated on u, it's a reality denial of the highest order, which has a strong potential of catching up with u in time. Love leaves instantly when infidelity or cheating presents itself, u are left despondent with your partner trying to figure things out n they don't tally anymore 😕 ask Adam n Eve when accepted sin, God left n chaos reigned supreme to this day.
THATS WHY MANY PPL NEED 2 LOOK INTO THT MIB LIGHT WILL SMITH WAS CARRYING AROUND N JUST 4GET IT!!! CUZ THT PAIN N HURT WILL CONTROL HOW U WANT 2 LOVE OR NOT LOVE 4 THT MATTER!!!
It’s never easy getting outside of your self and pride to find the grits to truly forgive. But it’s essential . We can’t expect to be forgiven by anyone or any higher being if we can’t practice the act here amongst our peers
@@ondrewellington8635 men don’t get attached when they actually love someone if they do cheat 9/10 it’s emotionless sex not love making don’t get me wrong cheating is cheating regardless but it’s worse because women cheat to replace and men cheat just for sex. Side Note most men that do cheat Cheat because The women are withholding from him sex which in turns increases his lust and fuck that love or lust shii cuz I wouldn’t even think about anyone else if you did what I’d expect out of my partner not every day or shii like that but cmon
@@ondrewellington8635 It just is. Same way its worse for a man to be a coward than a woman. You ever heard someone say "that lady is a pussy"? Nope. It is what it is
That phrase "real men" has been used to gaslight more men than most things in history.
I noticed that from the get-go...
Agreed
Forgiving is one thing. Trusting is an entirely different matter.
You can forgive, but that does not mean you have to be naïve. Peoples character don't change overnight, however you can proceed with caution.
I still have not processed being able to forgive for infidelity...
Forgiveness does not require continuing to share your life with that person. Forgiveness is not for the person who wronged you, it is for the person who has been wronged. Most people who hurt others were only being true to who they are and many feel nothing orher than regret the infidelity was brought to light.
People naturally continue behavior that is validated or accepted. If they do not feel consequence of their actions, why would they stop.
To forgive is to accept that the behavior this person exhibited is what they do and and move forward with your life.
Cheating,abuse and betrayal are very tough to forgive!
true its not easy we are all human though think of the fudge factor its on the internet we are all capable of cheating there just need to be the right circumstances those people who are judgmental self righteous and perhaps sanctimonious dont want to acknowledge that but it is also precisely those people who are capable of it I
I have read a story about a woman who never chetaed (before) happily married loves her husband meets the love of her youth is in love with him AND loves her husband (yes feels love for two people) she slept with him three times I suppose came to her senses and moved on and this woman unlike before would not believe anymore that no one is capable of cheating
Forgiving doesn’t necessarily mean “staying” in the relationship. You can break up and still forgive them.
@@swadey2.017you can move on that’s it .
When she cheats on you she emasculates you. Forgiveness can be given but the relationship needs to end. Your trust is broken
It’s not necessarily “real” to forgive cheating. I’m not jacking that. I’ll forgive a lot of things, but I draw the line at a certain level of disrespect out of respect for myself. Cheating is a violation of a lot more than just the act of infidelity.
How many lines are you gonna draw??? Woman will never reveal their scandals unless if they wanted you to catch them out🤭🤭
@@ssego5208 🥴🤦🏽♂️😂
The only thing real about forgiving a cheater is real simping. That's a betrayal that's almost impossible to recover from and the possibility of it happening again is high. They will not respect you for forgiving their cheating ass. Know your worth and have some self-respect.
Facts. Forgiving a cheating woman and taking her back is a capitol L. It confirms the weakness that knew was there and they will do it more and more. And demand forgiveness.
I had an ex girlfriend who betrayed me after a 2 year relationship. It took me about 2 years of not talking to her to come to my senses and realize I need to forgive. Because through all this time I still felt the betrayal deep down inside because of the anger and feeling that come with holding a grudge against a person. Forgiveness doesn’t make you weak, I believe it does the opposite and makes you stronger. Just because you forgive someone, doesn’t mean you will trust them and let them continue these those actions again. I will never hang out with this girl again, I will never trust her. But forgiving her has made me happier inside, and to those who fear God, he will appreciate forgiveness in the long run. After all, how would you want God to forgive you for all you’ve done, when you cant forgive others in this world. Be the bigger person.
@@Mad-UpperCutsnot really. True forgiveness is able to overcome anger
Never ever forgive a cheating girlfriend
that phase " real men" I hate that phase woman they want the real men to forgive and a fool so the woman can do it again and keep on disrespecting the guy, that will not be me if I my woman cheated on me it's done over why would I her have the chance to do again. that is the problem. When Most woman say if you were a real man and most men will take back the woman after she cheated on the guy
Everyone should be able to forgive. However I don’t and won’t put myself in a position for you to cheat on me again.
not to be able to forgive is thats a personality flaw people are not able to forgive and see the person at the end of the day as human why do you think that most people lie about anything because people are very judgemental and unforgiving around the subject by the way if I were married I would be either monogamous or monogamish and try as much as I can to be monogamous
@@youtubefans510 A woman that cheats has betrayed her value. That and she’s gross to us.
@@SimonKnight1023 and she has been unfaithful to her partner with a cheating MAN
@@youtubefans510 Irrelevant. A woman cheating is unforgivable. Just like a man falling to defend his woman.
@@SimonKnight1023 a man cheating would then also be unforgivable no wonder the subject of infidelity is a taboo subject no wonder people are dishonest
If she cheats, its never about you. so don't hallucinate and think that youd be a REAL MAN IF YOU FORGAVE HER. You're not.. you're an idiot who she lost respect for and the moment y'all hit a rough spot, she went outside and tried to fix it with someone else. The best chances are it would happen again so don't fool yourself
If she cheats on you and you hear it from someone else or you caught the cheating, they are not sorry they cheated, they sorry they got caught. What's gonna happen is they gonna keep cheating but you probably won't catch them cause they got better at hiding it. Best thing you can do is to leave her alone because whoever is pouring her/will be pounding her gonna have a field day laughing at your expense, not worth it.
What is she told him she cheated one time?
You always forgive the person, but that doesn’t mean you have to except them back in the position that they had in the first place.
I may be willing to forgive and work it out if you’re upfront…I’m forgiving and moving on if you were a coward and I had to catch you.
Agreed. Same here. I'm willing to give second chances as long as you show growth and prove yourself. We appreciate deserve second chances and forgiveness
this is exactly what I told my girl. if you would have told me immediately after it happened and I could sense your apology was geniune, you would have gotten a chance. but she kept it hidden for so long. I started getting suspicious but she denied denied denied. typical "I would never, I love you, especially NOT with him" I said ok, stayed and I was actually happier. because she was guilty and knew she had to work harder to get my trust again. she was doing a good job, but where she messed up was that she lied, she actually did cheat multiple times with the same guy, and the ONLY reason I found out was because HE sent me proof. conversations of them, photos. i am sick to my stomach. she really wanted to take the truth to the grave. 13 years down the drain.
You can forgive and hold no grudges to the one who betrayed you. But you don't have to stay with that person.
Wrong. True forgiveness is still being in their life even with wrong doing
I can forgive but, you still have to face your consequences. If people weren’t held accountable, you leave the door open for it to happen again. So if she cheats, I can forgive but, I can’t be with you, that’s stopping you for learning your lesson. That’s the only way you can free your from the betrayal, to move on from that source of pain or outlet of destruction.
Perfectly said
Forgiveness is good for your soul.
The explanation of forgives was beautiful 🤎🤎
Like Will Smith 😂😂
Forgiveness is so the hurt/betrayed person can move forward. Each situation is different. There's no right or wrong answer regarding if the spouse cheated (emotionally or physically) It truly depends on the human being who is attempting to forgive said betrayal.
That was beautiful. I really pray for more healing conversations. Shalom
Nah fam… betraying me like that, nah that’s it.
Exactly it just seems this guy loves being a back up 😂guy nd loves getting played
Complete BS. You don’t have to forgive a person for cheating on you. Just walk away. There’s nothing to forgive. The trust is gone. If a woman cheats on you… she’s already gone. So why I am forgiving you?
Biblical references✊🏾✊🏾
what he said at the end is a gem tho! especially when dealing with women that have a bad/ abusive past with partners. the slightest thing you do will trigger them and they treat you like the other person did them.
nah, those old sayings effectively teach people to be a bit too comfortable with being a perpetual victim... and with human nature being what it is, most people are eager to try and take advantage of what appears to be an easy mark. ...and cheating in particular? Nah, that person is immediately disqualified; there should be no 2nd chance on that. When you give out a 2nd chance on *any* kind of betrayal... all that happens is that person IS indeed going to do it again at some point.
😂😂😂 Cap betrayal is a choice so In my opinion u made your bed lay in my it.
"Forgive and forget, bish I already forgot." -Lil Wayne
Haha REAL TALK
My wife is cheating on me right now. Im trying to forgive. We still on the same house together. And she goes out with this guy when she goes out. It hurts to see her go out. I'm trying to forgive her. But what she is doing had to and will stop. I'm not perfect. But ive never did what she has done. Yeah ive looked at other women but never went along with it and tried to get with that other Woman. But here she is doing what she do. We have four Children together a whole Family. But I still continue to pet her so what she's doing. You can't make someone stay with you and Love you. When I'm gone out of the house I'm at work. Om not out at a bar enjoying life and doing this and that. Im lost. I still love her and I feel that we can reconcile our Marriage. But she has to put a end to what she is doing. I feel like I'm being used because she still asks me for things. And I always reply. Hey ask him ain't he your new man?? Don't ask me ask him? Am I wrong for doing that y'all?? Please I need answers advice something. Guidance. Like I wanna take her back but I feel like I have been violated our vows have been violated. And Everytime this person comes to get her I feel like doing the histrousous thing. Choking him out. Damaging him. Bit I realize if I do that I'll forever lose my children and I'll be locked up. I need answers. Anybody please respond to this. I'm the only one who works in the house hold. I hold it all down. Im just exhausted with this experience Guys. Please a response from just one person would be GREATLY Appreciated. Who ever responds to this Female or Male I Thank You❤❤💯💯💯👍👍🫡🫡🫡🫡
I’m going through similar situation I say pay attention to her actions. Now my girl isn’t moving weird anymore but in your situation I’d focus on me if she continually disrespects you like that
Cheat back my guy💯
Just leave her man
my gf was tryna cheat my friend started helping her
he kissed her somehow
but he never told me anythibg but she came to me apologizing just after 1 day said she liked that guy i told everything to her about him n what he was trying to do with her if y'all getting what m talking about like do and throw things
i showed every recording of his to her about her she was already crying n bruh I've never seen someone cry like dat after telling all of it to her she kneeled in front of me begged for forgiveness you know this all in just 2-3 days
i was okay with her kissing him n it wasn't that much of a deal to me but the thing for which i felt betrayed is after reading his response to her messages like just somehow he wanted to bang her but by being friends with bene n telling her to keep continue cheating on me
this guy never told me he went out with her she was the one who came
i forgived the girl cz it wasn't a big deal we are young we can like other people
m just like why my friend keep talking to her he was with me for 5-7 years why he didn't told me anything
that girl would have suicided..... if she didn't told me all of it
please do not do these things no matter who the girl is she would have destroyed her life I've seen cuts on her hand neck stomach
guys please do not help woman in this the remorse woman feel is so bad she'll get herself killed n with a title of whore with her name
Simp
NOPE.
The end.
Forgiveness is in God's hands and I am just a man. ✌🏽
Based. Time to maintain frame.
Exactly
This sad dude really just said act like the cheating never happened lmfao what is this
Real men? What a way to smear a man who is within his biblical rights to divorce the cheating spouse.
If a man wants to take back a cheater, that’s his choice. But it doesn’t make him a “real man.”
Also, cheating might reveal that your wife/girlfriend doesn’t care for you. The cheating might not be a glitch, it might be a feature of who she is.
This brother is sad. Women don’t even respect you for taking them
Back for cheating. Don’t be a fool
This only counts if you have 100+ bodies and already been a multi-time cheater. Same way a women with a high count doesn’t care at all about a guys past
They do care. But society tells them to accept it
Forgiving someone isn't easy.
Facts
Incorrect. She cheats the relationship is dead.
forgiveness is hard
Sure is. Probably hardest thing.
Hope one day I'll figure it out Until then 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💪🏿
My comment doesn't necessarily apply to monogamy because I've never really believed in that sort of thing but I digress. One of the reasons I left christianity behind is because it teaches to "forgive those who have wronged (them)." Here are the problems 1. You're Betraying yourself by tolerating their bad behavior + history tends to repeat itself and 2. The person who betrayed the other person's trust knew where "the line" was but still chose to Cross it because they didn't believe there'd be Consequences. Don't hold grudges but don't be foolish enough to give that person a second chance to Destroy you.
Well I guess I ain’t no real man. You cannot and are not supposed to forgive cheating. All these women have all kinds of toys they can use. Forget all that. Pass her off and let her live freely.
Should men be forgiven given that they too have toys?
@@Jayisinvisible Do you wanna forgive them?
@@Jayisinvisible Men should be upfront about their insatiable desires that can NEVER be satisfied by ONE woman.
We are NOT the same.
@@hotepkennels so long as they’re up front
@@kareemabdulwahhab6919 I’ll forgive anything…it’s about power and peace. I forgive so as not to allow that power over me; I can move on in peace because I was able to forgive.
Oh shit, Rico outchea preaching.
I'll forgive you but you got to pack your ahit and leave ...lol
Forgive her, but don't go back.
I'm so proud of yall
I absolutely agree with Rico's assessment.
No coming back from that
Only weak men take a cheater back
Don't simp for them 304s
Wise words Rico , you right ,
Don’t you mean “Even when she *Got Caught* once💔”
The ONLY reason a man will forgive is not for love of the woman but for the love and safety of his children . If the man knows that the woman will raise them in a bad way then he might forgive her, ONLY if she is showing huge changes and seeking help. He will never love or trust her the same but she must respect and love him like she never has before.
God forgives, I moved on
2:24 she still shooting her shot, 2:26 he ain't with it.
😆 funny. I think you're right. She's not dressed classy at all, fairly revealing in an oopsy way. Hard to get pass the presentation talking about fidelity or infidelity, dressed a kinda hoe-like on a show, in public.
It's Infidelity , Cheating is in Sports and games. I can Forgive don't mean I'm Dealing with you .
As a man that shit hurt and you dont see until its right in ya face the womans nature is so peculiar but as much as you wanna feel fellas dont do it 💯
when i forgive i need to forget and to forget i need to stay the fuck way from cheaters
Forgiveness is automatic, but I don’t have to be with you
A real man wouldn't forgive his woman for cheating....
a good man is empathic and humane
A real man would because Christ is in Him.
I understand you as women would want him to forgive you but that is opposite of our nature.... being empathic and humane are not continent on forgiveness.... as a great man I am empathic and humane but I am also NOT a fool!!!
I don't EVER recall seeing anything that indicated Christ wanted a man to forgive his wife for cheating...if as a wife you made a conscious decision to cheat you dont care about Christ!!!!
@@blackbeltben2775 infidelity is not limited to any religion or the lack of , religion is social and sexual control and judgment to keep people humble and in line , I say religious or not think for yourself and trust your own judgment
Lmao. I will love and forgive her. She just gotta pack all of her stuff and get out of my house.
Men and women are different and never trust anyone with a IG open while you wre in a relationship. If she cheat just leave and never talk to her again
i will NEVER be a real man then lmao. a woman cheating on you is a total lack of respect all around the board. you can forgive her but absolutely leave her. one has nothing to do with the other.
Firstly scripture is misapplied here, infidelity is addressed in scripture for what infidelity is n its outcomes. Believing that u have forgiven a person that's cheated on u, it's a reality denial of the highest order, which has a strong potential of catching up with u in time. Love leaves instantly when infidelity or cheating presents itself, u are left despondent with your partner trying to figure things out n they don't tally anymore 😕 ask Adam n Eve when accepted sin, God left n chaos reigned supreme to this day.
This is taking one verse way out of context!!!
Im good once she cheats its obvious she didnt love you! There was never true respect!
THATS WHY MANY PPL NEED 2 LOOK INTO THT MIB LIGHT WILL SMITH WAS CARRYING AROUND N JUST 4GET IT!!! CUZ THT PAIN N HURT WILL CONTROL HOW U WANT 2 LOVE OR NOT LOVE 4 THT MATTER!!!
Should change this rubbish to Simp Hour.
Real may forgive but God isn’t going to forgive, for every sin it’s consequences behind it
ALL THESE JUDGMENTAL COMMENTS NO WONDER PEOPLE LIE AND I AM GENERALLY FAR MORE HONEST THAN ANYONE
Forgiving doesn’t mean staying. Just putting that out there
Young man spoke facts today 💯
Can you beleive her when she says its your baby?
Never forgive a cheater.
AIN'T....NO.....FUCKIN......WAY!!!
It’s never easy getting outside of your self and pride to find the grits to truly forgive. But it’s essential . We can’t expect to be forgiven by anyone or any higher being if we can’t practice the act here amongst our peers
Forgive and forget works
Poor dude
woman cheater? no
Real men leave. No woman is going to cheat on a real man and not expect consequences.
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Forgiving cheating is simping. Simple and plain
I don’t think it is. You can forgive but it does not mean that you need to be with the person .
Also is cheating simping for both genders? Because I would think so. I’m just asking.
@@tinachowa1108 only for men
@@tinachowa1108how is it simping for genders?
@@yaboyshawnyes it's both genders I ain't staying with no cheater
Nah
Nope.
she on eem
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Can't you forgive and forget and still move on with your life?
Bull Shhh 🤫
You can never take a woman back if she cheats. She lost all respect. It’s not the same when a man cheats. But I don’t condone cheating at all.
If you don’t condone cheating then why is it different for men?
@@ondrewellington8635 men don’t get attached when they actually love someone if they do cheat 9/10 it’s emotionless sex not love making don’t get me wrong cheating is cheating regardless but it’s worse because women cheat to replace and men cheat just for sex. Side Note most men that do cheat Cheat because The women are withholding from him sex which in turns increases his lust and fuck that love or lust shii cuz I wouldn’t even think about anyone else if you did what I’d expect out of my partner not every day or shii like that but cmon
@@ondrewellington8635 It just is. Same way its worse for a man to be a coward than a woman. You ever heard someone say "that lady is a pussy"? Nope.
It is what it is
@@ondrewellington8635Cause a women can get pregnant and a man cant
It's the exact darn thing sir. Cheating is horrible and lowdown and incredibly disrespectful by a man or woman to the person betrayed.
She is stunning
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