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It still sting ...my partner of 5 years went out and cheated while I was hustling for us ....never again will I trust a woman..why would someone do that...
Gf of 4 years cheated on me too recently. Even tho I wasn't perfect I was always trying to do my best for her, working extra hard for money, working to buy a house. It just sucks, but being surrounded by comrades with similar problems is the only thing giving me strength to keep pushing myself
She says it’s not cheating she dumped me on text, before getting with a guy… I think she was monkey branched.. her loss I’m at the gym rn with the anger
Yeah they line up the next guy before the break. Saw it firsthand my last go around. Sorry to hear it happened to you too. I’ll be hitting the gym hard like you.
Just move on and talk to another women they always line someone up before they break up with u this jus happened to me with my trade school sweetheart loved her a lot but sht happens
I'm going through this now with my ex. She wants to come back into my life and I keep saying no. I've blocked her and am at the point of changing my phone number. I would rather be alone than with a cheater. She won't change, hasn't changed but I have. Changed because of your channel Shaun. Thanks for the help.
You have your honor and you value yourself, I respect that. Seems like many guys would forgive and take a woman back. She gets one chance with me, once she steps out that’s it for me, it can’t go back to the way it was. A woman who is a real one will be with you and make that clear. Many lessons have been learned and guys like us will set the standard.
My situation is tough because I'm walking away, but I don't have 100 proof that she is cheating. However, her sleeping at her son's father's place, her dressing up for unusual work meetings that includes alcohol and goes to midnight, to storing her phone that's always turned off and tucked away whenever I'm around, was enough for me to man up and walk away. It's tough to do, but my "intuition" trumps my "what if?"
You’re damn right Shaun, enough with this naive la la land BS. I was in a two year relationship and my ex stepped out on me, it was very unexpected. But looking back I should’ve seen what was going on and prepared myself accordingly. As men we have a natural tendency to place women above ourselves but enough is enough. Men first. Ourselves first. We need to have strength and honor. We need to wake up to reality and stop walking through life with this weak dependent mindset.
Unfortunately you're right. The worst thing you can do is ask yourself what could I have done better? or what did I do wrong? She is who she is and she will do whatever she's going to do. It's not in your control. Walk away!
There are basically two ways to look at it like you said, one is to ask what you could have done differently and start down that rabbit hole that does nothing but consume valuable time and the other is that you just freed up a bunch of time to work on physical and mental health. Thanks for the wisdom drop.
i dated a woman with a masters degree and she was trying to cheat on me with multiple street dudes. we broke up, but ever since then, i've been binge watching your videos and they're really helping.
Would you take your toothbrush back in your mouth if somebody just used it for cleaning his toilet? - Why would it be different with "your" girl? Just ghost her forever and forget her name!
Don't be with a woman that you love. A woman who knows that you love them, will believe she can do better and will cheat. Be prepared to drop the relationship when your Gut instinct tells you something wrong. Have enough respect for yourself and your instincts to have the confidence that Your gut doesn't lie to you but she will. The only evidence you need is your gut instinct. Tell her you know what's up and don't say nothing else about what you know, tell her it's over pack your 💩 and get out. Then level up.. Don't even take anyone back.
Automatic subscribe. I fought for minutes until clearity hit me. I’m no simp and she let another man violate her. I’m away handling all the bills and raising ya daughter. The betray is deep, I accept her apology and love her enough to let her know the truth. I’m gone shawty ✊🏾
Negative. Didn't seek advice. It was a situation where I didn't have proof at the time, in spite of the evidence staring me in the face. @@golf1diesel
She told me she was pregnant with another man's child and it was a rap. She tells me that this happened before we met, but her behavior during the time we've been dating has not convinced me of that, meaning her loyalty was always in question, so when this shit happened part of me was not surprised. ''It's one and done''
back when my current exgirlfriend & I were apart from each other she dated 2 men at the same time that did not bother me I say to myself every time oscar stay single for the rest of your life the hell with the woman you dated me I am alway's going to be intrested in women fuck what people say 😊
Just curious brotha, how old are you? I’m 26 and I really struggle with letting this shit go even though I know I have to. Fought so hard for the same result multiple times, no longer respected, or loved by her. & I could see why. Appreciate the videos bro. This time next year I’ll be reinvented.
@@dillo5881 Can I talk to you? It's complicated she cheated on me 1 week after she knew I cheated on her 4 months back It's my fault at the start but then she took me back and then cheated on me 4 days after she took me back She's apologizing and crying saying she was hurt from my actions and what she did is purely emotional and anger channeled. She's asking me give her time to prove herself My question is she took me back when I cheated but she cheated right after. So honestly it's toxic I'm so hurt and distressed I really love this girl. But should I give her a chance cause she gave me one. And the reason she did it was because of my action in the past She was loyal before that
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It still sting ...my partner of 5 years went out and cheated while I was hustling for us ....never again will I trust a woman..why would someone do that...
It’s the worst feeling when your former lady steps out on you. Stay strong man, this is their loss.
@@RedTabletTalkif you were brad pit, you would have access too all 3 holes 1st night, this is a lesson man, be better
Im right there with you brother, the exact same fucking situation. This created a fucking mess in my head.
@@RedTabletTalktf? You're not entitled to be slept with because it's your birthday lmao
@@DB-sd3cwexactly what I was thinking. Lmao
Gf of 4 years cheated on me too recently. Even tho I wasn't perfect I was always trying to do my best for her, working extra hard for money, working to buy a house.
It just sucks, but being surrounded by comrades with similar problems is the only thing giving me strength to keep pushing myself
She says it’s not cheating she dumped me on text, before getting with a guy… I think she was monkey branched.. her loss I’m at the gym rn with the anger
Yeah they line up the next guy before the break. Saw it firsthand my last go around. Sorry to hear it happened to you too. I’ll be hitting the gym hard like you.
Just move on and talk to another women they always line someone up before they break up with u this jus happened to me with my trade school sweetheart loved her a lot but sht happens
"her loss"
EXACTLTY
Block and move on, they shown their true colours
I'm going through this now with my ex. She wants to come back into my life and I keep saying no. I've blocked her and am at the point of changing my phone number. I would rather be alone than with a cheater. She won't change, hasn't changed but I have. Changed because of your channel Shaun. Thanks for the help.
You have your honor and you value yourself, I respect that. Seems like many guys would forgive and take a woman back. She gets one chance with me, once she steps out that’s it for me, it can’t go back to the way it was. A woman who is a real one will be with you and make that clear. Many lessons have been learned and guys like us will set the standard.
My situation is tough because I'm walking away, but I don't have 100 proof that she is cheating.
However, her sleeping at her son's father's place, her dressing up for unusual work meetings that includes alcohol and goes to midnight, to storing her phone that's always turned off and tucked away whenever I'm around, was enough for me to man up and walk away. It's tough to do, but my "intuition" trumps my "what if?"
I value my self respect before anything else. No wonder why women having a hard time dealing with me and that's sweet 💯
I walked away
Your very first video on UA-cam was a hardcore message on this topic. Team walk away on this side
💯💯
You’re damn right Shaun, enough with this naive la la land BS. I was in a two year relationship and my ex stepped out on me, it was very unexpected. But looking back I should’ve seen what was going on and prepared myself accordingly. As men we have a natural tendency to place women above ourselves but enough is enough. Men first. Ourselves first. We need to have strength and honor. We need to wake up to reality and stop walking through life with this weak dependent mindset.
Unfortunately you're right. The worst thing you can do is ask yourself what could I have done better? or what did I do wrong? She is who she is and she will do whatever she's going to do. It's not in your control. Walk away!
There are basically two ways to look at it like you said, one is to ask what you could have done differently and start down that rabbit hole that does nothing but consume valuable time and the other is that you just freed up a bunch of time to work on physical and mental health. Thanks for the wisdom drop.
Lol ... "Go solo dolo for 2 to 3 years!" Nice words, Shaun!
i dated a woman with a masters degree and she was trying to cheat on me with multiple street dudes.
we broke up, but ever since then, i've been binge watching your videos and they're really helping.
These videos always remind me to stay on the grind and focus despite how women has treated me thank you bro love from the westside chicago
Big up bro 🤜🏼🤛🏼
It is the only way to go
Would you take your toothbrush back in your mouth if somebody just used it for cleaning his toilet? - Why would it be different with "your" girl? Just ghost her forever and forget her name!
Dont know how i wound up here but damn, this is AWESOME advice Shaun.
Don't be with a woman that you love. A woman who knows that you love them, will believe she can do better and will cheat. Be prepared to drop the relationship when your Gut instinct tells you something wrong. Have enough respect for yourself and your instincts to have the confidence that Your gut doesn't lie to you but she will. The only evidence you need is your gut instinct. Tell her you know what's up and don't say nothing else about what you know, tell her it's over pack your 💩 and get out. Then level up.. Don't even take anyone back.
It's harder when kids involved she cheated on me before before last Christmas she still on the couch
Automatic subscribe. I fought for minutes until clearity hit me. I’m no simp and she let another man violate her. I’m away handling all the bills and raising ya daughter. The betray is deep, I accept her apology and love her enough to let her know the truth. I’m gone shawty ✊🏾
Yep, don't do it. I've taken her back, happened again. Low integrity women do not change.
you took her back? damn
Did you apply Dan Bacon's advice?
Negative. Didn't seek advice. It was a situation where I didn't have proof at the time, in spite of the evidence staring me in the face. @@golf1diesel
Thanks Shaun for posting this. You’re my fav life advisor. Keep going bro, you’re making change. Wishing you best luck.
🙏🏼🙏🏼
She told me she was pregnant with another man's child and it was a rap. She tells me that this happened before we met, but her behavior during the time we've been dating has not convinced me of that, meaning her loyalty was always in question, so when this shit happened part of me was not surprised. ''It's one and done''
It’s best to focus on yourself and do u
There are billions of women, walk away, find better.
i would kick her to jupiter, while staying calm😂 get out of here lady
It hurts so mich
Level up Time. Thanks.
I'm 33, she is 54, but we live 200 km from each other, I think she cheats me, there are signs 😢
Grandma can't look that good man. She must be your only option or she is wealthy.
@@alldaybd9672she looked like a 36 but she has not so much money...
Thanks for the advice
My girlfriend cheated on me last week feeling sad depressed
hi shaun, can you please make a vid on how you can talk about feelings with your girl..
Sean did Magic Mike from Chicago do your smp? He did mine as well ,jw bro
From Tanzania
back when my current exgirlfriend & I were apart from each other she dated 2 men at the same time that did not bother me I say to myself every time oscar stay single for the rest of your life the hell with the woman you dated me I am alway's going to be intrested in women fuck what people say 😊
Tanzania 🇹🇿 🇹🇿 🇹🇿 🇹🇿
Just curious brotha, how old are you? I’m 26 and I really struggle with letting this shit go even though I know I have to. Fought so hard for the same result multiple times, no longer respected, or loved by her. & I could see why. Appreciate the videos bro. This time next year I’ll be reinvented.
I’m 38. You got this brother 💪🏼
@@ShaunZachary Appreciate the reply man. Gotta be better, and I gotta work my ass off for it. Let’s get it 💪🏽
Man she cheated because I cheated on her
She's begging for me now
What do I do?
@@andersspencer DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT TAKE HER BACK
@@dillo5881
Can I talk to you?
It's complicated she cheated on me 1 week after she knew I cheated on her 4 months back
It's my fault at the start but then she took me back and then cheated on me 4 days after she took me back
She's apologizing and crying saying she was hurt from my actions and what she did is purely emotional and anger channeled.
She's asking me give her time to prove herself
My question is she took me back when I cheated but she cheated right after.
So honestly it's toxic
I'm so hurt and distressed
I really love this girl.
But should I give her a chance cause she gave me one.
And the reason she did it was because of my action in the past
She was loyal before that