To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 2

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  • @kelenaduweduwe813
    @kelenaduweduwe813 Рік тому +536

    Dear Owamie. I am a Malawian who has followed you for 3 years now. This side of you is what will make you grow even more. Wow! This "To hell and back" is a masterpiece. I have an extreme good feeling about it. You are carrying it well. Congratulations baby girl! Maturity and growth it is. May God go before you. ❤

    • @BlackWoman-is5wh
      @BlackWoman-is5wh Рік тому +13

      This is the best thing our queen has ever launched!

    • @majolicamashinini3934
      @majolicamashinini3934 Рік тому

      Amen

    • @DiamondQuality1
      @DiamondQuality1 Рік тому +3

      Agulu! I'm malawian too followed Owamie since 2019-2020...hahaha

    • @kelenaduweduwe813
      @kelenaduweduwe813 Рік тому +1

      @@DiamondQuality1 Wow! Kutengeka ife, kodi kwathu kuno bwanji luso loteleri kulibe? 🤣🤣🤣 Lol. She entertains you know! Let's keep enjoying!

    • @glorymphaluwa3976
      @glorymphaluwa3976 Рік тому +1

      Malawian too 🥂… zikubeba ndithu 😅

  • @mabeltiriwepisanyamahwe5124
    @mabeltiriwepisanyamahwe5124 Рік тому +42

    This girl is soo polished,soft spoken and gorgeous even as she narrates her ordeal she does it with such calmness .I wish you all the best babe .Put god first and pray for your person he is out there and one day you will meet him.

  • @qinisekandwandwa2878
    @qinisekandwandwa2878 Рік тому +52

    This man had so much time on his hands. Entertaining his wife and 41 plus women. Yho, sounds like a full time job nd overtime 😮

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 Рік тому +500

    Constructive criticism
    The interview should start by Introduction of guest
    2. Then the beginning of real story as to how they met
    3 The middle of their life together
    4 The Change for the worst
    5 The decision
    6 Learning curve
    7 Parting short
    I believe it will change with time

    • @sibahlesgwane
      @sibahlesgwane Рік тому +42

      Yes I think she will grow with time

    • @Skeemsaamsa
      @Skeemsaamsa Рік тому +26

      Definitely but this is already good she is doing so well nka screamer

    • @FifiOnthenet2
      @FifiOnthenet2 Рік тому +4

      🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾Definitely

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm Рік тому +66

      Constructive criticism, why don’t you start your own podcast and show us how it’s done? Clearly you have it so figured out. We will follow and support ❤

    • @monenengobeni3728
      @monenengobeni3728 Рік тому +26

      She should consider watching Relebogile Mabotsa and King David interview styles.

  • @thandos7030
    @thandos7030 Рік тому +41

    Owami you made it so hard for us to see that she is your friend. The story seem new to you just like it is new to us😱 I'm giving you 100% sana you are the best❤

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Рік тому +51

    Im loving the new Owamie....she is a bomb 💣, super smart and beautiful

  • @Peighter
    @Peighter Рік тому +228

    This lady is a good story teller, I could imagine everything she said. She should definitely pursue her UA-cam

    • @confessions4043
      @confessions4043 Рік тому +3

      This is exactly what I wanted to comment.

    • @confessions4043
      @confessions4043 Рік тому +9

      She tells the story so well, that I felt bad that I'm enjoying the story, because I know it's actually sad because it's what she went through.

    • @nompumelelosibiya4789
      @nompumelelosibiya4789 Рік тому +3

      She said she is on youtube

    • @Sarah09Kong
      @Sarah09Kong Рік тому +10

      She has such a calm aura❤

    • @angelinat6816
      @angelinat6816 Рік тому +3

      @@Sarah09Kongyes her voice is so soothing 😊😊

  • @nondumisomtsweni2366
    @nondumisomtsweni2366 Рік тому +51

    I love that you let your guests speak and theres no awkard silence between the questions, the follow up questions are great too❤

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Рік тому +445

    This podcast is gonna be a success....

  • @Amahle361
    @Amahle361 Рік тому +44

    Its not a counselor's role to convince a person to forgive the offender and take them back in their lives. That counselor crossed boundaries. A counselor guides and allows a client to make their decision.

  • @ayamempress1579
    @ayamempress1579 Рік тому +24

    My first time coming across your videos. Im from the UK. I love this. Such a thourough, open and honest conversation abiut her experience. She was very vulnerable and open. You guys left no stone unturned. I felt like i was in the house with my girlies spilling tea and going through the healing process. I need to start my podcast nah

    • @HurttoHeal
      @HurttoHeal Рік тому

      Hey,where in UK are you? I am looking for a friend,I was led here by a man who promised me marriage but turned out he was a scammer. Apart from that,He is a Narcassist. He made me leave my job,and now I am living in a house with two other older man and woman,I am not allowed to make friends or speak to anyone. I haven't been working and it's been so hard. I am about to start work but,Soon I will and need to find a place to stay. Please can we be friends?

  • @thokomasango2294
    @thokomasango2294 Рік тому +27

    Redflag number 1: Every time a man is obsessively in love...

    • @whynoteducate3786
      @whynoteducate3786 3 місяці тому

      no dont say that some of us we really do love our partners

  • @bongekangubane8939
    @bongekangubane8939 Рік тому +116

    I'm going thru the comments and I see alot of constructive criticism from loyal and loving followers but sometimes.. I just feel like sometimes it's so beautiful to watch a person ask their guest normal questions like we do our friends on a normal day.. It's a breath of fresh air to see someone trying to be themselves and not try and imitate what's already working.. She will eventually find her interviewing style as this is not her niche.. But I didn't see a problem with this interview because I heard the most important details from the guests.. But that's just my opinion.. Criticism is also okay if it's constructive ❤

  • @sindiswangati7620
    @sindiswangati7620 Рік тому +73

    Vulry's voice is so calming. I enjoyed this podcast❤

  • @Thandi899
    @Thandi899 Рік тому +277

    Owami I wish you would take us on a journey with your guests. Starting with light questions like How was her childhood
    Or how did they meet? When did she know she loved him? Where was she in life at that time, when did they get married. How old was the guy. How was the marriage. and and and. Leading us to the climax of the story..
    Starting the interview with ‘why are you getting divorced is anti climax because that should be the meat of the interview.
    This way the questions will not be random. And this was the same with your last interview.
    Wishing you incredible growth in your journey 🤍.

    • @OwamieEntertainment
      @OwamieEntertainment Рік тому +90

      I knew the story was long so I tried to get right to it, we are still gonna have a part 2 and i will ask that but thank you ❤

    • @lorrainetshifhango3984
      @lorrainetshifhango3984 Рік тому +41

      ​​@@OwamieEntertainmentu doing good, we really don't care about that information of childhood, getting straight to it it's a way, plus saves time❤

    • @nomsatorcida9612
      @nomsatorcida9612 Рік тому +25

      I agree, the conversation didn't have context. Although it still is an interesting story, it would have been nice to have context

    • @Blacklist_Entertainment
      @Blacklist_Entertainment Рік тому +7

      I think reading the biography of her guests will also help .

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st Рік тому +2

      @@lorrainetshifhango3984Exactly 😅

  • @nosihlekabhungane
    @nosihlekabhungane Рік тому +201

    I love interviewers who let the guests talk without interrupting them, good job Owamie 👏🏾

    • @1bluegreen2
      @1bluegreen2 Рік тому +2

      Yes, excellent job!

    • @InTheEndOnlykindnessMatters
      @InTheEndOnlykindnessMatters Рік тому +1

      I second that and the guest is also great at telling her story .

    • @annathubakgale2423
      @annathubakgale2423 Рік тому +1

      That's the sociopath kind of man, I have exact experience with my ex, but I stayed in that abuse for twenty years, I thanked God that the man finally divorced me. You are lucky and strong my lady to tell such marriage experience.

  • @lebom2456
    @lebom2456 Рік тому +34

    This guy sounds like an answered prayer shame! We could all fall for him 🤞🏽

  • @ChummyK
    @ChummyK Рік тому +18

    Wow, the guest is such an amazing teller of her story, her beautiful aura floods the whole interview as she shares her story with so much and maturity. She is already a healed woman❤. Beautiful lady ❤

  • @krismiller7085
    @krismiller7085 Рік тому +41

    Ladies, please be careful when letting men know you’re aware of their infidelity or crimes. It can be very dangerous for you. If you KNOW you have proof, move and plot in silence. Leaving a relationship can be the most dangerous time for a woman.

  • @JoselyneJohn
    @JoselyneJohn Рік тому +11

    This goes to show that disrespect can only be forgiven by letting go of those who disrespect us. If someone disrespects your values, it's a value conflict, and the only cure is letting go or establish alignment. People can change, but alignment is not something to wait for. It is either we are aligned or we are not. We do not need people we have to change to love them. We love who we are aligned with. It's sad when others misuse our trust, but we must allow our boundaries to be stronger than our love( or at least similar in strength)

  • @siboboo4386
    @siboboo4386 Рік тому +62

    Its red flag if phone doesnt ring when a person is with you.

    • @nomondejonas8579
      @nomondejonas8579 10 місяців тому +3

      I hardly get calls so maybe I’m also a red flag 🚩

    • @PrincessMcKay1
      @PrincessMcKay1 10 місяців тому +4

      😂😂 haibo can we not generalize. my phone never rings cause I don't do friendships

    • @yaneliswakhoza5901
      @yaneliswakhoza5901 8 місяців тому

      ​@@PrincessMcKay1😂😂😂 Like aibo kusho I'm also a red flag moss 😂😂😂

    • @Savebygrace-it
      @Savebygrace-it 6 місяців тому

      Flight mode gang😂😂😂

    • @jae-realistic
      @jae-realistic 5 місяців тому

      True, my cousin would tell them, " you know I'm married, so please don't call me, I will call"🤔

  • @carolchin2336
    @carolchin2336 Рік тому +12

    Owamie I used to watched you long time ago and due to my own personal circumstances I have not watched you in a long time, to come back and see soo much elevation on your channel it has made my heart smile if anyone deserves this it’s definitely you! Wishing you much more success and happiness

  • @pamelatire8386
    @pamelatire8386 Рік тому +118

    Brother was living a double life, ninja. Once a man cheats on you, whether he hides it or not that’s the biggest disrespect. Never take back a man who cheated on you it will mess up your peace of mind.
    Once you start asking yourself questions if you are good enough or if there is something wrong with you. If you try to over compensate, then you should start running 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

    • @Drip3657
      @Drip3657 Рік тому +3

      I'm here loving this comment coz it's th truth n wisdom of life but I forgave him when he dd me dirty n we are okay😂😅...but at this age if he dare again,aowa shem..no mercy

    • @kwetsephetla3597
      @kwetsephetla3597 Рік тому

      @@Drip3657how did you get over it and how did you learn to love him and trust him again?

    • @Drip3657
      @Drip3657 Рік тому

      @@kwetsephetla3597 I jus love him mtase n I told him my trust is nvr gonna be the same...I trust God only tht he will continue help him do better. His character is more humble than I ve ever seen... But if hs behaviour changes mo go suspicious I'm gone...

    • @LM-he7eb
      @LM-he7eb Рік тому +6

      Exactly. Most of these men take resources away from home & spend it on a sidechick

  • @maipelomolathiwa3524
    @maipelomolathiwa3524 Рік тому +15

    Well done Owamie,u have really grown and I must say I respect the fact tat u take advices from Ninjas tats why u r doing so well❤️

  • @funganimaligana4305
    @funganimaligana4305 Рік тому +8

    Thee gorgeous Vulry Muthabi. A lady of class and elegance ❤ May God give her the grace to overcome this. Enjoyed the interview. Thanks ninja

  • @gugulethuzubane2444
    @gugulethuzubane2444 Рік тому +21

    Owamie you are amazing dear, your work speaks for it self it speaks volumes. I have also started a UA-cam channel because of you. Thank you dear, we truly need people like you who truly motivate us by being who they are and working hard ❤❤❤

  • @YoliOlivia
    @YoliOlivia Рік тому +9

    This lady is a great interviewee. I love how she’s detailed and to the point. She’s open and doesn’t withhold information; even though I know what she went through was very painful. God will be the lifter of her head.

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 Рік тому +44

    I can see this segment going far. Owami just make tweeks here and there and we will be heading for the prime time Chile. 🎉

  • @Vv-fl2rm
    @Vv-fl2rm Рік тому +41

    One thing Iv realised. Women are so desperate for relationships 😢 and the validation that “I’m with someone, look at me, someone wants me”. Self rejection and no self worth is the order of the day.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +1

      I'm not like that but I used to be years ago.

    • @rozmaryn0902
      @rozmaryn0902 Рік тому +3

      And men are aware of this desperation and take advantage of it. It's sad.

  • @Skeemsaamsa
    @Skeemsaamsa Рік тому +12

    This episode is mind blowing, how she narrated.. Owamies interviewing style, camera quality, clean space…. please 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @nomthantshiqa4920
    @nomthantshiqa4920 Рік тому +8

    🎉🎉Jackpot Owamie !!! This is amazing…. Fly sisi we see you and your hustle

  • @Youngandunfiltered
    @Youngandunfiltered Рік тому +23

    One thing about cheaters, they do not know when to stop! Spirit of lust at its peak!!!

  • @dineompembe7821
    @dineompembe7821 Рік тому +5

    Giiiiiirl you on fire ... upwards all the way, this is the content we need ... something that is relatable

  • @faithhendricks6650
    @faithhendricks6650 Рік тому +12

    Wow Owamie.... Best interview ever so far. Your guest was so relaxed and narrated her story so well.😊

  • @WhatsinterestigToday
    @WhatsinterestigToday Рік тому +10

    It’s like this lady lived in my marriage. She’s smarter than I was. I stayed for 13 years. Kudos to her

    • @treshasstarr1513
      @treshasstarr1513 5 місяців тому

      I stayed for 21 if that makes u feel any better, we stayed for our own reasons, I used to self sabotage, beat my self up continuously until God showed me where and how i erred, I started taking accountability and just told the person thanks and let go

  • @estellemoyo-in2se
    @estellemoyo-in2se Рік тому +13

    Lovebombing is usually carried out by a Narcissist in the first phase when he/she is looking to get something from you. After that you are no longer important!!😭

  • @ayamempress1579
    @ayamempress1579 Рік тому +10

    The amount of effort these men put into deceiving women is astonishing... if he put that energy into things that benefit the community, we wiukd all be in such a different place as a people across the globe.

  • @gracemakhubo952
    @gracemakhubo952 Рік тому +14

    Background noise got me, nevertheless awesome content 👌🏽

  • @FromPeloToYourHeart
    @FromPeloToYourHeart Рік тому +131

    As much as we can advise here and there, sometimes we must let Owami be and come as she prepared.
    I'm sure she works hard on preparing for these interviews.
    Now we are here scoring her performances and not even engaging on the story brought to the table.
    We now discuss how she did instead of focusing on the guests and the lessons we are to learn.
    I know we are trying to help but sometimes it's too much, especially because everyone has their own "what to do"
    It's not nice with every interview there's a bunch of things she must correct, aowa bathong, give her a break.
    I'm not against constructive criticism but there's a thin line between that and having a "critical spirit" of just looking out for the negatives so that you can point out!
    I bet if we focused more on hearing what the story is all about and not her performance, we will even forget with the "constructive criticism"😅😅😅
    Everyone gets better at what they do with time, give her that.🙏🏽💕
    Keep them coming Queen O❤❤❤❤❤
    Interesting interview 👍🏾 👌🏽 👏🏾

  • @Wamby87
    @Wamby87 Рік тому +7

    My excitement when i log into youtube on a Monday and find the second episode! 😊 Well done owamie! I love the way you handle the guests and the way you introduce the issue at hand. I wouldnt change a thing. 👏 👏 👏

  • @kwetsephetla3597
    @kwetsephetla3597 Рік тому +29

    Be very careful of those men who use their past as a way to manipulate you. Abusers love to use their sad backstory to manipulate people.

  • @nthabisengmashaba1
    @nthabisengmashaba1 Рік тому +50

    May this podcast be a success in every way🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️

  • @sinazobogicevic3442
    @sinazobogicevic3442 Рік тому +19

    Im not going to repeat what everyone has said about structure but I so beleive that a solid structure does make the story. I would add that Owamie will get better with time at this. No one starts off perfectly at anything.

    • @mangoyacho
      @mangoyacho Рік тому

      @sinazobogicevic3442 Thanks for sharing your point of view. Just to point out that not all interviews should follow a structure - it is perfectly acceptable in some instances to allow the interviewee to lead the way - to start where they want start narrating their story/experience whilst the interviewer interjects with mimimum probing questions. This unstructured interview is fine in this instance.

  • @sanga8349
    @sanga8349 Рік тому +8

    This lady is so beautiful and calm. She looks like a sweet and peaceful person🥰

    • @unlockwiththandomaumela
      @unlockwiththandomaumela Рік тому

      She is stunning

    • @yangankenkana5034
      @yangankenkana5034 Рік тому

      man do not appreciate ....no low self-esteem but my question is how I am going to survive in marriage with my ugliness and imperfection that I have if beautiful ladies are getting cheated and when they want the divorce men to let them go, because I believe if a man is court cheating and divorce is proposed he must stop if he real loves his wife.

  • @chillingwiththechaplins
    @chillingwiththechaplins Рік тому +22

    I’m so sorry to hear about this Vulry😢. Your marriage looked so perfect on social media but I’m glad you put yourself and son first by leaving. ❤

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz Рік тому +5

      What’s the name on social media. I need to see what this husband looks like 🙈

    • @sinazomakileni3938
      @sinazomakileni3938 Рік тому

      ​@@moe_ramzhay wena😂😂😂😂

    • @yaneliswakhoza5901
      @yaneliswakhoza5901 8 місяців тому

      ​@moe_ramz😂😂😂😂

  • @kwetsephetla3597
    @kwetsephetla3597 Рік тому +11

    I just want to know how he managed to make time for her😂. This man was so crafty. I believe he showered her with all that affection so she would never have a suspicion

  • @erckiemaria7695
    @erckiemaria7695 Рік тому +6

    New subscriber from Namibia

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz Рік тому +46

    Her ex husband sounds like a narcissist. That’s their modus operandi…

    • @abongilesibhoko539
      @abongilesibhoko539 Рік тому +1

      Ofcourse

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz Рік тому

      @@abongilesibhoko539 love bombing. Cheating with multiple women. Withdrawal from sex. Being aggressive when confronted. Lying. Over inflated sense of self. Tjo, I could go on…..

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +1

      Yes. This is a spirit on the rise according to 2TIMOTHY 3. They are witches. I was married to one.

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz Рік тому

      @@danilaroche1156 I don’t know about witches but I’ve come across two in my lifetime. I’m just glad there was no relationship. It was just interactions but I could tell something was amiss. I played it cool(dumb&ditzy) for several weeks till I could figure them out. 🙈

    • @HurttoHeal
      @HurttoHeal Рік тому +1

      I have been scammed by one and now I am stuck!!

  • @bakangsento
    @bakangsento Рік тому +8

    Over spoiling sometimes a person is hiding something, people are sick out there character wise!

  • @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811
    @silindiwetshumasilindiwe7811 Рік тому +8

    Meeting people on Tinder is just a no no. Even Facebook it's a no no. I mean all social media platforms it's a no no

  • @karaboBenson
    @karaboBenson Рік тому +15

    That’s my cousin …. My beautiful sis.

  • @lufunoleenetshituka5251
    @lufunoleenetshituka5251 Рік тому +5

    Owani is a good interviewer, she ask relevant questions and give the guest chance to tell her story. Lovely

  • @bakerstransport959
    @bakerstransport959 Рік тому +4

    Beautiful lady 😍 Thanks Owamie for sharing Indaba zabantu siyazithanda shem

  • @pointa2b388
    @pointa2b388 Рік тому +6

    ❤❤i love this show, it gives good vibe, good feel. The setup is proper. I love it

  • @shaettshepiso308
    @shaettshepiso308 Рік тому +9

    How i loved this interview, dated a narcissist for 6 months could definitely relate❤

  • @1bluegreen2
    @1bluegreen2 Рік тому +16

    I have to say this . I LOVE that this interview gets right to the heart of the story and sets the stage for answering the question "how did this happen?". To hell and back is an appropriate title. It's not called back and to hell...so yes...she started with HELL and then the story explains how she gets back OUT OF IT. Sometimes something new is great. Every other podcaster does the whole "tell me your about your childhood "

  • @Youngandunfiltered
    @Youngandunfiltered Рік тому +13

    Please ninjas pay attention to Owami’s reaction at 30:12 😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣 i just fell off my chair. No way!!! Ninja you killed me!! No lie…. I have a feeling big Guy was doing the same thing!!!

  • @disekomotsepe
    @disekomotsepe Рік тому +11

    Owamie. Yho. I could feel in the lady's voice that she actually expressed the feelings like it was happening again 😢

  • @sassya6724
    @sassya6724 Рік тому +14

    Yoh, she really took us through her romance story...you can feel the love and emotions she went through, takes us through how she felt psychologically and the disillusionment

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +2

      Him proposing marriage on first date is disconcerting. I feel for her . Divorce is traumatizing.

  • @kholofelomaruma6402
    @kholofelomaruma6402 Рік тому +10

    Love the podcast but next time try to limit the noise from the outside people

  • @manakomothebe7472
    @manakomothebe7472 Рік тому +7

    Can't wait for part 2. Thank you for the beautiful interview

  • @tooleighcele4375
    @tooleighcele4375 Рік тому +5

    Definitely getting better with interviews! I loved this episode

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 Рік тому +4

    The views here surpass the subscriptions. Heres to a successfull podcast queen ninja. We LOVE this for you❤

  • @ayandarigala3947
    @ayandarigala3947 Рік тому +12

    Congratulations on 18k Subbies❤🎉

  • @olgalialusele
    @olgalialusele Рік тому +10

    The Visuals mukomana dzi 👌this podcast will surely go Far ❤

  • @m-lloproducts6008
    @m-lloproducts6008 Рік тому +7

    I liked how you conducted this interview, Wow girl you are killing this thing 👏 ....

  • @aljeranewilson4173
    @aljeranewilson4173 Рік тому +26

    Everything Owamie touches turns to gold, my dhiye❤😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉

  • @AmerieFanbase
    @AmerieFanbase Рік тому +5

    That was one of the best interviews I've watched in ages

  • @Shazlahhip
    @Shazlahhip Рік тому +39

    Good interview so far but here are some of the things you should start doing
    -don’t dive straight into the issue follow up questions will lead to that
    Questions should be arranged like this:
    -when and where did you meet your husband
    -how long have you guys been dating before getting married
    - what did you like about your husband
    -what kind of the person he was prior to marriage
    -take us through your marriage
    -then you guys will talk about the divorce after she unpacked her marriage……
    Maybe you can also ask about the romantic thing her husband has ever done for her….
    Haven’t done watching though…

    • @joyofficial6867
      @joyofficial6867 Рік тому +2

      You are so right,I hope you watched unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja she had that great way of asking questions and everything will just unfold Naturally throughout the conversation.

    • @pn4640
      @pn4640 Рік тому

      Exactly, this is a good interview but it started all over it almost became exhausting

  • @monie-M
    @monie-M Рік тому +3

    Nice one so informative🤗

  • @CAROS_FITNESS
    @CAROS_FITNESS Рік тому +4

    Your potcast is the real deal and we really appreciate those raw true stories 🎉🤝

  • @BridgeMA29
    @BridgeMA29 Рік тому +8

    Owamie Owamie Owamie! This is the ninja I followed years ago. I am not even 5 minutes into watching, but I can see this is meant for you. 🎉🎉🎉
    As much as sometimes we dont agree with your opinions but this here is taking you places. Keep it up.

  • @bahumimatebesi8000
    @bahumimatebesi8000 Рік тому +8

    I like that Owamie allows her guests to talk and doesn’t interject.. you’ll grow from here Ninja..

  • @ntombisepeng8519
    @ntombisepeng8519 6 місяців тому

    Your second episode makes you younger and more beautiful than before you married. Umuhle dali very beautiful. I want to go to that center in Cape Town , you came out splendid.❤❤❤

  • @lolo_nem
    @lolo_nem Рік тому +13

    Oh Vulry, I am so sorry you had to go through what you went through. You are gorgeous and always have been and deserve the best. Take care and keep glowing ❤

  • @que_fela
    @que_fela Рік тому +6

    Ey bethuna some people go through the most ngekhe! Glad you survived sis. Well done ninja! I agree that it would be good to work on the intro of the conversation a bit more but all in all, job well done mama ❤

  • @primmyntuli
    @primmyntuli Рік тому +18

    Vulry seems like a down to earth wholesome woman. I Pray she finds somebody who will cherish and love her truly, because she deserves it. Awww bless her heart 🙏🏽🤍🕯️.

    • @Debs567
      @Debs567 Рік тому +1

      Absolutely ❤
      May God give her the true love of her life, and also help her to trust again especially after all that happened 😢

  • @poppiekhumalo
    @poppiekhumalo Рік тому +7

    I'm proud of you Owami keep pushing this it was meant for you.❤

  • @Employment_with_Sihle
    @Employment_with_Sihle Рік тому +12

    I hope our lady heals from this horrific experience

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 Рік тому +56

    Representing all the male ninjas....

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali Рік тому +2

      Yaaassss! 😂

    • @mmathemak7078
      @mmathemak7078 Рік тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @itsmeChun
      @itsmeChun Рік тому

      So kee my brother what are you representing here 😂😂😂

  • @Alegria-Alegria
    @Alegria-Alegria Рік тому +12

    @ Owamie, love bombing can last for years. I was love bombed for over a year. They show their true colors once they have you firmly in their grip, e.g getting engaged or married

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_ Рік тому +15

    Bathong, such a gorgeous woman . He fumbled

  • @keletsomodipane9239
    @keletsomodipane9239 Рік тому +3

    A job well done Owamie. Keep going, you're doing great

  • @mandisimaake2497
    @mandisimaake2497 Рік тому +4

    I liked the video before i even listened..thats how powerful you are ma'am ❤

  • @NormaJileka
    @NormaJileka Рік тому +3

    Its screaming low self esteem and no confidence for this man.. he was consistently seeking for validation even he couldn’t believe she said yes to marrying him

  • @sinokuhlengcai3287
    @sinokuhlengcai3287 Рік тому +9

    The quality of this podcast 💯💯💯

  • @ceciliamayinunu359
    @ceciliamayinunu359 Рік тому +1

    I wish ur content can be on TV because is not everyone that can afford to watch online so that everyone can see and no be victims, you are doing a great job my sister

  • @ntsakon_
    @ntsakon_ Рік тому +17

    This man was so “perfect” yho!! How did he even pull such off? So scary

  • @Sukoluhle88
    @Sukoluhle88 Рік тому +9

    As women we've been through a lot, to be called izimbokodo is an understatement struu bob🤞 just that we all not saying our stories because wow

  • @porsh18
    @porsh18 Рік тому

    First time watching and it was worth it! This is raw and real,great job Owamie!🙌🏽👏🏽I can’t wait for part 2🙏🏽❤️

  • @Just_Mishi
    @Just_Mishi Рік тому +17

    Tjo I'm scared of Mjolo, these guys are really narcissistic. I think I'll camp in the singlehood cz dzi khou vhuya.

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 Рік тому +29

    6 weeks without is nothing compared to a year and half I had none but married . The spoils didn’t stop. I got LVs, Guccis , D&Gs , BMW and Sandton boutiques spoils .

  • @Drip3657
    @Drip3657 Рік тому +2

    A ninja this one😅❤, I'm going to subscribe .
    Queen ninja's facials😂😂😂❤❤😂

  • @MrsMax2009
    @MrsMax2009 Рік тому +4

    Im sorry cc for all that you went through..God is with you...ALWAYS

  • @tfa4782
    @tfa4782 Рік тому +9

    She is a good story teller 😢😢

  • @BaneleNtuli-x4o
    @BaneleNtuli-x4o 5 місяців тому

    This man has mustered his assignments..Thank your God ..

  • @adelaidesisasenkosi6361
    @adelaidesisasenkosi6361 Рік тому

    Yhooo Owami, I must say you look and sound very different your other Chanel… like different in a good way. Very calm, poise, lady like and good listener. Even your hand gestures are aligned to the conversation you were having.

  • @kat-matt
    @kat-matt Рік тому +8

    At the beginning I just thought and felt like Owami was tempted to say “let’s dive into this “Chende” 😅😂❤

  • @cindymashau6372
    @cindymashau6372 Рік тому +9

    This was so inspirational.... and we thank the Lord the she had the strength to get out. She will find her Prince Charming..... By the way, what is the name of the guests channel ? ❤

  • @LeraN05
    @LeraN05 Рік тому +28

    This guy treated her so well ,I totally get why she never suspected anything. He was always home ,always calling there was literally no hints of it

    • @lebom2456
      @lebom2456 Рік тому +1

      Ankere

    • @Namy689
      @Namy689 Рік тому

      haibo i am shooketh

    • @nenephillipus6302
      @nenephillipus6302 Рік тому +1

      I think she is not telling us the whole truth

    • @kimblingstinga4835
      @kimblingstinga4835 Рік тому +1

      My baby father do me the same thing treat me good etc..n I shock 😲 when 2 woman fighting over him

    • @marlenenoubet4927
      @marlenenoubet4927 Рік тому +2

      Some men are truly actors out here.