Yes I Am A Nigerian Man And No I Am Not A Ritualist, My Side Of The Story

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  • @OwamieEntertainment
    @OwamieEntertainment  12 днів тому +86

    Guys Part 2 has more rounded details so please watch part 2 aswell ❤❤

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm 12 днів тому +16

      @@OwamieEntertainment on it ninja! This guy is making sense to be honest

    • @thikazinobaza687
      @thikazinobaza687 12 днів тому +8

      Yey now that I have watched part 2 I don’t know anymore because he is making sense

    • @Sunshine_INFJ
      @Sunshine_INFJ 12 днів тому +12

      @@OwamieEntertainment part 2 made me question our sister. Why would she want to hold on to possessions gained through r1tuals or s@crifice of her baby. A normal person would run and want nothing mara she wants it all. Soft life fela.

    • @promyceemashala_90
      @promyceemashala_90 12 днів тому

      @@Sunshine_INFJ 💯

    • @thathappened2009
      @thathappened2009 11 днів тому +1

      @@Vv-fl2rmi agree with you. The woman is dramatic

  • @oh.eulanda
    @oh.eulanda 12 днів тому +283

    Now this is journalism !! Being impartial in you reporting news.
    Big ups to you Ninja. ❤

    • @user-oe5ri6pe2z
      @user-oe5ri6pe2z 12 днів тому +3

      All lies

    • @oh.eulanda
      @oh.eulanda 12 днів тому

      @@user-oe5ri6pe2z you're bored clearly

    • @zeeelove9259
      @zeeelove9259 12 днів тому

      He's a lier and a ritualist i would surprise if hes not a drug dealer.

    • @Bee-dp3st
      @Bee-dp3st 12 днів тому

      @@user-oe5ri6pe2zComment went over your head! 😅

    • @innocentkaramuta8200
      @innocentkaramuta8200 9 днів тому +3

      I think the man is a narcissist

  • @oh.eulanda
    @oh.eulanda 12 днів тому +419

    Both of these stories have truths and lies in between.

    • @bent.khobotlo4165
      @bent.khobotlo4165 12 днів тому +8

      100%

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 12 днів тому +9

      You weren't there,so don't dispute anything...I'm a Nigerian too,there's no short cut in making money!

    • @darkskinfatgirl0147
      @darkskinfatgirl0147 12 днів тому

      ​@@nosiphimalaza1974NIGERan but you are Nosipho

    • @GalaletsangSeema
      @GalaletsangSeema 12 днів тому +23

      I was about to say the same.. her story also had gaps I picked up on so does his

    • @oh.eulanda
      @oh.eulanda 12 днів тому +3

      @@nosiphimalaza1974 so the inconsistencies in both stories don't tell you anything? Okay.

  • @relebohilelebatla6148
    @relebohilelebatla6148 12 днів тому +87

    Am I the only one that wasn’t expecting this man to look like this?😂😂😂😂😂 I had a picture of a man that’s scary in my head 😂😂😂😂

  • @bongkangqeleni-oq5qw
    @bongkangqeleni-oq5qw 8 днів тому +16

    He is making me nauseous, he will never convince me,liar narcissist manipulator, "spiritual person"😮

  • @InnocentFlamingoBirds-or2yc
    @InnocentFlamingoBirds-or2yc 12 днів тому +125

    When a man says he doesn’t want marriage believe him.

    • @jayak8217
      @jayak8217 11 днів тому +12

      More importantly if you're the one who has to call a man for yall to talk, leave that man alone.

    • @shellymukwambuyuy3786
      @shellymukwambuyuy3786 4 дні тому

      @@jayak8217 women will never understand, and it’s a hard pill to swallow

    • @nubianqueen6700
      @nubianqueen6700 11 годин тому +1

      Never let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you, and that doesn't have to be in words.

  • @user-kz7jo4dx7f
    @user-kz7jo4dx7f 12 днів тому +302

    Sexual immorality destroys souls And ties souls. Let's fear the Lord.

    • @luyandakhanyi1018
      @luyandakhanyi1018 12 днів тому +25

      very true. FEAR sex unless you are having it with your husband or wife that you married in the presence of Gog almighty.

    • @peacegracemercy5445
      @peacegracemercy5445 12 днів тому +6

      Truth.

    • @unathi_pinky
      @unathi_pinky 12 днів тому +4

      But this spiritual person didn’t know that 🙈

    • @Vee-1424
      @Vee-1424 12 днів тому +2

      ​@unathi_pinky 😂😂😂😂😂 yoh classic

    • @Sunshine_INFJ
      @Sunshine_INFJ 12 днів тому +2

      @@unathi_pinky he f'd around and found out

  • @TebogoLloydMashitisho
    @TebogoLloydMashitisho 12 днів тому +38

    the way this guy is clearing his throat is like he is creating lies after lies 😂😂

    • @bettymongatane338
      @bettymongatane338 6 днів тому +1

      I was abt to comment dat😅

    • @ugdickson
      @ugdickson 6 днів тому

      Stop this rubbish judgemental spirit

    • @ditalamokwele9078
      @ditalamokwele9078 5 днів тому +1

      I agree with u that's what i do when I lie 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ThatMissP
      @ThatMissP 5 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂l'm afraid l share the same sentiments

    • @shellymukwambuyuy3786
      @shellymukwambuyuy3786 4 дні тому

      @@ditalamokwele9078 it was too much man, from the beginning of the video to the end 😂😂😂

  • @lifewithqueenSolo
    @lifewithqueenSolo 11 днів тому +33

    I love how Owamie allows her guests to talk with no interruptions. Professional interviewer 👌👌

  • @motshabimorulane8023
    @motshabimorulane8023 12 днів тому +294

    The 'spiritual person' part is giving that ritualistic vibe.

  • @breakitdown2561
    @breakitdown2561 12 днів тому +113

    This person listened to the women's interview and practiced the responses and his story, these people can lie, you'll remember how Michael lied after Angelo saw how he was scamming her

    • @cleoisaac2140
      @cleoisaac2140 12 днів тому +5

      😂😂😂I know. And now he's in America

    • @preciousmatenzenichatukuta7288
      @preciousmatenzenichatukuta7288 12 днів тому

      @@cleoisaac2140 and on top of that, not with Angelo 2 months after arriving in the States!

    • @Sbongile962
      @Sbongile962 12 днів тому +4

      Angela is abusive so nje they deserve each other

    • @julialally1378
      @julialally1378 12 днів тому +1

      Aaaaah my guy, iyooo*claponce*😂😂😂

    • @bofelomatlhare5819
      @bofelomatlhare5819 12 днів тому

      Felt the same way its like a questionnaire

  • @thikazinobaza687
    @thikazinobaza687 12 днів тому +23

    😂😂😂Ai this guy is a liar shame. I love how Owami is diplomatic about exposing him 😂

    • @aphiweK
      @aphiweK 9 днів тому

      I also don’t believe this guy

    • @SirMulapa
      @SirMulapa 8 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂😂 Owamie can't only expose your childish comment. The guy is sincere, he married a liar.

    • @susansibanda879
      @susansibanda879 8 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂❤

    • @lorrainemounts2416
      @lorrainemounts2416 5 днів тому

      I don't believe a single word he says especially about cheating.

  • @Nonoologbonorie2111
    @Nonoologbonorie2111 12 днів тому +27

    Mina I'm married to a Nigerian Igbo man for 8 years now n we very happy n he's a loving husband n the provider, we dated 2 years before gt married even my family loves him n he's family loves me

    • @uchennanwosu2488
      @uchennanwosu2488 11 днів тому +1

      Showing tap to talk❤❤❤❤🎉😂😂😂😂🎉❤❤❤😊

    • @sifisosithole9631
      @sifisosithole9631 10 днів тому +3

      Hay ninezibindi Nonhlanhla😮

    • @hamstarize
      @hamstarize 10 днів тому +1

      I think the key thing here is to take your time to get to know someone

    • @tl3482
      @tl3482 9 днів тому +2

      ​@hamstarize take your time with Nigerian 😂😂😂

    • @sadraolaedo4733
      @sadraolaedo4733 7 днів тому +6

      Your comment is INSENSITIVE. We are talking about abuse, you are here flaunting that your husband loves you

  • @omphe9673
    @omphe9673 12 днів тому +61

    This man is a script writer. That's all I'm saying.

  • @HillsLifestyle
    @HillsLifestyle 12 днів тому +69

    Story teller,lies,story does not add up,throat clearing ...

    • @bongekilekhumalo7485
      @bongekilekhumalo7485 12 днів тому +2

      Story story😂😂😂😂

    • @neomalete5832
      @neomalete5832 12 днів тому +5

      Yoh the throat clearing is so disturbing 😭😭😭😭😭 kere I felt like I was listening to my ex trying to manipulate me

  • @princesstshilidziramabulan7772
    @princesstshilidziramabulan7772 12 днів тому +62

    Linda's story made me question the authenticity of it, she sounded like a lady who wanted soft life from a Nigerian man. It's my opinion.

    • @Mantsha-Makgopa
      @Mantsha-Makgopa 12 днів тому +2

      💯

    • @feziwemotshabi3096
      @feziwemotshabi3096 9 днів тому +3

      I thought so too.

    • @acidaliadoutora3143
      @acidaliadoutora3143 9 днів тому +3

      I thought the same thing, i mean i saw her 👀 lightening when talking about the lifestyle the guy provided

    • @shellymukwambuyuy3786
      @shellymukwambuyuy3786 9 днів тому +3

      Like honestly,Thank you for saying it out love ❤️

    • @seuna.8438
      @seuna.8438 8 днів тому +4

      Correct. In her story, she said someone told her a few years ago that the guy is a ritualist, but she stayput. I think she's just cooking up the ritualist story to seek sympathy. She's not working, but driving luxurious cars and wearing designer wears, yet she complained the guy was not taking care of her.

  • @vuyojebe838
    @vuyojebe838 11 днів тому +14

    Listen… this one has the gift of the gab. Smooth talker. I believe her story

  • @sontogumede989
    @sontogumede989 12 днів тому +176

    Body language full of lies

    • @phumlasimandla4641
      @phumlasimandla4641 12 днів тому +4

      That is true

    • @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6
      @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6 12 днів тому +6

      You're so right... I'm looking at that too, body language gives a liar vibe..I don't buy his story

    • @ccmma1844
      @ccmma1844 12 днів тому +11

      I have listened and listened and I am beginning to understand the whole story. I know where he is coming from. She is acting very insecure 100 percent. I know it will be difficult for some people to believe this guy. I definitely understand d whole thing. This guy is really saying d truth.

    • @user-wh2jl9ze4w
      @user-wh2jl9ze4w 12 днів тому

      ​@@ccmma1844I agree with you here

    • @ln7087
      @ln7087 12 днів тому +1

      Everytime he lies , he makes that throat sound.

  • @breakitdown2561
    @breakitdown2561 12 днів тому +294

    No the clearing of throat 👀 is a sign of not being truthful

  • @curvykay6232
    @curvykay6232 12 днів тому +23

    lol ayi Nigerians have a reputation Shem. Our sisters are brave that’s all I can say. I rather be single that even hear a Nigerian whisper in my ear 😅

    • @mmeme5861
      @mmeme5861 12 днів тому +2

      Me too.....😂 never

    • @nobuhlemkhize8552
      @nobuhlemkhize8552 10 днів тому +1

      Me too wiiiiiiii🚮

    • @annmhlongo6053
      @annmhlongo6053 9 днів тому

      😂😅😂😂

    • @Joycealexander884
      @Joycealexander884 7 днів тому

      😅😅😅

    • @user-qi1pk2ss3e
      @user-qi1pk2ss3e 4 дні тому

      You're lying can your men pay your bills like Nigerians? All races love Nigerian men even Americans, you live in your cottages dissing Nigerian men

  • @thandikamase5484
    @thandikamase5484 7 днів тому +5

    Guys I have had an ex boyfriend who was a Narcissist.. when we busy doing our shopping he would see ghost and his own things. When,
    I get home it will be a hell of a fight. I would be questioned about who was that man who was looking at you when you were picking up a 5kg of sugar.
    How sick can a person be

  • @Margret-kisakye
    @Margret-kisakye 12 днів тому +104

    The issue with Nigerians is if you listen to them, you will believe them 😂.
    I now believe the guy 😅

  • @Luthando.exclusives
    @Luthando.exclusives 12 днів тому +62

    Since hes such a spiritual person how did he not know that he should not even sleep with her. also why didnt his "spirits" advice him not to get together with her...I believe the lady..

    • @yojjjyoj1116
      @yojjjyoj1116 12 днів тому +3

      He said he didn’t touch her the first night because he felt it was

    • @user-wc4ls9gt6s
      @user-wc4ls9gt6s 11 днів тому +2

      You believe the woman, but i believe the men

    • @florencemonama2953
      @florencemonama2953 11 днів тому +1

      Maybe his spirit does selective reading,they go for vacation if they want🫣🫣

    • @genvvy1024
      @genvvy1024 9 днів тому +1

      Because the spirit and the flesh are always at war. Check your bible well

  • @lifewithqueenSolo
    @lifewithqueenSolo 11 днів тому +9

    "She was not my type" But you approachd her 🙄🙄... WOW!

    • @dikeledimapeelo1378
      @dikeledimapeelo1378 2 дні тому

      HER SPIRIT IS THE ONE THAT MADE HIM GO FOR HER, THIS MAN IS A RITUALIS I BET,

    • @tabithaakinyi1555
      @tabithaakinyi1555 13 годин тому

      Then had unprotected sex with not his type of a woman so quickly? When not ready for marriage? Here in kenya the new generation are so smart they don't give these ogas audience at all.The yester years girls learned the hard way,our african brothers can lie for Africa 😂

  • @lizaferrao6379
    @lizaferrao6379 12 днів тому +35

    No women in her right mind will neet someone for the 1st time and start telling them about korobela. Hes clearly lying.

    • @mandisandlovu20
      @mandisandlovu20 10 днів тому

      InJoburg they do, if you go to saloon that's the conversation in hillbrow saloons, saloon ladies are saying all those nonsense for sex and what not

    • @lorrainemounts2416
      @lorrainemounts2416 5 днів тому

      Clearly! He's been lying since he opened his mouth.

  • @rosaliembarikiwa592
    @rosaliembarikiwa592 12 днів тому +65

    So why don't you grant her the divorce so that you are out of each other's life???

    • @lorrainemounts2416
      @lorrainemounts2416 5 днів тому +1

      Because he is lying. He said she reached out to him, but he reached out to her. I guess he's going to lie and say this woman invited him on her show to speak. But in fact, he asked to come to clear his name.

    • @dikeledimapeelo1378
      @dikeledimapeelo1378 2 дні тому

      ONCE AND FOR ALL

    • @roxyweka
      @roxyweka 3 години тому

      She can apply for divorce and he can't stop her.
      They will.give her divorce by default if he doesn't show up.

  • @Finewyn
    @Finewyn 12 днів тому +191

    Narcissists never take accountability or admit any wrongdoing,so I will take his side with a pinch of salt and a bombastic 👀

    • @breakitdown2561
      @breakitdown2561 12 днів тому +7

      Yoh not the narcissists I've met they will gaslight you

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 12 днів тому +1

      Yup!! BOMBASTIC SIDE EYE👀

    • @linah2099
      @linah2099 12 днів тому +3

      Very true, they think they have all the right answers

    • @crimestoriesSA
      @crimestoriesSA 11 днів тому

      You people abuse the word narcissistist. Do u even know what that means ??? Yho !!!! Haaai labora hle

    • @user-wc4ls9gt6s
      @user-wc4ls9gt6s 11 днів тому

      SA women always right in everything

  • @simamkelencapayi5457
    @simamkelencapayi5457 11 днів тому +21

    I don't believe him, he is a calm STORM not thunder but LIGHTNING ⚡
    Very dangerous this one😂😂

    • @jmpete1
      @jmpete1 7 днів тому +2

      That is exactly how narcissists behave

    • @juddysusan1114
      @juddysusan1114 3 дні тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤I like your comment

  • @lungelolamula7075
    @lungelolamula7075 12 днів тому +41

    This guy is such a narcissist 😂😂😂 Everything is her fault:
    "I didnt want to have sex with her, she asked me"
    "I didnt want a child, she didnt drink morning after"
    "I didnt want marriage, she forced me"
    "I didnt want her to move in, she forced me"
    🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @hamstarize
      @hamstarize 10 днів тому +5

      Thank you! Watch people say the word is being abused but the signs are there like there there

    • @tl3482
      @tl3482 9 днів тому +1

      "Not my type"

    • @SirMulapa
      @SirMulapa 8 днів тому +3

      But he's right.... She forced everything. How could every now be his fault? 🤔

    • @excelmotivationalvibes5617
      @excelmotivationalvibes5617 8 днів тому +5

      That is the duties of a nasis. Its all your fault. They completely make you forget who you are.

    • @Chy_Udeh
      @Chy_Udeh 8 днів тому +1

      Really! What a poor understanding of narcissism you have. It was the lady who made him lose his friends, used her pregnancy to move into his home and as a bait to move in with him and get married. Sneaking around, telling false stroies about the guy, trying to use her name on the property the guy acquired even before they got married, etc. Are you serious? You can do better.

  • @rosaliahmoepi4153
    @rosaliahmoepi4153 12 днів тому +121

    South African women are brave,with all these scary story on the internet about Nigerian,they still marry them, These ones will gaslight you until you question your own sanity

    • @NEOzzzar
      @NEOzzzar 12 днів тому +5

      Easy pickings and they are loud about it 😂😂

    • @bofelomatlhare5819
      @bofelomatlhare5819 12 днів тому +12

      Very true,u can tell he can make u apologise for something u did not do😢

    • @refilwemosase
      @refilwemosase 12 днів тому +4

      Exactly 😂😂😂

    • @nezisanogumla9730
      @nezisanogumla9730 12 днів тому +4

      They status hungry that’s why sell their soul for jollofs

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 12 днів тому +6

      @@rosaliahmoepi4153 Can ur brother marry such a women with evil agendas,why was ur sister hiding her kid from him?imagine that young guy,married old lady lik her.She still complain. Making her 3 different marriages,she really had a problem

  • @MelaninofSA
    @MelaninofSA 12 днів тому +79

    This is just a case of two people who knew they don’t love each other trying to do life together! Also taking into consideration that even a relationship of two people who are in love is hard as it is this was a recipe for disaster. I don’t believe any of them I think they were a mismatch. Perfect example of not to stay in a broken relationship for kids! Kids will be ok in a healthy co parenting relationship.

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo 12 днів тому +2

      You took the words right out of my mouth👌

    • @nkosmarv839
      @nkosmarv839 11 днів тому +8

      The girl wanted a good life, guy probably wanted Citizenship

    • @jacquamine
      @jacquamine 11 днів тому +2

      Exactly, plus cultural differences.

    • @matildashawa1482
      @matildashawa1482 10 днів тому +1

      How come he keeps having dreams 😮

  • @ThembelihleBHlubi
    @ThembelihleBHlubi 12 днів тому +9

    “ I don’t judge people” means exactly the opposite 😂 well done Owamie you kept ur composure 😘

  • @QueenGeeTheDj
    @QueenGeeTheDj 12 днів тому +8

    Ladies lets empower ourselves by being financially independent,please work hard for your money and never rely on someone's else wallet,your financially freedom is your strength and security,cz I keep on asking myself uba yena uSisi wahlalelani kwi relationship etoxic kangaka...
    Khona into abangasixeleli yona bobayi 2 aba...

  • @disekomotsepe
    @disekomotsepe 12 днів тому +131

    I feel that both of them have manipulated the story. Now we need the truth 😢

    • @zamokuhlemkwanazi5350
      @zamokuhlemkwanazi5350 11 днів тому +4

      Who will tell us the truth😢

    • @refiloe.b
      @refiloe.b 11 днів тому

      @@zamokuhlemkwanazi5350the lady’s teenage daughter

    • @annienai
      @annienai 11 днів тому

      True

    • @sasaskitchen2435
      @sasaskitchen2435 11 днів тому

      We will never know the truth it seems 😢

    • @sithandilebiyela1713
      @sithandilebiyela1713 9 днів тому +1

      But all im hearing here is “stuff and stuff” ey this guy is lying. I believe the part of not loving the lady but everything else is not dibaning is just not making sure.

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu 12 днів тому +37

    Glad that mo guy showed his face, now I know to not even listen to him should he ever approach me one day😂🙏😭

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 12 днів тому

      I'm here ooo,from Naija too

    • @TheeMsutu
      @TheeMsutu 12 днів тому

      How did you get a South African name?! 😭Bathong wena?! 😅

    • @_.hlengi
      @_.hlengi 12 днів тому

      ​@nosiphimalaza1974 njani oe😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sifisosithole9631
      @sifisosithole9631 10 днів тому

      ​@@TheeMsutuThe first person to defend the guy,on that woman episodes

    • @carlotcastigo5416
      @carlotcastigo5416 7 днів тому

      It takes alot to show your face after being accused of some many things is he innocent i dont only both of them know the truth.

  • @marthakaundamuhera5154
    @marthakaundamuhera5154 12 днів тому +4

    I believe everything he said. There's no way you'd want a ritualist money knowing exactly he's a ritualist

  • @pl3312
    @pl3312 10 днів тому +4

    Remember how she said he’ll listen to you complain and when you done he’ll revert back to you! He’s doing exactly that!! All her points he’s deflecting and reverting back to her!!!

  • @sugabooify
    @sugabooify 12 днів тому +150

    They used each other, he wanted a child she wanted money.

    • @angelamhlongo7304
      @angelamhlongo7304 12 днів тому +19

      This is actually the best explanation coz you can tell the lies and truths in both parts of their stories.

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 12 днів тому +14

      You're right my sister,and this issue of believing in sangomas...instead of worshipping God and believing in God!

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo 12 днів тому

      I agree🤞

    • @sugabooify
      @sugabooify 12 днів тому +8

      The fact that she hid 2 kids🙌🏾

    • @mamososomapolanka3697
      @mamososomapolanka3697 12 днів тому +4

      Case closed

  • @estherdeus2952
    @estherdeus2952 12 днів тому +37

    For us who we once dated Igbo men , it’s easy to tell who days the truth this Igbo will do something and make you feel it’s your fault and even make you apologize for his own mistakes chaiiii toxicity men🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @ln7087
    @ln7087 12 днів тому +4

    OH MY WORD IGBO’S … This guy, I believe her after hearing this nonsense.

  • @nomfunekonosilela3895
    @nomfunekonosilela3895 12 днів тому +43

    I am listening only for entertainment but I don't care what he says I believe the lady,

    • @tl3482
      @tl3482 9 днів тому

      Me too

  • @phumlasimandla4641
    @phumlasimandla4641 12 днів тому +80

    South African we must not listen this man is a liar😢😢😢

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 12 днів тому +8

      But for him to be there,and clarify him self..it's not an act of innocence?

    • @user-hu3qu6jt3u
      @user-hu3qu6jt3u 12 днів тому +5

      He lied about everything?

    • @Indileni_Ndjoba
      @Indileni_Ndjoba 12 днів тому +11

      Narcissists will do anything to clear their image

    • @Cenah_123
      @Cenah_123 12 днів тому +2

      @@nosiphimalaza1974its not and we not buying it sorry !!

    • @Zee_n1098
      @Zee_n1098 12 днів тому +12

      What if she is lying cause things didn't go the way she wanted cause in her story she didn't mention anything about loving the guy and yet she still went on and married him which makes sense when he says she initiated the marriage and he went for it cause he wanted to be there for the child which she was planning to take away from him.. From his side he made it clear he was never attracted to her, hense he was giving the phone to his friends when they were on call... Wasn't that a clear sign on her side that the guy wasn't fully interested.
      Mna ndithi u Girl saw a catch and wanted to put her calws in there.... Us women are very quick to run to the internet with half the truth of the entire story. She got herself into this mess. Laba never loved each other and at least the guy was clear about it, even approaching her wasn't as direct as someone who was really smitten and wanted a serious thing with her. Ayi

  • @mayongegbe1811
    @mayongegbe1811 12 днів тому +3

    I am glad,he aired his side of the story,dear south African sisters if you are dating or married to a West African man , resist the urge to correct him in public, be respectful and nurturing to him and his family, coz that is what these men consider as love , i believe this guy ,the deception from the onset was not a good sign...... let the truth prevail

  • @naledindlovu976
    @naledindlovu976 12 днів тому +490

    Whatever he's got to say I believe the woman 😢🤘

  • @kandykamanya4970
    @kandykamanya4970 12 днів тому +198

    My spirit is telling me i cant believe his story.😂

    • @MRSMumba
      @MRSMumba 12 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 12 днів тому +2

      @@kandykamanya4970 BOOM 💥 😂😂😂😂

    • @Joalane-ej7ii
      @Joalane-ej7ii 12 днів тому +10

      Even before I listen im already questioning things

    • @tshidioageng6918
      @tshidioageng6918 12 днів тому +6

      Iyoo my heart is pounding...I can sense darkness in his eyes

    • @user-pc3es6hg8b
      @user-pc3es6hg8b 12 днів тому

      ​@@tshidioageng6918Same here

  • @winniedlamini5177
    @winniedlamini5177 2 дні тому +2

    I feel bad for this guy. His nationality is putting him at a disadvantage. I think this was suppose to be a one night stand but things ended up getting complicated

  • @famegotyousick1175
    @famegotyousick1175 12 днів тому +2

    LET's NOT JUDGE is best we listen and learn . Africa is a beautiful . much love Owamie 💗

  • @mellowdeemukabi8901
    @mellowdeemukabi8901 12 днів тому +130

    Linda already said he's good at building up stories and that's what he's doing right here..... the throat clearing though 😂😂😂....much love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 Ninja

    • @user-oy8xj4lr3g
      @user-oy8xj4lr3g 12 днів тому +15

      Yes,Kenya in the house clearing throat is a sign of thinking for another lie.

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 12 днів тому +4

      As long as someone can keep talking and they say "remember when I told you" and saying "and stuff and stuff"

    • @user-hu3qu6jt3u
      @user-hu3qu6jt3u 12 днів тому +4

      She kept a whole child a secret, please

    • @mamasolomon5949
      @mamasolomon5949 12 днів тому +8

      Your rite
      His creating thing
      Like he do in the movies

    • @user-hu3qu6jt3u
      @user-hu3qu6jt3u 12 днів тому +4

      I'd feel he same about a person that tricked and trapped me into marriage, lied about having 2 kids

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 12 днів тому +185

    “For a relationship to work; you must be BLIND AND DEAF…” 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣weeeeeeeeh

    • @Lesegoredenche
      @Lesegoredenche 12 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @lebom2456
      @lebom2456 12 днів тому +3

      @@Elizabeth-vu1tb I heard that too 😅

    • @phililemosia6956
      @phililemosia6956 12 днів тому +19

      ​@@lebom2456the lady though was too desperate to move in before getting to knw each other or to build connection, staying together mst be at the level where u both know each other not for someone who is after money . The mentality to be seen by ur Soweto frnds tht u are nw dating Nigerian and cn drive big cars , ai there's a lot here tht went wrong frm the beginning

    • @elvisndlovu1232
      @elvisndlovu1232 12 днів тому +1

      @@Elizabeth-vu1tb chaaaiiiiii

    • @hopolangphakoe610
      @hopolangphakoe610 12 днів тому

      😅

  • @aphiwemqomboti
    @aphiwemqomboti 12 днів тому +4

    Lol Owamie looking so serious! Ngathi her Venda eye is woke😂❤

  • @lulu2L
    @lulu2L 12 днів тому

    Thank you Owamie for this, it’s lovely to have both sides of the story.

  • @mzansicatchup1098
    @mzansicatchup1098 12 днів тому +72

    Both sides of the story sana❤

    • @mpoimatete7269
      @mpoimatete7269 12 днів тому +6

      Owamie is a SHE beast hle jooo I love her❤

    • @hildadavids217
      @hildadavids217 12 днів тому +8

      I am a woman, but this lady is very malicious. Why must you share your problems with the internet. Move on and stop doing things. I am South African by the way.

    • @mpoimatete7269
      @mpoimatete7269 12 днів тому +1

      @hildadavids217 I totally understand your point of view but I think she was scared and sometimes we must understand when we are vulnerable we do make mistakes somewhat you might see this as being malicious or as a mistake but her views are different and this might help other ladies not to repeat the same mistakes.

  • @Winterflowers1
    @Winterflowers1 12 днів тому +170

    The shock on my face when I saw this👀

  • @learnwithme322
    @learnwithme322 12 днів тому +3

    I'm 10 mins in but I can already smell lies. Victimhood! Victimhood! He doesn't have 1 positive thing to say about a woman he married???

  • @queenmathabatha8371
    @queenmathabatha8371 11 днів тому

    Interviewing skills - 100% great quality Owami. Cleaned it like a true ninja !!

  • @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp
    @SetsabileDlamini-pp9xp 12 днів тому +36

    He was coming along right and i was listening with an open mind he lost me when he said "you have to be blind and deaf" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅

    • @MelaninofSA
      @MelaninofSA 12 днів тому +2

      A lot of women do this guys let’s not act like he said something out of the ordinary even your gran mothers and aunts tell you this when you get married. Moral of the story is if you go looking you will find 😅.

    • @seuna.8438
      @seuna.8438 10 днів тому +1

      If partners are tailgating each other, it means there is no trust in the first place. Why are you with someone you don't trust. I won't totally support being totally deaf and dumb, it has to be at minimal level.

    • @lillianaboo8007
      @lillianaboo8007 10 днів тому

      What's Linda's TikTok account

    • @MbaliKM
      @MbaliKM 10 днів тому

      Me too😂😂😂

    • @annmhlongo6053
      @annmhlongo6053 9 днів тому

      And only women must be "blind and deaf"

  • @thembimaseko9600
    @thembimaseko9600 12 днів тому +69

    This man is a charmer feel pity for girls in South Africa who don't think twice. Is a film maker have you seen those movies or they are watched in Nigeria.

  • @rita_TM
    @rita_TM 12 днів тому +3

    Sometimes not telling your side of the story speaks volumes.

  • @teekay543
    @teekay543 12 днів тому +13

    This guy is very calm. That lady is very angry and she is accusing him of murder without evidence. I wish they both accept Jesus. Jesus can restore them.

    • @jamaquinabella3378
      @jamaquinabella3378 5 днів тому +1

      Even the devil can appear as an Angel of light.. Don't judge a book by its cover..

    • @krisayadiani4075
      @krisayadiani4075 4 дні тому

      How did you know the lady is accusing her? I'm a Nigerian

  • @khodynetshifhefhe49
    @khodynetshifhefhe49 12 днів тому +160

    I've never clicked a video so quickly! 😩

  • @sammym9259
    @sammym9259 12 днів тому +60

    Red flag...maybe she has gifts you may need on your journey😮😮😮. That's witchcraft. Not a mentorship

    • @HillsLifestyle
      @HillsLifestyle 12 днів тому +3

      Nje 😮

    • @reginamarou7825
      @reginamarou7825 12 днів тому +2

      Definitely witchcraft

    • @shirleymlombo2913
      @shirleymlombo2913 12 днів тому +2

      They are both into it.

    • @londeka6423
      @londeka6423 10 днів тому

      I noted that statement. It did not sit well with me. How can someone have gifts that will be needed by someone else

    • @SirMulapa
      @SirMulapa 8 днів тому

      Why then do you go around ask men for their money???

  • @mrsnoma1422
    @mrsnoma1422 12 днів тому +2

    Yazi sometimes it’s best to keep quiet, never explain yourself on such things 🤞🏾

  • @patiencenkosi2934
    @patiencenkosi2934 12 днів тому +3

    The guy is a liar,pure lies the body language says it all

  • @norahmaleka-lt8uv
    @norahmaleka-lt8uv 12 днів тому +51

    I don't blame you Owami for laughing, even me here I'm dead,..the facial expression kills me😂😂😂😂

  • @SimpleWithMarygold
    @SimpleWithMarygold 12 днів тому +92

    Yes it’s fair for him to share his side of the story

  • @manassehphiri9849
    @manassehphiri9849 8 днів тому +2

    You are saying the truth but no one is perfect am sure some of what your x said might be true May God protect you both ❤

  • @cebilemodondo5914
    @cebilemodondo5914 12 днів тому +149

    I don’t believe him.

    • @charlottetshwarelo8937
      @charlottetshwarelo8937 12 днів тому

      Me too

    • @mummysweet8422
      @mummysweet8422 12 днів тому +7

      You wouldn't believe him because his a Nigerian right?

    • @esthermani6376
      @esthermani6376 12 днів тому

      @@mummysweet8422 You'd be a f00l to trust a Nigerian

    • @Ashley-ym1xp
      @Ashley-ym1xp 12 днів тому +3

      For me its the way He is narating His side of the Story ,its not make sure 😂😂😂

    • @pakamamoniwa8168
      @pakamamoniwa8168 12 днів тому +1

      so am i, his mouth has ran out saliva.

  • @nomfunekonosilela3895
    @nomfunekonosilela3895 12 днів тому +32

    He is lying already about her moving herself to his place where she told us it was an old studio.

    • @Nunec
      @Nunec 12 днів тому +3

      How are u sure she's not the one that lied?

  • @ellenwilliams6129
    @ellenwilliams6129 12 днів тому +2

    There are men who have mastered the art of lying...these narcissists can manipulate any situation. You need the discernment of God to know what you dealing with .

  • @kkjj9944
    @kkjj9944 12 днів тому +3

    Igbos are intentional when it comes to marriage but problem ladies force themselves into it as long we're staying together. His being honest on that part. Its the reason the marriage is suffering. Intentions where clear right from that .

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 12 днів тому +39

    That comment you are looking for write it yourself, me im scared.... abi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @queenm2723
      @queenm2723 12 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @preciousnxumalo9877
      @preciousnxumalo9877 12 днів тому

      😂

    • @Winterflowers1
      @Winterflowers1 12 днів тому +2

      I've been thinking about writing it this whole time but I don't wanna get dragged 😅

    • @Glm8
      @Glm8 12 днів тому +6

      I have already said a lot in my head😂😂😂😂😂

    • @cleoisaac2140
      @cleoisaac2140 12 днів тому +2

      ​@@Winterflowers1what is it ninja please whisper to me😂I'm behind sana

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 12 днів тому +57

    I would love to know what his dream girl is or was? Sounds more physical like a baddie but what annoys me is why approach her? I feel like some men will just disturb women for no reason 😢😢😢😢😢 He clearly never liked her from the start

    • @Bestes2177
      @Bestes2177 12 днів тому +3

      Easy is easy. Sometimes you want 7 colours but because of hunger you'll eat the noodles.

    • @Bestes2177
      @Bestes2177 12 днів тому +4

      We should learn to see the difference between hungry men and men who actually like us

    • @Zee_n1098
      @Zee_n1098 12 днів тому +11

      Even if he did approach her, why didn't she see the guy was not into him by giving his friends a phone to talk to her? Going on dates with friends when you should be having time to yourselves to know each other. She knew what was happening, condom broke with a guy she met only last week & not take a morning after.... She wanted this guy herself & jus cannot live with that truth even after so many efforts of him showing she doesn't love her. Probably she was the one always calling him & he felt bad & thought he should give it a try kanti he was inviting himself more trouble.

    • @modikiramaisa4619
      @modikiramaisa4619 12 днів тому +4

      @@Zee_n1098 that is true Zee accountability is needed on both parts. I think we often see and know but stay when in actual fact leaving early could’ve spared her years of time wasted and heartache

    • @Zee_n1098
      @Zee_n1098 12 днів тому

      @@modikiramaisa4619 Exactly. We like forcing things, he gave her all the signs from the word go BUT she stayed and expected him to treat him better when she was actually giving him signs that Okay fine use me I'm here.Girl is not clean herself

  • @lindok
    @lindok 12 днів тому +3

    So he just came here to say he IS spiritual but not in the ritualistic way😂😂😂aowa my brother

  • @thisandthat1767
    @thisandthat1767 12 днів тому +1

    The spirit was shocking Owamie there for a second 😂*cough-cough* out of the blue

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 12 днів тому +42

    I am a spiritual being. And you have a spiritual calling which is different. Haaa.... That's all we needed to hear ntate we

  • @khaliphilembhele4185
    @khaliphilembhele4185 12 днів тому +93

    You can tell his lying this dreaming thing is just nonsense

    • @diddy3122
      @diddy3122 12 днів тому +6

      Moloi eo! 😮

    • @lyliendeikemona5025
      @lyliendeikemona5025 12 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @indipendentopinion915
      @indipendentopinion915 12 днів тому +4

      Lol if you know a person who thwalad knows everything, they know when you consult, whatever you do they know because of the spirits they are using. That thing monitors everything for them.

    • @mapulastephinah2960
      @mapulastephinah2960 12 днів тому +2

      Monitoring spirits demons

    • @ndapewaemilie1831
      @ndapewaemilie1831 12 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @EuniceMtsweni
    @EuniceMtsweni 12 днів тому +2

    I don't understand this guy. What is really trying to tell us. It seems as if his not sure about his story

  • @missfmulovhedzi6985
    @missfmulovhedzi6985 11 днів тому +2

    It's the constant need for validation for me. And the clearing of the throat for me😂

  • @andiswamgijima6318
    @andiswamgijima6318 12 днів тому +63

    Remember the lady said this man can twist things now he is saying she's the one witching

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 12 днів тому +5

      Why was ur sister still looking to shares from the proceeds of ritualist?

    • @user-mk3de1qx6r
      @user-mk3de1qx6r 12 днів тому +1

      Narcissistic behaviour, period!

    • @sandradube4456
      @sandradube4456 12 днів тому

      Please sister, increase the volume. I don't think the people at the back heard you!
      ​@@nosiphimalaza1974

    • @ZoeJack451
      @ZoeJack451 12 днів тому

      @@andiswamgijima6318 there's no 1 will convince me to believe this guy

    • @davedanl8045
      @davedanl8045 10 днів тому

      To start both of them have their floors

  • @merrcelinemurorua7850
    @merrcelinemurorua7850 12 днів тому +20

    Owamie please allow dis man to go and cough out,he should go and cough out please...

  • @mphotant_suffo
    @mphotant_suffo 12 днів тому +1

    That "mxm"😂😂😂😂i was waiting for it

  • @GlobalTrndz
    @GlobalTrndz 12 днів тому

    Nice interview shibobo!
    First time watching on tv instead of my phone… the eyelashes are not giving babe, it’s bad bad. And you don’t need all that anyway 😘

  • @Cleo256
    @Cleo256 12 днів тому +35

    Being told by the Pastor in Nigeria hes going to meet a Sangoma ..
    And him teaching the sangoma the bible and the Sangoma teaching him about ancestors.....hhayi angizwa kahle

    • @refilwemosase
      @refilwemosase 12 днів тому +4

      😂😂😂😂Weird right?!

    • @Cleo256
      @Cleo256 12 днів тому

      @@refilwemosase tjo!

    • @nkosikhonazwane2820
      @nkosikhonazwane2820 12 днів тому +3

      I wanted to ask same thing kutsi njani? Hhayi guy lost me there

    • @Dimz7890
      @Dimz7890 12 днів тому +2

      Why is he sniffing and clearing his throat so much? Iyoh this guy lies a lot. So irritating!

    • @sasaskitchen2435
      @sasaskitchen2435 11 днів тому

      But Sangomas have been telling us we refused to listen to them 😢

  • @Tonto773
    @Tonto773 12 днів тому +77

    The fact that he didn't want to reveal his real surname and where he is from is a red flag! He doesn't want his people to be able to identify him. Owamie, you ususally ask a person's background, family.... We know the lady is from KZN but with this guy we only know that he's a NIgerian Igbo. Arrogance is written all over him. The fact that he has a South African citizenship gave him the braveness to come here. He's just here to deny everything and paint himself as a good guy.

    • @rosinamogano9545
      @rosinamogano9545 12 днів тому +4

      So if it works for him let ut be.people are hurting each other for their own reason. So lets not get involve.we should focus on ourselves.

    • @peacegracemercy5445
      @peacegracemercy5445 12 днів тому +2

      Speaking my thoughts.😊

    • @Tshepiso18
      @Tshepiso18 12 днів тому +2

      ​@rosinamogano9545 Lol, if you were really focusing on yourself, you wouldn't be on this channel.

    • @peacegracemercy5445
      @peacegracemercy5445 12 днів тому +6

      How do you joke with strangers 😮😮 you took the number of a woman you were not interested in, or was not your class.
      Just listen to yourself, Mr Spiritualist.

    • @preshikomo
      @preshikomo 12 днів тому

      @@Tshepiso18koda bakithi😂😂😂

  • @nqobilemakhathini7227
    @nqobilemakhathini7227 12 днів тому

    Yep, I’m too emotional for journalism. Thanks.
    Well done Owamie

  • @NoxoloMhlanga
    @NoxoloMhlanga 12 днів тому +37

    When he says “You get” I kept on nodding my head🥹😅😅

  • @mapuseletsomareka4385
    @mapuseletsomareka4385 12 днів тому +86

    This man is lying OOO he is twisting everything

  • @Drip3657
    @Drip3657 11 днів тому +1

    Yho Lydia is a smooth gangster😥😥💔🙌... She also knew we will blv evrything she says cause comon naao she is dealing with not just a man but a nigerian.. aowaa Lydia o tricky mama,

  • @Nelzantonnton
    @Nelzantonnton 12 днів тому +2

    Owamie you are amazing ,thank you for bringing this handsome guy

  • @letushilaalina
    @letushilaalina 12 днів тому +18

    Yoooo Owamie your questioning is top tier, plus you do not forget your thoughts...This is so brilliant Queen Ninja!!!

  • @Sukoluhle88
    @Sukoluhle88 12 днів тому +69

    Khurukhu, crook, look deep down into his eyes. Sgebengu.
    The ninja was scared but content is content 😂😂😂

    • @preshikomo
      @preshikomo 12 днів тому +7

      You reckon fear is temporary,content is forever 😂😂😂😂

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 12 днів тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @sinikiwembangi1867
      @sinikiwembangi1867 12 днів тому +3

      Khurukhu😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Kayb193
      @Kayb193 12 днів тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @user-pl9sv3nw9h
      @user-pl9sv3nw9h 12 днів тому +2

      Makhulu sgebengu this one😂

  • @xolanimhlanga7963
    @xolanimhlanga7963 12 днів тому +2

    Owamie please bring both of them on the next episode

  • @user-tt8st7yd1u
    @user-tt8st7yd1u 12 днів тому +1

    That's why it's very important to listen to both sides of the story

  • @sonwabomagida2554
    @sonwabomagida2554 12 днів тому +19

    Im Blind and Deaf ryt now with this storry hay ngeke

  • @Child_of_God.971
    @Child_of_God.971 12 днів тому +52

    Finding it hard to trust this guy 😅.. It's like he strategically planned what to say🤷‍♀️

    • @breakitdown2561
      @breakitdown2561 12 днів тому +2

      Exactly what I see

    • @cleoisaac2140
      @cleoisaac2140 12 днів тому +6

      Hence the clearing of the throat after each sentence 😂

    • @sibusiwengqwemesa9024
      @sibusiwengqwemesa9024 12 днів тому +5

      Vele he planned everything cos he watched the videos

    • @qhawekazimphelani3606
      @qhawekazimphelani3606 12 днів тому +5

      He rehased all the speach..unamanga guy and uyangikwatisa qhaphanga..they mentioned to him to sort all his mess..before they all be exposed..kancane kancane. Bayavela

    • @nosiphimalaza1974
      @nosiphimalaza1974 12 днів тому

      Hav you seen a ritualist?look at his attires,he's just a hustler unlik any other person..I'm from naija,and resides here,but not trying to defend him though!

  • @CAROS_FITNESS
    @CAROS_FITNESS 12 днів тому +10

    I feel like this guy speaks facts .

    • @anikwaannie7355
      @anikwaannie7355 11 днів тому

      I think it's true when he says she was/is not his type

  • @rafikindugu4674
    @rafikindugu4674 8 днів тому +2

    This guy his body language says it all. His story doesn't add up.

  • @malambanemavhadwe1070
    @malambanemavhadwe1070 12 днів тому +17

    Oh Owamie! You’ve become a seasoned interviewer! The way you positioned the follow up questions was perfect! 🎈🙌🏾

  • @willingnessmoyo9492
    @willingnessmoyo9492 12 днів тому +55

    This man is lying period he cramed everything beforehand😂

    • @yojjjyoj1116
      @yojjjyoj1116 12 днів тому +2

      I believe him

    • @thandazah
      @thandazah 12 днів тому

      He is lying straight 😂😂

    • @faithmokubung7741
      @faithmokubung7741 11 днів тому

      ​@yojjjyoj1116 Really believe him all you like but he is lying. We know Nigerians .

    • @willingnessmoyo9492
      @willingnessmoyo9492 11 днів тому

      @@yojjjyoj1116 But u can hear the way he's toking he's panicking akazi abambeni ashiyeni,he wanna force people to understand his side of story ncaaaaa not buying it

    • @nobuhlemkhize8552
      @nobuhlemkhize8552 10 днів тому

      These people can lie I tell you that I wiiiiiiiii
      Nigerians🚮

  • @CarolNgobese
    @CarolNgobese 12 днів тому

    Ninja my ninja... Thank you for your bravery, the things you do for the ninjas... We appreciate you 💯❤❤❤
    Final thoughts: these people never loved each other, their relationship was a means to an end for both of them...