My Nigerian Husband Stole Our Baby When I Left Him, He Took Me To Hell And Back

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 596

  • @kwetsephetla3597
    @kwetsephetla3597 2 місяці тому +87

    One thing I love about these stories is that they remind me to stop sbwling other people’s relationships 😂

  • @katlehom6008
    @katlehom6008 2 місяці тому +306

    My frnd is married to a Nigerian man, she came with 2 kids, they had the 3rd together. U wouldnt even tell 7 years later. It has nothing to do with nationality but character

    • @dollymagojo7130
      @dollymagojo7130 2 місяці тому

      West Africans don’t raise other men’s children. Your friend’s man is ONE in a million, yes it’s about nationality and their culture.
      Most men in general all over the world feel some type of way about this but most men do it especially when there’s some sort of benefit for them 😂.

    • @tebalelomarobane8496
      @tebalelomarobane8496 2 місяці тому +46

      Character is very important, even SA guy with no character they are capable of all this 😢

    • @misslee_dee_yah3596
      @misslee_dee_yah3596 2 місяці тому +6

      @katleho 💯 nje

    • @ncedolugedle8180
      @ncedolugedle8180 2 місяці тому +4

      U are do correct

    • @mandyishername
      @mandyishername 2 місяці тому +17

      Exactly. SA men also do these things to some women. Enough with the “it’s because ubeyi nigerian” 🙄 Indoda mayingakuthandi yenza the worst things to you

  • @LeonardEarnshaw
    @LeonardEarnshaw 2 місяці тому +181

    We all have our stories. There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q 2 місяці тому

      I honestly want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is strong. I really want her to come back, and I'm fully dedicated to making that happen. We've tried different paths, like therapy, to fix things.

    • @LeonardEarnshaw
      @LeonardEarnshaw 2 місяці тому

      Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.

    • @AzaniaMohlala
      @AzaniaMohlala 2 місяці тому +1

      I don't know what you advising buh you sound like you don't know what you talking about

    • @pavivapapa8964
      @pavivapapa8964 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes but some stories are stories. Some situation can not be solved. Neede to take a walk.

  • @konwabaxuba9747
    @konwabaxuba9747 2 місяці тому +178

    Am I the only one who doesn’t want to be part of the South-gerian community?

    • @MbalenhleQwabe
      @MbalenhleQwabe 2 місяці тому +7

      Nope, I'm here. You're not😅

    • @obakenglekabe4003
      @obakenglekabe4003 2 місяці тому +2

      Ya

    • @Zeei490
      @Zeei490 2 місяці тому +10

      Babe nam... Andizi, no never!!!

    • @PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk
      @PalesaSawukazi-fc9mk 2 місяці тому +15

      I will never stood that low I the name of love I’ll rather abstain and I’m good with our South African guys

    • @RayOfLetsatsi
      @RayOfLetsatsi 2 місяці тому

      Bona neh all men are problematic regardless of nationality but yoh being dribbled by a foreigner would drive me insane.
      Asoze I'd rather stick to our South African frogs😂

  • @mandyishername
    @mandyishername 2 місяці тому +40

    When a man doesn’t love you, mo matter which country he was born in, you will see hell fire. Vuma nje sisi ukuthi lendoda ibingakuthandi. It’s a hard pill to swallow but you have to have this conversation with yourself and stop blaming his nationality. Even if he was Venda you were still going to see flames because he didn’t love or respect you

  • @lesley_lezley
    @lesley_lezley 2 місяці тому +64

    Mara Owami 😂 When they say see the person in all seasons they're not referring to summer, winter, etc. They're referring to experiencing them when they are dealing with loss, celebrating successes, how they handle a disaster, stress, when angry, how they treat you when you make a mistake, etc etc. ❤❤❤

    • @zahmbuyisa576
      @zahmbuyisa576 2 місяці тому +17

      It's a metaphoric statement, summer can mean your happy, beautiful season, winter can be your loss, sad , broke season. So she is not entirely wrong uOwami,

    • @tumi2610
      @tumi2610 2 місяці тому +7

      ​@@zahmbuyisa576😂😂how she explained it sounded like she meant it in the literal sense though, hence she said a year or 2 is sufficient.

    • @modikiramaisa4619
      @modikiramaisa4619 2 місяці тому +4

      That’s exactly what she means though the seasons of life when they are broke, when they have money etc …. She knows very well

    • @modikiramaisa4619
      @modikiramaisa4619 2 місяці тому

      @@tumi2610for me it didn’t sound literal

    • @kwetsephetla3597
      @kwetsephetla3597 2 місяці тому +2

      @@zahmbuyisa576You’re absolutely right. Also seasons do literally affect us and how we behave. People tend to be happier in warmer months and more somber during colder months. Some people even experience SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder).

  • @bryanoaitse1547
    @bryanoaitse1547 2 місяці тому +71

    I hope owamie you can create a platform for good and wonderful marriage of some people who still believe in marriage and commitment

    • @yolanda.7033
      @yolanda.7033 2 місяці тому +42

      Hayi, happy people don't go out and talk about their marriages coz they are happy. What is there to say? "I'm in love, I'm loved, I'm at peace." I hope no happily married person would be foolish enough to publish that because people bayaloya.
      Just be happy in peace.

    • @bryanoaitse1547
      @bryanoaitse1547 2 місяці тому +1

      Ok ♥️😂✌️

    • @Her_Self..
      @Her_Self.. 2 місяці тому

      ​@@yolanda.7033 babies u said it all. The way people will drag them and call them liars hayi Africans don't believe in happy endings😂. The bombastic evil eye they will get hayi not worth it lol

    • @VictoriousVee.
      @VictoriousVee. 2 місяці тому

      @@yolanda.7033very Tru what you said, it’s also cringe. I’m so happy I’m here to tell you about it😂. However , Mybe she can find those happy ending kind of story, or redemption kind, I don’t know 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Mbalings
      @Mbalings 2 місяці тому +2

      Personally, I would never ever share.

  • @Savebygrace-it
    @Savebygrace-it 2 місяці тому +21

    These men have found a playground here in SA with south African women and they never learn by the way. They treat the women from their country differently with respect.😢

  • @zimasajudge6770
    @zimasajudge6770 2 місяці тому +75

    Tjo lost interest the minute she started bashing the other girl. The girl was wrong like totally wrong but to say she was not pretty, she was not this says a lot about you. She was all that to your husband and he had no respect for you and she knew that is why she kept coming back to your house.
    Can we stop talking each other down and deal with this gender that is disrespecting us every chancè they get

    • @Savebygrace-it
      @Savebygrace-it 2 місяці тому +8

      When she looks in the mirror she thinks she is Miss World 😢😢😢. And the men know just how to mess these types up. They can't seem to keep men somehow

    • @lonagwegwe
      @lonagwegwe 2 місяці тому +10

      She wouldn’t be defined as pretty herself but ke asikho apho 😂😂😂, I don’t believe she loves the guy, it was a marriage of convenience. There is no way a woman would listen to the partner they love screwing someone else and not react

    • @bridgetndlela6469
      @bridgetndlela6469 2 місяці тому +3

      The way l even see her she is not even pretty that she can say the gf was not pretty 😮

    • @khalayimkenya9099
      @khalayimkenya9099 2 місяці тому

      ​@@bridgetndlela6469side chics stop

    • @khalayimkenya9099
      @khalayimkenya9099 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Savebygrace-itYou sure can keep men. Women are their own worst enemies

  • @honeybee7245
    @honeybee7245 2 місяці тому +22

    Ohh Lebo.she was my friend in Pretoria, we used to go to the same church 🥰what a lovely lady

  • @xolilemazibuko4390
    @xolilemazibuko4390 2 місяці тому +118

    I always laugh when women say "she wasnt pretty " to make themselves feel better😂😂😂😂

    • @theblueclinicbydrthabile
      @theblueclinicbydrthabile 2 місяці тому +4

      I stopped watching at that point🤭🫣🤣

    • @ntsoakikhosi1777
      @ntsoakikhosi1777 2 місяці тому +1

      Oksalayo

    • @ntsoakikhosi1777
      @ntsoakikhosi1777 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @zena3413
      @zena3413 2 місяці тому +1

      🤣

    • @k-leyalgae9129
      @k-leyalgae9129 2 місяці тому +13

      Did you notice that even this lady she is not pretty, I mean 😂😂the nose without a makeup eee another thing most men don't go for artificial looks they go for a woman they love with respect

  • @LeratoMolapo_1
    @LeratoMolapo_1 2 місяці тому +23

    Owami you’re right, this sister did not take time to get to know that guy. She didn’t even bother asking relevant questions because what do you mean you don’t know what the person you’re getting married to does for a living??😂😂😂 there are people who ignore red flags but she’s NXT LEVEL😂🤣wow

  • @crimestoriesSA
    @crimestoriesSA 2 місяці тому +44

    Big ups to owamie for digging out details from her because we didn’t know there was a slap and abuse . We thought she’s the fighter 😂😂😂 haibo Ntombi how are u telling us ur story like we were ur neighbour and we knew or suspected and your just here to confirm 😅😅😅 . Owamie in her journalist mode . Also big up to owamie on letting her know that her dating older doesn’t mean matured and they knew exactly what they were doing ❤

    • @pulanemokoka1506
      @pulanemokoka1506 2 місяці тому +3

      She does not remember a lot of things😂😂😂

    • @vuyelwaradebe9312
      @vuyelwaradebe9312 2 місяці тому +1

      indeed big up...cause if she was matured as she claimed ,the first she would have asked the guy what does he do for living.

  • @panatsolo2432
    @panatsolo2432 2 місяці тому +70

    I aint going to jail for nobody. Tjo anger is dangerous that is why leaving is always the best option.

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 2 місяці тому +3

      Hold yourself kkkk coz you will end up in jail kkkkk

    • @_molebogeng6281
      @_molebogeng6281 2 місяці тому +2

      In the heat of the moment it sounds good but once reality hits they regret 😂

    • @lorrainemashile6477
      @lorrainemashile6477 2 місяці тому

      Became with anger you might end up in prison

    • @modikiramaisa4619
      @modikiramaisa4619 2 місяці тому

      Me too especially not a man. Maybe if you harm my nephew but a man no ways

  • @xtopherxtopher9980
    @xtopherxtopher9980 2 місяці тому +26

    It has nothing to do with NIGERIANS
    The man just didn't love you and actually loved the side chick even sacrificed his marriage for her
    His just selfish

  • @ugogojessica7545
    @ugogojessica7545 2 місяці тому +19

    Mara our south African sisters what are they doing with Nigerians mara..i mean we grew up being afraid of dating ama Nigerians..and ma 90s and 2000s are not afraid of anything...ijooooo e bile,go na le bo Ibu,roba,😮u guys are not afraid,

    • @ancestralglowchronicles1306
      @ancestralglowchronicles1306 2 місяці тому +9

      Afraid of what? Another human being? The world has evolved & more ppl in different countries are now dating different nationalities, some work some don’t. It’s about character not nationality of the person🤞🏻

  • @michellemoreana1938
    @michellemoreana1938 2 місяці тому +28

    I love this lady 😂😂😂she is telling her story so good. Sorry about what happened to her

  • @cindyrambau4476
    @cindyrambau4476 2 місяці тому +108

    I was raised in a family where cheating is a no no, my parents will always say if he/she cheats walk away…

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 2 місяці тому +4

      Thats a blessing

    • @hildadavids217
      @hildadavids217 2 місяці тому +14

      @cindyrambau Same here my Dad was the best and I was daddy's little girl. He was faithful to my mum, were married for over 50 years. I have 4 brothers, who are married to their wives, children outside their marriages. My Dad and mum made it clear that you must be faithful to your wives like he was. My sisters in law, are very happy women. My mum made sure that her daughters in law are happy. She was fair at all times. I get shocked when I hear how other people live and I get angry to see women suffer so much. It is not normal to cheat.

    • @hildadavids217
      @hildadavids217 2 місяці тому +3

      Correction, no children out their marriages, those are my brothers.

    • @mskhumalo5118
      @mskhumalo5118 2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you , my parents have been married 40 + years I've seen them going through a lot together KODWA KE cheating WAS NEVER one of them !!

    • @kwetsephetla3597
      @kwetsephetla3597 2 місяці тому +2

      That’s why I’ll never believe that all men cheat. I’d rather be called delulu

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu 2 місяці тому +72

    Head girl of Ninjas signing in🫵🏾🥹, signing in as well on behalf of Elvis Ndlovu the head guy of Ninjas🥷🤣❤️
    The headteam has spoken 🤍😊🫵🏾

    • @elvisndlovu1232
      @elvisndlovu1232 2 місяці тому +4

      😂😂😂😂😂 oh man, ....you broke my ribs from laughing 😂😂😂

    • @nornomzizi5843
      @nornomzizi5843 2 місяці тому

      Kkkkk😂😂😂😂

    • @nomsatorcida9612
      @nomsatorcida9612 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TheeMsutu
      @TheeMsutu 2 місяці тому +1

      @@elvisndlovu1232😭🤣😂😂

    • @slindilengema2212
      @slindilengema2212 2 місяці тому

      Halala 🎉😂😂😂😂

  • @panatsolo2432
    @panatsolo2432 2 місяці тому +32

    I dont know what people expect when they are marrying people they known for a short while.

  • @MasetheNurse
    @MasetheNurse 2 місяці тому +6

    Hello my ninja and thank you for all the videos,content and interviews you offer on this platform.
    I must say that I enjoy your style of engaging your guests.
    You really allow them to speak. It really means that you have found your niche.❤
    Having said that may I also engage you on the fact that I don’t take kindly on how you speak lowly of nursing. Certain careers are made for certain people hence some of us are gracefully thriving in them…if you are to discourage people to become nurses, have you ever thought of who’ll nurse critically ill people in hospital? Who’ll nurse those critical I’ll neonates that some parents and families are so appreciative of their progress and care the nursing stuff give towards them.
    I understand your frustrations during your training journey and am glad that you dropped out because you’ll just be frustrated at work and make a horrible nurse.
    Thank God you found your niche but may I humbly ask you not to ill advise others regarding nursing as you do have great influence to whole lot of people…and in fact some of us are incredibly great at nursing and feeding families and sending children to university through the proceeds we make from nursing.
    My ninja not all nurses are struggling and yes perspective and exposure is key.
    I personally am thriving in my beautiful career.
    Nursing like teaching is not for everyone..some teachers suck at teaching hence they can’t even recognise that there’s so much power in that profession.
    Please continue giving us great content and making your bag but leave others to thrive in what they love and good at.
    My advice to you come from a good place.❤
    Cheers.

  • @SimpleWithMarygold
    @SimpleWithMarygold 2 місяці тому +11

    Owamie you are educating us hle
    I was just sharing with my mom the stories I’ve heard from your channel.
    Let me watch

  • @ItsMeYourfavorite7
    @ItsMeYourfavorite7 2 місяці тому +30

    How do you marry someone and not know where all his money is coming from. What if he traffics people or something else that’s illegal and you get implicated

    • @mmeme5861
      @mmeme5861 2 місяці тому

      I also wonder....

    • @tasha_t9210
      @tasha_t9210 2 місяці тому +3

      She knew, it's called denial!!

    • @helloworldrio
      @helloworldrio 2 місяці тому +2

      I believe most girls know where the money is coming from and they choose yona

    • @_molebogeng6281
      @_molebogeng6281 2 місяці тому +1

      That's why they go for young girls as Owamie said, they know they are naive and only care about the lifestyle

    • @khensanebaloyi6835
      @khensanebaloyi6835 2 місяці тому

      She knew

  • @SunshineZar
    @SunshineZar 2 місяці тому +37

    Some women are foolish. Instead of fighting the husbands, they fight the girlfriends.

  • @naledindlovu976
    @naledindlovu976 2 місяці тому +42

    Pearl tells a story like you are her friend and you already know the half of it...Ninja keeps digging cos if you know Owamie she's detailed 😢😂

  • @othusitsepereko592
    @othusitsepereko592 2 місяці тому +4

    This lady is BEAUTIFUL and INTELLIGENT.
    The Nigerian was not worth crossing your path nana.
    Am glad he didnt dim your light though

  • @vickyitenyo.
    @vickyitenyo. 2 місяці тому +19

    This particular guest wasn't ready to share her story AUTHENTICALLY. She's here for entertainment rather than creating awareness.So much doesn't add up.

    • @vuyelwaradebe9312
      @vuyelwaradebe9312 2 місяці тому +3

      so true ..she end forgetting what she was saying in the middle of story.
      she was woken up to go to aunt jiki jiki she was preparing to go to church ...haibo .
      another doesnt make sense you hardly go to your bedroom , you sleep in the nursery .You cant hear people in your bedroom but on the day of the trap you did hear .
      mybe im a bad listener kodwa this story isnt making any sense , ngathi she was here for a monologue audition.

    • @nomasandewebu
      @nomasandewebu 2 місяці тому +1

      I picked that up as well especially after saying she was fighting for that and the host saying man date 👇 down 😂😂😂😂😂such mentality

    • @goabaonebontshetse9261
      @goabaonebontshetse9261 2 місяці тому

      Right. The story is somewhat too long unnecessarily 😢

    • @zandilezondo2440
      @zandilezondo2440 2 місяці тому

      😂 true sana ayyy

  • @neomalete5832
    @neomalete5832 2 місяці тому +16

    Oh man the way she spoke about the beating 😭she spoke about it so nonchalant but she really went through it 😢

  • @suigeneris5193
    @suigeneris5193 2 місяці тому +11

    Few minutes in, I really like this lady, what an ambitious go getter!🔥

  • @TjakileNgaisiue
    @TjakileNgaisiue 2 місяці тому +20

    Congratulations on 40 K subbies and can you also add to hell and back on Spotify I'm just saying you don't have to do it but it's another income stream that you can take advantage of.

  • @nosiphoradebe6297
    @nosiphoradebe6297 2 місяці тому +19

    Owami, please focus on asking the guest here how they met spouse, who spoke to who1st, how he courted her, who called who 1st. Those 3 questions in the beginning always indicate how these marriages will end.

    • @rosekhumalo5942
      @rosekhumalo5942 2 місяці тому +4

      She said they met at blue lounge Pretoria mos... the guy asked for her numbers

    • @nosiphoradebe6297
      @nosiphoradebe6297 2 місяці тому

      @@rosekhumalo5942 Ofcourse they met ematshwaleni 🥺 Thats a redflag on its own.

  • @sibusiwengqwemesa9024
    @sibusiwengqwemesa9024 2 місяці тому +17

    But what I like about this girl is uthetha yonke into imbi injalo she's not defending herself or afihle izinto ezimbi azenzile

  • @motingwethaboj1475
    @motingwethaboj1475 2 місяці тому +18

    I wonder if she was raised in a house with a father hence, she dated older men 9:19

  • @sekoaib
    @sekoaib 2 місяці тому +29

    Leave these people alone, why do you want to marry someone who you don’t even know where they grew up. If you’re so desperate to marry a foreigner go for Swatis Basotho or from Botswana

    • @cindyrambau4476
      @cindyrambau4476 2 місяці тому +5

      No you don’t get to choose for them however is a wise thing to know where our spouses come from and their upbringing background.. she was too naive and careless to fall for such a man, even to an extent of not knowing what he does for a living.. she only cared about money and looking good

    • @sekoaib
      @sekoaib 2 місяці тому

      @@cindyrambau4476choose? I wasn’t choosing for anyone. When you marry someone who’s from West Africa, you don’t know who they grew up with which school they went to who were their childhood friend for you you know they could have been a rapist when growing up. That’s why the Minister of home affairs said that if you want to marry a foreigner they need to come with proof that they are not married in their home country

    • @Reitumetse-Love
      @Reitumetse-Love Місяць тому

      Not Basotho babes!!!!

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 2 місяці тому +30

    The guest is so beautiful...and she is smart too

  • @thulisilemasiza1993
    @thulisilemasiza1993 2 місяці тому +44

    Why is she still blaming the other ladies? 😂😂😂instead of her man!!! Wow!

    • @nomasandewebu
      @nomasandewebu 2 місяці тому +1

      She is even saying the girl was not pretty 😢,hayi sheim......

    • @J1991-u6t
      @J1991-u6t 2 місяці тому

      Some woman 😭😭😭

    • @sinedladla1955
      @sinedladla1955 2 місяці тому

      Because can you not see what we are dealing with. This one needs to get a job!!! She needs to stop thinking her face is a masters degree!! Such women annoy me and they then get a podium to speak nonsense. What you are saying here is not special. If you are not willing to work honestly for Ure food. Your food will then eat you alive!! Shut up man!!

    • @khanyiezimbili6383
      @khanyiezimbili6383 7 днів тому

      ​@nomhasandewebu but the man cheated on her with that same girl 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @zivelilemnune9722
    @zivelilemnune9722 2 місяці тому +10

    I have a friend whose married to a Nigerian man and she's got a son and they can't have a child together but he loves his step son. It was his ugly character he married you to a use you

  • @moonrock72
    @moonrock72 2 місяці тому +23

    Why does this guest keep saying the girl she found in her house was ugly and she wasn't IT? I think that speaks more to her character than anything else. She still needs to do some inner work cause her comments are not of someone who have moved on from this situation.

    • @tlotley
      @tlotley 2 місяці тому +1

      I was once humbled when my baby daddy told me he loves both me and his sugar mama. In my 20s. 20s😂😂😂

    • @moonrock72
      @moonrock72 2 місяці тому +8

      @@tlotley Your frontal lobe has not developed in your 20s and it’s easy to rationalise some situations. Men know how manipulate every situation to serve them. But at 34 you have to know how men operate honestly. Cheating got nothing to do with age or looks. So for 34 year old to speak like that shows she hasn’t healed

    • @tlotley
      @tlotley 2 місяці тому +3

      @@moonrock72 yea you are right. She still has some growing to do.

    • @tebogodesmond9037
      @tebogodesmond9037 2 місяці тому +5

      yes, in fact she still hasn't learnt from this experience....

    • @tedtlyhlatswayo403
      @tedtlyhlatswayo403 2 місяці тому +1

      💯 that statement was very shallow....

  • @honeybee7245
    @honeybee7245 2 місяці тому +9

    Can we have part 2 please👏🏾i wanna hear what happened to the child and if they officially divorced,like signed papers and all

  • @neomalete5832
    @neomalete5832 2 місяці тому +31

    Yohh that girl that was busy with your man knew that he didn’t rate you that’s why she kept coming 😭😭😭

  • @mubveleli7204
    @mubveleli7204 2 місяці тому +20

    But when did she enjoy the soft life because they got married very quick 😂😂, immediately after that he was already cheating.
    Other Job 😂😂😂
    The other lady told you all they sleep with multiple women for rituals. You can't be sleeping with so many women for fun

  • @bongythwala9840
    @bongythwala9840 2 місяці тому +15

    I will never hack mans am too beautiful to be a investigater, Prosecutor and judge at the some tim never.

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 2 місяці тому +1

      My heart is too weak and my personality too explosive for that😢

  • @metlharampou5844
    @metlharampou5844 2 місяці тому +7

    Another red flag is when you are asked not to drive so that you are driven wheteever. Ladies pls learn to drive so that you can take yourself shopping snd back and forth where ever you want.

  • @PhilileBarbarasEntertainment
    @PhilileBarbarasEntertainment 2 місяці тому +11

    Ohhhh my God🤭😛🤣🤣🤣i love Lebo hle🤣🤣🤣thanks Owamie for having her lols🤣🤣

  • @lindiwealexisbanda7004
    @lindiwealexisbanda7004 2 місяці тому +3

    She’s a beautiful lady but already from her persona you can tell at the time she felt she knew it all and probably didn’t want to hear what anybody had to say.and i think that’s why he saw someone to make a victim.
    And majority of Nigerian men don’t want to take care of step kids and usually switch up on women after kids

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 2 місяці тому +70

    These 89 and 1990 babies are very beautiful, have you noticed?

    • @cindyrambau4476
      @cindyrambau4476 2 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @mahlejogee9710
      @mahlejogee9710 2 місяці тому +7

      That's us 😅, thank you 🙏🏽❤

    • @thobilembuli8571
      @thobilembuli8571 2 місяці тому +3

      Babies?

    • @ugogojessica7545
      @ugogojessica7545 2 місяці тому +18

      Ma 80s are very beautiful.. I always look at myself..I can't believe am turning 41 and I still look 28 and our genes are very good as well ,we dnt look older ma 80s

    • @kphosh
      @kphosh 2 місяці тому

      We really are... thanks 😊

  • @walkwithorr
    @walkwithorr 2 місяці тому +7

    I might be wrong but in Zulu culture a child takes their father's surname and does not go with the mother if she marries another man. In other words u leave the child behind with ur family or if the father's family agree to take the child. In Pedi 're e gapa le namane', the new man marries you and takes the child as his child.

  • @nzubechisuccessnwaimo4926
    @nzubechisuccessnwaimo4926 Місяць тому +2

    Try and also interview successful marriage , it will help bring hope and practical wisdom for younger Generation

  • @TravelGram-f4g
    @TravelGram-f4g 2 місяці тому +14

    42:08 Disappointed... "she wasn't pretty" yet that man chose that girl you consider a downgrade🤡🤡

    • @tedtlyhlatswayo403
      @tedtlyhlatswayo403 2 місяці тому +3

      I really wonder why some ladies like using this statement... 😏

    • @nomasandewebu
      @nomasandewebu 2 місяці тому +1

      Eish 😂😂😂😂 that got me off yhaz to the whole storyline

    • @sibongilemasombuka8154
      @sibongilemasombuka8154 2 місяці тому

      That was an unfair statement and she also lost me....

    • @dorcramps6779d
      @dorcramps6779d Місяць тому

      TRUU YET SHE WAS CHOSEN BY HER HUSBY OVER HER BEUTIFUL HER GAA ,NJE MAN MAKES US HATE ICH ADA ..IF U WERE PRETTY TANA HE WOULD HAVE BROUGHT HER TO UR HOME SKAT..I HOPE SHE IS READING THIS AND SHE MUST STAY IN HER LANE

  • @lo6291
    @lo6291 2 місяці тому +12

    "Ngikhule kakhulu" langauge used by older men to entice young women. She seems to have bought into the whole manipulation. I hope she finds some answers on why she chases soon to be hospice dwellers.

    • @jingleB-np4zr
      @jingleB-np4zr 2 місяці тому +2

      I don't want to laugh,the last part😑

    • @tendanipelaelo6293
      @tendanipelaelo6293 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lo6291
      @lo6291 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@jingleB-np4zr they seek younger women for a reason. The elders are looking for a nurse, be careful ladies. If they aren't seeking young thangs they are hunting and preying on our aunties who are midfle aged, next thing u-aunty is a hospice wife. Hha i have seen too many things happen to either people I know or people who know the people I know or colleagues. Thanks for asking this question Owami and pointing it out to her that it is easier to manipulate younger women. It is not a flex to have an older man be into you. Baleka!!!

    • @Blacklist_Entertainment
      @Blacklist_Entertainment 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂hospice dwellers mara

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 2 місяці тому +43

    These Nigerian guys are running wild in these streets of SA.

    • @dollymagojo7130
      @dollymagojo7130 2 місяці тому +9

      They are doing whatever and they are winning at it 😑.

    • @gofaonembojane3050
      @gofaonembojane3050 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

    • @thulisilemasiza1993
      @thulisilemasiza1993 2 місяці тому +5

      The ladies allow them too

    • @Leboko80
      @Leboko80 2 місяці тому +6

      They doing what your SouthAfrican men have been doing .don't classify and generalise.

    • @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6
      @lindiwe-jeanettekutyunga6 2 місяці тому +2

      Very very wild and our sisters wanna learn the hard way 😢

  • @lirasnigermusic1415
    @lirasnigermusic1415 2 місяці тому +3

    I use to hv a classmate in Dsdc college she ws married to Nigerian. Yoh gal ws nt happy n da fact dat she always felt lile running away buh it ws nt easy since she ws calling wth da guy's surname xem. We lost contact me n her, i dnt knw where she is nw. Hopefully she managed to pqcl her things n leave. N dey had 2 beautiful kids, wherever we at skul she wished it could be fr hours. Sovdat she wnt go back to da house

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz 2 місяці тому +24

    15 year age gap and she thought they could relate. At 24 years old. Ma’am 😂😬
    That age-gap is ok after 34+

    • @Blacklist_Entertainment
      @Blacklist_Entertainment 2 місяці тому +5

      😂😂😂they always think they’re smarter than their peer’s

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz 2 місяці тому +5

      @@Blacklist_Entertainment it’s crazy. She still believes what she said. That gap is about control only. Especially when you’re in your twenties or younger.

    • @Blacklist_Entertainment
      @Blacklist_Entertainment 2 місяці тому +1

      @@moe_ramz exactly, I loved Owamie’s comment regarding this even though xe still didn’t get it . We have traumas we’re not ready to deal with . I wish Owamie asked her why the riot cause as to o why xe didn’t want to go back home ? Or maybe it will be revealed in part2

  • @nonzwakaziprecious9507
    @nonzwakaziprecious9507 2 місяці тому

    So loving the outfits, make up ✨🔥it's so rare to see ladies finding comfortable to share colours. I see love there ❤❤
    Definitely following her, she really does have a lovely spirit can feel it too 💐

  • @tedtlyhlatswayo403
    @tedtlyhlatswayo403 2 місяці тому +5

    So this thing of them wanting the baby to be born in the US for the US citizenship is a common thing, I know someone who went through the same thing, she also met the guy at Sunnyside, every time I listen to these stories, there's lots of common traits....😏

    • @pammmmm498
      @pammmmm498 2 місяці тому

      😂😂

    • @thuliendlovu719
      @thuliendlovu719 2 місяці тому

      I know there are anchor babies mara that's not how it works. There are rules!

  • @katlehom6008
    @katlehom6008 2 місяці тому +14

    Im not judging... why you having a child with someone you've known for less than 6 months? Plz 2 years nyana. Hayi nani

  • @neomalete5832
    @neomalete5832 2 місяці тому +12

    But she was ignorant in a few cases like the story of your own bedroom being locked Awa 😭😭😭😫the dynamics were weird

    • @Mills305
      @Mills305 2 місяці тому +1

      Very weird

    • @berylsedumedi74
      @berylsedumedi74 2 місяці тому

      How does another person, leave alone a woman be in your house and you don't know, Hau. I had major questions there. Sth ain't right

    • @neomalete5832
      @neomalete5832 2 місяці тому

      @@berylsedumedi74 like I have so many questions

    • @neomalete5832
      @neomalete5832 2 місяці тому +2

      @@berylsedumedi74 her sleeping in the nursery more than her own room 😭

    • @berylsedumedi74
      @berylsedumedi74 2 місяці тому

      @@neomalete5832 married couples sleep apart more than ppl think😬 maraaaaa that one of someone being in my home and I don't know, Hai ngeke.

  • @NitroMandyyt
    @NitroMandyyt 2 місяці тому +17

    She is me😂😂 I would even grab a chair wait for him to come out with gf😅

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 2 місяці тому

      Kkkkkkkk

    • @_molebogeng6281
      @_molebogeng6281 2 місяці тому

      Yoh and listen to their tlof tlofing

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm 2 місяці тому +1

      All this instead of self worth and leaving 😂😂😂😂😊

  • @tasha_t9210
    @tasha_t9210 2 місяці тому +8

    Why fight the other woman tho! The issue you have is with your husband, he's the 1 who's let this other woman into your house etc, its not her fault (I'm not condoning her behaviour either), you don't know what he's told her about your marriage with him! Fight him, not her!! (IMO)

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 2 місяці тому +9

    Hee eee Queen, you almost starved us by not uploading any video... hopefully more are coming later today

  • @LeratoMolapo_1
    @LeratoMolapo_1 2 місяці тому +13

    Ay this story? Too many loopholes 😂😂is not make sure

    • @tumi2610
      @tumi2610 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for saying it out loud 😂

    • @charityselogilwe
      @charityselogilwe 26 днів тому

      Hai seriously it’s not adding up yooo😂

  • @katemalete3852
    @katemalete3852 Місяць тому +1

    Boiled water to burn the wrong person 😢. Women never hold their dogs accountable shame

  • @lovelyheart800
    @lovelyheart800 2 місяці тому +4

    It's so crazy how when things are going well, he is “my man,” but when things go wrong, all of a sudden he identifies with his nationality.
    And this only seems to happen in relationships between South Africans and foreigners.
    If the guy were South African, he would not be referred to as the South African man.

  • @zanele3374
    @zanele3374 2 місяці тому +16

    I am this lady, this lady is me😂😂😂😂I am that brave

    • @Zeei490
      @Zeei490 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂Stop it

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm 2 місяці тому

      Pity you types are never brave enough to exit and walk away from dysfunctional men early

  • @NinthJewel
    @NinthJewel 2 місяці тому +13

    People are going through a lot 😢 💔

  • @neomalete5832
    @neomalete5832 2 місяці тому +8

    Oh so he didn’t mind you finding out that he was cheating 😭😫like he really wanted you to find out yohhh

  • @andisiwemcasa7360
    @andisiwemcasa7360 2 місяці тому +5

    Queen Ninjaaa!! Standing on business 🥳🥳❤️❤️

  • @tendanipelaelo6293
    @tendanipelaelo6293 2 місяці тому +9

    Your ex did not respect you at all.
    It sounds like he was not raised well. He has no respect for women at all

  • @Sarah_M84
    @Sarah_M84 2 місяці тому +4

    Dlala Nigeria 🇳🇬, they playing nicely with our sisters shem.

  • @thembilithleportia4626
    @thembilithleportia4626 2 місяці тому +14

    They never have love for ather people's outside from their on people, to them you just like pet, I'm telling you

    • @cindyrambau4476
      @cindyrambau4476 2 місяці тому +9

      I think that just an opinion,I’ve seen mixed culture getting married for love 🥰 and it does work… we do get married to our fellow South Africans and still divorce

    • @dollymagojo7130
      @dollymagojo7130 2 місяці тому

      @@cindyrambau4476the stats. Are showing us that they don’t respect any women outside their own. Even when they marry Americans they ridicule them… maybe let’s stick to the topic without bringing SA men into it. Those ones will have their day…

  • @kwetsephetla3597
    @kwetsephetla3597 2 місяці тому +2

    I understand why you have to stay with your family for three months after giving birth, it’s to avoid stressful situations that these men bring around you

  • @margaretmotsweni-ul9wq
    @margaretmotsweni-ul9wq 2 місяці тому +7

    You said they came in 2 cars you made a video of the ladies car 😑😑😑😑now he must fetch her ay not a make sure

  • @mbalisithole6878
    @mbalisithole6878 2 місяці тому

    Thanks you so much my sister is happening to me in my life now my man is a Nigerian and I have tow kids 😢😢😢life happened 😢💔💔😭

  • @debbiesenamela518
    @debbiesenamela518 2 місяці тому +4

    The audacity to say you went to America to give birth just so your child has American citizenship is 😪😔 mara if it was a Zi lady or Afrtican lady saying that about coming to SA to give birth just so her child can have SA citizenship ya'll would be attacking her. yeeer

    • @jabulilenenzhelele2179
      @jabulilenenzhelele2179 Місяць тому +1

      Well SA Law doesn't allow for that, one parent has to be South African. Where else in America it is legally allowed to birth there as long as you have the funds to support it and other documents.

    • @debbiesenamela518
      @debbiesenamela518 Місяць тому

      @@jabulilenenzhelele2179 American law only applies to foreigners living in America not just anyone to book a flight and go🙄 give birth in America

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 2 місяці тому +9

    Now our weekend can begin....ninja signing in

  • @mamellolehloka5901
    @mamellolehloka5901 2 місяці тому +22

    Seasons of his life not seasons of the year hle lol.

    • @Fatima-k6t5l
      @Fatima-k6t5l 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂I was so confused

    • @_molebogeng6281
      @_molebogeng6281 2 місяці тому

      Some seasons of life take longer than others mos will marry at 60😂

    • @NtsakisiNuun
      @NtsakisiNuun 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @pileshongwe7827
      @pileshongwe7827 2 місяці тому

      You can’t wait for all seasons cause some take longer to come you can be with someone 10 years n nver see him going through loss of a loved one or loss of a job which are some of the most difficult seasons of a person’s life but wait alteast a year before fully committing to marriage or having kids

    • @mamellolehloka5901
      @mamellolehloka5901 2 місяці тому

      @pileshongwe7827 yes, just clarifying how the saying goes.

  • @thuliendlovu719
    @thuliendlovu719 2 місяці тому +1

    The problem with this one is she thinks she is KLEVA!
    And yes, we know whatsapp web.

  • @nonzwakaziprecious9507
    @nonzwakaziprecious9507 2 місяці тому

    Yah kunzima ane, these guys they really start nice, everything being comfortable around you until they get fed up and by that time no one will believe all the things you're saying about them. 😢 Really breaks my heart because we are living a life of "when is my time coming" because they are walking time bombs to be honest.

  • @mikhensoconfidence6470
    @mikhensoconfidence6470 Місяць тому +1

    What that man did to this lady has got nothing to do with him being Nigerian, even our South African men do these things everyday. Let's stop blaming it on the man's nationality .

  • @mwandwelubinda
    @mwandwelubinda 2 місяці тому

    Queen Ninja you are coming through, congrats on 40k you an inspiration keep going Queen you’ve got this

  • @evelynntombi3168
    @evelynntombi3168 2 місяці тому +4

    I love Lebo, she's so beautiful. ❤

  • @ugogojessica7545
    @ugogojessica7545 2 місяці тому +1

    I love both of u how u guys connect in this interview..it has friends vibes😂🤞🤞🌸

  • @thusobulala3254
    @thusobulala3254 2 місяці тому +3

    What a disappointing episode. This lady is still blaming the other woman!? Hello?!?

  • @mahingab
    @mahingab 2 місяці тому

    Not only Nigerian can do this, I remember the olden preacher from 1960s he said a remarkable statement and it says 'a man without a filling of the holy ghost he's a beast'. He passed the animal stage but beast'. And it is indeed. Just leave him hey! Love is kind... It doesn't rejoice in abuse. Believe me there are men who values their relationship..askies u had to go through this.

  • @sphow
    @sphow 2 місяці тому +1

    Haibo! Does this dude not realise he is hacked? Hay it says a lot about him

  • @nkulumlangeni
    @nkulumlangeni Місяць тому +1

    Ayi kodwa nathi as women how do you 'marry'someone and not be utterly curious ukuthi what is it that they do for a living?

  • @queenm2723
    @queenm2723 2 місяці тому +2

    Ninja, ke tlo go shapa 😂 I've been waiting since yesterday.

  • @RebeccaHloniphileMokoti
    @RebeccaHloniphileMokoti 2 місяці тому +14

    Older men can pretend to be the best

  • @MbaliMaseko-rn4hn
    @MbaliMaseko-rn4hn 8 днів тому

    Amadoda ayfan i dont care which nationality if a man doesnt love u he will treat u badly be it u are dating a Nigerian,SouthAfrican or American ...ngiyema lapho

  • @Bee_Vibes
    @Bee_Vibes 2 місяці тому +2

    This story has a lot of loop holes, how can a guy bring a woman in your house for so many times and not know? And yet your in the same house in a different room?

  • @mapulastephinah2960
    @mapulastephinah2960 2 місяці тому +1

    Anything involving Nigerian men has to do with money, you know soft life 😂. I feel like these women wants soft life really. I mean with all the testimonies we hear they’re still there and wants the experience themselves. At this point I feel like women should just work for themselves even harder for the life they want. Anyway ninja is on it😂

    • @tumi2610
      @tumi2610 2 місяці тому

      You hit the nail on the head. None of the women who tell these stories off Nigerian men talk about them being broke, the men are all monied, if they're not monied then they are scammers but the women got scammed because they thought he had money. I'm yet to hear of a SouthGerian story of a broke or working class Nigerian man and a South African woman who genuinely loved him without the fancy lifestyle

  • @mpumymahlangu9903
    @mpumymahlangu9903 2 місяці тому

    I’ve worked in restaurants/clubs as a student and how Nigerian men would treat or talk about South African women in those spaces is the reason why I get really mad when a Nigerian man looks at me. Let alone talk to me. I’m thanks shame

  • @Leboko80
    @Leboko80 2 місяці тому +2

    She wasn't pretty,she wasn't it!
    But she still came to your house and frequented your house.Men don't look for Preety.The truth of the matter.

  • @nomvulachantelle9484
    @nomvulachantelle9484 2 місяці тому +7

    A video finally, for a while i thought Owami assumed i am a nunju and blocked my ass

    • @Munei_Twin
      @Munei_Twin 2 місяці тому +2

      Bathong wena 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TheeMsutu
      @TheeMsutu 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @mubveleli7204
      @mubveleli7204 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @elvisndlovu1232
      @elvisndlovu1232 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂 you guys when do you think about this
      😂😂😂😂 I don't want to lie ...
      I almost DM @boldlyowamie to ask if all is well at home ngoba eish....we need them videos sbhubhuu

  • @sekoaib
    @sekoaib 2 місяці тому +11

    Leave this batho ba ka ntle alone, if you want to marry batho ba ka ntle, go Swati’s Basotho and Batswana

    • @naledindlovu976
      @naledindlovu976 2 місяці тому +3

      Lenna bang bora wait they going to come for us and it's Friday we don't want stress 😂

    • @bongisbongile332
      @bongisbongile332 2 місяці тому +1

      Very true dear

  • @ImmanuelHapzibah
    @ImmanuelHapzibah 2 місяці тому +2

    Owamie, how will a little girl not ask questions. In my younger ages . I always ask questions

  • @thuliendlovu719
    @thuliendlovu719 2 місяці тому

    This one is hard to believe. The deeper she goes into her story, the more she lies. No no!

  • @tertiambhalati1728
    @tertiambhalati1728 2 місяці тому +7

    Owamie hurry up with part 2😢

  • @dakalosibiya5074
    @dakalosibiya5074 2 місяці тому

    I am
    Sorry for what the lady has gone through. My only caution here ninja is for you to be careful about the words spoken especially strong connotations of violence. If guys spoke the same way about the physical violence in the video, everyone would erupt about GBV. I am just making a caution here and not accusing anyone of GBV. I’m just sending a warning that the words spoken might seem to be promoting violence

  • @nomcebomakhos
    @nomcebomakhos 22 дні тому

    😂😂😂😂 i wanted to cry but its not vuming , ninjas we are going through a lot