By Giving you may DESTROY un-evolved person's LIFE - Sadhguru about Misplaced compassion

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  • @jdee4956
    @jdee4956 4 роки тому +208

    Never do something because you want to look or feel good. Do it because it is necessary.

    • @alexwentoutside6843
      @alexwentoutside6843 3 роки тому +2

      What about sleeping with so?

    • @rokwell12345
      @rokwell12345 3 роки тому +1

      @@alexwentoutside6843 same.

    • @rashione982
      @rashione982 3 роки тому +12

      What if it is necessary to feel good :3

    • @alexwentoutside6843
      @alexwentoutside6843 3 роки тому +2

      @@rashione982 I love you!!! It is the necessity n u m e r u n o, stop the ascetism ppl

    • @sonja0707
      @sonja0707 3 роки тому

      YESS👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @paranormalsoulcircle3176
    @paranormalsoulcircle3176 3 роки тому +65

    This was a really great talk that sadhguru gave. It made me think quite a bit. I am glad that I heard it because I really needed to hear this message. This helps me understand why my relationship was going down the well. I took a man that I met from a friend to go for a walk and something to eat ,the second day I went to spend time with him where he lived. When I arrived as he opened the door 🚪 there was just a worn down bed and no where to sit or eat he was poor but I really liked him after 5 months of getting to know him,I told him that I could feel sadness inside his room 😢 😔. He responded,how did you know that? I told him I could just feel the energy in the room. That very night I came to a decision and told him that I was getting a new apartment and asked him if he would like to live a new life and feel better and that I wanted to give him everything I could,love him with all that I can and then marry him. He left the room and moved into my home but he was secretly indecisive and he was still paying the rent for his room without telling me. Anyways he told me that he wanted to marry me. I responded that yes I want marriage and children,he looked very happy. Years went by and we were 6 years engaged. We had a baby and our baby died around Christmas,I became depressed 😔 because we both really wanted a baby. I was renting out the whole bottom of the 🏠 house known as a basement apartment in 🇨🇦 Canada. I paid for everything because I wanted him to feel loved and cared for. I bought him clothes,shoes,ACoat and fed him every day. I noticed when I got home he heavly smelt of alcohol on his breath ,I questioned him where he got the money for alcohol,he said that he found it 😏 🤣 lol anyways.... I told him that I quit drinking alcohol about a year before I met him and that part of my rules in my home is to communicate with me and not to bring alcohol into my home because I no longer wanted alcohol or drugs in my life or around me. Then the next month I found a secret phone he had and he was not being faithful to me. I took pictures with my phone of his texts and sexually related stuff, I asked him the next day if he still loves me,and he said yes and was asking me exactly what I just asked him ,he told me that I was overreacting. So I showed him every email,text messages,Facebook messenger replies with naked photos and his discussions with many women that he loves them and that they are "Hot" He denied it,but then I told him that I knew everything and every place he was going to when he was saposed to be working 😠 Then I found a used opened condom in his pants about to do the laundry and it was not from us as partners. The same night I found sexy Lingerie from a very skinny woman I found blonde long hairs on it 😥 that was not mine of course lol 😆. He told me he was working but he was not. He was paying rent for his old room so that he could be irresponsible with alcohol,use me,lie to me and live a double life. I was very niave thinking that helping this man and our love growing would last!!! No after the 6 years of being engaged to marry ,I told him to leave my home and never come back and that was the end of everything. I wanted to help this man out and give him a nice life and my helping nature in me only in the end hurt both of us. Anyways it was a big wake up call that there is something better arriving in my life .He was not Ready for such a Big Change that fast because he did not earn it and knew nothing about things that come fast can go away as fast . Anyways It was a very important lesson to be learned. At first I was sad but now I am happy about it.

    • @Priya-yw9fj
      @Priya-yw9fj 3 роки тому +7

      hey stranger ... you are very strong

    • @aiva9964
      @aiva9964 3 роки тому +4

      Thanks for sharing your stories so sad but you overcome it .

    • @aryanalfa2444
      @aryanalfa2444 2 роки тому

      Quite a story, the guy wasn't ready, and didn't deserved you clearly after of what he have to you. Not judge him anyway, everyone is on his evolutionary level! All the best finding someine who Will deserve you!

    • @cynthiasalami8458
      @cynthiasalami8458 2 роки тому

      thank for sharing
      my you did it for God and not fir him or because you want favor God will definitely reward you for that

    • @stevensanchez4694
      @stevensanchez4694 2 роки тому

      I hope all is well wow that’s terrible I feel for you

  • @lpalm5235
    @lpalm5235 3 роки тому +108

    I was one of those people who gave for the wrong reason's. I am definitely learning and have stopped that.
    Thank you Sadhguru.

  • @anilrajan1264
    @anilrajan1264 3 роки тому +25

    The more you give, the more people will want, especially relatives, and start fighting when you stop giving. I have experienced in my past twenty five years, when I was working in gulf.

  • @frankchukwumah9477
    @frankchukwumah9477 3 роки тому +139

    If you give and give people will take advantage of you, and they will think that you are obligated to do everything for them.

    • @karenimperial950
      @karenimperial950 3 роки тому +2

      So true.

    • @govenergovener5666
      @govenergovener5666 3 роки тому +2

      That's true I been thinking about other people and been giving what I could do for them....and return what did I got from them people ahahhaahah, am was shocked, I was not expect anything back but don't do bad, but I believe in karma what's goes around, comes around to, from me I pray to God bless everyone in this world, I can pray but every thing is in God hand

    • @paullapthorn5386
      @paullapthorn5386 3 роки тому +1

      Human nature,you will get no thanks from them ,because you will give yourself the thanks,you give to them ,as if they are you,for they are you,everything is you.the one

    • @paullapthorn5386
      @paullapthorn5386 3 роки тому

      @@govenergovener5666 you are god ,you are all,I'm you ,you are me,its all one

    • @aumatomos7811
      @aumatomos7811 3 роки тому +1

      we have had system here where everyone have right to study, healthcare, house and food. Good stable society is good for all. Education is good for all. No homeless, little crime, no dying because you dont have money for cancer treatment. No unreachable university dream for poor people. It only works if you have people who have same moral values and possibilities because someone gives. We give taxes for this purpose now if you have shitty covernment, large number of people not willing to work for benefit of all, not willing to give and dont have same values...It doesnt work then. Education, unified people, good coverment, good moral system. You plant good seeds in good soil, take out the weeds, examine the plants and control nutrients and water. Let forces and nature do the rest. Good harvest is then possible. this works for individual and for society. this is ashtanga yoga.

  • @convelsmith6821
    @convelsmith6821 3 роки тому +142

    If you have to ask for it you are not ready for it. If you are ready for it, it will happen on its own without you asking for it.

    • @marionmaierphilonatura
      @marionmaierphilonatura 3 роки тому +1

      So true.

    • @heyjude5027
      @heyjude5027 3 роки тому

      True.

    • @venkatlova1
      @venkatlova1 3 роки тому

      @@marionmaierphilonatura qñ

    • @paullapthorn5386
      @paullapthorn5386 3 роки тому +3

      Not sure there ,I think you still need to ask and then let it go ,it shall then happen,for the need in your heart is there,you don't get what you want,you only get what you need.want comes from the mind,need comes from the heart

    • @Xpand2infinity
      @Xpand2infinity 3 роки тому +2

      Rubbish. This is over simplified sentiment. I have given you this wisdom, even though you didn't ask, so by your own logic this is the perfect loop.

  • @kathleenmckenzie6261
    @kathleenmckenzie6261 3 роки тому +144

    Never give with the expectation of receiving something in return.

    • @nirmalatiwari4365
      @nirmalatiwari4365 3 роки тому +2

      Yes, it's true, I've experienced it in my Guru and one of his followers.
      He left this immortal world in heavy
      Pains after fulfilled his desire. Today after viewing this video, I can
      Co-relate the things.

    • @5xing8gua
      @5xing8gua 3 роки тому

      You just destroy world market with this stronk idea LOL

    • @iamasmurf1122
      @iamasmurf1122 3 роки тому +1

      Nonsense Kathleen ; I invest as a shareholder and expect to have returns on my investments ; grow up Kathleen you are like a child

    • @kathleenmckenzie6261
      @kathleenmckenzie6261 3 роки тому +8

      @@iamasmurf1122 By your own admission, you are investing, not giving. Please learn the difference between an investment and a gift. Get a dictionary, if you must. I also expect a return when I invest.

    • @wesleyAlan9179
      @wesleyAlan9179 3 роки тому +3

      @@kathleenmckenzie6261 ...great comment, and great reply to that asshole!😆

  • @lilithjesus7718
    @lilithjesus7718 3 роки тому +16

    Wow... I have been studying spirituality for over 2 decades in the West, and I have never heard this wisdom. If my mother or I had learned this, regarding the giving of our hearts to men that weren't evolved to receive them... what damage could have been avoided. In my culture women were raised to be giving, compassionate forgiving obedient no matter how unevolved or even abusive the man is. So grateful to be coming out of the gender dark ages.

  • @mushizzlemushizzle7782
    @mushizzlemushizzle7782 4 роки тому +115

    Sadhguru I just want to say thank you for all that you do. In America they don’t teach us anything that we need to learn like how to exist in our body peacefully. Everything is absurd here nothing makes sense and I’ve stopped trying to understand how things got like this but anyways thank you thank you thank you. I’m forever grateful

    • @gverhoeff39
      @gverhoeff39 3 роки тому +8

      America does not have this Ability yet ! What Sadhguru knows is from an experience in a place full of experiences in the collective universe for centuries .. America is still yet a child just living off of other experiences until it matures to it's experiences it can not give the experience such as that of what Sadhguru knows ..we can visit that in a thousand years ! Just my opinion

    • @lilflamingo9529
      @lilflamingo9529 3 роки тому +12

      Unfortunately I am American but I quite agree. I do not like it here. It's too materialistic. The self is what matters, your spiritual well being. I only wish I could live abroad in a country where things are basic. Ppl here don't know what true necessities are. It's truly sad.

    • @lynndavid1066
      @lynndavid1066 3 роки тому +10

      It's a choice. You are free to move wherever your heart's desires. Peace out♥️

    • @Sandy-lc8ry
      @Sandy-lc8ry 3 роки тому +15

      @@lilflamingo9529 Unfortunately you are only focusing on the negative things in America… Here in America we have spiritual freedoms that many other countries don’t. There are countless spiritual people here that don’t follow the dogma of religion. There is a shift, an awakening that is happening all over the planet, including America. Learn to be happy right where you are and embrace the freedom to roam wherever you wish and the ability to practice whatever you believe in. Namaste 🙏 💕

    • @JessPope
      @JessPope 3 роки тому

      L

  • @superman842
    @superman842 4 роки тому +82

    I been researching alot but this gentleman gave me the best advice with truthful meaning of life

  • @blakepotter7937
    @blakepotter7937 3 роки тому +39

    Damn. I just went to school. Again. Thank you.

  • @maryannblair879
    @maryannblair879 4 роки тому +43

    Thank you for this wonderfully practicable and liberating teaching. So often I have given people things because I wanted to feel better about myself and in the end no one benefitted in the long term.

  • @KannadaRama
    @KannadaRama 4 роки тому +41

    I realized I should not ‘ask’ when I was a little child. Much gratitude for this confirmation🙏

  • @patriciaamundsen-ATUR
    @patriciaamundsen-ATUR 4 роки тому +40

    Compassion comes from God. He puts it in our Hearts and when one is in tune with their Nature the urge to give is Divine, just as the River flowing. Giving with the clanging of cymbals and the banging of drums has nothing to do with compassion. Peace be with us all.

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 3 роки тому +16

    God wants us all to be be genuine givers of the heart without expectations

  • @tewfik8616
    @tewfik8616 3 роки тому +6

    I have personnaly had this experience with my own brother when out of brotherhood and care I turned him into a Lion who then tried to eat me.Thanks for sharing this wisdom.

  • @crownofthornsministry1760
    @crownofthornsministry1760 4 роки тому +13

    If you are in the right place at the right time and is able to help do so..dont tell everyone and boast..just help detach and go about your day

  • @jasminasm9182
    @jasminasm9182 4 роки тому +88

    *Feed the hungry because they are hungry,
    free animal because it should be free
    be true to yourself and keep your light bright
    do help others to help
    not to satisfy your pride.*
    Thank you Sadhguru 🙏
    Love🌸light

  • @treasure2behold282
    @treasure2behold282 4 роки тому +24

    Giving and Receiving are one in Truth. ACIM
    Compassion can be egotistical. We want to be elevated, validated and praised.
    Empowering a person is more compassionate than just gorging them with stuff.

    • @whitelodgetarot1614
      @whitelodgetarot1614 4 роки тому +2

      Compassion has nothing to do with giving or receiving, true compassion is crying out for anothers suffering, true compassion has no ego".

    • @treasure2behold282
      @treasure2behold282 3 роки тому +2

      @@whitelodgetarot1614 People get confused with compassion and enabling.

  • @adolforosado
    @adolforosado 3 роки тому +6

    I love this story! I could sit and listen to him tell stories until the end of time.

  • @markoperic5023
    @markoperic5023 3 роки тому +14

    I needed this a year and 6 months ago when I gave to a girl that wasnt ready to recieve love. I only empied myself

    • @patrickcenkush519
      @patrickcenkush519 3 роки тому +1

      Now you Know, more fully.

    • @paulsolon6229
      @paulsolon6229 3 роки тому +2

      Hi Marko I am sorry to hear this. It sounds painful

    • @indraramrattan6552
      @indraramrattan6552 3 роки тому

      It's not to late, God is good,a good friend is like good wine enjoy life , and love your self

  • @annicks7385
    @annicks7385 3 роки тому +5

    Perfectly said. I was just saying this to a friend the other day . There is a process and we have to allow people to go through that for their own growth and enlightenment.

    • @teotc2099
      @teotc2099 3 роки тому

      SO please dont taxes also

  • @josephinedorion1450
    @josephinedorion1450 4 роки тому +13

    i was told by a healer , THAT if the soul of a person wants to experience certain type of deprivation, such as being sick and you went ahead healed this person WITHOUT ASKING PERMISSION FROM THE PERSON'S SOUL , ayyy....you're in for a gruesome karma.
    I TOTALLY AGREE WITH SADHGURU. I'M AN EMPATH , it is an illness that runs in my family. We'd give until it hurts , and in my experience , giving to unevolved person is giving myself a KARMA. but we don't learn our lessons. we still help. sad.

    • @CosmicMama888
      @CosmicMama888 4 роки тому +2

      Omg this describes my life! Since I was a child, all the chaos I went through I thought I had to take it from others to relieve them! I thought I was helping. And now I live in torment while they have peace and satisfaction. I never loved myself but thank goodness I know and understand now. Wow 😳 this has me screaming inside!!! #%^*€£>£¥*#*•&

  • @jerry-mind-sky
    @jerry-mind-sky 3 роки тому +19

    Misplaced compassion is another words called ,,idiot compassion,, and can stir up things instead of improve and really destroy somebody life. Very powerful advice from Sadhguru.

    • @starchild1809
      @starchild1809 3 роки тому

      Exactly!

    • @jerry-mind-sky
      @jerry-mind-sky 3 роки тому +1

      @@starchild1809 :)

    • @teotc2099
      @teotc2099 3 роки тому

      SORRY. NOT. TO. BE. RUDE. NEED. TO. GIVE WISELY AND NOT BLINDLY

  • @maywin4204
    @maywin4204 4 роки тому +62

    Genuine compassion is just doing what needed.. very true..

  • @generaza7609
    @generaza7609 3 роки тому +25

    Simply by interacting with someone, you may be partially responsible for their life and what becomes of it.

    • @godofwealthfortuneandprosp6730
      @godofwealthfortuneandprosp6730 3 роки тому

      Exactly!!

    • @generaza7609
      @generaza7609 3 роки тому +2

      @@godofwealthfortuneandprosp6730 GOD is everything, and that is why it is important to find out what part of GOD you are.

  • @PixelKnight93
    @PixelKnight93 4 роки тому +16

    its hard to value that which you haven't earned.

  • @yesididthis1420
    @yesididthis1420 4 роки тому +56

    "Can't throw jewels to the swine". I often say this but people misunderstood me for this as being cruel. Now the Guru speaks.

    • @dasherviewed
      @dasherviewed 3 роки тому

      You're misunderstood because you did not announce it in a proper format.

    • @yesididthis1420
      @yesididthis1420 3 роки тому +6

      @@dasherviewed
      Sir:
      1st it is a big responsiblity to discussed things like this to people, you would open up involuntary links between you and them (unless *). Kinda teacher student relationship once you have started it you must have to now assist those seekers in the path, make sure not to misled, mislead, misinterpret the subject. It is not just mere explanation that they need to understand it, there are things that has to be experience personally in order to understand the nature of certain phenomena, which cannot be shared no matter how intricate you conveyed it and how it works. Alot of people will not be able to comprehend the impressions you had unless they experience it by themselves, and this is rough mental training which take strict self discipline to follow.
      2nd There are people who experience certain longing but the body is not yet ready so it strongly affects the mind too.
      Which like what the Guru here just said, it may create more harm than good. I cannot tell all of this here it will takes time.
      3rd That's why you have your Guru there to explained things for the seekers of light.
      Best wishes to all, I also hope to meet this satguru one day I love him I felt elevated whenever I listens to him makes me remember the day when I was training. I am an initiate of other school too.

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 3 роки тому +2

      @@yesididthis1420 too deep.

  • @mnsexim
    @mnsexim 4 роки тому +13

    We live in the beat of times. We have Sadhguru. Isn’t it?

  • @gaganb2290
    @gaganb2290 3 роки тому +46

    I have made a mistake of helping someone's wish which later became a curse for us

    • @jerry-mind-sky
      @jerry-mind-sky 3 роки тому +4

      Only Shiva and Buddha knows past, present and future and can help in beneficial way.

    • @ivansean3373
      @ivansean3373 3 роки тому +14

      Yeah. Me too, and it seems that i am the bad now. I hoped that the person would change but not.
      I don't regret what i did.
      I regret the time wasted on wrong person.

  • @DougWolfe
    @DougWolfe 4 роки тому +7

    I find it’s important to hear what Sadhguru is *not* saying as well. He is not saying, for example, never to give to someone who asks because occasionally that person is indeed ready, and his sadhana is to ask. Just that we need to be conscious of our motivation - to be sure we’re doing what needs doing and nothing more.

  • @maywin4204
    @maywin4204 4 роки тому +11

    Sadhguru Gi has such a great wisdom and preeches confidently with the life truth. Thank you very much.

  • @scouter6926
    @scouter6926 3 роки тому +15

    The Proffesional "Do Gooders" in California have, unintentionally caused it to become a state many people no longer want to live in.

    • @vulgarprophet2689
      @vulgarprophet2689 3 роки тому +3

      The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

    • @ralphcramden
      @ralphcramden 3 роки тому

      hopefully it makes a place where a racist would be less likely to want to live

  • @turhanoniz3523
    @turhanoniz3523 3 роки тому +3

    Nothing replaces !!!
    self structured "experience" and self learned "know-how" knowledge.

  • @vinodbhailakhlani2166
    @vinodbhailakhlani2166 4 роки тому +40

    We are lucky to have such a marvelously wise man among us.

    • @jishags8811
      @jishags8811 4 роки тому +1

      Very true..nice teachings and neeti

    • @leibnyzbermudez
      @leibnyzbermudez 4 роки тому

      Wonderful teachings . Stories about Shivra are without a doubt always enormously helpful. I find it wonderful that this man takes the time to teach us a little bit about their beliefs : priceless !

  • @kelseytebo8876
    @kelseytebo8876 4 роки тому +10

    I am always so surprised by how much wisdom this man has

  • @sailajat6672
    @sailajat6672 3 роки тому +3

    Gift, which is given out of duty, at the proper time and place, to a needy person without expectation of return is charity in the mode of goodness-- Bhagavad Gita.
    Life is not about getting and having. It is more about giving and being.
    Help your fellow beings without expectations. What goes round, comes around. This is the law of nature.
    There is a big difference between being a human being and being human.
    No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.
    These are the sayings of great and wise people. Every person would have taken help or advice from another person at some point of time during his life-time. Some would have wasted it and others would have utilised it. In this materialistic world ' help' in kind or words or action is a necessity for so many, many people. Whether the receiver uses it to his benefit or otherwise, your act of help will remain, forever, an act of goodness and kindness.
    In the spiritual world, it is different. You can only help the person, who has sighted spirituality and understood it. But helping a person, who is not ready to turn spiritual, will be wasted. It might even recoil. One has to be careful as to whom he is trying to convey his knowledge, ideas and thoughts.

  • @nasirehsaed4673
    @nasirehsaed4673 3 роки тому +2

    Amazing and so true.I made my son into a lion and now ...I wish I had the power of the sage to turn him back into a mouse for him to evolve in the path intended by God.

  • @chak-de831
    @chak-de831 4 роки тому +5

    You have cleared many of my doubts and confusions sadhguru ...
    Thank You

  • @flowerfreedom7168
    @flowerfreedom7168 3 роки тому +13

    This is the best video ive ever seen on youtube reminds me of my ex abusive boyfriend he wanted me to suffer because I knew he really was a mouse when everyone else thought he was a lion this is so deep must be taught in schools

    • @LottieLucid
      @LottieLucid 3 роки тому

      Absolutely, I had a similar experience. So true.

    • @teotc2099
      @teotc2099 3 роки тому

      You should stay single

  • @tellthemthetruth7490
    @tellthemthetruth7490 3 роки тому +3

    Jesus christ...Said more pleasure in
    Giving than Receiveing ....we Must
    Always look After the Poor.....

  • @serenityn3222
    @serenityn3222 2 роки тому +1

    I can relate to what sadhguru is saying.I’ve learned the hard way that sometimes giving someone something that they are not yet ready for can end up doing more harm than good.

  • @yolantapasikowski-kucz.2686
    @yolantapasikowski-kucz.2686 4 роки тому +20

    I definitely smile more because of Sadhguru. Namaste.💫❤️💫🙏🏻💫💞💫🌏💚✌🏼💫

  • @waltermessines5181
    @waltermessines5181 3 роки тому +18

    There used to be a popular expression: "Everybody gets promoted to the level of incompetence...".

    • @gracerawson2393
      @gracerawson2393 3 роки тому

      😄😄

    • @jaketha
      @jaketha 3 роки тому

      That expression likely came from Laurence Peter's The Peter Principle.

  • @kofbar7660
    @kofbar7660 4 роки тому +5

    Ants run around in pile of gold everyday (farms with seeds) never overwhelmed or crashed.
    Giving from something you love like is always nice. It make heart soft caring.

  • @FanFavvv
    @FanFavvv 4 роки тому +9

    Only thing I know that is free to give is love

    • @GCAT-zv9in
      @GCAT-zv9in 4 роки тому +2

      Beautiful.
      I hope that each person who reads your simple yet profound comment will carry your message in their heart . Once we truly love one another, the problems that we face will be eliminated. If we see someone struggling today with something we can help with, LET'S DO IT! The ripples will be fantastic. You have inspired me, let us all carry it forward and be part of something new ...The LOVE REVOLUTION!

  • @rajeshrajan5442
    @rajeshrajan5442 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you sadhguru. Many confusion and beliefs have changed by listening to this video. Thank you

  • @earthzen
    @earthzen 3 роки тому +1

    I inherited a house. I have been suffering in this prison for many years. I am now drained of my power. Like someone dying of thirst, I can feel the life force soak in when near a few blades of grass or a tree. Thank you Sadhguru, I am grateful for your knowledge. 💖😺

  • @robertdaem2315
    @robertdaem2315 3 роки тому +1

    If it is a life risk you must give. Human life is more valuable than any possession and must be preserved

  • @lindahollander3588
    @lindahollander3588 3 роки тому +1

    I found no good deed goes unpunished, when you help people that don't appreciate it ,it can backfire

  • @brashtruthz4902
    @brashtruthz4902 3 роки тому +3

    I am one who received what I longed for, both in marriage and in employment. The suffering I go through is indescribable. It's not physical suffering, but suffering at a deep level which I cannot even articulate. But it changed me inside out. Thank you Sadguru for this video.🙏

  • @mubizz80
    @mubizz80 3 роки тому

    The only teacher who teaches the world what we have to hear and learn not brainwashing us with what the rest of the world is doing to their citizens

  • @paullapthorn5386
    @paullapthorn5386 3 роки тому +2

    If you want to help everyone help yourself it shall reflect to them.give to self only it shall reflect

    • @OhHapppyDaay
      @OhHapppyDaay 3 роки тому

      @ paul lapthorn: Yes. Because Love is reflected in Love. Thank you for your simple but wise words. I wrote them in my journal.

    • @paullapthorn5386
      @paullapthorn5386 3 роки тому

      @@OhHapppyDaay ta ,I am the one I love the one I am,your heart is the kingdom of heaven,to enter the kingdom of heaven you must be the child

  • @lindabuchanan4667
    @lindabuchanan4667 3 роки тому +7

    Great wisdom, truly needed and appreciated. Thank you and blessings.

  • @sureshbOm
    @sureshbOm 4 роки тому +3

    Absolute truth. You must ensure the recipient deserve s it. Giving alms is the main reason for increased begging and crime against children especially like a country like India where giving is considered as d pious act

  • @suepeasebanitt
    @suepeasebanitt 4 роки тому +65

    I really don’t think the world is suffering from an over abundance of generosity.

    • @varadbidwai4489
      @varadbidwai4489 4 роки тому +11

      You need to watch the video.

    • @ladybluelotus
      @ladybluelotus 4 роки тому +1

      Agreed.

    • @rubberbiscuit99
      @rubberbiscuit99 4 роки тому +4

      Misplaced generosity

    • @jdee4956
      @jdee4956 4 роки тому +6

      I think you missed the point.

    • @suepeasebanitt
      @suepeasebanitt 4 роки тому +1

      @@jdee4956 Nope. As a social worker and yogini I don't agree with this post.

  • @nalinibisnauth8491
    @nalinibisnauth8491 3 роки тому +1

    Experience teaches: to give is great, when give you don't look forward in return. SHARING AND MIXING THAT'S WHEN YOU, EXPECT IN RETURN.

  • @BlazRa
    @BlazRa 3 роки тому +3

    The fact of the matter is there's many people who just don't have mentally or physically what it takes to provide for themselves and I do think it's the nice thing to do to help them out when you can I don't think this because some God told me or because some group says to do it I just do it because it's the human thing to do if circumstances were different you could be in their shoes

  • @munnibhaskar5798
    @munnibhaskar5798 3 роки тому +2

    Danam according to our culture and scriptures means only the basic needs. Food, clothing, education and medicine. Giving too much just because you have with a photo in news paper is rajasa dhanam as per bhagvatgita. This is done to show off. Giving dhanam to destroy some body or some one or some thing is tamasa dhanam. Rajasa dhanam and tamasa dhanam pull down a person to calamity. There is one more called satvik dhanam. Fulfilling only the basic needs and doing it anonymously. Giving not because you have but because you want to show gratitude to the universe. Dhanam as a gesture of gratitude is satvik dhanam. This is told in Bhagavat Gita. I felt like sharing.

  • @toddseals2792
    @toddseals2792 3 роки тому +1

    What Sage you Sadhguru , you teach millions , thanks for trying to make the human race more tolerable ,...

  • @kevinprevost8426
    @kevinprevost8426 4 роки тому +127

    I still get jealous from others attainment's,I don't dwell on it,I know its just my ridiculous mind,I'm learning to laugh at myself more,

    • @MegaSaanch
      @MegaSaanch 4 роки тому +24

      At least being honest is still a very great victory

    • @v1nAyA
      @v1nAyA 4 роки тому +11

      @Sathya Maharajh No being Jealous of Worldly attainments is dangerous, being jealous of Spiritual attainment is really ok, as all your seeking is ultimate reality anyways...

    • @RTSBone
      @RTSBone 4 роки тому +19

      How about you all shut up and do your Sadhana?

    • @pinrayi7909
      @pinrayi7909 4 роки тому +2

      @Sathya Maharajh true, competition develops between even abhyasis of a same practice under a guru. That is why it is very important to not share spiritual knowledge and experiences with fellow abhyasis. Even it is better not to share anything and keep a distance these days.

    • @yerpderp6800
      @yerpderp6800 4 роки тому +2

      @@RTSBone best response 🤣

  • @bagong8073
    @bagong8073 4 роки тому +18

    well this is really good and incredibly timely for me - curious what brought this up in your mind to talk about.- synchronistic. The story at the end is very nice as well...best . Be a mouse again and bye bye...

  • @noreenmughal9817
    @noreenmughal9817 4 роки тому +2

    Best and best have no words to praise such divine wisdom and knowledge a great great religion (or way of living).I wish I born in to hindu family but I believe in past life.

  • @MasterFeiFongWong
    @MasterFeiFongWong 3 роки тому

    This may be off topic, but someone might find it interesting.
    Over unity electric generator. By AMA.
    Segment 1: 1 motor with bar connected to it standing vertically. Circular disc connected to bar that has magnets embedded in it surrounded in high permeability material to focus magnets outward pushing force in an upwards direction from top of disc.
    Segment 2: Hollowed out cylindrical Bar of material horizontally positioned.
    Flat hollowed out ring shaped material with openings around its outer top flat edge.
    Magnets surrounded in high permeability material embedded in these openings.
    Magnets positioned in openings around ring are in at least 1 of 2 configurations either all N magnetic field pushing out or N,S,N,S all around it. Just depends on whether your going for Piston structure or spinning structure explained below & whether you want it to be DC or AC current.
    Place these all along the cylindrical bar connected to it solidly, except at far ends of bar.
    At both ends of bar place ring of material that can be magnetically repelled in specific locations. (magnetically repelled in specific location is in reference to outside of ring area that faces away from center of bar)(Other side of same ring facing in towards center of bar is capable of being magnetically repelled all around) Ring must be connected solidly to bar. points of repulsion on these rings is off set from each other on each end of bar.
    3 Hollow ring structures with small square bars protruding from each. Ring structure has all magnetic repulsion on inside of ring shape & can rap around the main bar so that the bar wont be causing friction on things as it moves back and forth or spins. 1st positioned around far left of bar, 2nd position at center of bar (be sure to leave enough room for magnetic structures to be able to move back and forth without hitting it) & 3rd positioned on far right of bar.
    Tube structure is constructed in two parts that fit together on top of each other length wise over main structure.
    Tube structure has 3 square openings for the bars that the Ring structures that are connected around the main bar keeping it from causing friction on structure, to slide into.
    This tube structure is designed with material that does not block magnetic fields. Perhaps some type of transparent material glass or other.
    At both ends of the tube structure there is a built in circular groove that will house a round disc. The ceiling/floor/left side/& right side of groove has openings for small magnets to be embedded in it, so that the pushing force from magnets is pushing in towards the edge of disc that goes in this spot. There is also 4 openings located on the top, bottom, left & right positions of the open groove. Small magnets are placed in these spots so when round disc is in position these magnetic fields will hit sideways keeping it from generating friction against structure.
    Far Ends of bar has Cap structure that screws over tube halves holding them together. Cap structure also has 4 points on inside top, bottom, left & right that have openings. These openings have small embedded magnets in them that exert there pushing force outwards (sideways) so it will keep disc in position, generating no friction against structure. Cap is made of material like tube so it does not block magnetic fields. (Note: These magnets in groove and cap structure are only needed for piston design. If Disc is directly connected to main bar so as it spins the bar spins, magnets are not needed here).
    The disc has ring around it (ring of material goes around outer edge and folds over front side & backside a small distance) that is repelled by magnetic fields so the 12 small magnets will keep it lined up but it will be able to spin without causing friction on structure. The disc has openings on it's flat side that face inside of tube and magnets surrounded in high permeability material are embedded in this disc.
    The disc has small bar that is connected to it's center that goes all the way to the other end of bar structure through the center of the hollowed out bar and connects to disc on other end. Disc on other end is set up the same but magnets embedded in it are off set in comparison. As first disc spins the magnetic fields will push against specific spot on disc connected directly to bar, pushing bar in other direction, once bar is fully pushed over, further spinning of disc will then align the other sides magnet to push it back.
    Tube structure also has half moon shaped protrusion on inside and on both halves so when tube is connected they line up to make a full ring shape on inside of tube, these half moon shaped protrusions have at least 1 small round opening on it's side in middle of curve that faces away from center of bar. The opening has a small magnet embedded in it so magnetic force is repelling out sideways away from center of bar. The protruding ring is positioned to line up slightly further in towards center of bar then the ring of magnetically repelled material connected directly to bar. This way when bar moves right or left it is magnetically stopped after a short distance.
    Copper coil setup: Copper coils are wound in at least 1 of 2 ways. Either coiled in circles next to each other (Like if you wound coils around a cylindrical bar) or laid out in a row as if wire was on flat table going up then bent to go down & back up until it formed a flat rectangle of wire bending up and down and then the entire structure folded around tube. Copper windings are then lined up perpendicular to magnetic fields on outside of tube. Ends of copper coils are connected into separate construct that will allow electrical current to flow somewhere else.
    Circular construct is built like a stand that goes around the outside of motor segment. Circular construct has flat ring of high permeability (magnetic field shielding) material that has small openings that will allow magnetic fields through specific locations. Top of circular construct has groove to allow the horizontal bar to balance on. Circular construct can also be placed on other end of bar so it is balanced. The motor segment is positioned so the disc connected to the bar that is connected to the motor is lined up so the disc passes under the horizontal bars disc that is at end of horizontal bar. The high permeability material keeps the magnetic fields in disc from hitting into the disc that spins or pushes the horizontal bar until just the right moment when the impact will cause the disc in horizontal bar to spin which will perpetuate the piston motion in the horizontal bar. More horizontal bars of the same design are built and positioned around the motor segment in a circular horizontal fashion all the way around. The bar connected to the motor can be increased in length to desired height (As much as motor can handle) and more of the exact same setup is repeated higher and higher up, maximizing the over unity potential of the construct to ridiculous proportions. :D Current from the horizontal bars is diverted to power the motor as needed and all other current is diverted to power my game console or the world. :) Interesting variation to this design would be to connect the spinning discs on far ends of horizontal bar to main bar that magnets are connected to so the magnets spin instead of getting pistoned back and forth. So long as moving magnetic fields are perpendicular to copper wires it should work. By AMA

  • @danb640
    @danb640 3 роки тому +1

    It also applies for taking something for which you are not ready.
    However, by receiving or taking such a "gift", there is also the possibility of a great jump in the evolution. And in my opinion the evolution is the most important, everything else is "illusion", to quote the guru :)

  • @neeljoshi3923
    @neeljoshi3923 4 роки тому +7

    Sadhguru opened my eyes 🙏

  • @paullapthorn5386
    @paullapthorn5386 3 роки тому +1

    Do not give unless they ask,even then give only enough for their journey

  • @positivevibe7684
    @positivevibe7684 2 роки тому

    I want things I am ready for. If I'm not ready, I don't want it. A lot of us want things and get it, then realize they don't want it. And this is partly because they weren't ready for it. Much Love to all 💕

  • @dianaware7107
    @dianaware7107 3 роки тому +2

    I could listen to you Sir for the rest of my life ! Heartfelt gratitude for the lesson you so beautifully imparted . I won’t forget it ! With love , bliss , and respect . Diana 🙏❤️❤️🙏😍😍👏

  • @OhHapppyDaay
    @OhHapppyDaay 3 роки тому +1

    Divine Love always has met and always will meet every human need.
    Trust the eternal.
    MBE

  • @石森レイナ
    @石森レイナ 3 роки тому +4

    Great Man with a Great Mind long live Great Teacher 💕

  • @mohnishamohan4002
    @mohnishamohan4002 4 роки тому +14

    Thank you Sadhguru for this great lesson Everything should happen naturally

  • @satyasingh713
    @satyasingh713 4 роки тому +12

    How beautiful !

  • @blokblok2009
    @blokblok2009 4 роки тому +3

    Great meditation listening 🙏..If you silence yourself and listen and read alone and think of what is most important yourself.

  • @ashwinreddy4669
    @ashwinreddy4669 4 роки тому +3

    That's right sadhguru.. what you said about compassion.. I understood that in the month of August this year.. thank you....

  • @sandhyas162
    @sandhyas162 4 роки тому +8

    Loved the story, it’s soothing 🙏

  • @bharetiedhorai4652
    @bharetiedhorai4652 4 роки тому +3

    Dear mr. Sadguru, May I and all of us fully take in what you metaphorically share with me (or us). I truly believe that creating images - such as the ant - has the ludic ability to enter into the wisdom of even the most stubborn human hearts. As for compassion, I needed to learn again, that this also has his own shadow side. It may indeed get to unwanted effects of contra productivity, amongst others; it may interfere in the way the other needs to evolve, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually into the fragility of maturity. Seldom I perceive or, learn from others about their achievement of becoming mature thus fragil. Going from childish to child like. Embodying humbleness. To the bones.
    May we meet again🦋🧡❤🦉❤🧡🦋

  • @SK-rp9hu
    @SK-rp9hu 4 роки тому +3

    OMG.. ammmmazing..what n how much more I can THANK Gods to send Guru Devaa like u in my life..
    Saashtaanga namaskaram.. Namo Namah Shri Gurupadhukabhyam 🙏🙏

  • @AnotherSeekerOfWisdom
    @AnotherSeekerOfWisdom Рік тому +1

    I thought that giving all the time was my duty. I thought I was smart by sharing all what I considered worthy to be knowed to anyone.
    The truth is that 95% of the people never wanted what I, with effort in the details, shared indiscriminately. I was showing off while thinking I was being "Prometeic" and selfless.
    I thought I was being nice. But how stupid one can be to give to those who don't want while being impulsed by selfish reasons desguised as compassion?
    I will try my best not to think that I'm wise. The result is realizing the complete opposite.
    Is this comment an attempt to do what I just said I won't do, but in a subtler disguise? Mind is always confused.

  • @dab0331
    @dab0331 4 роки тому +51

    You don't give anesthetics to a child who's hand is currently on a hot stove; you give him to the enlightening experience of pain, which gives him the awareness to remove the hand himself.

    • @rekhadayal3841
      @rekhadayal3841 4 роки тому +2

      Wow. That’s so profound. Well said.

    • @suepeasebanitt
      @suepeasebanitt 3 роки тому +6

      That sounds like abuse, not love. No one can avoid pain. We all have had so much of it already. Pain itself does not teach; in fact pain can teach the wrong things.

    • @suepeasebanitt
      @suepeasebanitt 3 роки тому +6

      @@dheeru543 your example is literally child abuse and does not extend to spiritual teaching. Parents must set and enforce limits so that children do not burn their hands. They do not need pain, only heat. Same with adults. Show them the consequences while still helping. The rain falls on the just and unjust alike.

    • @sexymary
      @sexymary 3 роки тому +2

      @@suepeasebanitt You're such a snowflake.

    • @Dream-bebe
      @Dream-bebe 3 роки тому

      Please stop 🛑 child abuse! Your philosophies are garbage!!

  • @alphasuperior100
    @alphasuperior100 2 роки тому

    Man Sadhguru has so much stories it is amazing.

  • @pariss1445
    @pariss1445 3 роки тому +56

    So true. Just look at what happens to people who win the lottery.

    • @prettypeyalimon6097
      @prettypeyalimon6097 3 роки тому +4

      What happens to them. @Paris S?

    • @pariss1445
      @pariss1445 3 роки тому +7

      @@prettypeyalimon6097 they end up much worse than they started. No job, many debts, fewer friends, new bad habits, etc.

    • @AppleiTouch6497
      @AppleiTouch6497 3 роки тому +14

      Please don’t curse lottery winners like this, I have seen plenty of success for lottery winners who learned how to use their money wisely, with good habits

    • @marijaciceric9415
      @marijaciceric9415 3 роки тому +3

      @@AppleiTouch6497 thank you

    • @kurotadoriandroid
      @kurotadoriandroid 3 роки тому +6

      I know right. Horrible. Remember when you win the lottery hand the money to me . Thanks

  • @sandhyasunil1116
    @sandhyasunil1116 4 роки тому +33

    Great speech, Precious content...🙏 🙏 🙏

  • @illillc2284
    @illillc2284 3 роки тому +1

    Everyone must inherit good &bad kharma & so everyone indirectly changes someone life by participating. We live in a cause& effect plane 🗺. So be careful who you turn away & who you assist.

  • @mythilis8501
    @mythilis8501 3 роки тому +1

    Just do what is needed, you will get whatever you deserve 🙏

  • @kriti383
    @kriti383 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you. It was the time for me to know this. Thank you.

  • @fifthelement1274
    @fifthelement1274 3 роки тому +1

    The TRUE gifts comes from higher consciousness and not from
    hu-man. No one can judge or even comprehend why some people were granted the gifts.

  • @theinwardway9166
    @theinwardway9166 2 роки тому +1

    This is the perfect instruction for me at this moment. 🙏

  • @rejithan.r5171
    @rejithan.r5171 4 роки тому +8

    He is talking about dangers of compulsive givings. Suppose you witness a beggar on the street. If you give him money he will probably buy alcohol or cigarettes with this money or buy some food or medicine according to his needs and wants. The key is not to jumb into conclusion with your prejudiced mind. Just observe with all your mindfulness, without any thoughts, without any interference from your self. Then you will see what is needed (if any). Then you can see if he really needs food or a haircut or a hug or money or nothing. Just observe without evaluation, you will get answer of everything.

    • @nabilasharif7185
      @nabilasharif7185 4 роки тому +2

      If you give him money is NON OF YOUR BUSINESS for what he will gone use... are you HIS CREATOR to think you got any rights over him ? ... give the money or dont give, THE REST IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESD

  • @merepyaresadguru
    @merepyaresadguru 3 роки тому

    Sadguru 🌹जब आप के अंदर लचीलापन होता है तो आप जीवन को सुनने के लिए तैयार होते हैं

  • @_savesoil4200
    @_savesoil4200 4 роки тому +19

    Thank you so much Sadhguru for sharing your wisdom.

  • @chikashyana
    @chikashyana Рік тому

    Well said! Especially for us in the diaspora...sending back home 😊..

  • @FanFavvv
    @FanFavvv 4 роки тому +11

    But I will never give to much . A person wouldn’t learn anything if it’s giving

  • @annab13
    @annab13 3 роки тому +19

    "Do not throw your pearl before the swine"

    • @charlottehanna790
      @charlottehanna790 3 роки тому

      Pearls and swine....bereft of me.......Chris Cornell.

  • @manoaaiyub4762
    @manoaaiyub4762 3 роки тому

    Thankyou very much my Dear Sadhguruji.

  • @gloryroadgloryroad4779
    @gloryroadgloryroad4779 3 роки тому

    Good day I AM grateful for TEACHER Your graciousness I welcome GRACE and PEACE MULTIPLIED to you

  • @ZeusHelios
    @ZeusHelios 3 роки тому

    I wonder just how many people who follow and listen to Sadhguru follow his advice.

  • @soniahaydee868
    @soniahaydee868 3 роки тому

    Sadhguru s so realistical when speaking the real true 👍🥰people should really listen.

  • @axelmacdonald6836
    @axelmacdonald6836 3 місяці тому +1

    Does anybody know how is the name of the last mantra? i tried but i can´t find it as sadhguru dev

  • @katisugarbaker7349
    @katisugarbaker7349 3 роки тому

    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Observe and think and feel what is and is not needed.