"I'm going nowhere in life"

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  • @jordanshanks5340
    @jordanshanks5340  8 місяців тому +12

    Jim Rohn tier - 1 extra vid Wayne Dyer tier 2 extra vids Tony Robbins 3 extra vids - see you there - www.patreon.com/jordanshanks

  • @Julian-jv7so
    @Julian-jv7so 8 місяців тому +153

    A BETTER YOU STARTS TODAY

  • @beastamer1990s
    @beastamer1990s 8 місяців тому +70

    Got rid of my bed this morning to maximise space and efficiency. I now have room for that big fish tank I've been wanting to take my aquarium hobby to the next level and maybe make some money off it. Going to cull my clothes soon too. Turns out it's easy to declutter when nothing in your life sparks any joy anymore

    • @Snaekyy
      @Snaekyy 8 місяців тому +1

      Beast tamer where are you sleeping now and what creatures are you gonna put in the tank?

    • @CCC-w6g
      @CCC-w6g 8 місяців тому +7

      This but unironically. I’m not depressed, I have an innate minimalistic konmari skills

  • @PipShearman
    @PipShearman 8 місяців тому +15

    Im a 57yr old bloke and have only just come across this channel. I lost my job 8 weeks ago and have literally sat on my arse for all that time. Yes Ive applied for numerous jobs and have had lots of interviews. But this really hit home as I have always wanted to publish some of the many photos Ive taken over the years. Time to pull my finger out and start that part of my lifes journey. Thank you for this 👍🏾

  • @MentalAsEver
    @MentalAsEver 8 місяців тому +46

    Found out I loved working with cows, then discovered the miracle of 'Ag school' said fuck yeah and put in an average amount of effort getting certifications and experience. Worked on a wheat and sheep farm over harvest for 4 months and earned $12K, bought myself an affordable and reliable ute and have been living the dream dairy farming for over 2 years now. Waiting to win lotto to get my own land, otherwise I'll be happily milking cows in my 70's

    • @trueKorvus
      @trueKorvus 8 місяців тому

      How much is it to start a dairy farm?

    • @JaneDoe-qf4xb
      @JaneDoe-qf4xb 8 місяців тому +2

      There are many more ventures that are more fruitful ventures fhan the lotto, dear x
      Look into government and organisation grants for startups, and for primary producers :)

    • @earthwormsim8068
      @earthwormsim8068 8 місяців тому

      Great message of gratitude!

    • @soniaess28
      @soniaess28 8 місяців тому

      ​@@trueKorvusseveral millions

  • @bluskye7899
    @bluskye7899 8 місяців тому +20

    I turn 29 today. Ive spent the majority of my life suffering from severe mental illness. I've never needed to set my own challenges because there has always been something imposed on me. Nowadays I feel I'm not going anywhere. The bar for existence is now so low that if I can get by, I will. This isnt how I want to live. I've been trying to get help from disability resources. Hopefully with some support I can get a little momentum back and finally work towards something more than survival.

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому +5

      Oh, great. I'm not the only twenty something year old in the severely depressed and repressed club

    • @soniaess28
      @soniaess28 8 місяців тому +1

      There are many ways to have a good life. Best of luck xxx

  • @Bruhtters
    @Bruhtters 8 місяців тому +10

    Friendly jordies is in my walls I swear, I was sat last night having this crisis before I slept I wake up and bam this video talking about that exact issue

  • @Dihydrousoxide
    @Dihydrousoxide 8 місяців тому +14

    Timestamps / Chapters
    0:00 Intro
    1:00 Everyone feels it
    2:41 Social Media is Myth Sharing
    4:18 You are being fed FOMO
    5:05 Action: Recognise it's just Conditioning
    7:08 "I don't know what to master."
    8:15 Aim for something over 10 Years
    8:40 Why do you feel it?
    10:55 Aim for feelings of flow (non-boredom)
    12:00 Avoid getting comfortable with feeling "going nowhere".
    14:25 Big Takeaway: How to Focus on a Skill
    15:20 Jordan calls you out
    17:16 -- Homework Task --
    18:05 Jordan wildly overestimates the length of the average human life
    19:29 Jordan makes fun of you

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for this, cause I already forgot the homework... do you know when it's due?

  • @masterchiefblank4885
    @masterchiefblank4885 8 місяців тому +35

    Man, this is an insane cosmological coincidence because i was just having a shower feeling down and alone about life and when I come back to my pc I see this video posted 24 minutes ago..., man I hate how this is a blaring sign...

    • @eloisethatsme
      @eloisethatsme 8 місяців тому +3

      I feel your pain. I’ve been in a slump all day and then I saw this video was posted

    • @QuestionS0cietyTod4Y
      @QuestionS0cietyTod4Y 8 місяців тому +2

      Bro you and I both, I've been thinking about starting a business and felt like it wasn't going how it should. Then this video comes out and now I clearly see the 80% i need to shread and focus more on my thing.

    • @MultiChrisjb
      @MultiChrisjb 8 місяців тому +2

      Ahh, i know your problem. Don't take showers, instead take a victory bath. You can't feel down while having a bath. That'll put you on the right track.

    • @milankennaway247
      @milankennaway247 8 місяців тому

      Bro I ended things with my girl and was full having does thoughts literally happened 5 hours before he posted this

  • @TwinkleStar987
    @TwinkleStar987 8 місяців тому +18

    Kudos. I’ve been connecting with my younger self who learnt the world wasn’t safe. I was terrified so I went to Uni. Then I had to do something with it. I always felt small. But set a goal, then did it. Always trying to be open, yet targeted. Open because my job required it. It also meant goals and achieving. People are my passion. Mostly Australians.

  • @really296
    @really296 8 місяців тому +9

    Uh oh I went to the not journalism channel. My life's going somewhere seeing as everytime I get ahead I get shaken like a snow globe and have to wait for the dust to settle. It's changed 5 times in 5 years and I've retained resilience from all of it.

  • @sweetpea644
    @sweetpea644 8 місяців тому +8

    Everyone absolutely feels this way, and the acknowledgment is spot on, no matter how successful or busy you are. Life's all about choices leading to other choices, then you're like "but what if I chose that instead?".

  • @j_bucko567
    @j_bucko567 8 місяців тому +23

    Ok, master the crack pipe. Thanks for the advice Jordan.

  • @coredefect6134
    @coredefect6134 8 місяців тому +2

    The one man standing between us and a living hell, what a legend!

  • @karott599
    @karott599 8 місяців тому +6

    I love these manic rant videos

  • @M4S4life
    @M4S4life 8 місяців тому

    Why is it that this video and it "format" made perfect sense to my brain, like every tangent was spot on.

  • @heidistefaniak
    @heidistefaniak 8 місяців тому +4

    that circle you're referring to is called ⭐The Zone of Proximal Development ⭐

  • @AJHornet1
    @AJHornet1 8 місяців тому +1

    Everyone is going nowhere. The place you think you need to go to is always going to disappoint you. Enjoy the journey. Do things that fulfil you.

  • @kenithmay79
    @kenithmay79 8 місяців тому

    Wow this video is actually what I really needed at this point in my life, Thank you Jordie 💖

  • @mlittlej101
    @mlittlej101 8 місяців тому +3

    Honestly, didn't realise how much I like having you shout at me (for free) on the regular. Keep at it. Now that you've finished I'm going out to try and finishing fixing this fucking motorbike of mine (current goal - learn how to do slightly more motorbike maintenance myself so that I can - future goal - rebuild my spectacularly, breathtakingly fucked motorbike).

  • @jacksonhubert3347
    @jacksonhubert3347 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m currently transitioning careers from trades and machining to personal training, to be honest the last part of the video helped a ton, just using that time I do everyday boring shit to progress in my studies

  • @northstar6920
    @northstar6920 8 місяців тому +5

    Life feels like a bad MMO thats been going on for *Far* too long without a sequel.

  • @tadakimasu
    @tadakimasu 8 місяців тому +5

    Circle of competence is the phrase you're looking for Jordan. A very popular phrase used by Warren Buffett

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому

      Also where one's sense of self efficacy is housed.. usually

  • @ballsymcfee9882
    @ballsymcfee9882 8 місяців тому

    That's exactly what I needed to hear, Jordon! Thanks.... I think...

  • @ssskurvy3628
    @ssskurvy3628 8 місяців тому +2

    This was the funniest self help video I’ve ever watched

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому +1

      Definitely worth a rewatch once a week to drill it into our thick skulls

  • @bravebunnyblake
    @bravebunnyblake 7 місяців тому

    I have never felt like I’m going nowhere because I’m always struggling to keep myself alive 😂😂

  • @JaylanYilmaz
    @JaylanYilmaz 8 місяців тому

    if your life feels like it is going nowhere, you are correct. Always trust your gut feeling.

  • @deec9577
    @deec9577 8 місяців тому +1

    The Pareto principle but hermit crab version sent me

  • @Rookies103
    @Rookies103 8 місяців тому

    Thank you!

  • @mikareno11
    @mikareno11 8 місяців тому

    Good morning from Bra
    Thanks for the content n upload

  • @Plorxium
    @Plorxium 8 місяців тому

    The voices in my head tell me they will kill me if I leave my house and I'm literally going nowhere and am stuck in life.

  • @user-ce9xe1qe8i
    @user-ce9xe1qe8i 8 місяців тому +1

    This was a really good one Jordy

  • @craigthomas477
    @craigthomas477 8 місяців тому +7

    I figured this out at a young age. Since i was about 20, I've set yearly goals. Not fuckin resolutions. Goals. Whether it be learn to weld, finish my apprenticeship in carpentry or renovating my bathroom. I sit back at the end of the year and assess what i achieved that year. Im 35 now and have multiple properties, successful business and many and varied skills. Set goals people. ❤

  • @CherrySpectacles
    @CherrySpectacles 8 місяців тому +1

    First. And it feels like I need to see this given the topic. Love you Jord

  • @orterves
    @orterves 8 місяців тому

    Philosophers solved these questions thousands of years ago, with very similar solutions, all around the world - nothing extrinsic matters, true happiness is intrinsic, be your best self and take care of your loved ones

  • @terrafallow
    @terrafallow 8 місяців тому

    For me, it's permaculture and growing food that keeps me going. I've certainly had to develop some problem solving skills. Hell! I lost 20 kilos in six months when i got started last year (i was overweight). Thanks for all the advice

  • @higamerXD
    @higamerXD 8 місяців тому

    i feel my life going from some to where sometimes, and other times from where to some

  • @sarahalex3760
    @sarahalex3760 8 місяців тому

    this gave me some direction to why i feel like shit lmao thank you jordie, time to push myself

  • @dad6896
    @dad6896 8 місяців тому

    long time subscriber. even longer counting the other channel. anyway work your magic for me right now i need it.

  • @chasingforeverbb
    @chasingforeverbb 8 місяців тому +2

    A BETTER YOU STARTS TODAY BAYBEEEEEE

  • @littereverywhere
    @littereverywhere 8 місяців тому

    Sometimes the things you don't like won't like you back.

  • @tpmann7166
    @tpmann7166 8 місяців тому

    Jordan saying he's felt like hes going nowhere before, my first thought was that he mastered the firebombs

  • @PTV69420
    @PTV69420 8 місяців тому +1

    Idk dude, I'm stuck because of crapitalism and there are VERY real blockades in artistic industries that I've tried in before. People are pretty exhausted just trying to make enough money to not end up in the streets. THAT'S the GROUNDHOG SHIT. Can't escape being poor. Can't afford to have dreams.

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому +1

      That's where most people go wrong. They moved on from thumb twittling to thumb scrolling and think "ah, well, I've done and given everything I could possibly do today to not end up on the street or go hungry,". They're not called starving artists for nothing, cause they're both too broke to sufficiently feed themselves and they've got an insatiable desire to achieve their dreams.
      Never stop dreaming on the side, just do what Jordie said: three tasks or goals that'll advance your life and/or career. You can be poor and still dare to dream.

  • @awolffromamongus875
    @awolffromamongus875 8 місяців тому +3

    Jordy. Don't tempt me to divorce. Milestone around my neck of complaining and supports me in every way possible.

  • @Eli.83
    @Eli.83 8 місяців тому +4

    Fuckk I'm hooked.
    Fine I'll go to patreon

  • @Fruitcupper
    @Fruitcupper 6 місяців тому

    I run a B&B cleaning business.
    There is ALWAYS a pervert chair in the corner of the bedroom.

  • @mainlineful
    @mainlineful 8 місяців тому

    my god your wearing a 80s jacket that's so cool comfy jordan ? good to see it

  • @pixelzpupz6475
    @pixelzpupz6475 8 місяців тому +1

    Hermit crab. Noted.

  • @ReaperspearX
    @ReaperspearX 8 місяців тому

    I'll have you know I have nothing dripping in me, for I am constantly fulfilled with water.

  • @michaelwickins3893
    @michaelwickins3893 8 місяців тому

    thanks dad

  • @Rosielovesmusic
    @Rosielovesmusic 8 місяців тому +1

    'I like the way Snrub thinks.'

  • @nightmaretheoverlord1825
    @nightmaretheoverlord1825 Місяць тому

    This is interesting and I wish a had heard this earlier I might have started explaining my shell sooner. You probably won’t see this but if someone does see this I might as well over share. I use to have nothing to do besides gaming and some other things like UA-cam but after a while I was inspired to start the path to make my game of me dreams a reality, I have not gotten to fair on this path but so far I’m proud of what I have made. It’s all the great but for this stage of my life it’s good enough. In my pursuits of this game I have learned many things like how to use blender, unity, krita, and to code. Now I will easily admire that I am not good at any of these, but I feel like I could be good and to me I feel like that is all that matters. Alright now that I have said this I best head off to bed I have plans to make and me being weak willed won’t stop me forever.

  • @libbygenxmum
    @libbygenxmum 8 місяців тому

    My husband is the king of fun! And his sister is the Queen of fun!
    👋😄🎉

  • @strewtherrolson862
    @strewtherrolson862 8 місяців тому

    But jordie, i spent year building this mid body. Am i to just leave it to soften and atrophy?

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому

      Fuck no, move onto the next set, buddy

  • @Wai2Tweaked
    @Wai2Tweaked 8 місяців тому +1

    Flashbacks to the beginning of the channel lol, great title XD

  • @danielladargenzio5080
    @danielladargenzio5080 8 місяців тому

    This is a really good video

  • @Elemblue2
    @Elemblue2 8 місяців тому

    No to your opening comment, I just like hearing what you have to say. You have good insights.
    Should I leave? Not for me?

  • @DaxSkrai
    @DaxSkrai 8 місяців тому +1

    Jordan I must tell you, as a recovering addict, that that isn't a crack pipe. That's a meth pipe xD

  • @MegaSlangton
    @MegaSlangton 8 місяців тому

    genuine question - is "stagnation" okay if you are happy with it? Like with the Truck company example, what is thats what makes them happy?

  • @chrisrgfield
    @chrisrgfield 8 місяців тому

    Tubbs and Crocket called and they want there wind breaker back

  • @Robo67-24
    @Robo67-24 8 місяців тому

    Felt like this for years now. But hey im not the lone ranger

  • @SpaceTimeTurtle
    @SpaceTimeTurtle 8 місяців тому

    Sick jacket mate.
    Where can this fellow "life crusher" (TM pending...) get one?
    Cheers cunnie.

  • @endlessphantasy14
    @endlessphantasy14 8 місяців тому +1

    Damn, It's like every second Jordan is punching me with his red pilled fists...

    • @MiG82au
      @MiG82au 8 місяців тому

      You're hearing what you want to hear if you think this is a red pill, unless you're using red pill in an older fashion.

  • @jessieleigh1482
    @jessieleigh1482 8 місяців тому

    The bot flies....they're eating our face...

  • @plaguedoct0r
    @plaguedoct0r 8 місяців тому +4

    Your mum masters skills.

  • @iurutanyensa
    @iurutanyensa 8 місяців тому

    Only people who don’t have children feel like their life is going no where. Get married, have kids. That is literally 90% of your life’s purpose as a human being.

  • @Psivox69
    @Psivox69 8 місяців тому

    I think everyone knew in the back of their heads that’s what they needed to do, someone just had to say it.

  • @chrismousley1668
    @chrismousley1668 8 місяців тому +1

    Just think of John Baliraro having mastered spaghetti eating and then moving to boxing 🥊 🍝

  • @JuneDavid99
    @JuneDavid99 8 місяців тому

    Ill do it all

    • @JuneDavid99
      @JuneDavid99 8 місяців тому

      Ive been writing standup since i was a teenager, just recently started performing for open mics after 5 years of complacency depression and weight gain, and wouldnt you know Ive found something Im good at. Last couple weeks Ive been getting overwhelmed at the lifelong task of making something Im proud of. I really admire your work, you posted this at the perfect time for me.

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому

      I bid you the greatest good luck in your comedy endeavours! ✌💖

  • @Xethl
    @Xethl 8 місяців тому

    Jordan, did you perchance use that pipe before recording? I do feel more hyped though

  • @lemonlennonlenin3970
    @lemonlennonlenin3970 8 місяців тому

    Can you make a last year of highschool/hsc advice video?

  • @Mark-gt5jt
    @Mark-gt5jt 8 місяців тому

    I feel like the government is trying to steal my money and make me live in a cashless society. Government. My money. Me. This is not the three some i want. What can i do about it?

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому

      Maybe stop dealing drugs for cash

    • @Mark-gt5jt
      @Mark-gt5jt 8 місяців тому

      Sounds like what the government would say. Now it's definitely a conspiracy ;)

  • @craigdavid6519
    @craigdavid6519 8 місяців тому

    the lego song is bang on...EVERYTHING IS AWESOME ...NOT!!!

  • @jamseance
    @jamseance 8 місяців тому

    I feel not only inspired but motivated to create a better tomorrow. Thanks, Jordan!

  • @crapmalls
    @crapmalls 8 місяців тому +1

    I need one of those David Icke jackets

  • @user-yd9od2xu9q
    @user-yd9od2xu9q 8 місяців тому

    “10 minutes or less!”
    19:39

    • @user-yd9od2xu9q
      @user-yd9od2xu9q 8 місяців тому

      not complaining though lol the longer the better

  • @huntingyowies8340
    @huntingyowies8340 8 місяців тому

    Lord bless you

  • @qwertyqwert2772
    @qwertyqwert2772 8 місяців тому

    dont die before you're dead

  • @steadytrousers9813
    @steadytrousers9813 8 місяців тому +13

    I’m shitting to this 🎉

    • @oledonkeynutzmcgee5320
      @oledonkeynutzmcgee5320 8 місяців тому +3

      I ALSO WAS SHITTING

    • @MultiChrisjb
      @MultiChrisjb 8 місяців тому +3

      Something deep to think about: does anyone ever take a dump without pissing? I think it's common thing that brings us all together.

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому +2

      ​@@MultiChrisjb all poo poo times are pee pee times

  • @DeusEx3
    @DeusEx3 8 місяців тому

    Listening to this while doing other stuff, but I'm pretty sure he said I should start smoking crack? I'm one step ahead of you, buddy

  • @KarmerG
    @KarmerG 8 місяців тому

    proper

  • @Xisjwjsbxb
    @Xisjwjsbxb 8 місяців тому

    yea bro

  • @jesselawrence-brown8912
    @jesselawrence-brown8912 8 місяців тому

    I think the main takeaway here is that society shouldn't have gotten rid of leprosy.

    • @oliverman6168
      @oliverman6168 8 місяців тому

      Pakistan & India currently have many people afflicted with leprosy.

  • @Xisjwjsbxb
    @Xisjwjsbxb 8 місяців тому

    nothing better then a servo samwhich

    • @soniaess28
      @soniaess28 8 місяців тому

      Egg and lettuce.

  • @bagobullets4188
    @bagobullets4188 8 місяців тому +1

    Why haven't you collab'd with Juice Media yet, they seem like the perfect allies

  • @superspeederbooster
    @superspeederbooster 8 місяців тому

    how do you know what I think!?

  • @ZootZinBootZ
    @ZootZinBootZ 8 місяців тому

    Yes Bathurst is that depressing

  • @michaellembo1006
    @michaellembo1006 8 місяців тому

    Jordies take on Tony Robbins 😂😂, you need the hart wrecking "motorvational music" to go with your speech, 😅

  • @huntingyowies8340
    @huntingyowies8340 8 місяців тому +1

    Buy the tools to fix something

  • @kickinon
    @kickinon 8 місяців тому

    You basically summarised barbra oakleys book on learning, good read for people struggling

  • @altekamerad
    @altekamerad 8 місяців тому

    🚨 PJW MENTIONED 🚨

  • @samhennessy3682
    @samhennessy3682 8 місяців тому

    Soon.. it was always a skill issue

  • @gravy3907
    @gravy3907 8 місяців тому

    nah the ppl in the corner also gota score card it :p

  • @MatsTheNorwegian
    @MatsTheNorwegian 8 місяців тому

    Only up from here!
    -me

  • @slamovision
    @slamovision 8 місяців тому

    Can you make an alter ego like "Funky Jordie" or I like "Freaky Jordie"?

  • @handlehaggler
    @handlehaggler 7 місяців тому

    casually pulls out a pipe. bro.. why do you have that lmao

  • @friednoodles666
    @friednoodles666 8 місяців тому

    joe rogan collab would be tight tho

    • @audreydoyle5268
      @audreydoyle5268 8 місяців тому +1

      Jordie: **says something so obvious**
      Joe: 😯 **finds is so profound**

  • @anonmouse15
    @anonmouse15 8 місяців тому

    Not really, I'm aware that every day that passes is one day closer to death.
    That's going somewhere.

  • @jakegargiulo5101
    @jakegargiulo5101 8 місяців тому

    Ahh yeahhh

  • @Bigdog66000
    @Bigdog66000 8 місяців тому

    Dmt pipe*