Im beyond miserable. Im sick of having this. It feels like a disabilty where instead of my legs not working my entire body doesnt only sometimes and noone understands or can help me. They all leave to normally rip me apart for the very things im trying to understand and figure out. I feeo screwed im 33 yrs old and i dont get out of bed anymore and it seems like noone can actually help me. No i don't want to talk about it all again i just want to wake up without it.
My little sister is terrified of being by herself she feels like she needs to save everything she also smiles alot but its never true she is still struggling and its hard for her to an adult about something that happens in her life that an adult needs to hear and when we ask why she says its because shes afraid of them yelling at her shes been traumatized twice and still handles it badley and it took her a month to tell our mom about something bad that happend and she tends to care about other people more than her and once she was being bullied and everyone was saying it was bc the boy had a crush on her she cried every night.
Hi can you pls make a vid on how to deal with panic attacks at school, and also friendship/ bullying trauma, thanks 🙏 love your vids😊 understand if you can’t ❤
I wish you could do follow up Video or include ways to Stop these very Sad feelings and Behaviors! We know how we all got here let's Focus on how to Heal from these Traumas!
I grew up in a very good household. My parents loved me and provided for me. My dad was chill. However my mother had depression and PTSD and would often fly off the handle, screaming and slamming doors, or she would just yell at us. My childhood was peppered with “spankings” often multiple times a day. I struggle with the independence part and I’m 23.
Same my mum used to yell at mea and beat me up but it was never considerd abuse untill i immigrated to another country and realised i could have called CPS on her i have so much trauma that i cant handle being in loud places even school
My dad was so chill and cowady and let me mom do whatever and didnt stop her at all even though he didnt hurt me straightly he did hurt me by not being there for me to rhe point i allways avoided him
My dad was so chill and cowady and let me mom do whatever and didnt stop her at all even though he didnt hurt me straightly he did hurt me by not being there for me to rhe point i allways avoided him
Omg so as I suspected the dissociation started as child, and now at present I'm having extreme dissociation feel petrified and unreal.But I must be real as I am watching video and responding.
Like my ex husband who was a violent malignant narcissist . He's made me ill now . And my mother was malignant narc. I can't cope I'm left with cptsd adhd bipolar I'm alone with this now
I don't trust myself. I like always go after what my parents say to the point they get annoyed that I can't make decisions on my own. I grew up as an autistic girl that wasn't diagnosed and my family was chaos and me being the youngest got very scared and felt unsafe and so on and I was bullied in school as well so I kinda thought it was normal for people who were supposed to care to also bully you or scream at you. Many other things also happened but I'm really unsure of myself and always need someone else's opinion and now that I'm 20 I am trying my best to make my own decisions but I can't even have an opinion without asking if my opinion is okay maybe because I often get told what I think or feel and get pushed down for being disabled
Back in April of 2023 i was taking meds or nerve pain for my neck . I was taking small dose instead of taking three pills a day . And one pill was enough to give trauma back in 4-7 grade from 2004-2008 being bullied / made fun of how i looked because i had a tumor on back of my neck and they think it was okay to do that to someone ? It made me make feel awful about my self . I have been seeming a therapist for my self esteem
ok, my wife is getting into this and is not ready. she hears people talking about her and me and its not . I see some of her here and now where do I help her or how?
Is it possible to have a good childhood and all of the trauma showed up in early adulthood? Or do you think there is always a childhood origin for trauma?
Even a regular independent person would understand that they can't rely only on themselves. They might make their own money, live on their own and be independent in a general sense.. A hyperindependent person thinks that they are the only person they can rely on. It isn't just financial or any basic form of independence. This person would have extreme trust issues and think that the only way they can make it is on their own. For an independent person they choose to be independent and understand that is they need, they can get help. A hyperindependent person thinks that there is no choice. Life is every person for themselves and if they go down it's their fault.
Yes, and food , often improper food combining (stuff we eat that is hard on the digestion, leading to IBS). Try an Ayurvedic dosha quiz online and find the foods that are best for you and what to avoid (“like too much raw food, or dry food, or cold food .)
It's a difficult journey from this place, but the progress is priceless.❤
Yes!
My mind dwelled so long after each point, that I had to listen this a lot. Thanks.
Holy shit same. Like 5 times
Same 😢
Well that makes a lot of sense now thank you for your video
Im beyond miserable. Im sick of having this. It feels like a disabilty where instead of my legs not working my entire body doesnt only sometimes and noone understands or can help me. They all leave to normally rip me apart for the very things im trying to understand and figure out. I feeo screwed im 33 yrs old and i dont get out of bed anymore and it seems like noone can actually help me. No i don't want to talk about it all again i just want to wake up without it.
Praying God heals and strengthens you in Jesus name. God bless❤❤
I feel extreme anger and unease near my father.
I’m stuck. How do you become more independent and finding yourself? I’m genuinely lost.
All 3 are me 😢
I have no idea how to heal from all this!
I hope you can heal from it. i too have PTSD. And I'm trying to heal from it as well. You're not alone.
My little sister is terrified of being by herself she feels like she needs to save everything she also smiles alot but its never true she is still struggling and its hard for her to an adult about something that happens in her life that an adult needs to hear and when we ask why she says its because shes afraid of them yelling at her shes been traumatized twice and still handles it badley and it took her a month to tell our mom about something bad that happend and she tends to care about other people more than her and once she was being bullied and everyone was saying it was bc the boy had a crush on her she cried every night.
Hi can you pls make a vid on how to deal with panic attacks at school, and also friendship/ bullying trauma, thanks 🙏 love your vids😊 understand if you can’t ❤
Yes I will ❤
Im a mix of not being able to look after myself but also being too scared to let others look after me
I wish you could do follow up Video or include ways to Stop these very Sad feelings and Behaviors! We know how we all got here let's Focus on how to Heal from these Traumas!
I grew up in a very good household. My parents loved me and provided for me. My dad was chill. However my mother had depression and PTSD and would often fly off the handle, screaming and slamming doors, or she would just yell at us. My childhood was peppered with “spankings” often multiple times a day. I struggle with the independence part and I’m 23.
Same my mum used to yell at mea and beat me up but it was never considerd abuse untill i immigrated to another country and realised i could have called CPS on her i have so much trauma that i cant handle being in loud places even school
My dad was so chill and cowady and let me mom do whatever and didnt stop her at all even though he didnt hurt me straightly he did hurt me by not being there for me to rhe point i allways avoided him
My dad was so chill and cowady and let me mom do whatever and didnt stop her at all even though he didnt hurt me straightly he did hurt me by not being there for me to rhe point i allways avoided him
Omg so as I suspected the dissociation started as child, and now at present I'm having extreme dissociation feel petrified and unreal.But I must be real as I am watching video and responding.
The way I'm crying
Lmao dis me. I dissociated, lack of self, no trust in anyone nor myself. I'm so delayed
Like my ex husband who was a violent malignant narcissist . He's made me ill now .
And my mother was malignant narc.
I can't cope I'm left with cptsd adhd bipolar I'm alone with this now
Sounds like bpd as well ☮️💟
Your videos are really helpful for me love u 💗 💓 best wishes from me to u
Thank you ❤❤❤
@@Micheline.Maalouf welcome dear love u so much 💓 😘 💖
Can you do more videos on panic attacks, and anxiety? Oh and I love your videos
I absolutely will ❤
Awww thanks!!
Hyper independence all my life, I'm 50. Never had a live in partner nor married.
I want a pill to fix what other's broke in me.
I don't trust myself. I like always go after what my parents say to the point they get annoyed that I can't make decisions on my own.
I grew up as an autistic girl that wasn't diagnosed and my family was chaos and me being the youngest got very scared and felt unsafe and so on and I was bullied in school as well so I kinda thought it was normal for people who were supposed to care to also bully you or scream at you. Many other things also happened but I'm really unsure of myself and always need someone else's opinion and now that I'm 20 I am trying my best to make my own decisions but I can't even have an opinion without asking if my opinion is okay maybe because I often get told what I think or feel and get pushed down for being disabled
Back in April of 2023 i was taking meds or nerve pain for my neck . I was taking small dose instead of taking three pills a day . And one pill was enough to give trauma back in 4-7 grade from 2004-2008 being bullied / made fun of how i looked because i had a tumor on back of my neck and they think it was okay to do that to someone ? It made me make feel awful about my self . I have been seeming a therapist for my self esteem
ok, my wife is getting into this and is not ready. she hears people talking about her and me and its not . I see some of her here and now where do I help her or how?
Is it possible to have a good childhood and all of the trauma showed up in early adulthood? Or do you think there is always a childhood origin for trauma?
First thing to understand about male trauma is that NOBODY CARES
I just came here to say f the public school system
Too dependant or too hyper independent
Thanks for the video... How do we get better?
I have a full length video I just posted on my channel with tips!! And also book recommendations
@@Micheline.Maaloufdo you mean the 5 signs one? Does that have the book recommendation on it? Thanks again
Interesting, I wonder how hyperindependence is different from just independence
"Hyper-independence is an extreme form of independence that can lead to both personal and relational issues."
- From Google :)
@@ems.master Yeah. Doesn't answer.
Even a regular independent person would understand that they can't rely only on themselves. They might make their own money, live on their own and be independent in a general sense.. A hyperindependent person thinks that they are the only person they can rely on. It isn't just financial or any basic form of independence. This person would have extreme trust issues and think that the only way they can make it is on their own. For an independent person they choose to be independent and understand that is they need, they can get help. A hyperindependent person thinks that there is no choice. Life is every person for themselves and if they go down it's their fault.
@@realbedo Dang, sounds like me not long ago. Thanks for the information. Also, Albedo is dope.
@@fm1615 Yeah no problem ^^ and thank you
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hlw mam people plesar what solution
Check out my channel! I just posted a long video about this it’s tips and book recommendations ❤
Is IBS Related To Childhood Trauma? Pls Tell
Yes, and food , often improper food combining (stuff we eat that is hard on the digestion, leading to IBS). Try an Ayurvedic dosha quiz online and find the foods that are best for you and what to avoid (“like too much raw food, or dry food, or cold food .)
She's cute