Using The Bible To Promote City Girl Behavior Is Not Ok

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 373

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold 7 місяців тому +195

    Please read the Bible and know these stories for yourself so you don’t get lead astray. “People parish for their lack of knowledge.” Hosea 4:6. Also beauty is subjective, no matter how beautiful you are, you are unattractive to some.

    • @michie1luv
      @michie1luv 7 місяців тому +6

      Perish

    • @Scorplove1
      @Scorplove1 7 місяців тому +4

      This is true.

    • @islandpunch9465
      @islandpunch9465 7 місяців тому +9

      I'm rereading my bible again, but this time I have a huge notebook. I'm starting from Genesis and working my way down. You really have to read the entire chapter to get a full understanding. I'm also using Bible reference to go deeper into each verse and break it down thoroughly. This video was beyond misleading SMH. I'm going to pay for our good sis

    • @jlynn9575
      @jlynn9575 7 місяців тому +1

      Amen

    • @missmarya747
      @missmarya747 7 місяців тому

      Thats not City Girl anything. Thats MODERN FEMALES‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @keymaster9200
    @keymaster9200 7 місяців тому +251

    This is what happens when you take bits and pieces of the scripture and run with what sounds good to you and not read the whole verse. I’m embarrassed for this woman.

    • @kandacemarshall6186
      @kandacemarshall6186 7 місяців тому +23

      Whole verse, whole chapter!! Sometimes a couple of them to get the full context smh it's so exhausting seeing so many take God's word out of context...but in His word, He said it would happen so here we are.

    • @user-ux7wk3jb4c
      @user-ux7wk3jb4c 7 місяців тому +11

      I'm sorry to say but a lot people is playing with the Bible and man I cannot wait to God whip his surprise on these unholy. People pretending. It's a reason why we in the season but many of us just not capable of seeing what really matters. I'm not exempt but I'm not to dumb to take everything in vain ither

    • @rachelphillips5576
      @rachelphillips5576 7 місяців тому +1

      💯

    • @rachelphillips5576
      @rachelphillips5576 7 місяців тому +4

      Now natural beauty was more like that back in the day. I don't think they had all the weave, makeup and false lashes that's artificial beauty. And a women's inner beauty is what brings out the physical beauty anyways. A long with her gifts, talents, pleasant personality is what attracts a man to her really

    • @morelikejesus07
      @morelikejesus07 7 місяців тому +1

      ❤ exactly and so common right now

  • @godislove1602
    @godislove1602 7 місяців тому +177

    The main thing I took from the women stories of the Bible is that godly character enhances beauty. ✨

    • @adaliantsiki
      @adaliantsiki 7 місяців тому +20

      But beauty comes first sad but true all men in the Bible valued outer beauty first

    • @narcissismexposed1014
      @narcissismexposed1014 7 місяців тому +11

      Lust and beauty are two different things!!! Guys don't care about woman beauty (face) that's what woman of that nature do to compete with other woman.

    • @KingdomWoman333
      @KingdomWoman333 7 місяців тому +29

      Yes. Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.

    • @lisaphillips308
      @lisaphillips308 7 місяців тому +1

      She is foolish 😅

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 7 місяців тому +9

      ​@@adaliantsikiremember that beauty is different from today then it was during biblical times.
      I've seen statues and paintings of women back in the roman days and those women who were considered beautiful at the time would probably be considered ugly in today's standards.
      All women are beautiful but it takes a special man to see a woman's inner beauty.

  • @UniquelyVickie
    @UniquelyVickie 7 місяців тому +199

    This girl is thrown off but I understand why. So many women tried to work with men but ended up used and or abused.

    • @SODATAPP
      @SODATAPP 7 місяців тому +27

      Or a women and her children is unalived.

    • @mindingmybusiness6309
      @mindingmybusiness6309 7 місяців тому +9

      This

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 7 місяців тому +4

      This is why I have given up on men.

    • @UniquelyVickie
      @UniquelyVickie 7 місяців тому +2

      @@winning3329 are you open to other races? I have pleasant experiences with them even though it hasn't led to marriage yet.

    • @rebe2330
      @rebe2330 7 місяців тому +6

      Exactly but that’s why I decided to seek God first. He is my provider and protector.

  • @LCHI-vh7li
    @LCHI-vh7li 7 місяців тому +142

    The sad part is she believes what she’s saying. Our culture is creating its own narrative.

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 7 місяців тому

      Men are to blame for telling women for years that they are not good enough unless they are young and beautiful.
      Let's put the blame where it belongs

    • @justbelit
      @justbelit 7 місяців тому +4

      she sounds like she listens to the sprinkle sprinkle lady and just use the Bible as a coverup

    • @freegame1k
      @freegame1k 7 місяців тому +2

      Heard this the other day and was beyond confused on what she was saying had anything to do w the Bible lol throw the whole internet away already.

    • @Deettamonique
      @Deettamonique 7 місяців тому

      We got to be real. Men are men first. Looks matter. We see it happening in church all the time. Theres so many single unkept and overweight women “ waiting on their husbands”. The remain single because they aren’t attractive.

  • @ChavisGreenard
    @ChavisGreenard 7 місяців тому +85

    Smh. Using the Word to justify foolishness is wicked. I hope that she repents.

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 7 місяців тому +1

      There is nothing foolish about women choosing men who have ALREADY met their full potential.
      Black women need to STOP being Barbara the builder to men who are ungrateful!!!

    • @ChavisGreenard
      @ChavisGreenard 7 місяців тому +9

      @@nmhoskins That's not what my comment was about. I was speaking about the lady using the Word to justify vanity. No disrespect, but did you listen to brother Shumake's full breakdown in the video?

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 7 місяців тому +2

      @@ChavisGreenard Yes, I did watch the full breakdown. He was indirectly telling black women to date and marry men with potential.
      Black women have been and some still are marrying men with potential and NOT fairing well.
      It is time for black women to use a different approach when it comes to mate selection. Dating and marrying for potential is NOT working for black women.

    • @lightkira4119
      @lightkira4119 7 місяців тому

      ​@@nmhoskinsyou are such a joke. Black women are marrying men?
      On what planet are you talking about? Black women have 20% marriage rate with a child. 80% of black women have children out of wedlock.
      You are funny, living in a fantasy land, come to reality. If you are looking for beauty or money or status and not godliness then you get what you get.
      A good religious man would be better than any man with money, status or beauty. Maybe you should be telling Black women that no man should have relations with them until after a marriage and no baby mamas allowed. Black people in the early 1900s had one of the highest children inside a marriage. Google the stats for yourself. Too many single mothers with multiple baby daddies around.

    • @lightkira4119
      @lightkira4119 7 місяців тому

      ​@@ChavisGreenardyou had the right idea my friend. She is delusional and just wants to argue a fantasy world and not reality. My other comment to her explains how Black women today have the highest out of wedlock children. Multiple baby daddies and no husband's.
      They marry for money, status, beauty. Religious men are not even on their radar. Too many baby daddies for every woman.

  • @user-qd1gq6ko1o
    @user-qd1gq6ko1o 7 місяців тому +32

    I met my daughter's mom in the Philippines during the pandemic. Whole package. Physically speaking. Lust drove me to overlook all the red flags, including a horrible character. She was after one and one thing only: looking fly on the gram and my wallet. Did it work out between us? Of course not. We are now in a terrible situation where she's stuck with a child she didn't want, and I am not able to be there for my daughter due to her mother's bitterness. All that nonsense this "lady" is talking about in her video will only lead young women to be in situations they will regret their entire lives. Money isn't everything. Neither are great physical attributes. The best women I've had in my life, the ones that supported me throughout college, the ones that helped me go up the corporate ladder, the ones that hugged me, reassured me, and told me "I'm there for you," were pretty on the outside and stunning on the inside. Choose wisely.

  • @janiceparkerson4727
    @janiceparkerson4727 7 місяців тому +76

    In the words of Judge Judy "Beauty fades, but dumb is forever. Geesh !!!

  • @haleycamille
    @haleycamille 7 місяців тому +29

    Coming from a girl who’s considered beautiful. Beauty definitely isn’t everything. It will get you in the door but you won’t keep a good man with just beauty. You need to have a beautiful character as well. And if all you’re focused on is beauty and money, not character and being guided by God your beauty can attract some of the worst men.

    • @sevysev
      @sevysev 7 місяців тому +1

      you are beautiful. glad you seem to have some depth also ❤

    • @haleycamille
      @haleycamille 7 місяців тому +1

      @@sevysev aww thank you 💕

    • @Yournameslyric
      @Yournameslyric 6 місяців тому +1

      Her prophets has poor character

  • @KimRope
    @KimRope 7 місяців тому +86

    She seems like a nice woman that is on her journey , well meaning , but learning still. We’re all growing in our walk with God and not perfect

    • @hottstepher
      @hottstepher 7 місяців тому +26

      Sure, but she’s _promoting_ incomplete scripture; hopefully this leads women to actually read the scripture in it’s *entirety* instead of her interpretation which is incomplete.

    • @bettyroyal-jp6jq
      @bettyroyal-jp6jq 7 місяців тому +10

      Yes, that’s so true but she need to stop trying to give wrong advice to other people and stand still so that God. The word of God said study to show yourself approved a workman need not to be ashamed, knowing how to rightfully divide the word of God. She’s sending out the wrong massage to these women, what about telling them to have a personal relationship with God and he will bless you with the husband he wants you to have. Man look on the outward part but God look at the heart. Everything he said was the truth and he did it with scriptures to back it up.

    • @KimRope
      @KimRope 7 місяців тому +7

      @@hottstepher yes , true, true. and I think she honestly believes what she’s saying and is well meaning. Teaching someone the actual meaning is much easier I think when you don’t make them feel less than bc of where they’re at. With all the judge mental comments I thought I would be a voice of seeing her as a precious child of God. Lately I’ve been getting the message super clearly God wants his church focused on unity!!! We are on the same team!

    • @hottstepher
      @hottstepher 7 місяців тому +1

      @@KimRope I understand 👍🏽

    • @ptcpowerup1350
      @ptcpowerup1350 5 місяців тому

      ⁠@@KimRopethis is wrong, she shouldn’t be misinterpreting the Bible and these young women she speaks to thinks it’s true.. People have to actual heal and stop speaking to people through there pain. Even without her mentioning GOD or the Bible, you can tell something is not right with her.. But I’m coming from a woman who is experienced, healed through GOD..

  • @Phe91
    @Phe91 7 місяців тому +18

    This is exactly why I don’t listen to everyone on TikTok preaching their version of the word.

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 7 місяців тому +59

    With a bit more maturity and guidance, I believe this woman has potential. She loves the Lord and that’s apparent. God can help her get to the next level if it’s in His will. 🙂

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh 7 місяців тому +5

      Yes I’m happy she seeking ! She eventually will get it right !

    • @viviandaviss
      @viviandaviss 7 місяців тому +6

      Yea even after I was saved I was still watching a little too much sheraseven because I was holding on to the hurt. God convicted me of that thinking and I see now why that mindset is wrong. Also, these kind of women only attract red pill men. Why? Because they are the perfect match.

  • @shaylaahava6413
    @shaylaahava6413 7 місяців тому +11

    Beauty matters to the world. Outward beauty does not matter to Christ.
    If you believe in the Words in the Bible, you will not worry about what matters to the world and the things in it.

  • @itsalrightitsok929
    @itsalrightitsok929 7 місяців тому +12

    If you want a man of God, you need to be a woman of God, and vice versa. Proverbs 31:10-31 gives you description of a good wife: “who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.” The beginning -already tells you money isn’t everything. A lot of women seek to be “taken care of” by men with wealth and a lot of them are controlling and narcissistic to the point where they are obsessive and possessive and many of those relationships have ended in fatalities. Another part of the scripture goes on to say “favour is deceitful and beauty is vain: but a woman that fears the Lord, she shall be praised.” The world has their standards and uplifts their own and beauty is only skin deep. A woman after God will be lifted up and praised in her own home without seeking outside attention.

  • @NikkiM928
    @NikkiM928 7 місяців тому +22

    We are living in some terrible times where so many unqualified people are speaking on topics they know nothing about, and many people who don't know any better are eating it all up. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @dijauneaiymuan9834
    @dijauneaiymuan9834 7 місяців тому +34

    I’ve heard plenty of my male friends say that these women look good on the outside but if you scratch beneath the surface there’s nothing there…. This woman in the video has a lot of growing to do.

  • @learningearning8385
    @learningearning8385 7 місяців тому +20

    Idk… men seem to Only be into looks. 90% looks & maybe 10% personality

    • @viviandaviss
      @viviandaviss 7 місяців тому +7

      Sadly that's how it is

    • @bonafide_forever
      @bonafide_forever 7 місяців тому +1

      Most are. But they definitely are all looking for help and support.

    • @97BeezKneez
      @97BeezKneez 5 місяців тому +1

      It's better to become the best you you can be in faith that an honesty noble man will come along with a vision and plan meant specially for you. ❤

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 5 місяців тому +1

      *some men

  • @tessw9744
    @tessw9744 7 місяців тому +37

    I don't have anything deep to say....that girl just sounds silly.

  • @Ana-rp4xu
    @Ana-rp4xu 7 місяців тому +37

    She doesn’t understand character above beauty. Reading the Bible without the Holy Spirit is like saying all languages are the same which is wrong you might understand hello in every language but you will miss the rest of the conversation because you lack a key ingredient. Never was it said that Ruth was beautiful unlike Rachel however her character was what made Boaz take a look at Ruth working, respectful, hopefully, devoted, grateful… as for Esther Vashi was really beautiful if not more however while being right she disrespected the king public which got her kick out Esther was favor because of her character which was grounded in Christ and the identity which came with it

    • @viviandaviss
      @viviandaviss 7 місяців тому +2

      Facts

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 7 місяців тому +7

      Men notice a woman's beauty FIRST then her character.

    • @brookealicia92
      @brookealicia92 6 місяців тому

      Males all across UA-cam are saying they ONLY care about a woman’s beauty, submissiveness, and how she will handle him cheating on her. Character doesn’t make the list.

    • @Ana-rp4xu
      @Ana-rp4xu 5 місяців тому +1

      @@nmhoskinsyes men see the beauty before the character never said the contrary but let's take the bethsabee case David knew that she was beautiful and took her however at the end what did she had to do to keep her life make sure that her son Salomon was the next king. You can see that she wasn't favored by David when you read the story of her adultery unlike king Saul's daughter for whom he showed respect. God himself said beauty is fleeting meaning that one of the reason most men feel the need to cheat is because they evaluate the cost of a relationship with a woman on the wrong things they dont take into account the character above the physic and you see it which is why many after a couple of or months or year starts disconnecting themselves from the woman they have sex with, women who craves emotional intimacy feels it fast when the man ain't there anymore and that creates a wage between them and sadly at some point physical intimacy doesn't make couples last the time. Moreover what attracted Boaz to Ruth was her character he saw a hard working woman.

  • @KimontheWeb
    @KimontheWeb 7 місяців тому +10

    I wish men were honest, men will date a beautiful women with less godly character over an average looking woman with more godly character because they're visual and value looks over inner beauty.

  • @misskaykay1856
    @misskaykay1856 7 місяців тому +8

    😂😂😂😂😂 she really believes what she’s saying! So funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @katiacomk
    @katiacomk 7 місяців тому +6

    So many warnings in Proverbs of the dangers of beautiful women and then there’s Delilah: how lust destroyed a men. The bible focuses on character not looks.

  • @janelleguild3866
    @janelleguild3866 7 місяців тому +29

    I see what you are saying that character matters the most. However, what she is saying seems to be what the world is really like and I think what you are saying is what the world should be like. I do think most men care about looks first though. I agree it isn’t the most important thing as looks fade and being a good person and compatible makes relationships last.

  • @FeliciaR16
    @FeliciaR16 7 місяців тому +12

    This is why people need to hush until they are healed.

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 7 місяців тому +28

    Pray for me this Thanksgiving, these past three years have been difficult on me. Jesus give me guidance come back soon. I don’t know how much longer I can hold on. I’m so tired of struggling every month to get by. As a single mom things are hard on me both of my sons are autistic and I’m constantly struggling to provide the basic necessities for them I’m so ashamed. Lord heal me. I suffered an heart attack two years ago and still battling lupus I’m so overwhelmed. Give me strength Lord as I constantly struggle to pay bills and constantly struggle to buy groceries for my children. BUT no matter what I KEEP FAITH. Even though I want to give up. Jesus please take the fear of homelessness from my heart. Please save me and my children from poverty.

    • @GORJ.E.S.
      @GORJ.E.S. 7 місяців тому +8

      Beloved I'm a single Mother as well and I have similar struggles BUT GOD 🙏🏾
      Please research food pantries in your area... The Most High created this Earth with ABUNDANCE 🙏🏾

    • @TeelaRivers
      @TeelaRivers 7 місяців тому +3

      May, Jesus bless your finances and your health.

    • @greenqueen2673
      @greenqueen2673 7 місяців тому +9

      I've seen this same post under so other many videos; beware of scammers preying on your sympathy.

    • @ExpectedEndMinistries
      @ExpectedEndMinistries 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@greenqueen2673 yeah, I haven't commented this but everytime I see it..I wanted to ask out of curiosity.

    • @OpinionatedBlues
      @OpinionatedBlues 7 місяців тому

      @@ExpectedEndMinistriesit’s a scam. People like this prey on people’s faith and kindness towards others to take advantage. Look at their name, ChildOfGod, but scamming innocent people on social media.

  • @jessicatsao92
    @jessicatsao92 7 місяців тому +43

    A good man is far more priceless than all the diamonds in the Universe (that includes all the diamonds you can find on outer space exoplanets). Same goes for good women. The hard part is finding that decency in character, and that's what we should be working on. Even in our teenage years (preteens included), we should be extremely cautious about character, because people can lie so well and pretend for years, even decades. Wealth is not everything, not even the top ten. Looks doesn't even make the top 5. There's way more to a man than those.
    Of course, no bums. Problem is, bums get attracted to me even when I try to be the best I can be. And unfortunately for me, all my dating life I ran only into bums (which is why I don't date).

  • @kaywisseh
    @kaywisseh 7 місяців тому +14

    The examples she used were women of faith. First and foremost, their faith in the Lord was exemplary! They didn’t use their beauty as currency nor to live a hypergamous lifestyle.

    • @cl8wnm5n
      @cl8wnm5n 7 місяців тому +1

      Spot on!

    • @frostmaiden85
      @frostmaiden85 6 місяців тому +1

      There is nothing wrong with female hypergamy. Men are hypergamous too. Except, instead of someone who earns more, they want someone who ranks higher than themselves in terms of youth and looks. You can't define hypergamy based on just income and status, because those are not the only determiners of someone's SMV. That's just a trick that red pill content creators employ in order to outwardly dismiss and devalue what most men secretly overvalue.
      It all comes down to: they want to rate and classify women in all kinds of ways, but don't want women to have any standards.
      If a man has nothing at all (no looks, no money, no future, no career, no responsibility, no hygiene, you name it), he will claim that he has "character" - because that's not an objectively quantifiable trait.

  • @catlady3024
    @catlady3024 7 місяців тому +33

    We’re getting spoiled with all this consistency 🎉

  • @jellieloveee
    @jellieloveee 7 місяців тому +7

    What’s wrong with being beautiful on the inside and out ? She’s right to a degree! No matter how old you are , as a women keep your looks up while also being a virtuous woman 🤷🏾‍♀️a man has to be attracted to you in order for you to get him but what God does to your heart will keep him 🫶🏾

    • @ptcpowerup1350
      @ptcpowerup1350 5 місяців тому +1

      This is why she needs to stop misinterpreting GOD, bc clearly you are just like her followers.. Beauty is literally a itty bitty tiny part of you but your relationship with GOD weighs the most important.. You won’t get but down the street with beauty, but with GOD, he will take you around the world! We need to weigh more on our walk with Christ vs this world.. period

    • @jellieloveee
      @jellieloveee 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ptcpowerup1350 I never said your looks were more important than your relationship with God . I just said your looks should be kept up and your relationship should be to . Why not have both lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @jenicewhite5332
    @jenicewhite5332 7 місяців тому +29

    "His currency is his money 💴!?" Forgive her Lord

    • @ab.6031
      @ab.6031 7 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂.

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 7 місяців тому +3

      Idk why but I busted out laughing reading this 😂😂😂😂

    • @w.c.c.b.9798
      @w.c.c.b.9798 5 місяців тому

      She’s trying to say, a traditional man, the breadwinner, provider, protector & head of household.
      It’s a shame only men in the Black community want a wife/ mother. Other women in other cultures (generally speaking) don’t have to deal with effeminate men.

  • @Thrivegrl24
    @Thrivegrl24 7 місяців тому +12

    The reality is men see with their eyes first saved or not . Than they see everything else depending on his discernment, life experiences , maturity etc . She’s has more growing to do in the word for sure.

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 7 місяців тому

      Of course they do...thats humans...women do too...

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 7 місяців тому +15

    I’m tripping off of the background music in her video as if she’s saying something inspiring 😂😂😂 tik tok needs to be deleted people come on there saying ANYTHING 😂😩 girl just because you in a wig & riding in a Royce I’m not going to hell with you!!!!

    • @VidWatcher01
      @VidWatcher01 7 місяців тому +6

      The music had me rolling too

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G 7 місяців тому +2

      There is far too much nonsense on tik tok

  • @michelleharris82
    @michelleharris82 7 місяців тому +35

    There are many beautiful single women, who will remain single if beauty is all they have to offer. Men should be seeking help mates, who will help build and maintain their standard of living for the family (or couple).

  • @KimontheWeb
    @KimontheWeb 7 місяців тому +5

    It wasn't just Ruth's beauty it was also her servant's heart Boaz was attracted to when he learned of her history and lineage, but I see what she's trying to say, my thing is yes work on your health and look your best but also cultivate your spirit man and become a virtuous woman and virtue is within.

  • @MsPhillgood
    @MsPhillgood 7 місяців тому +4

    Denzel Washington has been with Paula, his one and only wife for decades! I don't recall one scandal in the media about this beautiful couple

  • @yj2james
    @yj2james 7 місяців тому +4

    🎉You're both making the same point. Stop fighting a woman making a valid point.

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 6 місяців тому

      Honestly. I had to listen to her video again to see what she said wrong, and she was right. A lot of people are coming for her appearance, but indeed; the wives in the bible literally were ALL hypergamous by God's design of placing importance on men being providers. So were their families, they wouldn't be given away for marriage if a man couldn't completely provide for them. My father is Ghanaian and even my husband had to pay a bride price to marry me to prove he could afford to give me the lifestyle my father gave me. Hypergamy literally comes naturally to every single woman unless she's conditioned otherwise, and it's always been that way. The bible also specifically mentions that certain women were VERY beautiful and even mentioning that one woman who had a lazy eye wasn't physically desirable.
      Women who are beautiful in society get treated the same way as men who have money.

  • @KFontLab
    @KFontLab 7 місяців тому +3

    The reality is the Bible talks about health, wealth, character, integrity, femininity, masculinity etc. The problem is WE do not study. We read a scripture and run with it. At most is church attendance but no studying.
    I have seen men and women age like fine wine when they take care of their bodies and their souls.
    Get in your word people because unfortunately we do not have people out here who prioritize teaching accurately. Even if you just read and study 15 minutes a day. Start somewhere.
    Queen Esther had character and she was beautiful.
    Beautiful has to do with your inside matching your outer appearance. Being pretty is just about the physical.

  • @MrsBrittanyGold
    @MrsBrittanyGold 7 місяців тому +25

    I wonder if she’s married or in a successful relationship? Hypergamy is far and few in the black community. Some will have that experience, but the average won’t. Get a good God fearing man on his purpose who loves you.

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 7 місяців тому +4

      Or date and marry outside of the race.

  • @ericawhitfield7876
    @ericawhitfield7876 7 місяців тому +5

    🤦🏽‍♀️Thank you for clearing this up. If people would just read the whole Bible, not just certain parts, then as a Society we would understand the true concept of beauty. Thank you Pastor for reading 1 Peter 3.

  • @tenhiarowry
    @tenhiarowry 7 місяців тому +4

    If I'm not mistaken Tony Gaskins Jr made the statement that "your character is your currency" so what this woman is saying is totally wrong. The word of God also tells us not to add to the Bible or take from it so it's really time to stop adding our own narratives to make ourselves feel better. Before we read that word we need to pray for the knowledge, wisdom and understanding of what we are reading.

  • @tambrea6983
    @tambrea6983 7 місяців тому +3

    “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”
    John 8:7

  • @davidchiazor
    @davidchiazor 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank you brother.., Everybody Needs to Read The Bible and pray to God to grant them understanding

  • @cynthiajackson2580
    @cynthiajackson2580 7 місяців тому +6

    Keep on pushing Shumake...The Word of God cuts..Truth is a hard pill to swallow...U are not called to everyone, but U are called to some of us....
    God will make sure your voice reaches the people that U are called to!!!...Be Blessed Bro...

  • @Christmadeconnections.MeshaT
    @Christmadeconnections.MeshaT 7 місяців тому +13

    FOOLISH !!

    • @crystalherself7283
      @crystalherself7283 7 місяців тому +2

      Many thoughts run through my mind to comment but you summed it up best!! 👍

    • @alexismatthews3486
      @alexismatthews3486 7 місяців тому +2

      That’s Exactly the 1st thing I said.

  • @mariebright6985
    @mariebright6985 7 місяців тому +3

    Shalom man of God and many blessings to you and to your beautiful wife and families (personal/ministries).
    Thank you for taking out the time to show this beautiful young lady the correct interpretation of the scriptures.
    Because The Most High God does not reduce the value of a person's life to their physical appearance.
    He is concerned with a person having an integral character with their physical attributes.
    As you have stated, these beautiful women in the scriptures walked in character and they understood the importance of honor, especially when it came to men. They were not focused on the wallet. Their backgrounds upheld a real legacy that was built around kingdom, not financial stability. These women were kingdom people.
    That is a totally different walk of life. And a person has to be willing to go through the necessary processes in order to give language to that kind of life. And this beautiful young lady in this clip is built to give language to that. But she have to get away from the superficial information she has embraced about intimate relationships. The Most High God created her to give language to a much higher realm of value.
    God Bless you man of God and again, thank you for bringing clarity to the content that was shared by this beautiful young lady. Shalom unto you and to your beautiful wife and families.

  • @sha-tiahsampson3074
    @sha-tiahsampson3074 7 місяців тому +7

    I thought this was comedy 😂 because this is what this podcasts bros want, “feminine fit and friendly “ 😂

  • @maureenikwueme6251
    @maureenikwueme6251 7 місяців тому +7

    Why do people try to manipulate the Bible. If you don't understand ask for guidance. This lady read the Bible and came up with her own interpretation.

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 7 місяців тому

      Similar to men who use the Bible to mistreat women.

    • @brookealicia92
      @brookealicia92 6 місяців тому

      Kind of like…pastors

  • @briaemerald1492
    @briaemerald1492 7 місяців тому +4

    Notice she never mentioned Jezebel or Delilah and she’s promoting their agenda. She’s going to read more and be ashamed of herself for twisting the text like this.

  • @barbarawaddell-steele3603
    @barbarawaddell-steele3603 7 місяців тому +5

    A beautiful woman is not special. It's what she posseses inside makes her beautiful.

  • @BubbasJuice2145
    @BubbasJuice2145 7 місяців тому +3

    I believe as we get older, we are wiser and if we walk with God as we get older, our wisdom grows yeah that’s how I see it but my brother as always, you are right people use what they want to heighten their description of what they believe God bless us

  • @MzSweetzTalk
    @MzSweetzTalk 7 місяців тому +9

    Girl bye 😂😂 Why would I try to Out League a man? There’s somebody for everyone. The “love” of money is root to all evil. ❤️🤲🏼 Look at Diddy and Cassie/Yung Miami. 💯

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 7 місяців тому +2

      Black people's negative view of money and wealth keeps us at the bottom.

  • @royalregal722
    @royalregal722 7 місяців тому +8

    😂😂😂 clearly this one has not studied to show herself approved.
    There is a reason we who believe are called Daughters of Sarah!
    She was old, and beautiful and birthed a whole lineage.
    Poor poor silly girl.

  • @BreakingFreewithShaiMarii
    @BreakingFreewithShaiMarii 7 місяців тому +6

    I agreed with her because that’s the way the world sees us and men. Keyword the world. I don’t believe she’s coming from a bad place… because Esther did prepare herself for the king. I think she’s speaking to women who have been abused and used. Women who choose the wrong men because they don’t know their value. She’s talking about losers, wordly men with no purpose.
    I’ve been watching you since a freshman in college, I’m 25 now. After hearing your message and hers I don’t think she’s too far off. Y’all have agreed on a few things. I think she’s just missing women having their purpose. Which outweighs beauty and if you lead with beauty you could end up with a jezebellic man. I think it’s a certain type of man she was referring to though.
    BUT I do appreciate you for calling things out and applying the truth. I was being tempted to idolize vanity. It’s so easy to fall into the pit of prioritizing looks out of pain to prove a point we’re worthy during heartbreak instead of seeking God and letting Him reveal our true purpose here then get into His will for us. not healing the wrong way will cause more damage and the evil sinful cycle to continue.
    My pain currently made me miss out on some things that were contradictory to the Bible. I didn’t know she said some of the things she said.
    Anyways I needed to see this. Thank you brother!

  • @queenajustice542
    @queenajustice542 7 місяців тому +4

    This is also one of the reasons why men who identify as women can’t fully connect the missing pieces.. the goal of a woman or purpose is not for a woman to become more like men, or think like men, we are completely different in every aspect and that’s the point. We have to balance one another, so when he is out of control mentally, physically, and emotionally we aren’t supposed to match energies. Somebody has to say enough is enough. Only a man CAN see a woman as an object of beauty.. or think that since her sex is valuable to him, that is her currency. The lustful thinking of a man will promote to women to play up her physicality as assets because it’s an asset to him. It’s deeper than that, much deeper, but how can a man understand or comprehend the value of a woman if women don’t stand firm in our purpose? Let the days of being a disservice to ourselves, men, and children be done away with. Instead of surrendering to the idea that since men run the world we should all cater to the ego or misinformed notion many have, how about actually helping men as true helpers, because they truly do need help, help to stop.

  • @Isa-Amor
    @Isa-Amor 7 місяців тому +2

    The reality is majority of men put more stock on a women's looks. A man is not looking at what's inside if they don't like what they see.

  • @dalagamble3164
    @dalagamble3164 7 місяців тому +8

    Did she say Abraham lied about Sarah being his sister??? Sis….. Sarah is his sister. Abraham married his sister😂they got the same daddy. She need to go reread the Bible. She off.

    • @VidWatcher01
      @VidWatcher01 7 місяців тому

      What book verse & chapter is that because I told my mom about that & she indignantly proclaimed that the Bible didn't say that

    • @dalagamble3164
      @dalagamble3164 7 місяців тому +2

      @@VidWatcher01 start from Genesis: 20 11-13 Abraham said Sarah is his fathers daughter.

    • @angelam.1416
      @angelam.1416 7 місяців тому +2

      You are correct about the relationship. But what Abram did was represent Sarai as not his wife bit as sister which caused men to take her away. It was a disgraceful act he repeated more than once then Issac later did that to Rebekah.

  • @GigeeRobin
    @GigeeRobin 7 місяців тому +4

    Boaz definitely saw how she cared for his land and was about her business. I can not believe this lady out here is giving this blasphemous interpretation of the story of Ruth. smh.

  • @akeemprice9036
    @akeemprice9036 7 місяців тому +5

    every thing you have is gonna be gone like smoke we can't have everything we want

  • @trediaz4012
    @trediaz4012 2 місяці тому +1

    Cleopatra was not known as the most "physically attractive" woman from what her times, but her brain was what captivated Mark Anthony AND Julius Cesar. DANG!!!

  • @mzmack
    @mzmack 7 місяців тому +3

    🤣Shumake looking in the camera after she said "his currency is his money" had me screaming! Money is a tool and that tool can disappear in an instant. Without the money in play...what is the relationship looking like?

    • @nmhoskins
      @nmhoskins 7 місяців тому +1

      Without the money, how will you eat, where would you live?
      Money IS important!

  • @Promiseland2024
    @Promiseland2024 7 місяців тому +7

    Soon her logic will be re-thought. Men who have her philosophy will be the very men who roll out when someone else comes along that is gorgeous. I can name some beautiful women who are single and have been thru multiple marriages and dates. Lisa raye for 1.
    The most eligible men i have run across are married to plane jane from social media standard. But their beauty is their character and you cant buy that....hope these young girls find the right philosophies in life cuz that aint it...
    As a mother....i am guiding my sons to find their mate from a Bible standpoint.....

  • @ms.diva0079
    @ms.diva0079 7 місяців тому +2

    Can we talk about how the term, “submissive” is being miss used by Lay people?

  • @tyrarice7318
    @tyrarice7318 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for posting. I appreciate this video...

  • @shirleyhampton702
    @shirleyhampton702 7 місяців тому

    I have this quote in my bathroom. Thank you for pointing out the Truth, Truth.

  • @chloelageaux769
    @chloelageaux769 7 місяців тому +1

    Awesome feedback Shumake! Keep it up!!

  • @user-px3vz3cx9h
    @user-px3vz3cx9h 6 місяців тому +1

    Creative ideas of a good woman combined with determine energy a good man is a great formula which can never fail,you are right

  • @annarroyo7204
    @annarroyo7204 2 місяці тому

    Thank you keep bringing us the truth God bless u and your family

  • @mssouthernlady222
    @mssouthernlady222 7 місяців тому +3

    Alas, the wisdom of this world!

  • @Queenofdacastle
    @Queenofdacastle 6 місяців тому

    You are such a breath of fresh air… Glory to God 🙏🏾🫶🏾

  • @Misskwu
    @Misskwu 7 місяців тому +2

    I pray she repents. And grows deeper in her relationship. We have to be so careful to who we listen to on these platforms it’s a lot false witnesses roaming around

  • @sexiarn1
    @sexiarn1 7 місяців тому +2

    What happens when beauty fades??

  • @kiarahart3114
    @kiarahart3114 7 місяців тому +2

    There's so many things i could say about this, but ill just sum it up by saying tgis is the blind leading the blind.

  • @shonab36
    @shonab36 7 місяців тому +1

    I elevate myself for myself. Not for the purpose of becoming out of anyone’s league. #personalgoals

  • @noniwilliams7029
    @noniwilliams7029 6 місяців тому +1

    PHYSICAL attraction is a currency BUT it’s not enough to sustain a relationship and it’s NOTi REPEAT NOT BEAUTY

  • @kaydee7679
    @kaydee7679 7 місяців тому +1

    Your best video yet

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq 7 місяців тому +1

    Beauty is a dime a dozen... inside beauty is a glowing diamond 💎 forever.❤❤

  • @briannaharrison8507
    @briannaharrison8507 7 місяців тому +2

    She missed the whole book of Proverbs 😂 especially
    ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:30‬ ‭
    [30] Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised..... let alone the numerous other verses focusing on fearing God, submission, faithfulness, gentleness, character....this is so damaging.

  • @SarynVyo
    @SarynVyo 7 місяців тому

    The intro had me floored and I swear I could feel the angels around me say Chile 🥴🥴

  • @luv-velvet
    @luv-velvet 7 місяців тому +2

    that woman has been DEEPLY hurt and it shows. she’s just hiding behind materialism & the “high value woman” narrative.

  • @deborahhouston2110
    @deborahhouston2110 7 місяців тому +7

    She is right . A women’s beauty is her power. Virtue added to that is a plus

    • @niroberts3508
      @niroberts3508 7 місяців тому

      She’s wrong the Bible says charm is deceptive and beauty fades but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. If the king was so focused on beauty he wouldn’t have married Esther because his first wife according to the Bible was gorgeous but she probably had this mindset of I’m beautiful that’s all I need and when he called for her she refused. Esther was beautiful but what she did for the Jews and the king is why he loved her. Gods favor is what makes you beautiful I’m not saying you shouldn’t keep yourself together and always looking good but that’s not the only thing. Jesus said “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes?”

    • @deborahhouston2110
      @deborahhouston2110 7 місяців тому

      @@niroberts3508 ppl are shallow and looks are what they resort to first. Get over it

  • @ladysheba15
    @ladysheba15 7 місяців тому +1

    😂😂😂😂 it’s the staring face for me 😂😂

  • @wilhelminakey9595
    @wilhelminakey9595 7 місяців тому +3

    She needs to buy the KJV Key Word Study BIBLE. You can't only view the outside of a person, without seeing the inside of a person character. Thanks for sharing and thumbs up on the scriptures.

  • @zerotomillions1016
    @zerotomillions1016 7 місяців тому +2

    In a book store you will find several types of dictionary of which Webster's and Black's Law are examples. The reason Black's law dictionary is necessary is words that we use in normal conversation DO NOT mean the same thing in court. There is a Bible dictionary because the words we use commonly in society have a different meaning biblically.
    The word "beauty" in the Bible is MOST often referring to a CHARACTER quality not physical appearance. Ruth could have been a but-her-head however her beauty of character made her attractive. Ruth was essentially redeemed by Boaz, right? Let's look at what GOD said HE would do to redeem Israel.
    "...to comfort all that mourn; to appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them BEAUTY for ashes..." ~ Isaiah 61:2-3
    Do you think the word beauty here is talking about hot chicks? No, it is talking about a character quality.
    The average woman has a lot to bring to the table. This young lady, like most women her age, is focusing on physical beauty because she has NO clue how GOD equipped her at birth to be a powerful and resourceful help meet or helper to a husband.

  • @anybodycangetit-e1s
    @anybodycangetit-e1s 7 місяців тому +3

    Yes read the Bible but pray every time before you start for wisdom and understanding

  • @RinaldoHarris5539
    @RinaldoHarris5539 7 місяців тому +4

    Nothing but the truth brother 🙏🏿 🙌🏿real talk

  • @kilimanjaro5537
    @kilimanjaro5537 7 місяців тому

    Beauty is mentioned in the Bible but a friend of mine told me about a book she was reading and about how they were talking about how the love of God makes you more attractive. I think the issue is that we often read scripture with a worldly context and mindset in mind. The Bible could be talking about physical beauty but it could also be talking about the oil on you that makes you attractive. Her interpretation feels very worldly. We must read the scripture from the spirit not the world. And also ask and see how God defines beauty.

  • @Lexlex11848
    @Lexlex11848 7 місяців тому

    Dude I just seen one of her tik toks of my fyp 😭😭 we really have to discern how much time we spend on social media and not taking everyone with a camera for their word

  • @AvionMurrell
    @AvionMurrell 7 місяців тому

    I like how they put sad music over this smh to make it sound more appealing is wild.

  • @queenreg7
    @queenreg7 7 місяців тому

    The spooky music in the background while she cherry-picks scriptures is what has me shaking my head.

  • @hottstepher
    @hottstepher 7 місяців тому +4

    Mark Zuckerberg’s wife is an average looking woman (very accomplished though). I just think it’s so funny that she’s using him as an example 🤭

  • @dericaj
    @dericaj 5 місяців тому +1

    Abraham’s purpose was revealed to him after he was married. So was Sarah’s.

  • @deborahhouston2110
    @deborahhouston2110 7 місяців тому +2

    She is also right bc Christian men are are not looking in church even looking to IG or eharmony for their wife. And when they are scrolling they stop at the woman they find attractive .

  • @tstewart8698
    @tstewart8698 7 місяців тому +2

    Beauty & living a healthy lifestyle are good traits to have, however the best & most valuable trait a woman can have is love for the Lord! "Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." (Proverbs 31:30). On another note, Esther, Sarah, and Ruth were Godly women (first and foremost) that didn't wear a lace front with curtain-style baby hairs, fake lashes, and fake nails to attract their good husbands (just saying).

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 7 місяців тому +4

    The devil got her a special place waiting

  • @rockpaperreads
    @rockpaperreads 7 місяців тому +2

    She is geeking on a new level.

  • @user-ux7wk3jb4c
    @user-ux7wk3jb4c 7 місяців тому

    I didn't know my tablet has a glitch. I was looking at my friend comment and went to answer about hers because she wanted to ask me for my opinion and it jumped to this and I guess it skip this televised. So I'm very sorry for what happen. Please forgive me

  • @Andreamw
    @Andreamw 7 місяців тому +2

    This is called a reprobate mind.

  • @queenajustice542
    @queenajustice542 7 місяців тому +3

    One more thing, as for the masculine energy being the dominant force.. it depends.. but let’s go with it.. dominant force is not the problem.. the problem is, men have displayed and showcased the dominance as brutality and abuse throughout history and even today. Now if it’s just a truth, that the true identity of men is brutality, selfishness, taking by force whatever he desires, lies and manipulation to achieve a goal, then to women, that’s not a nature one can simply embrace without apprehension and fear. Men should work on how they present themselves as well, because dominance in itself is not the problem, it’s the abuse of power.

    • @SerenityTheAltruist
      @SerenityTheAltruist 2 місяці тому

      Beautifully stated

    • @queenajustice542
      @queenajustice542 2 місяці тому +1

      @@SerenityTheAltruist Thanks love, I’ll say this..for a group of men that keeps complaining about single mothers and what have you, some really feel that they have the right, to rule over, make demands, and even unalive a race of people that they have abandoned and don’t tend to. Last time I checked, they were in agreement that this race belongs to black women as many of them, do not want us or our children..So who’s trying to call shots? I thought a group of men who aren’t responsible said something? I hope that black women aren’t taking orders nor being subservient to a group of men who aren’t earning it in 2024..They like to claim/play the race card when it’s convenient though..it’s OURS when they want to call shots, but black women’s responsibility when it times to raise and financially provide for the children..even the government’s duty. They should seriously consider shutting off their cameras and backing away from a microphone..can’t rule over something you aren’t responsible for collectively.

    • @SerenityTheAltruist
      @SerenityTheAltruist 2 місяці тому

      @@queenajustice542 Love this it is so mf true. Our community lacks so much accountability it is crazy.

    • @queenajustice542
      @queenajustice542 2 місяці тому

      @@SerenityTheAltruist Yes it does, it’s not the only one, the others are also too blind to correct themselves and their evil ways. Ours is a product of their cancerous influence and puppeteering, along with our poor discernment, lack of critical thinking skills, easily manipulated, self hatred, lack of understanding of who we are unto TMH God, and desire to commit evil against one another. The evil deeds that others are doing to create an environment of mental imprisonment for their own selfish gains, well..they aren’t willing to hold themselves accountable for it, so we have to manage as best we can.

  • @jaymerritt411
    @jaymerritt411 7 місяців тому +2

    Goodness....Folks so pressed to lead others who most definitely dont have the credentials, better yet, the heart to do such things. Nowadays folks do it for views. She's effected someone's state of mind in the wrong way and has set folks back. We really gotta be careful what we consume....

  • @godofdestructiondiecast6756
    @godofdestructiondiecast6756 7 місяців тому +1

    I can always figure out I just always bothering me as a man I hear most people say they're looking for the perfect person there is nobody perfect far as I'm understanding except for Yahweh I think we need the word how we say things and I think people got the concept of marriage mixed up mainly the younger generation