Dogs Over Kids Life Decision Regret?
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- Опубліковано 17 тра 2024
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My husband and I are a dog family, no kids. We did go into our marriage wanting children and it wasn't possible for us. So we grieved the life we thought we would have and made new plans to have a different one. Now, we couldn't imagine having children! We are both very happy dog parents!
There's nothing wrong with not wanting children
I am married and we don't have any children. We have our blue cane corso. We absolutely love our fur baby. I cannot have children so getting our fur baby was the best decision ever.
I raised five children and lots of animals, both domestic and livestock. I always wanted children so it was natural for me to choose that life. It’s certainly not for everyone and is a personal decision and no one else’s business imho. That being said, I would rather a child be born wanted rather than to someone not ready or capable to raise them. For you both, the decision was yours to make and it’s obviously been a good one for you. Please give Bruce Wayne and Joey Justice some extra pats from me for being such a joy to you and to their fans.💕🐾🐾
I was married before with kids. Divorced and remarried someone who doesn’t have kids. We decided having kid together wasn’t for us. He’s happy being a great stepdad. We have Great Danes instead. We adopted Fenrir together and sadly lost him at 6 years old. That was harder for me because he was like our child. A soul we helped nurture and loved beyond words. I too cry looking at my other Danes thinking about losing them. Can’t help it. I know what it feels like and I know how badly I wish I could give Fenrir one more hug and kiss. Really enjoyed the conversational aspect of this video! I hope you two make more
I never had children but did have horses and dogs. Loved them all dearly. Own a horse for 36 years and see how heartbroken you are when they die. The most stupid comment ive ever heard was " its just a dog its just a horse". No, its not. Its a family member. And yes my Rottwieler slept in the king size bed with me and a little dog. They are not disrespectful of me, the horses havent been disrespectful. Its all in training and disposition. Rott dog not people friendly but dog friendly. He doesnt hate everyone but those he doesnt like i tend to look twice at. A dog or horse can read intentions of an individual faster than you can think. Ive never tried to outguess my dog or horse when it comes to strangers. My life has been good i wish dogs lived longer. Horses too but i wouldnt have had all the wonderful souls in my life that ive had if they lived forever.
I'm 52. Not married, No kids. 1 pitbull. I actually take care of my 84 yr old mom who needs lots of help now. Sometimes I feel "different" or weird when talking to people and they're like you're not married ? No kids ? And I think "Am I the only one in the world who has no kids and no wife" lol...
Nothing wrong with that at all. As long as you are living the life you want enjoy it and have no regrets.
I'm happily childfree. However, I lost my (first) dog last year. I was not prepared for her to pass, so just about lost my mind. I still cry about her everyday. I wish I had been better prepared for her passing.
It is never easy
Sorry for tour lost 😢 please, don’t blame yourself… you may never be prepared enough when somebody you live passes away
also, any couple who is ok with just having their beloved dogs and no children, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! that's exactly what I told do. I didn't have to have a child to be fulfilled in life. being fulfilled in life is loving and be happy with yourself and knowing who you are, then you add someone to your life is you want, it should never be I have to or I need to, it should always be, I want to, same if it's a dog or a child. I'll take the dog every time! a child doesn't make you a mother or father, just makes you a parent. I love couples that feel they didn't need to have children to be happy and complete with one another. you guys are great!!!
I'm happily childfree, I'm turning 23 this year and people judge me so much, some of my friends have started to have theirs and I have nothing against having kids but that it just is not for me. I have two dogs, and they are my only real family and I love them, but there are still rules and everyone adores them and they earn everything they get by showing respect, and being obedient ❤️
Fur fam - me, husband, 3 pups. ZERO regrets, I never was a "kid" person, but with dogs, I always felt a connection.
Same here, I can never seem to connect with children, but dogs no problem.
I had kids and dogs, horses, birds, bunnies, fish, ferrets. My daughter became a vet tech. My son volunteered his time and money all over the world to help animals before he passed. We all prefer animals to people.
I have had children,St.Bernards,chronic illness and taking care of parents,I will tell you it is impossible to give the time that each deserved.
I have come to believe that children and animals are privilege they deserve the best of you.
We had two special needs children so I had to stay home to care for them but that meant my husband was away working all the time.
Looking back I wish I had understood how majestic our dogs were and we loved them sooo much we only got 8 years with each and it broke our hearts so much we have never stopped grieving them.
We gave everything to our families and it cost me physically making my chronic illness much much worse.
Life is hard and the more humans you had the harder it gets our children are grown they are married and we have four grandchildren and I don't have the physical ability to interact with them because I burned myself out.
You have no idea how you may care for children as aunts,uncles,foster parents,teachers who knows but raising children often includes other people in society and your part could be important.
I'm 52, no kids but a pocket bully who's way better than any wife or child! I'm glad I made the right choice 😂
Love to see people like yourself happy in life ♥
Hi guys from Australia. My husband and I are in our 50’s and kid free by choice. We have cat fur babies, Would love to have dogs but we are at work too much and probably wouldn’t be fair for the dogs. We get what you discussed a lot but seriously people will comment no matter what you do. I love how you look after your dogs in the best way possible. Your family is awesome and you have a great channel. We get you and there’s a lot more people out there with the same thoughts. You’re not weird, you’re you and that’s a blessing.
Thanks for a great video! Its definitely not selfish to not have kids! I feel like a lot of people.have kids for the wrong reasons. We dont have kids and are happy with our decision. We have one dog and are planning on adding to our family soon!
My husband and I are also 40/41 and 9 years married (11 years together) without kids. He never wanted kids and I wasn't sure, but never felt the need to have one. For me it's not selfish to not have kids. I think also our society isn't perfect and easy to live in and there are more than enough humans out there. In Europe it is also uncommon to not have kids and we got the question very often after getting married, why we don't have kids and who will take care about us, when we are old. I think many have the fear to be alone, when they are old. But I was absolutely sure that I want dogs as soon as work-life is more smooth since I was a child. My husband got infected with the dog-love as soon as we got the first one. We got both self employed over the years and now we have our beautiful brown Labrador Leon 7 years old and Maya the 2,5 years old Cane Corso girl. Our family is perfect and don't need kids. Greetings to Bruce and Justice🥰
Completely agree! Same with me and my wife, happily Childfree and will be apart from our fur babies. Had ppl ask us "how can you do that etc etc" I just responded I'd ask you the exact same thing and you have children. Bruce and Justice looking good as always 🙏 🙂.
As a married woman who has never wanted kids and then had a medical condition that forced a hysterectomy, I have also experienced a lot of people shaming me for our lifestyle- never my husband. I'm a very live and let live person; if you have/want kids, go for it. Whatever that may mean for you. But no one should shame people for making choices about their lives. Stop trying to save other people's souls/lives with your opinions. You're entitled to them, but using opinions to make people feel shitty says more about you than the person you're shaming.
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Wanted kids when I was younger. Now, at 46F, I'm happy I didn't have kids. I'm retired military and enjoying my life in a loving relationship with another CC owner. I've had four fur babies two have gone on to Rainbow Bridge.
Bottom line "I regret nothing, I'm living loving and laughing! "
Thank you for your services! KEEP LIVING THE LIFE YOU LOVE! ☺
And absolutely, the dogs brought me and my husband closer as well - especially since the first Beagle joined the family, OMG how much joy that little guy brought us. From then on, my husband was sold, and a while after our senior Shepherd passed, I suggested adopting another Beagle. He was absolutely in support of this, and this Beagle became totally "his" dog; she spends most of her time in his office and the connection they share is amazing. Even now as I'm typing this, these two are sharing a pre-walk huggie :-)
Being thoughtful, responsible, and aware that having children should be a conscious decision is powerful! Great video!
I’m a family with out children. We have had many fur babys.❤❤
I have children they are older now out of the house 3 furbabies later ❤️ your life your choices 👏👏👏
I have 4 children, I’ve had dogs & now cats plus my children’s dogs & a cat. I love my life but I equally understand that having children is NOT for everyone and no one has the right to judge people who decide their lives are complete without them.
I totally agree with Jason, everyone’s life is different plus when you question people on “when are you having kids?” remember there might be a medical reason why they haven’t. ✨✨✨
Live life how you choose 👏
I am a father of two children one boy and one girl. So I understand the parenting aspect. However, when I became a father it was not the go out and pic a child, it was more unexpected and somewhat not planned. I have no regrets about my children and have truly enjoyed being a father. After my children grew and went off on their own I decide to become a dog parent. This is the thing I found most interesting, I was overly concerned about being able to provide for each of my two guys Corsos. Unlike the father experience i was now prepared to offer a high quality of life and love that as a father was not alway an option. I watch your videos and listen intently as you provide what at the time seem like the most sensible advice, about taking on the responsibility of being a corso owner. At this point it's been two and a half years into my dog daddy trip. Loving every second with my two besties. So thanks for all you provide and so you know given the choice looking back.............. Doggy dad is way easier than being a parent. The rewards are so similar and each has its own benefit and down sides. PS if I had fight one of you iver the family thing I picking Jason of course when the boys are not around LOL Love you guy and your FAMILY.
I love all of your videos. Your family or pack is great and fun to watch. I watch everything you post. I'm in my 60's and too old to own a Corso. Man if I had known about them before I would still have at least one now. While I was married we had 3 kids and countless dogs over the years. Mainly pits but also many other breeds thru the years. Now I get my dog fix by watching your videos. I am in love with Bruce and Joey. In fact when Bruce was sick and had to have surgery I prayed so hard. I was so happy to see him go home.They are the best behaved dogs I have ever seen. And I know that's from you and Kara's fantastic job of raising them. You can see in their eyes and actions just how much they love you. My favorite thing is when one of them actually hugs you and it's not something you initiate he will just put a big paw on your shoulder and pull you in. ❤ love you guys. Keep up the good work. Love you all. Take care and please keep posting ❤
We are a combo family. Only one child and we are happy with our one child -one dog at a time family.
I enjoy your family very much. ❤❤ 😊
We are a combo of both. I had two daughters by the age of 20. I am now 52 and an empty nester and it is so hard for me my girls and I were inseparable I worked hard as a nurse and coached softball for my daughters for 9 yrs They were in travel ball for a long time Now they are in their 30’s and I have beautiful grand children but I do not have them very much but we are super close we live in another state so my Corso’s and our kitty are our kids now. ❤❤❤ we love our fur babies Yes we know they are not kids but they are our family they are not just dogs. They are human like. Kids are wonderful and dogs are great Neither define you. ❤❤❤
Great video! Believe it or not, there is a local pet loss support geoup put on by one of the churches in our area ❤ I was so pleased to see the flyer for it in our veterinarian's clinic.
My husband had kids in his first marriage. I am a dog mama, but have grand children, best of both worlds….
I love your deliberate and thought out reasons for no kids. I too chose to have no kids and have a furry child. Wouldn't have it any other way. I would have more furry friends but my Staffy doesn't get along with other dogs. She was attacked by 3 small dogs a couple years ago and has never been the same
As someone with both, I don't think it's comparable. I take my mastiff everywhere I can along with my child. Yes having a dog is very fulfilling and takes a lot of work by itself. It's still not comparable to having your own biological kids.
I find people with only dogs seem to be bitter about not having kids, or even openly dislike children. Can be seen in the comments below. Which is weird because we were all kids once, and your very existence depended on your parents doing what you are avoiding. A decent amount of your body/hormones are designed around reproduction. That being said not everyone should have kids, especially those who don't want them.
People who just have kids though, do not understand how much a part of the family dogs are.
I am 46 years old and really focused on my career in my 30s. One advice I tell younger women is to freeze their eggs. I realized too late that I wanted kids. At least freezing your eggs, you have the option later on to have or not have kids. I also have two dogs, and they are a handful!
Far too late for that for us....I am 46 next month, Kara is 40 but yes nothing wrong with doing that in case you change your mind. Always good to have a backup plan.
If you have that ability to have kids or buy a fur, freeze your eggs, adopt child/fur baby then do what you're able to do when you can. Living vicariously through others is possible and ok.
@@jasoncorey Really?!! You guys look younger than your age!
@@jordanjames-lightner9344 That’s a great point!
@@jasoncoreyNot at all too late! I gave birth at 42 through natural conception to a healthy baby boy who is now 7. My husband is 5 years older than I am. Our adult son is 21 years older than the 7 year old! And our Cane Corso, Musa, is 9 months old. We're a beautiful pack!
I have a partner and a black lab. We would love to have another dog-a dogo argentino or a cane corso, but the financial aspect of living life for us plus our singular dog is already a lot. We will bring on another when we’re ready.
I’m 40 and have never “wanted” kids. I wasn’t a hard no, but I was more of a probably not than I was anywhere near a yes , until I met my current partner. We’ve been together for three years and I occasionally have moments where I truly feel a strong energetic and emotional desire to have kids. I’ve cried in those moments because it’s quite loving and intense, but they are fleeting moments and spaced far apart. The rest of the time I am still, “I don’t feel a desire to have them.”
The two of us together also feel very strongly that we need to get our shit together for ourselves (I have a very successful business doing bodywork, but I was carefree and footloose my whole life and didn’t start putting *any* money into an IRA until last year and have not prioritized saving money in general and he has a similar background). So kids do not really make sense for us. Perhaps if our drive was stronger, we would find a way, but we are both happy being fur parents and focusing on raising him well and being more cognizant of our lives in the present and future with the three of us.
My dog, Obsidian, is my heart and soul and I am so happy he is my fur child.
I'm happily married with 3 kids and a fur baby Corso (he's 5, so he's not a baby 😂). Wouldn't have it any other way. But the world needs every type of person so to each their own.
We are a fur family! My husband and I love it and we don’t ever regret our decision. ❤❤❤❤❤
I have both. My dog has better manners then my kid's.
Thank you for making this video. This is just one of the many reasons I also started following Kara on socials, definitely can resonate with you both. Me, my husband and our dogs are a family and that is great for us.
Single dad raised my son starting with great danes as a baby.then two corso when he was preteen..lots of training for my furry children and my son..Proper dog interaction makes better more respectful children...also if you dont want kids never feel pressured..raising dogs properly to help lead the masses is a great service.thanks
Woooow, just watched that Beckman clip - awesome!
I have both. I have one son, and I have always had bully breeds. I have never had any issues with training my dogs, which shows that my son is very good at teaching/training them as well. And honestly, they are all my babies! With a house filled with love. And please don't let those who judge bother you. As long as you 4 are happy, that's the golden ticket.
I had both when my kids were young we had rotties, now as a widow I just have my corso who adores my grandsons but hates all strangers.
I can relate to this. Please don’t feel out of the ‘norm’. You both are inspiring and so insightful. You are absolutely the most amazing puppy parents. You have the Bestest Boys!
We have both
I can’t believe how much JJ has changed.. so mature looking now. 😊.
We have recently acquired another puppy ourselves his name is Luke and we are so very excited to have him. He is so beautiful. We did just lose both of our boys last year so we had to take some time and now we are ready to get another and love another again. ❤❤❤
I totally agree with you all. We have 2 kids and our daughter is going to be a dog mom. We have had 3 dogs with her and she does not want to have kids. Our son is the same way right now but he can not have a dog right now as he is not home a lot and it would not be fair to the dog so he comes home and dog sits when we go on vacation. ❤❤❤❤
I have both dogs and kids.
Absolutely wholeheartedly agree ❤
Good for you, I do too and your point is?
@@mommabird2813 Really, stop being a b****.
@@mommabird2813 a couple of points. One you can have dogs and children at the same time and raise them together. 2) If I have to choose between saving a stranger and my dog... I'm going to save my dog. and 3 I will quote a bird hunter Guide who told the group "If you accidentally shoot my dog I will shoot you" I don't think I have to spell out what happens if someone intentionally injures my dog...
Thank you so much for making this video.
Love you guys. Especially Bruce and Justice
Completely love your family. It's perfect. We raised two boys along with two Cocker Spainiels that passed shortly after our kids graduated. We followed that with two Labs and I can say the relationship with the Labs was much deeper and stronger than with the Cockers. We are now on our third set of dogs ( two Labs and a Corso) and are retired. The bond with our dogs is even greater. All our dogs were well behaved and went everywhere with us. But yes it is different without kids and more so without a job when the dogs are the center of our attention. It just keeps getting better and I will never be without a dog.❤
8:20 JJ said thank you for taking us everywhere 💋😍 I also feel sadness when I see others with their dogs and their close relationship with them. 🥰 I do have children and have chosen to have dogs opposed to children because of my chronic health conditions. This is the first time in my adulthood that I dont have a dog. A dog is the only thing missing in my life. Im a 46 year old woman.
these vids are my fav when u sit down as familt and just random chat😊❤
Having both, I can say that having dogs and taking care of them like we do and you guys do is like a version of having kids. Many differences but also some similarities. It's definitely not selfish to decide. More people who don't feel financially equipped or don't really want kids should not have them. I think it's selfish to have kids in many circumstances if you can't fill their needs.
Thanks for sharing! ❤
Have been both. The human kids are all grown now. Now all we have is fur babies.
I have both kids and dogs
100% this ❤ Im not too much younger than you guys (31 F) and I have never wanted children. I like kids but Def not for me. I am currently raising my first Corso (currently 14 months old) and he is so much like a little person it's ridiculous 😂 Thank you for staying true to yourselves and sharing your beautiful family with all of us!! Love to all of you ❤
😂 You are way younger.....I will be 46 next month but appreciate that comment. Thank you for sharing and enjoy him!
You guys have amazing life, people should envy you 😍 I'm 43 and have no kids either, I'm not gonna do what is expected and I'm not gonna be selfish, my goal is to have rescue dogs to the rest of my life, I saw to many senior dogs abandoned just because they old and sick😢..they deserve so much better ❤ love video thank you🤩
We each had a child before we married, both unplanned, and I wouldn’t change that. I do think life is more fulfilling With kids, Grandkids are Life itself! I would be very lonely without our children and grandchildren. And I hope to own another CC before we are too old .
This made me cry because you are so on point
I have two Corsi, a daughter and a stepson. I am a dog trainer and I see nothing wrong with not having children.. I don't understand why society pushes children on everyone.
I think this is a good video to show young adults who don’t have kids. Many people feel pressured to have them.
I am just like you guys I'm a fur🐾🥰🐾 Family.
You guys rock, you have your fur babies. No need to conform to the ideation from the past. Love each other. Enjoy your lives. Enjoy your pups. ❤
I have both - 1 complete male Cane Corso and 2 boys : )
I jus have one child gotta say kids are a beautiful blessing jus as having animals in the family you will love care protect for them no matter what ❤
I love the white markings on your dogs chests..reminds me of my weimaraner I used to have he had a perfect white star on his chest!🙂
I’m 40 and my family pressured me to have kids until I was in my 30s, but my sister and I chose to be child free (and partner free) because of inherited health issues and the fact that our life wasn’t conducive to having children.
I also feel that it’s selfish to have children that you don’t have the means to take care of, whether it’s because of illness, money, or any other reason.
I think it’s selfish of people to push their beliefs or expectations onto others, especially when they aren’t the ones who are going to be responsible for them for the rest of their lives.
I have two dogs that are my family, a bullmastiff/American staffy mix and a jack Russel/ridgeback/basenji mix.
The big dude is my service dog and is so human like.
He’s also extremely intelligent, he knows how to problem solve in a way I’ve not experienced with my past dogs.
Hades taught himself to open the fridge door, the baby gate I use for the little guy to have his own room, and so many other things I can’t think of rn
When he wants to go for a walk he starts bringing me things he knows we use for them, he’ll grab whatever leash, harness,collar, shoes he can find and even brings my favourite hoodie I wear on walks lol 😂
My little guy is really intelligent as well but in different ways, he’s an awesome mouse and rat hunter, and he’s always down for a car ride. If he gets out the gate he just runs circles around the car until I open a door, this is the only way to catch him when he’s on a mission 😆
I was raised to see dogs as family though so it’s a lot easier for me to understand than someone who hasn’t experienced this kind of connection with dogs.
Thanks for all you do, your boys are gorgeous, and I love watching your family 🫶🏼
Thank you for a great video ❤❤❤❤❤
Hey, I just got my new puppy, a Dachshund. A lot smaller than a Cane Corso , but a true warrior. Just wanted to share.
Wouldn’t life be boring if we all had to make the same decisions about our life? All personal decisions should be respected and honored. ❤
Yes we do have a motherly instinct. No kids here either and I don't feel missed out on anything LOL, but I do want to get a dog eventually.
I've kinda been on both sides of this coin. My husband and I were together for 10 years before having kids. We rescued our dog Larry and had him for a few years before having kids. He was amazing with our kids when they came along. Having Larry is what made my husband and I realize we wanted to have children. Larry will always be my first baby, even now that he's passed away. There's no right or wrong when it comes to what type of family you want, only what's right or wrong for you.
Mid-50s, no kids, never wanted them, completely happy w life. One hundred percent my choice and never got any societal push back. Perhaps it was my career path at the time. My animals were/are my kids. I love them w the same fervor.
Don't feel like you have to explain yourselves to anyone! That's a huge decision that's only yours to make and people need to mind their own business!
There is nothing wrong with being childfree and there is nothing wrong with having children. I just think childfree people should not shame those who have kids as if our lives are horrible and people with kids should not shame those who do not have kids as if those without kids are lost or ‘selfish’. Respect everyone’s decision. Both decisions have ups and downs.
I am married with a corso no children and its the best decision we made 😊
I HAVE AN AMERICAN BULLDOG BUT I DONT HAVE KIDS, I AM FIGHTING THE SYSTEM FOR EVERYBODYS KIDS
POSSIBLY THE BEST CORSO OWNERS IN THE WORLD
Just me and my girl (Corso) against the world ❤ I need a dog more than anything in this world. Never wanted kids.
You gave your parents grand dogs. Of course you guys are a fam. Same with tobias, my pitbull/dachshund, he's like my child, but i dont treat him as such, he knows im the leader. i also choose not to have kids as i dont want to pass epilepsy down to them and im not finacially stable. But i have two beautiful nieces.
I think which I’m sure a lot of us don’t think about is making sure you have a will draw up so that all your assets will be given to someone special in your life. Especially if you decide not to have children. It’s also important that both you and your partner are on each other’s bank accounts just in case something happens to one of you. My neighbour just recently lost her husband unexpectedly and they had separate bank accounts and it cost her almost 10 thousand dollars to get access to his account just thought I would put that out there ❤
We chose children and dogs!!! Best combination ever
As a dog parent the major benifit of not having children in the house is me and the Mrs are free to do what we want when we want that real freaky business 🥰
Them parents out there ain't get much action with kids in the next room 👀
My dogs are my kids.
I absolutely agree. My dog is a part of my family.
I am fur family. I don't want kids just I need my fur baby
I LOVED this video!
I have both
I cannot stand that comment, “who’s going to take care of you when you’re older”! My husband & I have fur babies. I was not able to have children because of my immune system. My dogs have brought me so much happiness & love. I wouldn’t change a thing.
Both
Dogs are family weather you have children or not.
What I would like to ask is when you get into your later ages which is a while yet I know but can you see yourselves still having this breed in your senior years or do you think that you will have to change your breed of dog.
I cannot see myself without the breed I have now which are a British Bulldog and a French Bulldog but worry about if I can give them what they need as I do suffer with conditions which has changed their lives already but people say that they are still happy so that gives me piece of mind, do you feel the same or think you will be able to continue with your breed.
It's your lives if you don't want children and its nothing to do with anyone else, if you are happy that's all that matters.
Nothing wrong with not having kids. Enjoy your two precious dogs that make your life awesome
I have 3 kids and a dog. The bottom line is, everyone has their own rights to live their lives to the fullest the way they consider them to be, whether it’s with kids/dogs/cats/alone. Even for kids, they are growing into individuals and have their own lives. Having kids is going to change ones perspective of life, big one which I can’t disagree, very different from having a pet (I do love my dog to death), it’s just a way higher level of responsibility raising a kid to be a responsible citizen for the human race.
Just dogs since I was a kid. When I lost my childhood dog I was destroyed, it was cancer and I knew it was coming. But the void and silence was devastating. The only way I could recover was to find a new dog to adopt. It's not replacing just adding. Each new dog gets all the love I can't to those who passed, and then some. It's how I found my peace
I have 1 kid & and of course I have 4-legged fuzzy kids.
Not having children has always been frowned on. People think either you cant have kids or you're being selfish. I have had family members ask who is going to take care of you? I honestly never had the motherly instinct to have a child.. I knew from a young age I didnt want them..when I see a baby it does nothing for me, verses seeing a puppy..I go crazy.. I have horses dogs and rabbits and that's enough for me , and of course my husband who feels the same way. We are both in our early 60s and have no regrets.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. Just like you seeing a baby does absolutely nothing for me. Maybe it is due to being a only child. Of course there are times I think yes that would be incredible to have a little one of us but that's not enough to make me truly want a child. We all have different paths and that is exactly what the world needs.
I will say you will NEVER have enough money for kids so that should never be an excuse but always do for yourselves and don’t be sorry for your choices❤❤❤
Kids arent for everybody period must people who do have kids really shouldnt be parents must kids born were accidents