I love how the lady @ around 36:00 asked how she could be more approachable. This shows how much women want to be approached (in a correct/respectful way of course) and why men should not be afraid of approaching. On the contrary, men should embrace their impulse to approach women and go for it. Even the man that is rejected, will be held to a higher standard than if he did not approach.
0:00 Introduction. 3 magic questions. 3:18 *Level 1: Location/occasion. Shit tests. Be a challenge.* 9:34 *Level 2: Career/passion. Give them their own words. Identity value.* 28:34 *4 states. Avoid yes or no questions.* 35:36 Woman asks how to be more approachable. 40:18 *"What's your opinion on women approaching men?"* 46:30 Level 3: Past pleasant childhood experiences. 50:30 *The problem with giving too much too soon as a woman. Women's thinking vs. men's thinking.* 59:20 *Use their words to describe your experience.* 1:06:40 Approach/approachability. 1:12:13 *Some rules outlive their usefulness.* 1:15:27 Focus on positive experiences. 1:16:26 *Women don't want to be the center of your life. Indirect invitations to interact.* 1:20:54 *Women's way of getting attention from men they like but their peers don't. Posture. Eye contact.* 1:25:40 *Key attraction figure. Indirect invitations to interact. Approaching.* 1:31:53 *Let her vent.* 1:36:51 Ad.
Amazing video. I'll use to have a great next date with my wife of 36 years. We met when she was 14 and I was 15. Our love gets more amazing every year:) And I love putting effort into making her happy
#1 - ask an open ended question related to the location or what brought them there #2 - career/passion/what excites them (soften with "I'm curious" or a reason why you're asking) - what inspired you to become ____ - repeat back sequence of words or movements they lean on #3 - when you tell your "me too" experience, use the same word sequence they used.
Level 3 is to ask about past pleasant childhood experiences. This lets them associate their most powerful positive feelings with you because they have to go back into the experience to tell you about it.
Yeah, you can ask all thoses question. The trick here is for you to feel it right and smooth when talking about things with strangers. You can choose many topic, but this topic is figured out by Him
"Every time you see someone with that type of body language, that kind of reticence to get involved with the group, you need to stand up and introduce yourself. Because you know what that feels like. And you need to save them" Golden!
I’ve been unconsciously doing this at work (bartender). I didn’t realise this is the result. I was always just trying to make them feel good about themselves.
@@cozettem8226 idk anything about you but mark Manson once said something along the lines of "if, every person you meet is a person you have issues with maybe you're the problem since you're the only thing that's common in all of them" Anyways, good luck though ✌
@Kim Truc Lan lol that was one of the very first things I noticed in like the first 5mins, the bracelet and then the watch immediately after. He likes to feel balanced I guess🤷🏻♀️
I literally watched this and walking to the shop i had a gorgeous girly hair flick as she drew near, i grinned and gave a little eyebrow raise, got a beaming smile back. Id usually study the floor. Made me feel good, her too as she went from shy to beaming right back at me. Probably never see her again but was very good! Might just go for a wander round town tomorrow but will have to chill out on the grinning and eyebrow raises in-case people assume i have tourettes...:) thank-you!
That's a very good question. If you are referring to step three of the 3 magic questions protocol, In the context of dating and relationships and especially on a first date, ideally you would change the subject and remove that person as a potential dating or mating partner. Remember 3MQ is a dating and attraction protocol specifically designed to generate attraction while simultaneously evoking and eliciting information about the person so that the operator can make an informed choice as to the suitability of the subject as a potential partner. I really can't stress that part enough. When we use 3 mq in a dating context we are NOT signing up to get into a less than optimal relationship. If you ask someone to talk about their most pleasant childhood experiences and the first thing they come up with to someone they are with for the first time all about sexual trauma, abuse or anything even remotely similar, my advice is to eject unless you really want to deal with the drama and baggage this person is bringing to the relationship. A. Because the person isn't giving you the information you asked for (strike one) B. They Are Giving you Information You Didn't Ask For (Strike Two) C. They Will Bring all of that "baggage" into any relationship you create and you'll be the one who has to deal with it.(Strike Three) Sounds Harsh, even to me as I write it, but remember dating and relating is about finding the people who make your life better. If the person doesn't meet that criteria, the both of you are better off moving on. Hope that helps. Your friend, David
Learned this the hard way....David, do you agree that men must figure out what her relationship was and is like with her father? In my judgement, I think that sets her vision of what men are to be...good or bad. Thanks for your advice, David.
Some folks have asked me why I transcribe David's videos. I do it because I am slightly hard of hearing and by having to transcribe them, I get to see and hear (many times) What David is teaching. I am forced to study, and do my homework, as it were, and actually learn the subject well enough to go out and demonstrate it to my local NLP group. That's why I do it. So I can do it. If someone is really an interested student, I will share my crib notes. And truthfully I only get a handful of requests for each video's transcript.. But mostly it's for me. There is no software for this. It is all done by hand and takes 3 hours of my time for about ten minutes of video. So it takes me many days to do a single video. And yes I have now transcribed about 180 of Davids videos. Not all of them I will share.
So I decided to use this protocol on one of my college friends that I dont get to see very often. And I was amazed, she was the one that did most of the speaking during our entire interaction. Most of what I did was just return some of her words. There were like a moment or two in which the conversation went silent though. But what I did was ask another open ended question, like about her career(or in this case, what she was studying). For example, we were talking about an art class of hers for a while and then it went silent for like 5'seconds, which I proceeded with something along lines of "By the way, I wanted to ask, are you still in (insert random major)?". And thus it started another conversation for like 15 minutes, until I had to go to my calculus class.
There is this woman that I have been triing to talk to online, just used your say her words reply and she wrote back instantly, wow, this guy is good, Thanks David
I've been meaning to try this online also, but for some reason I feel so much more weird typing it than saying it. I don't know if that makes sense, lmao.
My daughter almost lost her home after her husband died. She tried renting rooms out and still with the constant repairs and upkeep and the fact her house was $100,000 underwater she couldn't manage the expenses. The bank got fed up with her 60-day delinquency and they proceeded to foreclose. After the foreclosure process began and the reinstatement fees brought the balance owed and late fees from $6,800 to $14,300. my daughter then needed to tell her renters they were going to have to move. She was so worried about these two elderly women living with her that she made herself sick. When she finally lost all hope of saving her home she told her roommates. As it turns out one of these two women had the money to pay the reinstatement fees and offered to put a much needed new roof on the house. Amazing what can happen when you're able to communicate. Who would have ever guessed this little old lady renting a $500 a month room, would be loaded and generous?
this is the first vid of yours I saw and I found it to be immediatley compelling ... everytime I watch it I pick up more about how to pace and lead...the more I watch and pay attention the more it'll be a natural part of just how I communicate
Fantastic..I was a very seasoned sales person and I read people very well. I have said so many of the things you say here, which clearly means I totally agree. Well done and well taught..So many people need this!
Hi Victoria I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
So there i was.....on lunch yest and listen to this ....I've heard stuff like this before but then have trouble practicing it. So i took notes on a paper towel. Later i went to my second job where a new coworker asked me to go have a drink and a bite after work. Great! My opportunity to put this into action. He had mentioned earlier that he had written a book and had to speak to his publisher. So while we were out i stated out our convo asking " tell me more about your book, what drove you to write it" . I repeated his words as he spoke with such passion and drive. He never shut up all night and went from one passion he had to another. Broke out his phone. Showed me pic after pic of all his interests. It was nice cause i didn't have to carry the convo. At some points i stopped listening and my mind wandered but he kept going and i caught up later. Thanks i learned alot. ♡
I've been an ESL teacher for over 10 years, and I always wondered why some students always wanted to have classes with me instead of my colleagues. Now I know; I've always cared about people around me, and always asked these type of questions, just didn't know what I was actually doing. Now I get it! It's kind of funny. Thanks a lot David.
The trainer grabbed my attention within ten minutes. His story resonates with what happened last night to me. I met my little sister's boyfriend. Sitting in the car, he ask me "so Rob, what do you study really?" Off I went. I talked for six minutes straight on my favourite courses. In our total converstion, I talked 80% of the time. Yet, I came to like him very well. I guess that show the power of these questions.
David, your daughter is amazing. As a teacher, I am watching your daughter actively learn. I am sure it is distracting, it must be. But you did it masterfully. She will be your legacy.
My concern is that narcissistic people are so good at doing all that you mention to their victims, in order to invade their boundaries and then perpetrate them!
The way you explain is great. I also think that the questions do elicit a specific strategy..and it does end up with the person being on the verge of falling in love. Like you said, the key is to be willing to let go --> accept or reject. The other thing is this is a "sealed off" training. Sometimes people's red lights will turn on when you ask them loads of questions as you keep on asking them questions. Sometimes it doesn't work that way. Sometimes people will appreciate the opportunity to talk about themselves. In this case you are sub-communicating "with me you can talk about yourself" which IS a great thing to do and A strategy to have in a relationship, but at the same time there are other great strategies to sub-communicate - such as...great conversation where you and the other party can "dance words" together...and some of the people would prefer that. The focus and the manner in which you present this are excellent.
Hi David I watched interest the video ,what struck me was i had what i can only describe as a meeting with a lady ....in the most unusual environment where we spent over half an hour where i simply talked with her she was very open and warm with me and we both felt we had made a special connection. It was at a Gentlemans club. Suffice to say i stated very early in our conversation that wasn't an offer i would be interested in and as it was said and heard was such an unimportant part of our chat. So thank you so much for posting this invaluable piece of hindsight/info/help in the areas you touched on my feeling now just confirmed what i felt then...the following day and since. I personally help others in my close group of friends where they have issues dealing with difficult or heartbreaking circumstances and so enjoyed listening and learning more aspects of life....from your experienced perspective. Having watched 3 of your videos so far the more i watch the more im considering becoming an empowerment trainer. So thanks for that too and keep up the excellent work that you do. Thanks Peter
@Alessia, Hey Alessia, Thanks for your warm and wonderful feedback. I'm grateful for people like yourself who get real value out of our stuff. Check back with us again. Your Friend, David
He is so good. He has omitted something though. His movements, the way he carries himself, the tilt of his head, and his eyebrows when he goes to talk to the women. Yes even his eyebrows shows he understands that this is attractive to women. So use the other stuff great but the body language is the most powerful. I Wish we could have a female version of him to watch what men love about us.
If you believe you'll never be able to use this video for anything your right, because that's what you commanded your brain to do, and if you decide oh this is easy peasy and I can use this not only to meet girls to date I can also use this to gain business contacts or to gain prospects to sell whatever product or service you have then you will apply these 3 simple questions. Instead of asking about the weather you'll ask these 3 Magic questions.
Hi Spanish I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
This makes a lot of sense, because I do this with naturally certain people I like. Problem is I am guarded and it takes a miracle for me to like someone new. It never occurred to me that I could use this on co-workers, which I generally can't stand. I do understand now why most people seem to love me or hate me lol.
Snyder is the best:) the video course "identity by design" is just mind blowing. I use his techniques in many videos. Especially "voice of authority" is simply amazing.
I like the content and also the way audience was asking questions makes it more easy to understand.. the question from audience made trainer to speak more and explain further about the topic .. which was soo good.. Trainer is good 👌🏻☀️
hahah he is so correct! I broke up with my ex and he didnt understand why, so i told him why and he argued instead of listening and having compassion! So glad to be free of that abusive relationship, and glad to see that I was correct! This guy is great!
+Racquel Rose i had a coworker who i was really good friends with. i met her husband that she complained about. i became good friends with him too but he was a horrible listener and blabbed on forever. they divorced 2 years later. he moved so i only talk to him on the phone sometimes and it can be torture lol. but still like the guy. the coworker quit and i didn't keep in contact with her. we were just work friends as we had that in common and that's about it. there i go blabbing but mentioned it since its the same situation you had. relationships need to be even.
Very informative. Edna was putting across a fair point though David and you did exactly what you said ...You talked too much over her. Some guys DONT talk!!! they ARE too shy and they talk too little. The core problem is the same..They dont show an interest in their date, but their needs are different.. This technique doesnt work on everyone. To many it would be very obvious that we were being charmed. That doesnt matter though, as you say. Maybe we are enjoying being charmed!!!
Hi Susan I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
David this is an awesome training....I went out to a strip club and tried it on a dancer 10/17/2014 and within 15 minutes her head was on my shoulder crying happy tears (Great Emotional State)....she left with me 2 hrs before her shift ended...I have been involved with traditional pick up for several years now....You Are My New Hero! Thank You!
how though? i try these 3 questions and it just eventually leads to a dead end in the convo. she talked about her goals,dreams,life ect then its kinda blah... how did you go about doing it?
I just provided you with a comprhensive feedback about how my interaction unfolded, and that's all yu have to say ? Unlike most youtubers, I dont watch and be like "waooow ! awesome ! that's the real shit !! you're the man" I go apply what I learn , give it more than one try. Now if your sole answer is to come up with "proven protocol" I have to admit, it is a weak argument. And as a matter of fact, one is no longer looking for arguments here, but real life situation or "in field footage". Thanks anyway :)
Hi Jessie I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
David !! it’s crazy how your lectures popped up on my feed and I can’t stop watching your videos. But now I think I’ve fallen in love with you ❤❤❤ I bet you have that effect on a lot of women 😂❤
This was a great lecture. I have been in a casual relationship with an incredible man and have been "stuck" for the last year in the casual/friend zone. I am wanting more than just a friendship with this man. We are very close and talk a lot, but no matter what we talk about, never seems to move further than friends. We were definitely way past step 1 of you lecture, but I moved into steps 2 and 3. His reaction was incredible. He opened up and continued talking with more passion than I imagined. Not to mention, I learned more about him than I imagine. I enjoyed this more than other programs and videos, because this is NOT game playing like a lot of programs want you to try. I want a mature relationship. Not a false relationship with game playing. THANK You, David. I look forward to watching and learning more from you.
95% of men don't date fuck buddies. You don't do sex buddies if you want a relationship. because thats all a casual relationship is.... And a man wont respect you at all...
I find the best way to break the 'ice' is to get the other person to say Yes. Even to the point of purposefully forming the question so the answer can only be yes. Following answers to questions will be more freely agreed/agreeable/acceptable. This also does NOT end the conversation, rather it allows the ability to move forward along the same path in an affirmative direction. Psychologically speaking, saying yes convinces yourself more than the one being said yes to.
I really appreciate that hes not clinging to being pc, i absorb information better when it comes from an authentic place. Speed teaching is what it feels like, im hooked!
What an excellent learning experience. This video is like the neighborhood mechanic who explains to his customers in full detail his diagnostic steps, the P-V curve of the Otto cycle, the exact torque with which bolts are supposed to be tightened and how it was determined, etc., and every other mechanic in town hating him for divulging the oft-whispered information that helps them put food on their tables. The PUA industry probably hates this video; I'm glad I've stumbled upon it.
This stuff works like a charm. I laugh to myself when I use this on people lol. I honestly believe this helped me get my current job. I was using all techniques on the hiring manager haha.
Mona Taylor it went well, I’m at a new job now. I stopped using the techniques because it worked too well. My manager was becoming too attracted to me, I read all her subtleties and it was starting to get uncomfortable for me. I did use the techniques internally on other people, it was beneficial because I got a lot of praise for my work and respect out of mainly everyone minus a few negative haters. It works, thanks to David.
Your little girl is adorable, she obviously wants to be a part of a mans life who actually has a life! Lol which just happens to be her daddy right now😊Children are precious and they teach us so many things. Aside from that, this is the most helpful video on relationships I’ve seen, like Ever! Please keep up the good work! And thank you for your work is appreciated. I’ve been through three divorces, tons of self help books, oodles of therapy and counseling, all leaving me to continue to make the same mistakes again and again! It is certainly a different perspective for me to look at it as if I am the prize! Instead of me looking for the prize! Also being able to hit the eject button when it is not or when it becomes clear that this is not what I want is also different for me! I don’t know why we always think we have to settle?
Hi Christina I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
This is POWERFUL information! Thank you David for sharing this. I am having AMAZING results using these techniques. Everyone who is using these methods and this information needs to do so CAREFULLY. It is like walking around with a loaded gun. Keep the safety on and never point it at someone you don't intend to shoot. Most of my experiences using this have been unbelievably good but I also had one terribly bad experience when I created a bond in a business relationship that should not have been there. It's hard to un-do something that you have done. I thought it would be fun and beneficial but actually turned out the opposite. On the good side...One day recently I walked through the airport and identified the hottest, most unapproachable woman I could find ( on purpose and just as an experiment ). This was someone who I would never, never, never have approached in the past. I collected my thoughts and approached her. An hour later we had dinner plans for the next day. "Dinner" worked out really really well! Thank you David!
most ALL the stuff that he's teaching I've been studying almost all of my life from Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends and influence people".... "...ask a person questions that they want to hear, and you'll get them talking all night" one example among many.
This has been very interesting. I had an intensive 2 months course in NLP ages ago and running into your lectures was both refreshing and informative. I would love to go more into your other videos. Thank you very much for posting these.
I agree, I like his emphasis on being genuine and soft. I am like this by default and I think it helps connect with people alot. But now I have to be more intentional about it.
Funny how so many times when he gives the most important pieces of advice you hear so many in the audience chuckle. Bet they’re still struggling & wondering why! 😊❤️✝️
i tried this technique on singles hot line and got 4 girls who wanted to meet me within minutes lol. (although one girl had girl friend with her so that is technically 5) thank you sir!
ImplantedAgenda I didn’t know singles hot lines still existed. Unless you’re talking about the type of singles hot line where they are paid to flirt and take calls and are not actually single.
The microphone on his face isn't on. The audio is coming from the lapel mic on his jacket which is far from his face. I assume the face mic audio is what's supposed to be in the right channel and the lapel mic is there so you can hear the audience participation. That's why you can hear everything in the room better than you can hear him. LOL
I love seeing authentic first reactions to simple principles of NLP. I once had the pleasure of watching a homeless guy with no drug issues and a firm grasp of NLP fencing with the staff of a "recovery" based non profit that had a partnership with the county preying on the poor to pad their program reporting numbers. There were a couple PhD's in the room and he literally turned their arguments and motivations to pretzel logic then showed them how he did it. NLP is absolutely fascinating until you happen across someone trying to use it on you. Then it gets spicy as fuck.
Im so so glad I came upon your lecture...full of enthusiasm..... humour, extremely interesting info....but without a great speaker , most of it would have been lost.... You made it simple to understand, which is an essential part of teaching.... Thank you sooo much for your time and energy... Shame that it was hard to hear clearly what the people were asking or saying.... and I did find your daughter running around very, very distracting....I had to keep rewinding the video, to listen again....I think you are an EXCELLENT speaker...and loved how you used modulation with your voice...... Many, many people are very monotonous and I cant get to even the middle of a video.....In your case, it was the opposite Even though its kept me up till super late at night...it was like a book you just cant put down....Well done, David..
You're awesome! Love your videos; I do have the natural ability, instinct, to get someone talking about themselves. What are a few ways I might extricate myself without being rude, if you will.
I love how the lady @ around 36:00 asked how she could be more approachable. This shows how much women want to be approached (in a correct/respectful way of course) and why men should not be afraid of approaching. On the contrary, men should embrace their impulse to approach women and go for it. Even the man that is rejected, will be held to a higher standard than if he did not approach.
That's right, if you don't approach, the answer is automatically no
Very true
So so true!
As a woman, I approve of this comment.💯
Caring what women want will not get you anywhere
0:00 Introduction. 3 magic questions.
3:18 *Level 1: Location/occasion. Shit tests. Be a challenge.*
9:34 *Level 2: Career/passion. Give them their own words. Identity value.*
28:34 *4 states. Avoid yes or no questions.*
35:36 Woman asks how to be more approachable.
40:18 *"What's your opinion on women approaching men?"*
46:30 Level 3: Past pleasant childhood experiences.
50:30 *The problem with giving too much too soon as a woman. Women's thinking vs. men's thinking.*
59:20 *Use their words to describe your experience.*
1:06:40 Approach/approachability.
1:12:13 *Some rules outlive their usefulness.*
1:15:27 Focus on positive experiences.
1:16:26 *Women don't want to be the center of your life. Indirect invitations to interact.*
1:20:54 *Women's way of getting attention from men they like but their peers don't. Posture. Eye contact.*
1:25:40 *Key attraction figure. Indirect invitations to interact. Approaching.*
1:31:53 *Let her vent.*
1:36:51 Ad.
Thanks for the summary :) You are a saint
Not all heroes wear capes!
Yes thank you!
Hero
Amazing video. I'll use to have a great next date with my wife of 36 years. We met when she was 14 and I was 15. Our love gets more amazing every year:) And I love putting effort into making her happy
Patrick Germond that’s so heartwarming thanks for the comment
Charmed life
I wish one day to have something like what you have. What’s your secret?
@Jimmy Crickets ahaahhaahahahah or the women he bangs
Do you have a brother just like you? Lol
#1 - ask an open ended question related to the location or what brought them there
#2 - career/passion/what excites them (soften with "I'm curious" or a reason why you're asking)
- what inspired you to become ____
- repeat back sequence of words or movements they lean on
#3 - when you tell your "me too" experience, use the same word sequence they used.
Level 3 is to ask about past pleasant childhood experiences. This lets them associate their most powerful positive feelings with you because they have to go back into the experience to tell you about it.
Thank you, that saves 1hour for my life
Yeah, you can ask all thoses question. The trick here is for you to feel it right and smooth when talking about things with strangers. You can choose many topic, but this topic is figured out by Him
Udoka O
Thanks for the summary
"Every time you see someone with that type of body language, that kind of reticence to get involved with the group, you need to stand up and introduce yourself. Because you know what that feels like. And you need to save them"
Golden!
I just realized I’m watching his videos on psychology because I like his personality while presenting it! God he got me good
So funny because I just commented on how much he gets on my nerves. It’s crazy how humans perceive things
I’ve been unconsciously doing this at work (bartender). I didn’t realise this is the result. I was always just trying to make them feel good about themselves.
It works. When I worked as a bartender I was being trained by Alex Gilandas and it was such a great forum for getting good at this stuff.
I agree... I do leasing & naturally ask these questions... just got asked out again today 😅
boyfriend comes home from work.
me: hey, what brought you here today?
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Actually if my girlfriend would do that, we'd have an amazing time following up on it😊😊😊
Thanks for the feedback.
I've been doing all of this for years and getting nowhere with men. They just want FWB casual situationships.
@@cozettem8226 idk anything about you but mark Manson once said something along the lines of "if, every person you meet is a person you have issues with maybe you're the problem since you're the only thing that's common in all of them"
Anyways, good luck though ✌
@@KrishmanyuThakur so true.....who’s the common denominator
You're Like a God
@Kim Truc Lan lol that was one of the very first things I noticed in like the first 5mins, the bracelet and then the watch immediately after. He likes to feel balanced I guess🤷🏻♀️
I literally watched this and walking to the shop i had a gorgeous girly hair flick as she drew near, i grinned and gave a little eyebrow raise, got a beaming smile back. Id usually study the floor. Made me feel good, her too as she went from shy to beaming right back at me. Probably never see her again but was very good! Might just go for a wander round town tomorrow but will have to chill out on the grinning and eyebrow raises in-case people assume i have tourettes...:) thank-you!
Danimals channel did you do it!?
Lol four years later
Enjoy. Life is for living
That's a very good question. If you are referring to step three of the 3 magic questions protocol, In the context of dating and relationships and especially on a first date, ideally you would change the subject and remove that person as a potential dating or mating partner. Remember 3MQ is a dating and attraction protocol specifically designed to generate attraction while simultaneously evoking and eliciting information about the person so that the operator can make an informed choice as to the suitability of the subject as a potential partner.
I really can't stress that part enough. When we use 3 mq in a dating context we are NOT signing up to get into a less than optimal relationship. If you ask someone to talk about their most pleasant childhood experiences and the first thing they come up with to someone they are with for the first time all about sexual trauma, abuse or anything even remotely similar, my advice is to eject unless you really want to deal with the drama and baggage this person is bringing to the relationship.
A. Because the person isn't giving you the information you asked for (strike one)
B. They Are Giving you Information You Didn't Ask For (Strike Two)
C. They Will Bring all of that "baggage" into any relationship you create and you'll be the one who has to deal with it.(Strike Three)
Sounds Harsh, even to me as I write it, but remember dating and relating is about finding the people who make your life better. If the person doesn't meet that criteria, the both of you are better off moving on.
Hope that helps.
Your friend,
David
Your little showstealer is too adorable! Be proud!
David Snyder wow
Learned this the hard way....David, do you agree that men must figure out what her relationship was and is like with her father? In my judgement, I think that sets her vision of what men are to be...good or bad.
Thanks for your advice, David.
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Where is the NLP in this stuff?
I learned more that I can use from this lecture than my college communication class.
That's not a surprise, college is a business which makes it a disingenuous joke!
Some folks have asked me why I transcribe David's videos. I do it because I am slightly hard of hearing and by having to transcribe them, I get to see and hear (many times) What David is teaching. I am forced to study, and do my homework, as it were, and actually learn the subject well enough to go out and demonstrate it to my local NLP group. That's why I do it. So I can do it. If someone is really an interested student, I will share my crib notes. And truthfully I only get a handful of requests for each video's transcript.. But mostly it's for me. There is no software for this. It is all done by hand and takes 3 hours of my time for about ten minutes of video. So it takes me many days to do a single video. And yes I have now transcribed about 180 of Davids videos. Not all of them I will share.
Mr. G.Ray Glenn Sr can you share with me?
Hi, could I please ask you for a transcript?
Pretty please, Mr Ray Glenn
Please share
Can you share it?Thanks
@@mr-uk3td I need to know which video you want? please reply with the URL.
Hvala!
Wow Thank You Blaz!
So I decided to use this protocol on one of my college friends that I dont get to see very often. And I was amazed, she was the one that did most of the speaking during our entire interaction. Most of what I did was just return some of her words. There were like a moment or two in which the conversation went silent though. But what I did was ask another open ended question, like about her career(or in this case, what she was studying). For example, we were talking about an art class of hers for a while and then it went silent for like 5'seconds, which I proceeded with something along lines of "By the way, I wanted to ask, are you still in (insert random major)?". And thus it started another conversation for like 15 minutes, until I had to go to my calculus class.
He was so good at teaching this I didn’t notice he had a watch on each wrist until an hour in...or maybe a magic jewel, good job Dr.
when someone can make me actually write notes they are a genius in their field (i never write notes)
Indeed same
@@msdaus14 He means that he/she never take notes. If he/she does then there should be a special occasion (a really smart lecturer)
Or maybe you just want someone to fall in love
Me too
I love this guy’s personality. I learned quite a bit too. Thank you.
U look like u have a good personality lol are your looks like deceptive or nah?
There is this woman that I have been triing to talk to online, just used your say her words reply and she wrote back instantly, wow, this guy is good, Thanks David
I've been meaning to try this online also, but for some reason I feel so much more weird typing it than saying it. I don't know if that makes sense, lmao.
The Good Life is
My daughter almost lost her home after her husband died. She tried renting rooms out and still with the constant repairs and upkeep and the fact her house was $100,000 underwater she couldn't manage the expenses. The bank got fed up with her 60-day delinquency and they proceeded to foreclose. After the foreclosure process began and the reinstatement fees brought the balance owed and late fees from $6,800 to $14,300. my daughter then needed to tell her renters they were going to have to move. She was so worried about these two elderly women living with her that she made herself sick. When she finally lost all hope of saving her home she told her roommates. As it turns out one of these two women had the money to pay the reinstatement fees and offered to put a much needed new roof on the house. Amazing what can happen when you're able to communicate. Who would have ever guessed this little old lady renting a $500 a month room, would be loaded and generous?
I hope your daughter gave her a percentage of the home ownership, set up a repayment plan or discounted her rent until the money was repaid.
@@Cali_Girl1 exactly.... hope it's not elder abuse
GOD BLESS that kind lady, your daoughter and everybody that helped.
...... Here come the negative comments.
Barbara Galbreth G-d bless her
@Jimmy Crickets you're a born romantic I can tell.
this is the first vid of yours I saw and I found it to be immediatley compelling ... everytime I watch it I pick up more about how to pace and lead...the more I watch and pay attention the more it'll be a natural part of just how I communicate
I love that his daughter is up there with him and they’re both so at ease about it. This is whole thing is so good.
:-)
Fantastic..I was a very seasoned sales person and I read people very well. I have said so many of the things you say here, which clearly means I totally agree. Well done and well taught..So many people need this!
Hi Victoria I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
So there i was.....on lunch yest and listen to this ....I've heard stuff like this before but then have trouble practicing it. So i took notes on a paper towel. Later i went to my second job where a new coworker asked me to go have a drink and a bite after work. Great! My opportunity to put this into action. He had mentioned earlier that he had written a book and had to speak to his publisher. So while we were out i stated out our convo asking " tell me more about your book, what drove you to write it" .
I repeated his words as he spoke with such passion and drive. He never shut up all night and went from one passion he had to another. Broke out his phone. Showed me pic after pic of all his interests. It was nice cause i didn't have to carry the convo. At some points i stopped listening and my mind wandered but he kept going and i caught up later.
Thanks i learned alot. ♡
I’m curious to know how things are going with your new coworker?
I really wish that I wouldn’t ever forget about this material and could implement it 100% of the time!
I've been an ESL teacher for over 10 years, and I always wondered why some students always wanted to have classes with me instead of my colleagues. Now I know; I've always cared about people around me, and always asked these type of questions, just didn't know what I was actually doing. Now I get it! It's kind of funny.
Thanks a lot David.
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It’s probably because you’re hot Juan. 🤣
I struck gold... Your knowledge is incredible. Thank you for sharing it.
Love all of your lectures, Dave. I'm thankful they were recorded and uploaded. I find them to be both entertaining and instructive.
Marc Rice Hey Marc, Thanks for being a part of our growing community. Really Glad You Are Enjoying the Videos.
Talk To You Soon.
Your Friend,
David
The trainer grabbed my attention within ten minutes. His story resonates with what happened last night to me. I met my little sister's boyfriend. Sitting in the car, he ask me "so Rob, what do you study really?" Off I went. I talked for six minutes straight on my favourite courses. In our total converstion, I talked 80% of the time. Yet, I came to like him very well.
I guess that show the power of these questions.
You met her daddy
David, your daughter is amazing. As a teacher, I am watching your daughter actively learn. I am sure it is distracting, it must be. But you did it masterfully. She will be your legacy.
Luv your humor dear!it s true!the more drama the faster the change. I went through massive change after my husband died.x
My concern is that narcissistic people are so good at doing all that you mention to their victims, in order to invade their boundaries and then perpetrate them!
Yeah, so what? You're not Captain America.
Women are attracted to narcissistic men.
DEVINECLUB right but by that logic there’s no point in them pretending not to be.
Lusine Korekyan narcissists don’t listen and are always right. Catch that early and dodge the bullet.
@ you're wrong, they confuse narcissism for confidence...
The way you explain is great. I also think that the questions do elicit a specific strategy..and it does end up with the person being on the verge of falling in love. Like you said, the key is to be willing to let go --> accept or reject.
The other thing is this is a "sealed off" training. Sometimes people's red lights will turn on when you ask them loads of questions as you keep on asking them questions. Sometimes it doesn't work that way. Sometimes people will appreciate the opportunity to talk about themselves.
In this case you are sub-communicating "with me you can talk about yourself" which IS a great thing to do and A strategy to have in a relationship, but at the same time there are other great strategies to sub-communicate - such as...great conversation where you and the other party can "dance words" together...and some of the people would prefer that.
The focus and the manner in which you present this are excellent.
This is so true! Very effective and basic yet we never have ever learned. Thank you David!
I was really enjoying this class already, but your little daughter bouncing into your lecture space really sold it.😊😊😊 Adorable ❤️!
Game changer, thank You David!
for the audio on win 10 u can go to settings from start menu > ease of access > turn mono audio on. Thank me later.
This is absolutely brilliant this lecture is so well suited to my type of learning it has made me realise so much thank you!!!
Hi David
I watched interest the video ,what struck me was i had what i can only describe as a meeting with a lady ....in the most unusual environment where we spent over half an hour where i simply talked with her she was very open and warm with me and we both felt we had made a special connection. It was at a Gentlemans club. Suffice to say i stated very early in our conversation that wasn't an offer i would be interested in and as it was said and heard was such an unimportant part of our chat. So thank you so much for posting this invaluable piece of hindsight/info/help in the areas you touched on my feeling now just confirmed what i felt then...the following day and since. I personally help others in my close group of friends where they have issues dealing with difficult or heartbreaking circumstances and so enjoyed listening and learning more aspects of life....from your experienced perspective. Having watched 3 of your videos so far the more i watch the more im considering becoming an empowerment trainer. So thanks for that too and keep up the excellent work that you do. Thanks Peter
@Alessia,
Hey Alessia, Thanks for your warm and wonderful feedback. I'm grateful for people like yourself who get real value out of our stuff. Check back with us again.
Your Friend,
David
You are really good at talking to people which is probably why you give NLP lectures. I really enjoy your videos.
David,
You are delightfully tuned in! Your comments about "it's a very confusing time" and back to basics is really helpful.
1. Match their values.
2. Have shared emotional experiences.
He is so good. He has omitted something though. His movements, the way he carries himself, the tilt of his head, and his eyebrows when he goes to talk to the women. Yes even his eyebrows shows he understands that this is attractive to women.
So use the other stuff great but the body language is the most powerful. I Wish we could have a female version of him to watch what men love about us.
Geek
for the first time in a long , I am just staring at the screen in silence afraid of missing information ...... this is so extremely interesting
@1:20:46 "I'll never be able to use this video for anything, I'll have to put it on youtube"
--- get's almost a million views.
Yeah, that is hilarious.
You’re damn cute
That's called artificial scarcity
If you believe you'll never be able to use this video for anything your right, because that's what you commanded your brain to do, and if you decide oh this is easy peasy and I can use this not only to meet girls to date I can also use this to gain business contacts or to gain prospects to sell whatever product or service you have then you will apply these 3 simple questions. Instead of asking about the weather you'll ask these 3 Magic questions.
This had me freakin rolling.
Excellent! Thank you for sharing this video with youtubers! I got a lot of value and appreciate your style! :)
Hi Spanish I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
This is amazing! I love the technique! I cant wait to try it.
Thank you so much for posting this.
You Are very welcome ;-) Let me know how you do or if you have any questions.
@@DavidSnyderNLP ❤
Man I really like All you do. Thank you
I appreciate that!
This makes a lot of sense, because I do this with naturally certain people I like. Problem is I am guarded and it takes a miracle for me to like someone new. It never occurred to me that I could use this on co-workers, which I generally can't stand. I do understand now why most people seem to love me or hate me lol.
Snyder is the best:) the video course "identity by design" is just mind blowing. I use his techniques in many videos. Especially "voice of authority" is simply amazing.
Become the Phoenix
Thanks for the recommendation!
I like the content and also the way audience was asking questions makes it more easy to understand.. the question from audience made trainer to speak more and explain further about the topic .. which was soo good.. Trainer is good 👌🏻☀️
His daughter is so precious. She is following his every step. David walks 6 inches to the right and she follows...I love it.
As a very mild autistic, this information is a gold mine. Thanks Dave, you fucking wizard
hahah he is so correct! I broke up with my ex and he didnt understand why, so i told him why and he argued instead of listening and having compassion! So glad to be free of that abusive relationship, and glad to see that I was correct! This guy is great!
+Racquel Rose so true. tell me more. what are you passionate about? joking.
+Racquel Rose i had a coworker who i was really good friends with. i met her husband that she complained about. i became good friends with him too but he was a horrible listener and blabbed on forever. they divorced 2 years later. he moved so i only talk to him on the phone sometimes and it can be torture lol. but still like the guy.
the coworker quit and i didn't keep in contact with her. we were just work friends as we had that in common and that's about it. there i go blabbing but mentioned it since its the same situation you had. relationships need to be even.
Jon Focker hahaha
Very informative. Edna was putting across a fair point though David and you did exactly what you said ...You talked too much over her. Some guys DONT talk!!! they ARE too shy and they talk too little. The core problem is the same..They dont show an interest in their date, but their needs are different.. This technique doesnt work on everyone. To many it would be very obvious that we were being charmed. That doesnt matter though, as you say. Maybe we are enjoying being charmed!!!
Well Wooda, if he didn't want to engage, he'd be a hard NEXT for me
Great information. I loved your info about unconscious body language and shift in perspective. It's so nice of you to post this video publicly.
Hi Susan I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
David this is an awesome training....I went out to a strip club and tried it on a dancer 10/17/2014 and within 15 minutes her head was on my shoulder crying happy tears (Great Emotional State)....she left with me 2 hrs before her shift ended...I have been involved with traditional pick up for several years now....You Are My New Hero! Thank You!
how though? i try these 3 questions and it just eventually leads to a dead end in the convo. she talked about her goals,dreams,life ect then its kinda blah... how did you go about doing it?
Great, so you use it to con women.
You guys always with an agenda. Get a life.
dcoleman4444 omg. These comments. I am dead.
That’s a joke, right.?Please tell me you’re joking. Otherwise I hate to tell you, you were played. Not her. And she didn’t even need the questions
This guy knows whats up. I am defiantly going to enjoy implementing these perspectives in many aspects of life. Thank you
Do not understand how anyone could have given this lecture a "thumbs-down". So great!
Hi JayJay Jay, For the record you Rock!
Thanks for your great feedback.
Stay tuned!
Your Friend.
David
somebody whoactually tried the method in field and realise its short comes ...?
3 mq is a proven protocol. Don't assume that because you couldn't make it work that others couldn't either.
I just provided you with a comprhensive feedback about how my interaction unfolded, and that's all yu have to say ?
Unlike most youtubers, I dont watch and be like "waooow ! awesome ! that's the real shit !! you're the man" I go apply what I learn , give it more than one try.
Now if your sole answer is to come up with "proven protocol" I have to admit, it is a weak argument. And as a matter of fact, one is no longer looking for arguments here, but real life situation or "in field footage".
Thanks anyway :)
Where is your feed back? Don't see it anywhere.
Hello David i am doing a Diploma in coaching and NLP at the moment and i just thought id say. you are doing a great job. so much amazing information!!
So refreshing to see a man speaking honestly with meekness and passion.
Stfu
Loved your presentation! Also your daughter is a cute little girl!!
Ikr
your parents must be so proud! thank you for teaching what you do . you also have changed my life.
Hi Jessie I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹
Loved it! I’ve subscribed to your videos David. Thank you
my left ear loved this lecture
Wow. Some of the things I have been employing in my own life without knowing. Hes so right!
madamekat (Kat Rooney Cassidy) me too! It’s fascinating
David !! it’s crazy how your lectures popped up on my feed and I can’t stop watching your videos. But now I think I’ve fallen in love with you ❤❤❤ I bet you have that effect on a lot of women 😂❤
Only from you lol, I'm flattered, thank you very much!
Very interesting. Maybe have a mic hooked for the guests questions. Or repeat their questions out loud?
Yes, that would be nice
This was a great lecture. I have been in a casual relationship with an incredible man and have been "stuck" for the last year in the casual/friend zone. I am wanting more than just a friendship with this man. We are very close and talk a lot, but no matter what we talk about, never seems to move further than friends. We were definitely way past step 1 of you lecture, but I moved into steps 2 and 3. His reaction was incredible. He opened up and continued talking with more passion than I imagined. Not to mention, I learned more about him than I imagine. I enjoyed this more than other programs and videos, because this is NOT game playing like a lot of programs want you to try. I want a mature relationship. Not a false relationship with game playing. THANK You, David. I look forward to watching and learning more from you.
95% of men don't date fuck buddies. You don't do sex buddies if you want a relationship. because thats all a casual relationship is.... And a man wont respect you at all...
sheri Steele husband
Thanks for posting this video Dave it really open my eyes.
I find the best way to break the 'ice' is to get the other person to say Yes.
Even to the point of purposefully forming the question so the answer can only be yes.
Following answers to questions will be more freely agreed/agreeable/acceptable.
This also does NOT end the conversation, rather it allows the ability to move forward along the same path in an affirmative direction. Psychologically speaking, saying yes convinces yourself more than the one being said yes to.
i've just watched the first 20 minutes of this video and fell already in love with this guy.Great Lesson man,keep it up
I really appreciate that hes not clinging to being pc, i absorb information better when it comes from an authentic place. Speed teaching is what it feels like, im hooked!
What an excellent learning experience. This video is like the neighborhood mechanic who explains to his customers in full detail his diagnostic steps, the P-V curve of the Otto cycle, the exact torque with which bolts are supposed to be tightened and how it was determined, etc., and every other mechanic in town hating him for divulging the oft-whispered information that helps them put food on their tables. The PUA industry probably hates this video; I'm glad I've stumbled upon it.
This stuff works like a charm. I laugh to myself when I use this on people lol. I honestly believe this helped me get my current job. I was using all techniques on the hiring manager haha.
How's that job today?
you sound Iike a user.
Mona Taylor it went well, I’m at a new job now. I stopped using the techniques because it worked too well. My manager was becoming too attracted to me, I read all her subtleties and it was starting to get uncomfortable for me. I did use the techniques internally on other people, it was beneficial because I got a lot of praise for my work and respect out of mainly everyone minus a few negative haters. It works, thanks to David.
mmedeuxchevaux it’s not good to walk aimlessly in life, be strategic. These techniques work
@@jjkqazolp How did you use it towards your manager at the time
Your little girl is adorable, she obviously wants to be a part of a mans life who actually has a life! Lol which just happens to be her daddy right now😊Children are precious and they teach us so many things. Aside from that, this is the most helpful video on relationships I’ve seen, like Ever! Please keep up the good work! And thank you for your work is appreciated. I’ve been through three divorces, tons of self help books, oodles of therapy and counseling, all leaving me to continue to make the same mistakes again and again! It is certainly a different perspective for me to look at it as if I am the prize! Instead of me looking for the prize! Also being able to hit the eject button when it is not or when it becomes clear that this is not what I want is also different for me! I don’t know why we always think we have to settle?
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This is POWERFUL information! Thank you David for sharing this. I am having AMAZING results using these techniques.
Everyone who is using these methods and this information needs to do so CAREFULLY. It is like walking around with a loaded gun. Keep the safety on and never point it at someone you don't intend to shoot. Most of my experiences using this have been unbelievably good but I also had one terribly bad experience when I created a bond in a business relationship that should not have been there. It's hard to un-do something that you have done. I thought it would be fun and beneficial but actually turned out the opposite.
On the good side...One day recently I walked through the airport and identified the hottest, most unapproachable woman I could find ( on purpose and just as an experiment ). This was someone who I would never, never, never have approached in the past. I collected my thoughts and approached her. An hour later we had dinner plans for the next day. "Dinner" worked out really really well!
Thank you David!
Legend says they’re still together today...
most ALL the stuff that he's teaching I've been studying almost all of my life from Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends and influence people".... "...ask a person questions that they want to hear, and you'll get them talking all night" one example among many.
Yep..
Dale Carnegie, the OG of this game..
This has been very interesting. I had an intensive 2 months course in NLP ages ago and running into your lectures was both refreshing and informative. I would love to go more into your other videos. Thank you very much for posting these.
Very interesting guy, I can consciously see the intelligence bouncing from his personality. Very good people person and influencer 🙏🏻
I agree, I like his emphasis on being genuine and soft. I am like this by default and I think it helps connect with people alot. But now I have to be more intentional about it.
Not too often. I grew up not too far from Philly! Stay Tuned for more stuff!
Oh Philly, cool! So let me ask you a question just so I understand, what did you love most about your childhood in Philly? ;-) ;-)
I’d say it had to be women hitting on married men;-)
thank you so much for teaching me the way. you opened up my mind to another level.!
This is so fascinating. Thank you.
Funny how so many times when he gives the most important pieces of advice you hear so many in the audience chuckle. Bet they’re still struggling & wondering why! 😊❤️✝️
i tried this technique on singles hot line and got 4 girls who wanted to meet me within minutes lol. (although one girl had girl friend with her so that is technically 5) thank you sir!
lollllll
Howard Kim. You are one that sounds like a loser. smh
ImplantedAgenda I didn’t know singles hot lines still existed. Unless you’re talking about the type of singles hot line where they are paid to flirt and take calls and are not actually single.
i am starting to have a good amount of respect for this guy
“i’ll never be able to use this video for anything, i’ll have to just put it on youtube” thank fucking god
Hello to whom it may concern I can recommend you to Romeo e that helped me get my ex back and he can also help you as he did mine too
Whtspp him
+(2,3,4),8,1,5,6,8,9,6,4,3 ,6
I am feeling so lucky to have been able to watch your video. It's awesome!!! Just felt that I was in the seminar too.
Great video, very balanced I learned a lot. Thanks David.
It is genius the way you decided to start waking people up. Note taken.
this lecture was awesome and filled with a ton of techniques, however, the audio sucks!!!!!!! still thumbs up
RAW FOOD PHILOSOPHY
yeah why is the audio on only one side?
i am not sure
My left ear enjoyed this.
The microphone on his face isn't on. The audio is coming from the lapel mic on his jacket which is far from his face. I assume the face mic audio is what's supposed to be in the right channel and the lapel mic is there so you can hear the audience participation. That's why you can hear everything in the room better than you can hear him. LOL
STFU. Go for a run fatty
My left ear learned a lot today
yay
Amazing. Remarkable. I´ll take your courses as soon as possible.
Holy crap. Obviously everyone knows the meaning is great here. But, his presentation confidence and comfort is another world.
I’ve been subconsciously doing this for years. No wonder I have so many guys chasing me. 😂
So you i guess u a marathon runner
I want you but chasing is a crime in a way ,lol dont you think so???😄😄😅
Excellent watch
I love seeing authentic first reactions to simple principles of NLP. I once had the pleasure of watching a homeless guy with no drug issues and a firm grasp of NLP fencing with the staff of a "recovery" based non profit that had a partnership with the county preying on the poor to pad their program reporting numbers. There were a couple PhD's in the room and he literally turned their arguments and motivations to pretzel logic then showed them how he did it. NLP is absolutely fascinating until you happen across someone trying to use it on you. Then it gets spicy as fuck.
CrucifyRobinHood I REALLY wish I could have seen this first hand.
Im so so glad I came upon your lecture...full of enthusiasm..... humour, extremely interesting info....but without a great speaker , most of it would have been lost.... You made it simple to understand, which is an essential part of teaching.... Thank you sooo much for your time and energy... Shame that it was hard to hear clearly what the people were asking or saying.... and I did find your daughter running around very, very distracting....I had to keep rewinding the video, to listen again....I think you are an EXCELLENT speaker...and loved how you used modulation with your voice...... Many, many people are very monotonous and I cant get to even the middle of a video.....In your case, it was the opposite Even though its kept me up till super late at night...it was like a book you just cant put down....Well done, David..
You're awesome!
Love your videos; I do have the natural ability, instinct, to get someone talking about themselves. What are a few ways I might extricate myself without being rude, if you will.
Thank you! This helped me alot with my confidence. Got alot of girls at work approaching me now ❤️
Enjoy!