Age Gap Love: My Family Disapprove! | A True Story

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  • Опубліковано 26 лис 2023
  • This documentary ventures into the world of age-gap dating, where we meet older women with a taste for the much younger man. Produced for Channel 5 by Nine Lives Media.
    #atruestory #agegaplove
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  • @PeaceSM1954
    @PeaceSM1954 6 місяців тому +499

    Bob in the shower…..who the hell approved of that scene? 😬

  • @Sarah24871
    @Sarah24871 6 місяців тому +323

    Never ask someone to marry you in front of other people. Ever.

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 6 місяців тому +30

      Is that because of the pressure to say yes in front of others? (even if they don't want to)

    • @PeaceSM1954
      @PeaceSM1954 6 місяців тому +24

      I agree it’s just not right

    • @laidedges
      @laidedges 6 місяців тому

      @@museonfilm8919exactly

    • @NyanyiC
      @NyanyiC 6 місяців тому +23

      It's just a lot of pressure. It's better to have an engagement party afterwards

    • @daisychain3007
      @daisychain3007 6 місяців тому +6

      I have heard of that, Sarah. Not everything has to be out in the open.

  • @chadshill
    @chadshill 2 місяці тому +41

    Wow! It seems so long ago since we made the programme! 😍
    We're both very happy to tell you all that after more than 13 years we are still together, blissfully happy in our own home with a Jack Russell to keep us on our toes, and loving the acceptance we now have from our families on both sides 🤗
    Thanks to everyone who made those nice comments, and, as always, to those whose comments centered on my weight and other negatives, we'll just say. L.A.F.W.!! 😉🤗😍
    Richard and Immy 💖

    • @IngenerateIngenue
      @IngenerateIngenue Місяць тому +6

      So happy both families have acknowledged & accepted your relationship. ❤

    • @TeriHargraveartist
      @TeriHargraveartist Місяць тому +3

      Jack Russell, great choice!

    • @joypotbg
      @joypotbg Місяць тому +3

      ❤ love a happy ending!

    • @DTM93
      @DTM93 Місяць тому +3

      Congratulations!

    • @maroulio2067
      @maroulio2067 Місяць тому

      You are my favourite couple on this video- how wonderful that you are happy and well. Wishing you many more great years together!

  • @dl4403
    @dl4403 4 місяці тому +47

    James and Yet Wah look the same age, despite the 20 year age gap. It’s the youthful Asian genes! 🧬

    • @DTM93
      @DTM93 Місяць тому +2

      It's true they have amazing age genes for some reason must be all the seaweed and seafood.

  • @morganlawrie1158
    @morganlawrie1158 5 місяців тому +155

    It's not the age gap that bothers me. It's when it turns into parenting rather than a partnership that creeps me out. The way Pat is ordering him about and speaking for him gives me a weird vibe. Especially when she mentioned he'd never had experience. It sounded like she was kind of mocking him and I know she's had a few hubby's but to not even remember their names?! That's just hurrendous
    James just reminds me of a guy that never grew out of his "15 year old gamer" phase and he just needs someone to aid that.

    • @user-zs5ho2lw2t
      @user-zs5ho2lw2t 5 місяців тому +11

      This is so sad for james parents i'm sure. You protect your children from preditors their whole life, to then have one come in after the time that you can't protect them. This women is a disgusting narcissistic sociopath. She acts like she is some kind of saint, Sick!!!!

    • @Mistwalker67
      @Mistwalker67 5 місяців тому +5

      You put my thoughts into words, she has the eternal son and he has a replacement mum, I've had big age gaps but I was always the mature one.

    • @Goldrefinedthrufire
      @Goldrefinedthrufire 5 місяців тому

      I think Pat preys on the low IQ of a man.

    • @allyw1364
      @allyw1364 5 місяців тому +13

      And she has been Married 8 times before?? No thats absolute craziness

    • @elap1529
      @elap1529 4 місяці тому +17

      I didn't want to say it. Also I might be wrong about James being maybe a little mentally disabled. And that shes taking advantage of that.. Kind of disturbing

  • @elisabethelias681
    @elisabethelias681 6 місяців тому +111

    I don't like Pat! She seems manipulative. I mean, 8! husbands before her current one?

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 6 місяців тому +12

      I wonder if they all ate the mushrooms?

    • @iceladi01
      @iceladi01 6 місяців тому +4

      Clever (from an Aussie)

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 6 місяців тому +21

      Not being funny but...what happened to the other 8 husbands, was infidelity involved? Did they all die unexpectedly? I think I would want to know if I was going to marry someone who had been married so many times. And poor Mark, he does seem like he may have some learning issues, bless him. Feel like he's been taken advantage of in a way.

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen 5 місяців тому

      But love is love so beautiful 🌹
      ​@@katewolfspirit6722

    • @Will.Flavell
      @Will.Flavell 2 місяці тому

      @@iceladi01Your a Collingwood fan

  • @ahmritroets2596
    @ahmritroets2596 2 місяці тому +15

    The Elmo sounding "I love yew!" Would be a deal breaker.

  • @bp7707
    @bp7707 4 місяці тому +25

    Did anyone else catch that Liz is 23 and said twice that they've been together 6 years...but she was 19 when they met. Something doesn't add up.

    • @francessharkey4467
      @francessharkey4467 2 місяці тому +4

      I did finger counting and everything when she gave the numbers!

    • @0megaVon
      @0megaVon 14 днів тому

      I totally caught that too! I thought it was pretty gross, not to mention entirely illegal, that they got together when she was only 17 & he was almost 44 y.o. Then she thought she would say she was 19 when they first met each other. Like the general public can't add & subtract or something. No wonder her family will not associate with them & they prefer to hide away from everyone they know.

  • @racheljackson6973
    @racheljackson6973 6 місяців тому +284

    Pat is taking advantage of Mark, he is disabled, it needs to be reported, she knows damn well what she’s doing… disgusting 😢

    • @its_Emily384
      @its_Emily384 6 місяців тому +73

      Totally agree. She’s probably getting some form of carers benefit money too. This isn’t love.

    • @user-ox1jw7ur6g
      @user-ox1jw7ur6g 6 місяців тому +7

      Silly people with silly opinions?.

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 6 місяців тому +64

      Controlling and narcissist people isolate you from friends and family to maintain control. He "does as he's told " says a LOT

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 6 місяців тому +72

      Mark's family probably has a problem with PAT as a person, not her age.

    • @malachinumba1
      @malachinumba1 6 місяців тому +37

      I was hoping he's just a bit slow & has the disadvantage of a tongue too big for his mouth 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @SnowWhite717_
    @SnowWhite717_ 6 місяців тому +169

    My partner is 19 years younger than I am. I met him when he was 29 and I was 48. We’ve been together now 6 years. I’m 54 and he’s 35. I was very nervous meeting his parents because they’re just 12 years older than I am but we get along really well together and they don’t mind. They said I’m the first woman he’s dated that has her own money, doesn’t require his attention 24/7, doesn’t get jealous and we have no drama. I get him to try new things and he keeps me young. But I must say, I’m Asian and look 38 so people can’t tell we have an age gap. We run 6 miles a day and spend 2 hours at the gym 6 days a week. We go hiking, climbing, camping, hunting, skiing, golfing, dancing… we have a full and happy life. I used to worry about what people thought. Now I I don’t care. ❤

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 6 місяців тому

      @naomid Do you have children and has that been a topic of conversation?

    • @SnowWhite717_
      @SnowWhite717_ 6 місяців тому +6

      @@Myraisins1 I have 2 kids, he had one. He got a vasectomy, we don’t want anymore children. I wouldn’t have another baby even if I could. Not for all the money on earth 🤣

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 6 місяців тому

      @@SnowWhite717_ Okay. You're an inspiration!

    • @user-rd4xj2ei1l
      @user-rd4xj2ei1l 6 місяців тому

      I'm looking for a young woman.. Asian would be great. Do you know any available ???

    • @Railroadchick
      @Railroadchick 6 місяців тому +2

      The poor cattle . Being shoved in a truck , poked with an electric cattle prodder, only to have their throats slit , while their relatives stand there watching

  • @JaguarRacingTeamX
    @JaguarRacingTeamX 6 місяців тому +81

    Pat is a predator.

    • @elisabethelias681
      @elisabethelias681 6 місяців тому +19

      Yes! And 8 men were smart enough to find out how manipulative she is. But poor Mark....

    • @JaguarRacingTeamX
      @JaguarRacingTeamX 6 місяців тому +1

      I get the feeling she left them given the fact she can't remember their names. She pathological.@@elisabethelias681

  • @marilynalexander5446
    @marilynalexander5446 6 місяців тому +53

    Pat has serious problems, i can understand why marks parents were against this, she has been married 9 times and he is slow. Glad he is not my son otherwise pats backside would have been bouncing down my front steps.

    • @rozdoyle8872
      @rozdoyle8872 6 місяців тому

      I wouldn't even give her time to bounce, her sneaky ass would be on the footpath with the tracks of my size 8 on it .

    • @Ife17
      @Ife17 5 місяців тому +3

      My thoughts EXACTLY!!!

    • @nonsensetalk8953
      @nonsensetalk8953 3 місяці тому

      Big talk but you wouldn't get away with your aggressive assault on someone."Slow"or not,Mark is an adult,and can do what he likes.So keep your violence to yourself.

  • @camellia8625
    @camellia8625 6 місяців тому +28

    I do not agree with public proposals as it puts the woman on the spot.

  • @latoshagomes9165
    @latoshagomes9165 6 місяців тому +83

    Now Bob we didn't need that image of you in the shower

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 6 місяців тому +17

      Tattoo of his lady on the head? That shows real class (or should I say NO class!)

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 6 місяців тому

      @@museonfilm8919 He shows (no) class but lots of ass! ;-))

    • @annabiotic1078
      @annabiotic1078 6 місяців тому +6

      😂😂😂 and a closeup of his bootie! Oh boy. Lol.

    • @chrisk7091
      @chrisk7091 6 місяців тому +1

      ⁠@@museonfilm8919so ppl w tattoos have no class ?😂😂😂

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 6 місяців тому +3

      IDK why they wanted him naked, but I didn't.

  • @pinkdiamonds9137
    @pinkdiamonds9137 5 місяців тому +36

    “I love Bob’s blue eyes-“ those are cataracts, dear

    • @rachaelphiri2299
      @rachaelphiri2299 Місяць тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @0megaVon
      @0megaVon 14 днів тому +1

      OMG 🤭 LMFAO 😆😂🤣💀

  • @museonfilm8919
    @museonfilm8919 6 місяців тому +50

    I think a few of these people seem to have learning difficulties - or at least something seems amiss.

    • @marigoldbeam5475
      @marigoldbeam5475 6 місяців тому +8

      Agreed. There is some sort of mental and/or social deficiency in most of these couples.

    • @mariabrett6712
      @mariabrett6712 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@marigoldbeam5475I thought the same thing it's sad mark and pat seem she's the boss

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 6 місяців тому +38

    Omg hahaha she can’t even remember all her husbands names 😂

    • @Theresa-lt3ki
      @Theresa-lt3ki 6 місяців тому

      Exactly. she needs a slap.😮

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 6 місяців тому

      Because she’s lying she’s a nutter .shes probably been married twice

  • @user-gp6yo7fs5c
    @user-gp6yo7fs5c 6 місяців тому +104

    This Pat character, taking advantage of a mentally challenged person and cutting him off his family, she is a criminal.

    • @lanabmc3519
      @lanabmc3519 5 місяців тому +11

      She’s no quite all their herself either.

  • @Ife17
    @Ife17 5 місяців тому +13

    That trucker couple were very suspect … their relationship definitely started when she was underage 🤮🤮🤮

  • @chevylynsue5531
    @chevylynsue5531 5 місяців тому +53

    Being married for the ninth time is wild!

    • @williamvanholder3368
      @williamvanholder3368 2 місяці тому

      you can understand you marry 1 time, when you marry 2 times you are not so smart, but 3 times or more you must have very low IQ

  • @spencerveyron
    @spencerveyron 4 місяці тому +18

    Pat really loves a wedding! Poor vulnerable Mark.

  • @PeaceSM1954
    @PeaceSM1954 6 місяців тому +49

    Pat the rat is definitely a control freak, been married 8 times before….red flags galore there! Mark is her lil whipping boy, I can see why his parents didn’t attend the wedding

    • @natashadickson4819
      @natashadickson4819 6 місяців тому

      He's content and seems to need her.

    • @rubytuesday5412
      @rubytuesday5412 6 місяців тому +2

      ~ This one will work out, for obvious reasons......

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 6 місяців тому

      She’s a nutter and lying being married 8 times before .

    • @mariabrett6712
      @mariabrett6712 2 місяці тому

      Please don't call her a rat 🐀 that's insulting rats the four legged kind😅

  • @nnh5050
    @nnh5050 5 місяців тому +21

    bob in the shower like that .... i'm officially dead forever💀☠💀

  • @emmsue1053
    @emmsue1053 6 місяців тому +77

    Hubby & I have almost 18 years between us. Everyone said it will never last. Here we are thirty years later & still say we love each other at least four times a day. Age is just a number.

    • @luns486
      @luns486 6 місяців тому

      How did you guys meet?

    • @Mouschimooo
      @Mouschimooo 5 місяців тому

      he prob cheated on you btw

    • @cristinapatellani5332
      @cristinapatellani5332 5 місяців тому

      Awww that’s fantastic 🙌🏽😍
      Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈🍾☺️

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 5 місяців тому +3

      I don't think age is just a number, your age gap has worked for you, but if everyone thought it was acceptable for a 50 year old man, for instance, to have sex with a 13 year old then that's completely unacceptable, age matters.

    • @RearFacingToddlers
      @RearFacingToddlers 5 місяців тому +5

      @charlottebruce979 That's completely different. This is about consensual relationships between adults of different ages, not having sex with a child!

  • @nicole-louisastevens7885
    @nicole-louisastevens7885 6 місяців тому +28

    9 times getting married!! There should be a stop somewhere lol 😅

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 6 місяців тому

      She’s lying she’s a nutter and predator

  • @Ab-bk7bq
    @Ab-bk7bq 5 місяців тому +52

    Mark, blink twice if your in danger 💀

    • @0megaVon
      @0megaVon 14 днів тому

      OMG LMFAO 😂 Seriously though! Poor guy doesn't know any better 😕

  • @debbiemycroft8221
    @debbiemycroft8221 6 місяців тому +33

    When James makes that stupid voice noise when saying "i love you" is enough to want me to knock him into nexr week. Good god he needs a baby sitter not a girlfriend 🙄 .
    As for Pat she is talking to him as if she is he is her son. Personally i dont think his family care about the age difference it would be more about how she is as a person and i think she comes across as a controlling user. Just my opinion but my gut tells me im right.😢

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 5 місяців тому +6

      Pat should spend a week in a cell with James. I think that would be wonderful for them both...

    • @Felicity2121
      @Felicity2121 3 місяці тому

      She will be claiming carers benefits for him.

    • @chrislabedzski9076
      @chrislabedzski9076 2 місяці тому

      Holy crap your comment is brutal however you are correct though and tbh I don't think pat and James relationship will last though, I give them about 2 months tops

  • @aprilbatzle7956
    @aprilbatzle7956 6 місяців тому +67

    How have they been together 6 years and she is 23 but they got together when she was 19 ? The math doesn't add up

    • @S_H9260
      @S_H9260 6 місяців тому +13

      That's a Great question. I wondered about that math too.

    • @shellyhall7393
      @shellyhall7393 6 місяців тому +14

      I thought the same thing. Together 6 years and she's 23 😒😒😒

    • @esthermurugi4882
      @esthermurugi4882 6 місяців тому +22

      For fear of saying she is/was underage 😂

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 6 місяців тому +4

      19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years maybe she is nearly 24

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 6 місяців тому +1

      19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years. Maybe she is nearly 24

  • @latoshagomes9165
    @latoshagomes9165 6 місяців тому +53

    Pat needs to be locked up.....she is taking advantage of this poor boy

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 5 місяців тому +4

      And her punishment, should be sharing a cell with James, The Master of SillyBilly Cute Noises

  • @gandalf751
    @gandalf751 6 місяців тому +61

    Is it just me, or is there something odd with Pat and Mark? Anyway, I think if you really love someone and you are adults, go for it! True love is beautiful!

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 5 місяців тому +37

      I got the impression that Mark is mentally challenged.

    • @tahneeyuh3382
      @tahneeyuh3382 5 місяців тому +17

      I mean if he’s not able to make an informed decision- it’s wrong. She’s been married EIGHT times and could not remember their names. Not quickly forgotten- she literally couldn’t remember lol. I think she’s odd

    • @1mustangsally
      @1mustangsally 4 місяці тому +1

      Oh, it's definitely not just you

  • @dlcalbaugh
    @dlcalbaugh 6 місяців тому +59

    There is a 12-year age gap between my husband and me. I am 59 and he is almost 47. We love each other and that's all that matters to us. We have been married for 25 years and together for 26.

    • @becksgroom49
      @becksgroom49 6 місяців тому +4

      I'm 57 and my lovely one is 44. It works x

    • @williamvanholder3368
      @williamvanholder3368 2 місяці тому

      @@becksgroom49 15 years is still possible, but not 30 or 40 years that is even disgusting !! what is possible devide age of oldest by 2 and add 7 years that is the minimum age. So when you are 50 she may be 32y. I am 15 years older than my partner too.

    • @brandyw4285
      @brandyw4285 Місяць тому +1

      I'm 13yrs. and 1 day younger than my husband and we've been together for 23 yrs now!❤

  • @yukiefromoz2573
    @yukiefromoz2573 6 місяців тому +187

    Mark seems a bit slow, in which case he probably doesn't even have the mental capacity to question why his missus has been married so many times. She might even be taking advantage of that.

    • @tessrobin4548
      @tessrobin4548 6 місяців тому +15

      He may talk slowly but that doesn't mean he's slow mentally. They're in a good place it seems.

    • @cravenmoorehead8
      @cravenmoorehead8 6 місяців тому +1

      It's f*cking disgusting. 32 year age gap 🙄🤢

    • @Lunchladydoyle
      @Lunchladydoyle 6 місяців тому +6

      ⁠@@tessrobin4548who isn’t at the beginning of the relationship ?? Studies by law firms show marriages with a 20 year age gap have a divorce rate of 95 %
      When the gap is 30 years or more the chance is 167 %

    • @andreabobbette825
      @andreabobbette825 6 місяців тому +35

      ​@@Lunchladydoyle167%😅😅😅 what kind of percentage is that

    • @treacletarrt8591
      @treacletarrt8591 6 місяців тому +12

      ​@@andreabobbette825mark wrote that comment

  • @shazj2210
    @shazj2210 6 місяців тому +19

    A promise of commitment off pat is comfort to a fool

  • @karis6978
    @karis6978 5 місяців тому +11

    My Fella & I are 22 Years apart. He is 59 & I am 37.... we have been together 7 years next Saturday

  • @SueP-D
    @SueP-D 5 місяців тому +13

    Okay but the gay couple is too sweet for words 🥹

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you 🤗 that's so nice of you to say... 🤗💖

    • @SueP-D
      @SueP-D Місяць тому +2

      ⁠​⁠@@chadshillAwww is that y’all? You guys are too lovely. 🥰. I hope your days are filled with love and laughter and from the bottom of my heart I genuinely wish you nothing but joy 🥰 🌈

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill Місяць тому +2

      Yep, that's us! Almost 14 years together now and stronger than ever! 👍🏼🤗😍

  • @renb6133
    @renb6133 6 місяців тому +40

    Regardless of age, the ones that give me most hope are the couples that really like each other & who appreciate what their partner has brought to their lives. For eg, James put enormous effort into his proposal because Yet Wha means so much to him. He talks in terms of how much she’s bettered him as a man & you can see he truly admires & appreciates her. Age isn’t the issue, true respect, friendship & commitment are & are critical to a couple’s success. If you’re good friends who also happen to passionately love each other, I think you’ve got a better than average chance at success!

    • @blessed7645
      @blessed7645 6 місяців тому +1

      Totally agree 👍🏿😊💕

    • @delilahhart4398
      @delilahhart4398 6 місяців тому +6

      James and Yet Wha are a cute couple.

  • @urmelausdemeis4743
    @urmelausdemeis4743 6 місяців тому +25

    I think that truck driver is quite annoying....

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 6 місяців тому +12

      He loves himself, and says he has a great sense of humour.
      I beg to differ.

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 6 місяців тому +14

      Seems like he doesn't give a crap about his wife, looks bored af.

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 6 місяців тому

      He's thick as they come.

    • @lanigirl01
      @lanigirl01 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@katewolfspirit6722I agree.

  • @travelingdude33914
    @travelingdude33914 3 місяці тому +5

    25 years age difference between my partner and myself, and we have a wonderful life together. Both of our families are very accepting and supportive.

  • @lindakoenig9946
    @lindakoenig9946 4 місяці тому +10

    This show is from 2014. I wonder how many are still together or even alive ?

  • @lovelyshirl
    @lovelyshirl 3 місяці тому +7

    I think Pat just loves wedding cake 😂

  • @zim-zf7mq
    @zim-zf7mq 5 місяців тому +13

    No judgement on age gap relationships. With that said, Mark seems to have developmental issues, and it seems weird how Pat interacts with and for him…

  • @itsashortshortworld7815
    @itsashortshortworld7815 5 місяців тому +11

    Ran to the comments so fast 💨 when I heard pats been married FUCKING 9 times goddamn 💀😳

  • @natinaharris8381
    @natinaharris8381 4 місяці тому +13

    Bob looks better than me in the shower. Go, Bob, it's your birthday! ❤😊

  • @devbachu7072
    @devbachu7072 6 місяців тому +41

    8 times my my something wrong with her

    • @sharonrodgers1136
      @sharonrodgers1136 6 місяців тому +3

      She says she doesn’t remember all there names if they are as intelligent as number 9 I’m not surprised I would forget them scratch that I wouldn’t have married them in the first place but some people just can’t live themselves and therefore tend to take what they can get and as a result they end up with a lower intellectual specimen as these people need a mother not a partner and no one of there own age would take them on thank god they can’t procreate

    • @S_H9260
      @S_H9260 6 місяців тому +3

      Her problem is she keeps getting married. It's ok to be single or just dating.

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 6 місяців тому +2

      Some people just like weddings - just like some (for whatever bizarre reason) watch Christmas movie channels all year long!!

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 6 місяців тому

      @@museonfilm8919 Yes, you and I are on the same wavelength! It's a funny old world...

    • @marilynalexander5446
      @marilynalexander5446 6 місяців тому

      Love the white wedding dress and the long viel, who is this old woman kidding,

  • @its_Emily384
    @its_Emily384 6 місяців тому +12

    That guy with the weird voices. That’ll get old fast..

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 6 місяців тому +13

    Yikes , “wont mind having children in the future just not with bob” 🤡😂😂😂😂

  • @Artistbrits
    @Artistbrits 6 місяців тому +26

    I fell head over heals in love with a 55 year old man when I was 32 years old. I never had a preference for older men. Most of the men I dated were usually 3-7 years younger than me. I was always accused of being a gold digger from others but he wasn't wealthy at all. It didn't last, but the breakup had nothing to do with the age gap. I think it may seem unusual but you can't predict who you will love and sometimes that love can be met with hostility by people committed to societal norms.

  • @avengernemesis7990
    @avengernemesis7990 3 місяці тому +5

    9 times married !
    Hey lady what didn't you learn after the 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 marriage...lol
    Nuts !
    Australia

  • @mandarue5104
    @mandarue5104 5 місяців тому +10

    WTF!!! Pat has been married 8 times prior? If that isn't a red flag I don't know what is.

  • @pripri3404
    @pripri3404 6 місяців тому +51

    The Asian woman does look quite a bit younger than she is.

    • @hblock8361
      @hblock8361 6 місяців тому +14

      Asian genes 💪

    • @sharonrodgers1136
      @sharonrodgers1136 6 місяців тому

      Asian women are usually taught at a young age to look after and cater to their husband but god she will have to have the patience of a saint to take him on this guy lives on cloud cuckoo land plus he’s so annoying

    • @PeaceSM1954
      @PeaceSM1954 6 місяців тому +7

      She’s beautiful!

    • @emmaphilo4049
      @emmaphilo4049 5 місяців тому +4

      She is very pretty :)

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 5 місяців тому

      She seriously picked a total freak, though! He is dumb, and beyond annoying.

  • @rubytuesday5412
    @rubytuesday5412 6 місяців тому +18

    **SPOILER**
    I can't think of anything worse than popping that GIANT question
    in front of a load of people.
    I wonder how old this is and where are they now?

  • @shybuttafly
    @shybuttafly 4 місяці тому +5

    The math isnt adding up with Liz & Richard. She’s 23. She said they’d been married for a year and dating for 7. Which means she was 16. But then she said she met him when she was 19…NONE of that adds up at all!!!🧐🧐🧐

  • @rhondasworld9989
    @rhondasworld9989 5 місяців тому +17

    So Mark needed another mother 😮

  • @BobbieXxoo
    @BobbieXxoo 6 місяців тому +26

    I don’t judge because that’s not my job but I do question Pat…. I wonder if Mark gets like a SSI check every month?

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 6 місяців тому +1

      Either way, seems he's the one cooking and cleaning while she just watches.

    • @gingersmith2888
      @gingersmith2888 6 місяців тому +4

      He definitely has mental problems. Maybe not even capable of making a legal commitment like a marriage. The other couples may be outside of the norm, but Pat and Mark being together is sick.

  • @mutoidliz2320
    @mutoidliz2320 5 місяців тому +6

    Mark looks utterly trapped.I've never once described my relationship as my older partner holding a gun to my head 💀

  • @delilahhart4398
    @delilahhart4398 6 місяців тому +8

    The truck driver couple is funny.

  • @NyanyiC
    @NyanyiC 6 місяців тому +21

    Bob and his shower. Lol

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 6 місяців тому +4

      I mean....who on earth scripted that? And why did he agree? 😳

    • @chesspunk489
      @chesspunk489 6 місяців тому +3

      It was so hot.

    • @cherylween4973
      @cherylween4973 6 місяців тому +1

      He isn't bad for an old codger 😅

    • @sheilaboston7051
      @sheilaboston7051 5 місяців тому

      @@cherylween4973 He's got a better bum than many younger men!

  • @vickythefist7062
    @vickythefist7062 6 місяців тому +31

    Love the cattle trucking couple .think they are a great match and they both have an amazing sense of humor . Wish them many years of happiness and love .from the UK

    • @ANNtique
      @ANNtique 5 місяців тому +18

      She’s 23 and said they’d been together 6 years but then she said she was 19 when they met 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Mohomonners10
      @Mohomonners10 5 місяців тому +4

      @@ANNtiquerighhtttt, I think she knows how it would look if she said “I just turned 17” so she’s tried to blag it 😬

    • @marciareid2482
      @marciareid2482 5 місяців тому +2

      I am not good in maths but I must be missing something. Six years ago she would be 17 ,,but you never know with these new generation things must have changed and I am too old to keep up

  • @ColleenMarie111
    @ColleenMarie111 3 місяці тому +5

    I have a 31 year old special needs son he's mentally disabled but you can't tell just by looking at him. Mark reminds me exactly of my son. He even does the same thing with his tongue when he focuses on something. I guess the good thing about Pat and Mark is Mark can't get her pregnant. She's not after his money she's just wanting companionship I think. And his mother I'm sure is not happy she feels like an old lady is taking advantage of her special needs son. But really he has someone to take care of him to show him things to make sure he eats and bathes and all of that good stuff she's taking care of Mark. So Mark's mom can relax I know it's easier said than done. I have never liked a single girlfriend that my son has had. And that's just because with his cognitive disabilities he just doesn't know any better thats all. So I try to stay out of the way when it comes to his girlfriends but sometimes it's absolutely impossible and I have to speak up when they're just way way out there with their behavior or what they're saying I hope Mark and Pat Atlanta's last for a while I think it's good that they both have someone to keep them company and help each other. I don't think it's love I don't think Mark even knows what that means really. And after 8:00 marriages I don't think Pat does either but as long as they're not mean to each other or hurt each other then it's really not hurting anyone

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 3 місяці тому +3

      I absolutely agree. ❤

  • @jerrimenard3092
    @jerrimenard3092 6 місяців тому +10

    I am 52 and I have had age gap relationships that have gone both ways. Sometimes I am older by mire then 10 years. Other times they are older by more then ten. I am casually dating someone 20 years older then me, and we are having a lot of fun.

  • @kristenglenn7026
    @kristenglenn7026 3 місяці тому +2

    Kudos to all of these couples for living their lives the way they please-it is their life to live the way they please. They aren’t hurting anybody.

  • @AliM-tk4ez
    @AliM-tk4ez 6 місяців тому +11

    Omggggg don't know which is worse...Bob's bum or the tatt on his head 🤣🤣 good luck to em I say. Not sure about Pat n Mark tho...9 times married n can't remember the previous 8 hubbies names 🤔

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 6 місяців тому

      That’s what she’s saying we don’t know how many times she’s been married she’s probably lying .shes probably been married twice .shes a nutter .

  • @Ife17
    @Ife17 5 місяців тому +15

    WHO THE HELL requested to see Bob in the shower ??!?? 😓😓😓

  • @hilariecalijo4643
    @hilariecalijo4643 5 місяців тому +6

    Ok I don’t need to see Bob naked. That said, Kelly looks close to his age. I think they actually were old souls together.🎉

    • @QueenAmethyst55
      @QueenAmethyst55 2 місяці тому

      Not as bad as seeing that truck driver in the shower. 😬

  • @susanclaire901
    @susanclaire901 6 місяців тому +11

    Poor Mark is obviously mentally disabled SEVERELY. Who proposed to whom?

  • @joanclawford8964
    @joanclawford8964 6 місяців тому +16

    Richard & Immy seem a very happy nice couple ... 😊

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 2 місяці тому +5

      Thankyou 🤗 that's very nice of you to say 👍🏼 happily, we're still together and even stronger after 13 happy years ☺️🤗💖

  • @vickythefist7062
    @vickythefist7062 6 місяців тому +16

    Poor Bob and Kelly .they seem nice together. And Bob is thinking about her future . That's a really nice thing for him to do. He's thinking about her having babies and a family of her own. The saying if you love someone set them free comes to mind . He knows he's too old to have anymore kids with her . These are the things people don't think about when going into these relationships

  • @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642
    @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642 5 місяців тому +4

    Im laughing tears at the hubby teaching the wife to drive, whilst shes driving a SHOE n hitting every curb😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @yellowbird5411
    @yellowbird5411 5 місяців тому +6

    We come to this earth at different times. We are ageless spirits, and it is only the body that ages. So if we meet someone of any age that we truly love, the body is not a consideration if both parties want whatever time they can have together. They know they both won't grow old together, and that the younger one may turn into a caregiver or leave if it gets to be too much. They know what can happen. So they are happy right now, and right now is all anyone has anyway. When we go back where we came from, time doesn't matter.

  • @bubble8c492
    @bubble8c492 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for uploading yhis, i remember watxhing this documentary ages ago but couldnt find it when i searched. Happy to see someone archived it thank you!

  • @Kwd123
    @Kwd123 5 місяців тому +6

    ‘I’m 23, we’ve been together for 6 years… we met when I had just turned 19’. Umm… maths no make sense

  • @karmaleenash2841
    @karmaleenash2841 4 місяці тому +4

    Love comes in all shapes and sizes and ages. As long as both are adults, then it is nobody’s business but theirs. Why do people think they have any business judging who someone loves? As my grandmother used to say, mind your own business and hush. ❤

  • @marilynvallance
    @marilynvallance 6 місяців тому +34

    If Richard doesn’t lose some weight he won’t be around for much longer.

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 2 місяці тому +1

      Well, guess what Marilyn? I did, once my steroid treatments had finished I easily managed to drop those extra kilos..
      Whilst we're into personal and not particularly pleasant comments, Marilyn, did you ever get around to the botox and fillers you were in need of? 💅🏼

  • @reginamushi6582
    @reginamushi6582 6 місяців тому +6

    Mandem says the triple warmy... religion, race, age gap, you forgot you are gay mate...some society still have a problem with it!

  • @delilahhart4398
    @delilahhart4398 6 місяців тому +5

    My grandpa once tried to teach my grandma how to drive. Let's just say that it was a short-lived effort.

  • @marijkeblake1256
    @marijkeblake1256 6 місяців тому +16

    Everyone should just do what makes them happy; who cares. Just because I don't understand it doesn't mean it's wrong!

  • @Seekingimmortal
    @Seekingimmortal 2 місяці тому

    True Love overcomes all barriers in age, caste, culture, tradition and language. Love from India❤

  • @delilahhart4398
    @delilahhart4398 6 місяців тому +6

    Richard and Immy are so cute!

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 2 місяці тому +2

      Thankyou 🤗 that's really sweet of you to say 🤗💖

  • @Rebecca_Bailey
    @Rebecca_Bailey 5 місяців тому +5

    Pat has been married before….8 times
    8 TIMES?!?

  • @clarea1801
    @clarea1801 3 місяці тому +2

    I once had about a three month fling with a guy who was 13 years younger, i was 38 and he was 25, it was fun whilst it lasted.

  • @Chelsea-yh3bo
    @Chelsea-yh3bo 13 годин тому

    I have a 17 year age gap....my BF is 20 n I'm 37....but we get along so good n he treats me like a queen 💗

  • @chynaajade
    @chynaajade 5 місяців тому +5

    When I was growing up my mother always told me to marry a man who was younger. She said that, because generally women live longer than men. I am not sure if I was influenced by her or not, but I have always liked younger men. I have noticed over the years, that alot of older men are grumpy. (not all, but alot of them are)

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 5 місяців тому +2

      Exactly, on average, women live five years longer, if you want to avoid being a widow for years marry a younger man!!

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen 5 місяців тому

      So what

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 5 місяців тому +3

      @sadekHessen If you're not bothered by what either of us say, why bother to make your pointless statement? If you think being a widower of many years is something that appeals to you, good luck to you!

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen 5 місяців тому +1

      @@charlottebruce979 but love is love
      No problem for women if she wants love

  • @aliceschmid9697
    @aliceschmid9697 6 місяців тому +21

    Mark doesn't seem of normal intslligence.

    • @PoodleDoo212
      @PoodleDoo212 6 місяців тому +4

      intelligence

    • @sp-1973
      @sp-1973 6 місяців тому +3

      Hmmmm.....eat your words sweetheart!!

    • @FamLawJ.D.
      @FamLawJ.D. 6 місяців тому +2

      @@sp-1973awww! It’s just a typo.

    • @angelapietras1235
      @angelapietras1235 6 місяців тому

      @@FamLawJ.D. yes you are right and it happens often with most of us.😄

    • @sp-1973
      @sp-1973 6 місяців тому +1

      @@FamLawJ.D. you clearly don't understand the irony here!

  • @thilde2337
    @thilde2337 5 місяців тому +10

    If I am being honest I find the large age gaps creepy. It just feels very much like fetishism, and the couples are not always at the same level due to the age difference.

  • @ionascumihaela
    @ionascumihaela 6 місяців тому +11

    Great documentary, i am happy for them❤. Age is just a number when it comes on love.The only limitations are the ones you set for yourself.

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 5 місяців тому

      Age isn't just a number, pedophiles use that excuse. Age gap love is appropriate when there are two consenting adults whose mental capacities and values align.

  • @moniinnola
    @moniinnola 6 місяців тому +11

    The cattle herding couple...that girl couldn't be more young and immature just based on her covnvo flow. He's old and severyly obese obvi taking advantage of that sitch. And hate to point this out but they are probably transporting cows for industrial farming and processing...this is a U.K. series but in the USA esp. up midwest north is where tons of industrial farms and plants are its effing terrible and gross, I've seen many on roadtrips tucked qlong back roads and esp. Near amish towns- so many documentaries on that too. Those poor cows were just probably scared being yelled at and shuttled into unfamiliar boxed in truck that isnt grass. Then having to stand up in that metal crammed for hours. Its a gross industry that I'll never supoort and what led me to be pescetarian😢

    • @StargazerLily82
      @StargazerLily82 6 місяців тому +5

      This got me all upset, too. She was clearly underage when they got together and those poor cows. You know they're all going to slaughter houses. Also how they hit them with the prods. I used to live in the Midwest and I would see those trucks all the time. They're so upsetting.

  • @kittiesshortie5011
    @kittiesshortie5011 11 днів тому

    James and his family are classic examples of the wonders of NHS Dentistry!

  • @sp-1973
    @sp-1973 6 місяців тому +19

    That lovely indian man, can't spell his name.... but he's absolutely gorgeous and so handsome ❤❤❤

    • @immis8894
      @immis8894 2 місяці тому +3

      Aww thank you. My partner Richard still thinks so too 😊

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 2 місяці тому +3

      I can confirm that, up close, he's even better looking and has grown even more handsome over the few years since we made the programme 🤗💖

  • @kerryhemans8019
    @kerryhemans8019 4 місяці тому +3

    The 'love you' in a child's voice, no, just no! 😂

  • @paulinebeckett8222
    @paulinebeckett8222 5 місяців тому +6

    Pat Likes the taste of wedding cake😊

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 6 місяців тому +20

    Mark is a lot like my friends brother who is mentally not all the way up to his age … he was not born that way, blood was in his diaper mom rushed him to the hospital trusting that they was going to treat him accordingly, apparently they dehydrated the baby meaning not giving him fluids 3 days causing brain damage , parents sued the hospital and was granted a large sim but doesn’t even make up the damage that was done :( no amount can :( in any case he is now 44 and looks and talks exactly like mark but keoni had more “ fun side” to him meaning he laughed a lot a bit more playful but over all this guy reminds me a lot of him… ppl may think this woman is taking advantage, maybe she is in a way but honestly he wouldn’t be there with her if he didn’t want her.. he is an adult I would be lie hmmmm no if he was18 but 28 it’s whatever

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 6 місяців тому +3

      It seems like she is also a carer. So provided she is trustworthy (which she certainly appears to be) Mark would be benefitting.

    • @gigi9301
      @gigi9301 6 місяців тому +3

      She has been married eight times before; LOL for her wearing a white dress on the wedding day

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 5 місяців тому +2

      If he is mentally disabled, his age doesn't matter. It should have been determined, if he is fit to make the decision to get married.

    • @samanthathompson9812
      @samanthathompson9812 5 місяців тому

      Quite a few people in these age gap videos seem intellectually challenged in some way.

  • @sadekHessen
    @sadekHessen 5 місяців тому +1

    Love, respect, desire for affection, feelings, feelings from within...there is no difference in age, appearance, traditions, etc. I know that love is a blessing. I have seen many people in these successful love stories.. When I find love with a woman, I take care of her, I respect the privacy of life with her, I am jealous. Very much for her. What I mean is love is a blessing that I must take care of. Maybe one day I will find this quickly. Greetings to all of you from an Egyptian young man. I wish you peace, people in the world.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @choosytvinitaly2506
    @choosytvinitaly2506 3 місяці тому +3

    James and Yet Wa looks at d same age❤

  • @caroline8733
    @caroline8733 5 місяців тому +3

    Hahah I love the cattle lady!! Top banter

    • @maroulio2067
      @maroulio2067 Місяць тому +1

      she is adorable- I hope she is doing well

  • @rozdoyle8872
    @rozdoyle8872 6 місяців тому +5

    Pat has a Saviour Complex , Resucing some one in very dangerous because one day the resentment on both sides kicks in big time and both parties are too exhausted to admit it and too broken to leave.

  • @Summerbaby_1987
    @Summerbaby_1987 4 місяці тому

    Well this is so amazing and so very special!!

  • @ninas4968
    @ninas4968 5 місяців тому +6

    😂 did they really need to start off with home dude in the shower!? 🤣 wtf

    • @Rebecca_Bailey
      @Rebecca_Bailey 5 місяців тому

      Now I’ve got his bare arse embedded in my brain forever 🤢

  • @metalcatmom5891
    @metalcatmom5891 6 місяців тому +26

    My spouse and I only have an 8 year age gap. I can certainly relate to having many reasons our relationship shouldn't work. It just does. Seventeen years in, and we have the happiest marriage of anyone I know.

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 6 місяців тому +7

      Eight years is not considered significant by any means.

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 6 місяців тому +3

      Me and my partner are 8 years apart, too, it's not really an age gap.

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 5 місяців тому +3

      An age gap is like 12 to 15 years at least.

    • @Ife17
      @Ife17 5 місяців тому +2

      I don’t consider anything under 10 years as significant…

  • @Summerbaby_1987
    @Summerbaby_1987 4 місяці тому

    Love the ❤ you show him and her!

  • @nicolelillis2077
    @nicolelillis2077 2 місяці тому +3

    I think Patricia is really taking advantage of Mark..She's been married eight times before and can't remember her ex-husband's names, that's a bad track record..Mark seems like he may have learning difficulties and Pat's obviously making sure she has a carer in her declining years..I also didn't need to see Bob's wrinkly bum flashing on the screen..🙄