Age Gap Love: My Family Disapprove! | A True Story

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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024
  • This documentary ventures into the world of age-gap dating, where we meet older women with a taste for the much younger man. Produced for Channel 5 by Nine Lives Media.
    #atruestory #agegaplove

КОМЕНТАРІ • 858

  • @chadshill
    @chadshill 9 місяців тому +97

    Wow! It seems so long ago since we made the programme! 😍
    We're both very happy to tell you all that after more than 13 years we are still together, blissfully happy in our own home with a Jack Russell to keep us on our toes, and loving the acceptance we now have from our families on both sides 🤗
    Thanks to everyone who made those nice comments, and, as always, to those whose comments centered on my weight and other negatives, we'll just say. L.A.F.W.!! 😉🤗😍
    Richard and Immy 💖

    • @IngenerateIngenue
      @IngenerateIngenue 8 місяців тому +10

      So happy both families have acknowledged & accepted your relationship. ❤

    • @TeriHargraveartist
      @TeriHargraveartist 8 місяців тому +7

      Jack Russell, great choice!

    • @joypotbg
      @joypotbg 8 місяців тому +5

      ❤ love a happy ending!

    • @DTM93
      @DTM93 8 місяців тому +4

      Congratulations!

    • @maroulio2067
      @maroulio2067 8 місяців тому +3

      You are my favourite couple on this video- how wonderful that you are happy and well. Wishing you many more great years together!

  • @Sarah24871
    @Sarah24871 Рік тому +355

    Never ask someone to marry you in front of other people. Ever.

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 Рік тому +33

      Is that because of the pressure to say yes in front of others? (even if they don't want to)

    • @ButterflyWings1900
      @ButterflyWings1900 Рік тому +26

      I agree it’s just not right

    • @Hotchocolatewith2sugars
      @Hotchocolatewith2sugars Рік тому

      @@museonfilm8919exactly

    • @NyanyiC
      @NyanyiC Рік тому +24

      It's just a lot of pressure. It's better to have an engagement party afterwards

    • @daisychain3007
      @daisychain3007 Рік тому +6

      I have heard of that, Sarah. Not everything has to be out in the open.

  • @elisabethelias681
    @elisabethelias681 Рік тому +133

    I don't like Pat! She seems manipulative. I mean, 8! husbands before her current one?

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 Рік тому +15

      I wonder if they all ate the mushrooms?

    • @iceladi01
      @iceladi01 Рік тому +4

      Clever (from an Aussie)

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 Рік тому +27

      Not being funny but...what happened to the other 8 husbands, was infidelity involved? Did they all die unexpectedly? I think I would want to know if I was going to marry someone who had been married so many times. And poor Mark, he does seem like he may have some learning issues, bless him. Feel like he's been taken advantage of in a way.

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen Рік тому

      But love is love so beautiful 🌹
      ​@@katewolfspirit6722

    • @Will.Flavell
      @Will.Flavell 9 місяців тому

      @@iceladi01Your a Collingwood fan

  • @morganlawrie1158
    @morganlawrie1158 Рік тому +174

    It's not the age gap that bothers me. It's when it turns into parenting rather than a partnership that creeps me out. The way Pat is ordering him about and speaking for him gives me a weird vibe. Especially when she mentioned he'd never had experience. It sounded like she was kind of mocking him and I know she's had a few hubby's but to not even remember their names?! That's just hurrendous
    James just reminds me of a guy that never grew out of his "15 year old gamer" phase and he just needs someone to aid that.

    • @user-zs5ho2lw2t
      @user-zs5ho2lw2t Рік тому +13

      This is so sad for james parents i'm sure. You protect your children from preditors their whole life, to then have one come in after the time that you can't protect them. This women is a disgusting narcissistic sociopath. She acts like she is some kind of saint, Sick!!!!

    • @Mistwalker67
      @Mistwalker67 Рік тому +6

      You put my thoughts into words, she has the eternal son and he has a replacement mum, I've had big age gaps but I was always the mature one.

    • @Goldrefinedthrufire
      @Goldrefinedthrufire Рік тому

      I think Pat preys on the low IQ of a man.

    • @allyw1364
      @allyw1364 Рік тому +14

      And she has been Married 8 times before?? No thats absolute craziness

    • @elap1529
      @elap1529 11 місяців тому +19

      I didn't want to say it. Also I might be wrong about James being maybe a little mentally disabled. And that shes taking advantage of that.. Kind of disturbing

  • @ButterflyWings1900
    @ButterflyWings1900 Рік тому +566

    Bob in the shower…..who the hell approved of that scene? 😬

  • @dl4403
    @dl4403 11 місяців тому +65

    James and Yet Wah look the same age, despite the 20 year age gap. It’s the youthful Asian genes! 🧬

    • @DTM93
      @DTM93 8 місяців тому +4

      It's true they have amazing age genes for some reason must be all the seaweed and seafood.

    • @jasminehouston-burns1691
      @jasminehouston-burns1691 5 місяців тому

      They definitely look and act different ages, even if it's not as pronounced as a larger gap.

  • @ahmritroets2596
    @ahmritroets2596 9 місяців тому +32

    The Elmo sounding "I love yew!" Would be a deal breaker.

  • @SnowWhite717_
    @SnowWhite717_ Рік тому +180

    My partner is 19 years younger than I am. I met him when he was 29 and I was 48. We’ve been together now 6 years. I’m 54 and he’s 35. I was very nervous meeting his parents because they’re just 12 years older than I am but we get along really well together and they don’t mind. They said I’m the first woman he’s dated that has her own money, doesn’t require his attention 24/7, doesn’t get jealous and we have no drama. I get him to try new things and he keeps me young. But I must say, I’m Asian and look 38 so people can’t tell we have an age gap. We run 6 miles a day and spend 2 hours at the gym 6 days a week. We go hiking, climbing, camping, hunting, skiing, golfing, dancing… we have a full and happy life. I used to worry about what people thought. Now I I don’t care. ❤

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 Рік тому

      @naomid Do you have children and has that been a topic of conversation?

    • @SnowWhite717_
      @SnowWhite717_ Рік тому +7

      @@Myraisins1 I have 2 kids, he had one. He got a vasectomy, we don’t want anymore children. I wouldn’t have another baby even if I could. Not for all the money on earth 🤣

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 Рік тому

      @@SnowWhite717_ Okay. You're an inspiration!

    • @Dick-d1m
      @Dick-d1m Рік тому

      I'm looking for a young woman.. Asian would be great. Do you know any available ???

    • @Railroadchick
      @Railroadchick Рік тому +3

      The poor cattle . Being shoved in a truck , poked with an electric cattle prodder, only to have their throats slit , while their relatives stand there watching

  • @marilynalexander5446
    @marilynalexander5446 Рік тому +69

    Pat has serious problems, i can understand why marks parents were against this, she has been married 9 times and he is slow. Glad he is not my son otherwise pats backside would have been bouncing down my front steps.

    • @rozdoyle8872
      @rozdoyle8872 Рік тому

      I wouldn't even give her time to bounce, her sneaky ass would be on the footpath with the tracks of my size 8 on it .

    • @fitbyife
      @fitbyife Рік тому +4

      My thoughts EXACTLY!!!

    • @nonsensetalk8953
      @nonsensetalk8953 10 місяців тому +1

      Big talk but you wouldn't get away with your aggressive assault on someone."Slow"or not,Mark is an adult,and can do what he likes.So keep your violence to yourself.

    • @dementedopossum8148
      @dementedopossum8148 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@nonsensetalk8953oooh, triggered 😂😂😂😂. Jog on

    • @jasminehouston-burns1691
      @jasminehouston-burns1691 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@nonsensetalk8953Some people are really bout that life. That woman is nuts and obviously taking advantage of a mildly disabled person. It's really a shame his family abandoned him.

  • @camellia8625
    @camellia8625 Рік тому +34

    I do not agree with public proposals as it puts the woman on the spot.

  • @bp7707
    @bp7707 Рік тому +47

    Did anyone else catch that Liz is 23 and said twice that they've been together 6 years...but she was 19 when they met. Something doesn't add up.

    • @dontbotherme-asnc
      @dontbotherme-asnc 9 місяців тому +7

      I did finger counting and everything when she gave the numbers!

    • @0megaVon
      @0megaVon 7 місяців тому +4

      I totally caught that too! I thought it was pretty gross, not to mention entirely illegal, that they got together when she was only 17 & he was almost 44 y.o. Then she thought she would say she was 19 when they first met each other. Like the general public can't add & subtract or something. No wonder her family will not associate with them & they prefer to hide away from everyone they know.

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 6 місяців тому +3

      17 is legal in the UK, and the relationship is standing the test of time. Also, a female is usually an adult by 18, so, not a big difference. I'm from Europe and dated a 39-year-old when i was 17. He was a bit surprised i was underage, but moved on. Nobody cared. Neither should you with this couple. She's no longer 17 anyway.

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm way more shocked about the 55-year-old woman with a 23-year-old boy. But, again, they are happy, so who cares.

    • @burlykim132
      @burlykim132 6 місяців тому +1

      Her math skills

  • @emmsue1053
    @emmsue1053 Рік тому +77

    Hubby & I have almost 18 years between us. Everyone said it will never last. Here we are thirty years later & still say we love each other at least four times a day. Age is just a number.

    • @luns486
      @luns486 Рік тому

      How did you guys meet?

    • @xerothir13teen
      @xerothir13teen Рік тому

      he prob cheated on you btw

    • @cristinapatellani5332
      @cristinapatellani5332 Рік тому

      Awww that’s fantastic 🙌🏽😍
      Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈🍾☺️

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 Рік тому +3

      I don't think age is just a number, your age gap has worked for you, but if everyone thought it was acceptable for a 50 year old man, for instance, to have sex with a 13 year old then that's completely unacceptable, age matters.

    • @RearFacingToddlers
      @RearFacingToddlers Рік тому +5

      @charlottebruce979 That's completely different. This is about consensual relationships between adults of different ages, not having sex with a child!

  • @Canuckskigirl
    @Canuckskigirl Рік тому +300

    Pat is taking advantage of Mark, he is disabled, it needs to be reported, she knows damn well what she’s doing… disgusting 😢

    • @itsdebs
      @itsdebs Рік тому +78

      Totally agree. She’s probably getting some form of carers benefit money too. This isn’t love.

    • @DebraHarrison-b2x
      @DebraHarrison-b2x Рік тому +7

      Silly people with silly opinions?.

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Рік тому +68

      Controlling and narcissist people isolate you from friends and family to maintain control. He "does as he's told " says a LOT

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Рік тому +80

      Mark's family probably has a problem with PAT as a person, not her age.

    • @malachinumba1
      @malachinumba1 Рік тому +40

      I was hoping he's just a bit slow & has the disadvantage of a tongue too big for his mouth 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Villinos
    @Villinos Рік тому +117

    This Pat character, taking advantage of a mentally challenged person and cutting him off his family, she is a criminal.

    • @lanabmc3519
      @lanabmc3519 Рік тому +13

      She’s no quite all their herself either.

  • @ButterflyWings1900
    @ButterflyWings1900 Рік тому +56

    Pat the rat is definitely a control freak, been married 8 times before….red flags galore there! Mark is her lil whipping boy, I can see why his parents didn’t attend the wedding

    • @natashadickson4819
      @natashadickson4819 Рік тому +1

      He's content and seems to need her.

    • @rubytuesday5412
      @rubytuesday5412 Рік тому +3

      ~ This one will work out, for obvious reasons......

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 Рік тому

      She’s a nutter and lying being married 8 times before .

    • @mariabrett6712
      @mariabrett6712 9 місяців тому

      Please don't call her a rat 🐀 that's insulting rats the four legged kind😅

    • @ButterflyWings1900
      @ButterflyWings1900 6 місяців тому +1

      @@mariabrett6712 agree 😂😂😂😂🐀

  • @latoshagomes9165
    @latoshagomes9165 Рік тому +59

    Pat needs to be locked up.....she is taking advantage of this poor boy

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 Рік тому +4

      And her punishment, should be sharing a cell with James, The Master of SillyBilly Cute Noises

  • @travelingdude33914
    @travelingdude33914 10 місяців тому +6

    25 years age difference between my partner and myself, and we have a wonderful life together. Both of our families are very accepting and supportive.

  • @debbiemycroft8221
    @debbiemycroft8221 Рік тому +42

    When James makes that stupid voice noise when saying "i love you" is enough to want me to knock him into nexr week. Good god he needs a baby sitter not a girlfriend 🙄 .
    As for Pat she is talking to him as if she is he is her son. Personally i dont think his family care about the age difference it would be more about how she is as a person and i think she comes across as a controlling user. Just my opinion but my gut tells me im right.😢

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 Рік тому +7

      Pat should spend a week in a cell with James. I think that would be wonderful for them both...

    • @Felicity2121
      @Felicity2121 10 місяців тому

      She will be claiming carers benefits for him.

    • @chrislabedzski9076
      @chrislabedzski9076 9 місяців тому

      Holy crap your comment is brutal however you are correct though and tbh I don't think pat and James relationship will last though, I give them about 2 months tops

  • @JaguarRacingTeamX
    @JaguarRacingTeamX Рік тому +88

    Pat is a predator.

    • @elisabethelias681
      @elisabethelias681 Рік тому +21

      Yes! And 8 men were smart enough to find out how manipulative she is. But poor Mark....

    • @JaguarRacingTeamX
      @JaguarRacingTeamX Рік тому +1

      I get the feeling she left them given the fact she can't remember their names. She pathological.@@elisabethelias681

    • @mandapandamonium8675
      @mandapandamonium8675 6 місяців тому

      like what does he see in her? I am confused

  • @museonfilm8919
    @museonfilm8919 Рік тому +62

    I think a few of these people seem to have learning difficulties - or at least something seems amiss.

    • @marigoldbeam5475
      @marigoldbeam5475 Рік тому +9

      Agreed. There is some sort of mental and/or social deficiency in most of these couples.

    • @mariabrett6712
      @mariabrett6712 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@marigoldbeam5475I thought the same thing it's sad mark and pat seem she's the boss

    • @wendyerskine6951
      @wendyerskine6951 6 місяців тому

      You're right.

  • @yukiefromoz2573
    @yukiefromoz2573 Рік тому +198

    Mark seems a bit slow, in which case he probably doesn't even have the mental capacity to question why his missus has been married so many times. She might even be taking advantage of that.

    • @tessrobin4548
      @tessrobin4548 Рік тому +15

      He may talk slowly but that doesn't mean he's slow mentally. They're in a good place it seems.

    • @cravenmoorehead8
      @cravenmoorehead8 Рік тому +1

      It's f*cking disgusting. 32 year age gap 🙄🤢

    • @Lunchladydoyle
      @Lunchladydoyle Рік тому +7

      ⁠@@tessrobin4548who isn’t at the beginning of the relationship ?? Studies by law firms show marriages with a 20 year age gap have a divorce rate of 95 %
      When the gap is 30 years or more the chance is 167 %

    • @andreabobbette825
      @andreabobbette825 Рік тому +37

      ​@@Lunchladydoyle167%😅😅😅 what kind of percentage is that

    • @treacletarrt8591
      @treacletarrt8591 Рік тому +12

      ​@@andreabobbette825mark wrote that comment

  • @chevylynsue5531
    @chevylynsue5531 Рік тому +58

    Being married for the ninth time is wild!

    • @williamvanholder3368
      @williamvanholder3368 9 місяців тому

      you can understand you marry 1 time, when you marry 2 times you are not so smart, but 3 times or more you must have very low IQ

  • @nnh5050
    @nnh5050 Рік тому +28

    bob in the shower like that .... i'm officially dead forever💀☠💀

  • @latoshagomes9165
    @latoshagomes9165 Рік тому +93

    Now Bob we didn't need that image of you in the shower

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 Рік тому +17

      Tattoo of his lady on the head? That shows real class (or should I say NO class!)

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 Рік тому

      @@museonfilm8919 He shows (no) class but lots of ass! ;-))

    • @annabiotic1078
      @annabiotic1078 Рік тому +6

      😂😂😂 and a closeup of his bootie! Oh boy. Lol.

    • @chrisk7091
      @chrisk7091 Рік тому +1

      ⁠@@museonfilm8919so ppl w tattoos have no class ?😂😂😂

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Рік тому +5

      IDK why they wanted him naked, but I didn't.

  • @aprilbatzle7956
    @aprilbatzle7956 Рік тому +69

    How have they been together 6 years and she is 23 but they got together when she was 19 ? The math doesn't add up

    • @S_H9260
      @S_H9260 Рік тому +13

      That's a Great question. I wondered about that math too.

    • @shellyhall7393
      @shellyhall7393 Рік тому +14

      I thought the same thing. Together 6 years and she's 23 😒😒😒

    • @esthermurugi4882
      @esthermurugi4882 Рік тому +22

      For fear of saying she is/was underage 😂

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 Рік тому +4

      19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years maybe she is nearly 24

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 Рік тому +1

      19, 20, 21, 22, 23 which is 5 years. Maybe she is nearly 24

  • @karis6978
    @karis6978 Рік тому +14

    My Fella & I are 22 Years apart. He is 59 & I am 37.... we have been together 7 years next Saturday

  • @zim-zf7mq
    @zim-zf7mq Рік тому +17

    No judgement on age gap relationships. With that said, Mark seems to have developmental issues, and it seems weird how Pat interacts with and for him…

  • @pinkdiamonds9137
    @pinkdiamonds9137 Рік тому +45

    “I love Bob’s blue eyes-“ those are cataracts, dear

    • @rachaelphiri2299
      @rachaelphiri2299 8 місяців тому +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @0megaVon
      @0megaVon 7 місяців тому +6

      OMG 🤭 LMFAO 😆😂🤣💀

  • @ColleenMarie111
    @ColleenMarie111 10 місяців тому +11

    I have a 31 year old special needs son he's mentally disabled but you can't tell just by looking at him. Mark reminds me exactly of my son. He even does the same thing with his tongue when he focuses on something. I guess the good thing about Pat and Mark is Mark can't get her pregnant. She's not after his money she's just wanting companionship I think. And his mother I'm sure is not happy she feels like an old lady is taking advantage of her special needs son. But really he has someone to take care of him to show him things to make sure he eats and bathes and all of that good stuff she's taking care of Mark. So Mark's mom can relax I know it's easier said than done. I have never liked a single girlfriend that my son has had. And that's just because with his cognitive disabilities he just doesn't know any better thats all. So I try to stay out of the way when it comes to his girlfriends but sometimes it's absolutely impossible and I have to speak up when they're just way way out there with their behavior or what they're saying I hope Mark and Pat Atlanta's last for a while I think it's good that they both have someone to keep them company and help each other. I don't think it's love I don't think Mark even knows what that means really. And after 8:00 marriages I don't think Pat does either but as long as they're not mean to each other or hurt each other then it's really not hurting anyone

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 10 місяців тому +5

      I absolutely agree. ❤

  • @natinaharris8381
    @natinaharris8381 11 місяців тому +17

    Bob looks better than me in the shower. Go, Bob, it's your birthday! ❤😊

  • @renb6133
    @renb6133 Рік тому +42

    Regardless of age, the ones that give me most hope are the couples that really like each other & who appreciate what their partner has brought to their lives. For eg, James put enormous effort into his proposal because Yet Wha means so much to him. He talks in terms of how much she’s bettered him as a man & you can see he truly admires & appreciates her. Age isn’t the issue, true respect, friendship & commitment are & are critical to a couple’s success. If you’re good friends who also happen to passionately love each other, I think you’ve got a better than average chance at success!

  • @shazj2210
    @shazj2210 Рік тому +20

    A promise of commitment off pat is comfort to a fool

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 Рік тому +41

    Omg hahaha she can’t even remember all her husbands names 😂

    • @Theresa-lt3ki
      @Theresa-lt3ki Рік тому

      Exactly. she needs a slap.😮

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 Рік тому

      Because she’s lying she’s a nutter .shes probably been married twice

  • @kristenglenn7026
    @kristenglenn7026 10 місяців тому +4

    Kudos to all of these couples for living their lives the way they please-it is their life to live the way they please. They aren’t hurting anybody.

  • @gandalf751
    @gandalf751 Рік тому +64

    Is it just me, or is there something odd with Pat and Mark? Anyway, I think if you really love someone and you are adults, go for it! True love is beautiful!

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 Рік тому +39

      I got the impression that Mark is mentally challenged.

    • @tahneeyuh3382
      @tahneeyuh3382 Рік тому +18

      I mean if he’s not able to make an informed decision- it’s wrong. She’s been married EIGHT times and could not remember their names. Not quickly forgotten- she literally couldn’t remember lol. I think she’s odd

    • @1mustangsally
      @1mustangsally 11 місяців тому +1

      Oh, it's definitely not just you

  • @nicole-louisastevens7885
    @nicole-louisastevens7885 Рік тому +31

    9 times getting married!! There should be a stop somewhere lol 😅

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 Рік тому

      She’s lying she’s a nutter and predator

  • @dlcalbaugh
    @dlcalbaugh Рік тому +64

    There is a 12-year age gap between my husband and me. I am 59 and he is almost 47. We love each other and that's all that matters to us. We have been married for 25 years and together for 26.

    • @becksgroom49
      @becksgroom49 Рік тому +4

      I'm 57 and my lovely one is 44. It works x

    • @williamvanholder3368
      @williamvanholder3368 9 місяців тому

      @@becksgroom49 15 years is still possible, but not 30 or 40 years that is even disgusting !! what is possible devide age of oldest by 2 and add 7 years that is the minimum age. So when you are 50 she may be 32y. I am 15 years older than my partner too.

    • @brandyw4285
      @brandyw4285 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm 13yrs. and 1 day younger than my husband and we've been together for 23 yrs now!❤

  • @Ab-bk7bq
    @Ab-bk7bq Рік тому +59

    Mark, blink twice if your in danger 💀

    • @0megaVon
      @0megaVon 7 місяців тому

      OMG LMFAO 😂 Seriously though! Poor guy doesn't know any better 😕

  • @Chelsea-yh3bo
    @Chelsea-yh3bo 7 місяців тому +5

    I have a 17 year age gap....my BF is 20 n I'm 37....but we get along so good n he treats me like a queen 💗

    • @nowintroducinghertome
      @nowintroducinghertome 7 місяців тому +2

      Same here age gap 20 years. I was 17 when I married him at 35. We are now 30 and 50 ❤️

  • @SueP-D
    @SueP-D Рік тому +19

    Okay but the gay couple is too sweet for words 🥹

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 9 місяців тому +5

      Thank you 🤗 that's so nice of you to say... 🤗💖

    • @SueP-D
      @SueP-D 8 місяців тому +5

      ⁠​⁠@@chadshillAwww is that y’all? You guys are too lovely. 🥰. I hope your days are filled with love and laughter and from the bottom of my heart I genuinely wish you nothing but joy 🥰 🌈

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 8 місяців тому +6

      Yep, that's us! Almost 14 years together now and stronger than ever! 👍🏼🤗😍

    • @annabiotic1078
      @annabiotic1078 6 місяців тому +4

      I agree. They are the most adorable in this episode.

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 6 місяців тому +3

      @annabiotic1078 that's very kind of you to say 🤗 thanks so much 🤗

  • @lovelyshirl
    @lovelyshirl 10 місяців тому +11

    I think Pat just loves wedding cake 😂

  • @itsashortshortworld7815
    @itsashortshortworld7815 Рік тому +16

    Ran to the comments so fast 💨 when I heard pats been married FUCKING 9 times goddamn 💀😳

  • @mandarue5104
    @mandarue5104 Рік тому +13

    WTF!!! Pat has been married 8 times prior? If that isn't a red flag I don't know what is.

  • @spencerveyron
    @spencerveyron 11 місяців тому +23

    Pat really loves a wedding! Poor vulnerable Mark.

  • @fitbyife
    @fitbyife Рік тому +18

    That trucker couple were very suspect … their relationship definitely started when she was underage 🤮🤮🤮

    • @Jamiet-lk8xq
      @Jamiet-lk8xq 7 місяців тому

      She seems all about it though? Also they are laughing about him not being a sugar daddy but she also doesn’t need to work she just lives off of his income right?

  • @FloppingandRollingAround
    @FloppingandRollingAround Рік тому +28

    I fell head over heals in love with a 55 year old man when I was 32 years old. I never had a preference for older men. Most of the men I dated were usually 3-7 years younger than me. I was always accused of being a gold digger from others but he wasn't wealthy at all. It didn't last, but the breakup had nothing to do with the age gap. I think it may seem unusual but you can't predict who you will love and sometimes that love can be met with hostility by people committed to societal norms.

  • @lindakoenig9946
    @lindakoenig9946 11 місяців тому +12

    This show is from 2014. I wonder how many are still together or even alive ?

    • @cameronhowe1110
      @cameronhowe1110 5 місяців тому

      They made a documentary on that exact topic

  • @tangerinefizz11
    @tangerinefizz11 Рік тому +8

    My grandpa once tried to teach my grandma how to drive. Let's just say that it was a short-lived effort.

  • @mutoidliz2320
    @mutoidliz2320 Рік тому +8

    Mark looks utterly trapped.I've never once described my relationship as my older partner holding a gun to my head 💀

  • @devbachu7072
    @devbachu7072 Рік тому +47

    8 times my my something wrong with her

    • @sharonrodgers1136
      @sharonrodgers1136 Рік тому +3

      She says she doesn’t remember all there names if they are as intelligent as number 9 I’m not surprised I would forget them scratch that I wouldn’t have married them in the first place but some people just can’t live themselves and therefore tend to take what they can get and as a result they end up with a lower intellectual specimen as these people need a mother not a partner and no one of there own age would take them on thank god they can’t procreate

    • @S_H9260
      @S_H9260 Рік тому +3

      Her problem is she keeps getting married. It's ok to be single or just dating.

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 Рік тому +2

      Some people just like weddings - just like some (for whatever bizarre reason) watch Christmas movie channels all year long!!

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 Рік тому

      @@museonfilm8919 Yes, you and I are on the same wavelength! It's a funny old world...

    • @marilynalexander5446
      @marilynalexander5446 Рік тому

      Love the white wedding dress and the long viel, who is this old woman kidding,

  • @Seekingimmortal
    @Seekingimmortal 9 місяців тому +1

    True Love overcomes all barriers in age, caste, culture, tradition and language. Love from India❤

  • @jerrimenard3092
    @jerrimenard3092 Рік тому +12

    I am 52 and I have had age gap relationships that have gone both ways. Sometimes I am older by mire then 10 years. Other times they are older by more then ten. I am casually dating someone 20 years older then me, and we are having a lot of fun.

  • @hilariecalijo4643
    @hilariecalijo4643 Рік тому +8

    Ok I don’t need to see Bob naked. That said, Kelly looks close to his age. I think they actually were old souls together.🎉

    • @QueenAmethyst55
      @QueenAmethyst55 9 місяців тому

      Not as bad as seeing that truck driver in the shower. 😬

  • @claudiahamilton9884
    @claudiahamilton9884 Рік тому +6

    Why is there this silly kindergarten music in the background throughout the entire film?? Is this about people being in love or do you just want to make them look silly? There is romantic music on every other commercial. Why not here? These couples deserve more respect for their bravery to stand up for each other, despite their age gap. Put the appropriate background music on. This is ridiculous

  • @rubytuesday5412
    @rubytuesday5412 Рік тому +20

    **SPOILER**
    I can't think of anything worse than popping that GIANT question
    in front of a load of people.
    I wonder how old this is and where are they now?

  • @susanclaire901
    @susanclaire901 Рік тому +14

    Poor Mark is obviously mentally disabled SEVERELY. Who proposed to whom?

  • @pripri3404
    @pripri3404 Рік тому +59

    The Asian woman does look quite a bit younger than she is.

    • @hblock8361
      @hblock8361 Рік тому +15

      Asian genes 💪

    • @sharonrodgers1136
      @sharonrodgers1136 Рік тому

      Asian women are usually taught at a young age to look after and cater to their husband but god she will have to have the patience of a saint to take him on this guy lives on cloud cuckoo land plus he’s so annoying

    • @ButterflyWings1900
      @ButterflyWings1900 Рік тому +9

      She’s beautiful!

    • @emmaphilo4049
      @emmaphilo4049 Рік тому +6

      She is very pretty :)

    • @ziggywalsh5562
      @ziggywalsh5562 Рік тому

      She seriously picked a total freak, though! He is dumb, and beyond annoying.

  • @dissidentfairy4264
    @dissidentfairy4264 5 місяців тому +4

    Sorry, I can't remember names. The trucker needs to throw out his girly calendar. He has a young woman half his age, and he said they don't have any money, and she lives in a box. He should consider himself Fortunate. The least he can do is throw out that calendar. It's rude and disrespectful flaunting it in her face. The Asian woman doesn't look much older than her boyfriend if any, so I don't feel that she should worry about appearances, and I thought his surprise engagement party was wonderful.

  • @itsdebs
    @itsdebs Рік тому +14

    That guy with the weird voices. That’ll get old fast..

  • @sephinew3333
    @sephinew3333 4 місяці тому +1

    Consenting adults. The rest of the details is none of the worlds business. May we all be so lucky to find love

  • @vickythefist7062
    @vickythefist7062 Рік тому +31

    Love the cattle trucking couple .think they are a great match and they both have an amazing sense of humor . Wish them many years of happiness and love .from the UK

    • @ANNtique
      @ANNtique Рік тому +18

      She’s 23 and said they’d been together 6 years but then she said she was 19 when they met 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @Mohomonners10
      @Mohomonners10 Рік тому +4

      @@ANNtiquerighhtttt, I think she knows how it would look if she said “I just turned 17” so she’s tried to blag it 😬

    • @marciareid2482
      @marciareid2482 Рік тому +2

      I am not good in maths but I must be missing something. Six years ago she would be 17 ,,but you never know with these new generation things must have changed and I am too old to keep up

  • @tangerinefizz11
    @tangerinefizz11 Рік тому +11

    The truck driver couple is funny.

  • @thilde2337
    @thilde2337 Рік тому +10

    If I am being honest I find the large age gaps creepy. It just feels very much like fetishism, and the couples are not always at the same level due to the age difference.

  • @joanclawford8964
    @joanclawford8964 Рік тому +18

    Richard & Immy seem a very happy nice couple ... 😊

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 9 місяців тому +6

      Thankyou 🤗 that's very nice of you to say 👍🏼 happily, we're still together and even stronger after 13 happy years ☺️🤗💖

  • @yellowbird5411
    @yellowbird5411 Рік тому +7

    We come to this earth at different times. We are ageless spirits, and it is only the body that ages. So if we meet someone of any age that we truly love, the body is not a consideration if both parties want whatever time they can have together. They know they both won't grow old together, and that the younger one may turn into a caregiver or leave if it gets to be too much. They know what can happen. So they are happy right now, and right now is all anyone has anyway. When we go back where we came from, time doesn't matter.

  • @BobbieXxoo
    @BobbieXxoo Рік тому +29

    I don’t judge because that’s not my job but I do question Pat…. I wonder if Mark gets like a SSI check every month?

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Рік тому +2

      Either way, seems he's the one cooking and cleaning while she just watches.

    • @gingersmith2888
      @gingersmith2888 Рік тому +4

      He definitely has mental problems. Maybe not even capable of making a legal commitment like a marriage. The other couples may be outside of the norm, but Pat and Mark being together is sick.

  • @karmaleenash2841
    @karmaleenash2841 11 місяців тому +5

    Love comes in all shapes and sizes and ages. As long as both are adults, then it is nobody’s business but theirs. Why do people think they have any business judging who someone loves? As my grandmother used to say, mind your own business and hush. ❤

  • @chynaajade
    @chynaajade Рік тому +6

    When I was growing up my mother always told me to marry a man who was younger. She said that, because generally women live longer than men. I am not sure if I was influenced by her or not, but I have always liked younger men. I have noticed over the years, that alot of older men are grumpy. (not all, but alot of them are)

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 Рік тому +2

      Exactly, on average, women live five years longer, if you want to avoid being a widow for years marry a younger man!!

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen Рік тому

      So what

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 Рік тому +3

      @sadekHessen If you're not bothered by what either of us say, why bother to make your pointless statement? If you think being a widower of many years is something that appeals to you, good luck to you!

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen Рік тому +1

      @@charlottebruce979 but love is love
      No problem for women if she wants love

  • @rhondasworld9989
    @rhondasworld9989 Рік тому +20

    So Mark needed another mother 😮

  • @kittiesshortie5011
    @kittiesshortie5011 7 місяців тому +3

    “Mark hadn’t had a relationship…” because he’s developmentally delayed and she’s a serial marrier. She’s taking advantage of him !

  • @marijkeblake1256
    @marijkeblake1256 Рік тому +16

    Everyone should just do what makes them happy; who cares. Just because I don't understand it doesn't mean it's wrong!

  • @kerryhemans8019
    @kerryhemans8019 11 місяців тому +9

    The 'love you' in a child's voice, no, just no! 😂

  • @Kwd123
    @Kwd123 Рік тому +7

    ‘I’m 23, we’ve been together for 6 years… we met when I had just turned 19’. Umm… maths no make sense

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 Рік тому +15

    Yikes , “wont mind having children in the future just not with bob” 🤡😂😂😂😂

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 6 місяців тому

      Better have kids with him if she truly loves him. Kids will lose dad early, but knowing their parents loved each other would matter.
      On the other hand, Bob may well live another 20 years, and she'll be too old by then to get pregnant.

  • @Rebecca_Bailey
    @Rebecca_Bailey Рік тому +8

    Pat has been married before….8 times
    8 TIMES?!?

  • @tangerinefizz11
    @tangerinefizz11 Рік тому +6

    Richard and Immy are so cute!

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 9 місяців тому +2

      Thankyou 🤗 that's really sweet of you to say 🤗💖

  • @reginamushi6582
    @reginamushi6582 Рік тому +6

    Mandem says the triple warmy... religion, race, age gap, you forgot you are gay mate...some society still have a problem with it!

  • @rozdoyle8872
    @rozdoyle8872 Рік тому +6

    Pat has a Saviour Complex , Resucing some one in very dangerous because one day the resentment on both sides kicks in big time and both parties are too exhausted to admit it and too broken to leave.

  • @kiranightlee7291
    @kiranightlee7291 Рік тому +8

    It's not as significant as the age gaps here, but my husband is 13 years my senior and we just celebrated 5 years together. Hands down the best relationship I've ever been in. We met when I was 26 and he was 39. I would find and love him again no matter the age gap in any and every life time.

    • @maliabella
      @maliabella 11 місяців тому +3

      Wow! I have a similar story. We have a 12 age gap, I was 26 and he was 38 when we met. Happy to hear you guys are going strong! Us too ❤

    • @brandyw4285
      @brandyw4285 8 місяців тому

      Same age gap between me and my husband. I've always been drawn to older men. The oldest age gap for me was 20yrs. It's funny because when I first went out with the guy 20yrs. Older than me he subtracted 10 yrs. 😅

  • @cutechiangels
    @cutechiangels 9 місяців тому +5

    Omg, 9 husbands!!!! 😮
    I thought my gran was wild, with three. And she got remarried at 65. But, this woman is really wild!!
    Marriage is very expensive, emotionally draining in daily life, if not harmonious, and divorce can be even more !! Yikes...
    And she's not even really pretty nor a hollywood star!! 😂 Plus, I do find it scary, the parenting side of such this relationship. Which also can occur with no age gaps.

  • @rosshempsall1985
    @rosshempsall1985 Рік тому +4

    My husband is 15yrs younger than me I had five children and we married in 1096. After being married for so many years we are Still very much in love,have 6 grandchildren and have never regretted our decision

    • @katiecheung7993
      @katiecheung7993 Рік тому +12

      Wow! No argument, you must have the longest marriage in man kind's history - nearly one whole millennium, so far! 😂😂

    • @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642
      @stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642 Рік тому +3

      Guy must have the patience of a saint else selective hearing. A millenia of nagging is quite a thing!😂😂😂😂

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 10 місяців тому

      ​@@stopgotdamndeletingmycomme8642😂😂😂😂

  • @nicolelillis2077
    @nicolelillis2077 9 місяців тому +4

    I think Patricia is really taking advantage of Mark..She's been married eight times before and can't remember her ex-husband's names, that's a bad track record..Mark seems like he may have learning difficulties and Pat's obviously making sure she has a carer in her declining years..I also didn't need to see Bob's wrinkly bum flashing on the screen..🙄

  • @vickythefist7062
    @vickythefist7062 Рік тому +16

    Poor Bob and Kelly .they seem nice together. And Bob is thinking about her future . That's a really nice thing for him to do. He's thinking about her having babies and a family of her own. The saying if you love someone set them free comes to mind . He knows he's too old to have anymore kids with her . These are the things people don't think about when going into these relationships

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 6 місяців тому

      Yeah, but is she's supposed to wait until he croaks and he lives another 20 years, her window to conceive will be closed.

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 6 місяців тому

      *if

  • @TanyaKuhberg
    @TanyaKuhberg 4 місяці тому +2

    Why does the volume comes and go on these shows

  • @icebeargamingrobloxd981
    @icebeargamingrobloxd981 Рік тому +20

    Mark is a lot like my friends brother who is mentally not all the way up to his age … he was not born that way, blood was in his diaper mom rushed him to the hospital trusting that they was going to treat him accordingly, apparently they dehydrated the baby meaning not giving him fluids 3 days causing brain damage , parents sued the hospital and was granted a large sim but doesn’t even make up the damage that was done :( no amount can :( in any case he is now 44 and looks and talks exactly like mark but keoni had more “ fun side” to him meaning he laughed a lot a bit more playful but over all this guy reminds me a lot of him… ppl may think this woman is taking advantage, maybe she is in a way but honestly he wouldn’t be there with her if he didn’t want her.. he is an adult I would be lie hmmmm no if he was18 but 28 it’s whatever

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 Рік тому +3

      It seems like she is also a carer. So provided she is trustworthy (which she certainly appears to be) Mark would be benefitting.

    • @gigi9301
      @gigi9301 Рік тому +3

      She has been married eight times before; LOL for her wearing a white dress on the wedding day

    • @zoep.2891
      @zoep.2891 Рік тому +2

      If he is mentally disabled, his age doesn't matter. It should have been determined, if he is fit to make the decision to get married.

    • @samanthathompson9812
      @samanthathompson9812 Рік тому

      Quite a few people in these age gap videos seem intellectually challenged in some way.

  • @metalcatmom5891
    @metalcatmom5891 Рік тому +26

    My spouse and I only have an 8 year age gap. I can certainly relate to having many reasons our relationship shouldn't work. It just does. Seventeen years in, and we have the happiest marriage of anyone I know.

    • @Myraisins1
      @Myraisins1 Рік тому +7

      Eight years is not considered significant by any means.

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 Рік тому +3

      Me and my partner are 8 years apart, too, it's not really an age gap.

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 Рік тому +3

      An age gap is like 12 to 15 years at least.

    • @fitbyife
      @fitbyife Рік тому +2

      I don’t consider anything under 10 years as significant…

  • @marilynvallance
    @marilynvallance Рік тому +36

    If Richard doesn’t lose some weight he won’t be around for much longer.

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 9 місяців тому +1

      Well, guess what Marilyn? I did, once my steroid treatments had finished I easily managed to drop those extra kilos..
      Whilst we're into personal and not particularly pleasant comments, Marilyn, did you ever get around to the botox and fillers you were in need of? 💅🏼

    • @Jazzeroni.15
      @Jazzeroni.15 18 днів тому +1

      @@chadshillhahaha wrecked her ass, Richard! So happy you're both doing well ❤

  • @moniinnola
    @moniinnola Рік тому +12

    The cattle herding couple...that girl couldn't be more young and immature just based on her covnvo flow. He's old and severyly obese obvi taking advantage of that sitch. And hate to point this out but they are probably transporting cows for industrial farming and processing...this is a U.K. series but in the USA esp. up midwest north is where tons of industrial farms and plants are its effing terrible and gross, I've seen many on roadtrips tucked qlong back roads and esp. Near amish towns- so many documentaries on that too. Those poor cows were just probably scared being yelled at and shuttled into unfamiliar boxed in truck that isnt grass. Then having to stand up in that metal crammed for hours. Its a gross industry that I'll never supoort and what led me to be pescetarian😢

    • @StargazerLily82
      @StargazerLily82 Рік тому +5

      This got me all upset, too. She was clearly underage when they got together and those poor cows. You know they're all going to slaughter houses. Also how they hit them with the prods. I used to live in the Midwest and I would see those trucks all the time. They're so upsetting.

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 6 місяців тому +1

      @moniinnola Thanks for bringing this up. I don't eat beef or any mammals for the same reasons.

  • @Ali_ann3
    @Ali_ann3 Рік тому +12

    Omggggg don't know which is worse...Bob's bum or the tatt on his head 🤣🤣 good luck to em I say. Not sure about Pat n Mark tho...9 times married n can't remember the previous 8 hubbies names 🤔

    • @enidseddon5052
      @enidseddon5052 Рік тому

      That’s what she’s saying we don’t know how many times she’s been married she’s probably lying .shes probably been married twice .shes a nutter .

  • @clarea1801
    @clarea1801 10 місяців тому +2

    I once had about a three month fling with a guy who was 13 years younger, i was 38 and he was 25, it was fun whilst it lasted.

  • @shybuttafly
    @shybuttafly 11 місяців тому +7

    The math isnt adding up with Liz & Richard. She’s 23. She said they’d been married for a year and dating for 7. Which means she was 16. But then she said she met him when she was 19…NONE of that adds up at all!!!🧐🧐🧐

    • @dammar117
      @dammar117 6 місяців тому

      It's because being under age is so frowned upon in the US.
      I saw a lovely couple on a European talk show (much classier than this one). She was 17 and he 51 when they started dating, and they weren't ashamed about it. I think they had been together for 15 years by then. A 17-year-old female is not a child.

  • @rhondareiger7051
    @rhondareiger7051 9 місяців тому +4

    Mark may need a personal advocate.

  • @kristineo2926
    @kristineo2926 3 місяці тому +1

    Liz and Amber look like they could be sisters tho... Dating someone that looks exactly like your daughter, and same age is kind of.. gross..

  • @urmelausdemeis4743
    @urmelausdemeis4743 Рік тому +29

    I think that truck driver is quite annoying....

    • @museonfilm8919
      @museonfilm8919 Рік тому +13

      He loves himself, and says he has a great sense of humour.
      I beg to differ.

    • @katewolfspirit6722
      @katewolfspirit6722 Рік тому +15

      Seems like he doesn't give a crap about his wife, looks bored af.

    • @forgottenpalace4472
      @forgottenpalace4472 Рік тому

      He's thick as they come.

    • @lanigirl01
      @lanigirl01 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@katewolfspirit6722I agree.

  • @willsmith39
    @willsmith39 Рік тому +11

    I really liked yetwah ( spelling) and her "toy boy" as a couple until he did that non proposal proposal on her which was absolutely lousy.
    Asking someone to marry you out of the blue in front of their family and friends isn't a proposal at all it's emotional black mail. They can't say no without putting everyone involved through enormous embarrassment so it's about as far from a genuine gesture as I could imagine.
    Either he's really too thick to understanding that in which case she's best out of it or he absolutely saw that and that's why he did it - in which she's also best out of it.

  • @KJ-gc8oq
    @KJ-gc8oq Рік тому +6

    Richard and Immi and Bob and Kelly all seem well balanced, comfortable and genuinely happy and in love ❤

    • @chadshill
      @chadshill 9 місяців тому

      Thanks 🤗 we certainly were back then and certainly still are after 13 years together 😍💖

  • @paulinebeckett8222
    @paulinebeckett8222 Рік тому +6

    Pat Likes the taste of wedding cake😊

  • @kittiesshortie5011
    @kittiesshortie5011 7 місяців тому +1

    James and his family are classic examples of the wonders of NHS Dentistry!

  • @ionascumihaela
    @ionascumihaela Рік тому +11

    Great documentary, i am happy for them❤. Age is just a number when it comes on love.The only limitations are the ones you set for yourself.

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 Рік тому

      Age isn't just a number, pedophiles use that excuse. Age gap love is appropriate when there are two consenting adults whose mental capacities and values align.

  • @caroline8733
    @caroline8733 Рік тому +3

    Hahah I love the cattle lady!! Top banter

    • @maroulio2067
      @maroulio2067 8 місяців тому +1

      she is adorable- I hope she is doing well