Predators on Holiday: Holiday Love Rats - Episode 3 | A True Story
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- Опубліковано 18 гру 2022
- This engaging three-part documentary series tells the stories of the women who have been promised eternal love, but have ended up handing over thousands of pounds and being left broken hearted by holiday love rats. Each episode includes the stories of four different women and is self contained.
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Back in the 80s I worked with a middle-aged single woman who was left a nice sum of money by her grandma. She took herself off to St Lucia for her first ever overseas holiday where she was wooed by one of the 20-something hotel waiters. When she came back to the UK totally believing she was in love we all warned her to be careful. She ignored us and the advice of her bank manager. She fell for every line this man (who turned out to be married with children and a wife who was in on the scam) spun her and the last we heard the "love of her life" had taken her for every penny and she couldn't even afford a flight home. Any middle-aged woman who goes to a foreign country and thinks she's "pulled" a good looking young local is totally deluded.
Right out of the “Scammers Classics” book
Yes, but not always 💕
Right?! Just have a good time while you're over there then say "Bye Felipe / Fuad / Femi / Fyodor 👋" get on the plane and don't look back 🤣
@@sasskvetch8617 what about STDs, especially AIDS? Nope no thanks, yuck!
st lucia i c them those lazy men hving sex with women for money
When a man askes a woman for money, run. If your husband changes demeanor the day after the wedding, get an annulment immediately.
It wouldnt be so bad if it was the truth and was the womans choice to help - anything other than that - then yes run fast!
THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I DID 23 YEARS AGO.
@@shawnmayer7849 what - run away? lol
@@randomdazz got an annulment
Exactly. Like from the man came up to my face I would be gone much less a beaten 😢
I met a guy from a dating sight. We texted back and forth for about a month. When we finally met in person for a drink he said "im a little short on cash right now." I bought us each a beer, excused myself to go to the bathroom, left, and never looked back. Once a man reguests money its time to bail.
Or a woman. Same thing happened to my brother. Grifting is gross.
i’m (57) old now but i sincerely _(would like to)🤞🏻_ believe that i’d have done the same thing way back when! Anyway just wanted to make sure that you receive at least one well deserved 🎉ATTA GIRL!🥳 So i guess i’m just ASSuming that you’re young - you sounded young. Not that it matters a whit! 🏆Congrats are in order at any age! 🙌🏼 .. since you kids simply insist on meeting via the lying deceiving internet where anyone can tell you anything🥸.. _i’m so glad_ _that you met him in a_ _crowded place._
GOOD LUCK OUT
THERE! 🤟🏻🕊️💕
Ladies..please wake up!! If your lonely please give a shelter dog a home. You will be rewarded with unconditional love 💕
They don't want that. They want their fairy tale.
I disagree. Cats are much better! ;-0~
I did get a dog. Men always either tried to use or abuse me I gave up on them years ago. I was never sad enough to fall for any of it.
@@annstillwell730dogs are good loyal friends too
There are far worse things than being alone. Being bled for money by a romance scammer &/or beaten by a man who runs out on you owing money for his debts? Yeah, I am happy alone.
@Gleeful Me Well, many couples are alone together, which is the absolute worst. I guess the fear of being alone makes people do crazy things. The truth is loneliness is a problem but being alone and enjoying one's company is actually the absolute best...
Me too of he had that bodyhair 🤢
@@euv7243 or it's hard & scary to end a 10+y relationsship..
fear of the unknown drives people more
@@ingridakerblom7577 That's because most women end up losing themselves in those relationships. They totally lose track of who they used to be and when those relationships end, they're lost. It doesn't make sense. A relationship is about sharing not about becoming weaker or becoming someone else. When a relationship ends, you should be able to pick up where you left off and move forward
I ‘d rader be alone then being an ATM and a boxing bal
That woman doesn’t seem to accept the fact that she decided to bring a complete stranger into her kids lives and put his needs before theirs.I’d say the kids were the victims in that relationship
Situationship.
Well said
Agreed
Yes, they seem to both live with their dad now.
Thank you. Glad someone said this. Exactly what I thought. She's plays the victim but her kids lost a childhood
I’m a bank manager and am absolutely flabbergasted by what I regularly see happen to good-hearted yet naive folks. Oh and Tracy going back for round 2? Dear lord woman, don’t be daft!
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Tracy is addicted to the attention she gets over there. She knows it a scam but she likes feeling wanted
Agree with you 100%
Yes, she is delusional, the second guy did not asked anything yet, but he will. She is a lost soul, so sad.
Omg! Tracy!!! Ya silly. Staaaaaaahp!
It's interesting that the men who all look average are described by the women as INCREDIBLY HANDSOME
Now she's seriously wondering if a man from the Gambia can be tracked down to help pay off her debts. it's beyond sad. The stupidity.
Agree, where does personal accountability factor in? These woman have no common sense, are making extremely poor decisions and need counseling.
I don’t think they even think of the danger they out themselves in - the STDs etc
Stupidity. That's the word!
@@TheAshMcG No tienen solución, la estupidezes innata.
She spent more on air fare & lawyers than she could ever get back. She should try to get back her dignity. Period.
It’s okay being single. It’s a true gift when you can be alone with yourself. Those who fly single have the strongest wings ❤
How right you are.
Absolutely agree with you! I have never needed a man to survive. I know my worth and will never settle for 2nd best.
This is a lovely comment, women like me often need this reminder ❤
Yes True I travel solo I don't fall in the trap .I don't need a man to take care of me no thanks I'm better off away from all this scambag .I gave him.nothing .00 he can take a hike to the moon don't come back .
@@mariajiml9895 right on!!!
Man says he’s terrible with money and can’t pay his rent. He’s a keeper!!! 😂
OMG, I cannot believe it, Tracy is repeating the same fatal mistake . It's really a no brainer 😢
She’s delusional
Its getting Sex and Company for years Cheap i think...dont get it.
Just in that pic alone he's going to pull the same thing as the other guy did. From the same country. I'd rather be alone.
Once you go Turkish you can't go back again😂😂
There's no cure for stupidity
I’m 60 years old and briefly tried internet dating after my divorce from an abusive husband about 15 years ago. After being raped by one of the men I met, I gave up. I’m lonely but no longer afraid. Me and my little dog will be just fine. Ladies, don’t be afraid to be your own best friend.
Oh my.... horrible!!! So sorry!
Hope all is well now and your happy . God speed
I am so sorry, you deserve so much better. I have reported the creep who wanted to be "friends".
@@sylviekins im thick skinned... andnot available :)
Trying to draw nearer to God then He will draw nearer to me. BIBLE
Anytime a man asks for money it’s a red flag moment. Excuse yourself to powder your nose and go straight out the back door. Pack your bags and leave. If you are in a place where you can’t leave simply reply and say, “Actually, I’m broke and was just going to ask you for money.” You will be surprised how fast they leave.
Yes. Or say you owe money. Its not a lie if you have a credit card.
Exactly but guage the situation really well before reacting, listen to your instincts. If you are abroad and aren't familiar with the place, make sure you can leave safely.
Ha ha🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha, absolutely!
🤣🙄👍
Annemarie is lucky her kids even want to know her after what she put them through with that monster.
Why you say that? She didn't abandon or abuse kids.
There is NO excuse to ever put a man before your children 😢
......children come first
"Aziz is TOTALLY different....he can't do enough for me........he's never asked me for money.........." Oh Tracy - did you learn nothing???
What a ridiculous woman Tracey is.
I agree. She must be a complete idiot. Falling again for a much younger man... ffs. She has no "brains" at all.
The answer is : No🤣
Poor things, she is still hoping and searching for real love… So naive…
She's a predator, nothing cute or innocent about that.
I feel so sad and disappointed with Ann Marie putting her children through that turmoil.
I feel bad for the kids, she put a evil man before her own blood.
The D makes you do crazy things
The only thing we can do to avoid these scammers is to be honest with ourselves. If you're that old, wrinkled, can no longer bear a child, someone who's in their early nor late 20s would never wanna be with you. Fight delusions.
I agree. These women are too old to fall for this. Talk about old enough to know better!!!!
Well said.
Get a dog, you can trust them.
They all were foolish to some degree or another but when I saw that Tracy had another younger man in tow the old saying "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me" comes to mind.
Funny…..am still with him too, proving they are not all the same!
@@tracylockett6492 I hope you are. But these men, most of them treat women with less respect than their animal’s. Hopefully it stay’s good for you & if not you have no one too blame but yourself dear!
@@tracylockett6492 wait till you marry him. Things will change, he's just better at the game. I wish you could of learned the first time.
@@tracylockett6492👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@raynadixson8010 this was made in around 2014
I've been to Turkey, Morocco, Tunisia and Egypt. I'm in my 50's yet the young men that are 'attracted' to me are uncountable. If I didnt realise that there is a motive behind the attraction, I could easily have my choice of a young man. When it first happened I would talk and laugh with them then walk away. I have now developed a certain look that deters them from even approaching me. How any older woman can fall for these men is beyond my comprehension. Yes, some are handsome, but that makes it even more doubtful as to why they would be attracted to me. Ive watched them. When they get nowhere with me, they move on to the next middle aged women in the hope they find someone guillible enough to fall for them. I suppose it could take a while, but eventually it works, as these programmes show.
Hi Pat
Pat Bradley
Me too...I've been to Turkey, Morocco, Tunisia and Egypt. I'm in my 60's; and Yeah ! I ve also developed that LOOK....like you
They get it!
Certain Look. I Love That Sweetheart 😂🤣😅😆😁
😠😡The Look. = F...K OFF😂🤣😅😆
18:28. So that's what she wanted all along: to be whipped by a black African man.
What is the look? A “don’t mess with me” hardness in your eyes?
He couldn’t afford a ticket home??? That’s when you leave and change your number!! 🤦🏻♀️
Tracy just didn’t learn her lesson, she’s onto another one! 🤦🏻♀️
Please know that being alone is probably the most precious gift of all - may all understand the bliss of being alone!
Being alone is definitely a lot better than being deceived and used.
Well being happily in love is a precious gift, being alone is just fine.
I find it terribly disturbing that these women had these criminals around their children..fffing crazy
The fact that many of these relationships only ended because those MEN wanted to. Otherwise these women would have stayed with them. Yikes! The lack of self respect.
Those men never wanted the real relationships to begin with.
All they wanted was the money, and they got what they wanted.
Sadly, these women were completely blinded by their own emotions and fantasies.
Exactly, they'd still be with these men if the men never left. Absolutely shocking.
All of these women lack self respect and must have not received the love they needed as children.
Some women were very unhappy in the marriage…. Immidiatly after the marriage the women were very disappointed about his behavior… he was seldom at home, the women never got gifts, he never gave money for rent/electricity, he did not show any respect….. and then they cried when he left. Unbelievable.
It's pretty dumb to go abroad, get involved with someone 75 years younger than you, marry him, pay for all the paperwork needed for him to gain the right to be in your country only to have him runaway (usually to a woman his age) and THEN expect your government to clean up the fallout from choices you made ALL BY YOURSELF.
I am single and loving every minute of it. The only person I have to answer to is myself. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone.
It's so sad how gullible people are - especially in an age where there's so much information about scams and catfishing online. Let's be honest, I'm 56 (and look younger than some of these women on the programme) yet if some tall, dark, handsome guy 20+ years my junior approached me, I would realize straight away that it's not me he wants but what I can provide him with materially
Remember tho, ten years ago there wasn’t as much awareness about the scams, mobile phones weren’t as good etc.. this series is 10 or 12 years old, but that aside, yes how do you fall for these oily creeps
I guess in some cases common sense gets bypassed, it's sad how these people manage to prey on vulnerable others
As Margo said, this is an old series. However, as long as there are women (and men,) out there that don't fulfil what is missing for themselves, there will always be predators.
@@margorhys-jones6400 trust me. It was well known about 10+ years ago 😂😅
@@margorhys-jones6400 Margo...I Don t need a sophisticated phone And infos to understand, that IT Is insane to start a relationship with thé boy 20+ years younger than mě. Common sense...please...
The guy beat you with a belt but the relationship lasted 5 YEARS!!! WTF !!!! Is wrong with these poor women!!!
It isn't as easy to leave as people think. What should she do? Leave with two children in tow and be homeless while he has the house? He won't leave just because she asks him to.
@@abee2685 What a load of crap. These days there are so many more options the abused can use - especially for women. Get help from the authorities, family, friends or stay and suffer while your poor children look on helplessly ? I know which option I would choose. 🙆🏽
@@abee2685 YES ! Leave immediately put your kids first. There’s plenty of social services in the UK, she would not have been homeless .
@@tantalize5795 have you been there?
@@abee2685 Yesss Ma'am and we fled overseas away from his abusive functioning drunkard ass after throwing him out having had enough of him. It took me two miserable years (sometimes there were good times) to decide that enough was enough. My uncles got onto him as well, so I have indeed been there AND made the choice that was best for the children. As for the scammed part, people have tried unsuccessfully but only for money. Women need to stop the victim mentality and save themselves - just like myself and others that were in the same recycled boat. I hope you understand - it's not as difficult as we are lead to believe especially in the Western world. 😉🤗
This is what a severe lack of self esteem and a fear of being alone can lead to.
Be warned.
The best comment! 👍👍👍
This isn't fear of being alone, this is stupidity... plain and simple!🙄
These stories blow my mind. There could not have been more red flags if these mean had been wearing clothes made out of red flags.
Tracy - "There's no harm in being cautious"
Also Tracy - "Aziz is totally different....."
No lesson learned there.
She said herself after the first debacle everyone thinks they're situation is different... Oh my
The part when she says "he gives me..." then paused as she couldn't think of anything he's given her except a rogering😅
@@givemeabreak100 I’m not so sure she gets even that unless the men have fantastic imaginations if you get my gist 😑 It’s strange why she went seeking a Kurd on a romance group on Facebook when she lives in Manchester. Who wants to fly 2500 miles for a date when you can’t really afford it? She said he was cute looking but besides looking dead suspect sat on that bench when she was filing him, he reminded me of Herman Munster🫣 I know she’s not a looker either but why couldn’t she date a fugly in Manchester and hop on a bus to meet up?
@@Herbert-ym4iz 🤣 😂
If a man asked me for money..I’d laugh so hard at how pathetic they are. Maybe that’s why it’s never happened.
*HIFIVE*!!!
Me too 😂😂
Right on cause you have common sense!
@@carolgeorgeson9632 not always to do with common sense.
Me too lol
These men looked for women for money. Period.
A guy online asked me to ship him a certain type laptop while he was reportedly on a business trip in Africa because his laptop had been compromised. I looked up the nearest place to the hotel he was reportedly staying where he could purchase the laptop and sent him the sddress. I told him I lived on a budget and a laptop was not in my budget. 😂
You chose....wisely!
😩🤣🤣
Did you ever hear from him again?
No most women never dream of marrying someone who contributes absolutely nothing to the relationship. How does this make anyone feel special?
I’m Swedish and lived in Istanbul for 9 years. I was constantly pursued by creeps, but also met some very nice guys - a pilot, a marine engineer, a professional interpreter - who I am still in touch with 7 or 8 years later. They were all younger than me (Turkish men age terribly, both on the outside and in their minds)but I never paid for so much as a cup of tea for them. Either they paid, or we went 50/50. The key here is education and background - they need to have a university education from a good university and must have lived abroad, in a Western country, and be from a modern, liberal family with educated parents. Otherwise it will never work. And if the guy is Kurdish, like the first one in this film, or a villager, like the second, forget it - it’s doomed from the start. He will only be in it for sex and money, as both are pretty much inaccessible to him. I wish these women had some awareness of cultural differences!! For one thing, a Turkish or Kurdish man would never in a million years ask a woman from his own country for money - the man is the provider, and a local girl would laugh in his face if he tried to get her to pay for anything, even a tea.
all the men from turkey in this programme are Kurds. As I'm sure you already know life is difficult in turkey people can't even afford to buy a loaf of bread at times. but you're right a real Turk, or Kurd would never ask for a penny as it's too shameful for them to do so. however like I've stated many times in the video comment section these men are Kurds and there's a big difference culturally. they are usually very conservative and they have it the hardest in turkey.
@@leehyrdi6733 We have tens of thousands of Kurds in Sweden as they were given a free pass in the 80s, and the men cause endless problems in our society, mainly from mistreating or killing their wives or daughters 😣 And yes, the last guy (Aziz) was of course Kurdish too. What on Earth was she thinking - getting involved with another poor, conservative man??
@@mariawerner8447 yeah and more than likely they always have a bride waiting on the side lines, some one from their clan, who has the same beliefs and customs.
@@leehyrdi6733 Of course! Western women are just ATM’s to them
Education is key
I almost felt sympathy for these ladies until Tracey popped up with another Turkish, younger than her man, who said he thinks he was married???? Stupidity must run deep in her family.
indeed
" Two things are limitless, the universe and human stupidity" Einstein...
9:36 makes me think the whole time they where visiting his family and she can't speak the language, how many times they were talking about her being his wallet and sugar momma and going to support the whole family right in front of her. I guarantee that they had conversations about her while they were in the same room as her and she's just sitting there smiling away....
I thought that too. SO awful I feel terrible for her
😂😂😂😂 well said lmao some people are just stupid what can I say…
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Exactly, sugar mamas is what they are.
@@JJ-wh3rh stupid is what they are...!
The only thing this has taught me is that it's so important to love yourself. If you truly love yourself, then it won't leave you open to getting scammed out if your money.
So very true...
No love God and through love of God respect yourself. He has a lot to say about marriage, relationships, emotional maturity and discernment. Every answer for our lives is in the Bible. We just need to read it. ✝️🙏 I pray for anyone who isn't saved and not walking/living the life He has called us to live.
In the 90is I used to spend my holidays in Kenya. Without self esteem you are lost in this country. I asked the first guy who wooed about me, how much he can pay, because I charge by hour. He vanished quickly and nobody at this beach bothered me again. 🤣
Lmao
😂😂😂😂
I love being alone - its fantastic.
These women meant so little in these men’s minds, they were lucky that money is all they lost. It could have been so much worse. 😢
They meant nothing, indeed they are lucky to still survive this abuse.
Yes. They Could Get Hurt or Else. BIG TIME
Welcome to a mans world. Modern women do far much more gold digging than men in this clown world we live in.
@@PB22559 yes it goes both ways. Lots of vile women out there using up men too. 😢 I was just speaking to the subjects of this particular program...
They paid for sex, who is crying for a ”John” losing money, they are not victims, they are crazy.
Once I was holidaying with a friend in Israel we spent most of our time trying to avoid the scores of predatory men with their disgusting pick up lines... Will never understand the attraction, I'd rather be single and have self respect 💜🦋
In Israel??? They must have been Arab Israelis.
@@blondecat666 why?? ?? They jewish are just the same. Talking from experience.
So true. Happens in Morocco and Turkey and Egypt. We are followed because we are white and therefore may be able to get them a visa or give them money.
Why do these foolish women think they are wanted for their looks and personality ?? All white women are besieged upon in places like that
@@blondecat666 no I had one young Israeli man ask me if I wanted to suck his big hard Jewish.... Need I go on? Every nationality has its predators. I was hit on by Arab guys too 🙄
@@desthomas3020 yeah they were of all nationalities 🙄
I knew Tracy was going back to Turkey for a reason other than the money and I figured it was about another man. There's no fool like an old fool.
My mother fell for a Tunisian scammer. I kept warning her for over a year and had multiple arguments over it, and then she decided to go on holiday to visit him, and got married the first time meeting him. It was only when he started asking her for money repeatedly with every reason and excuse under the sun she started realising what was going on. Never respond to a random foreigner messaging you Hi on a social app, it's usually bad news and they're fishing for vulnerable people to take advantage of to get a visa to work in a richer country for a better life for themselves and their family back home.
@SoulCasket , I am from Thailand but living in Germany well I went to Tunisia serveral times as a tourist since 2011 , I knew what kind of young men there are looking for foreigners woman😂 of course financial support for whole family, open business for them , buy car or motorcycle of course will never enough for them if you deny them then they would said these woman aren't good , lying, bha bha just stay away from them especially city name. Sabitla
I see old British women going to The Gambia and Tunisia for sex tourism. Nobody talks about that.
I hope your mother is doing ok ❤️
Women subconsciously put themselves around the environments of the race and type of men that they are naturally attracted too. So if your mom sister or friend keeps insisting on holidays to certain areas of the world or town that are predominantly one type of culture. It’s because she is looking for a partner from that race.
Nothing wrong with being single. I rather be alone than support someone like that. I already have a kid. I don't need to support a grown ass man.
Nothing wrong with wanting to have Companionship either. It's natural.
@@SonjaElizabethTeal Those men do not really want companionship. They want a gullible, apparently rich foreign woman in order to be able to get a visa to the UK. Once they arrive in the UK, they disappear from their new wives' lives. Who knows whether they were already married before marrying those foreign women, i.e., not marrying those foreign women bigamously?
@@SonjaElizabethTeal pause and digest her comment in context - you'll learn something
Children needs fathers in their lives too
@@piaxgft5799 great response :), people just respond for the sake of arguing without full comprehension of what was said.
I can advice western women once and for all. I am Kenyan 🇰🇪and culturally, men dont marry older women. It's not the norm anywhere is Africa for a young man to marry a woman twice his age. It happens once in a while but mostly for money or other status and never for love. Even here in Africa, younger men don't normally marry older women. At least never openly. So .....
The other thing, how men treat women in marriage in Africa is a world apart from Europe or the West. Very different.
That said let's use alittle common sense. Marriage is not easy even with someone of the same culture or around age group. What do you expect when it's two people ages apart, different cultures, miles apart, different economic statuses etc? Surely...at the very least, have a smaller age gap and experience divide if nothing else. Reduce the number of factors that are not common.
How does a 40-year old woman fall for the bull dished out by a man half her age? And someone who struggles to pay his rent and then wants to move in and she thinks it’s a mutual arrangement? Was she stupid? Or just desperate? All these older women falling for losers! They really do deserve all the misery.
Very true. I'm also from Africa and age gap relationships especially involving older women are frowned upon.
It rarely happens here in the US too. You see it but it’s not common. Mostly it’s old men marrying younger women who want their money.
Thank you, you have said exactly what I’ve been saying. But will these older women listen..? Noooo..! They think they have found a catch in a younger man..especially one from different cultures/countries..!! Wow..!
Also these white women think they are so special not realising that they're just a meal ticket!
Tracey says “ these men should not be allowed to get away with it “ but everyone has free will. Tracey, you made a bad choice, that’s your fault, you can’t punish others for your bad decisions, we all have lessons to learn in life, how many scams will it take for you to look at yourself and ask, “ why do I feel this is all I’m worth “, if someone is asking for your money, proposing straight away, overly keen, just run as fast as you can. Give yourself a chance to meet someone genuine
Aside from big cultural and financial differences, what can anyone expect from a relationship with someone who could be your child?
The thought of an equal and respectful relationship is ludicrous... Sure, there may be rare exceptions, but being surprised by the results of these kinds of unions is ridiculous.
No sympathy for Ann Marie. She put her kids through so much and left them without for a stranger
Can you imagine…that guy could have been a rapist, murderer and you gonna entrust some stranger with your children. What’s wrong with these women
I feel so sorry for her kids. Such a desperate and selfish POS.
Totally agree with you.
Agree, she put a man over her own blood, disgusting.
She made a mistake... have a little mercy on her, she's been through enough...
They are flattered by the attentions of a younger man and become deluded and act like silly teenagers, ridiculous women
Anyone who jumps into a lake where there may be alligators lurking is looking for danger. These women went eyes wide open into dangerous relationships. No pity.
We need an update on Tracy and her new man .she didn't learn 😂😭😂😭😂
Sorry to see that Tracy fell for another one at the end. Some people never learn.
Yep, another hearybreak and devastation waitin to happen. Ofcourse he is showing her all the good side him, for now. But waut till they are married. Some people never learn.
Tracy is an attention seeker she loves the attention at the market from all them men she'll never learn coz she don't want to she needs her ego constantly fed and i have zero sympathy for her or any of them
😂 Tracey will be back on this show on the future 😂😂😂😂
Not sorry. She got what she payed for the first time so she came for seconds!
How thick can one woman be , no sympathy for her whatsoever !!
The neighbour who said that her hubby had been offered 100k for her , gave me a giggle . Those men tried to scam her hubby too! 🤣🤣 If they had a 100k , they wouldn’t want her , for money and a passport !
She was confused it was probably 100p 🤣😂
@@patrickstarnes2355 lmao
@@patrickstarnes2355 Brilliant comment! 😂😂😂😂😂
I think they thought that they would be paid to ''take care of here needs'' as hubby probably looked very uninterested to say the least....
😂😂😂 I was thinking the same
Just purchase a Vibrator !! They are pretty advanced now days, will get the job done and it will save you a lot of money / heartache !
The problem is people need to get over the notion that being alone is a negative state of existence.
Oftentimes, being alone is a lot better than being in struggle love, abuse, lying, cheating, scamming etc.
I have a hard time believing that a person who truly loves themselves would allow themselves to get scammed in such a way all for the sake of “love”.
The word love is overused and none of these situations embodied the concept of love.
Get a hobby , do things that you love and in time you will meet someone that you have things in common with.
What exactly does a 41 year old woman have in common with a 21 year old man? Men mature much slower , so essentially she’s his mother and probably having to speak to him as her child.
It’s just as creepy in the reverse with older men and younger women, the only difference is that younger woman has a higher probability of being a tad bit more mature than the younger male situation.
Just be honest and say you wanted a “play thing” who was younger because there’s no flipping way you wanted a mutually exclusive relationship with someone 20 years your junior.
Brilliant! Said it all. I lost my partner 15 years after a happy 30 year relationship. I love my solo life now though, and I have been hit on by scammers more time than I can count. You can smell them a mile off. there is one I rather like, who may or may Not be a scammer, but No way is it going anywhere. 20 year age difference, totally different cultures and religions; we have a spark, but there is never going to be a flame. They played an interesting move, by telling me they weren't interested in a relationship, and got wrong footed when I said 'Great, neither am I! Lets, face it, I am old enough to be your parent, you could still be out there having a family, I am old and fat, you have a good job, why on earth would you want me? Let's leave it, shall we?' I got told that actually this person finds old and fat attractive, and likes my mind. Their age group does not have my knowledge or experience. Yeah, right! Actually, I don't think this person is a scammer, but they are not getting the chance! All it takes is self awareness.
My dad is Turkish and from Istanbul- although he is a good man, I can't begin to tell you how the cultural differences between my mother and him caused soooo many issues. People need to understand that the behavior you see during the period of courtship is not reality. It will change immediately after marriage, as the story here illustrates...know what you're getting into. Research the culture, don't be blinded by love...
Married with a turkish guy here. Boy are you right!! We are still going strong but .... so many issues
@@francescadantonio1173 believe me, I totally understand. My dad was/is very charming, handsome, intelligent etc. But, as I mentioned, and you're experiencing, the cultural differences caused huge issues. After many years of marriage, I saw my mom lose herself in a way, some of her spark and vibrance dimmed and she became almost subservient just to maintain the peace. Women in middle eastern countries are treated as less, unfortunately...expected to strictly obey and honor their husbands in every way, shape and form. This is not to say that they have a horrible marriage, but there was much more compromising, etc on my mom's part than his. I think that if you both have genuine love for one another, you'll be able to muddle through the difficult times. I wish you all the best
@Danny Al I most certainly did not imply he was as you so eloquently put it, "fucked up" what I said was that the cultural differences caused issues. And idk wtf you're talking about referring to my "naked mother"- idiot. And to make a generalization that all turks are worthless heroine addicts, who are "scummy" just further illustrates the depth of your ignorance. My father was a well educated, kind man. A mechanical/nuclear engineer. Far from being a scuzzy heroine addict. Get a grip.
@Danny Al We've been married for 15 years now, tough at times but thank God no abuse, just pure cultural differences. He's a good man, has a good job and provides for all of us. I am free to go out with friends or collegues, go on weekend getaways with my friend, all the things I would do if I was married with a man from my home country, still there are lot of compromises that were put into it, even more with kids. But if there wasn't love and respect, we wouldn't be here.
It’s not just cultural differences, but also religious. Majority of Turks are Muslim. In the Muslim religion, women are more reserved
OMG, she's been scammed once and now she's in another romance with someone else!!!! You will be bled dry again lady I can assure you of that. Just cos he's not asking for money doesn't mean he won't in the future and I suppose he'll want a UK passport .
Did she just called him kiddo? N d way they kissed n greet is so awkward.... i think she will b ripped... again.
Once bitten twice shy not in this case! Let's just hope she doesn't regret it and it is authentic.
UK passport, dump her, marry someone from his community.
Indeed
He cringed when she pulled him in for a kiss...yuk....
the one who got beat with a belt, are you crazy trying to find him???? be lucky you got away with your life!!!!
I do feel for these women, feeling lonely is a terrible thing, but you always have to ask yourself if something sounds to good to be true it usually is.
See? I married at 36 and lived a debauched crazy life beforehand. I traveled the world and met so many of these kinds of men. They would send my bottles of champagne and huge bunches of flowers. They would speak in flowery lines. It meant nothing and now that I am older it would mean less.
Good for u. U are savy
Actually, that kind of behavior is nauseating and overbearing to me. Overt flattery to me is a huge red flag!
@@debrap947 love bombing, instant red flag
@@debrap947you totally missed her point…..she was well aware of their agenda…she let them wine and dine her and as soon as they asked for money she was off lol
Love it. 💓
So she gave her 21 year old husband all her money and couldn’t buy her kids school uniform! Shame on her! She chose this and should be ashamed of herself!
I'm sure she is, but you'd like her to be punished JUST a bit more, wouldn't you? 😒
@@RM-ti8nf I am questioning her priorities to be honest because they clearly weren’t her children!
@@Amy-rm5lh oh I didn't realize they were questions- couldn't see a question mark, just exclamation points.
And yes, I'm sure she realizes all that you want to demonize her for, but feel free to continue to hammer on about it if it makes you feel better/superior.
@@RM-ti8nfDon’t be such an idiot ….these women deserve what ever they get …unbelievable stupidity on their part and they want sympathy…
Hard to believe …the level of stupidity..of these women …..
These ppl are victims of their own choices and desperation…Some of these stories are unreal 😂😂😂
It’s hard to feel sorry for any of these women, but especially Anne Marie. She’s lucky her boy toy didn’t hurt (or worse) her kids. I’m sure they’re scarred for life as it is.
She's spending tons of money trying to get two thousand pounds back? 🤔
I’d be grateful that’s all it was
I did actually get more than what was owed back, but not from that sorry piece of filth…newspapers/magazines etc and a measly £300 back in 2014 for this piece….dirty cash, so donated the lot to charity. £2k was and still is peanuts to me
@@tracylockett6492 well done for pursuing it and not letting it go! You said from the start it was the principle for you. It’s easy to judge from the outside. I’m sick of the victim blaming here. It’s the men that are at fault, yet again it’s the women who are being scorned.
@@tracylockett6492 Did you get married to the young Turkish guy in the end of this video?
@@tracylockett6492 I would also like to know if you’re still with that Turkish at the end and are you married to him?
They know how to prey on vulnerable women . If someone told me he loved me after a few days , I would be running !
I am constantly astonished at the gullibility of some adult women. Alarm bells should ring loudly the second a man in a new relationship asks you for money, or in fact when a man young enough to be your son starts hitting on you in (or from) a foreign land.
He beat her with a belt buckle and she stayed with him and continued to support him. That’s not irrational, it’s mental illness.
I was in Turkey and Tunisia with my grown daughter, and we actually hated it how we kept being harassed, we just wanted to enjoy ourselves, not constantly having guys trying to hit on you, and it’s obvious to myself AND my daughter what there after!
P.s. Taher probably never was a lawyer , all those Egyptians say there Doctors, Engineers, lawyers etc, and usually say they need to move out of Egypt so they can get work!
And why didn’t the women whose men were living in U.K., threaten them with immigration?? Ann Marie’s guy stayed with her 5 yrs for money and probably had his U.K. citizenship by then!
Majority of these guys are professional hustlers!
And now all these rocket scientists are coming to Germany...
In Egypt a pharmacist call themselves Doctors. One such doctor was called Dr. Shady. He gave me his card. Can you believe that. Dr Shady. Lol
My motto…”If it’s too good to be true, most likely it’s false!” Predators are always on the hunt! Prayers for all affected 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I honestly believe the predators in this situation are the women. I see all the time old men get swindled by young asian girls. I don't understand why we view the situation differently? These women are praying on men half their age
People also tried to marry me for a "green card" but luckily did not materialize. It is so sad these ladies were being used for visas.
I’m shaking my head at Annmarie. She is lucky she escaped with her life & now she wants to track Omar down to help cover the debt she says she was coerced to take out?! She put her children through so much. She’s lucky they still speak to her. How can these old women be so foolish?! Where is the wisdom of age? They also don’t have a mirror! I have a suggestion, *get a dog!* SMH! 🇨🇦
It's so sad to hear what these women had to endure. I have been single for a few years now and let me tell you, I have never been happier.
MY DAUGHTER WORKED IN TURKEY.......THE MEN WERE
RELENTLESS AND PREDATORY,LIARS AND CHEATS.They are users!!
Ladies take care.,wake up!!
Same!!
We have limited time-no time for others who abuse your time and money.
They didn't have to endure anything! They put themselves in that position and they are all mature enough to know better!White women believe that they are so special but they're largely seen as meal tickets to these men and everyone knows it how come they don't get it!
?!
I’m single too - not gonna lie, I want a relationship. But I would never settle for a money leech, I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life.
When I was 32, I met a guy who was 20. We had a bit of a fling. Then he asked to ‘borrow’ £60. I didn’t fancy him anymore after that because he’s clearly a loser 😂 He tried to contact me a while later and I ignored him because the asking for money thing put me off him. He’s pathetic. These women are so gullible. How can they be attracted to a man who asks for money. Men are supposed to provide. It’s biological.
Many would call you sexist and out of touch with the times. I call you honest and 100% correct. 💯
I agree!
"Men are supposed to provide. It’s biological" ... Utter nonsense.. Grown women can also provide for themselves, Why is it a mans job to look after you? Long gone are the days when women couldn't work, so their husbands HAD to provide for them. Times have changed, you can go out and get a job and support yourself now.
@@republic_of_kyle Many would be right.. She IS sexist and out of touch with the times.
@@jayceechick Good to know. Hey, can I borrow 50 bucks? 😬
I don't believe the one rat was even a lawyer. How can a lawyer get fired for being one unless he did something horrible causing him to lose his ability to practice.
A lawyer would have had savings to fall back on. He wouldn’t need to take money off a girlfriend.
Exactly my thoughts. Nor was the other guy in the pic. all dressed up in a white lab coat with a clipboard, a medical technician. Staged photo.
you have never been to turkey and dealt with a turkish lawyer then i have and they are all corrupt ,the whole country is totally corrupt ,foreigners in turkey are just treated as money machines ,i lived there for 5 years and saw lots of women like these ,every other week getting taken for a ride ,and at the time the women are all smiles with their young lovers ,who do not have a penny to their names ,,on a daily basis a wedding to a westener takes place all paid for by the woman ,,,
Lol you're right staged.
EXACTLY!!
Never trust a man who treats you like an ATM
The very first time he hit you was all you needed to know he was wrong for you.
Run for the hills x
Five years depressed after the young husband taking off when he received his passport. Your worth more than that. These are players of the highest order. When a very young man wants a much older woman beware. I wish these women well, love yourself ❤
This is so sad. This is concerning, and I confirmed to stay single, regardless messing with a man in the states or afar; I rather be alone. Thank you ladies in this documentary for your transparency.
Any middle aged woman (especially westerns) or even seniors believing an attractive young man is in for the love has herself to blame. Men don’t date women way older than them except for money. There might be cases wherein a young man genuinely fell in love with a much older woman but that’s like one in million.
I can’t fathom being this naive at their age
Exactly! Stupid stupid deluded women.
Loneliness
Stupidity 🤷♀️
Too bloody right.
I think they are mentally unstable as well, to be able to believe these men.
I rather be alone. I enjoy my own company 😌
Allot of people, haven’t figured out how to. We need ourselves, self care, self acceptance, self love, self value, self worth and sense of self, etc, more than we need another human being.
All men are not same. Plenty of decent men out there it's depend on ur eyes to catch
@@nizampurking so true
That's great! You have evolved ❤️
A lawyer who can’t get another job is a huge red flag. Also I’m missing the whole “exotic” vibe… these dudes are just scroungers.
There’s plenty of men like that everywhere. Sociopaths. Want to take an advantage of you. The only way to protect yourself is to be sober, humble and objective. The main question that you have to ask is why? Why is this much younger guy is attracted to you when he has much more to choose from.
Call me a cynic, but I don't think I would trust a man that would say i love you to me in two weeks and starts asking for money.
The last lady they interviewed who said she found love again and she is taking a risk is out of her mind! She lives by the 3 strike rule!
I know right 🤦🏻♀️
It’s great your doing this to warn these ladies traveling to these exotic places
Ladies please learn to love and respect yourself, don’t even bother about these type of men.
Real Men wouldn't ask you for money. They'd make their own or find a way to support themselves.
Ladies,when a man 20-30 years younger falls for you bells should be ringing.
They always say “ I was never looking” for a relationship”
No one said you were
It’s about what you do, if you decide to 😂😂😂
I cannot believe that Anne-Marie move a man who she barely knew into her house with her children, smh.
@Sam.... Unfortunately it is much more prevalent than you realise. What angers me is when young children are involved. Forget about getting used for money as that comes and goes but my only concern is the possibility of a random man or woman being a sexual predator or merderer. These types of mothers are selfish. 😤😔
@Danny Al 😔
Made a same mistake but never again. I have learnt my lesson.
@@tantalize5795anyone could be a sexual predator or murderer , you could of known a person for a couple of years before you find out . What angers me is women like you shaming other women
@@Taylor23890 Don't get angry and ignorant at the truth. Of course sexual predators can literally be those you've known all or most of your life but ontop of that why invite a potential predator just because you're lonely and horny ? These single mothers should be ashamed for thinking of themselves and not the poor innocent children. Moving in randoms to your home is careless and negligent. How about focusing on the CHILDREN first until they are grown and not on another grown ass adult. 😌🙄
Shame on Ann Marie for putting her kids through all that.
I get the feeling she would still have him back 🤔
Some women would rather go out with a Ted Bundy than be single
@@harpsailorharp6716gg truth
how people can still fall for this is a mystery in itself
Tracy says she's really happy with her new young man. Then let go of the other guy and move on.
Gosh the lady at the end with another Turkish man run 🏃♀️ but some people never learn so it’s her fault what ever happens to her
I waa shocked at the ending of this documentary. The writing is on the wall for this lady.
Helena, I agree with you. I can't believe the gullibility of this woman. This will end in tears ... again 🇬🇧
She knows but thr thrill of it all obviously outweighs it.
@@bj20091000 what, the thrill of being conned? It,s a pretty false and empty thrill.
She/woman in doc (Tracy) has replied to this thread further up. She says she is still with the gentleman. I have to wonder how the finances are working. For reasons I won't go into, I feel it is clearly not a fit born out of authentic love on his part...
And the lesson learned here by Tracy was ……. Absolutely nothing