I've been married 11 times and engaged 28 | SBS Insight

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @MadeInSeventyFour
    @MadeInSeventyFour Місяць тому +63

    I love this program. It's the one time where you can sit a group of adults in the room to discuss shared experiences and disclose portions of their life journey, without throwing judgement at one another. Some of these episodes have required deep amounts of courage and strength to divulge. I am always in awe of your guests.

    • @kknight3071
      @kknight3071 Місяць тому +2

      I have had to wait for uploads here because I outside the country. Love this program! Would be thrilled if there was something like it in the US!❤🎉

  • @sharonrose3871
    @sharonrose3871 Місяць тому +32

    And now I am now longer ashamed of divorcing twice. What a joy your guests are. Thank you for presenting the episode.

  • @davidsotir4318
    @davidsotir4318 Місяць тому +33

    The presenter, Kumi Taguchi, asks such insightful questions in a sensitive manner. This programme is so informative!

  • @mindflowmotivations6575
    @mindflowmotivations6575 Місяць тому +67

    And then there’s me who can’t find someone I want to marry

    • @karenmbbaxter
      @karenmbbaxter Місяць тому +13

      So sorry......Life is always messy. U can be married 11 times like this woman or like yourself, never married. You can have a long marriage but miss out on a career. You can have a career but feel you have missed out on marriage. You will never have everything you want and it is sometimes important to sit back an appreciate what you have. It is also good not to be hard on yourself. I tell my teenage kids if they are good people and earn an honest living one day and don't get on drugs or end up in jail then that is all I expect of them. Anything else they do with their life is an added bonus.......Just don't be so harsh on yourself and celebrate your achievements instead.

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 Місяць тому +5

      Don't worry that's more a flex nowadays compared to the opposite

    • @VioletaWilliams-rq4gx
      @VioletaWilliams-rq4gx Місяць тому

      😢

    • @dip9073
      @dip9073 Місяць тому +2

      Lol...same!

    • @smuggreycat8137
      @smuggreycat8137 Місяць тому +1

      😂Haha same

  • @bancymunene2960
    @bancymunene2960 Місяць тому +36

    Married 11 times, engaged 28 . Iam shocked

  • @justinegratton6509
    @justinegratton6509 Місяць тому +51

    Married 11 times… where you meet all these men? I can’t even find 1 🤣

    • @abigailknight2045
      @abigailknight2045 Місяць тому +8

      Congregational dating....you just hop churches😅

  • @jessicahijarunguru4117
    @jessicahijarunguru4117 Місяць тому +14

    I love Australians, so chilled. I'm enjoying this show and learning a lot from these deep personal conversations. Please add subtitles 🙏

  • @ajp806
    @ajp806 Місяць тому +27

    I was shortly married once,and after that I said forget it,life is better single

  • @StopTheWorld65
    @StopTheWorld65 Місяць тому +27

    Stopped in my tracks at 38:00 by the man who said his wife “fell pregnant, again,” said like she caught a disease. TWICE. As if it were unpreventable. What? We know what causes that now. 🙄

  • @carolynrogers1510
    @carolynrogers1510 Місяць тому +10

    Laughed and cried with this one, what a joyful optimistic group of people, long live love

  • @valerierobertson6334
    @valerierobertson6334 Місяць тому +28

    Oh my gosh, I’m 53 and have only had 1 boyfriend and one ex husband and have been single for 10 years, I don’t want to meet someone but I’ve never found ‘ the one’, I’m fine with it😊

    • @abigailknight2045
      @abigailknight2045 Місяць тому +2

      Got together at 16yrs old, still here 21yrs later. We are both lazy procrastinators, Tadaaaa! Relationship success!😂

  • @andrewpetersen6116
    @andrewpetersen6116 Місяць тому +19

    Why ruin a perfectly good relationship with marriage

  • @missnlahi
    @missnlahi Місяць тому +15

    I love watching the older singles find love in each other

  • @tinkerbell8507
    @tinkerbell8507 Місяць тому +15

    And to think that some people never experienced marriage not even once 😮

  • @SY-cz4kb
    @SY-cz4kb Місяць тому +20

    Find a hobby to keep you out of getting married for fun!

  • @jacquelinemartin9124
    @jacquelinemartin9124 Місяць тому +14

    Once was enough for me.

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 Місяць тому +9

    What a fantastic & interesting episode!! Everyone deserves happiness.
    The important thing is finding true happiness within ourselves. No one can do it for us. Trying to find happiness outside ourselves is when the issues begin to appear.
    A successful loving romantic relationship will be the result of us being good to ourselves, understanding self-respect, and accepting the truth that we need to be our own top priority. Once we are in tune with these important factors, Finding "the" right one" will be easier than most think! 🙏🙏

  • @NineNineOne
    @NineNineOne Місяць тому +12

    Imagine discovering on your wedding day that your husband is a terrible kisser/bad lover!!! What a disaster. You can’t make a good kisser/good lover out of a bad one :-(

  • @Amaryllis-4U
    @Amaryllis-4U Місяць тому +9

    Are 11 of the 28 engagements tied to the 11 marriages?

  • @saulroberts161
    @saulroberts161 Місяць тому +4

    3:00 the look on my face listening to most of these stories.

  • @yetilube5601
    @yetilube5601 Місяць тому +20

    This video should be renamed "I dont understand what until death do we part means"

  • @hellz1996
    @hellz1996 Місяць тому +11

    Obviously likes Wedding Cake

  • @HumanimalChannel
    @HumanimalChannel Місяць тому +14

    34:39 if they were the priority younwould not have had all those marriages. You did not give them stability and you put them AT RISK many times

  • @blessedtobealive
    @blessedtobealive Місяць тому +12

    And here I am 23 year old female never been in a relationship. What am I doing with my life?

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 Місяць тому +15

      Don't worry you're in the best situation believe me

  • @abigailknight2045
    @abigailknight2045 Місяць тому +11

    Be interesting to hear the ex's sides of the multiple divorces. See if the ex's all have similar issues or different ones. Imagine if you had a panel of your ex's to help with your therapy, not for me though! Ignorant till death kind of person myself.

  • @zazhou
    @zazhou Місяць тому +5

    Intense!

  • @prancer4743
    @prancer4743 Місяць тому +6

    Why did they leave you so many times 🤔 at least you keep trying maybe life alone may be better for you 😳😀👍

  • @DavJKing23
    @DavJKing23 Місяць тому +3

    😮