That’s what I was thinking. Sounds like everything was fine and one day it wasn’t for “no reason”. In my life I’ve usually found there is a reason when EVERYONE stops taking to you. Usually isn’t for no reason. Big red flag when someone says that. Might’ve been making them uncomfortable or been too stubborn to be around. And it made his depression worse and he just kept doing worse and worse till he ended up on the show acting like the victim. He might be but I’d wanna hear from people he worked with used to be close friends with etc to know moree. Can’t always trust what someone and their just as delusional family say sometimes
@@ImpossibleMusic69 I agree with you to an extent but I have also learned in life that when people become depressed and start acting the way he is people don't want to be around that so they start distancing themselves from that person. So it's very possible that he started to act this way before he lost everyone. Its clear as day hes depressed and willing to bet money he has adhd bc he also said in another clip that when he try's to do things his mind goes wild and won't stop thinking so he then gets distracted or discouraged and ends up not doing it that's like one of the number one signs of adult adhd the adhd is probably the root cause of the depression and stimulants will probably help him fix at least 80% of what's wrong in his life. The fact dr.Phil who is supposed to have a degree in psychiatric health doesn't address that and acts like this is just a case of laziness pisses me off if he has a degree and specializes in this area he should have been able to spot that right away before anyone else not another adult with adhd 🤦♀️
@Far Above Rubies no.. she should've helped him get to a doctor and get checked out. As a person who suffers from depression, getting help is the hardest part.
@Far Above Rubies yeah instead of taking him to a normal doctor or psychologist she took him to a tv set of a doctor who hasn't had his license renewed since 2009. So he isn't even allowed to formally diagnose someone. Also in this case I believe it's not just depression, but also possibly add/adhd. He suffers from a major case of executive dysfunction which is very common in add/adhd.
@Far Above Rubies dr. phil isn't licensed and does not practice (you can google that). this is a tv show for views. I've had talk therapy for 5 years, as well as am on anti-depressants currently (15 years diagnosed major depression, since I was 12). Different treatments work for different people, and I never believed in medication and was opposed to it as a teenager - I saw it help my mom, other family members, and multiple friends. And I'm amazed at how it has helped me, seriously. Each person should make their own medical decisions, but to say it barely helps is factually inaccurate. Every person in this world should have talk therapy, in general.
The mother and sister give me major narcissist vibes, they are completely unable to put themselves in his shoes. They can't fathom why he could possibly not have motivation. They can hardly say anything decent about him, but won't shut up about how much they do for him so they look like heros. He's completely open to change, but he's probably been told "you're so lazy" "you can't do anything for yourself" every single day.
Exactly! His sister doesn’t seem to care. My daughter would have been living with my son, dragging him to doctors and saving his life without letting me even get involved. Siblings can be the best or the worst!
I'm happy depression is getting more awareness these last years. Lack of motivation is just one of the symptoms, though. I remember my foster parents being annoyed with me and calling me lazy because I had no interests and no motivation. I learned how to ¨pull my own ears¨ in order to get things done. Several years later, living on my own and still depressed af. Im doing okay, but somtimes I slip back into the zero motivation and cant get anything done. I'm getting help, though-
@@Dylan_96_no, it’s depression. At one point he was successful on his own and made enough money to buy that nice house and support himself without working. He obviously fell into a deep depression.
Yeah. I thought that "life coach" was a total jerk. He just embarrassed him into submission. They made a joke out of him. He didn't deserve that kind of treatment. It kind of felt like the coach couldn't even stand to talk to him before he cut his hair, then the shoe thing...
It's helpful for everyone on this thread to point out this is what depression manifests as. It's not pointless, and it is help to far more than just him.
The smile he did after she said “that’s my kid” at the end was such a smile a kid does when their parents gloat about them to someone else I love this dude I hope he gets the help he deserves
Maybe she hate her mam way of raising them i think she in the same mind set as her brother she wont to help him more than anyone else , that protective mam make life more difficult for her children
@@safakhalid7327 yes my first thoughts too. And to be truthful, that the brother was likely able to get away with being a slob more as an adult because he is male. (His intelligence + career success would be more notable in a male role)
I think she just doesn’t know how to care for him. I thought that she was enabling at first. I’m glad she is seeking help for him, since he can’t do it himself.
She's not breastfeeding him and wiping his butt. He lives on his own. He's ill. A mother WORRIES. There are too many parents walking around with mentalities like yours. Your kids don't turn 18 and you throw in the towel. You're a worrying parent for life.
that sister seems like a bitter, jealous person. It’s clear he’s depressed and instead of seeing that and showing some compassion, she calls him lazy. this is so sad.
@@WeRNthisToGetHer you cannot be 'slightly' on the spectrum also him being 'very smart' doesn't classify him as a genius and his family are not simpletons they are just regular people who want whats good for him even if it does come off as being 'simple' to you....he also chooses to do nothing with his day or his mental health himself so he is understimulated because of that if he gets the help he needs for his health and wellbeing he is going to be able to function properly again
@@fathom2732 The name asperger's isn't even used to diagnoze people anymore, and even if it still was, than it would be a subcategory and not one in which you only stand with one foot in the spectrum. The only difference is that people with asperger's can mask their autism better and have normal to high IQ's. They still are as autistic as a nonverbal autist (who also can be very intelligent) or one that stims very noticably. Making a difference between degrees of autism can be very damaging, because it is very hard for the persons who appear neurotypical to get their special needs, while if you don't pass, you get underestmated and not giving the upportunities and chances to thrive.
Dude is depressed. My brother was like this for many years until he left his career as a pharmacist to go to medical school. He always wanted to go to medical school but he gave up his dream because he thought it was too late. All he did was work, come home, play video games till he passed out on the couch, wake up, play some more before he went back to work. Dude, lived like that for over 8 years. Then he finally snapped out of it, applied for medical school, got in, then went. Human beings need to do meaningful work...if they don’t, depression can ensue I believe.
@Jamilah toenailkilla if i had the choice to do only 1 drug my whole life i take cannabis its just the best plant ever existed but once u get hooked on percs (like me) scripts automatically become ur thing u dont rly have a choice except u a millionaire buyin percs 60dollar per pill but i agree weed is way better and even has health benefits
@@joyskov6048 I wasn't saying depression isn't real I'm saying alot of people fake it to excuse their actions or to get attention. Idk about this guy, I dont even know him.
This Man is severely depressed. It's not difficult to see, he has given up and has no energy. He is sick, not lazy. I understand because I have suffered my entire life with depression.
Right its like eyes loose some sparkle..Someone once said "why do you look so dead inside" and I thought I was doing a good job hiding it yet my family/friends don't see it. Its sad that nobody around him could see it
Him saying "I'm happy to shake it up," gave my chills. As someone who is dealing with a lot of depression right now, I really hope this guy can get help and feel better.
I was in deep depression and I'm still struggling with it along with anxiety. Alot of people are unfortunately. Just know no matter what, your life matters Carpe diem seize the day. Every day like if it's your last. You got this listen to yourself on what you need emotionally and never take the flight option and just burrow away. Like the guy on the show
As soon as a watched a few seconds of this, you can clearly tell that he's battling depression. And as someone who has been diagnosed with clinical depression by a professional, I think that he should see a therapist too.
i’ve never been so happier with the comment section, we all see he is severely depressed, EVERYthing he is doing. I see him wanting the change, he’s not resentful. He needs the healing his family isn’t letting him have, even by being “hours away or MILES away”
@@sparklecloud11aj98 keeping a routine & staying social & taking care of hygiene help with depression but when you’re in the hole they can feel impossible
Yep same me! When I’m depressed I hide , nothing makes sense. It’s not laziness is just overwhelming and if you don’t have support you get stuck. I can’t even get out of bed when I’m darkly depressed but I do look for treatment. He’s 1000% depressed and the sister who lives closer by is not helping at all. Smh 🤦♀️
Dog hair is apart of my life. It's everywhere no matter how much we brush our dog. And my house is our dogs house, if the GUESTS don't like it, I will gladly show them the door.
I have two golden retrievers and a Chiweenie and if I could open my own lab?? I could clone them all day, every day....... I have one of the most expensive vacuums on the earth and I can’t keep up with it..... Send money. I need a housekeeper!!!!!!!
While people can call this laziness, that's just not what it is. It's severe depression, and while depression can definitely make you lazy, it's just not the same thing. Depression can make you feel like your body is 20 times heavier then it actually is, your head feels foggy and it hurts to even try to concentrate, simple tasks feel worthless and feel as if they drag on for hours instead of minutes. This man needs therapy and probably medication, not bitterness and judgement.
I honestly dont see what the issue is here. I mean he's got a beutiful home, I'm sure alot of money saved up. If he wants to live In a stye then thats his prerogative. It's not like he's living with his parents or depending on anyone. He probably just wanted to take some time off and recuperate.
@@fascinatinglist9654 The thing about recuperating is that you need to work on your mental health. People often take break from work for the physical exhaustion, but neglect the fact that their mental health needs a massive break too. No matter what anyone says, living in filth is not good for your mental health- coming from someone with depression for over a decade.
This is just sad. The sister troubles me, though. She's either happy that he's finally being held responsible for his poor life skills, feels resentful toward her brother for being so successful, or some type of sibling rivalry/issues. She seems eager to condemn rather than support. Not saying anything of ill of her, but her faces and smirks make me wonder.
Clearly he has massive depression. Heartbreaking. When somebody doesn't keep up their hygiene for weeks at a time and doesn't have the motivation to take care of themselves anymore it's not laziness it's severe depression and he needs help before he does something drastic to harm himself because his family is judging and criticizing him constantly. That's enough to push somebody over the edge regardless of having depression or not
I think this is a form of depression. He burnt himself out mentaly doing his studies and getting to the point where he has the expensive house. I think he needs help and a reason to live. I have been through this. Went from a university lecturer, on my local art gallery management team, was president of parents & friends to sleeping all day, no desire to clean etc. I have been where he is. I was diagnosed with severe depression and have been going through counselling and horse therapy . it helps . He needs to be assessed by a psychiatrist .
I don't get why the mom and sister can't see it when everyone else can? Clearly, this isn't mere laziness, as letting personal hygiene go is a classic sign of depression. I mean, if he was a slob previously then it wouldn't mean much, but if he was once taking care of himself and then suddenly stops, then that's a huge red flag of emotional distress.
He seems like he has depression, not just being lazy. I am not a lazy person at all but I have suffered from depression before and trust me it can be debilitating. I sure hope he is doing better now, something about his story really touched me. He seems like such a nice guy and I LOVE his doggie!
it breaks my heart that the sister can see what depression is. not everyone can. and i think we need to make more awareness of it. too many people nowadays fake it as well, which makes it harder for us actually dealing with it. i’m glad the mom wants to actually help. he needs some. poor man
This is a case of severe severe depression. Laid off job. The sister needs to lay off. I really feel for this young man. It happened last year to me, loss of job, lost the house. It’s a hard long long road, I just want to give this man a hug 🥺😔
It's possible their outfits are provided on set, when they get their hair and makeup done for camera they have clothing available too. Those shoulders are definitely awful on her since she's a bigger girl
Omg same!I was so pissed when I realised I had to take a bucket shower in silence so then people in the house would hear exactly what I am doing and it's weird
when I watch this I realize not having children was one of the best decisions of my entire life... Watching this on m coach on a Sunday morning with my dog and my wife, and enjoying the piece and quiet I wouldn't have if I had children, beyond grateful for my life.
Thanks, other commenters. My sis was tryin to do an assignment for e-learning and she didn’t know why the vid her teacher sent wouldn’t work. Doctor Phil fans to the rescue ✊🏽
Instead of his family judging him why don’t they realize and understand that he’s obviously depressed. His sister has such a poor attitude man. This is sad.
As someone who is seriously depressed I can say he has a horrible case of depression. When I was at my worst my house was a wreck, I was sleeping in my clothes, not showering, not eating, and n taking out the trash. It got so bad I was sleeping in my bed covered in trash. I remember waking up next to a popsicles stick, a peach plumb, and a can of soup.
really hahaha so obvious he is depressed and meds don't help long term for that he needs to talk to someone to get through his rut and there is nothing to suggest a chemical imbalance
He needs a really cool housemate/carer who can help him get his motivation back. Wake up to the smell of coffee and breakfast. Have a bath run and ready. A live in life coach I guess. Put him in a car with his dog and take them to the beach. A non judgemental person who is fun to be around without him having to look at the disappointed faces of his family.
Having someone in his life to help motivate him may be something. But not someone to come in and enable him to continue to not do things for himself. Having someone make his coffee and draw him a bath would be a bit ridiculous.
Barbie Blue that’s not a wife, that’s a maid/chef/chauffeur/dog walker/paid companion/travel agent/life coach. In other words, an uncompensated slave. No, he doesn’t need a roomie🙄 he needs a diagnosis and if he isn’t diagnosed with depression (everyone seems to fit the criteria lately) then he needs a kick in the butt to get moving. He definitely doesn’t need a life partner. No one should wish that one any man or woman.
The servers are down and I thought it was just me,I wandered "my service is very strong,why is it not working now?it was just working a few mins ago"then I saw all the comments
This guy is depressed. Not lazy. It’s always commonly mistaken. He’s in a dark place and they need to Atleast give him more support and his sister seems to enjoy it.
He WANTS help, he definitely wants to change but he just struggles to by himself. This is severe depression in its worst form. I used to sleep all day and would shower every 3-5 days. The struggle to do much of anything is rough. Good on him for having the strength to step out ❤️
legit thought it was only me 💀 the yt servers are down people, there’s nothing wrong with your phone. don’t restart it, don’t delete any apps, they’ll be up soon again
I feel bad for him. Imagine having what you worked hard for jist slip through your fingers. However, my mother always say that no matter how much you runaway from problems, it will remain. She basically have forced me to face many truths in my life that I would rather escape from and I have always been thankful. I truly have never known anyone braver than my mother. To face the hard truth in the face and rise above them.
This is depression at its finest. Being unmotivated is probably the biggest red flag for depression out of any other symptom, I know it is for me. I hope he can move forward.
Ughhh, so infuriating. This was botched and mishandled in a multitude of ways. Give it a month or two and that life coach will be ghosted harder than Hamlet’s father.
He clearly has depression. It is tough when family do not understand what is going on and even tougher for him to not understand it. He should of seen his doctor sooner, but it is hard when you do not know what it is or have anyone around you know for you to pay to see a doctor for it. I had gone into deep depression, my family hardly saw it, they were all depressed themselves (family deaths caused this). So, I just went to my doctor for other things and they eventually saw what was going on and told me I had depression. I even denied it. I hope this man gets the help he needs, meds/therapy. *big hugs* to him
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I love that you guys edited it so he was watching Dr Phil. Gorgeous.
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This is just an awful case of depression. Not lazy at all.
That’s what I was thinking. Sounds like everything was fine and one day it wasn’t for “no reason”. In my life I’ve usually found there is a reason when EVERYONE stops taking to you. Usually isn’t for no reason. Big red flag when someone says that. Might’ve been making them uncomfortable or been too stubborn to be around. And it made his depression worse and he just kept doing worse and worse till he ended up on the show acting like the victim. He might be but I’d wanna hear from people he worked with used to be close friends with etc to know moree. Can’t always trust what someone and their just as delusional family say sometimes
@@ImpossibleMusic69 I agree with you to an extent but I have also learned in life that when people become depressed and start acting the way he is people don't want to be around that so they start distancing themselves from that person. So it's very possible that he started to act this way before he lost everyone. Its clear as day hes depressed and willing to bet money he has adhd bc he also said in another clip that when he try's to do things his mind goes wild and won't stop thinking so he then gets distracted or discouraged and ends up not doing it that's like one of the number one signs of adult adhd the adhd is probably the root cause of the depression and stimulants will probably help him fix at least 80% of what's wrong in his life. The fact dr.Phil who is supposed to have a degree in psychiatric health doesn't address that and acts like this is just a case of laziness pisses me off if he has a degree and specializes in this area he should have been able to spot that right away before anyone else not another adult with adhd 🤦♀️
Thank you!
Definitely lazy. Dont be an enabler. But the laziness is a symptom of major depression
@@Marvellite Not an enabler. Just someone who also deals with this kinda stuff you wouldn’t understand.
I feel terrible for Logan. Logan isn’t “Lazy”, He’s most likely depressed and they’re making it worse.
He is a lazy freeloader whose family has made excuses and enabled his behavior
This guy is clearly depressed. What's wrong with his family that they can't see this? I don't like this sister one bit.
@Far Above Rubies they think he’s lazy. depression is easily mistaken for laziness.
@Far Above Rubies no.. she should've helped him get to a doctor and get checked out. As a person who suffers from depression, getting help is the hardest part.
@Far Above Rubies yeah instead of taking him to a normal doctor or psychologist she took him to a tv set of a doctor who hasn't had his license renewed since 2009. So he isn't even allowed to formally diagnose someone. Also in this case I believe it's not just depression, but also possibly add/adhd. He suffers from a major case of executive dysfunction which is very common in add/adhd.
@Far Above Rubies dr. phil isn't licensed and does not practice (you can google that). this is a tv show for views. I've had talk therapy for 5 years, as well as am on anti-depressants currently (15 years diagnosed major depression, since I was 12). Different treatments work for different people, and I never believed in medication and was opposed to it as a teenager - I saw it help my mom, other family members, and multiple friends. And I'm amazed at how it has helped me, seriously. Each person should make their own medical decisions, but to say it barely helps is factually inaccurate. Every person in this world should have talk therapy, in general.
The mother and sister give me major narcissist vibes, they are completely unable to put themselves in his shoes. They can't fathom why he could possibly not have motivation. They can hardly say anything decent about him, but won't shut up about how much they do for him so they look like heros. He's completely open to change, but he's probably been told "you're so lazy" "you can't do anything for yourself" every single day.
Let’s change the title to “Mom does her best to look after her severely depressed son, sister is jealous”
Truth
Angry
Let’s give Logan Provigil or Ritalin
@@fooddrugadministrator4079 methylphenidate sucks.
Exactly! His sister doesn’t seem to care. My daughter would have been living with my son, dragging him to doctors and saving his life without letting me even get involved. Siblings can be the best or the worst!
"Clean enough to be healthy; dirty enough to be happy." I love this quote.
Me too!
I'm gonna paint this on a canvas and hang it in my kitchen
@@carolinefake9920 seems pretty lazy and gross
Deelicious Grapes what? Lol
Same
This dude's not lazy, he's severely depressed and needs actual medical help. He even said "it's a struggle." The sister gives me bad vibes.
Sisters young to know better. Mother ectutration.
Depression being called “Laziness” is so commonly mistaken.
And it makes it 100% worse for the person suffering.
Absolutely and it has a very negative effect on the already down person
It really is
I'm happy depression is getting more awareness these last years. Lack of motivation is just one of the symptoms, though. I remember my foster parents being annoyed with me and calling me lazy because I had no interests and no motivation. I learned how to ¨pull my own ears¨ in order to get things done. Several years later, living on my own and still depressed af. Im doing okay, but somtimes I slip back into the zero motivation and cant get anything done. I'm getting help, though-
At least you sound like a Dr he don't
This is literally depression... shame on everyone for not realizing
fax thooo
Most especially his sister who appears to be getting off on it
@@CndnHippo his sister pisses me off omg
Your stupid
The mom is very sweet and clearly wants to understand and help. This man is severely depressed, I hope they get him some proper help
No, she is selfish.
To relieve her own anxiety, she is a huge enabler! It's so obvious!!
No, Logan is just lazy
@@erinstott8361 your not gonna be a very good parent buddy
@@shaneschartel1593 imagine liking your own comment
The guy must be in a really dark place, he isn’t being lazy, he’s depressed. I’ve been there, I hope he finds his way out.
It's totally laziness. When you have a mom who does literally everything for you, this is the fruit of it.
@@Dylan_96_no, it’s depression. At one point he was successful on his own and made enough money to buy that nice house and support himself without working. He obviously fell into a deep depression.
He's quite obviously severely depressed. He needs help not humiliating on a TV programme.
Yeah. I thought that "life coach" was a total jerk. He just embarrassed him into submission. They made a joke out of him. He didn't deserve that kind of treatment. It kind of felt like the coach couldn't even stand to talk to him before he cut his hair, then the shoe thing...
Kilala 29 Ikr and hair length gains are a good thing, while hair mutilations are torture
Not necessarily
I’m your 800th like!
It's helpful for everyone on this thread to point out this is what depression manifests as. It's not pointless, and it is help to far more than just him.
The smile he did after she said “that’s my kid” at the end was such a smile a kid does when their parents gloat about them to someone else I love this dude I hope he gets the help he deserves
That sister sounds resentful and jealous af.
Maybe she hate her mam way of raising them i think she in the same mind set as her brother she wont to help him more than anyone else , that protective mam make life more difficult for her children
@@safakhalid7327 yes my first thoughts too. And to be truthful, that the brother was likely able to get away with being a slob more as an adult because he is male. (His intelligence + career success would be more notable in a male role)
She really doesn't. She sounds pissed tf off that her brother's a freakin slob who's mom goes to clean for him....in his OWN house.
She isn’t jealous she is concerned the mother is very dodgy and is the cause of this
@@chrysichrysi7889 and gets on a Plane ✈️
This mom is NOT "enabling" her son. She's being a MOM. He needs help and she's trying her best. Real mothers never stop being mothers.
I think she just doesn’t know how to care for him. I thought that she was enabling at first. I’m glad she is seeking help for him, since he can’t do it himself.
Good mothers fail
Word. Especially if he has his own house. He’s just very depressed.
A good mom encourages independence.
She's not breastfeeding him and wiping his butt. He lives on his own. He's ill. A mother WORRIES. There are too many parents walking around with mentalities like yours. Your kids don't turn 18 and you throw in the towel. You're a worrying parent for life.
that sister seems like a bitter, jealous person. It’s clear he’s depressed and instead of seeing that and showing some compassion, she calls him lazy. this is so sad.
But he is being lazy. Laziness caused by depression or maybe addiction to gaming . But still lazy.
@@carolsimpson4422 depression does not equal laziness. That just shows your ignorance about the topic
@@carolsimpson4422 go get educated you obviously have lived such a great life you haven’t been to that low poin
But the mom getting on a plane to go clean is asinine
Yeah she CLEARLY seems jealous.
He’s obviously depressed and might be on the spectrum. This episode is awful
That's true he could be slightly autistic or just extremely understimulated because he's a genius and misunderstood by the simpletons around him.
@@WeRNthisToGetHer There is no such thing as being slightly autistic, you're on the spectrum or you're not.
@@WeRNthisToGetHer you cannot be 'slightly' on the spectrum also him being 'very smart' doesn't classify him as a genius and his family are not simpletons they are just regular people who want whats good for him even if it does come off as being 'simple' to you....he also chooses to do nothing with his day or his mental health himself so he is understimulated because of that if he gets the help he needs for his health and wellbeing he is going to be able to function properly again
Maybe Asperger's; basically a half and half.
@@fathom2732 The name asperger's isn't even used to diagnoze people anymore, and even if it still was, than it would be a subcategory and not one in which you only stand with one foot in the spectrum. The only difference is that people with asperger's can mask their autism better and have normal to high IQ's. They still are as autistic as a nonverbal autist (who also can be very intelligent) or one that stims very noticably. Making a difference between degrees of autism can be very damaging, because it is very hard for the persons who appear neurotypical to get their special needs, while if you don't pass, you get underestmated and not giving the upportunities and chances to thrive.
Lol you know his sister wasn’t as successful as him so she’s loving this
She's all jealous. As I am
@@chikabolitaful Of being dirty?..hmmm
Yeah she called him lazy and successful at the same time - weird!
@MSSUCCESSDRIVEN she's still jealous.
The sister keeps telling everyone that he’s basically her moms favorite so yeah, she’s freakin loving this 😒 I hate the sister lol
His sister is so annoying, like your brother is obviously struggling and you completely grill him ? seriously have some empathy
Most female family members outside of a mother tend to be this way with their male siblings.
Dude is depressed. My brother was like this for many years until he left his career as a pharmacist to go to medical school. He always wanted to go to medical school but he gave up his dream because he thought it was too late. All he did was work, come home, play video games till he passed out on the couch, wake up, play some more before he went back to work. Dude, lived like that for over 8 years. Then he finally snapped out of it, applied for medical school, got in, then went. Human beings need to do meaningful work...if they don’t, depression can ensue I believe.
prob was pharmacist for meds
@Jamilah toenailkilla if i had the choice to do only 1 drug my whole life i take cannabis its just the best plant ever existed but once u get hooked on percs (like me) scripts automatically become ur thing u dont rly have a choice except u a millionaire buyin percs 60dollar per pill but i agree weed is way better and even has health benefits
Reading this made my eyes teary, prolly cuz I'm going through the same thing
@@longliveducko hows he doing today?
@@iki12737 bruh idk u have to ask someone else tf
His sister is the type of person that will tell you the cure for depression is fresh air and water
This guy obviously has depression or something, but what is the sister's excuse? Smug B.
In the shadows...now the golden child due to independence...still jealous cuz wants more attention
Exactly, that's all depression is anymore. An excuse.
@@gear1264 Whoa! No. Stigma like that literally kills people.
@@joyskov6048 I wasn't saying depression isn't real I'm saying alot of people fake it to excuse their actions or to get attention. Idk about this guy, I dont even know him.
Not necessarily
This Man is severely depressed.
It's not difficult to see, he has given up and has no energy. He is sick, not lazy. I understand because I have suffered my entire life with depression.
Why is the sister enjoying this so much? Dude has a house, hes just in a rut
Agreed!
She is pretty bratty. Probably one of the ladies who laughs at poor people.
He seems depressed maybe?
Jealous?
Mom favors son. Sister is jealous.
Stop calling "lazy" someone who is clearly struggling with depression! His eyes are so empty, I feel for him.
Bruh that doesn’t mean that he has depression.
Right its like eyes loose some sparkle..Someone once said "why do you look so dead inside" and I thought I was doing a good job hiding it yet my family/friends don't see it. Its sad that nobody around him could see it
As someone who has battled depression, I can say you can be depressed AND lazy.
Him saying "I'm happy to shake it up," gave my chills. As someone who is dealing with a lot of depression right now, I really hope this guy can get help and feel better.
Best of luck
I was in deep depression and I'm still struggling with it along with anxiety. Alot of people are unfortunately. Just know no matter what, your life matters Carpe diem seize the day. Every day like if it's your last. You got this listen to yourself on what you need emotionally and never take the flight option and just burrow away. Like the guy on the show
He can, if his mother stops telling him he's broken. Or if he gets enough help to stop believing those messages.
As soon as a watched a few seconds of this, you can clearly tell that he's battling depression. And as someone who has been diagnosed with clinical depression by a professional, I think that he should see a therapist too.
I cringe when his family called him lazy. He is clearly displaying symptoms of depression. I hope he gets the help he needs.
i’ve never been so happier with the comment section, we all see he is severely depressed, EVERYthing he is doing. I see him wanting the change, he’s not resentful. He needs the healing his family isn’t letting him have, even by being “hours away or MILES away”
I’m obsessively clean...except when I’ve been severely depressed...then it gets so so hard to just shower...
Same! Well not obsessively but I’m a hygiene freak! Except... depressive episodes
@@sparklecloud11aj98 keeping a routine & staying social & taking care of hygiene help with depression but when you’re in the hole they can feel impossible
My depression and anger has gotten so bad with COVID and other things.
@@craycraymckay.1535 you’re not alone! I hope things get better for you
Yep same me! When I’m depressed I hide , nothing makes sense. It’s not laziness is just overwhelming and if you don’t have support you get stuck. I can’t even get out of bed when I’m darkly depressed but I do look for treatment. He’s 1000% depressed and the sister who lives closer by is not helping at all. Smh 🤦♀️
I feel so bad for him. He lost his job and lost him self too. He’s so depressed and I’m just so sorry for him, I wish pain and hardship wasn’t real
He lost his job, you go get another one
"There is dog and cat hair everywhere." Me as a dog owner getting defensive at home, "HEY THAT STUFF IS LIKE SAND!"
Dog hair is apart of my life. It's everywhere no matter how much we brush our dog. And my house is our dogs house, if the GUESTS don't like it, I will gladly show them the door.
It’s corse, rough and irritating and it gets everywhere
I have two golden retrievers and a Chiweenie and if I could open my own lab?? I could clone them all day, every day....... I have one of the most expensive vacuums on the earth and I can’t keep up with it..... Send money. I need a housekeeper!!!!!!!
@@geebee3256 Yeah i have a shi-tzu his hair is sheddy
As an owner of 6 cats I felt that as well. Look mom... bruh... you can clean the house 5 or 6 times a day and you'll STILL have hair all over XD
He’s honestly keeping his place a lot nicer then I ever possibly could during my worst. I hope he gets better, really.
Commented before I watched the full video (I know.) and his mom is a lot to blame.
While people can call this laziness, that's just not what it is. It's severe depression, and while depression can definitely make you lazy, it's just not the same thing. Depression can make you feel like your body is 20 times heavier then it actually is, your head feels foggy and it hurts to even try to concentrate, simple tasks feel worthless and feel as if they drag on for hours instead of minutes. This man needs therapy and probably medication, not bitterness and judgement.
Totally agree!!
I honestly dont see what the issue is here. I mean he's got a beutiful home, I'm sure alot of money saved up. If he wants to live In a stye then thats his prerogative. It's not like he's living with his parents or depending on anyone. He probably just wanted to take some time off and recuperate.
@@fascinatinglist9654 The thing about recuperating is that you need to work on your mental health. People often take break from work for the physical exhaustion, but neglect the fact that their mental health needs a massive break too.
No matter what anyone says, living in filth is not good for your mental health- coming from someone with depression for over a decade.
I hate being called lazy with such a raging passion
That man is severely depressed, hope he gets help and not from his jealous sister
This is so clearly depression. Nobody is lazy to the point of hurting themselves. He looks great with that new look.
Not true
He sounds SUPER depressed. I hope you do an update video on him. Also, I looked up his app and apparently he finished it!
This is depression. I really hope he gets the help he needs. I’ll pray for this guy. Amazing mom!
This is just sad. The sister troubles me, though. She's either happy that he's finally being held responsible for his poor life skills, feels resentful toward her brother for being so successful, or some type of sibling rivalry/issues. She seems eager to condemn rather than support. Not saying anything of ill of her, but her faces and smirks make me wonder.
I get the impression there’s jealousy there.
Clearly he has massive depression. Heartbreaking. When somebody doesn't keep up their hygiene for weeks at a time and doesn't have the motivation to take care of themselves anymore it's not laziness it's severe depression and he needs help before he does something drastic to harm himself because his family is judging and criticizing him constantly. That's enough to push somebody over the edge regardless of having depression or not
I think this is a form of depression. He burnt himself out mentaly doing his studies and getting to the point where he has the expensive house. I think he needs help and a reason to live. I have been through this. Went from a university lecturer, on my local art gallery management team, was president of parents & friends to sleeping all day, no desire to clean etc. I have been where he is. I was diagnosed with severe depression and have been going through counselling and horse therapy . it helps . He needs to be assessed by a psychiatrist .
Horse therapy sounds amazing! I've also been where he is. Ended up hospitalised. It helped so much
I wouldn't wish depression on my worst enemy. Heartbreaking. I hope his sister grows a heart and that he gets professional help.
This guy ain’t lazy he’s depressed and doesn’t know how to get better. “Dr” Phil just making it worst
I feel so bad for this guy. I think he has depression.
100% correct ! 💙
I don't get why the mom and sister can't see it when everyone else can? Clearly, this isn't mere laziness, as letting personal hygiene go is a classic sign of depression. I mean, if he was a slob previously then it wouldn't mean much, but if he was once taking care of himself and then suddenly stops, then that's a huge red flag of emotional distress.
I’ve gone some time without showering without being depressed
He seems like he has depression, not just being lazy. I am not a lazy person at all but I have suffered from depression before and trust me it can be debilitating. I sure hope he is doing better now, something about his story really touched me. He seems like such a nice guy and I LOVE his doggie!
he does sound depressed hes been laid off...it takes too much effort that all signs of depression.
Loss of interest in hobbies, not leaving the house, doesn’t have an interest in appearance etc. This guy ticks all the boxes of deep depression.
I like that Logan’s house has a TV that’s playing DrPhil😭😂 0:40
I’m sure that’s not a coincidence lol
it breaks my heart that the sister can see what depression is. not everyone can. and i think we need to make more awareness of it. too many people nowadays fake it as well, which makes it harder for us actually dealing with it. i’m glad the mom wants to actually help. he needs some. poor man
This is a case of severe severe depression. Laid off job.
The sister needs to lay off. I really feel for this young man.
It happened last year to me, loss of job, lost the house. It’s a hard long long road, I just want to give this man a hug 🥺😔
@@KrishanKumar-ec1ch this comment was written 2 years ago.
The fact you’re writing on a 2 year old comment lmao
Boy, am I glad I had parents who told me to get a job and provide for myself. I live by myself and I love it.
Lmfao the daughter look like she wearing a leather couch.
fr 😂
That is just ugly dude
It's possible their outfits are provided on set, when they get their hair and makeup done for camera they have clothing available too. Those shoulders are definitely awful on her since she's a bigger girl
That is a very nice pfp
@@princes_little_red_corvette bAAHHH, PINK!?
Poor guy seems chronically depressed to me. The sister is jealous AF
why is EVERYONE uploading while servers are down 😂😂
I thought something was wrong with my phone lol😂
@@faye4578 sammeeeee 😭😭😭
Yeah lol
@@faye4578 so glad im not the only one
@@faye4578 I did at first until I looked up “youtube servers” on google. I was watching a sad story about a diver 😂
they did mom dirrrrrty with this thumbnail. & she's actually being really pleasant compared to most parents on this show!
Sister is a brat, the brother needs help and mom is enabling him and she needs help herself.
Depression is about to be the second most leading cause of death in the world.
The servers are down? Huh, thought it was just my internet
Lol me too
lol
Omg same!I was so pissed when I realised I had to take a bucket shower in silence so then people in the house would hear exactly what I am doing and it's weird
Me too I was I am dead
Yes
That "chemical imbalance" mom is talking about, is depression.
Ummm duh
this man seems so sweet and genuine I think he's just fighting his own issues and needs a loving push, wish we were friends
when I watch this I realize not having children was one of the best decisions of my entire life... Watching this on m coach on a Sunday morning with my dog and my wife, and enjoying the piece and quiet I wouldn't have if I had children, beyond grateful for my life.
Thanks, other commenters. My sis was tryin to do an assignment for e-learning and she didn’t know why the vid her teacher sent wouldn’t work. Doctor Phil fans to the rescue ✊🏽
I feel so sorry for him. He’s obviously very troubled. I hope he finds that spark to ignite his passion and motivation.
Instead of his family judging him why don’t they realize and understand that he’s obviously depressed. His sister has such a poor attitude man. This is sad.
I think the sister wants some attention for having it all together.
As someone who is seriously depressed I can say he has a horrible case of depression. When I was at my worst my house was a wreck, I was sleeping in my clothes, not showering, not eating, and n taking out the trash. It got so bad I was sleeping in my bed covered in trash. I remember waking up next to a popsicles stick, a peach plumb, and a can of soup.
His sister is just grating on my nerves for some reason. I don’t think she has his best interest at heart, she sounds a little jealous of him almost
Poor guy. His personality is so likable, and he’s so cute! I just want the best for him.
Mom - you are right on about about a chemical imbalance in his brain! Good for you! Get him medical help - not Dr. Phil!
Good comment Joy.
So how are you doing today joy
really hahaha so obvious he is depressed and meds don't help long term for that he needs to talk to someone to get through his rut and there is nothing to suggest a chemical imbalance
@@chowie8116 I think he needs BOTH meds and talk therapy.
This is a case of really bad depression. He's not lazy, he's depressed.
He needs a really cool housemate/carer who can help him get his motivation back. Wake up to the smell of coffee and breakfast. Have a bath run and ready. A live in life coach I guess. Put him in a car with his dog and take them to the beach. A non judgemental person who is fun to be around without him having to look at the disappointed faces of his family.
ME!
Send in Mike to this dude's house
Having someone in his life to help motivate him may be something. But not someone to come in and enable him to continue to not do things for himself. Having someone make his coffee and draw him a bath would be a bit ridiculous.
A wife?
Barbie Blue that’s not a wife, that’s a maid/chef/chauffeur/dog walker/paid companion/travel agent/life coach. In other words, an uncompensated slave. No, he doesn’t need a roomie🙄 he needs a diagnosis and if he isn’t diagnosed with depression (everyone seems to fit the criteria lately) then he needs a kick in the butt to get moving. He definitely doesn’t need a life partner. No one should wish that one any man or woman.
If you can't see the depression in this poor man's eyes, you're blind. That's just sad💔😢
I really wish this guy the best. So much potential!
I want nothing but happiness and good things for this guy. I hope things get brighter for him soon!
This dude looks super depressed not lazy ps my YT was down ages but I'm not American
Mine too yutube was down
Yep youtube was down for a bit
What does you not being American have to do with it?
"Logan's dream is that he is rich enough to never lift a finger." MINE, TOO! Girl, come off it; you trippin!
The servers are down and I thought it was just me,I wandered "my service is very strong,why is it not working now?it was just working a few mins ago"then I saw all the comments
His mom seems like she really wants to help but is in denial that this is severe depression and not necessarily laziness.
I’m only about 3 minutes in and I already get the feeling that that poor guy is suffering from a lot of depression...it’s sad 😔
This guy is depressed. Not lazy. It’s always commonly mistaken. He’s in a dark place and they need to Atleast give him more support and his sister seems to enjoy it.
I am loving the longer clips, thank you!!!
He WANTS help, he definitely wants to change but he just struggles to by himself. This is severe depression in its worst form. I used to sleep all day and would shower every 3-5 days. The struggle to do much of anything is rough. Good on him for having the strength to step out ❤️
I love how everyone is talking about the servers.
Yay it’s work again. :)
I think it works now
Lol
It’s working again
Lmaooooo
Maybe he's depressed because he's got such annoying women in his life
legit thought it was only me 💀 the yt servers are down people, there’s nothing wrong with your phone. don’t restart it, don’t delete any apps, they’ll be up soon again
Thankyou dude I was wondering what’s happening
currently: crying
Same bro it’s pissing me off
Ok bro thanos
I was ready to shot my phone lol
📱 🔫
His new look suites him. I hope this is the first step in him loving himself ❤
I feel bad for him. Imagine having what you worked hard for jist slip through your fingers. However, my mother always say that no matter how much you runaway from problems, it will remain. She basically have forced me to face many truths in my life that I would rather escape from and I have always been thankful. I truly have never known anyone braver than my mother. To face the hard truth in the face and rise above them.
My mom said the same. Whenever you go, you take you with you.
@@Maria.9094 that's really insightful.
This is called Depression. Poor guy. I suffer from Depression too.... It sucks!!
The ignorance of his family. He clearly is in a dark place.
He’s depressed and I can see it. Poor guy :( I hope he gets the help he deserves.
Poor guy has crippling depression and his mom is helping him out. Don’t think it’s enabling, but he also needs professional help
This is depression at its finest. Being unmotivated is probably the biggest red flag for depression out of any other symptom, I know it is for me. I hope he can move forward.
Seeing the picture of him when he was younger with a fuller face it shocking. His weight is really low.
Wonderful comment Kelsey.
i hope he can get help and find happiness. prayers go out to u💖
90% of comments: Servers are down!
10% of comments: about the actual video
IKR?
It's so sad that his family has no idea he is depressed. You can just hear it in his voice along with his actions. I hope he gets the help he needs.
To the few of you who sees this, I hope you have a great day
you too!
You too!
You too. Depression sucks
You too! Thanks
no
He’s not lazy he’s depressed-
Ughhh, so infuriating. This was botched and mishandled in a multitude of ways. Give it a month or two and that life coach will be ghosted harder than Hamlet’s father.
You're an intelligent man. Wish I could be around someone like you
He clearly has depression. It is tough when family do not understand what is going on and even tougher for him to not understand it. He should of seen his doctor sooner, but it is hard when you do not know what it is or have anyone around you know for you to pay to see a doctor for it. I had gone into deep depression, my family hardly saw it, they were all depressed themselves (family deaths caused this). So, I just went to my doctor for other things and they eventually saw what was going on and told me I had depression. I even denied it. I hope this man gets the help he needs, meds/therapy. *big hugs* to him
This guy is just living the quarentine life