@Petal Blossom the mother is what you call a Narcissist, this includes: Selfishness, Manipulative, Calculating, these people are often at times emotionally, mentally, verbally or physically abusive, controlling, they are good at playing the victim. I should know I live with a Narcissistic person my father.
Wiccan Priestess I had a mother like that as well. You had to cater to her, she was like a child. Big temper tantrums, attention on her at all times. If she wasn’t happy, she would bring down everybody else around with her. I didn’t really realize or digest that she was a narcissist.
@Journeystomake Alkebulan I agree, it was all about not being centre of attention and that is really sad when you can't be happy for your own Daughter; let her have her day
It's because at the end of the day, that is their mother. Cuttimg parents out of your life is hard. I know. I've done it. You have this fantasy that one day, they will become better people and you will have a good relationship. But at some point you realize that that is just a fantasy and you feel like somerhing in you just died.
Kr H had to do the same thing with my grandma. she even attacked me like a rabid animal and then calls up other family that *actually did her wrong* in jamaica and tells them a butchered, one sided story. no has ever brought out that side of me before and it sucks because she forced my hand. had to *completely* disown her to her face and she *still* lives with me. but yeah, something definitely died inside. 😭
My father. Which is why we don't have a relationship. Actually it was him trying to my ex's new mother in law to help him keep my kids so I couldn't move then to a better environment. Like I said toxic is toxic. If you're toxic to me your toxic to my kids. Point blank.
@@Psychoanalytical87 Yeah... When someone tells you to back off you should. You don't trap an angry animal - you shouldn't trap a furious person either. Flight or fight.
Same here. Mine wasn't invited to my wedding. Hadn't seen her since she threw me out when I turned 16. We had to have the police explain she'd be arrested if she did what she threatened and ruined my wedding! Some people should never be parents.
I hope the siblings just support and talk to each other. I had a parent like that in my life and once I became an adult I had to not allow them in my life anymore.......They died without any of their grown kids at their bedside. This is what will happen to the mom if she isn't careful.
@@SynterraSteen well the think is he is a good father up until 2 years back and they he began to hurt me and my mom through words 😑 psychological abuse is worst and I decided to ignore him and get through with my life.
Sad part is all these years of love he gave to me and my mom was fake and he just showed his true color , so yeah my entire childhood is build with fake love.
@@pavithra7818 I dont think it was fake love. He still loves you he's just bitter right now. Bitter ppl don't realize how mean and selfish they become. Don't give up on him.
It kills me how she felt entitled to having involvement. If you aren't present for your children, they learn not to need you. If you bring drama to the table, they remove your chair.
Take Mom at her word. She does NOT want you in her life. She is now older, broke, and needs a place for her sorry butt to land. THIS WILL GET WORSE! RUN!!!
That's why I'm going to try to have one of my, or my fiances friends be sort of a security guard and kick people out if they act up like this. It's ridiculous. I'm not spending thousands on a wedding and having you make a day about love and me, about you and your issues.
That's the dictionary definition of selfish,she actually said she couldn't believe her daughter wanted control of the situation...that situation being her own wedding,SMDH!
My parents are both like this. They're divorced now and don't have to deal with each other but they really made it hard for my brother and I to grow up in a safe home. Now that I'm an adult, I've had to stop all communication with my parents because of their outbursts/ constant overstepping of boundaries. The biggest thing my parents taught me is sometimes nothing is better than something.
Must be hard to leave your toxic family, I'm happy you found peace and got out. My mom finally woke up at the age of 58 and decided to cut off her toxic brothers. They ruined her life, but she didn't want to leave them because she was scared to be alone without a family.
@@Hope_SH95 Mourning the loss of a family member while they're still walking this earth is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'm sending your mother and you many healthy healing vibes.
"She kinda wanted to have control over the situation" - Welll... Duh? It's her wedding? From someone who had an absolute sociopath as a mother, who literally stacked up on meds to kill me and my brother along with all the other stuff (many times)... I'd say good riddance and I salute you all for making such a huge effort to try and better this (even while she isn't worth it)!
Exactly! I have a mother that is like this that I cut out of my life however half my family says I should still try to have a relationship with her because we are biologically related. Some people hold onto this idea that biological family is the most important thing, and that we owe people love/devotion simply because we are related through blood. It’s very old thinking.
This is exactly why it’s okay to cut ties with people in your family, even your parents. Set that boundary and go no contact until they get help and show clear signs of improvement and willingness to change. This woman is a raging narcissist, she acts like an absolute child
Why was the mother even invited to the wedding? Early on, my husband and I had a detailed discussion on whose parents might be allowed to live with us. As it turned out, we never had to follow through, but we were prepared.
Sounds like she flew into a narcissistic rage. She wanted control and for it to be about her. She want supply. Her action are classic narcissist tropes at this point. Anyone with minimal knowledge about narcissim could see it.
1:34 sounds like the relationship I have with my mother,I fully understand what she is feeling in that moment and I hope she can do whats right and what she feels is right.
*"Seeing somebody who had absolutely tore our lives apart and destroyed my dreams was more than I could take and I had a total meltdown"* Do you think its occured to her yet that her daughter looks at her and feels the same thing? Or is she still the _innocent victim_ who has _no idea_ how _any of this could have happened_ 😟😢☹
I feel bad for both the daughter and her husband. To have your big day ruined because of your mother/ mother in law sucks. They were more patient than I would be. If my parents were acting up on my wedding day, I'd kick them out until they have control over themselves.
I think their mom could have avoided becoming like this if she had treated her trauma after her separation. We need to work on ourselves and heal as soon as possible, or we'll ruin our entire life, and our children.
“Wanted to be my friend, not my mom.” Friends their age make better friends, and moms need to be moms. When you are a mom, it is no longer all about you.
Seeing things like this makes me appreciate my mother so much. I hit the jackpot in the lottery for mothers i wouldnt swap mine for all the money in the world.
Wait what? The bride wanted control over her own wedding and wanted to have fun with her friends? What a crazy woman /s. I'm glad the siblings support each other and have love for each others. I can't stand that woman at all. It's all about her and her life and her feelings.
My mom told me if I had my wedding plans the way my BF and I planned them, she should “try everything in [her] power to ruin it and make [me] regret it.” All because my BF and I want to challenge wedding gender norms with me in a black dress and him in a white suit
While physical violence is not an acceptable response to an argument, when that is all the kids are exposed to that is the only form of behavior they learn. They acknowledge it was wrong and that’s important. The mon hasn’t changed according to them and that is a really big issue.
Its almost always the parents fault. My mom was, and still is an alcoholic. She has mental issues, and was yelling and screaming every day, when I was a child. She still does. She has never been able to see her own mistakes. Everything is always everyone else fault.
That woman is depressed, lonely, she's not maternal-some people aren't, and I'm pretty sure she has high blood pressure (it makes people very emotional and upset constantly). She needs therapy.
Mother is really gonna hate herself when she is alone in an old folks home. I’m a resident assistant and you can tell who was a good parent and who wasn’t. The ones that aren’t die unhappy and alone.
My mom acts exactly like this! She has done and said many terrible things, is selfish, abusive, has anger and substance abuse issues, and so much more. Well, now that I'm older her number is blocked, she has no idea where or even what state I live in, she has no idea we had a wedding and will never meet my children nor will I ever speak to her again. The best part is she has no one, no pension, no retirement, and no savings, so she will be living on the street as an old woman because she couldn't bother to be a good mother and person. If you have parents like this, you NEED to cut them out of your life without remorse, do it for yourself now, not tomorrow! I had no father or grandparents but I STILL cut her out happily, because no parent is better than a shitty parent, the sooner you realize this, the better. If your biological family sucks, make your own with a partner and great friends
OMG. A bride who wants control over her own wedding?! How dare she!! Wow this “mom” is delusional. Of course her daughter wanted control over the situation, and based on how this woman “parented” her kids it is pretty clear why the daughter didn’t want her mom to be part of the wedding.
Oh my god it's like I'm looking at my own mum watching this, almost everything to a T except from the fact that it was my graduation day and not a wedding. Arguably the worst day of my life.
@seducedPigeon, I am sorry that happened to you at graduation day. That is truly one of the happiest days in life. I hope you went out with your friends that night and had fun, instead of crying over your moms demons that rule over her
Very sad situations. Obviously the mother needs help. As a family, they have a lot of work to do if they choose to work on things. Blood does not mean family. Once I moved away from home I set a boundary with almost my entire family and I was a better person because of it. I hope they find healing and peace
I live 600 miles away from my mother and keep it text message only. Relationships are not always like movies or TV shows. It’s ok to walk away peacefully and live your own life without narcissistic people.
What kind of mother would ruin her daughter’s wedding day? Seriously? First, she complains that she’s not a part of the wedding, then she yells at her ex husband?
Why do these adults even want a relationship with a self absorbed screaming maniac? Move, change your phone number, she wants to be left alone, so leave her alone! Get her far away from ever having any contact or influence with your own children.
omg why even have the mom at the wedding??? That sounds like someone you cut ties with a longggggg time ago.... Just a ticking time bomb, and on your most special day, smh .......
You just said when we come back from break people will not believe what I'm going to say well I know what you're going to say you're going to say we're going to take a quick break 😂
Maybe the mum should have realised that if her daughter was more into seeing her father who she hasnt seen in years, and not being with her mum, that maybe her mum was embarrassing and should change.
Sometimes you just have to cut bait with a family member because they are too toxic for everyone. Unless they are willing to admit to their faults and seek help - at which point support is golden
The ONLY thing you can do if you are unfortunate to have a person like this in your life is to STOP seeing them . She has shown you for years who she is , it’s time you believe her . Go to therapy to heal the damage that she has already inflicted on you and stop allowing her to inflict any more damage . Good luck x
Mom's miserable and doesn't want anyone else to be happy either. That's why she ruined the wedding. Spite.
@Petal Blossom the mother is what you call a Narcissist, this includes: Selfishness, Manipulative, Calculating, these people are often at times emotionally, mentally, verbally or physically abusive, controlling, they are good at playing the victim. I should know I live with a Narcissistic person my father.
@@MsWiccanpriestess same but mine died 4 years ago
Lmao
Wiccan Priestess I had a mother like that as well. You had to cater to her, she was like a child. Big temper tantrums, attention on her at all times. If she wasn’t happy, she would bring down everybody else around with her. I didn’t really realize or digest that she was a narcissist.
My mother is good for ruining special moments.
Why would you want a relationship with that woman?
Blood and DNA doesn't make someone a parent.
Thank you
@Journeystomake Alkebulan I agree, it was all about not being centre of attention and that is really sad when you can't be happy for your own Daughter; let her have her day
It's because at the end of the day, that is their mother. Cuttimg parents out of your life is hard. I know. I've done it. You have this fantasy that one day, they will become better people and you will have a good relationship. But at some point you realize that that is just a fantasy and you feel like somerhing in you just died.
Facts
Kr H
had to do the same thing with my grandma. she even attacked me like a rabid animal and then calls up other family that *actually did her wrong* in jamaica and tells them a butchered, one sided story. no has ever brought out that side of me before and it sucks because she forced my hand. had to *completely* disown her to her face and she *still* lives with me. but yeah, something definitely died inside. 😭
At least the siblings are supportive of each other..
Kinda have to be 😂
That's all that matters
I guess that kind of abuse forces them together, they need some kinda anchor
Yes thank God for that
Lmao not like it was gonna come from anywhere else 😂😂
Who ruins their own child’s wedding over their own selfish feelings!?!! This lady needs serious mental help!
Chris Watt’s mother would
My father. Which is why we don't have a relationship. Actually it was him trying to my ex's new mother in law to help him keep my kids so I couldn't move then to a better environment. Like I said toxic is toxic. If you're toxic to me your toxic to my kids. Point blank.
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my mom is just like her
I'm surprised that my mom didn't try something like this bc she wasn't the center of attention.
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“She wanted to control everything” ITS HER WEDDING AS SHE SHOULD
ewww her taunting her daughter with "you gonna hit me?!”... she obviously has her own deep issues she needs to deal with on her own.
The daughters admitted they did beat on their mom 🤷♀️
She's following her mum around.. The mum keeps telling her to go away and leave her alone
She’s hit before ! How is she supposed to feel ?
@@Psychoanalytical87 Yeah... When someone tells you to back off you should. You don't trap an angry animal - you shouldn't trap a furious person either. Flight or fight.
@@bobrown582 I'd punch her too if I were them
If narcissist personality disorder was a person....wow!!
The crazy thing is, most narcissists act exactly the same. It's insane.
My parents are the exact copy just about 0.01 percent less insane about some issues
So Narcissus?
There’s one in a public office.
@@mariaweston5477 Yeah
My mother was like this, manipulative selfish neglectful didn't teach us anything. Some people have no business having children.
Very sorry you didn’t have a mom you deserved.
Same. We're stronger and better off without them.
Cymru Corpse ....same.....
Same here. Mine wasn't invited to my wedding. Hadn't seen her since she threw me out when I turned 16. We had to have the police explain she'd be arrested if she did what she threatened and ruined my wedding! Some people should never be parents.
I swear, they need to make this a law; go to a college or a school to be able to have children.
You know it's gonna be bad when they call the mom by her first name lol
I hope the siblings just support and talk to each other. I had a parent like that in my life and once I became an adult I had to not allow them in my life anymore.......They died without any of their grown kids at their bedside. This is what will happen to the mom if she isn't careful.
I have a father like that and yeah that's the end I'm planning to give him.😑
That’s so sad. I hope you both have healed from that..
@@SynterraSteen well the think is he is a good father up until 2 years back and they he began to hurt me and my mom through words 😑 psychological abuse is worst and I decided to ignore him and get through with my life.
Sad part is all these years of love he gave to me and my mom was fake and he just showed his true color , so yeah my entire childhood is build with fake love.
@@pavithra7818 I dont think it was fake love. He still loves you he's just bitter right now. Bitter ppl don't realize how mean and selfish they become. Don't give up on him.
“You’re NOT going to ignore ME! If you don’t PAY ATTENTION to me-I WILL make my unhappiness known to all & ruin your day!”
It kills me how she felt entitled to having involvement. If you aren't present for your children, they learn not to need you. If you bring drama to the table, they remove your chair.
@@truthhurts8312 Well said!
That's sad..
It's sad this mother has to make even the special day in her kids life all about her.
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Take Mom at her word. She does NOT want you in her life. She is now older, broke, and needs a place for her sorry butt to land. THIS WILL GET WORSE! RUN!!!
At least her children turned out better.
I would lock my mother out the church if she did some shiii like this they too patient with this lady
That's why I'm going to try to have one of my, or my fiances friends be sort of a security guard and kick people out if they act up like this. It's ridiculous. I'm not spending thousands on a wedding and having you make a day about love and me, about you and your issues.
Call the 🚔
They should've just kicked her out, call the police on her
That's the dictionary definition of selfish,she actually said she couldn't believe her daughter wanted control of the situation...that situation being her own wedding,SMDH!
A melt down!! You're not 5 ..it's your daughter's wedding..GROW UP
My parents are both like this. They're divorced now and don't have to deal with each other but they really made it hard for my brother and I to grow up in a safe home. Now that I'm an adult, I've had to stop all communication with my parents because of their outbursts/ constant overstepping of boundaries. The biggest thing my parents taught me is sometimes nothing is better than something.
Must be hard to leave your toxic family, I'm happy you found peace and got out. My mom finally woke up at the age of 58 and decided to cut off her toxic brothers. They ruined her life, but she didn't want to leave them because she was scared to be alone without a family.
@@Hope_SH95 Mourning the loss of a family member while they're still walking this earth is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'm sending your mother and you many healthy healing vibes.
@@bmoisgood3228 thank you so much!
It’s so sad that so many of US can relate to having shitty parents like this
@@Meangirl22 it's hard!
"She kinda wanted to have control over the situation" - Welll... Duh? It's her wedding?
From someone who had an absolute sociopath as a mother, who literally stacked up on meds to kill me and my brother along with all the other stuff (many times)... I'd say good riddance and I salute you all for making such a huge effort to try and better this (even while she isn't worth it)!
@ Oh, you're right, whoops! It cut to her right after her mother talking and she was still on video, so I mistook it
Toxic... toxic. What a horrible thing to do to your daughter on her special day. Someone who "tore their lives apart" ... SHE DID THAT!!!
“She wanted control over the situation” ummmm it’s kinda HER wedding
That lady is a narcissist. It's best to love her from a distance.
Don't love narcissists at all.
@@malas.7276 Easier said than done. A good fraction of the time don't get to choose the kind of people that end up in our lives.
Why this woman acting like a 12 yo kid JEEZ
@@frogmanjr sounds about right!🤟
Shes immature yes but my 11 year old acts nothing like that 😞
Well as far as the wedding goes, everyone basically does what the bride wants; even the groom.
Reminds me of that mom who wore a white dress and was chanting “THANK YOU JESUS” in her daughter’s wedding 😂
When I saw the caption that's what I thought it was, until I saw the photo and the upload time. 😂
@@shelbielynne9609 omg right? 😂😂😂
exactly lol
@Barbara Cox lol
Why would they want a relationship with her, she just wants everyone to be miserable just like her, just live her alone
Exactly! I have a mother that is like this that I cut out of my life however half my family says I should still try to have a relationship with her because we are biologically related. Some people hold onto this idea that biological family is the most important thing, and that we owe people love/devotion simply because we are related through blood. It’s very old thinking.
It's her wedding her guest list
This is exactly why it’s okay to cut ties with people in your family, even your parents. Set that boundary and go no contact until they get help and show clear signs of improvement and willingness to change. This woman is a raging narcissist, she acts like an absolute child
Mom has never matured emotionally beyond teen level. She's probably also a narcissist who can't put her children first even on their wedding day. Sad.
Why was the mother even invited to the wedding? Early on, my husband and I had a detailed discussion on whose parents might be allowed to live with us. As it turned out, we never had to follow through, but we were prepared.
Sounds like she flew into a narcissistic rage. She wanted control and for it to be about her. She want supply. Her action are classic narcissist tropes at this point. Anyone with minimal knowledge about narcissim could see it.
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So I understand this situation a lot and to answer your question at least for me it’s the wanting to have a mother a complete family
Loser they are tho right 😂
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"She wanted to control her wedding" uhh... yeah. She's in charge of the wedding...?
I would've gone no contact with her immediately after that. I don't understand why they want this unstable person in their lives.
1:34 sounds like the relationship I have with my mother,I fully understand what she is feeling in that moment and I hope she can do whats right and what she feels is right.
*"Seeing somebody who had absolutely tore our lives apart and destroyed my dreams was more than I could take and I had a total meltdown"*
Do you think its occured to her yet that her daughter looks at her and feels the same thing? Or is she still the _innocent victim_ who has _no idea_ how _any of this could have happened_ 😟😢☹
I feel bad for both the daughter and her husband. To have your big day ruined because of your mother/ mother in law sucks.
They were more patient than I would be. If my parents were acting up on my wedding day, I'd kick them out until they have control over themselves.
This hits home, this is my mom ... toxic & selfish & doesn’t ever understand how she’s in the wrong.
I think their mom could have avoided becoming like this if she had treated her trauma after her separation. We need to work on ourselves and heal as soon as possible, or we'll ruin our entire life, and our children.
Nat, totally agree with you.
“Wanted to be my friend, not my mom.” Friends their age make better friends, and moms need to be moms. When you are a mom, it is no longer all about you.
Seeing things like this makes me appreciate my mother so much. I hit the jackpot in the lottery for mothers i wouldnt swap mine for all the money in the world.
Why the heck did they invite her to the wedding at all??
Wait what? The bride wanted control over her own wedding and wanted to have fun with her friends? What a crazy woman /s.
I'm glad the siblings support each other and have love for each others. I can't stand that woman at all. It's all about her and her life and her feelings.
My mom told me if I had my wedding plans the way my BF and I planned them, she should “try everything in [her] power to ruin it and make [me] regret it.”
All because my BF and I want to challenge wedding gender norms with me in a black dress and him in a white suit
That actually sounds really cute... Heck, I might even hang on to that idea for later. I hope it went well for you
Girl do it, we are playing Panic at the disco to walk out to, you just gotta go for it man
@@charliecole6341 I'm not even close to getting married (as in, I've never even have a boyfriend) but I'll definitely put a pin in that idea for later
Get a restraining order or bouncers if you and your boyfriend marry. In case your mom’s threat is genuine
Do it!
3:16 No lady, YOU ruined everyones lives along with the men you brought in. Accountability isnt that hard when you genuinely want to change.
No one needs a mom like that in their lives. Time to move on ladies, she's not going to change, because she doesn't think she did anything wrong.
It’s never a good sign if a parent acts as a friend instead of a parent.
Destroyed MY dreams says all you need to know about her!
She wanted control of her own wedding ? Shocker
Fascinating that the son didn’t see it until so many years later. I wasn’t believed either. A familiar tale.
That lady is just sad and unhappy and she wants the samething for her kids. That sucks.
While physical violence is not an acceptable response to an argument, when that is all the kids are exposed to that is the only form of behavior they learn. They acknowledge it was wrong and that’s important. The mon hasn’t changed according to them and that is a really big issue.
Why is my mom Crazy well maybe you made her like this 😆
Its almost always the parents fault. My mom was, and still is an alcoholic. She has mental issues, and was yelling and screaming every day, when I was a child. She still does. She has never been able to see her own mistakes. Everything is always everyone else fault.
Narc
Never invite narcs to anything. Not even a phone call.
If 2 kids are saying the same thing it is most likely true.
Wow this is crazy. It’s so harsh to steal someone’s thunder on THEIR wedding day but for it to be the mom doing it? That’s brutal!
That woman is depressed, lonely, she's not maternal-some people aren't, and I'm pretty sure she has high blood pressure (it makes people very emotional and upset constantly). She needs therapy.
This whole story breaks my heart
That wedding wasn’t supposed to be about the mom, she’s already had 3 weddings!!
Mother is really gonna hate herself when she is alone in an old folks home. I’m a resident assistant and you can tell who was a good parent and who wasn’t. The ones that aren’t die unhappy and alone.
My mom acts exactly like this! She has done and said many terrible things, is selfish, abusive, has anger and substance abuse issues, and so much more. Well, now that I'm older her number is blocked, she has no idea where or even what state I live in, she has no idea we had a wedding and will never meet my children nor will I ever speak to her again. The best part is she has no one, no pension, no retirement, and no savings, so she will be living on the street as an old woman because she couldn't bother to be a good mother and person. If you have parents like this, you NEED to cut them out of your life without remorse, do it for yourself now, not tomorrow! I had no father or grandparents but I STILL cut her out happily, because no parent is better than a shitty parent, the sooner you realize this, the better. If your biological family sucks, make your own with a partner and great friends
OMG. A bride who wants control over her own wedding?! How dare she!!
Wow this “mom” is delusional. Of course her daughter wanted control over the situation, and based on how this woman “parented” her kids it is pretty clear why the daughter didn’t want her mom to be part of the wedding.
If you're gonna have kids, you need a strong will. You need to know that you should never give up or pick someone else over your children.
Such pain in this family. Probably generational for this mother.
If you're so unhappy with your childhood... why are you apart of your mom's life as an adult.
Cut your ties and move on.
It's ok to block someone like that from your life. Family or not. You have to protect yourself.
Why would you want to reconnect to someone like this?
Oh my god it's like I'm looking at my own mum watching this, almost everything to a T except from the fact that it was my graduation day and not a wedding.
Arguably the worst day of my life.
@seducedPigeon, I am sorry that happened to you at graduation day. That is truly one of the happiest days in life. I hope you went out with your friends that night and had fun, instead of crying over your moms demons that rule over her
i’m excited they left the comments on
Very sad situations. Obviously the mother needs help. As a family, they have a lot of work to do if they choose to work on things. Blood does not mean family. Once I moved away from home I set a boundary with almost my entire family and I was a better person because of it. I hope they find healing and peace
I live 600 miles away from my mother and keep it text message only. Relationships are not always like movies or TV shows. It’s ok to walk away peacefully and live your own life without narcissistic people.
Daughter: I'd like to have control of my wedding.
Mom: ...and I took that personally.
Some people just should not procreate
"No! No! No! ... They're all gonna laugh at you!"
What kind of mother would ruin her daughter’s wedding day? Seriously? First, she complains that she’s not a part of the wedding, then she yells at her ex husband?
Why do these adults even want a relationship with a self absorbed screaming maniac? Move, change your phone number, she wants to be left alone, so leave her alone! Get her far away from ever having any contact or influence with your own children.
That mom needs to get a grip and be gone until then.
Im. Now dealing with the same. I became selfaware . realized my parents are narcissistic. With no emotional support at all
Why would you want a relationship with this person. Looks like a vicious cycle to me. Feeding off of each other. Toxic
omg why even have the mom at the wedding??? That sounds like someone you cut ties with a longggggg time ago.... Just a ticking time bomb, and on your most special day, smh .......
Why would you even invite someone that unstable and agressive to your big day?? As if it isn't stressful enough on ones wedding.
Shameful! My mother would never have been invited to my wedding. This certainly wasn’t the first indication that she’s got issues!
Why would you even invite this terrible mother to your wedding if you knew she would act like a crazy person
It’s called trauma bonding. They didn’t think she’d be crazy at the wedding. They don’t understand that Mom is a full-blown narcissist.
Some people you have to love from distance nomatter who they are!!! toxic is toxic
The way she says "disgust" seems like THAT one was set up lol.
Just hate it when you are given a small part of the scenario
This brings back such horrible memories....go no contact and save yourselves!
Who recordred this?That daughter will have to get her own place!
You just said when we come back from break people will not believe what I'm going to say well I know what you're going to say you're going to say we're going to take a quick break 😂
Why is the mom acting as if it’s not her fault in the video 🤦🏻♂️WHEN CLEARLY SHE’S THE ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING
That recorded argument sounds so petty and funny at the same time. Like it belongs at the playgrounds among toddlers
Maybe the mum should have realised that if her daughter was more into seeing her father who she hasnt seen in years, and not being with her mum, that maybe her mum was embarrassing and should change.
I would have never allowed her to the wedding. NEVER
Sometimes you just have to cut bait with a family member because they are too toxic for everyone. Unless they are willing to admit to their faults and seek help - at which point support is golden
I can see what the mother is saying. Although she should have handled it differently
The ONLY thing you can do if you are unfortunate to have a person like this in your life is to STOP seeing them .
She has shown you for years who she is , it’s time you believe her . Go to therapy to heal the damage that she has already inflicted on you and stop allowing her to inflict any more damage . Good luck x