5 Clever Tips To Win Over Your Child Custody Judge!

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @Commandthecourtroom
    @Commandthecourtroom  8 місяців тому +5

    So, we've talked about judges who hate us. How can we make them love us? In this video, I'll give you some tips for being the "judge's pet." Leave me a comment and let me know if you have any other ideas on helping make your judge's life easier.

  • @lorenmcclurg3261
    @lorenmcclurg3261 8 місяців тому +18

    I like the idea of presenting a timeline to the judge.

  • @meghanhaines8481
    @meghanhaines8481 8 місяців тому +5

    ❤you are such a gift!!
    Your videos are really motivating! Your advice is platinum gold!!
    I live in New York and have a conflict defender representing me and my little sweets, my goal was to try to make “make the attorneys life easier” 🤗when I found your videos! You sharing your knowledge has helped me to help the folks who are are doing hard work on behalf of the kiddos. It makes me feel more confident, more prepared, and way way less nervous!!
    Thank you sooo much for all of your hard work and content creation!
    Your are helping us to help our kids!! ❤️💯

  • @jameshoffmaster3972
    @jameshoffmaster3972 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you Wendy for doing these videos! They help more than you know.

  • @tonygarcia1497
    @tonygarcia1497 8 місяців тому +2

    Wendy is awesome and never fails to validate what it takes "to command the court room". Much respect for her! I strongly recommend her.
    Thank you Wendy🙏

  • @sstorm1328
    @sstorm1328 8 місяців тому +10

    Some judges hate too much relevant facts and spreadsheets that present them. Even timelines and summaries irritate a judge who gets up on the wrong side of the bed. Judges hate their own jobs too often and just sometimes hate whoever has reason to need a judge to read or listen. It is a roll of the dice. Judges tend to be prejudiced against any person who might legitimately need to protect their children from a bad parent or wants to present evidence that is unpleasant.

  • @Brendan_Are
    @Brendan_Are 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for this-I already commented, but I can't stop watching your videos- the magistrate in my case plain does NOT like me, to put it simply, but these are still VERY helpful. THANKS, WENDY!!

    • @Commandthecourtroom
      @Commandthecourtroom  8 місяців тому

      @Brendan_Are I saw your comment last week (THANK YOU🙏). As I was deleting some SPAM comments from a robot early that morning, I accidentally deleted your comment about "trusting COMMAND THE COURTROOM". UGH!!!! I was so upset! I'm glad the videos are helping you. Don't lose faith!

  • @masonstruckadventure9368
    @masonstruckadventure9368 6 місяців тому +3

    Last minutes I put together an exhibit summary for the judge in detail. I'm glad I did, 13 exhibits close to 400 copies; I think the judge will appreciate that

  • @LadyJpraise2024unbound
    @LadyJpraise2024unbound 8 годин тому

    How do u get your attorney fees back in custody

  • @strangescience3414
    @strangescience3414 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for helping.

  • @Liz-yq5mf
    @Liz-yq5mf 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you. This is so helpful

  • @aleciadanse1836
    @aleciadanse1836 6 місяців тому +1

    This video was VERY helpful! Thank you!

  • @NHRebelsthoughts
    @NHRebelsthoughts 8 місяців тому +2

    Wendy always has good advice

    • @Commandthecourtroom
      @Commandthecourtroom  8 місяців тому +1

      💜💜💜

    • @NHRebelsthoughts
      @NHRebelsthoughts 8 місяців тому

      @@Commandthecourtroom your a good one Wendy. You DSD and Alex give real world advice

  • @adinacustovic-selimovic
    @adinacustovic-selimovic 5 місяців тому +2

    Can one filled Order of Protection against a mother in law( ex wife got temporary custody of a child and her mother is influencing my child against me)?

  • @annbridgeman5709
    @annbridgeman5709 16 днів тому

    So my kids got taking from me last year by my aunt Mary nd I hav court march of 2025 I just want my kids my babies fathers dnt wanna help nor go get my babies

  • @stinaelite6268
    @stinaelite6268 2 місяці тому +2

    In the beginning its a timeline, as it continues, its usually one or two issues being spoke on. Keep it simple, stick to facts that support your answer or put holes in their case. But focus on the specific matter..we not in court to impress the judge, we in court to present evidence supporting or making it uncredible. Judge could care less in family court about liking you, stick to facts and laws and keep emotions out of it

  • @SarbatDaBhlaChannel
    @SarbatDaBhlaChannel 4 місяці тому

    Is Tom Cruise your Clint from past

  • @ChristopherHerber-h6r
    @ChristopherHerber-h6r 8 місяців тому +18

    My son's mother been hiding my son from me for 9 years. In those years I came across her twice. Since then I've been receiving restraining orders with very bad allegations. I couldn't believe it, just found out that she is also trying to change his last name since I believe very strongly that regardless of the court agreement for my son she is trying to erase me from my sons life. Last I seen him he was 3 and now just turned 12 in March 2024. It's been a hard 9 years without knowing what he looks like if he played sports how his grades or even his health is like.

    • @d4reelspeaks
      @d4reelspeaks 8 місяців тому +11

      You probably were abusive. That is when a woman hides the kids!! So say what u did.🤥

    • @ChristopherHerber-h6r
      @ChristopherHerber-h6r 8 місяців тому

      Hello, I'm sorry to hear that but I truly believe that I have the right to refuse a relationship and cut off funds. Also have police reports can't get to far on this subject because court is coming soon and also God is great and I pray 🙏🏼 much success on everything you do God bless...

    • @theunbreakable1587
      @theunbreakable1587 8 місяців тому +17

      ​@@d4reelspeaks And his ex wife is probably an alcoholic or an addict. You don't know anything about this guy, so you should keep your uneducated comments to yourself. You obviously hate men and you're projecting.

    • @angieeebabieee
      @angieeebabieee 6 місяців тому +3

      I feel for you strongly. Men are disregarded and treated like second class parents. My body my choice then take 100% responsibility for the baby. Men don't get a choice. Women need to stop acting like they don't know they are the baby maker, be more responsible ladies damn

    • @ChristopherHerber-h6r
      @ChristopherHerber-h6r 6 місяців тому +3

      Thank you all for your kindness and more for the prayers. Update court was on April 25th, for the restraining order and I thank God it was dismissed. Just had got the paperwork in and it had took a while because it had went into advisement. Also have court audio where it clearly revealed her lies.

  • @strangescience3414
    @strangescience3414 2 місяці тому

    Life is not eaaier when people are fighting so much 😓
    Instead of having a moral compass.

  • @JackB-i5d
    @JackB-i5d 4 місяці тому

    Administrative officers have no right deciding your child's future title 4 d contractors at that ...u wanna get on there good dude file a claim on there public official bond n see who commands the court room ...change venue and ask an admin officer about jurisdiction while ur at it

  • @RS3maniac
    @RS3maniac 3 місяці тому

    Every since my divorce my ex has been finding anything to paint me as a neglectful parent. Making wild accusations and disobeying the standard possession order.

  • @ashley.johnson236
    @ashley.johnson236 3 місяці тому

    The court system screwed me over

  • @JackB-i5d
    @JackB-i5d 4 місяці тому

    What judge those aren't judges

  • @sunshineandpuppydogs7526
    @sunshineandpuppydogs7526 7 місяців тому +1

    @Commandthecourtroom, I am unable to download, or even open, the Best Interest Checklist from the link in any of your videos or from the website. Any thoughts?

    • @Commandthecourtroom
      @Commandthecourtroom  7 місяців тому

      Hi there! You have to fill out the form on the website for the checklist. Once you do, you'll be sent an email asking you to confirm your subscription. Once you confirm the subscription, the checklist will be emailed to you. I hope this helps!