1. Don't pay for attention 2. Don't let her Friend zone you 3. Give positive answers 4. Never move in with Convenience 5. Don't become the Boyfriend before 6 months 6. Don't let her hit you (Don't hit the bitch back, grab her. Grab her Not because it's wrong to hit a woman if they did it first, but because YOU will get in trouble despite it being the other way around thab than people will think). Enjoy everyone. Read this if you on short timing
Don't even grab her. Just RUN Edit: they'll arrest you for grabbing her too. I know this for a fact just find the strength to leave her tf alone. Find one who is not abusive
One thing I’ll never tolerate is a woman giving compliments to another man in front of me. If your lady is giving out approval to other men run for the hills.
I hear ya - Micah! Great tips - by Melli. I agree. You can buy her affection, and for the guys who try to - it’s quite depressing, and sad. I know a lot of dudes do this, and they end up with no girl in the end, and they all wonder what happened. You just can’t buy someone’s affection - everything has to be earned. People don’t appreciate what comes easily to them - it’s just how life works. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I have a lawyer buddy that always goes this route. He takes his dates to nice restaurants but has a hard time getting a call back. I tell him take them for lunch or coffee instead, but he won’t listen. 🤷🏽♂️ To each their own I guess! 😆
I am a seasoned male who was thirty or so when the internet was allowed public consumption. Of course, UA-cam can along much later. Having this kind of solid information available to me as a younger man would have been invaluable especially in my twenties. So, young bucks, take heed to the knowledge this Queen is throwing down! I have watched hours of Melli's content, and while I am not officially in the game anymore, it is refreshing to hear young people, especially young women educate young men about relationships. Particularly when it is on point and relevant; the humor and laughter is also a plus. Melli you are a relationship griot, hope the man in your life honors and appreciates your wit, charm, humor and intelligence. Keep doing your thing, it will never get old and uninspiring.
I'm in my mid 40's now, and, I buy the junior college chicks on my street biology books,and lab coats. I also don't mind paying them to leave about twice a month. Look at it as enjoying the 23:1 ratio.
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
im a habitual meat beater. Have no choice. Women dont know but if men dont ejaculate occasionally it comes out whether we want it or not. We get frequent erections at odd times. Like in public and of course when we sleep. its a messy affair so its better to masturbate than be tense all the time. I dont really want casual hookups with STDs going being a threat out here and there is a need to not be wasting money. Oh and that one about scrolling through social media. woah thats a hard one its so addictive.
That's my boo... Not in real life, but I Love you Melli... You are telling the pure truth... Even though I'm seasoned in these games, it's great to hear what men are dealing with from a real good woman's perspective!!!
I swear you're helping a lot of men and women here. That's very interesting. I was listening u and i heard your dog. Can u invite him front of da camera in another video? 😊
Thank you for explaining that to the lames … spending money like rich people is not cool … and the ones that want you to spend like a rock star are not worth a persons time
Melli, you are such a funny person. Your humor is way up there and you make it very easy for anyone to have a any co versatile with you. I like your advices and think they are very beneficial to those men who are lacking in those characteristics. You are very swell!
Great Video and Advice !!! Sex is never my main priority !! It will come usually once their is a good relationship! I actually once told a woman I don't have sex with women I don't know and we were just friends !! maybe I could or should have been a little more tactful ?? But I never let any people change who I am !!!
Great video as usual Mali especially the last part about it getting hit and not hitting Everyone has to understand limits and if they don’t then just walk away so much easier
This lovely lady's advice is spot on and delivered with wonderful wit and wisdom - it's crucial that you don't let the woman in your life take control of you or vice-versa - the only person you should control is yourself !
Ok when she say friend zone..I ve had plenty of women that are friends,we never talked about having sex,we just cool we go places,shop.she probably felling better being with me,than having a boyfriend, because a friend will do what the boyfriend or her man won't do, she feels comfortable...
Damn girl you keep saying the right things all time , I had to pass because this one chick keeps putting pressure on me and all I could see was my future so she moved on and I keep winning.
1. Don’t buy a bitch’s attention 2. Leave once she friendzones you 3. Compliment her looks when she’s fishing for it 4. Don’t pay for her bills/rent 5. Don’t commit before 6 months of dating/don’t rush 6. Never allow a woman to hit you
@A Great Man Named Lieu women only don’t want compliments about their looks from SIMPS, because they expect it from them and so have little value. However, if a woman likes you and actually respects you, compliments about looks will be genuinely appreciated.
@@geo.ies93 IF she don't already have a big head, IF it is genuine, IF you aren't drooling all over the floor when you say it, and IF you are clearly not doing it to get in her drawers, you could give her an occasional compliment without lowering your value. Think about this also. Good looking women are always getting complimented on their looks. Compliment her on something else, like her wardrobe, accessories, or maybe even something funny or smart that she said. First, make sure she actually said something funny or smart.
BONG BONG. You hit the Hammer right on the Nail with the moving in out of Convenience. I see it happen all the time, and it Never Works. it was 4 years before me and my lady moved in together.
I just want to see her when she hits 50 - 70. This woman is going to be a fox for days. And she keeps the drama and BS in check. Love it. Love her way.
Thanks it was very helpful keep up the good work if a female get in your face a space or even hit you always walk away and never return be the biggest person respect yourself and again always walk away 👑💯
#3 Always give a positive answer. NO!!! I warn them, I'm going to tell them the truth whether they like it or not, my honest opinion, the truth, no need to lie about nothing. Mellie I do not agree with you on this one bit.
Love it, spot on and what makes your videos great is you are so direct. Other females will admire you but hate you are spouting the psychological truth❤
Don’t see the differences between dating someone exclusively and being “boyfriend”. In my head is 3 easy steps Talking stage Dating stage Official stage and that’s it… This generation has everything messed up if you ask me
Let me help the men on here that feel lost. Work on yourself that’s how you get any woman. Become something untouchable, become your 1% translation Alfa that’s all you need.
Real talk move forward in life allow ppl your presence who can help you move forward if someone is hurting there self trying to help you they r dead weight and your foe they just smily
Melli M keeping it real..This lady should have a podcast...i could listen to her all day...very comedic and at the same time very informative. Keep it coming Melli..Rock On!🤘⚡🔥..Legend Baby!🤘⚡
Speaking of #1, I know a guy who tries hard to get a woman. Too hard, he's desperate, can't take no for an answer. I saw him buy a $40 hat for this woman, she said no, not to bother but he did it anyway, she seemed uncomfortable. It did look good on her. A friend of mine said he hit on her and he tried again during that same event he bought this other woman the hat. He's a nice and kind of fun guy in his own way but man, he just doesn't stop approaching the women, without any luck by the way.
Am I the only person in this comment section hoping that those flimsy strings on that blouse haphazardly come lose while Melli is giving this good advice! 🤭
6.) Don't be a simp.
5.) Don't be a simp.
4.) Lie.
3.) Don't be a simp.
2.) Don't be a simp.
1.) Don't be a simp.
😂
Pretty much
Major key alert… 🔑🚨🤣
Facts
🤣🤣🤣
1. Don't pay for attention
2. Don't let her Friend zone you
3. Give positive answers
4. Never move in with Convenience
5. Don't become the Boyfriend before 6 months
6. Don't let her hit you (Don't hit the bitch back, grab her. Grab her Not because it's wrong to hit a woman if they did it first, but because YOU will get in trouble despite it being the other way around thab than people will think).
Enjoy everyone. Read this if you on short timing
7. Forget her, try another one and repeat step 1 to 7 😁🤣
Good list
Don't even grab her. Just RUN
Edit: they'll arrest you for grabbing her too. I know this for a fact just find the strength to leave her tf alone. Find one who is not abusive
I only fux wit christian women
Thank you sir
Dont let em go through your phone or show up to your place uninvited or announced.
Do not tolerate disrespect at all, you leave immediately
amen, fuck yea 👏
Just check the bitch🤷🏾♂️
One thing I’ll never tolerate is a woman giving compliments to another man in front of me. If your lady is giving out approval to other men run for the hills.
I hear ya - Micah!
Great tips - by Melli. I agree. You can buy her affection, and for the guys who try to - it’s quite depressing, and sad.
I know a lot of dudes do this, and they end up with no girl in the end, and they all wonder what happened.
You just can’t buy someone’s affection - everything has to be earned. People don’t appreciate what comes easily to them - it’s just how life works.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 subscribed, sir! 🙌🏽
@@TheMicahwitz Thanks! I appreciate you. Lol
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I have a lawyer buddy that always goes this route. He takes his dates to nice restaurants but has a hard time getting a call back. I tell him take them for lunch or coffee instead, but he won’t listen. 🤷🏽♂️ To each their own I guess! 😆
@@TheMicahwitz I hear ya! Lol
I am a seasoned male who was thirty or so when the internet was allowed public consumption. Of course, UA-cam can along much later. Having this kind of solid information available to me as a younger man would have been invaluable especially in my twenties. So, young bucks, take heed to the knowledge this Queen is throwing down! I have watched hours of Melli's content, and while I am not officially in the game anymore, it is refreshing to hear young people, especially young women educate young men about relationships. Particularly when it is on point and relevant; the humor and laughter is also a plus. Melli you are a relationship griot, hope the man in your life honors and appreciates your wit, charm, humor and intelligence. Keep doing your thing, it will never get old and uninspiring.
I'm in my mid 40's now, and, I buy the junior college chicks on my street biology books,and lab coats. I also don't mind paying them to leave about twice a month. Look at it as enjoying the 23:1 ratio.
Well Said. Bro.....
Lol I didn’t need this woman to tell me this shit when I was in my 20s but she spot on with a lot of this shit
Straight 100, no chaser!!! Love your energy and appreciate as a man!
My wife hit me once. Hartley felt anything. Lol.
I left her at that moment. Never looked back.
Good move!
Very smart move
You made the right choice. In the interim, your departure from that woman will hurt her by itself.
Why you shouldn't kick her ass
She is sharing real knowledge. This lady is wise .
10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Power to this. 👊🏾
TIGH!👍🏽
im a habitual meat beater. Have no choice. Women dont know but if men dont ejaculate occasionally it comes out whether we want it or not. We get frequent erections at odd times. Like in public and of course when we sleep. its a messy affair so its better to masturbate than be tense all the time. I dont really want casual hookups with STDs going being a threat out here and there is a need to not be wasting money. Oh and that one about scrolling through social media. woah thats a hard one its so addictive.
Bro if I don't beat the drum my shit be on demon time😈
All good advice apart from 1 🤔
Gal u really make sense, u'r talk is honest and very educating!
One word.
Extraordinary
Loving the way you keep it real.
“ cause a real woman” when you said that I was digging you pointing out the diff!
That's my boo... Not in real life, but I Love you Melli... You are telling the pure truth... Even though I'm seasoned in these games, it's great to hear what men are dealing with from a real good woman's perspective!!!
Im so appreciative of the knowledge youre sharing Meloi one love babe
I swear you're helping a lot of men and women here. That's very interesting. I was listening u and i heard your dog. Can u invite him front of da camera in another video? 😊
I love this lady she speaks nothing but the truth.
True that very true... Game recognizes game
FINALLY a woman who’s not lying about how to get women😂
She tlkin factss
Plot twist : She dates girl
@@franklynfrankth Plot thicken: Shes a man reincarnated into a woman
I Love Jesus Christ Let Church Say Amen 🙏🏿
@@showbizgwoponese8855 LOLOL
You’re awesome ! We need more women like you around
You'll never know someone enough 💯
Thank you for explaining that to the lames … spending money like rich people is not cool … and the ones that want you to spend like a rock star are not worth a persons time
I don't give a f*** Milli you are the realest woman around that is out here right .👑🔥💯 You are always on Target with things you say..
Melli, you are such a funny person. Your humor is way up there and you make it very easy for anyone to have a any co versatile with you. I like your advices and think they are very beneficial to those men who are lacking in those characteristics. You are very swell!
Great Video and Advice !!! Sex is never my main priority !! It will come usually once their is a good relationship! I actually once told a woman I don't have sex with women I don't know and we were just friends !! maybe I could or should have been a little more tactful ?? But I never let any people change who I am !!!
Listen up! This is excellent advice . She is soooo real. Fellas listen and remember.
Great video as usual Mali especially the last part about it getting hit and not hitting
Everyone has to understand limits and if they don’t then just walk away so much easier
Build your value not just look good and destroy everything you touch like beanis and butthead but be a valuable player that can boost a team
Great tips Melli... And now I know why you're single.
This lovely lady's advice is spot on and delivered with wonderful wit and wisdom - it's crucial that you don't let the woman in your life take control of you or vice-versa - the only person you should control is yourself !
Ok when she say friend zone..I ve had plenty of women that are friends,we never talked about having sex,we just cool we go places,shop.she probably felling better being with me,than having a boyfriend, because a friend will do what the boyfriend or her man won't do, she feels comfortable...
Damn girl you keep saying the right things all time , I had to pass because this one chick keeps putting pressure on me and all I could see was my future so she moved on and I keep winning.
Thanks!
Your honesty is rare.
Greetings. 😈
1. Don’t buy a bitch’s attention
2. Leave once she friendzones you
3. Compliment her looks when she’s fishing for it
4. Don’t pay for her bills/rent
5. Don’t commit before 6 months of dating/don’t rush
6. Never allow a woman to hit you
Thanks! Now, I can go finish watching the game. 😀
@A Great Man Named Lieu women only don’t want compliments about their looks from SIMPS, because they expect it from them and so have little value. However, if a woman likes you and actually respects you, compliments about looks will be genuinely appreciated.
@@geo.ies93 If they love you they eat all the simp stuff up but if they don't you come off as lame and a simp.
She wants to friend zone you because she has someone just incase it don't work
@@geo.ies93 IF she don't already have a big head, IF it is genuine, IF you aren't drooling all over the floor when you say it, and IF you are clearly not doing it to get in her drawers, you could give her an occasional compliment without lowering your value.
Think about this also. Good looking women are always getting complimented on their looks. Compliment her on something else, like her wardrobe, accessories, or maybe even something funny or smart that she said.
First, make sure she actually said something funny or smart.
You're exactly right; DO NOT BUY HER ATTENTION!!! Especially right off the bat.
I love your sense of humor; you are so funny... but you are a 100% right. Keep up the good work!
She's really making a lot of sense
BONG BONG. You hit the Hammer right on the Nail with the moving in out of Convenience. I see it happen all the time, and it Never Works. it was 4 years before me and my lady moved in together.
Killing the Simp the Melli way.....
And if a woman does hit you, she can mark herself, lie in the police report and have you arrested. So always record!
Melli, thank you so much. I needed to hear this
thank you sister...much love.
This is your most honest video yet!
Yes it does look good on you
I just want to see her when she hits 50 - 70. This woman is going to be a fox for days. And she keeps the drama and BS in check. Love it. Love her way.
Love Your Content
You always keep it real
Great video, very direct n honest. Appreciate it.
Meli is for the gang 🤟🏾
Great! Already had those on my list.
Thanks it was very helpful keep up the good work if a female get in your face a space or even hit you always walk away and never return be the biggest person respect yourself and again always walk away 👑💯
You’re a real one Melly
#3 Always give a positive answer. NO!!! I warn them, I'm going to tell them the truth whether they like it or not, my honest opinion, the truth, no need to lie about nothing. Mellie I do not agree with you on this one bit.
Agree
To be honest…good advice, beautiful Melli 😍
You got mad skills, Melli! The legendary Patrice O'Neal would be proud! Keep up the excellent work! Peace!
Love it, spot on and what makes your videos great is you are so direct.
Other females will admire you but hate you are spouting the psychological truth❤
Brilliant once again, cheers Melli
Damn you're good. I followed all of your directions 40 years ago.
Fun to watch you, like a scary roller coaster! I care about the content of each twist and turn so I’m clinging on to the ride!
Don’t see the differences between dating someone exclusively and being “boyfriend”.
In my head is 3 easy steps
Talking stage
Dating stage
Official stage and that’s it…
This generation has everything messed up if you ask me
Words cannot explain how helpful you have become to us young men of this generation💎❤️🍀🙏✅
I just LOVE YOU MELLI!!! THANKS FOR SHARING A WOMAN'S PERSPECTIVE ----- ITS VERY, VERY, VERY, REFRESHING. DARREN J.
I can't stop looking at your shirt😣😣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it definetly matches your eyes!!
At least you were looking at the eyes 😅
Bro I agree. Those tig ol bitties look so inviting and good.
You are the best 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Here in South Africa there starting to wear to much make up.Its like looking at A clown face.Haha
The first point made me trust you bit for speaking facts
You're a star babe. Excellent tips there.
Meli, this topic reminds me of breaking horses. ❤
"Do not wife before 6 months" a lot of men will have better life just off that one rule, trust.
I told her we're not friends now we're nothing, better for me. What I look like being you're friend when I like you like you for lol.
Best video I've seen in months
Thank you so much for your input and information
Let me help the men on here that feel lost. Work on yourself that’s how you get any woman. Become something untouchable, become your 1% translation Alfa that’s all you need.
Nothing but Love Melli! ✌🏾&❤️
Great video Melli. Good commentary on 6 things A man should do with a woman. This was on point and straight truth. From Brian aka Shaka Zulu.
Number 7: Never take dating advice from a women. Unless it was 1st given to her from a man.
😂😂😂😂 facts
Never move in with a women.
She will use you and leave you like a simp😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Moving in with another person [of the opposite sex] should begin after the wedding or reception
If you allow her to move in, don't take any action to get her name on the lease.
Women are too complicated see all the things we have to do or not do, it's just crazy
Just have money it’s easy.
@@dwaynejones1396 It does not change anything
@@Sjbjo Are you joking? Yes it does
I wonder if a normal women who becomes paralyzed or handicapped still get to think the same?
@@DJV94022 if a woman is handicapped does she stop being a woman?
Real talk move forward in life allow ppl your presence who can help you move forward if someone is hurting there self trying to help you they r dead weight and your foe they just smily
Keeping it real ….. Great video
Very good video Melli, thanks a lot
16min for 6 things. Gonna wait for the list guy to come in clutch.
UA-camrs do that because for the video to get monetized it needs to be at least 10 minutes long
Stfu bot you get no bitches, you need to watch every second
She makes one of the shortest but very comprehensive video ever on UA-cam. You got to give her the credit.
On ramble mode
Watch ur informative videos in 1.5x the speed
You know you're right about the knocking the hell out each other, I've seen some whoa moments come out of that😎
This is facts 💯
Melli M keeping it real..This lady should have a podcast...i could listen to her all day...very comedic and at the same time very informative. Keep it coming Melli..Rock On!🤘⚡🔥..Legend Baby!🤘⚡
100 percent facts..100 percent!..100 Percent
Speaking of #1, I know a guy who tries hard to get a woman. Too hard, he's desperate, can't take no for an answer. I saw him buy a $40 hat for this woman, she said no, not to bother but he did it anyway, she seemed uncomfortable. It did look good on her. A friend of mine said he hit on her and he tried again during that same event he bought this other woman the hat. He's a nice and kind of fun guy in his own way but man, he just doesn't stop approaching the women, without any luck by the way.
I thinks she's right
He needs Jesus
Great video I love how you are honest,always keep it real
Am I the only person in this comment section hoping that those flimsy strings on that blouse haphazardly come lose while Melli is giving this good advice! 🤭
No you're not 😝
The video would’ve been better with the toP off….😮💨
😂😂😂😂
I would love being down low peeling those panties down
Thinking the samething
You're the bomb keep up the great work
MIN 0:06 almost broke my heart. Lets go Melli. Once again here for the real AF game you feed us!!!!!
You so correct and I am living prove
Thank you sister. Good job.
U tell the TRUTH on GOD ..much luv QUEEN ....u are PRICELESS🙋🙏🙏
I wish all female's would think like her. I love her for this content.
Beautiful advice Melli poo
Thank you so much, all the best
Ok the friend zone thing …is cool but check for her cute friends … lace them with game on point
You’re amazing my dear. Have an amazing weekend. Many blessings for the new year. Keep up the good info.❤
As a Male i Know these things but hearing it from you is comforting for sum reason
I enjoy her videos because of her personality. She’s speaking facts hands down though! I can see her being on a stage in the future.
Melli you are a Legend god protect you and bless you moreeeeeeeeee