1. Don't pay for attention 2. Don't let her Friend zone you 3. Give positive answers 4. Never move in with Convenience 5. Don't become the Boyfriend before 6 months 6. Don't let her hit you (Don't hit the bitch back, grab her. Grab her Not because it's wrong to hit a woman if they did it first, but because YOU will get in trouble despite it being the other way around thab than people will think). Enjoy everyone. Read this if you on short timing
Don't even grab her. Just RUN Edit: they'll arrest you for grabbing her too. I know this for a fact just find the strength to leave her tf alone. Find one who is not abusive
One thing I’ll never tolerate is a woman giving compliments to another man in front of me. If your lady is giving out approval to other men run for the hills.
I hear ya - Micah! Great tips - by Melli. I agree. You can buy her affection, and for the guys who try to - it’s quite depressing, and sad. I know a lot of dudes do this, and they end up with no girl in the end, and they all wonder what happened. You just can’t buy someone’s affection - everything has to be earned. People don’t appreciate what comes easily to them - it’s just how life works. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I have a lawyer buddy that always goes this route. He takes his dates to nice restaurants but has a hard time getting a call back. I tell him take them for lunch or coffee instead, but he won’t listen. 🤷🏽♂️ To each their own I guess! 😆
I am a seasoned male who was thirty or so when the internet was allowed public consumption. Of course, UA-cam can along much later. Having this kind of solid information available to me as a younger man would have been invaluable especially in my twenties. So, young bucks, take heed to the knowledge this Queen is throwing down! I have watched hours of Melli's content, and while I am not officially in the game anymore, it is refreshing to hear young people, especially young women educate young men about relationships. Particularly when it is on point and relevant; the humor and laughter is also a plus. Melli you are a relationship griot, hope the man in your life honors and appreciates your wit, charm, humor and intelligence. Keep doing your thing, it will never get old and uninspiring.
I'm in my mid 40's now, and, I buy the junior college chicks on my street biology books,and lab coats. I also don't mind paying them to leave about twice a month. Look at it as enjoying the 23:1 ratio.
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
im a habitual meat beater. Have no choice. Women dont know but if men dont ejaculate occasionally it comes out whether we want it or not. We get frequent erections at odd times. Like in public and of course when we sleep. its a messy affair so its better to masturbate than be tense all the time. I dont really want casual hookups with STDs going being a threat out here and there is a need to not be wasting money. Oh and that one about scrolling through social media. woah thats a hard one its so addictive.
Thank you for explaining that to the lames … spending money like rich people is not cool … and the ones that want you to spend like a rock star are not worth a persons time
That's my boo... Not in real life, but I Love you Melli... You are telling the pure truth... Even though I'm seasoned in these games, it's great to hear what men are dealing with from a real good woman's perspective!!!
I just want to see her when she hits 50 - 70. This woman is going to be a fox for days. And she keeps the drama and BS in check. Love it. Love her way.
I swear you're helping a lot of men and women here. That's very interesting. I was listening u and i heard your dog. Can u invite him front of da camera in another video? 😊
Damn girl you keep saying the right things all time , I had to pass because this one chick keeps putting pressure on me and all I could see was my future so she moved on and I keep winning.
Don’t see the differences between dating someone exclusively and being “boyfriend”. In my head is 3 easy steps Talking stage Dating stage Official stage and that’s it… This generation has everything messed up if you ask me
#3 Always give a positive answer. NO!!! I warn them, I'm going to tell them the truth whether they like it or not, my honest opinion, the truth, no need to lie about nothing. Mellie I do not agree with you on this one bit.
This lovely lady's advice is spot on and delivered with wonderful wit and wisdom - it's crucial that you don't let the woman in your life take control of you or vice-versa - the only person you should control is yourself !
Ok when she say friend zone..I ve had plenty of women that are friends,we never talked about having sex,we just cool we go places,shop.she probably felling better being with me,than having a boyfriend, because a friend will do what the boyfriend or her man won't do, she feels comfortable...
1. Don’t buy a bitch’s attention 2. Leave once she friendzones you 3. Compliment her looks when she’s fishing for it 4. Don’t pay for her bills/rent 5. Don’t commit before 6 months of dating/don’t rush 6. Never allow a woman to hit you
@A Great Man Named Lieu women only don’t want compliments about their looks from SIMPS, because they expect it from them and so have little value. However, if a woman likes you and actually respects you, compliments about looks will be genuinely appreciated.
@@geo.ies93 IF she don't already have a big head, IF it is genuine, IF you aren't drooling all over the floor when you say it, and IF you are clearly not doing it to get in her drawers, you could give her an occasional compliment without lowering your value. Think about this also. Good looking women are always getting complimented on their looks. Compliment her on something else, like her wardrobe, accessories, or maybe even something funny or smart that she said. First, make sure she actually said something funny or smart.
Am I the only person in this comment section hoping that those flimsy strings on that blouse haphazardly come lose while Melli is giving this good advice! 🤭
Great Video and Advice !!! Sex is never my main priority !! It will come usually once their is a good relationship! I actually once told a woman I don't have sex with women I don't know and we were just friends !! maybe I could or should have been a little more tactful ?? But I never let any people change who I am !!!
Let me help the men on here that feel lost. Work on yourself that’s how you get any woman. Become something untouchable, become your 1% translation Alfa that’s all you need.
Melli, you are such a funny person. Your humor is way up there and you make it very easy for anyone to have a any co versatile with you. I like your advices and think they are very beneficial to those men who are lacking in those characteristics. You are very swell!
BONG BONG. You hit the Hammer right on the Nail with the moving in out of Convenience. I see it happen all the time, and it Never Works. it was 4 years before me and my lady moved in together.
Great video as usual Mali especially the last part about it getting hit and not hitting Everyone has to understand limits and if they don’t then just walk away so much easier
Thanks it was very helpful keep up the good work if a female get in your face a space or even hit you always walk away and never return be the biggest person respect yourself and again always walk away 👑💯
Speaking of #1, I know a guy who tries hard to get a woman. Too hard, he's desperate, can't take no for an answer. I saw him buy a $40 hat for this woman, she said no, not to bother but he did it anyway, she seemed uncomfortable. It did look good on her. A friend of mine said he hit on her and he tried again during that same event he bought this other woman the hat. He's a nice and kind of fun guy in his own way but man, he just doesn't stop approaching the women, without any luck by the way.
Love it, spot on and what makes your videos great is you are so direct. Other females will admire you but hate you are spouting the psychological truth❤
facts the psychology that some of these women try to play on the person that wants to get to know them be like a date from hell... leaving us men thinking like b*tch I been in hell already why you her f*cking with my emotions
Real talk move forward in life allow ppl your presence who can help you move forward if someone is hurting there self trying to help you they r dead weight and your foe they just smily
Melli M keeping it real..This lady should have a podcast...i could listen to her all day...very comedic and at the same time very informative. Keep it coming Melli..Rock On!🤘⚡🔥..Legend Baby!🤘⚡
"PERSPICACIOUS: having a ready insight into and understanding of things." This woman's IQ is off the charts. She has the wisdom of someone who has lived MANY lives. MelliMonaco is an 'Old soul.' ... Namaste, QUEEN.
6.) Don't be a simp.
5.) Don't be a simp.
4.) Lie.
3.) Don't be a simp.
2.) Don't be a simp.
1.) Don't be a simp.
😂
Pretty much
Major key alert… 🔑🚨🤣
Facts
🤣🤣🤣
Do not tolerate disrespect at all, you leave immediately
amen, fuck yea 👏
Just check the bitch🤷🏾♂️
1. Don't pay for attention
2. Don't let her Friend zone you
3. Give positive answers
4. Never move in with Convenience
5. Don't become the Boyfriend before 6 months
6. Don't let her hit you (Don't hit the bitch back, grab her. Grab her Not because it's wrong to hit a woman if they did it first, but because YOU will get in trouble despite it being the other way around thab than people will think).
Enjoy everyone. Read this if you on short timing
7. Forget her, try another one and repeat step 1 to 7 😁🤣
Good list
Don't even grab her. Just RUN
Edit: they'll arrest you for grabbing her too. I know this for a fact just find the strength to leave her tf alone. Find one who is not abusive
I only fux wit christian women
Thank you sir
One thing I’ll never tolerate is a woman giving compliments to another man in front of me. If your lady is giving out approval to other men run for the hills.
I hear ya - Micah!
Great tips - by Melli. I agree. You can buy her affection, and for the guys who try to - it’s quite depressing, and sad.
I know a lot of dudes do this, and they end up with no girl in the end, and they all wonder what happened.
You just can’t buy someone’s affection - everything has to be earned. People don’t appreciate what comes easily to them - it’s just how life works.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 subscribed, sir! 🙌🏽
@@TheMicahwitz Thanks! I appreciate you. Lol
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I have a lawyer buddy that always goes this route. He takes his dates to nice restaurants but has a hard time getting a call back. I tell him take them for lunch or coffee instead, but he won’t listen. 🤷🏽♂️ To each their own I guess! 😆
@@TheMicahwitz I hear ya! Lol
Dont let em go through your phone or show up to your place uninvited or announced.
I am a seasoned male who was thirty or so when the internet was allowed public consumption. Of course, UA-cam can along much later. Having this kind of solid information available to me as a younger man would have been invaluable especially in my twenties. So, young bucks, take heed to the knowledge this Queen is throwing down! I have watched hours of Melli's content, and while I am not officially in the game anymore, it is refreshing to hear young people, especially young women educate young men about relationships. Particularly when it is on point and relevant; the humor and laughter is also a plus. Melli you are a relationship griot, hope the man in your life honors and appreciates your wit, charm, humor and intelligence. Keep doing your thing, it will never get old and uninspiring.
I'm in my mid 40's now, and, I buy the junior college chicks on my street biology books,and lab coats. I also don't mind paying them to leave about twice a month. Look at it as enjoying the 23:1 ratio.
Well Said. Bro.....
Lol I didn’t need this woman to tell me this shit when I was in my 20s but she spot on with a lot of this shit
My wife hit me once. Hartley felt anything. Lol.
I left her at that moment. Never looked back.
Good move!
Very smart move
You made the right choice. In the interim, your departure from that woman will hurt her by itself.
Why you shouldn't kick her ass
10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Power to this. 👊🏾
TIGH!👍🏽
im a habitual meat beater. Have no choice. Women dont know but if men dont ejaculate occasionally it comes out whether we want it or not. We get frequent erections at odd times. Like in public and of course when we sleep. its a messy affair so its better to masturbate than be tense all the time. I dont really want casual hookups with STDs going being a threat out here and there is a need to not be wasting money. Oh and that one about scrolling through social media. woah thats a hard one its so addictive.
Bro if I don't beat the drum my shit be on demon time😈
All good advice apart from 1 🤔
She is sharing real knowledge. This lady is wise .
Build your value not just look good and destroy everything you touch like beanis and butthead but be a valuable player that can boost a team
FINALLY a woman who’s not lying about how to get women😂
She tlkin factss
Plot twist : She dates girl
@@franklynfrankth Plot thicken: Shes a man reincarnated into a woman
I Love Jesus Christ Let Church Say Amen 🙏🏿
@@showbizgwoponese8855 LOLOL
Straight 100, no chaser!!! Love your energy and appreciate as a man!
You're exactly right; DO NOT BUY HER ATTENTION!!! Especially right off the bat.
Thank you for explaining that to the lames … spending money like rich people is not cool … and the ones that want you to spend like a rock star are not worth a persons time
That's my boo... Not in real life, but I Love you Melli... You are telling the pure truth... Even though I'm seasoned in these games, it's great to hear what men are dealing with from a real good woman's perspective!!!
Gal u really make sense, u'r talk is honest and very educating!
I just want to see her when she hits 50 - 70. This woman is going to be a fox for days. And she keeps the drama and BS in check. Love it. Love her way.
Loving the way you keep it real.
“ cause a real woman” when you said that I was digging you pointing out the diff!
I swear you're helping a lot of men and women here. That's very interesting. I was listening u and i heard your dog. Can u invite him front of da camera in another video? 😊
And if a woman does hit you, she can mark herself, lie in the police report and have you arrested. So always record!
You'll never know someone enough 💯
Damn girl you keep saying the right things all time , I had to pass because this one chick keeps putting pressure on me and all I could see was my future so she moved on and I keep winning.
I don't give a f*** Milli you are the realest woman around that is out here right .👑🔥💯 You are always on Target with things you say..
I love this lady she speaks nothing but the truth.
Don’t see the differences between dating someone exclusively and being “boyfriend”.
In my head is 3 easy steps
Talking stage
Dating stage
Official stage and that’s it…
This generation has everything messed up if you ask me
#3 Always give a positive answer. NO!!! I warn them, I'm going to tell them the truth whether they like it or not, my honest opinion, the truth, no need to lie about nothing. Mellie I do not agree with you on this one bit.
Agree
One word.
Extraordinary
She's really making a lot of sense
"Do not wife before 6 months" a lot of men will have better life just off that one rule, trust.
This lovely lady's advice is spot on and delivered with wonderful wit and wisdom - it's crucial that you don't let the woman in your life take control of you or vice-versa - the only person you should control is yourself !
Ok when she say friend zone..I ve had plenty of women that are friends,we never talked about having sex,we just cool we go places,shop.she probably felling better being with me,than having a boyfriend, because a friend will do what the boyfriend or her man won't do, she feels comfortable...
1. Don’t buy a bitch’s attention
2. Leave once she friendzones you
3. Compliment her looks when she’s fishing for it
4. Don’t pay for her bills/rent
5. Don’t commit before 6 months of dating/don’t rush
6. Never allow a woman to hit you
Thanks! Now, I can go finish watching the game. 😀
@A Great Man Named Lieu women only don’t want compliments about their looks from SIMPS, because they expect it from them and so have little value. However, if a woman likes you and actually respects you, compliments about looks will be genuinely appreciated.
@@geo.ies93 If they love you they eat all the simp stuff up but if they don't you come off as lame and a simp.
She wants to friend zone you because she has someone just incase it don't work
@@geo.ies93 IF she don't already have a big head, IF it is genuine, IF you aren't drooling all over the floor when you say it, and IF you are clearly not doing it to get in her drawers, you could give her an occasional compliment without lowering your value.
Think about this also. Good looking women are always getting complimented on their looks. Compliment her on something else, like her wardrobe, accessories, or maybe even something funny or smart that she said.
First, make sure she actually said something funny or smart.
Women have the most game. Don’t let them fool you. They are smart af. She’s telling the truth, especially about number 3 and 4
Am I the only person in this comment section hoping that those flimsy strings on that blouse haphazardly come lose while Melli is giving this good advice! 🤭
No you're not 😝
The video would’ve been better with the toP off….😮💨
😂😂😂😂
I would love being down low peeling those panties down
Thinking the samething
Number 7: Never take dating advice from a women. Unless it was 1st given to her from a man.
😂😂😂😂 facts
Great Video and Advice !!! Sex is never my main priority !! It will come usually once their is a good relationship! I actually once told a woman I don't have sex with women I don't know and we were just friends !! maybe I could or should have been a little more tactful ?? But I never let any people change who I am !!!
I told her we're not friends now we're nothing, better for me. What I look like being you're friend when I like you like you for lol.
Great tips Melli... And now I know why you're single.
Im so appreciative of the knowledge youre sharing Meloi one love babe
Killing the Simp the Melli way.....
Thanks!
16min for 6 things. Gonna wait for the list guy to come in clutch.
UA-camrs do that because for the video to get monetized it needs to be at least 10 minutes long
Stfu bot you get no bitches, you need to watch every second
She makes one of the shortest but very comprehensive video ever on UA-cam. You got to give her the credit.
On ramble mode
Watch ur informative videos in 1.5x the speed
Let me help the men on here that feel lost. Work on yourself that’s how you get any woman. Become something untouchable, become your 1% translation Alfa that’s all you need.
Listen up! This is excellent advice . She is soooo real. Fellas listen and remember.
Be a Alpha male.
Periodt.
(Plain&simple)
Words cannot explain how helpful you have become to us young men of this generation💎❤️🍀🙏✅
I love your sense of humor; you are so funny... but you are a 100% right. Keep up the good work!
Ok the friend zone thing …is cool but check for her cute friends … lace them with game on point
I can't stop looking at your shirt😣😣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it definetly matches your eyes!!
At least you were looking at the eyes 😅
Bro I agree. Those tig ol bitties look so inviting and good.
Melli, you are such a funny person. Your humor is way up there and you make it very easy for anyone to have a any co versatile with you. I like your advices and think they are very beneficial to those men who are lacking in those characteristics. You are very swell!
I wish all female's would think like her. I love her for this content.
True that very true... Game recognizes game
BONG BONG. You hit the Hammer right on the Nail with the moving in out of Convenience. I see it happen all the time, and it Never Works. it was 4 years before me and my lady moved in together.
Yes it does look good on you
You’re awesome ! We need more women like you around
Meli is for the gang 🤟🏾
Great video as usual Mali especially the last part about it getting hit and not hitting
Everyone has to understand limits and if they don’t then just walk away so much easier
Thanks it was very helpful keep up the good work if a female get in your face a space or even hit you always walk away and never return be the biggest person respect yourself and again always walk away 👑💯
Love Your Content
You always keep it real
Speaking of #1, I know a guy who tries hard to get a woman. Too hard, he's desperate, can't take no for an answer. I saw him buy a $40 hat for this woman, she said no, not to bother but he did it anyway, she seemed uncomfortable. It did look good on her. A friend of mine said he hit on her and he tried again during that same event he bought this other woman the hat. He's a nice and kind of fun guy in his own way but man, he just doesn't stop approaching the women, without any luck by the way.
I thinks she's right
He needs Jesus
You got mad skills, Melli! The legendary Patrice O'Neal would be proud! Keep up the excellent work! Peace!
Damn you're good. I followed all of your directions 40 years ago.
You are the best 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Great video, very direct n honest. Appreciate it.
Your honesty is rare.
Greetings. 😈
This is your most honest video yet!
The first point made me trust you bit for speaking facts
Melli, thank you so much. I needed to hear this
To be honest…good advice, beautiful Melli 😍
Women are too complicated see all the things we have to do or not do, it's just crazy
Just have money it’s easy.
@@dwaynejones1396 It does not change anything
@@Sjbjo Are you joking? Yes it does
I wonder if a normal women who becomes paralyzed or handicapped still get to think the same?
@@DJV94022 if a woman is handicapped does she stop being a woman?
I enjoy her videos because of her personality. She’s speaking facts hands down though! I can see her being on a stage in the future.
Great video Melli. Good commentary on 6 things A man should do with a woman. This was on point and straight truth. From Brian aka Shaka Zulu.
thank you sister...much love.
A girl in my insta DMs keeps calling me "friend" how do I stop her saying that. It could be anything but she's putting limits on the relationship type
Love it, spot on and what makes your videos great is you are so direct.
Other females will admire you but hate you are spouting the psychological truth❤
I just LOVE YOU MELLI!!! THANKS FOR SHARING A WOMAN'S PERSPECTIVE ----- ITS VERY, VERY, VERY, REFRESHING. DARREN J.
facts the psychology that some of these women try to play on the person that wants to get to know them be like a date from hell... leaving us men thinking like b*tch I been in hell already why you her f*cking with my emotions
Otherwise don't break her bad with your money
Never move in with a women.
She will use you and leave you like a simp😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Moving in with another person [of the opposite sex] should begin after the wedding or reception
If you allow her to move in, don't take any action to get her name on the lease.
Here in South Africa there starting to wear to much make up.Its like looking at A clown face.Haha
Some of the comments have the best info in here.
By the way ⬆️ is CRAZY 😝
As a Male i Know these things but hearing it from you is comforting for sum reason
Meli, this topic reminds me of breaking horses. ❤
Real talk move forward in life allow ppl your presence who can help you move forward if someone is hurting there self trying to help you they r dead weight and your foe they just smily
I had a woman hit me once, I hit her right back...she never did that again
Alpha
😅
Yea fire these freaks uP💪🏾🤣
a women hit me once and she never did it again. My face was really hard at the time.
Great! Already had those on my list.
Nothing but Love Melli! ✌🏾&❤️
U tell the TRUTH on GOD ..much luv QUEEN ....u are PRICELESS🙋🙏🙏
Brilliant once again, cheers Melli
Melli M keeping it real..This lady should have a podcast...i could listen to her all day...very comedic and at the same time very informative. Keep it coming Melli..Rock On!🤘⚡🔥..Legend Baby!🤘⚡
You’re a real one Melly
"PERSPICACIOUS: having a ready insight into and understanding of things." This woman's IQ is off the charts. She has the wisdom of someone who has lived MANY lives. MelliMonaco is an 'Old soul.' ... Namaste, QUEEN.
Fun to watch you, like a scary roller coaster! I care about the content of each twist and turn so I’m clinging on to the ride!
Not only are you beautiful 😍but what a marvelous brain you have 🤲🏾 Points noted down✌🏾
You’re amazing my dear. Have an amazing weekend. Many blessings for the new year. Keep up the good info.❤
This is facts 💯
Very good video Melli, thanks a lot
You're a star babe. Excellent tips there.
You know you're right about the knocking the hell out each other, I've seen some whoa moments come out of that😎
Facts 💯 💥🔥👑 Melli your amazing ❤
DO THINGS FOR YOU THAT YOU WILL NEVER EXPECT ANY MAN TO DO FOR U FROM MY HEART ❤.