1. Don't pay for attention 2. Don't let her Friend zone you 3. Give positive answers 4. Never move in with Convenience 5. Don't become the Boyfriend before 6 months 6. Don't let her hit you (Don't hit the bitch back, grab her. Grab her Not because it's wrong to hit a woman if they did it first, but because YOU will get in trouble despite it being the other way around thab than people will think). Enjoy everyone. Read this if you on short timing
Don't even grab her. Just RUN Edit: they'll arrest you for grabbing her too. I know this for a fact just find the strength to leave her tf alone. Find one who is not abusive
One thing I’ll never tolerate is a woman giving compliments to another man in front of me. If your lady is giving out approval to other men run for the hills.
I hear ya - Micah! Great tips - by Melli. I agree. You can buy her affection, and for the guys who try to - it’s quite depressing, and sad. I know a lot of dudes do this, and they end up with no girl in the end, and they all wonder what happened. You just can’t buy someone’s affection - everything has to be earned. People don’t appreciate what comes easily to them - it’s just how life works. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I have a lawyer buddy that always goes this route. He takes his dates to nice restaurants but has a hard time getting a call back. I tell him take them for lunch or coffee instead, but he won’t listen. 🤷🏽♂️ To each their own I guess! 😆
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
im a habitual meat beater. Have no choice. Women dont know but if men dont ejaculate occasionally it comes out whether we want it or not. We get frequent erections at odd times. Like in public and of course when we sleep. its a messy affair so its better to masturbate than be tense all the time. I dont really want casual hookups with STDs going being a threat out here and there is a need to not be wasting money. Oh and that one about scrolling through social media. woah thats a hard one its so addictive.
I am a seasoned male who was thirty or so when the internet was allowed public consumption. Of course, UA-cam can along much later. Having this kind of solid information available to me as a younger man would have been invaluable especially in my twenties. So, young bucks, take heed to the knowledge this Queen is throwing down! I have watched hours of Melli's content, and while I am not officially in the game anymore, it is refreshing to hear young people, especially young women educate young men about relationships. Particularly when it is on point and relevant; the humor and laughter is also a plus. Melli you are a relationship griot, hope the man in your life honors and appreciates your wit, charm, humor and intelligence. Keep doing your thing, it will never get old and uninspiring.
I'm in my mid 40's now, and, I buy the junior college chicks on my street biology books,and lab coats. I also don't mind paying them to leave about twice a month. Look at it as enjoying the 23:1 ratio.
1. Don’t buy a bitch’s attention 2. Leave once she friendzones you 3. Compliment her looks when she’s fishing for it 4. Don’t pay for her bills/rent 5. Don’t commit before 6 months of dating/don’t rush 6. Never allow a woman to hit you
@A Great Man Named Lieu women only don’t want compliments about their looks from SIMPS, because they expect it from them and so have little value. However, if a woman likes you and actually respects you, compliments about looks will be genuinely appreciated.
@@geo.ies93 IF she don't already have a big head, IF it is genuine, IF you aren't drooling all over the floor when you say it, and IF you are clearly not doing it to get in her drawers, you could give her an occasional compliment without lowering your value. Think about this also. Good looking women are always getting complimented on their looks. Compliment her on something else, like her wardrobe, accessories, or maybe even something funny or smart that she said. First, make sure she actually said something funny or smart.
I just want to see her when she hits 50 - 70. This woman is going to be a fox for days. And she keeps the drama and BS in check. Love it. Love her way.
Don’t see the differences between dating someone exclusively and being “boyfriend”. In my head is 3 easy steps Talking stage Dating stage Official stage and that’s it… This generation has everything messed up if you ask me
Thank you for explaining that to the lames … spending money like rich people is not cool … and the ones that want you to spend like a rock star are not worth a persons time
I swear you're helping a lot of men and women here. That's very interesting. I was listening u and i heard your dog. Can u invite him front of da camera in another video? 😊
That's my boo... Not in real life, but I Love you Melli... You are telling the pure truth... Even though I'm seasoned in these games, it's great to hear what men are dealing with from a real good woman's perspective!!!
Let me help the men on here that feel lost. Work on yourself that’s how you get any woman. Become something untouchable, become your 1% translation Alfa that’s all you need.
Am I the only person in this comment section hoping that those flimsy strings on that blouse haphazardly come lose while Melli is giving this good advice! 🤭
#3 Always give a positive answer. NO!!! I warn them, I'm going to tell them the truth whether they like it or not, my honest opinion, the truth, no need to lie about nothing. Mellie I do not agree with you on this one bit.
This lovely lady's advice is spot on and delivered with wonderful wit and wisdom - it's crucial that you don't let the woman in your life take control of you or vice-versa - the only person you should control is yourself !
Ok when she say friend zone..I ve had plenty of women that are friends,we never talked about having sex,we just cool we go places,shop.she probably felling better being with me,than having a boyfriend, because a friend will do what the boyfriend or her man won't do, she feels comfortable...
Great Video and Advice !!! Sex is never my main priority !! It will come usually once their is a good relationship! I actually once told a woman I don't have sex with women I don't know and we were just friends !! maybe I could or should have been a little more tactful ?? But I never let any people change who I am !!!
Speaking of #1, I know a guy who tries hard to get a woman. Too hard, he's desperate, can't take no for an answer. I saw him buy a $40 hat for this woman, she said no, not to bother but he did it anyway, she seemed uncomfortable. It did look good on her. A friend of mine said he hit on her and he tried again during that same event he bought this other woman the hat. He's a nice and kind of fun guy in his own way but man, he just doesn't stop approaching the women, without any luck by the way.
Damn girl you keep saying the right things all time , I had to pass because this one chick keeps putting pressure on me and all I could see was my future so she moved on and I keep winning.
BONG BONG. You hit the Hammer right on the Nail with the moving in out of Convenience. I see it happen all the time, and it Never Works. it was 4 years before me and my lady moved in together.
Melli, you are such a funny person. Your humor is way up there and you make it very easy for anyone to have a any co versatile with you. I like your advices and think they are very beneficial to those men who are lacking in those characteristics. You are very swell!
facts the psychology that some of these women try to play on the person that wants to get to know them be like a date from hell... leaving us men thinking like b*tch I been in hell already why you her f*cking with my emotions
Great video as usual Mali especially the last part about it getting hit and not hitting Everyone has to understand limits and if they don’t then just walk away so much easier
This is how I feel about the friendzone. If you are attractive and high value man who is always improving himself that’s all that matters. Even if she friendzones you it won’t be for very long I can assure you
It It's some truth to that but the only way she will pull you out of the friendzone is if she hit the wall and don't have any other options. But if you want to be dumb enough to wait around for a brod to finally give you a shot because she doesn't have any other options...good luck with that.
@@marshallnash5705 right smh this people think the friendzone cool i got 2 homies, 1 smashed the jawn easily & the other literally said out his own mouth he tryna save her. like bro she just don’t wanna be saved it’s simple
If you're in the friendzone, fine. Invite her out as part of a group of friends.. .or maybe as your wingman so you can ask her advice about other females.
@ about the 2:45 mark of the video it looks like your dog is wondering what in the hell is going on with her. Your dog stops and watches and then goes and sits on the rug. 😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks it was very helpful keep up the good work if a female get in your face a space or even hit you always walk away and never return be the biggest person respect yourself and again always walk away 👑💯
Real talk move forward in life allow ppl your presence who can help you move forward if someone is hurting there self trying to help you they r dead weight and your foe they just smily
Love it, spot on and what makes your videos great is you are so direct. Other females will admire you but hate you are spouting the psychological truth❤
"PERSPICACIOUS: having a ready insight into and understanding of things." This woman's IQ is off the charts. She has the wisdom of someone who has lived MANY lives. MelliMonaco is an 'Old soul.' ... Namaste, QUEEN.
6.) Don't be a simp.
5.) Don't be a simp.
4.) Lie.
3.) Don't be a simp.
2.) Don't be a simp.
1.) Don't be a simp.
😂
Pretty much
Major key alert… 🔑🚨🤣
Facts
🤣🤣🤣
1. Don't pay for attention
2. Don't let her Friend zone you
3. Give positive answers
4. Never move in with Convenience
5. Don't become the Boyfriend before 6 months
6. Don't let her hit you (Don't hit the bitch back, grab her. Grab her Not because it's wrong to hit a woman if they did it first, but because YOU will get in trouble despite it being the other way around thab than people will think).
Enjoy everyone. Read this if you on short timing
7. Forget her, try another one and repeat step 1 to 7 😁🤣
Good list
Don't even grab her. Just RUN
Edit: they'll arrest you for grabbing her too. I know this for a fact just find the strength to leave her tf alone. Find one who is not abusive
I only fux wit christian women
Thank you sir
Do not tolerate disrespect at all, you leave immediately
amen, fuck yea 👏
Just check the bitch🤷🏾♂️
One thing I’ll never tolerate is a woman giving compliments to another man in front of me. If your lady is giving out approval to other men run for the hills.
I hear ya - Micah!
Great tips - by Melli. I agree. You can buy her affection, and for the guys who try to - it’s quite depressing, and sad.
I know a lot of dudes do this, and they end up with no girl in the end, and they all wonder what happened.
You just can’t buy someone’s affection - everything has to be earned. People don’t appreciate what comes easily to them - it’s just how life works.
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 subscribed, sir! 🙌🏽
@@TheMicahwitz Thanks! I appreciate you. Lol
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I have a lawyer buddy that always goes this route. He takes his dates to nice restaurants but has a hard time getting a call back. I tell him take them for lunch or coffee instead, but he won’t listen. 🤷🏽♂️ To each their own I guess! 😆
@@TheMicahwitz I hear ya! Lol
10 things to quit for all Strong Men:
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Power to this. 👊🏾
TIGH!👍🏽
im a habitual meat beater. Have no choice. Women dont know but if men dont ejaculate occasionally it comes out whether we want it or not. We get frequent erections at odd times. Like in public and of course when we sleep. its a messy affair so its better to masturbate than be tense all the time. I dont really want casual hookups with STDs going being a threat out here and there is a need to not be wasting money. Oh and that one about scrolling through social media. woah thats a hard one its so addictive.
Bro if I don't beat the drum my shit be on demon time😈
All good advice apart from 1 🤔
Dont let em go through your phone or show up to your place uninvited or announced.
My wife hit me once. Hartley felt anything. Lol.
I left her at that moment. Never looked back.
Good move!
Very smart move
You made the right choice. In the interim, your departure from that woman will hurt her by itself.
Why you shouldn't kick her ass
I am a seasoned male who was thirty or so when the internet was allowed public consumption. Of course, UA-cam can along much later. Having this kind of solid information available to me as a younger man would have been invaluable especially in my twenties. So, young bucks, take heed to the knowledge this Queen is throwing down! I have watched hours of Melli's content, and while I am not officially in the game anymore, it is refreshing to hear young people, especially young women educate young men about relationships. Particularly when it is on point and relevant; the humor and laughter is also a plus. Melli you are a relationship griot, hope the man in your life honors and appreciates your wit, charm, humor and intelligence. Keep doing your thing, it will never get old and uninspiring.
I'm in my mid 40's now, and, I buy the junior college chicks on my street biology books,and lab coats. I also don't mind paying them to leave about twice a month. Look at it as enjoying the 23:1 ratio.
Well Said. Bro.....
Lol I didn’t need this woman to tell me this shit when I was in my 20s but she spot on with a lot of this shit
FINALLY a woman who’s not lying about how to get women😂
She tlkin factss
Plot twist : She dates girl
@@franklynfrankth Plot thicken: Shes a man reincarnated into a woman
I Love Jesus Christ Let Church Say Amen 🙏🏿
@@showbizgwoponese8855 LOLOL
1. Don’t buy a bitch’s attention
2. Leave once she friendzones you
3. Compliment her looks when she’s fishing for it
4. Don’t pay for her bills/rent
5. Don’t commit before 6 months of dating/don’t rush
6. Never allow a woman to hit you
Thanks! Now, I can go finish watching the game. 😀
@A Great Man Named Lieu women only don’t want compliments about their looks from SIMPS, because they expect it from them and so have little value. However, if a woman likes you and actually respects you, compliments about looks will be genuinely appreciated.
@@geo.ies93 If they love you they eat all the simp stuff up but if they don't you come off as lame and a simp.
She wants to friend zone you because she has someone just incase it don't work
@@geo.ies93 IF she don't already have a big head, IF it is genuine, IF you aren't drooling all over the floor when you say it, and IF you are clearly not doing it to get in her drawers, you could give her an occasional compliment without lowering your value.
Think about this also. Good looking women are always getting complimented on their looks. Compliment her on something else, like her wardrobe, accessories, or maybe even something funny or smart that she said.
First, make sure she actually said something funny or smart.
Straight 100, no chaser!!! Love your energy and appreciate as a man!
You're exactly right; DO NOT BUY HER ATTENTION!!! Especially right off the bat.
She is sharing real knowledge. This lady is wise .
And if a woman does hit you, she can mark herself, lie in the police report and have you arrested. So always record!
Number 7: Never take dating advice from a women. Unless it was 1st given to her from a man.
😂😂😂😂 facts
I just want to see her when she hits 50 - 70. This woman is going to be a fox for days. And she keeps the drama and BS in check. Love it. Love her way.
Never move in with a women.
She will use you and leave you like a simp😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Moving in with another person [of the opposite sex] should begin after the wedding or reception
If you allow her to move in, don't take any action to get her name on the lease.
You'll never know someone enough 💯
Don’t see the differences between dating someone exclusively and being “boyfriend”.
In my head is 3 easy steps
Talking stage
Dating stage
Official stage and that’s it…
This generation has everything messed up if you ask me
"Do not wife before 6 months" a lot of men will have better life just off that one rule, trust.
Thank you for explaining that to the lames … spending money like rich people is not cool … and the ones that want you to spend like a rock star are not worth a persons time
Thanks!
I swear you're helping a lot of men and women here. That's very interesting. I was listening u and i heard your dog. Can u invite him front of da camera in another video? 😊
That's my boo... Not in real life, but I Love you Melli... You are telling the pure truth... Even though I'm seasoned in these games, it's great to hear what men are dealing with from a real good woman's perspective!!!
Gal u really make sense, u'r talk is honest and very educating!
Loving the way you keep it real.
“ cause a real woman” when you said that I was digging you pointing out the diff!
She's really making a lot of sense
Build your value not just look good and destroy everything you touch like beanis and butthead but be a valuable player that can boost a team
Women are too complicated see all the things we have to do or not do, it's just crazy
Just have money it’s easy.
@@dwaynejones1396 It does not change anything
@@Sjbjo Are you joking? Yes it does
I wonder if a normal women who becomes paralyzed or handicapped still get to think the same?
@@DJV94022 if a woman is handicapped does she stop being a woman?
Let me help the men on here that feel lost. Work on yourself that’s how you get any woman. Become something untouchable, become your 1% translation Alfa that’s all you need.
Am I the only person in this comment section hoping that those flimsy strings on that blouse haphazardly come lose while Melli is giving this good advice! 🤭
No you're not 😝
The video would’ve been better with the toP off….😮💨
😂😂😂😂
I would love being down low peeling those panties down
Thinking the samething
I can't stop looking at your shirt😣😣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it definetly matches your eyes!!
At least you were looking at the eyes 😅
Bro I agree. Those tig ol bitties look so inviting and good.
One word.
Extraordinary
Great tips Melli... And now I know why you're single.
I love this lady she speaks nothing but the truth.
Killing the Simp the Melli way.....
You are the best 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
#3 Always give a positive answer. NO!!! I warn them, I'm going to tell them the truth whether they like it or not, my honest opinion, the truth, no need to lie about nothing. Mellie I do not agree with you on this one bit.
Agree
16min for 6 things. Gonna wait for the list guy to come in clutch.
UA-camrs do that because for the video to get monetized it needs to be at least 10 minutes long
Stfu bot you get no bitches, you need to watch every second
She makes one of the shortest but very comprehensive video ever on UA-cam. You got to give her the credit.
On ramble mode
Watch ur informative videos in 1.5x the speed
Be a Alpha male.
Periodt.
(Plain&simple)
I don't give a f*** Milli you are the realest woman around that is out here right .👑🔥💯 You are always on Target with things you say..
This lovely lady's advice is spot on and delivered with wonderful wit and wisdom - it's crucial that you don't let the woman in your life take control of you or vice-versa - the only person you should control is yourself !
Ok when she say friend zone..I ve had plenty of women that are friends,we never talked about having sex,we just cool we go places,shop.she probably felling better being with me,than having a boyfriend, because a friend will do what the boyfriend or her man won't do, she feels comfortable...
Im so appreciative of the knowledge youre sharing Meloi one love babe
Great Video and Advice !!! Sex is never my main priority !! It will come usually once their is a good relationship! I actually once told a woman I don't have sex with women I don't know and we were just friends !! maybe I could or should have been a little more tactful ?? But I never let any people change who I am !!!
Here in South Africa there starting to wear to much make up.Its like looking at A clown face.Haha
You’re awesome ! We need more women like you around
5:36 "..maybe she likes you enough to keep you around as a puppet" 🤣🤣
I told her we're not friends now we're nothing, better for me. What I look like being you're friend when I like you like you for lol.
True that very true... Game recognizes game
I wish all female's would think like her. I love her for this content.
Your honesty is rare.
Greetings. 😈
I had a woman hit me once, I hit her right back...she never did that again
Alpha
😅
Yea fire these freaks uP💪🏾🤣
a women hit me once and she never did it again. My face was really hard at the time.
Speaking of #1, I know a guy who tries hard to get a woman. Too hard, he's desperate, can't take no for an answer. I saw him buy a $40 hat for this woman, she said no, not to bother but he did it anyway, she seemed uncomfortable. It did look good on her. A friend of mine said he hit on her and he tried again during that same event he bought this other woman the hat. He's a nice and kind of fun guy in his own way but man, he just doesn't stop approaching the women, without any luck by the way.
I thinks she's right
He needs Jesus
You got mad skills, Melli! The legendary Patrice O'Neal would be proud! Keep up the excellent work! Peace!
Damn girl you keep saying the right things all time , I had to pass because this one chick keeps putting pressure on me and all I could see was my future so she moved on and I keep winning.
To be honest…good advice, beautiful Melli 😍
Women have the most game. Don’t let them fool you. They are smart af. She’s telling the truth, especially about number 3 and 4
BONG BONG. You hit the Hammer right on the Nail with the moving in out of Convenience. I see it happen all the time, and it Never Works. it was 4 years before me and my lady moved in together.
Listen up! This is excellent advice . She is soooo real. Fellas listen and remember.
DO THINGS FOR YOU THAT YOU WILL NEVER EXPECT ANY MAN TO DO FOR U FROM MY HEART ❤.
Melli, you are such a funny person. Your humor is way up there and you make it very easy for anyone to have a any co versatile with you. I like your advices and think they are very beneficial to those men who are lacking in those characteristics. You are very swell!
I love your sense of humor; you are so funny... but you are a 100% right. Keep up the good work!
thank you sister...much love.
Words cannot explain how helpful you have become to us young men of this generation💎❤️🍀🙏✅
Ok the friend zone thing …is cool but check for her cute friends … lace them with game on point
Meli, this topic reminds me of breaking horses. ❤
Love Your Content
You always keep it real
facts the psychology that some of these women try to play on the person that wants to get to know them be like a date from hell... leaving us men thinking like b*tch I been in hell already why you her f*cking with my emotions
Yes it does look good on you
Great video as usual Mali especially the last part about it getting hit and not hitting
Everyone has to understand limits and if they don’t then just walk away so much easier
This is how I feel about the friendzone. If you are attractive and high value man who is always improving himself that’s all that matters. Even if she friendzones you it won’t be for very long I can assure you
Simp
It
It's some truth to that but the only way she will pull you out of the friendzone is if she hit the wall and don't have any other options. But if you want to be dumb enough to wait around for a brod to finally give you a shot because she doesn't have any other options...good luck with that.
You will never be in the friendzone if you're never around her to begin with.
@@marshallnash5705 right smh this people think the friendzone cool i got 2 homies, 1 smashed the jawn easily & the other literally said out his own mouth he tryna save her. like bro she just don’t wanna be saved it’s simple
If you're in the friendzone, fine. Invite her out as part of a group of friends..
.or maybe as your wingman so you can ask her advice about other females.
Great! Already had those on my list.
As a Male i Know these things but hearing it from you is comforting for sum reason
You’re a real one Melly
@ about the 2:45 mark of the video it looks like
your dog is wondering what in the hell is going on with
her. Your dog stops and watches and then goes and sits on the rug.
😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks it was very helpful keep up the good work if a female get in your face a space or even hit you always walk away and never return be the biggest person respect yourself and again always walk away 👑💯
Meli is for the gang 🤟🏾
Damn you're good. I followed all of your directions 40 years ago.
A girl in my insta DMs keeps calling me "friend" how do I stop her saying that. It could be anything but she's putting limits on the relationship type
Melli, thank you so much. I needed to hear this
The first point made me trust you bit for speaking facts
Nice Jewels always
Otherwise don't break her bad with your money
Love 💕 how you cuss straight up amazing 💕 😊
"No honey, im broke right now"😆😅🤣 ya face took me alllll the way out😅
I absolutely love Melli ❤
This is facts 💯
You're the bomb keep up the great work
Real talk move forward in life allow ppl your presence who can help you move forward if someone is hurting there self trying to help you they r dead weight and your foe they just smily
You too Real 🖤
You're amazing 💯 melli
Love it, spot on and what makes your videos great is you are so direct.
Other females will admire you but hate you are spouting the psychological truth❤
This is your most honest video yet!
You’re amazing my dear. Have an amazing weekend. Many blessings for the new year. Keep up the good info.❤
100 percent facts..100 percent!..100 Percent
Great video, very direct n honest. Appreciate it.
👏👏👏👏finally i hear something different.
"PERSPICACIOUS: having a ready insight into and understanding of things." This woman's IQ is off the charts. She has the wisdom of someone who has lived MANY lives. MelliMonaco is an 'Old soul.' ... Namaste, QUEEN.
Most rappers be buying loyalty and affection ...then talking about how women are gold diggers ...they dont want you
That was decent .You have beautiful chest skin. I see your hustle Keep up the good work