Cool videos. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let him go I did all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Point 7 is critical. Might take a while to accept it. The quicker you can let go the better. Mixing w other women helps, you don’t need to date them, just feel some new chemistry..
Yep. Never take em back. My ex of 5 years after I started going out asked to come back. We lasted only a few months …I could not stand her and I ended it. Once the tbrush falls in the toilette… really, ur gonna use it again?
Got an amazing story to tell and she has not yet reached out... its amazing what happened and i get unblocked on a particular date... me thinking if she can remember dates and they're meaningful and of sentimental value to her, shes in love with me. Still got my gob shut though. These videos have opened my mind more about who i am not to mention who she is too. Now i finally understand attachment styles and what causes them and how to react or reapond if she gets distant (Yet to implement). Additionally the book 'men are from mars, women are from venus' is a must read! Communication is key! Men and women do not communicate the same way just like the English language and the legal system. Wink wink! Let you in on a littke secret, the word "person" means something entirely different under statute law compared to english! 🤫😉 Do not ever consent to act in the capacity of person when talking to police, lawyers, judges etc... now back to the relationship videos! ❤
Question how would a dumper know the problem that they thought was unsolvable is actually solved without the dumpee breaking no contact? I ended up solving the problem that has to do with my parents and they’re none the wiser.
So in the case of being ghosted by a DA man. There was no closure. I stick to no contact its been almost 2 months. I do self work, and i didnt beg. Just sent one text which was left on unread. How much longer can i stay in this limbo?
Why would Avoidants come back but anxious not? Seems counterintuitive Is it because it takes a lot more for the anxious person to get to the point of breakup?
It's the anxious that usually beg and plead pushing away the avoidant in which case after time has passed the anxious is feeling better and doesn't care and is moving on whereas the avoidant looks back and realises they may have ended things so suddenly without really thinking it communicating so they would be the one to reach out to the anxious person.
@@-taylor-9980 It’s not always the case that the breakup happened because someone was “too needy” though. This seems like a very modern dating dynamic / problem which is a bit of a paradox because women initiate 60-70% of breakups / divorces and tend to be more anxious at baseline. It’s strange to me because not a single one of my relationships ended with chasing / begging on either end, but I hear about it happening all the time.
It seems the anxious are used to pain and don’t need to repeat it with the same person, and come with strong self protection. Avoidants are used to being wishy washy and having people beg them, and might even enjoy messing with anxious types. Just my recent experience.
Mines got a nose piercing got a tattoo and is coming up to 40 and now she engaged all in 6 month ,didn’t know anything wrong she didn’t tell me anything, but I’m exercising I’m running I can’t date I’m not over my ex I hate this feeling, I miss her for fk sake, she said iv fixed everything but it’s too late, we have kids I don’t understand this situation at all, I know you said you don’t want a monkey branched but you said it fails 100 percent of the time and I hope your right but I want the family unit back together… iv never been angry with her never lost my shit with her
Definitely with kids, I understand why u want her back. But it will be a Merri go round and u will always hate her …after a while…guaranteed. Get ur power back and as excruciating as it is and it is oh so painful.. this is who she is. She is a stranger now.
@NathanStephens-ee9be would you even want her back after that? I'd say you dodge a bullet. Sad story but no longer your problem and I'm glad you wasnt pulled into it. All the best to you sir.
Please don't chase love and shit , chase your goals 🎉❤
Wake up! Never take em back. Remember they were totally ok with never seeing u again. Get ur power back.
Cool videos. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let him go I did all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?
“When you rise, they desintegrate “
Point 7 is critical. Might take a while to accept it. The quicker you can let go the better. Mixing w other women helps, you don’t need to date them, just feel some new chemistry..
Yep. Never take em back. My ex of 5 years after I started going out asked to come back. We lasted only a few months …I could not stand her and I ended it. Once the tbrush falls in the toilette… really, ur gonna use it again?
@@pam7022 😆 that expression made me laugh.. thanks 👍🏼
Love you Paz , fearghal from Ireland
@@FearghalOconnor-g7t love you too my brother! 🙏🏽🤍
@@PazGoldmanOfficial respect
I have had ex's reach out after years of no contact, of course in the end it never works out.
Got an amazing story to tell and she has not yet reached out... its amazing what happened and i get unblocked on a particular date... me thinking if she can remember dates and they're meaningful and of sentimental value to her, shes in love with me. Still got my gob shut though. These videos have opened my mind more about who i am not to mention who she is too. Now i finally understand attachment styles and what causes them and how to react or reapond if she gets distant (Yet to implement). Additionally the book 'men are from mars, women are from venus' is a must read! Communication is key! Men and women do not communicate the same way just like the English language and the legal system. Wink wink! Let you in on a littke secret, the word "person" means something entirely different under statute law compared to english! 🤫😉 Do not ever consent to act in the capacity of person when talking to police, lawyers, judges etc... now back to the relationship videos! ❤
I think both avoidants and anxious people come back more often than secure people.
Question how would a dumper know the problem that they thought was unsolvable is actually solved without the dumpee breaking no contact? I ended up solving the problem that has to do with my parents and they’re none the wiser.
So in the case of being ghosted by a DA man. There was no closure. I stick to no contact its been almost 2 months. I do self work, and i didnt beg. Just sent one text which was left on unread.
How much longer can i stay in this limbo?
Why would Avoidants come back but anxious not? Seems counterintuitive
Is it because it takes a lot more for the anxious person to get to the point of breakup?
It's the anxious that usually beg and plead pushing away the avoidant in which case after time has passed the anxious is feeling better and doesn't care and is moving on whereas the avoidant looks back and realises they may have ended things so suddenly without really thinking it communicating so they would be the one to reach out to the anxious person.
@@-taylor-9980 It’s not always the case that the breakup happened because someone was “too needy” though.
This seems like a very modern dating dynamic / problem which is a bit of a paradox because women initiate 60-70% of breakups / divorces and tend to be more anxious at baseline.
It’s strange to me because not a single one of my relationships ended with chasing / begging on either end, but I hear about it happening all the time.
It seems the anxious are used to pain and don’t need to repeat it with the same person, and come with strong self protection. Avoidants are used to being wishy washy and having people beg them, and might even enjoy messing with anxious types. Just my recent experience.
I hope never....
I noticed you said “when” and not “if”
Mines got a nose piercing got a tattoo and is coming up to 40 and now she engaged all in 6 month ,didn’t know anything wrong she didn’t tell me anything, but I’m exercising I’m running I can’t date I’m not over my ex I hate this feeling, I miss her for fk sake, she said iv fixed everything but it’s too late, we have kids I don’t understand this situation at all, I know you said you don’t want a monkey branched but you said it fails 100 percent of the time and I hope your right but I want the family unit back together… iv never been angry with her never lost my shit with her
Definitely with kids, I understand why u want her back. But it will be a Merri go round and u will always hate her …after a while…guaranteed. Get ur power back and as excruciating as it is and it is oh so painful.. this is who she is. She is a stranger now.
Been 3 years. Not a word from her. Left me for a known meth head who has her on it. Together 14 years
@NathanStephens-ee9be would you even want her back after that? I'd say you dodge a bullet. Sad story but no longer your problem and I'm glad you wasnt pulled into it. All the best to you sir.