Your most moving episode yet. It’s so hugely important that you are documenting the life of your parents. Not just for your own family, but clearly for at least one million of us. Thank you
I took a fairy from John o’Groats to Orkney almost 30 years ago… by far the most beautiful, fascinating, historical and mystical places I’ve ever been. My mind, body and soul have never been more grounded. Beyond amazing… Much love and respect. 🇺🇸❤️🏴 💙🤍
Ah that’s wonderful that the memory of that trip is still so clear in your mind’s eye! We’re lucky to live in such a beautiful place. All the best to you and thanks so much for watching 👍🙏
Ah it’s just superb isn’t it? Not so good when you dry clothes above the fire though because it doesn’t make you smell too good 😂 thanks for watching 👍
I believe there is an appetite for their return. A lot of derelict homes/farms are being bought in Ireland and being lovingly restored, by hard working people. I see it happening also in Portugal, Spain and Italy. ❤ There is hope ❤
Hello! We farm a flock of about 600 sheep which are a rare breed that eat seaweed. They are a native Orkney breed called North Ronaldsays or Rollies. Thanks for watching!
Ah that’s really kind, thank you! My relationship with the island and my parents has got better as I matured I think! When I was a teenager I struggled not to feel like the island made me miss out on stuff. Now I just see all the things I love about the place. All the best to you
Digging peat gotta be one of those universally satisfying things for guys. Digging a hole, making mud squares, setting them ablaze at some point in time???? count me in.
The hardest part of your journey through dementia is knowing that your loved one is not only never going to get any better but that they will sooner or later not remember who you are or even who they are. I think you hope that maybe they still know you at some level until you realise that they are not responding to their own name and it suddenly occurs to you that if they don’t know who they are it’s a bit unrealistic to think that they might remember you and it hurts far more deeply than you think it will especially because you are at this point completely consumed with their care. I have watched this video each evening since you posted it (3 times) and I didn’t want to say anything but it’s just an unbelievably moving portrait of life and it’s reality even in a remote corner of the world that I am compelled to pass comment and thank you for sharing this wonderful, thoughtful and respectful portrayal of your father even when it makes for somewhat uncomfortable viewing, you give us permission to continue to watch by not dwelling on the difficult scenario but refocusing on the beautiful island and what it brings to bare on the narrative. If I was religious I would say God bless , but since I am not all I can say is best of luck and ask that you give your mum a gentle word every now and then, it’s not easy for you, just imagine what it is like for her. Regards from Ireland
Andy, this is so kind - thank you so much for writing this. The whole illness is so hard to adapt to because it’s constantly changing and there are no patterns to follow. It’s been hard to show my dad’s frailties in these videos because he’s still my all-action dad in my head, but I think it’s important that dementia is talked about and that the stigma is reduced. The realities of rural living with an illness or disability is also not known enough. I’m so incredibly touched that you’ve empathised so much with my parents’ and I’s situation. Take care of yourself. Best, H.
What an unbelievably thoughtful comment on an unexpectedly moving video. @hamishauskerry I can’t imagine how hard the illness is for your whole family, but the love and reverence you all have for him is obvious. It’s amazing seeing how people live (and have lived), and how important neighbours and community are to both our mental and physical health. I can’t imagine how hard it is to edit these videos, but I’m so grateful you did. All the best to you, your parents, Tommy, and of course John. I can’t believe he is in his 80s!
So many things to comment on that it's just not possible. Your parents are blessed to have such a son to look after them and you are blessed to have such great parents. Really enjoyed this video. Hope you are able to make many more.
What a lovely vlog Hamish. I feel for you all having been through what you are experiencing. Dementia is tough but it can have its moments of hilarity and humour. I found your gentle prompts to your dad particularly endearing. I found it helped to encourage others not to say ‘do you remember’ all the time. I would say you may remember and then tell the person that you are addressing what You remember. Its surprising how that prompts memories and gives a time line and continuity
Aw thanks very much for this kind comment. Dad still has lots of space for joy and humour, even when it can be very hard to understand what he’s trying to say exactly! He still loves making other people laugh and thankfully his memory is still pretty good all things considered. Music and comedy still have the same power to move him too. All the best to you ☺️
Thank you so much! This really means a lot ❤️ I’m so glad I had the idea to film my home - as it’s brought me so much joy sharing it with others. Take care
There is nothing easy about living in this island totally self sufficient the truly only easy thing I see is the visually beautiful landscape „so EASY on the eyes …thanking you for sharing these precious moments and this incredible life… stay safe stay blessed
Self sufficiency is such a myth. I grew up in similar circumstances to these people and the dependence on the outside world is always apparent. I came to believe we humans are at our best when like ants we are interdependent in every way.
😃 cheers Brett! I just like giving back a bit to my parents and I love the island and the farm so much so honestly I get so much from going back to help 💪
You're a brilliant son, Hamish. Iv spent most of my working life farming and haven't had a family of my own. I now deeply regret it, and I'm terrified of dying alone. Cherish the time you have with your father, and if you have the chance to have children, im sure it would be worth it Thanks for listening.
Ah this is heartbreaking to read mate, I feel for you. My dad took a lot of persuading to have kids I think and I’m sure if he’d say he was glad he did in the end, but these are tricky decisions. I hope you’re keeping well 👍
Absolutely lovely. I remember growing up in my little rural town near Ottawa and our neighbors were always there for us in a pinch. Huge relief to have people who came by and helped when needed, especially in ice storms, power outages, and to check on the cat if needed. The last boat leaving the pier is so bittersweet, I hope you have someone else who can fill that roll.
Thank you so much Hamish. It's not just a glimpse into your world, it's a picture of all our pasts. We may be on different continents but we still have the same responsibilities and needs. Your's are just more exciting to a lot of us.
The woodpeckers are incredible to be there...wow... Yes...I can see the progression of your dad's condition...and its a lot on you all.He is dearly loved..so evident to see.And he lives is his happy place..I'm sure that brings great contentment to you all.
Ah yes I well remember the time of the peats being brought home...in the village the men got together in groups to take the village's peats home...and if it was our turn we supplied all the meals, soup, herring, potatoes and veggies, bread, scones, pancakes...home made crowdie, butter and jams...it was like feeding an army, which it was in a way...past times that I'll never see the like of it again...memories of a life that is gone Thank you Hamish 😁 🌠
Just discovered your channel and wow it's a gem its good seeing you and your dad working together and coping with your dads dementia ❤❤ your dads generation dont know the meaning of stopping
These are absolutely the best pictures that made it to my screen today!!! Thank you so much for sharing your story and showing what's really important in life 👍💞
Truly amazing and so satisfying watching you cut the pete and your parents way of life,the highest respect to you and your folks best wishes 👍 john price south east Wales 🏴
Nice to see these traditions are still going on . I have started burning peat recently and I really like it. I burn logs mainly but now I am turning to peat . It’s good to see how it’s cut and dried . Wish I had my own peat bog. Great videos really interesting .
Having done some very few days in Donegal's bogs in my youth I notice that they take out long thin bricks rather than the big blocks that you are cutting. Thin bricks I presume will be easier to mover, quicker to dry and fit the small kitchen ranges. Just wondered why you opt for the big blocks....got me thinking and thanks for the great video.
Hi Paul, yeah absolutely - I think you might be right. Peat cutting is done a bit differently in Orkney to Ireland but our way of doing it is a bit different to the way locals here do it too. It’s just the way my dad ended up doing it over years when he had no one around to tell him differently! Thanks for watching 👍
That’s a lovely thing to say, thank you ❤️ I started making these videos just to have a record of family memories, but it’s been lovely to share our experiences with people like you around the world. Thanks for getting in touch! ☺️
Ah, my heart just relates so much to the situation with your dad. My mum's farther along and it just feels sad most of the time. I'm glad you are all eking out the best of the days you have together.
Sorry to hear that 😢 this was filmed in September and august last year and unfortunately my dad is a lot further on too now so it’s hard watching it back. Thanks for your support ❤️
In college we took peat from core samples, and grew the seeds from peat created thousands of years ago. You could see how the plant life had included forests that humans had cut to extinction.
Thanks for the video. It's hard to see loved ones slowing down. They've taught you a lot, I'm sure they are proud of you. Look forward to the next video
@@hamishauskerry it is in Garndolbenmaen in Gwynedd. Of course the owners have since passed away and my school friend lives in the Lake District now. My childhood was spent up there after school and every weekend. Wonderful childhood.!
I was moved by your video. I’m 64 and live in America. My father is 89. The roles reversed several years ago. My memories flooded my mind about the things me and my father did together, and now he follows me around. Thanks for sharing this part of your life.
Aw that’s very poignant to read this, thank you so much for sharing. It’s hard to cope with that transition, but we just have to enjoy everything that we can! Take care
Interesting on so many levels - thanks. My own (late) father had dementia (he had been a very clever doctor (psychiatrist) but we were and he was very lucky his physical health also gave out within 2 or 3 years. Luckily he could stay at home and even died in the house of 50+ years. Interesting because of seeing the peat and of course the change for us all of receiving much less post these days and then the issue of when children stay and when they leave - all mine came back after university and 2 are still here. It is so beautiful there. I had ancestors on my grandmother's side who lived in Kirkwall and Stromness but in the mid 1800s moved to Peteread and then down to England - Northumberland. The one how moved to Northumberland was a sailor which is not surprising.
These are lovely memories, thanks Jane. I’m sorry to hear about your father but I’m glad he was able to stay at home until the end. Thank you for watching and take care.
Having seen my mum go through dimentia, I can imagine how you feel watching your dad struggling. The only consolation you have is that he himself is probably more and more unaware of it. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you 🙏 I’m sorry to hear about your mother - it’s so very sad to watch it happen to a loved one. Yes thankfully he’s not aware at all anymore I don’t think. He’s safe and looked after and that’s all you can do. Thanks for watching - take care.
Hi I am from the Isle of Harris and have been really enjoying your videos. While watching this episode it dawned on me that the slip on your island is the place where a boat I now own visited and I have the pictures that were taken when she visited. I also have one of your father waving as the boat leaves. The boat is now in Tarbert Harris and was previously owned by Smith Fubister. If you have any pictures or background around the visit that would be lovely. Wish you and your family well. Kind regards Dave
Oh Dave has she ever visited Auskerry!! 😃 The Creole didn’t just visit but is in fact THE boat of my childhood and of my brothers. I used to travel on her with Smith on a Friday and a Sunday every week from the age of 14 to go to school in Kirkwall and stay in the hostel for island kids. 2 hours twice a week on that beautiful craft in literally all weathers. We were all very sad to see her leave Orkney but I’m delighted that you’ve taken her on some new journeys and that she’s looked after. Can you email me on hauskerry@hotmail.com please and we’ll gather some pictures for you - as a family we have loads obviously. Smith is one of our longest and oldest family friendships thanks to his boat and his kindness over the years. Thanks for watching the videos - it’s great to be connected! H
@@hamishauskerry well this is such exciting news. I am very happy to make the contribution and I will email you tomorrow with plenty pictures and updates on Creole and that she is now returned to her original name at launch of Vigilant. She has been a bit neglected the past 4 years by previous owner having terminal illness. But she is in much better shape now with some work still to do. Look forward to further correspondence. Best wishes Dave
Not least this wonderful image of my old man waving Smith off once! www.google.com/search?q=creole+boat+scotland&sca_esv=ba5cfc1f9915b905&rlz=1CDGOYI_enGB811GB812&hl=en-GB&udm=2&biw=414&bih=720&ei=Ode_Zq3oJIS5hbIPosDZ2As&oq=creole+boat+scotland&gs_lp=EhNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwIhRjcmVvbGUgYm9hdCBzY290bGFuZDIIEAAYgAQYogRIyxpQkQZYpRhwAHgAkAEAmAFVoAGGBqoBAjExuAEDyAEA-AEBmAILoAKhBsICChAAGIAEGEMYigXCAgUQABiABMICBhAAGAgYHsICBxAAGIAEGBjCAgQQABgewgIEECEYCpgDAIgGAZIHAjExoAfzEQ&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp#imgrc=seIxHL-jcyxNcM&imgdii=IqcSPhLUMigRZM Thanks Dave speak soon. H
@@hamishauskerry Good morning Hamish. I couldn’t open the link but I think it could be one I came across on internet one day. I will put email together later today. Kind regards Dave
Peat cutting takes me back to my Falkland Is childhood. That's good black peat you have. The method we use is very different, standing in the cut and cutting from the face along the bank, throwing the sods from a spade to spread them out as they are cut. We use a spade similar to a garden spade, producing a 9x9x6" sod. Turned days later as you do then into 'houses' which we call Rickles. When dry it can be carted home or stacked by the bank to dry over the winter. We make a round stack leaning in on itself and as tall as a man can reach - it's the shape of a traditional beehive when finished. When home it's usually kept in a shed - thrown in haphazardly, although stacks are common on the farms. There is very little peat cut there these days however. As you know it is backbreaking work and dad would have a few sweets in his pocket to keep him going. It was not unusual to find a sweet wrapper pushed into a wet sod - he'd never litter the peat bank. Thanks for the memories.
Thank you for sharing your memories. I grew up in a rural area of a fairly large island off the west coast of British Columbia. At first we used an oil furnace for heat. I remember standing beside it after getting out of the shared bathtub, shivering and dancing about. Four children all of us girls. We got central heating later on and my Dad had a fireplace added as he worked in the woods and was allowed to take as much wood as he wanted from the bush. He sold some firewood but charged very little for it. I had two friends from single mother homes and he practically gave it to them, he even stacked the firewood for one lady. She was so happy and grateful to have assured warmth for her foreseeable future. ~ Thank you for your comments.
Ah thanks Derek - this is lovely and fascinating in equal measure! I think that sounds a lot like it's always been done in other parts of Scotland and Ireland. From what people tell me, I think we've always had a rather idiosyncratic way of doing it here but of course in the old days, dad had no one to call or ask so he probably came up with his own way of doing it and that's been passed on to me! In the other video about cutting the peat, I filmed myself eating a Tunnocks caramel wafer on the job - which is definitely necessary! Thanks again for commenting. Do you still live in the Falklands?
Ah Sharon these are wonderful memories too, thank you for sharing! Did you grow up on Vancouver island? On Auskerry in the summer months we used to bathe in the front garden in a plastic propcorn barrel cut in half! When I was a baby it was bath time in a washing up bowl on the kitchen table 😄 Thanks for watching
Thankyou for so beautifully documenting and sharing your family's unique life. There's so much to learn here about what's truly important in this life, family and hard work, dependence on friends and neighbors and discovering joy in simplicity.
That’s a lovely sentiment, and I quite agree about the importance of family and hard work. I find it hard adjusting back to my normal work in a city after being home because there’s something deeply meaningful about working on the farm. Thank you for your comment ☺️
Impressive backing the trailer 👏. Yes, family tasks change and merge and swap over as needs must. Tweaks the heart strings and makes one ponder on the previous generations way past. Thank you so much for explaining exactly how peat is harvested and cured. Had been puzzled how it worked. Hard work handling peat and firewood from harvest. Warmed twice indeed 😊. I love gathering twigs and sticks in the scrub for kindling, very satisfying to see the boxes full in the wood shed. Keep safe, and now, warm. From Australia
Like this videos . My father grew up on a dairy farm and told stories of helping to milk before and after school and moving stock with horses . he later had a teaching job , but farming is like running a small business . My mother had some altsheimers like your Dad . All you can do is be there for him
Very special to me your videos. My father as well has demence, live is not easy. Great to see how you let him share normal daily ilandjobs. Best wishes from Germany
I'm an older women who also grew up doing hard work. I always felt it was God's blessing to provide the resources we needed to get by. I enjoyed your video. ♡
Hamish, as you take on the jobs on your island, I’m sure it also makes you extremely proud of what your parents accomplished during their marriage & while raising a family, as well! It’s beyond impressive!! I don’t know if you’ve ever done an entire video on each of your parent’s lives from birth to now? It would be amazing to see what influenced them as young children & how they got their incredible work ethic!! Thank you for creating, documenting, & sharing this glimpse into a very unique way of life!!
I just love your videos from your beautiful island. I remember my grandparents doing the same routine harvesting peat on a little island on the north west coast of Norway. I have always felt close to the hard working people in Scotland.-more so after watching your videos. And I just admire your parents so much 🥰
That is awesome! Can I ask what the name of the island is? I’d absolutely love to visit some of the Norwegian islands and see their unique sheep and the landscapes. Thank you for watching and supporting ☺️
As I come from The Isle of Lewis in the Outer Hebrides...which were taken and ruled over by the Vikings for over 800years but never left...I must have quite a few of your forebears to thank for my being here so...I feel very close to the Norse from your parts😁🌠
@@ChristophersMum Your comment really moved me-and I think Norwegians have a lot in common with the Scottish people. Both my parents come from small islands too -and the vikings have left a mark there too. And I also think the weather conditions are the same-a lot of wind and rain. Smøla and Edøy are where my parents came from.🥰The north west coast of Norway
Thank you, yes it’s tricky to juggle everything - particularly now with an election on! But I do try to find the time when I can. Thanks for watching! ☺️
There’s so much to comment on in this video. After reading the other comments pretty much everything has been said or covered. However, as a new sub I at least want to share with you how grateful I am for this video and i second all the nice comments people have made. The warmth and love your family has come through the video. From the States I wish you and your loved ones well…
Ah this is such a kind and thoughtful comment, thanks so much Robert! We work hard and stick together as a family through the good and worse times. All the best to you in the States!
I read from true stories by a retired school teacher who lived in the Shetland islands on retiring...She wrote of the locals...One story was of a woman who lived alone and the walls to her small home was six feet thick with cut peat blocks all around the home and she had a small wind break at the back door of a five foot tall by ten feet long wall, five peat cuts deep..... What a stack..... lafffffin....Enjoyed my visit..please visit mum and dad soon..... blessings darling from Granny Linda in OZ......
What a fantastic peaceful ( Hard working) life what a place I rem Peat or Turf as we call it here in Ireland the smell I loved it . Sorry about the medical issues regarding your family in particular your Dad we nursed a family member through the same condition and very poignant when you mentioned about checking on him on the trailer as he did you once upon a time . What a life what a place Good luck from Ireland 🇮🇪.
Thanks for this! Yeah the smell is something you never forget. I’m sorry to hear about your dad, but I hope you found a way to adapt as we are trying to as well. Take care and best wishes to you
Taking care of an elderly parent in their last days is not easy, luckily my mom, who passed in 2- 2023 still was sharp of mind even though her body was getting weaker. This is the first video of yours I have watched, you say your brothers wonder if you are pulling your weight, but where are they? My prayers for you to remain strong during this trial, that only those who have gone through will understand
Thank you, I appreciate your kind comments. I’m sorry to hear about your mum too. Ah don’t pay too much attention to the brothers thing, that’s just a bit of friendly banter. They come to help too for a week here and there when they feel they can, and they have some skills I don’t have! Thanks for watching - take care
Back in Ireland at my parents we do the same with the turf for heating and cooking a day in the Bog collecting the turf and bringing it home we put it in a shed all year round 200 yards of it
Just found this, and its a true gem. My father sadly past away last year from dementia and seeing your care towards your father was very touching. I will now go back and watch older episodes - Thank you for creating this lovely channel :)
Ah I'm really sorry to read this. It's such an awful thing to see the condition develop in someone you love, and although we've all struggled in our own way with the change to caring responsibilities, we all love dad and just want him to enjoy as much as he can. Thanks for watching - I hope you're taking care.
This is exactly what my mum has always called it!! Whenever people come to visit who haven’t been before, we always tell them they’ll have to do a workout in the Auskerry gym ☺️
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Your most moving episode yet. It’s so hugely important that you are documenting the life of your parents. Not just for your own family, but clearly for at least one million of us. Thank you
Thank you so much Elisabeth - it has made us cry too. Take care ❤️
I took a fairy from John o’Groats to Orkney almost 30 years ago… by far the most beautiful, fascinating, historical and mystical places I’ve ever been. My mind, body and soul have never been more grounded. Beyond amazing… Much love and respect. 🇺🇸❤️🏴 💙🤍
Ah that’s wonderful that the memory of that trip is still so clear in your mind’s eye! We’re lucky to live in such a beautiful place. All the best to you and thanks so much for watching 👍🙏
You can't beat the smell of a peat fire. I love wandering around our village in the winter and smelling the peat fires.
Ah it’s just superb isn’t it? Not so good when you dry clothes above the fire though because it doesn’t make you smell too good 😂 thanks for watching 👍
So much kindness… Thrilling to see the peat harvested.
Aw thanks Mary! ☺️
The old worlds are passing. Good man for doing the hard work of keeping things going.
Cheers Pat, I appreciate it.
I believe there is an appetite for their return. A lot of derelict homes/farms are being bought in Ireland and being lovingly restored, by hard working people. I see it happening also in Portugal, Spain and Italy. ❤ There is hope ❤
Hard work kept John young, I would never guess he was over 80. Wonderful video.
Amazing isn’t it! He’s a legend. Thanks for watching!
@@hamishauskerry What were you farming on the island? did you keep sheep?
Hello! We farm a flock of about 600 sheep which are a rare breed that eat seaweed. They are a native Orkney breed called North Ronaldsays or Rollies. Thanks for watching!
So wonderful that you have documented a vanishing way of life. I love the videos and it’s special to see your bond with your parents and the island.
Ah that’s really kind, thank you! My relationship with the island and my parents has got better as I matured I think! When I was a teenager I struggled not to feel like the island made me miss out on stuff. Now I just see all the things I love about the place. All the best to you
Digging peat gotta be one of those universally satisfying things for guys. Digging a hole, making mud squares, setting them ablaze at some point in time???? count me in.
😂😂 I absolutely love this 👏 there is something so wonderfully primal about gathering something, drying it out and then burning it
You're a good Son. Watching for the first time from North Carolina. God bless you and your family.
I appreciate that a lot ❤️
Stunningly beautiful yet painfully hard watching our parents grow old - well done on a brilliant episode
Thanks very much Jonty, that’s really kind 👍
The hardest part of your journey through dementia is knowing that your loved one is not only never going to get any better but that they will sooner or later not remember who you are or even who they are. I think you hope that maybe they still know you at some level until you realise that they are not responding to their own name and it suddenly occurs to you that if they don’t know who they are it’s a bit unrealistic to think that they might remember you and it hurts far more deeply than you think it will especially because you are at this point completely consumed with their care. I have watched this video each evening since you posted it (3 times) and I didn’t want to say anything but it’s just an unbelievably moving portrait of life and it’s reality even in a remote corner of the world that I am compelled to pass comment and thank you for sharing this wonderful, thoughtful and respectful portrayal of your father even when it makes for somewhat uncomfortable viewing, you give us permission to continue to watch by not dwelling on the difficult scenario but refocusing on the beautiful island and what it brings to bare on the narrative. If I was religious I would say God bless , but since I am not all I can say is best of luck and ask that you give your mum a gentle word every now and then, it’s not easy for you, just imagine what it is like for her. Regards from Ireland
My thoughts exactly, went through it with both parents and it’s not easy.
Andy, this is so kind - thank you so much for writing this. The whole illness is so hard to adapt to because it’s constantly changing and there are no patterns to follow. It’s been hard to show my dad’s frailties in these videos because he’s still my all-action dad in my head, but I think it’s important that dementia is talked about and that the stigma is reduced. The realities of rural living with an illness or disability is also not known enough. I’m so incredibly touched that you’ve empathised so much with my parents’ and I’s situation. Take care of yourself. Best, H.
What an unbelievably thoughtful comment on an unexpectedly moving video. @hamishauskerry I can’t imagine how hard the illness is for your whole family, but the love and reverence you all have for him is obvious. It’s amazing seeing how people live (and have lived), and how important neighbours and community are to both our mental and physical health. I can’t imagine how hard it is to edit these videos, but I’m so grateful you did. All the best to you, your parents, Tommy, and of course John. I can’t believe he is in his 80s!
Those of us who are dealing with a parent declining with dementia or lost one know how hard this is least being on a remote island.
So many things to comment on that it's just not possible. Your parents are blessed to have such a son to look after them and you are blessed to have such great parents. Really enjoyed this video. Hope you are able to make many more.
Thank you! ☺️ my parents are legends and I’m so glad I’ve been able to make this series to celebrate them a bit. Thanks for watching
What a lovely vlog Hamish. I feel for you all having been through what you are experiencing. Dementia is tough but it can have its moments of hilarity and humour. I found your gentle prompts to your dad particularly endearing. I found it helped to encourage others not to say ‘do you remember’ all the time. I would say you may remember and then tell the person that you are addressing what You remember. Its surprising how that prompts memories and gives a time line and continuity
Aw thanks very much for this kind comment. Dad still has lots of space for joy and humour, even when it can be very hard to understand what he’s trying to say exactly! He still loves making other people laugh and thankfully his memory is still pretty good all things considered. Music and comedy still have the same power to move him too. All the best to you ☺️
You make the most beautiful videos. Interesting and showing humanity at its best. Thank you Hamish. 😊
Thank you so much! This really means a lot ❤️ I’m so glad I had the idea to film my home - as it’s brought me so much joy sharing it with others. Take care
There is nothing easy about living in this island totally self sufficient the truly only easy thing I see is the visually beautiful landscape „so EASY on the eyes …thanking you for sharing these precious moments and this incredible life… stay safe stay blessed
Thanks so much Isabella ❤️ take care
Self sufficiency is such a myth.
I grew up in similar circumstances to these people and the dependence on the outside world is always apparent.
I came to believe we humans are at our best when like ants we are interdependent in every way.
So bittersweet and elegiac. Your father is a hero and you are a wonderful son.
Thanks so much David ☺️
you are a good son Hamish, and i am betting just a good all around guy...
😃 cheers Brett! I just like giving back a bit to my parents and I love the island and the farm so much so honestly I get so much from going back to help 💪
You're a brilliant son, Hamish.
Iv spent most of my working life farming and haven't had a family of my own.
I now deeply regret it, and I'm terrified of dying alone.
Cherish the time you have with your father, and if you have the chance to have children, im sure it would be worth it
Thanks for listening.
Ah this is heartbreaking to read mate, I feel for you. My dad took a lot of persuading to have kids I think and I’m sure if he’d say he was glad he did in the end, but these are tricky decisions. I hope you’re keeping well 👍
So glad you can com-peat with your brothers in this work.
😂😂 top of the class Billy!
Foe Petes sake😂
Made me tear up at the end knowing the “Hopeful Crew” won’t be by again😢
I know 😢 All of us have she’s a tear watching it too. Thanks for watching and empathising ❤️
Absolutely lovely. I remember growing up in my little rural town near Ottawa and our neighbors were always there for us in a pinch. Huge relief to have people who came by and helped when needed, especially in ice storms, power outages, and to check on the cat if needed. The last boat leaving the pier is so bittersweet, I hope you have someone else who can fill that roll.
Aw that’s a lovely story, yes it’s so important in small and rural communities to help each other when people need it. Thank you for watching ☺️
My family is from Ireland, nothing like the smell of a peat fire on a cold raw day! Love your site, very interesting!!
Ah awesome! There really is nothing like it - I so agree. Thanks for watching!
i really miss the island, back now for 2 weeks and i cant wait go again
Ah cheers Eric! I know mum is looking forward to having you back later in the year. Thanks for all your work!
Thank you so much Hamish. It's not just a glimpse into your world, it's a picture of all our pasts. We may be on different continents but we still have the same responsibilities and needs. Your's are just more exciting to a lot of us.
That’s so kind - thank you for watching and your support ❤️
The woodpeckers are incredible to be there...wow...
Yes...I can see the progression of your dad's condition...and its a lot on you all.He is dearly loved..so evident to see.And he lives is his happy place..I'm sure that brings great contentment to you all.
Thank you ☺️🥹
Thank you Hamish! I always really enjoy your videos. It's important that you've preserved island and family life with your videos.❤❤❤
Thanks so much for your support! ☺️
Ah yes I well remember the time of the peats being brought home...in the village the men got together in groups to take the village's peats home...and if it was our turn we supplied all the meals, soup, herring, potatoes and veggies, bread, scones, pancakes...home made crowdie, butter and jams...it was like feeding an army, which it was in a way...past times that I'll never see the like of it again...memories of a life that is gone
Thank you Hamish 😁 🌠
They are lovely memories! Thank you for sharing - and also for supporting what we’re doing. Take care ❤️
Just discovered your channel and wow it's a gem its good seeing you and your dad working together and coping with your dads dementia ❤❤ your dads generation dont know the meaning of stopping
Yeah I quite agree! Thanks for the support ☺️
What a beautiful tribute to family, love and hard work. Thank you for sharing this enlightening video about how you live AND how you love. ❤
Thank you so much - that's such a kind thing to write. It's a pleasure to share our lives with people like you around the world :)
These are absolutely the best pictures that made it to my screen today!!! Thank you so much for sharing your story and showing what's really important in life 👍💞
Thank you so much! That's really kind - I'm glad you enjoyed the ep :)
Truly amazing and so satisfying watching you cut the pete and your parents way of life,the highest respect to you and your folks best wishes 👍 john price south east Wales 🏴
Really appreciate that - cheers John!
These videos are such a wonderful glimpse into an amazing life and incredible people ❤
Aw thank you!! ☺️
There is tractor with machine that cuts turf whats point in breaking ur back when there is machine for that
Nice to see these traditions are still going on . I have started burning peat recently and I really like it. I burn logs mainly but now I am turning to peat . It’s good to see how it’s cut and dried . Wish I had my own peat bog. Great videos really interesting .
Ah thanks very much for watching! That’s really cool that you’re burning peat - you’ll know the smell well! All the best to you
Having done some very few days in Donegal's bogs in my youth I notice that they take out long thin bricks rather than the big blocks that you are cutting. Thin bricks I presume will be easier to mover, quicker to dry and fit the small kitchen ranges. Just wondered why you opt for the big blocks....got me thinking and thanks for the great video.
Hi Paul, yeah absolutely - I think you might be right. Peat cutting is done a bit differently in Orkney to Ireland but our way of doing it is a bit different to the way locals here do it too. It’s just the way my dad ended up doing it over years when he had no one around to tell him differently! Thanks for watching 👍
Lovely video Thank you
Thanks so much! 👍
So kind of you and your family to share all of this with us. What lovely, wonderful people ❤
That’s a lovely thing to say, thank you ❤️ I started making these videos just to have a record of family memories, but it’s been lovely to share our experiences with people like you around the world. Thanks for getting in touch! ☺️
G'day Hamish, bloody ripper vids mate, love Mum & Dad and you're doing a great job. Keep up the good work legend. Cheers, Sean.
Thanks so much Sean! Really appreciate it mate 👍
lovely to see you all on the Island together again!
Thank you!! ☺️
I look forward to each video you send out. Great job and please continue on.
That’s really kind, thank you! ☺️
Thanks for another great video Hamish
Cheers John! Glad you enjoyed it
Another interesting & enjoyable video fair play to ya . Best wishes from Ireland ☘️ take care everyone 👍👍👍
Cheers Michael! Thanks for watching - take care 👍
Thank you, Hamish! Best wishes to you and your family. I've only handled dry peat - amazing how much the weight changes when dried!
Thank you! Yeah they're a lot more manageable dry! Cheers for watching as always 👍
Ah, my heart just relates so much to the situation with your dad. My mum's farther along and it just feels sad most of the time. I'm glad you are all eking out the best of the days you have together.
Sorry to hear that 😢 this was filmed in September and august last year and unfortunately my dad is a lot further on too now so it’s hard watching it back. Thanks for your support ❤️
In college we took peat from core samples, and grew the seeds from peat created thousands of years ago. You could see how the plant life had included forests that humans had cut to extinction.
That’s fascinating! What a brilliant idea to do that. Thanks for sharing!
Jaw dropped. Really a beautiful story. Thank you so much for this heartwarming, informative and well made video.
That’s such a kind thing to say, thank you so much. Comments like this make it all worthwhile ❤️
Thanks for the video. It's hard to see loved ones slowing down. They've taught you a lot, I'm sure they are proud of you. Look forward to the next video
Thanks Chris - that’s really kind. I’m so grateful to my parents for the start they gave us in life. Thanks for watching 👍
Loved helping my friend’s family on a sheep farm in North Wales collect peat for their fires back in the early 70s
Oh cool! Which farm? Wales is my new home ❤️
@@hamishauskerry it is in Garndolbenmaen in Gwynedd. Of course the owners have since passed away and my school friend lives in the Lake District now. My childhood was spent up there after school and every weekend. Wonderful childhood.!
Thank you for sharing! Absolutely love your videos and perspective.
That’s really kind ☺️ thanks for watching!
I was moved by your video. I’m 64 and live in America. My father is 89. The roles reversed several years ago. My memories flooded my mind about the things me and my father did together, and now he follows me around. Thanks for sharing this part of your life.
Aw that’s very poignant to read this, thank you so much for sharing. It’s hard to cope with that transition, but we just have to enjoy everything that we can! Take care
Interesting on so many levels - thanks. My own (late) father had dementia (he had been a very clever doctor (psychiatrist) but we were and he was very lucky his physical health also gave out within 2 or 3 years. Luckily he could stay at home and even died in the house of 50+ years. Interesting because of seeing the peat and of course the change for us all of receiving much less post these days and then the issue of when children stay and when they leave - all mine came back after university and 2 are still here. It is so beautiful there. I had ancestors on my grandmother's side who lived in Kirkwall and Stromness but in the mid 1800s moved to Peteread and then down to England - Northumberland. The one how moved to Northumberland was a sailor which is not surprising.
These are lovely memories, thanks Jane. I’m sorry to hear about your father but I’m glad he was able to stay at home until the end. Thank you for watching and take care.
Having seen my mum go through dimentia, I can imagine how you feel watching your dad struggling. The only consolation you have is that he himself is probably more and more unaware of it.
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you 🙏 I’m sorry to hear about your mother - it’s so very sad to watch it happen to a loved one. Yes thankfully he’s not aware at all anymore I don’t think. He’s safe and looked after and that’s all you can do. Thanks for watching - take care.
Cheerio is such a New Zealand Expression! So glad to hear it.
Ah I didn’t know that! It’s great word - thanks for watching to the end! 😃
Well it makes sense. The UK made your country 😅
Really enjoying these films well shot and produced a real highlight on my youtube watchlist 😊
Thanks so much Stephen, that’s very kind! Take care
10:50 looks amazing !!
Thank you! ☺️
Hi I am from the Isle of Harris and have been really enjoying your videos. While watching this episode it dawned on me that the slip on your island is the place where a boat I now own visited and I have the pictures that were taken when she visited. I also have one of your father waving as the boat leaves. The boat is now in Tarbert Harris and was previously owned by Smith Fubister.
If you have any pictures or background around the visit that would be lovely.
Wish you and your family well.
Kind regards
Dave
Hi I just tried to add the pictures but no joy.. the one in my profile is at your slip
Oh Dave has she ever visited Auskerry!! 😃 The Creole didn’t just visit but is in fact THE boat of my childhood and of my brothers. I used to travel on her with Smith on a Friday and a Sunday every week from the age of 14 to go to school in Kirkwall and stay in the hostel for island kids. 2 hours twice a week on that beautiful craft in literally all weathers. We were all very sad to see her leave Orkney but I’m delighted that you’ve taken her on some new journeys and that she’s looked after. Can you email me on hauskerry@hotmail.com please and we’ll gather some pictures for you - as a family we have loads obviously. Smith is one of our longest and oldest family friendships thanks to his boat and his kindness over the years. Thanks for watching the videos - it’s great to be connected! H
@@hamishauskerry well this is such exciting news. I am very happy to make the contribution and I will email you tomorrow with plenty pictures and updates on Creole and that she is now returned to her original name at launch of Vigilant. She has been a bit neglected the past 4 years by previous owner having terminal illness. But she is in much better shape now with some work still to do. Look forward to further correspondence.
Best wishes
Dave
Not least this wonderful image of my old man waving Smith off once! www.google.com/search?q=creole+boat+scotland&sca_esv=ba5cfc1f9915b905&rlz=1CDGOYI_enGB811GB812&hl=en-GB&udm=2&biw=414&bih=720&ei=Ode_Zq3oJIS5hbIPosDZ2As&oq=creole+boat+scotland&gs_lp=EhNtb2JpbGUtZ3dzLXdpei1zZXJwIhRjcmVvbGUgYm9hdCBzY290bGFuZDIIEAAYgAQYogRIyxpQkQZYpRhwAHgAkAEAmAFVoAGGBqoBAjExuAEDyAEA-AEBmAILoAKhBsICChAAGIAEGEMYigXCAgUQABiABMICBhAAGAgYHsICBxAAGIAEGBjCAgQQABgewgIEECEYCpgDAIgGAZIHAjExoAfzEQ&sclient=mobile-gws-wiz-serp#imgrc=seIxHL-jcyxNcM&imgdii=IqcSPhLUMigRZM
Thanks Dave speak soon. H
@@hamishauskerry Good morning
Hamish. I couldn’t open the link but I think it could be one I came across on internet one day.
I will put email together later today.
Kind regards
Dave
we say the same about firewood. depending on how many times you handle it or cut it, it''s always warming you up
Exactly! There’s something so rewarding about all of those kinds of things. Thanks for watching!
Every year bringing home the turf is a small celebration and a sigh of relief 👍🏻
Absolutely! A good excuse for a peaty single malt too 😃
Peat cutting takes me back to my Falkland Is childhood. That's good black peat you have.
The method we use is very different, standing in the cut and cutting from the face along the bank, throwing the sods from a spade to spread them out as they are cut. We use a spade similar to a garden spade, producing a 9x9x6" sod.
Turned days later as you do then into 'houses' which we call Rickles. When dry it can be carted home or stacked by the bank to dry over the winter. We make a round stack leaning in on itself and as tall as a man can reach - it's the shape of a traditional beehive when finished.
When home it's usually kept in a shed - thrown in haphazardly, although stacks are common on the farms.
There is very little peat cut there these days however.
As you know it is backbreaking work and dad would have a few sweets in his pocket to keep him going. It was not unusual to find a sweet wrapper pushed into a wet sod - he'd never litter the peat bank.
Thanks for the memories.
Thank you for sharing your memories. I grew up in a rural area of a fairly large island off the west coast of British Columbia. At first we used an oil furnace for heat. I remember standing beside it after getting out of the shared bathtub, shivering and dancing about. Four children all of us girls. We got central heating later on and my Dad had a fireplace added as he worked in the woods and was allowed to take as much wood as he wanted from the bush. He sold some firewood but charged very little for it. I had two friends from single mother homes and he practically gave it to them, he even stacked the firewood for one lady. She was so happy and grateful to have assured warmth for her foreseeable future. ~ Thank you for your comments.
Ah thanks Derek - this is lovely and fascinating in equal measure! I think that sounds a lot like it's always been done in other parts of Scotland and Ireland. From what people tell me, I think we've always had a rather idiosyncratic way of doing it here but of course in the old days, dad had no one to call or ask so he probably came up with his own way of doing it and that's been passed on to me! In the other video about cutting the peat, I filmed myself eating a Tunnocks caramel wafer on the job - which is definitely necessary! Thanks again for commenting. Do you still live in the Falklands?
Ah Sharon these are wonderful memories too, thank you for sharing! Did you grow up on Vancouver island? On Auskerry in the summer months we used to bathe in the front garden in a plastic propcorn barrel cut in half! When I was a baby it was bath time in a washing up bowl on the kitchen table 😄 Thanks for watching
@@hamishauskerry Not since I was 12 - I'm 64 in New Zealand now
We cut the sods thinner easier to handle when cutting and when dry. Still it's hard work.
Thankyou for so beautifully documenting and sharing your family's unique life. There's so much to learn here about what's truly important in this life, family and hard work, dependence on friends and neighbors and discovering joy in simplicity.
That’s a lovely sentiment, and I quite agree about the importance of family and hard work. I find it hard adjusting back to my normal work in a city after being home because there’s something deeply meaningful about working on the farm. Thank you for your comment ☺️
Impressive backing the trailer 👏.
Yes, family tasks change and merge and swap over as needs must. Tweaks the heart strings and makes one ponder on the previous generations way past. Thank you so much for explaining exactly how peat is harvested and cured. Had been puzzled how it worked. Hard work handling peat and firewood from harvest. Warmed twice indeed 😊. I love gathering twigs and sticks in the scrub for kindling, very satisfying to see the boxes full in the wood shed. Keep safe, and now, warm. From Australia
Thank you so much for watching and support what we do - it genuinely means a lot ❤️ sending love to Australia 😘
Priceless. Thank you.
Thank you Edward.
Thank you Edward
Fabulous!!
Thank you!!
I only found you after watching your story on the Welsh spinning and weaving mill. I love your style of journalism
Ah thanks very much Sherrie that's a lovely thing to say. Welcome to the channel! :)
Like this videos . My father grew up on a dairy farm and told stories of helping to milk before and after school and moving stock with horses . he later had a teaching job , but farming is like running a small business . My mother had some altsheimers like your Dad . All you can do is be there for him
Thank you Barney, that’s kind of you. Thanks for watching
Good on ya fellas SOUTH AUSTRALIA
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It's great to see all of the work involved, good and not so.
I love the living history that you have, and your parents pass that knowledge on
Ah thank you! It’s been very special to share it with others too. Thanks for watching ☺️
Very special to me your videos. My father as well has demence, live is not easy. Great to see how you let him share normal daily ilandjobs. Best wishes from Germany
I’m sorry to hear that - it certainly is tough. Sending best wishes to you and your dad ❤️
Well done !!
Thanks James!!
I'm an older women who also grew up doing hard work. I always felt it was God's blessing to provide the resources we needed to get by. I enjoyed your video. ♡
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for your support ☺️
Hamish, as you take on the jobs on your island, I’m sure it also makes you extremely proud of what your parents accomplished during their marriage & while raising a family, as well! It’s beyond impressive!! I don’t know if you’ve ever done an entire video on each of your parent’s lives from birth to now? It would be amazing to see what influenced them as young children & how they got their incredible work ethic!!
Thank you for creating, documenting, & sharing this glimpse into a very unique way of life!!
That’s a great idea - hopefully I’ll be able to do that at some point, though maybe I’ll wait until mum’s book is finished! 😃 thanks for watching
In the southern U.S. there is an old similar saying about cutting firewood; you get heat when you cut it, when you split it, and when you burn it.
It’s spot on isn’t it! Thanks very much for watching John.
God bless you for being there for your parents during tough times....not everyone does that ....
I wouldn’t have it any other way - thank you though for watching and this kind comment ☺️
Thank you so much for the share Northern California🎉😊
Ah now thats another beautiful part of the world! Thanks so much for watching
Your mum is a remarkable lady.
She is! Thanks so much for watching ☺️
I just love your videos from your beautiful island. I remember my grandparents doing the same routine harvesting peat on a little island on the north west coast of Norway. I have always felt close to the hard working people in Scotland.-more so after watching your videos. And I just admire your parents so much 🥰
That is awesome! Can I ask what the name of the island is? I’d absolutely love to visit some of the Norwegian islands and see their unique sheep and the landscapes. Thank you for watching and supporting ☺️
@@hamishauskerry The name is Smøla .And Therese Are so mann beautiful Islands and plages to visit in Norway. One eksempler is Lofoten.
Sorry about the typos-l am not used to writing in english.
As I come from The Isle of Lewis in the Outer Hebrides...which were taken and ruled over by the Vikings for over 800years but never left...I must have quite a few of your forebears to thank for my being here so...I feel very close to the Norse from your parts😁🌠
@@ChristophersMum Your comment really moved me-and I think Norwegians have a lot in common with the Scottish people. Both my parents come from small islands too -and the vikings have left a mark there too. And I also think the weather conditions are the same-a lot of wind and rain. Smøla and Edøy are where my parents came from.🥰The north west coast of Norway
Very beautiful film. Very beautiful family. Not sure what's Nature or Nurture but can't imagine you'd be such a great guy/son without both.
That’s a lovely thing to say and I appreciate it 🙏 I am the product of the island and my parents - I owe them all so much. Thanks for watching ❤️
Hello from Vancouver Island!
Hello to you Hillary! Thanks so much for watching ☺️
lovely Hamish , ive missed your channel but know due to your work commitments its hard x
Thank you, yes it’s tricky to juggle everything - particularly now with an election on! But I do try to find the time when I can. Thanks for watching! ☺️
There’s so much to comment on in this video. After reading the other comments pretty much everything has been said or covered. However, as a new sub I at least want to share with you how grateful I am for this video and i second all the nice comments people have made. The warmth and love your family has come through the video. From the States I wish you and your loved ones well…
Ah this is such a kind and thoughtful comment, thanks so much Robert! We work hard and stick together as a family through the good and worse times. All the best to you in the States!
It's absolutely beautiful out there, as beautiful as your family working together. 🎉
❤️ thanks so much! We are really lucky in so many ways. Thanks for your support
Good to see got new water pump now and great see and good to see doing peat for fire in winter great to see great video
Cheers Jason!
❤ so beautiful.
Thank you, as always! 😊
I read from true stories by a retired school teacher who lived in the Shetland islands on retiring...She wrote of the locals...One story was of a woman who lived alone and the walls to her small home was six feet thick with cut peat blocks all around the home and she had a small wind break at the back door of a five foot tall by ten feet long wall, five peat cuts deep..... What a stack..... lafffffin....Enjoyed my visit..please visit mum and dad soon..... blessings darling from Granny Linda in OZ......
Yes quite good insulation I’d imagine! I wouldn’t want it to collapse on me though 😃 thank you for watching - sending good wishes to you in Oz ☺️
Just fantastic
Thank you! ☺️
Ha ish I love your insights and channel. Thank you love from Calgary Canada ❤️🇨🇦
Thank you! Best wishes over the pond to you too ☺️
What a fantastic peaceful ( Hard working) life what a place I rem Peat or Turf as we call it here in Ireland the smell I loved it . Sorry about the medical issues regarding your family in particular your Dad we nursed a family member through the same condition and very poignant when you mentioned about checking on him on the trailer as he did you once upon a time . What a life what a place Good luck from Ireland 🇮🇪.
Thanks for this! Yeah the smell is something you never forget. I’m sorry to hear about your dad, but I hope you found a way to adapt as we are trying to as well. Take care and best wishes to you
@@hamishauskerry 🇮🇪🙏
Thanks for your episode
Thanks for your support Nina!
Taking care of an elderly parent in their last days is not easy, luckily my mom, who passed in 2- 2023 still was sharp of mind even though her body was getting weaker.
This is the first video of yours I have watched, you say your brothers wonder if you are pulling your weight, but where are they?
My prayers for you to remain strong during this trial, that only those who have gone through will understand
Thank you, I appreciate your kind comments. I’m sorry to hear about your mum too.
Ah don’t pay too much attention to the brothers thing, that’s just a bit of friendly banter. They come to help too for a week here and there when they feel they can, and they have some skills I don’t have! Thanks for watching - take care
Hola Hamish, gracias por compartir tan emotivos momentos con tu familia y amigos, me encanta Saludos a tu Familia.
Gracias 🙏❤️
Back in Ireland at my parents we do the same with the turf for heating and cooking a day in the Bog collecting the turf and bringing it home we put it in a shed all year round 200 yards of it
Wow that’s a lot of work! It’s lovely to keep these traditions going though 💪
Again thank you !!🙂
My pleasure! Thanks for watching!
Just found this, and its a true gem. My father sadly past away last year from dementia and seeing your care towards your father was very touching. I will now go back and watch older episodes - Thank you for creating this lovely channel :)
Ah I'm really sorry to read this. It's such an awful thing to see the condition develop in someone you love, and although we've all struggled in our own way with the change to caring responsibilities, we all love dad and just want him to enjoy as much as he can. Thanks for watching - I hope you're taking care.
Thanks for the amazing update. I feel a bit of a wool purchase from the wool website coming on soon.
Thank you! That sounds like a good idea 😃
Auskerry's version of a gym =peat cutting ❤
This is exactly what my mum has always called it!! Whenever people come to visit who haven’t been before, we always tell them they’ll have to do a workout in the Auskerry gym ☺️
Clasd video Hamisha and thank you
That’s really kind of you! Cheers mate
Reminds me of home in the outer Hebrides back in the sixties.Now live in Australia and the aircon is my favourite..nice video..
Ah lovely memories! Thanks for watching Robert. Jealous of the warmth you’ve got but it’s probably too much for me!
Beautiful and poignant record of your parents life as always…I was even sad to see the fishing boat pull away too.
Thank you Jen ❤️ It's a hard watch for us but I'm so glad I've made a record of it. Thanks for watching
Live just south of Glasgow, Just found your videos. Fabulous. Keep going😊
Thanks so much Judith! Take care and thanks for your support ☺️
Beautiful.
Thanks so much ☺️