Very well said. If we look around at the most successful marriages they are almost all in the correct order. God over Christ, Christ over man, man over women, women over children. This is the order that works and everyone understands their role.
@YellowBlackbird12 no I don't think that Jesus and God are the same being. The bible says; no one comes to the father expect through the son. Well that's is two different beings.
I’m still working on being a good girlfriend and complaining less to my bf whose so kind and gracious to me especially when I don’t deserve it. He thinks it’s weird when I ask what he wants for our future now because he’s used to hearing my opinions but I’m trying to make the relationship work so our future kids have the best, supportive parents.
To me, It Is a kind of Yin/Yang....Yes the Woman "Submits", BUT....The Man has to "Protect"....It is a "cooperation" between the two prospective mates built up over time....I think that Is the best chance for successful marriages....Anyway I always watch your videos, And I am a long time subscriber, May God Bless you and your family!!!!
Wow, excellent video, you are absolutely and totally correct on every point here. There are very, very few things in the Bible that are as completely black and white as this, there is no ambiguity whatsoever in woman's role and her relationship to her husband, none. I really dislike it when people say that "majoring in minors" line when talking about this subject. This is majoring in majors, thus is foundational to woman's very existence and her entire pace in this world and how she serves God in this life. A woman simply cannot be a Christian and live the Christian life while rebelling against God and her very nature and reason for being created. This is an extreme absurdity. Keep up the good work and stand strong, I love your videos and it is so encouraging to see that a remnant of faithful Christian women still exist in this age of darkness and apostasy.
I had an argument with my cousin-in-law, who's a feminist, about the issue of submission. She's a domineering woman and constantly emasculates my cousin, her husband. When I bring up Ephesians 5 about how wives are to submit to their husbands, she will cling to verse 21, "Submit to one another out of reverence to Christ." She seems to think that verse completely nullifies every verse that comes after that. But even then, she doesn't submit to her husband at all! She just undermines him ever chance she gets and makes fun of him in front of others. This serves as a reminder to me how much hell it can be to marry a feminist. Therefore, I would much rather be single than to marry such a woman. Keep these amazing videos coming, Christy. We need more women like you speaking out :)
Supreme Crusader Oh, brother... the “mutual submission” argument. 🙄 I am so DONE with it. 😆 It’s on my list of video topics! Thanks so much for the encouragement!
Lol. Verse 21 is not dealing with marriage it’s about how to deal with other believers within the body of Christ. Verses 22 on down is specifically dealing with marriage. How to destroy the mutual submission argument is this. Marriage is compared to Christ relationship with the church. Nowhere in the Bible is Christ commanded to submit to the church. The husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, so having said that then the husband is not commanded to submit to his wife.
The exhortation to mutual submission does not mean that every single individual is to submit to every other individual. If this were the case then parents must submit to their children, and elders must submit to deacons and all others, and the older women would have to submit to the younger women they are instructing in the ways of godly womanhood! The only logical explanation of mutual submission is that it is a general call for everyone to submit to those in authority over them at that stage in their lives. Everyone who grows to adulthood in the church will have the opportunity at some point to have individuals who are called to submit to him or her.
Agree, Submission is black and white generally speaking no getting around it. Verses are clear. But every husband is different and their needs vary. From clothing, sex, work, kids, etc every husband is different and his preferences and needs should determine what submission looks like. The bible is clear wives submit yourself unto your husband in everything as unto the Lord. Meaning in everything but sin. Huge issue I see is some wives say I have a conviction to not do something my husband asked or when they start saying something is a sin when it isn't. Our feelings, emotions, and conscious need to be filtered by the word of God, unless its in the word throw it out.
Kevin B Well said! Already planning to do a follow-up video along the lines of your final point, as I got so much social media feedback with, “But what if he makes bad decisions...” lol
Sweet its an important topic. Read a blog the other day that kinda goes along with this. herrisingfaith.com/how-to-be-a-submissive-wife-when-you-feel-wronged/
The Revolting Woman Haha, yes😂 I always get excited about another Moriah video! 🤩 That being said... you have even more younglings than I, and these days are short. Nothing but understanding here. 😊
Interesting. Years of looking for a wife, including within the church of my choice, led me to conclude that a good relationship was no longer possible. If there are women who think like this in Australia, I did not meet them. After a couple of decades of loneliness and heartbreak, I heeded the words of Paul and went my own way. MGTOW monk.
@@tracy449 you're both wrong. but i'd guess 95% if not higher of women in north america are not marryable. BUT on top of that i would say 80-90% of men are not marryable for women. so who says you're even out of that?
Cully Schmetterling My heart breaks for you and for the countless men with similar stories. I think women who truly embrace biblical roles are extremely rare in the West, and tend to be found only in the most conservative Christian circles.
No, you just have to prepare yourself to conquer, there are always charming girls ready to accept your leadership and care. Open up the KJV New Testament, Paul and his cohorts have the guidance and the answers, look until you find. The diligent care of your physical health is also necessary, they are many and common sources of assault upon it.
RootsandTendrils Conquer? That is a strange choice of word, when discussing intimate relationships. Women who are traditional and ‘good’ are so rare that, for practical purposes, they do not exist.
Very brave, honest and godly presentation as usual, Christy. Very clear and insightful explanation of the unambiguous nature of the Greek words used on this issue in Scripture. I agree that every marriage of a man and a woman is a representation of Christ and the Church, and therefore it is extremely important as you say. I have observed in the past that feminism reveals its true nature of rebellion against the Son of Man by defining a wife's place as equal to and (in practice) above the husband. However, I would not say that the point of marriage is not to make husband and wife happy but only to represent the marriage of Christ and the Church. The point of marriage is rather to do both of these things. And only by a marriage conforming perfectly to the law of God and the words of Scripture can marriage be the happiest for both husband and wife. Okay, I wrote the foregoing words before I watched the last minute. :) It was another very good explanation that agrees with what I said. But, I still agree with what I wrote. I have found it is always best to magnify the law and make it honorable as much as possible, just as you did very well in the last minute. The law is at the heart of the Gospel as we know.
__ I wish more women understood that this is the effect submission has on men. It doesn’t make them into monsters; it is the most compelling thing and men tend to respond with cherishing love. That being said, I am human like anyone else and full of faults. 😊
It takes faith to for a wife to submit to a husband AND for a husband to submit to God. Without faith, it is impossible to please God. It was very important for Adam to realize the God made Eve for him. God knew that he needed her. When a husband realizes that, there is a natural response of cherishing that which you did not earn nor deserve. Should it surprise us that deep in a woman’s nature is a desire to be cherished? Thank you so much for your videos. I love hearing women speak truth. Idea for next video: what makes a women feel cherished?
mafp22w Thank you! You’re very kind. And amen! God knew what He was doing. :) I’ll think about the video topic you mentioned. Really only want to make videos aimed at women here. But will take into consideration.
"Submission: to arrange oneself under." That is perfect. Someone has to have the final say and it's just the natural thing that it's man>woman. Maybe sometimes that can be reversed, but that is not the pattern for most people and I wouldn't recommend it unless it was totally clear she was more domineering than him. Whatever works but in most cases it is most definitely man>woman and women need to submit to men to master humility. It's how she overcomes her ego and become more loving. Man has too much testosterone to surrender to a woman.
Timmy Koukoumis You’re very kind, thank you. 😊 I am equally blessed by my dear husband. Understanding comes from God, so the credit for it all goes to Him!
@@MakeWomahoodBiblicalAgain Married life evidently agrees with you, and God is blessing you for your faithfulness. You do look very happy and glowing with maternal and wifely fulfillment. God bless you, Christy.
Aaron Benton Thank you! I guess that depends on your definition of “deserve,” haha. If we mean *earning* the right- plenty of husbands don’t deserve it. If we mean intrinsically *having* the right- husbands are given that right by God. Why do you ask?
Aaron Benton Yes, my parents modeled biblical marriage roles and I was always especially close with my father, who taught me a great deal of what I know on this topic. :)
Make Womanhood Biblical Again well your dad is knowledgeable in this regard. Many Christians try to suppress this information. Did you know that ring, wedding and the exchange of “I do’s” doesn’t consummate marriage?
Chillen 225 Oh... no, not at all! When I stated in the video that marriage is not about us and our happiness, I wasn’t saying I’m not happy. Was just anticipating the many women who may be watching and thinking that they don’t like biblical submission/it doesn’t make *them* happy. 🙂
@@MakeWomahoodBiblicalAgain Good, good you inspire a paternal instinct in me is all, men cop it from all aspects of media saying we're either rapist or bumbling idiots and then a beautiful intelligent woman comes along who genuinely likes men and our protective instinct goes off.
I'd love to hear your thoughts on how exactly does submission work in relationships? How do you see the roles playing out, for both the man and the woman? The way I see it is a man has to prove himself worthy of submission. Meaning, can he be trusted to make good decisions, in the best interests of his family? Will he be there for the family to be relied upon as a provider, protector, and bringer of wisdom and guidance? It's sort of like having a vote of confidence from the woman, that the man will always intend to do what's best for the family. Not every decision may ultimately play out that way, but that the intention is always there to do what's best. I think if the woman doesn't trust the man to do those things, there can be no submission, or a functional relationship altogether. As for the woman... besides trust, a man just needs to see support from the woman. Can the woman pull her weight in what is expected of her, also in the best interests of the family. if we look at almost anywhere in nature, there is always someone who assumes a leadership role (typically a male) over others. Humans are no different in that regard. This is where the problem with feminism comes in, with the rebellious attitude towards leadership... which can only lead to dysfunction. A relationship can not be built upon the idea that the man must be challenged, tested, or undermined on every decision. At the end of the day decisions must be made, and two people fighting over every final decision is just a mess. Finally, I'd also like to hear what are your thoughts on positive and negative masculine traits? What should women look for in men, to pick out a good husband?
A husband is not required to meet any man-made test or earn anyone's trust. A husband is only required to meet his obligations under the law: to provide a home for his wife and household; to provide necessary food and water for his wife and household; to provide clothing for his wife and household; to provide conjugal relations to his wife. Other than this the man is only obligated to rule his household well. He does not have to pass a man-made test before he gets to exercise his natural authority as a husband. If a woman doesn't trust a man to make good decisions, in the best interests of his family, or to be there for the family to be relied upon as a provider, protector, and bringer of wisdom and guidance, then she should not have married him. A woman's feelings and/or lack of trust in her husband do not override God's law or give her the right to rebel against God.
@@jamiethomson7780 Well that was my point... the woman should decide on whether she trusts the man beforehand. If he's not deemed a suitable leader worthy of submission, then none should take place. See, this is the problem with modern, non religious women... they make a decision on what feels right at the moment, like slaves to their emotions. They can then easily change their mind the next day, if the decision no longer "feels" right, and consequences be damned. I'm non religious myself, and live in a big, mostly non religious city... so trying to find a wife in an environment like this, where the woman is emotionally labile, and lives in a system where she suffers minimum to no consequences for bad decisions (thanks feminism) is just not an option. This is exactly why I've started to look into religion more, and I'm inspired by Christy's messages. If I am to get a family, then becoming more religious seems to be my only option. Because religious women seem to be the only ones that will feel any obligation to cooperate with me, and reciprocate with feelings of duty to me and the family.
@@eddie4595 Very well said. It seems that we agree after all. Reading your first comment it sounded like you believed something different than Christy's biblical teaching. God bless you. I hope you do find a wife who is non-feminist and follows God's law.
@@jamiethomson7780 Thanks for the kind wishes. Where would you recommend me looking into next? I'm someone who hasn't grown up in religious environment. I've started by reading the bible, and I'm curious if I should look into any specific denomination? I'm not familiar with any.
@@eddie4595 If you are eager to find a conservative woman, then my understanding is that in America the denominations where feminism still has comparatively little influence and there are a large number of conservative women are the Amish, various conservative evangelical denominations, and the Church of Jesus Christ and Latter Day Saints. I don't belong to any of these and I am in Australia. I am not sure how many Catholic or Orthodox women are conservative and reject feminism. But then I don't have a wife either. :) You could try Seventh-day Adventist which is the denomination in which I was raised, but that denomination in the West has mostly become infected with feminist lies and rebelliousness. I would most recommend you join my religious community when I am able to begin it. :)
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@@ObscurityIsBest I got you the when you first recanted my emotional bleaking Sir. I was just being selfish because I thought if Mrs Christian maybe wanted to aid someone else in the comment section, That I'd loose my chance to frontally ask her answers to my life's gentricide. I'm sorry, And if I can get open to any compliment, I should appreciate it from someone whom wrap' it with the design such as you have. I thank you, and I must admit the poets' ink does prose a careening tour it's own.
Jacinta Gundrum Yes, exactly! :) That’s one of the (several) clear indicators that there is a kind of submission wives are to give to their husbands that they are not to give to others. To submit means, in a general sense, to “defer.” We are to defer to our brothers and sisters in Christ, not pushing for our own way, but “looking out for the interest of others.” We are also each to “esteem each one as better than himself.” Selflessness. If husbands and wives were to only submit to one another as to everyone else, however, why would a general command to all to submit to one another be followed specifically by a command for wives to submit to husbands? Why specifically them? And not husbands to wives, btw? Notice how it’s also reiterated in this passage, and followed up with, “wives ought to submit to their own husbands *in everything*.” What’s most helpful here is to notice all the other places in scripture this is heavily emphasized, too. For example, in Titus 2 women are commanded to “be subject” to their husbands. 1 Peter 3 uses “be subject” as well. That passage, in context, is all about submitting to various authorities- employers, government, etc. It lists husband as one of those authorities. In multiple places wives are also commanded to “reverence” their husband- a command not given for any believer to others, and not given to husbands toward wives. A command to show a respect that is greater than even the word “respect.” All of this together paints a crystal clear picture: we ought to all be cooperative and behave in deference toward one another in the body of Christ- but on top of that, we are all to be subject to the authorities God has placed over us... from husbands to elders to government. I hope this helps! Let me know if I missed the question. 😉
Sounds like the stepford wives? ( If you have to be submissive to your husband and all things, does that mean you need to be sexually submissive to him too?) And your husband determines whether you can wear makeup or not or what you wear Sounds a little bit tyrannical to me? A lot of this was written back when women were pretty much property of their husbands. I mean how do you tell a wife that makes three times more than her husband she is to submit to him and she's the boss at work? Or you have a husband that has no ambition comes home from work plays video games for 3 hours or 4 hours a night , while you make supper feed the kids , clean up the kitchen and than he expects you be sexually really for him after you taken care of the kid's and the than he's ready to finally pried himself off the couch? Yeah, marriages is not about being happy You're right. Or just fake it tell you make it?
Karissa Wilson Absolutely! I’ll answer to the best of my ability. :) If you’d rather message me privately, I have an account by this same name (Make Womanhood Biblical Again) on Instagram. 😊
Very well said. If we look around at the most successful marriages they are almost all in the correct order. God over Christ, Christ over man, man over women, women over children. This is the order that works and everyone understands their role.
@YellowBlackbird12 no I don't think that Jesus and God are the same being. The bible says; no one comes to the father expect through the son.
Well that's is two different beings.
I’m still working on being a good girlfriend and complaining less to my bf whose so kind and gracious to me especially when I don’t deserve it. He thinks it’s weird when I ask what he wants for our future now because he’s used to hearing my opinions but I’m trying to make the relationship work so our future kids have the best, supportive parents.
Camille R Good for you!! Keep on keepin’ on! Beginning that dynamic before marriage will set you up better for a solid relationship. 👏🏻
To me, It Is a kind of Yin/Yang....Yes the Woman "Submits", BUT....The Man has to "Protect"....It is a "cooperation" between the two prospective mates built up over time....I think that Is the best chance for successful marriages....Anyway I always watch your videos, And I am a long time subscriber, May God Bless you and your family!!!!
Wow, excellent video, you are absolutely and totally correct on every point here. There are very, very few things in the Bible that are as completely black and white as this, there is no ambiguity whatsoever in woman's role and her relationship to her husband, none.
I really dislike it when people say that "majoring in minors" line when talking about this subject. This is majoring in majors, thus is foundational to woman's very existence and her entire pace in this world and how she serves God in this life. A woman simply cannot be a Christian and live the Christian life while rebelling against God and her very nature and reason for being created. This is an extreme absurdity.
Keep up the good work and stand strong, I love your videos and it is so encouraging to see that a remnant of faithful Christian women still exist in this age of darkness and apostasy.
I had an argument with my cousin-in-law, who's a feminist, about the issue of submission. She's a domineering woman and constantly emasculates my cousin, her husband. When I bring up Ephesians 5 about how wives are to submit to their husbands, she will cling to verse 21, "Submit to one another out of reverence to Christ." She seems to think that verse completely nullifies every verse that comes after that. But even then, she doesn't submit to her husband at all! She just undermines him ever chance she gets and makes fun of him in front of others. This serves as a reminder to me how much hell it can be to marry a feminist. Therefore, I would much rather be single than to marry such a woman.
Keep these amazing videos coming, Christy. We need more women like you speaking out :)
Supreme Crusader Oh, brother... the “mutual submission” argument. 🙄 I am so DONE with it. 😆 It’s on my list of video topics!
Thanks so much for the encouragement!
Lol. Verse 21 is not dealing with marriage it’s about how to deal with other believers within the body of Christ. Verses 22 on down is specifically dealing with marriage.
How to destroy the mutual submission argument is this. Marriage is compared to Christ relationship with the church. Nowhere in the Bible is Christ commanded to submit to the church. The husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, so having said that then the husband is not commanded to submit to his wife.
The exhortation to mutual submission does not mean that every single individual is to submit to every other individual. If this were the case then parents must submit to their children, and elders must submit to deacons and all others, and the older women would have to submit to the younger women they are instructing in the ways of godly womanhood!
The only logical explanation of mutual submission is that it is a general call for everyone to submit to those in authority over them at that stage in their lives. Everyone who grows to adulthood in the church will have the opportunity at some point to have individuals who are called to submit to him or her.
Nice final point about the marriage being a picture of Christ and His bride.
Agree, Submission is black and white generally speaking no getting around it. Verses are clear. But every husband is different and their needs vary. From clothing, sex, work, kids, etc every husband is different and his preferences and needs should determine what submission looks like. The bible is clear wives submit yourself unto your husband in everything as unto the Lord. Meaning in everything but sin. Huge issue I see is some wives say I have a conviction to not do something my husband asked or when they start saying something is a sin when it isn't. Our feelings, emotions, and conscious need to be filtered by the word of God, unless its in the word throw it out.
Kevin B Well said! Already planning to do a follow-up video along the lines of your final point, as I got so much social media feedback with, “But what if he makes bad decisions...” lol
Sweet its an important topic. Read a blog the other day that kinda goes along with this. herrisingfaith.com/how-to-be-a-submissive-wife-when-you-feel-wronged/
Oh, those pesky words and their definitions!
I hear those kiddos in the background. You inspire me to make videos instead of excuses. 😆
The Revolting Woman Haha, yes😂
I always get excited about another Moriah video! 🤩 That being said... you have even more younglings than I, and these days are short. Nothing but understanding here. 😊
Interesting.
Years of looking for a wife, including within the church of my choice, led me to conclude that a good relationship was no longer possible.
If there are women who think like this in Australia, I did not meet them.
After a couple of decades of loneliness and heartbreak, I heeded the words of Paul and went my own way.
MGTOW monk.
Same conclusion here. Women in America are not marryable anymore.
@@tracy449 you're both wrong.
but i'd guess 95% if not higher of women in north america are not marryable.
BUT on top of that i would say 80-90% of men are not marryable for women. so who says you're even out of that?
Cully Schmetterling My heart breaks for you and for the countless men with similar stories.
I think women who truly embrace biblical roles are extremely rare in the West, and tend to be found only in the most conservative Christian circles.
No, you just have to prepare yourself to conquer, there are always charming girls ready to accept your leadership and care. Open up the KJV New Testament, Paul and his cohorts have the guidance and the answers, look until you find. The diligent care of your physical health is also necessary, they are many and common sources of assault upon it.
RootsandTendrils
Conquer?
That is a strange choice of word, when discussing intimate relationships.
Women who are traditional and ‘good’ are so rare that, for practical purposes, they do not exist.
Very brave, honest and godly presentation as usual, Christy. Very clear and insightful explanation of the unambiguous nature of the Greek words used on this issue in Scripture.
I agree that every marriage of a man and a woman is a representation of Christ and the Church, and therefore it is extremely important as you say. I have observed in the past that feminism reveals its true nature of rebellion against the Son of Man by defining a wife's place as equal to and (in practice) above the husband.
However, I would not say that the point of marriage is not to make husband and wife happy but only to represent the marriage of Christ and the Church. The point of marriage is rather to do both of these things. And only by a marriage conforming perfectly to the law of God and the words of Scripture can marriage be the happiest for both husband and wife.
Okay, I wrote the foregoing words before I watched the last minute. :) It was another very good explanation that agrees with what I said. But, I still agree with what I wrote. I have found it is always best to magnify the law and make it honorable as much as possible, just as you did very well in the last minute. The law is at the heart of the Gospel as we know.
Wow, I would spend everything for a woman like Christy, even my own life. What a gem! ❤️💎✨
__ I wish more women understood that this is the effect submission has on men. It doesn’t make them into monsters; it is the most compelling thing and men tend to respond with cherishing love.
That being said, I am human like anyone else and full of faults. 😊
@@MakeWomahoodBiblicalAgain ❤️✝️🌞
It takes faith to for a wife to submit to a husband AND for a husband to submit to God. Without faith, it is impossible to please God. It was very important for Adam to realize the God made Eve for him. God knew that he needed her. When a husband realizes that, there is a natural response of cherishing that which you did not earn nor deserve. Should it surprise us that deep in a woman’s nature is a desire to be cherished? Thank you so much for your videos. I love hearing women speak truth. Idea for next video: what makes a women feel cherished?
mafp22w Thank you! You’re very kind. And amen! God knew what He was doing. :)
I’ll think about the video topic you mentioned. Really only want to make videos aimed at women here. But will take into consideration.
God Bless you all.
David Parker Thank you! And may He bless you as well. 🙏🏻
"Submission: to arrange oneself under." That is perfect. Someone has to have the final say and it's just the natural thing that it's man>woman. Maybe sometimes that can be reversed, but that is not the pattern for most people and I wouldn't recommend it unless it was totally clear she was more domineering than him. Whatever works but in most cases it is most definitely man>woman and women need to submit to men to master humility. It's how she overcomes her ego and become more loving. Man has too much testosterone to surrender to a woman.
You're beautiful. The Gods have blessed you. Thank you for the message. Your Husband is lucky.
Timmy Koukoumis You’re very kind, thank you. 😊 I am equally blessed by my dear husband. Understanding comes from God, so the credit for it all goes to Him!
@@MakeWomahoodBiblicalAgain Married life evidently agrees with you, and God is blessing you for your faithfulness. You do look very happy and glowing with maternal and wifely fulfillment. God bless you, Christy.
Great video. I have a couple questions. The first one is this: Does the husband deserve the final say?
Aaron Benton Thank you!
I guess that depends on your definition of “deserve,” haha.
If we mean *earning* the right- plenty of husbands don’t deserve it.
If we mean intrinsically *having* the right- husbands are given that right by God.
Why do you ask?
Make Womanhood Biblical Again wow! God surely did give you wisdom, in this area for sure. Did you always believe this way?
Aaron Benton Yes, my parents modeled biblical marriage roles and I was always especially close with my father, who taught me a great deal of what I know on this topic. :)
Make Womanhood Biblical Again well your dad is knowledgeable in this regard. Many Christians try to suppress this information.
Did you know that ring, wedding and the exchange of “I do’s” doesn’t consummate marriage?
@@AaronmBenton1: I'm almost certain she does know that.
Christy are YOU ok and happy?
@Roy B you beat me to it.
HAPPY IS WORTHLESS
are you productive? do you have purpouse!?
Chillen 225 I am! 😃 Why do you ask? 🤔
@@MakeWomahoodBiblicalAgain It just seemed like you might be questioning your own decisions or something like that. But as long as you're happy xx
Chillen 225 Oh... no, not at all! When I stated in the video that marriage is not about us and our happiness, I wasn’t saying I’m not happy. Was just anticipating the many women who may be watching and thinking that they don’t like biblical submission/it doesn’t make *them* happy. 🙂
@@MakeWomahoodBiblicalAgain Good, good you inspire a paternal instinct in me is all, men cop it from all aspects of media saying we're either rapist or bumbling idiots and then a beautiful intelligent woman comes along who genuinely likes men and our protective instinct goes off.
I'd love to hear your thoughts on how exactly does submission work in relationships? How do you see the roles playing out, for both the man and the woman?
The way I see it is a man has to prove himself worthy of submission. Meaning, can he be trusted to make good decisions, in the best interests of his family? Will he be there for the family to be relied upon as a provider, protector, and bringer of wisdom and guidance? It's sort of like having a vote of confidence from the woman, that the man will always intend to do what's best for the family. Not every decision may ultimately play out that way, but that the intention is always there to do what's best. I think if the woman doesn't trust the man to do those things, there can be no submission, or a functional relationship altogether.
As for the woman... besides trust, a man just needs to see support from the woman. Can the woman pull her weight in what is expected of her, also in the best interests of the family.
if we look at almost anywhere in nature, there is always someone who assumes a leadership role (typically a male) over others. Humans are no different in that regard. This is where the problem with feminism comes in, with the rebellious attitude towards leadership... which can only lead to dysfunction. A relationship can not be built upon the idea that the man must be challenged, tested, or undermined on every decision. At the end of the day decisions must be made, and two people fighting over every final decision is just a mess.
Finally, I'd also like to hear what are your thoughts on positive and negative masculine traits? What should women look for in men, to pick out a good husband?
A husband is not required to meet any man-made test or earn anyone's trust. A husband is only required to meet his obligations under the law: to provide a home for his wife and household; to provide necessary food and water for his wife and household; to provide clothing for his wife and household; to provide conjugal relations to his wife. Other than this the man is only obligated to rule his household well. He does not have to pass a man-made test before he gets to exercise his natural authority as a husband.
If a woman doesn't trust a man to make good decisions, in the best interests of his family, or to be there for the family to be relied upon as a provider, protector, and bringer of wisdom and guidance, then she should not have married him. A woman's feelings and/or lack of trust in her husband do not override God's law or give her the right to rebel against God.
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Well that was my point... the woman should decide on whether she trusts the man beforehand. If he's not deemed a suitable leader worthy of submission, then none should take place.
See, this is the problem with modern, non religious women... they make a decision on what feels right at the moment, like slaves to their emotions. They can then easily change their mind the next day, if the decision no longer "feels" right, and consequences be damned. I'm non religious myself, and live in a big, mostly non religious city... so trying to find a wife in an environment like this, where the woman is emotionally labile, and lives in a system where she suffers minimum to no consequences for bad decisions (thanks feminism) is just not an option.
This is exactly why I've started to look into religion more, and I'm inspired by Christy's messages. If I am to get a family, then becoming more religious seems to be my only option. Because religious women seem to be the only ones that will feel any obligation to cooperate with me, and reciprocate with feelings of duty to me and the family.
@@eddie4595 Very well said. It seems that we agree after all. Reading your first comment it sounded like you believed something different than Christy's biblical teaching. God bless you. I hope you do find a wife who is non-feminist and follows God's law.
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Thanks for the kind wishes.
Where would you recommend me looking into next? I'm someone who hasn't grown up in religious environment. I've started by reading the bible, and I'm curious if I should look into any specific denomination? I'm not familiar with any.
@@eddie4595 If you are eager to find a conservative woman, then my understanding is that in America the denominations where feminism still has comparatively little influence and there are a large number of conservative women are the Amish, various conservative evangelical denominations, and the Church of Jesus Christ and Latter Day Saints. I don't belong to any of these and I am in Australia. I am not sure how many Catholic or Orthodox women are conservative and reject feminism. But then I don't have a wife either. :) You could try Seventh-day Adventist which is the denomination in which I was raised, but that denomination in the West has mostly become infected with feminist lies and rebelliousness.
I would most recommend you join my religious community when I am able to begin it. :)
Thanks Mrs Christian.
I was first contempt to ask a pardon of myself,
Because I don't ever want to bother the God of my understanding, Buddah Nature.
Nor ever brightening heave, or tether the God Christ, whom which my parents worship.
Until you said towards the emblem of your lecture,
In which these devotional carriage of The union of man and woman through the 'acts placid, that are Marriage;
Definitely for the sake of the Lord.
So in Truth My Greatgranddaughter's Mother and I, until I can afford counseling.
Will never know the relief from
The trament of secular, or at political divers of seating of social refectory.
As it stands to reason_ affection with the capacity of the most trended religious imbibe.
Joel Widgins: Get off the internet. You're drunk.
@@ObscurityIsBest what kind of mean things are that to say to someone~_Clearly, sir""
@@joelwidgins6329 he means your english is so bad its almost not legible..
its rough! i agree but i got your intent.
@@ObscurityIsBest I got you the when you first recanted my emotional bleaking Sir.
I was just being selfish because I thought if Mrs Christian maybe wanted to aid someone else in the comment section,
That I'd loose my chance to frontally ask her answers to my life's gentricide.
I'm sorry,
And if I can get open to any compliment,
I should appreciate it from someone whom wrap' it with the design such as you have.
I thank you, and I must admit the poets' ink does prose a careening tour it's own.
@@thenarrator1984 thanks for the props brother✍️💡🎸🤟🤟
Ok, but Paul writes “submit yourselves to EACH OTHER” right before he tells wives to submit to their husbands. How would you explain that?
Jacinta Gundrum Yes, exactly! :) That’s one of the (several) clear indicators that there is a kind of submission wives are to give to their husbands that they are not to give to others.
To submit means, in a general sense, to “defer.” We are to defer to our brothers and sisters in Christ, not pushing for our own way, but “looking out for the interest of others.” We are also each to “esteem each one as better than himself.” Selflessness.
If husbands and wives were to only submit to one another as to everyone else, however, why would a general command to all to submit to one another be followed specifically by a command for wives to submit to husbands? Why specifically them? And not husbands to wives, btw? Notice how it’s also reiterated in this passage, and followed up with, “wives ought to submit to their own husbands *in everything*.”
What’s most helpful here is to notice all the other places in scripture this is heavily emphasized, too. For example, in Titus 2 women are commanded to “be subject” to their husbands. 1 Peter 3 uses “be subject” as well. That passage, in context, is all about submitting to various authorities- employers, government, etc. It lists husband as one of those authorities. In multiple places wives are also commanded to “reverence” their husband- a command not given for any believer to others, and not given to husbands toward wives. A command to show a respect that is greater than even the word “respect.”
All of this together paints a crystal clear picture: we ought to all be cooperative and behave in deference toward one another in the body of Christ- but on top of that, we are all to be subject to the authorities God has placed over us... from husbands to elders to government.
I hope this helps! Let me know if I missed the question. 😉
You make me wonder why there are no marriages in heaven.
Sounds like the stepford wives? ( If you have to be submissive to your husband and all things, does that mean you need to be sexually submissive to him too?)
And your husband determines whether you can wear makeup or not or what you wear Sounds a little bit tyrannical to me?
A lot of this was written back when women were pretty much property of their husbands.
I mean how do you tell a wife that makes three times more than her husband she is to submit to him and she's the boss at work?
Or you have a husband that has no ambition comes home from work plays video games for 3 hours or 4 hours a night , while you make supper feed the kids , clean up the kitchen and than he expects you be sexually really for him after you taken care of the kid's and the than he's ready to finally pried himself off the couch?
Yeah, marriages is not about being happy You're right.
Or just fake it tell you make it?
If the goal of marriage is not happiness why even get married?
Would you allow me to ask you some Christian girl kind of advice?
Karissa Wilson Absolutely! I’ll answer to the best of my ability. :) If you’d rather message me privately, I have an account by this same name (Make Womanhood Biblical Again) on Instagram. 😊
@@MakeWomahoodBiblicalAgain Thank you. I just messaged your Insta